Life As A Married Nigerian Woman 🇳🇬& Mum in Her 30’s| Making Sure To Properly Take Care Of My Home

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  • Опубликовано: 16 ноя 2024

Комментарии • 67

  • @uzopearl3848
    @uzopearl3848 14 дней назад +4

    Lol! She knows she needed the prayers too , I see nothing wrong in a woman praying for her husband , her only crime is that the prayer made it to social media which alot of us will not perceive it right. It is not that serious. We all pray for ourselves and our loved ones.❤

    • @bomsysspot
      @bomsysspot  14 дней назад +2

      There is even no crime in the prayers and I never said something is wrong with the prayers. , please don’t quote me out of context!!.. I went further to say I’m even guilty of always putting everyone else above me but I stop to think when do we women just start praying for ourselves as much as we do for the other people in our lives”.

  • @Mstemitope
    @Mstemitope 12 дней назад +1

    Well said, Bomsy... We all need to pray for ourselves as women. Women do a lot. This is just a reminder and wake-up video for women. Welldone Bomsy

  • @somoyesimileoluwa2283
    @somoyesimileoluwa2283 15 дней назад +2

    You see the lady at the background that said and you too to the bride when she was making that prayers chaiii may almighty God bless her❤❤❤❤

  • @emeliapee
    @emeliapee 11 дней назад

    Well said Sis! As you pray for yourself, keep developing yourself. Your children will thank you for it in the future.

  • @user-sc5tx9oe3n
    @user-sc5tx9oe3n 15 дней назад +2

    Every woman should put herself first because women go through a lot . Thanks, my darling.

  • @chimmaugbor8970
    @chimmaugbor8970 3 дня назад

    Bomsy I hail o! This is a word for the wise! Nothing wrong in praying for your house but don’t lose yourself in your marriage & children. We have more to offer. God will surely continue seeing us through and we will be celebrated! Our efforts will be crowned!

    • @bomsysspot
      @bomsysspot  2 дня назад

      Yes o, it’s a journey we all have to embark on! 💪

  • @adesuwagold7601
    @adesuwagold7601 11 дней назад

    Well said, Bomsy. Women really need prayers more than men. I really enjoyed watching this. God bless you for sharing. ❤❤❤❤

  • @chinwenduejezie8699
    @chinwenduejezie8699 15 дней назад +3

    Why does everything have to be on social media… and yes pray for yourself and your husband to… let the marriage be a blessing to you both oooo

    • @bomsysspot
      @bomsysspot  14 дней назад

      The marriage is surely a blessing to both parties involved

  • @nancyelonga7519
    @nancyelonga7519 6 дней назад

    You have said it loud and clear my dear❤❤❤ you have said it all and everything I say will just be echoing what you just said. 😊 Thanks for this gems sis, you dropped so much wisdom in this video. God bless you, this was definitely Holy Spirit led 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽

    • @bomsysspot
      @bomsysspot  6 дней назад

      I’m so glad you got something out of it! Thank you so much sis

  • @christianaiwuchukwu6444
    @christianaiwuchukwu6444 7 дней назад

    Bomsy you have said it all❤

  • @akarueseoludewa9187
    @akarueseoludewa9187 14 дней назад

    God bless you Boma. People need to hear this.

  • @eluanmark4204
    @eluanmark4204 15 дней назад

    The beauty wearing that fringe wig on the thumbnail just drew my attention 😩. You’re so pretty Bomsy.
    Back to the topic of the day, it’s sad that marriage favors men more, we have to learn to not lose ourselves cause it can happen so easily.

    • @bomsysspot
      @bomsysspot  14 дней назад +1

      I know, but we got this sis! 🙌🏽

  • @NenyeTheBrand
    @NenyeTheBrand 15 дней назад +2

    It is funny that I was literally having this conversation with someone just yesterday marriage favors the men more than the women I mean, we women we have a lot to lose we lose our body. We lose our freedom to actually do things that we like our life literally focuses on the man and, the children. 😊

    • @bomsysspot
      @bomsysspot  14 дней назад +1

      Like it’s truly sad, makes it so easy to loose ourselves, that’s why we are such in a constant battle to stay afloat

  • @rosesmith6654
    @rosesmith6654 13 дней назад

    Preach !

  • @user-sc5tx9oe3n
    @user-sc5tx9oe3n 15 дней назад

    Women need prayers more than men. God bless you for saying the truth .

  • @asmauhalidu1167
    @asmauhalidu1167 15 дней назад

    Thank you Boma

  • @ogomsseries
    @ogomsseries 15 дней назад

    You have said it all sis👌👌we should not forget ourselves and put yourself first in everything and anything❤

  • @_nursemonique
    @_nursemonique 8 дней назад

    Truly we need to pray for ourselves as women
    Yeah I was having a conversation with someone yesterday because we lost someone to childbirth after few months of marriage and later people say what do women bring to the table …Marriage Favour men no doubt at all
    Because we give and give and then loose ourselves
    God I don’t want to loose myself

    • @bomsysspot
      @bomsysspot  6 дней назад

      Exactly ! I just pray we always remember to put ourselves first as women .

