okay wait i LOVE this idea! Even if she doesn’t think it’ll make an entire video she could do an instagram reel or even easier an instagram story, i’m nosey so i’d love to see how they schedule everything and try to keep their lives as easy and smooth as possible.
Sometimes I find it difficult to watch your videos because I feel like we’re best friends and you just don’t know it yet 😂 I literally feel like I could jump right into your videos and do things with you, being your sidekick, and I want to have conversations with you, agree with you, add commentary. This hardship will never stop me from watching though!! 😊
Girl please put the internet down and spend some time in your real life with your real friends. Don’t strive to be anyones ‘sidekick’, especially to someone online that knows and cares absolutely nothing about you. Especially someone like this, Yeesh. Para social relationships with these people are one sided - yours.
I'm so excited to hear that Lilia is doing a solo this year! I am also a dancer and I was the same age as Lilia when I did my very first solo. I love watching her and the rest of the kids dance cause it reminds me of when I was younger. I only have 3 years left with my dance studio so I love watching the littles dance their hearts out! I am wishing the best of luck with their competition season this year and in the future!!
Omg I missed these sit down videos with you Jess. I’ve been watching you since you were pregnant with Lilia and I remember how much you used to share on the internet but maybe an idea you can think about is starting a patreon and talk about in depth things like you used to waaayyy back in 2011 so that way there’s no haters
I think she’s more worried about what people will say regardless . Even if it’s a patreon , word will get out & people will always have something to say about it . Plus you’ll have people who will complain about her making people pay money when she’s already “rich” .
There’s psychic fairs going on every once in a while in my area, and everyone there is great and experienced. I went to one and talked for thirty minutes to her, and it felt like I knew her my whole life. She told me my aura, and told me things about my childhood that were absolutely correct! I highly recommend going to a psychic fair
I’m 30 and had never lost someone close to me either until last fall. I lost both my grandma and grandpa within 2 weeks of each other. We are so lucky that we had so much time with them and that they had so much time with their great grandchildren but it’s still so hard! Thinking of you!
People are so brave behind the screen… I’ve never seen hate towards you but I can’t imagine going out of my way to say something hurtful 😔 I hope you continue to produce content… but if it takes you off the internet, you need to protect your mental health for your babies! Hope you’re well!
Jess ... 80s mom here.. my ex went in and out of the girls lives. I would say "he loves you in his own way.... its just not maybe how much you need him too! " it was being polite and trying to give them what they needed for themselves.
I’m 22 and was just diagnosed with ADHD earlier this year. It’s super common for women to be diagnosed in adulthood and it’s hereditary so if one of your kids has it it could be an indicator for you. (That’s What happened with me and my mom) Your description of 100 tabs open is right on the nose lol
I've had my adhd diagnosed since I was 7 and I'll be 30 in February. So I completely understand how anyone feels with it but it's not too be a trend but it's definitely a thing to be inspired by it & not embarrassed by it or too talk about it.
I know what you mean . RUclips was different “back in the day”. I’ve watched you since before Landon . 10 years ago , even 5 years ago , things were so different . They were much more simple , which was a good thing . People weren’t so sensitive . People were more understanding , more kind . You were so open (way more open than you had to be) , but everyone used to love you for that cause you were so real & down to earth . Everyone still does love you ! But that’s just something I remember specifically . Certain RUclipsrs have ruined that by tearing down pretty much all RUclips families & it’s even crazier how people buy into that . Hopefully one day , we’ll get back to those simple times🤍
I have adhd and have been diagnosed since kindergarten. It is literally like having a million tabs open at once, easily distracted and for me easily overstimulated/overwhelmed. Medication and therapy definitely help
I was diagnosed ADD as a kid (which is now just ADHD) and it was something I never grew out of. But among some already diagnosed mental health things (anxiety, depression, BPD), I'm now starting to notice, at 30, that I definitely display some autistic traits. Its so crazy being an adult, noticing these things about ourselves and thinking "how the hell was this missed when I was younger". But I would definitely say, if you are really suspecting that you may have ADHD, talk to a doctor and get a diagnoses. You don't have to take medication for it. That's totally a personal choice, but its nice to have a formal diagnoses so you can then work on correcting or managing things! Just like you did with your OCD!!
