What is it with people judging older parents older mothers? You judge 16-25 year olds for being too young and yet when a woman has a baby late in life its a negative thing. You never know why a woman might be older. Im 35 and have a 2 year old and a 1 1/2 month old. I didnt find my husband till later in life.
Yeah, my mother was in her mid to late 30s at the time she gave birth to me and my sister. My parents didn’t know each other until they were in their late 20s to early 30s.
I agree. Many times in these videos, the "mean character" becomes "nice" after the bullied character tells them their story OR once it is revealed how they are the boss/have a successful lifestyle. Like bruh... be nice to people just because. Not because of their story or their occupation, etc....
My mother had me at 44. She had more checkups because she was an older mom and lost 2 babies before me. I was born healthy, with no problems. I don't get why people dislike older moms. They care the same amount any other mom would.
Fun fact: My mom's name is Melissa She had my big sister in 2001 at the age of 33. Then a year later in 2002, she had me and my twin brother at 34. To me, 33 and 34 are still quite young ages and not old. My mom is the best mom ever!!!!! 💙💙 Another fun fact: my aunt's name is Rachel, what a crazy coincidence!!!! (6:12 - 6:43 - 7:05 - 7:09 - 7:15 - 7:20 - 7:26 - 7:29 - 7:31 - 7:35 - 7:41 - 7:47 - 7:49 - 7:51 - 7:54 - 8:00 - 8:03 - 8:06 - 8:08 - 8:10 - 8:19 - 8:23 - 8:43 - 8:57 - 9:02 - 9:07)
What Rachel did for her daughter is pa beautiful thing. Volunteering to be a surrogate mom for her daughter. It's sad that her daughter died in a car accident. Age shouldn't matter as long as you're a good mom and it's legal. Plus Rachel seems like she has good maternal instincts and is treating Katie just fine.
3:19 djees Louise, yes we mothers of 47 years old make excellent mothers, even if your child is 8. At least we have outgrown our teenage years, unlike you.
Bella would learned a lesson after hearing Rachel’s story about her daughter Melissa getting killed in a car accident and took care of her granddaughter Katie.
It never fails to amaze me, how people think it's their business to know somebody elses business.I know it's just a story but there are people out there just like this....That older woman was a better woman/mother than any of those judgmental witches will ever be.
You have kids young and you're irresponsible. You have kids old and you're irresponsible. Note to self: you can't please people so do what makes YOU happy.
My mom had my youngest brother when she was in her early 40s without any problems but she still looked younger than ever throughout the years. Some people think that my youngest brother is my son but I'm 17 years older than him and it was the best 17th birthday present I ever had. We’re 2 peas in a pod until infinity no matter what.
Classic Dhar Mann, two parents get into a car accident, both die, kid is left without their mom and dad, and has to get new ones, come up with something else if the parents are gonna die Dhar Mann, so predictable
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The “Age is just a number” is only true for adults ages 25 or older. For kids, teens, and young adults ages 18-24 that persons age is important for people to know.
Seems to me that the only supposed fault of the young mother was not listening to the story? And judging and throwing out an older mother who had conceived naturally would have been alright?
I can't believe these moms have the brains and attitudes of middle schoolers. I can't believe there's such a thing as "mom trends". Also, zumba is still quite popular among the young people and all age groups in my area.
I love this story, it speaks to me because I had my first two kids when I was 21 and 23, then my husband passed away and I had two more kids with my new partner when I was 34 and 36. My second set had friends who had parents almost 10 years younger than I am, although I was never made to feel like this mother did. The only issue I have with this video is that even if she decided to have kids at an older age, it's NONE of that woman's business, regardless of choices. It would not have been selfish of her in any way. Just because she "had a good excuse" does not make her decision better than mine, which was that I wanted to have kids with my second husband. I love kids and it's no one else's business that I chose to have them when I was in my 30s. Other than that, great video. Bad enough kids can be bullies. Worse is when adults are bullies!
Why wouldn't she be the grandmother that is a big honor too, with memories of her parents while the child grew up, and explain when her daughter got older what happened.
I had my son, my only child at 44, but have never faced ridicule. It's shameful to do so, as women have children at varying ages. Mem can procreate until they die, so don't discriminate.