  • @FattuJabbie
    @FattuJabbie 15 дней назад

    I really needed to hear this thanks mama

  • @somoyesimileoluwa2283
    @somoyesimileoluwa2283 15 дней назад

    Bomsy you have said it all more wisdom ❤❤❤❤

  • @OluwayemisiAdewumi
    @OluwayemisiAdewumi 9 дней назад

    God bless you ma for this video❤

  • @cheftoothpick
    @cheftoothpick 15 дней назад

    Preach!!!! Preaaaach!!!!❤❤❤

  • @VictoriaSm20
    @VictoriaSm20 15 дней назад

    Thank you so much for this message God bless you and ur family happy new month to you and ur family in Jesus Christ mighty name Amen

    • @bomsysspot
      @bomsysspot  14 дней назад

      Thank you so much! You too 🙏🏽

  • @FattuJabbie
    @FattuJabbie 15 дней назад

    Yes we women needs de prayer more

  • @carolinehaynes7653
    @carolinehaynes7653 15 дней назад

    This topic was spot on 👌🏾

  • @egobaby09
    @egobaby09 15 дней назад

    This is a very important lesson. Do not lose yourself as an individual.

  • @theresaopokuma-fs3qs
    @theresaopokuma-fs3qs 15 дней назад

    Thank you my dear, pray for your self good talk ❤❤❤

  • @jumokefasaye4215
    @jumokefasaye4215 15 дней назад

    Well said ma❤💯

  • @FattuJabbie
    @FattuJabbie 15 дней назад

    Bomsy I learned a lot 😘

  • @bolou_ere16
    @bolou_ere16 15 дней назад

    Don't ever lose yourself no matter what.

  • @Precious_Nynth
    @Precious_Nynth 15 дней назад

    Bomsy, I totally understand where you are coming from, and why women put themselves behind is because by default we are nurturing beings. I tell people marriage is carved in a way where the women sacrifice more for the survival of a marriage. BUT in all DO NOT, I repeat DO NOT forget yourself ooooo.

    • @bomsysspot
      @bomsysspot  14 дней назад

      Honestly, we are so conditioned to look after everyone else asides ourselves.

  • @okaforchisomofficial
    @okaforchisomofficial 15 дней назад +1

    Thanks bomsy for finally speaking about this because i wonder too.
    Some men are now making it mandatory that their wives or girlfriends should" better be praying for me, if i blow then i go marry you or buy things for you".
    And when they eventually did not blow they will now say" this lady/ woman is a badluck in my life"
    .........
    Before i pray or impact on any man, i must invest in myself first incase if the man starts behaving abnormal, Atleast i will have somethings to fall back on.
    ..........
    Some men can be ungrateful 😢.
    We have to be very careful.
    I no a lady that always saves alot of money to buy gifts for her man( boyfriend) but can't buy common pants and bra for herself 😢, and at the end of the day the man left her saying" you are a very dirty girl"
    ......
    Bomsy i love you 3much
    You are just talking direct to me in the video and i pray God gives me the best man as husband tomorrow 😢. A man that will also pray for me not only me praying❤😢.

    • @bomsysspot
      @bomsysspot  14 дней назад +1

      It's so important to take care of ourselves first ❤️. This is such a valid response and it sheds more light into how society has conditioned us to take care of our men and forget ourselves.

  • @OlyoUdeoye
    @OlyoUdeoye 13 дней назад

    Love you

    • @bomsysspot
      @bomsysspot  12 дней назад

      Love you right back ♥️

  • @FattuJabbie
    @FattuJabbie 15 дней назад

    Me I have 5 children in de Uk here but I don’t know myself hmmm it is well

    • @bomsysspot
      @bomsysspot  14 дней назад

      Wooow! Sending you hugs n love

  • @user-sc5tx9oe3n
    @user-sc5tx9oe3n 15 дней назад

    These days, women should try and work to support the family. Take good care of yourself.

  • @jennifercookey6688
    @jennifercookey6688 15 дней назад

    ❤❤❤❤❤

  • @olereigbanor7512
    @olereigbanor7512 15 дней назад

    ❤❤❤

  • @user-sc5tx9oe3n
    @user-sc5tx9oe3n 15 дней назад

    ❤❤❤

  • @--sarahitodo
    @--sarahitodo 15 дней назад

    ❤❤❤

  • @toviaaustin
    @toviaaustin 15 дней назад

    ❤❤❤

  • @OlyoUdeoye
    @OlyoUdeoye 13 дней назад

    ❤❤❤