I have been the same way with my kids about dating. All 4 of my kids are and always have been open about everything. My kids are 30,22 and 18 year old twins. I have one daughter and 3 sons. Love your channels ❤️
My son has pretty severe ADD and he described it as constant “noise” in his head. He’ll be in class listening to the teacher and if someone drops a pencil all his attention goes to the pencil, then someone coughs and it happens again. On and on. He goes back to listening to the teacher until a bird chirps outside or someone talks in the hall. Meds have had side effects with him so we work on meditation and bio feedback. It’s pretty rough but has improved. I can’t imagine how tough it must be 💔 Ps we were up in your neck of the woods yesterday visiting UC Davis and the Sacramento area is beautiful!! I don’t blame you for never wanting to move from the area
I'm just realizing at 29 that I may have ADD. I always thought you have to be hyperactive but ADD is all the attention problems without the hyperness and that's me. I also have sensory processing struggles - my hands or knees can't touch, I have to lotion my hands constantly, I can't walk on the floor without socks or shoes, I hate the feelings of getting in the shower (I love getting clean but getting wet and feeling heavy like I'm suffocating is a nightmare, etc). I do stupid things that make it hard for me to cook, drive, fill out paperwork, etc. Bc I can't keep my focus on anything and my mind wanders. I've always felt stupid and I got made fun of in school for a lot of these types of things and I never once, hadn't even trickled across my mind, that I could have ADD but oh my lord it makes so much sense and it would be nice to know I'm not a weirdo it's just my body reacts differently.
For women - especially those who are moms - adhd can be so hard to diagnose. I’ve been told that one reason is because we’re often “scatter brained” as it is due to being a mom, especially if you have multiple kids. “Mom brain” is a thing! Also, many of us are in “survival mode”, especially when our kids are young. Trauma can also be a reason for forgetfulness. Which, as a subscriber since you were pregnant with Lilia, you’ve been through a lot! Either way, it can be worth talking to a doctor about ❤
I’m ADHD it can be frustrating at times for those around me that don’t understand it but all in all I get a lot of support. My son whose 11 is also ADHD and he struggles A LOT
I am a 28 year old mom of 3 kids and I really look up to you and the way you parent. You are a huge inspiration to me. You are doing so well with your kids and you should definitely be proud of yourself.
Diagnosed with ADHD 4 years ago at the age of 27! Since then I find myself diagnosing strangers with it lol. You and Britney Morrow both have ADHD in my opinion. Watching vlogs you can see the similarities in the way our brains work and how we function etc. Obviously not an expert but I would highly encourage getting a diagnosis, it's such a powerful thing to understand your own brain.
So I was diagnosed in 1st grade back in the early 90s with ADHD. It wasn't as common for diagnosis, and presents itself differently in women than men. But one of the things is OCD that attaches to it for women more than men. But we don't look or think much about it while it's happening. I will hyper focus on something (like open cabinets if I see them) until I close or finish that task my brain won't turn off. It is a need to finish or correct. I will lock the door 3 times or my car 3 times. Even though I know it's locked my brain tells me to do it again double and triple check. It's 100% looking into it as it is genetic and passes that way. Both of my kids are and they are the split difference, one is hyper with low impulsive but will Hyper focus and not do anything else. While my other is super impulsive (like cut hair off in a spilt moment and not think twice) but can sit down and read a book all day long, untill something else grabs her attention. It's worth looking into.
I have ADHD and I share some of the same characteristics of OCD as well. ADHD is a huuuuge spectrum, and even shared similar characteristics as autism! It’s so much more than being “hyperactive.”
Loved the catch up! But omg your scar is soooo faint now, I was so shocked! That really is amazing. I had an unplanned csection 1 year ago and it's faded so much but this gives so much hope that it will barely be noticeable in the future.
I gotta be honest that I almost feel like I need your side of things. I think the dad podcast person just “exposes” you to the max and I’ll be honest that at times he has made me think but I know that’s not fair to you. So I’m still with you and watching and I have been since the very very beginning
I was diagnosed with adhd at 36. I had symptoms my whole life but didn’t know what was wrong. Now I’m medicated and it’s not 100% but it’s an improvement
Hey Jess! You should totally speak with a medium. I love going! It’s for your highest good💕 I recommend going to your local metaphysical shops and asking if they work with anyone or have someone they recommend. Just type in metaphysical shop in your map & im sure a few will pop up. Pick which one feels right and go for it!