Dhar Mann spends every day teaching us that we can be terrible judgmental people who treat others like absolute garbage as long as we say we’re sorry after we hear their story. Sorry!
That young mother was very disrespectful, immature and rude. She needed to get cursed out. Her own daughter had to tell her about herself and it shows that when a child has to tell their parents about their attitude it's serious.
Some grandchildren choose to call their grandparents Mom and Dad because they are the ones who are raising them as their parents (and probably are legally by adoption). Rachel was probably in her 50's when she surrogates for her daughter and son-in-law, which is every doable as long as she's healthy enough. Risky true, but still very doable. Rachel probably legally adopted Katie so things, both legally and personally, would be easier for her, as opposed to just being her legal guardian grandmother. Rachel is officially and legally, Katie's mother, biologically grandmother, and the one who voluntarily carried and birth her because her biological mother couldn't. That is a love actually beyond what even most mothers and daughters who are very close even have.
I'm 25 y.o and my mom is 65 y.o (yes I know, mostly 25 y.o people have 40s y.o moms) but it's normal and it's not a shame or weird... therefore, STOP JUDGING
I feel angry, depressed, and anxious when I am seeing that an older mother and daughter living in poverty is being marginalized by a rich young mother and daughter with a lot of girl friends, that are parental cliques. To be fair, my mom is long-term disabled from a hemorrhagic stroke. I have autism, I/DD, depression, and anxiety. What I truly hate the most and am with my maximum heart, so disgusted by, in my experience, is when young rich neurotypical nurturing parents treat older poor disability tiger parents and special needs children like bullshit. That’s the number one thing that I am totally against as a poor Asian American autistic person living with a zero income single tiger mother, no siblings in the house. This story really got my attention. We need more stories like this, “not” to teach others to become mean and crappy, but to educate others to be equal, diverse, inclusive, and accommodate others. I also even advocate for autism acceptance, mental health empathy, and LGBTQIA empathy. This is just so controversial that people only care about money and big dudes and girls rather than people’s voices and healthy relationships. I, as a person, place people’s voice and mental health first, and give zero fucks about money and power. 💚
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There is no reason an older woman can’t be a mom as long as she is responsible. Some people are just plain rude.
Yes!
I couldn’t agree more
Right? Age doesn't automatically mean irresponsible
@@LucyAdroit fr tho
them dying
The way her "old" mom doesn't even
Look old
If your mom loves you shes a good mom her age doesn't matter
@@Slimynewsyes they are?
@@SlimynewsMost people have kids around age 25-30 so with a kid that old most parents are in their 40s
@@Slimynewsmy mom gave birth to me when she was 38.
Just saying
@@Slimynews my ma is over 40
What is it with people judging older parents older mothers? You judge 16-25 year olds for being too young and yet when a woman has a baby late in life its a negative thing. You never know why a woman might be older. Im 35 and have a 2 year old and a 1 1/2 month old. I didnt find my husband till later in life.
Yeah, my mother was in her mid to late 30s at the time she gave birth to me and my sister. My parents didn’t know each other until they were in their late 20s to early 30s.
I had my youngest daughter when I was 36 years old
The mom doesn’t need a story like that. All moms are great!
I know right. So annoying
@@psnb1069Mine was exactly 30 when she gave birth to me. Then she gave birth to my brother 7 years later
Helping ur daughter bcs she cant get pregnant is the most amaxing thing a mother could do for her ❤✨
❤yeah!❤
Very remarkable.
He got the mom and Daughter Dang
And also disgusting
@@DreambigTUAplays💀
Even if someone doesn’t have a sad background doesn’t give u the right to be horrible.
I agree. Many times in these videos, the "mean character" becomes "nice" after the bullied character tells them their story OR once it is revealed how they are the boss/have a successful lifestyle. Like bruh... be nice to people just because. Not because of their story or their occupation, etc....
You are exactly correct
The chick in the red shirt is playing a mean character for once.
Ikr!!
Not her first time
@@Sosadawwg__0ye it is
I think Jennifer Cheung did the same thing.
If Alexa Cate was in this and she was the good one, then the roles would be reversed.
So funny how the bully is mean and horrible at first but after "so you see" tears just automatically start dripping from their faces😅😅.