Jess, my partner has recently been diagnosed with ADHD in his mid 20s after being diagnosed with OCD as a child. He used to do everything twice as well, he would also do things like chew food an equal amount of times on each side of his mouth. A lot of kids with ADHD display OCD tendencies due to anxiety disorders that are comorbid with ADHD. Speak to your doctor 🙏
that's an amazing point!! I never knew that!! I have ADHD and anxiety and I tend to have number related OCD type tendencies. I would of never thought that the combination of ADHD and anxiety could be a contributing factor to that!
@@dailyliving1716 OCD is usually a cycle of compulsions in response to an obsession. For instance, checking the door is locked becomes an overwhelming compulsion for someone with OCD when their brain obsesses over what could happen if the door isn't locked. A lot of the obsessions either come from or cause high levels of anxiety, OCD can developed in a child with ADHD due to the lack of control they feel surrounding their feelings and how they socialise/ respond to new people and environments. I'm not saying they go hand in hand, like you cant have one without the other, but when you know the reasons why a brain can develope OCD, it makes a lot of sense when children with ADHD also display those tendencies. As I always say, if it's becoming a problem, seek help from a doctor or therapist. Something even just understanding how your brain works with these disorders can minimise symptoms and the difficulties surrounding them.
I was diagnosed adhd a year ago now, and medicated for about 8 months, and it is 100% worth investigating. Im in Australia so we have medicare where my psychiatrist was heavily covered so unsure on American system, but would be worth looking into because it is amazing knowing what is going on and how to manage it!!!
Just wanna say you are one of the few youtubers who inspired me and I love your confidence and openess.. Hope you are reminded daily that you're an amazing person and doing just fine!♥️ love you Jess!🥰 xxx
I don't know much about mediums but I did really enjoy the authenticity of Tyler Henry when I was watching his show. I mean you gotta take it all with a grain of salt, but if you want to start the search, maybe he's the place to start.
I’ve been watching you since you were pregnant with the twins. Last night I dreamt you and I got fast food at the same place 😂 I hope I have an open trusting relationship with my daughter like you have with your kids ❤️ always support you, you’re the best ❤️
Every bad comment I’ve read about you over the years, I just think 🤯 - just listen to that ONE little portion when you talk about your boys father. The way you are putting them first. The way you still make an effort for your boys to see their dad…honestly, it’s rare these days. You really could make an impact in the future for young people. Maybe once your kids are grown you could be a family therapist or work for the state in regards to coparenting.
I’m on meds for ADHD and i was diagnosed at 7 (I’m 27 now) Being on meds was like night and day for me. I still had lots of tabs open lol but i was able to complete everything instead of forgetting about my “open tabs” 😂
Next time you go to Sephora pick up Benefit cosmetics "They're Real" mascara. Hands down best mascara I've ever used, lasts forever and makes your lashes look soooo long. Can't wait to see Lilia's solo!
Hey Jess I just wanted to know what mascara you use bc I’ve been trying to find the perfect mascara for my eyes I’m just having trouble finding one that isn’t to clumpy or hardly puts some on my eyelashes❤️❤️ keep it up Jess this channel deserves like 1 million subs already❤️❤️😭
I have adhd which I was diagnosed with a few months ago, me and my family consider it more of add cause I don’t have the hyper part (adhd stands for attention deficit hyperactivity disorder) but I suck at paying attention, I basically just think for me it means I’m only gunna fully pay attention if I like what’s happening, if I’m in a class I dont like or am in a conversation or watching something I’m not interested in I physically can not focus no matter how much I try, so I have more of add, which is literally just the definition of adhd without the h. Idk why I’m sharing all this but it was helpful to find out that adhd doesn’t always include the hyper part cause I was confused to find that out cause I’m not hyper for those reasons, idk if this’ll help anyone but I hope it does.
"How fake are you" "I am the fakest! This makeup is fake, my eyeballs? I paid for them, I actually DID pay for my boobs.. TWICE! My stomach is fake, my whole life is just made up. It's actually just a script. We coordinate it, I have like a concept writer. The kids? They're fake, they're actually robots. Husband? Hired him. Friends? hired them. I take two AA batteries..." BEST PART of this video 🤣🤣🤣
I must have missed something on you and Roslynn I miss her on your vlogs and her boys playing with your kids but I still love watching all your social media's please keep posting ❤️💛
❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️ you are such a beautiful mom/daughter …Mimi must be so proud!! Thanks for the update and for sharing your life with us! You are a rare gift on an ever changing internet platform! I look forward to watching both of your channels every week! ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
ADHD and OCD go hand-in-hand a lot of times my 14-year-old is ADHD and OCD but back when we were kids cause you’re only like two years younger than me ADHD was diagnosed more in boys than girls and I think it even is still today because it presents differently in girls than it does boys
Adoption is difficult, of course your helping a child out of a difficult situation, but the things is after experiencing it as a child (im not adopted) it caused a lot of stress in my life for most of it actually and to be perfectly honest I'm not sure the adoption was the best situation for them either. I wish nothing but the best for this person, but it just was a stressful situation.
She has done at least one video and at least one IG reel explaining how the kids get paid. They make a portion of the profits and I believe it's deposited into a secured account for each child for their future. It's a special sort of account for children that can only be accessed by the child when they become an adult.
I liked this a lot! I typically don’t care to hear about sex or drinking, not because I don’t do those things too, but because it’s more fun to participate rather than watch other people do those things lol I mean clearly some are into that and that’s fine. 😅
I would love to know how you plan your days. All the kids, their activities, and you're a vlogger. Do you have a million day planners??
she uses a calendar on her phone and i think other people have access to it as well
okay wait i LOVE this idea! Even if she doesn’t think it’ll make an entire video she could do an instagram reel or even easier an instagram story, i’m nosey so i’d love to see how they schedule everything and try to keep their lives as easy and smooth as possible.
Ah Jess, hang in there. Grief is so hard and it comes and goes. There is no perfect way to heal, but I hope things get easier for you.
Sometimes I find it difficult to watch your videos because I feel like we’re best friends and you just don’t know it yet 😂 I literally feel like I could jump right into your videos and do things with you, being your sidekick, and I want to have conversations with you, agree with you, add commentary. This hardship will never stop me from watching though!! 😊
I’m so here for this!!!! Let’s chat it up girl 😆
Girl please put the internet down and spend some time in your real life with your real friends. Don’t strive to be anyones ‘sidekick’, especially to someone online that knows and cares absolutely nothing about you. Especially someone like this, Yeesh. Para social relationships with these people are one sided - yours.
I understand how you feel about the whole loss thing, I just lost my grandma like a month ago and it is so hard! I literally take it day by day
We love a sit down talk video! Loved this so much.
I'm so excited to hear that Lilia is doing a solo this year! I am also a dancer and I was the same age as Lilia when I did my very first solo. I love watching her and the rest of the kids dance cause it reminds me of when I was younger. I only have 3 years left with my dance studio so I love watching the littles dance their hearts out! I am wishing the best of luck with their competition season this year and in the future!!
Omg I missed these sit down videos with you Jess. I’ve been watching you since you were pregnant with Lilia and I remember how much you used to share on the internet but maybe an idea you can think about is starting a patreon and talk about in depth things like you used to waaayyy back in 2011 so that way there’s no haters
Or she can just learn to keep some shit to herself.
I think she’s more worried about what people will say regardless . Even if it’s a patreon , word will get out & people will always have something to say about it . Plus you’ll have people who will complain about her making people pay money when she’s already “rich” .
@@calise7988 And they’d have a valid point. All this girl cares about is money at this point.
There’s psychic fairs going on every once in a while in my area, and everyone there is great and experienced. I went to one and talked for thirty minutes to her, and it felt like I knew her my whole life. She told me my aura, and told me things about my childhood that were absolutely correct! I highly recommend going to a psychic fair
I could listen to Jess talking for hours.
Amen
I’m 30 and had never lost someone close to me either until last fall. I lost both my grandma and grandpa within 2 weeks of each other. We are so lucky that we had so much time with them and that they had so much time with their great grandchildren but it’s still so hard! Thinking of you!
Sorry for your loss's. May their memory be eternal.