For real. That’s why I love these Dhar Mann videos
One thing I have never experienced as an older mom: being called irresponsible for getting pregnant.
I agree
Facts.
they should have gotten someone who is like 70 for this lol, she looks 40
@@stuart4341no she look fifti most Wuman in 40 don't have so many wromcless.
Well Dhar Dhar loves to exaggerate
Don't be quick to judge someone. You never know what they're going through.
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Exactly I agree with you on this
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Exactlyy
Hell nah bro you took it way too far💀
Even if you have a child at our old age, it doesn’t matter what matters is that you’re being an amazing parent to the child
Right
3:40 her look when Katie and her mom left
5:16 Love that reaction from Katie’s mom 😂😂
My mum had me at 28 and she does not judge older mothers at all she is the best mother I could ever wish for❤❤😌
My mother had st 37
“And you must be Katie’s grandmother” nah that’s crazy 🤯
My mother had me at 43 and she is the best mum I ever had and I’m very close with her ❤❤
My mom had me older
wdym "i ever had" u only have one mom
My mother had me at 44. She had more checkups because she was an older mom and lost 2 babies before me. I was born healthy, with no problems. I don't get why people dislike older moms. They care the same amount any other mom would.
Same my mum had me at 40 because she had like 9 miscarriages in her life
@@aydin2953 aww
My mother was 45 when she had me, so I really miss her. She’s been gone over the years.
@@aydin29539???!!!
'Dumb old Sarah' 💀💀💀
Why are the rest of the women making fun of someone like 5-year-olds?!
Ikr😂
Aww I love how the last girl held the poor mom 👩🏼 🥹
4:52 SICK BURN 🔥🥺
The fact that the younger mothers act like high school students 💀💀
Fun fact: My mom's name is Melissa
She had my big sister in 2001 at the age of 33. Then a year later in 2002, she had me and my twin brother at 34. To me, 33 and 34 are still quite young ages and not old. My mom is the best mom ever!!!!! 💙💙
Another fun fact: my aunt's name is Rachel, what a crazy coincidence!!!! (6:12 - 6:43 - 7:05 - 7:09 - 7:15 - 7:20 - 7:26 - 7:29 - 7:31 - 7:35 - 7:41 - 7:47 - 7:49 - 7:51 - 7:54 - 8:00 - 8:03 - 8:06 - 8:08 - 8:10 - 8:19 - 8:23 - 8:43 - 8:57 - 9:02 - 9:07)
What Rachel did for her daughter is pa beautiful thing. Volunteering to be a surrogate mom for her daughter. It's sad that her daughter died in a car accident. Age shouldn't matter as long as you're a good mom and it's legal. Plus Rachel seems like she has good maternal instincts and is treating Katie just fine.
3:19 djees Louise, yes we mothers of 47 years old make excellent mothers, even if your child is 8. At least we have outgrown our teenage years, unlike you.
As an OLD mom.. I feel I make a 1000 times better mom than I would have younger😊
the older mum literally looks like shes in her 40s-50s which isnt old😭
I was thinking 45
6:42 AREN'T THE ALARM BELLS RINGING 😭😭😭
Bella would learned a lesson after hearing Rachel’s story about her daughter Melissa getting killed in a car accident and took care of her granddaughter Katie.
Katie technically isn't her granddaughter since Rachel carried her
@@swifties_13ts oh please!
How is an olde lady having a kid irresponsible? Age doesn’t define responsibility!
It never fails to amaze me, how people think it's their business to know somebody elses business.I know it's just a story but there are people out there just like this....That older woman was a better woman/mother than any of those judgmental witches will ever be.
You really can’t win with people. Women get judged for having babies too young and still get judged if they’re too old and having young children
Even if that wasn’t her story it doesn’t matter she wants to have a baby at whatever age she wants.
It wouldn't be a Dhar Mann video without a tragic backstory for the person being bullied.
@@CharlestonChica very true 🙄
"I wasn't trying to be rude"
Pfft. That's what they all say.
I find older parents can be just as good as younger parents because as long as they are responsible their age doesn't matter
5:37 bro the argument becomes so heated even the camera shakes slightly.