I just really respect you as a person and especially as a mom, that’s all 😂
People are so brave behind the screen… I’ve never seen hate towards you but I can’t imagine going out of my way to say something hurtful 😔 I hope you continue to produce content… but if it takes you off the internet, you need to protect your mental health for your babies! Hope you’re well!
Jess ... 80s mom here.. my ex went in and out of the girls lives. I would say "he loves you in his own way.... its just not maybe how much you need him too! " it was being polite and trying to give them what they needed for themselves.
I’m 22 and was just diagnosed with ADHD earlier this year. It’s super common for women to be diagnosed in adulthood and it’s hereditary so if one of your kids has it it could be an indicator for you. (That’s What happened with me and my mom) Your description of 100 tabs open is right on the nose lol
I got diagnosed when I was in year 2 and it runs in my family.
This is such a good point. I got diagnosed when I was 26 and it explained so much for me
I've had my adhd diagnosed since I was 7 and I'll be 30 in February. So I completely understand how anyone feels with it but it's not too be a trend but it's definitely a thing to be inspired by it & not embarrassed by it or too talk about it.
Did they tell you to cut out artificial dyes and junk food?
Three years since you’ve had a tummy tuck. Literally no way. I’ve been watching way before that but how how has it been 3!!
I know what you mean . RUclips was different “back in the day”. I’ve watched you since before Landon . 10 years ago , even 5 years ago , things were so different . They were much more simple , which was a good thing . People weren’t so sensitive . People were more understanding , more kind . You were so open (way more open than you had to be) , but everyone used to love you for that cause you were so real & down to earth . Everyone still does love you ! But that’s just something I remember specifically . Certain RUclipsrs have ruined that by tearing down pretty much all RUclips families & it’s even crazier how people buy into that . Hopefully one day , we’ll get back to those simple times🤍
I have adhd and have been diagnosed since kindergarten. It is literally like having a million tabs open at once, easily distracted and for me easily overstimulated/overwhelmed. Medication and therapy definitely help
I was diagnosed ADD as a kid (which is now just ADHD) and it was something I never grew out of. But among some already diagnosed mental health things (anxiety, depression, BPD), I'm now starting to notice, at 30, that I definitely display some autistic traits.
Its so crazy being an adult, noticing these things about ourselves and thinking "how the hell was this missed when I was younger". But I would definitely say, if you are really suspecting that you may have ADHD, talk to a doctor and get a diagnoses. You don't have to take medication for it. That's totally a personal choice, but its nice to have a formal diagnoses so you can then work on correcting or managing things! Just like you did with your OCD!!
I have been the same way with my kids about dating. All 4 of my kids are and always have been open about everything. My kids are 30,22 and 18 year old twins. I have one daughter and 3 sons. Love your channels ❤️
Just going to gently say that it's helpful for an ally to reiterate that you can't "choose" to be part of the lgbtq+ community. Love your videos.
The community itself is a lifestyle choice
"I take 2 AA batteries" had me rolling 🤣 omg ilysm
My son has pretty severe ADD and he described it as constant “noise” in his head. He’ll be in class listening to the teacher and if someone drops a pencil all his attention goes to the pencil, then someone coughs and it happens again. On and on. He goes back to listening to the teacher until a bird chirps outside or someone talks in the hall. Meds have had side effects with him so we work on meditation and bio feedback. It’s pretty rough but has improved. I can’t imagine how tough it must be 💔
Ps we were up in your neck of the woods yesterday visiting UC Davis and the Sacramento area is beautiful!! I don’t blame you for never wanting to move from the area
i’d love to see the kids vlog, themselves, and see them talk more!! love you guys! 💕
Who is Richard?
Gabe is Lilia's Dad
Drake is Kyson, Kaden and Landen's Dad
Chris is Addie's Dad
Richard is what she calls Drake
I was confused as well! Thanks @Sarah Horne
I was wondering the same! Thank you!
Glad I’m not the only one I was so confused 😂😂
There is a particular nickname that Richards get called. That is Drake. 🤣
I'm just realizing at 29 that I may have ADD. I always thought you have to be hyperactive but ADD is all the attention problems without the hyperness and that's me. I also have sensory processing struggles - my hands or knees can't touch, I have to lotion my hands constantly, I can't walk on the floor without socks or shoes, I hate the feelings of getting in the shower (I love getting clean but getting wet and feeling heavy like I'm suffocating is a nightmare, etc). I do stupid things that make it hard for me to cook, drive, fill out paperwork, etc. Bc I can't keep my focus on anything and my mind wanders. I've always felt stupid and I got made fun of in school for a lot of these types of things and I never once, hadn't even trickled across my mind, that I could have ADD but oh my lord it makes so much sense and it would be nice to know I'm not a weirdo it's just my body reacts differently.
Wow that makeup is working OVERTIME!
For women - especially those who are moms - adhd can be so hard to diagnose. I’ve been told that one reason is because we’re often “scatter brained” as it is due to being a mom, especially if you have multiple kids. “Mom brain” is a thing! Also, many of us are in “survival mode”, especially when our kids are young. Trauma can also be a reason for forgetfulness. Which, as a subscriber since you were pregnant with Lilia, you’ve been through a lot! Either way, it can be worth talking to a doctor about ❤
I was just thinking how much I’ve missed your sit down videos and then this video popped up! I love these catch up style videos. 😊
I’m ADHD it can be frustrating at times for those around me that don’t understand it but all in all I get a lot of support. My son whose 11 is also ADHD and he struggles A LOT
Seeing your birth vlogs is what inspired me to change my mind on never having kids🫶🏻
Thank you for sharing everything you did. I can relate with so much you said. Really helps another mother out. Keep being you!!
omg you talking about how long it’s been since life events have happened really makes me shocked, i’ve literally grown up with this channel🥹
My step mom does the same thing with not talking badly about my mom. My Dad does sometimes but I think it was just hurt over the last decade.
I am a 28 year old mom of 3 kids and I really look up to you and the way you parent. You are a huge inspiration to me. You are doing so well with your kids and you should definitely be proud of yourself.
Diagnosed with ADHD 4 years ago at the age of 27! Since then I find myself diagnosing strangers with it lol. You and Britney Morrow both have ADHD in my opinion. Watching vlogs you can see the similarities in the way our brains work and how we function etc. Obviously not an expert but I would highly encourage getting a diagnosis, it's such a powerful thing to understand your own brain.
I miss your parenting style video, I used to learn so much from topics you discussed. I’d love to learn more 🫶🏼
So I was diagnosed in 1st grade back in the early 90s with ADHD. It wasn't as common for diagnosis, and presents itself differently in women than men. But one of the things is OCD that attaches to it for women more than men. But we don't look or think much about it while it's happening. I will hyper focus on something (like open cabinets if I see them) until I close or finish that task my brain won't turn off. It is a need to finish or correct. I will lock the door 3 times or my car 3 times. Even though I know it's locked my brain tells me to do it again double and triple check. It's 100% looking into it as it is genetic and passes that way. Both of my kids are and they are the split difference, one is hyper with low impulsive but will Hyper focus and not do anything else. While my other is super impulsive (like cut hair off in a spilt moment and not think twice) but can sit down and read a book all day long, untill something else grabs her attention. It's worth looking into.
Can you please share what lipstick and shade you are wearing? It’s so pretty😍
I have ADHD and I share some of the same characteristics of OCD as well. ADHD is a huuuuge spectrum, and even shared similar characteristics as autism! It’s so much more than being “hyperactive.”
I love these sit down videos. They’ve been my favorite to watch recently.
Loved the catch up! But omg your scar is soooo faint now, I was so shocked! That really is amazing. I had an unplanned csection 1 year ago and it's faded so much but this gives so much hope that it will barely be noticeable in the future.
It's been a while! So happy to see that you've posted this video
I gotta be honest that I almost feel like I need your side of things. I think the dad podcast person just “exposes” you to the max and I’ll be honest that at times he has made me think but I know that’s not fair to you. So I’m still with you and watching and I have been since the very very beginning
I was diagnosed with adhd at 36. I had symptoms my whole life but didn’t know what was wrong. Now I’m medicated and it’s not 100% but it’s an improvement
Hey Jess! You should totally speak with a medium. I love going! It’s for your highest good💕 I recommend going to your local metaphysical shops and asking if they work with anyone or have someone they recommend. Just type in metaphysical shop in your map & im sure a few will pop up. Pick which one feels right and go for it!
you have to do a video for parenting... i am blown away by your kids and how you handle it
I had a tummy tuck 2 months ago after 3 kids. I love seeing you TT update!