At least she’s not the actual mother she’s literally the grandmother
4:02 bro these actors are just.. 💀 wheres the tears at they make the crying sfx just not the tears and that- 😭
I’m an only child and my mum had me at 39 and once someone asked me if my dad was my grandad 😂 but they’re the best parents ever ♥♥♥
You have kids young and you're irresponsible. You have kids old and you're irresponsible. Note to self: you can't please people so do what makes YOU happy.
It doesn't matter which age you are You can be with mother. Any age you are. Doesn't matter if you're old or young I don't see the differences
It dose if your 5 years old
@@Sunnypetals325WHHAAA????!!!!!
My mom had my youngest brother when she was in her early 40s without any problems but she still looked younger than ever throughout the years. Some people think that my youngest brother is my son but I'm 17 years older than him and it was the best 17th birthday present I ever had. We’re 2 peas in a pod until infinity no matter what.
that is really wholesome
Classic Dhar Mann, two parents get into a car accident, both die, kid is left without their mom and dad, and has to get new ones, come up with something else if the parents are gonna die Dhar Mann, so predictable
This is the first time the Asian girl played the bad part.
Whenever I'm bored and there's nothing to do I watch dhar mann bonus or the official channel they both have really good videos! Keep up the great work!
I just watch him every day…..
And it’s not even for the lessons😂😂😂😂😂😂
That’s just mean, it doesn’t matter how old you were when you had a baby or how old you are when you have a kid. ❤️
LMAO NO WAY THEY GOT A MOM SQUAD XD
THEY CANT BE FRIENDS…BUT THEY WILL JUST HAVE TO PRETEND
Remember ladies: Age is just a number and you should never judge their age. Thank you so much Dhar, I really appreciate it. 🙂😀😃😄😁🤩
“Age is just a number” this isn’t really true, but it’s not false either if you get what I mean.
The “Age is just a number” is only true for adults ages 25 or older.
For kids, teens, and young adults ages 18-24 that persons age is important for people to know.
If a mother was a surrogate for her daughter that would make the daughter and the baby sisters 😭
Actually it's the opposite. Younger mothers always get shamed by older mothers.
Seems to me that the only supposed fault of the young mother was not listening to the story? And judging and throwing out an older mother who had conceived naturally would have been alright?
"You really shouldn't judge a person before you get to know them"
Nothing wrong with being the "old mom", because some mothers give birth around 30-40+.
Technically, Rachel is Katie's grandmother since Katie's parents both passed
I can't believe these moms have the brains and attitudes of middle schoolers. I can't believe there's such a thing as "mom trends". Also, zumba is still quite popular among the young people and all age groups in my area.
4:00 that is the fakest cry ive ever seen LOL
Womp womp
Acting
LOL that's soo true 🤣🤣🤣😂😂
I love this story, it speaks to me because I had my first two kids when I was 21 and 23, then my husband passed away and I had two more kids with my new partner when I was 34 and 36. My second set had friends who had parents almost 10 years younger than I am, although I was never made to feel like this mother did. The only issue I have with this video is that even if she decided to have kids at an older age, it's NONE of that woman's business, regardless of choices. It would not have been selfish of her in any way. Just because she "had a good excuse" does not make her decision better than mine, which was that I wanted to have kids with my second husband. I love kids and it's no one else's business that I chose to have them when I was in my 30s. Other than that, great video. Bad enough kids can be bullies. Worse is when adults are bullies!
What’s wrong with a woman who is old and one which is young that is really normal
I’ll do 10 push-ups for every like this comment gets
That’s 50
110 push-ups get to work buddy
You're so CRINGE!
I see these kids everywhere
Why wouldn't she be the grandmother that is a big honor too, with memories of her parents while the child grew up, and explain when her daughter got older what happened.
Because she actually carried and delivered the baby. Babies born by surrogate are later legally adopted by their bio moms.
It's said that a good man deserves at least 70 mermaids. Do you agree?
I had my son, my only child at 44, but have never faced ridicule. It's shameful to do so, as women have children at varying ages. Mem can procreate until they die, so don't discriminate.
I've lived this! I was 38 when my youngest was born. I was always called grandma. People need to stop judging and assuming
She is so disgusting by judging her like that even if she was her daughter that got nothing to do with her
Talk no Jutsu stays winning on Dhar Mann! ✊🏼
This is such an awesome video. A true tear jerker.
Ive never seen this woman in red as the antagonist before, but shes a really good actor!
They all defo had their child at 16 that woman at like 29
my mom was 39 when i was born so anyone can be a mother
Same
Same y’all my mum was a first-time mother at 39!! Tbh older mothers are often the cooler and wiser ones lol.
Never seen a grown woman get so annoyed over not being able to play a game of tag🤣🤣🤣
Moral of the story never judge someone without knowing them first
0:45 DEEZ NUTS
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Will dhar ever make one on muslims? It can be hurtful when people make fun of us and our hijab
Love and respect each other should be every mothers characteristics ❤❤
No one should never judging someone fantastic message love it
Dhar Mann spends every day teaching us that we can be terrible judgmental people who treat others like absolute garbage as long as we say we’re sorry after we hear their story. Sorry!
Only true Dhar Man fans can like this
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@risschira9565 you get a life obviously you don't have one haha u broke u a keyboard gangsta
@risschira9565 do something about it then
@risschira9565 you real mad haha
I’ve struggled with infertility since I was in my early 20s. I’m in my 30s now and still no baby. If it ever happens for me I’ll be an older mum
Ive never seen the woman in red as the antagonist before, but shes very talented!
In a way little kids are way way way smarter than full grown adults
10 likes pls ( omg 18 likes tysm ) if you don’t whant to like don’t
Pls Translate!! 💙
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Nah
like beggars smh get a life also I disliked lol
One of the best stories of dhar man's BS.
Anyhow older mothers are the best mothers.
That young mother was very disrespectful, immature and rude. She needed to get cursed out. Her own daughter had to tell her about herself and it shows that when a child has to tell their parents about their attitude it's serious.
Some grandchildren choose to call their grandparents Mom and Dad because they are the ones who are raising them as their parents (and probably are legally by adoption). Rachel was probably in her 50's when she surrogates for her daughter and son-in-law, which is every doable as long as she's healthy enough. Risky true, but still very doable. Rachel probably legally adopted Katie so things, both legally and personally, would be easier for her, as opposed to just being her legal guardian grandmother. Rachel is officially and legally, Katie's mother, biologically grandmother, and the one who voluntarily carried and birth her because her biological mother couldn't. That is a love actually beyond what even most mothers and daughters who are very close even have.
Why are they always in a car accident
For real
Cozz they are reckless drivers
Yeah❤
Sometimes that the idea for sad stories like this :/
5:18 they way she was like she has every right to be mad
Under 1 hour gang 😎
MEEEEE
When someone starts a sentence with “I don’t wanna be rude”, it usually means they’re about to be rude.
Omg id never judge an older mother like what 😅
“I was thinking about something else” ☠️
My mom had me when she was 35,I am her first kid. Is she old?
P.S. now I am 11.
I'm 25 y.o and my mom is 65 y.o (yes I know, mostly 25 y.o people have 40s y.o moms)
but it's normal and it's not a shame or weird... therefore, STOP JUDGING
I feel angry, depressed, and anxious when I am seeing that an older mother and daughter living in poverty is being marginalized by a rich young mother and daughter with a lot of girl friends, that are parental cliques. To be fair, my mom is long-term disabled from a hemorrhagic stroke. I have autism, I/DD, depression, and anxiety. What I truly hate the most and am with my maximum heart, so disgusted by, in my experience, is when young rich neurotypical nurturing parents treat older poor disability tiger parents and special needs children like bullshit. That’s the number one thing that I am totally against as a poor Asian American autistic person living with a zero income single tiger mother, no siblings in the house. This story really got my attention. We need more stories like this, “not” to teach others to become mean and crappy, but to educate others to be equal, diverse, inclusive, and accommodate others. I also even advocate for autism acceptance, mental health empathy, and LGBTQIA empathy. This is just so controversial that people only care about money and big dudes and girls rather than people’s voices and healthy relationships. I, as a person, place people’s voice and mental health first, and give zero fucks about money and power. 💚
For the first time, is the nice girl the bad guy?!
Technically that is her grandmother what was she waffling about earlier
"Everyone has a different story ,in life so don't be quick to judge"
-Me
She doesn’t look old💀
This reminds me of a dhar mann video just like this but instead it was a grandmother I believe
Love your video dhar mann ❤❤❤❤❤❤