Jess, my partner has recently been diagnosed with ADHD in his mid 20s after being diagnosed with OCD as a child. He used to do everything twice as well, he would also do things like chew food an equal amount of times on each side of his mouth. A lot of kids with ADHD display OCD tendencies due to anxiety disorders that are comorbid with ADHD. Speak to your doctor 🙏
that's an amazing point!! I never knew that!! I have ADHD and anxiety and I tend to have number related OCD type tendencies. I would of never thought that the combination of ADHD and anxiety could be a contributing factor to that!
@@dailyliving1716 OCD is usually a cycle of compulsions in response to an obsession. For instance, checking the door is locked becomes an overwhelming compulsion for someone with OCD when their brain obsesses over what could happen if the door isn't locked.
A lot of the obsessions either come from or cause high levels of anxiety, OCD can developed in a child with ADHD due to the lack of control they feel surrounding their feelings and how they socialise/ respond to new people and environments. I'm not saying they go hand in hand, like you cant have one without the other, but when you know the reasons why a brain can develope OCD, it makes a lot of sense when children with ADHD also display those tendencies.
As I always say, if it's becoming a problem, seek help from a doctor or therapist. Something even just understanding how your brain works with these disorders can minimise symptoms and the difficulties surrounding them.
I was diagnosed adhd a year ago now, and medicated for about 8 months, and it is 100% worth investigating. Im in Australia so we have medicare where my psychiatrist was heavily covered so unsure on American system, but would be worth looking into because it is amazing knowing what is going on and how to manage it!!!
Just wanna say you are one of the few youtubers who inspired me and I love your confidence and openess..
Hope you are reminded daily that you're an amazing person and doing just fine!♥️
love you Jess!🥰 xxx
I think you should do a family q&a w/ everyone like the kids and Chris etc. (on your Jesssfam channel ofc)
I don't know much about mediums but I did really enjoy the authenticity of Tyler Henry when I was watching his show. I mean you gotta take it all with a grain of salt, but if you want to start the search, maybe he's the place to start.
I’m a new subscriber and I just love how bubbly Jess is 💗 her personality is so sweet
I’ve been watching you since you were pregnant with the twins. Last night I dreamt you and I got fast food at the same place 😂 I hope I have an open trusting relationship with my daughter like you have with your kids ❤️ always support you, you’re the best ❤️
Missed you on here!! After a long day was so glad to see a new JustJesss video!
MISSED YOU ON HERE! 🥰
OCD and ADHD are very common to have together. I have bothbut in a more anxious aspect.
still watching the video and the forgetfulness is something I also struggle with!
I love these sit down videos for just jesss!
Every bad comment I’ve read about you over the years, I just think 🤯 - just listen to that ONE little portion when you talk about your boys father. The way you are putting them first. The way you still make an effort for your boys to see their dad…honestly, it’s rare these days. You really could make an impact in the future for young people. Maybe once your kids are grown you could be a family therapist or work for the state in regards to coparenting.
I am dying. The comment on how you are "fake", husband is hired, kids are robots, and you take 2 double A batteries, AA is so funny.
I’m on meds for ADHD and i was diagnosed at 7 (I’m 27 now)
Being on meds was like night and day for me. I still had lots of tabs open lol but i was able to complete everything instead of forgetting about my “open tabs” 😂
We neeeeeeeeeeeeeed more Just Jesss!!!! (please)
Next time you go to Sephora pick up Benefit cosmetics "They're Real" mascara. Hands down best mascara I've ever used, lasts forever and makes your lashes look soooo long. Can't wait to see Lilia's solo!
What curling iron do you use? I love your curls?
Great to see a just Jess vid! Look forward to more! X
I love how open your are about parenting. I understand sharing， do has much feel comfortable.
Hey Jess I just wanted to know what mascara you use bc I’ve been trying to find the perfect mascara for my eyes I’m just having trouble finding one that isn’t to clumpy or hardly puts some on my eyelashes❤️❤️ keep it up Jess this channel deserves like 1 million subs already❤️❤️😭
I love theses style of videos Jess
Can we just all appreciate you wings ughhh so damn good girl….love you!
does anyone else want a just chris channel????
You should reunite with Zoey from Van Clan!!!!!
I have adhd which I was diagnosed with a few months ago, me and my family consider it more of add cause I don’t have the hyper part (adhd stands for attention deficit hyperactivity disorder) but I suck at paying attention, I basically just think for me it means I’m only gunna fully pay attention if I like what’s happening, if I’m in a class I dont like or am in a conversation or watching something I’m not interested in I physically can not focus no matter how much I try, so I have more of add, which is literally just the definition of adhd without the h. Idk why I’m sharing all this but it was helpful to find out that adhd doesn’t always include the hyper part cause I was confused to find that out cause I’m not hyper for those reasons, idk if this’ll help anyone but I hope it does.
Also adhd is under diagnosed in women...my siblings have it and I still didn't get diagnosed until 26
20:04 So basically being the “fun parent” for them?🤔
Adhd is hereditary, so often when kids are diagnosed, one of their parents also gets the diagnosis in the process.
just jesss✨✨✨✨
IM SO EXCITED!!!
whats the positing schedule for this channel? btw luv u jesss!
Am a new subscriber to both your channels and glad that i watch and listen to even your podcasts. Thank you
"How fake are you" "I am the fakest! This makeup is fake, my eyeballs? I paid for them, I actually DID pay for my boobs.. TWICE! My stomach is fake, my whole life is just made up. It's actually just a script. We coordinate it, I have like a concept writer. The kids? They're fake, they're actually robots. Husband? Hired him. Friends? hired them. I take two AA batteries..." BEST PART of this video 🤣🤣🤣
OMFG ahahahaha it took me a minute to put 2 and 2 together for Richard hahaha ok got it I'm with you here Jess.
I must have missed something on you and Roslynn I miss her on your vlogs and her boys playing with your kids but I still love watching all your social media's please keep posting ❤️💛
❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️ you are such a beautiful mom/daughter …Mimi must be so proud!! Thanks for the update and for sharing your life with us! You are a rare gift on an ever changing internet platform! I look forward to watching both of your channels every week! ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
If I’m ever able to afford a tummy tuck I’ll definitely do it! You look amazing
"I take x2 AA batteries" girlllll how good would that be tho we could turn our brain off occasionally haha
ADHD and OCD go hand-in-hand a lot of times my 14-year-old is ADHD and OCD but back when we were kids cause you’re only like two years younger than me ADHD was diagnosed more in boys than girls and I think it even is still today because it presents differently in girls than it does boys
Best video you've made...deff my favorite
Love your honesty❤
What lipstick and mascara did you use? I love that color!!
Jess i have a question if say friend/family was having infertility problems would you consider carrying the baby for them and would chris care.
what's the mascara that you use and what brush did use to put on your foundation????
Adoption is difficult, of course your helping a child out of a difficult situation, but the things is after experiencing it as a child (im not adopted) it caused a lot of stress in my life for most of it actually and to be perfectly honest I'm not sure the adoption was the best situation for them either. I wish nothing but the best for this person, but it just was a stressful situation.
Do the kids get paid for being in videos and different things? Just curious! I love you all and have watched since you were pregnant with the twins
She has done at least one video and at least one IG reel explaining how the kids get paid. They make a portion of the profits and I believe it's deposited into a secured account for each child for their future. It's a special sort of account for children that can only be accessed by the child when they become an adult.
Love yall 🥰 youve always been an inspiration to me
I liked this a lot! I typically don’t care to hear about sex or drinking, not because I don’t do those things too, but because it’s more fun to participate rather than watch other people do those things lol I mean clearly some are into that and that’s fine. 😅
Trust your gut instinct. If u feel someone’s phony move on, you’ll come across the medium for you when you’re ready
Oooohhhh a 13 yr Anniversary celebration at Disney for Halloween 🎃 🧙♀️ 🧹????
Very early! I love your content it’s been awhile since you’ve posted here💜
I loved this video! ❤️
Do you still hangout or talk to Roselyn? I’m just curious. ✌🏼
No
@@savannahweinstein111 did she explain anywhere why!?