Men are Forward Oriented, Women are Past Oriented | Kingsley Okonkwo

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  • Опубликовано: 26 окт 2024

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  • @nikkyshamz2696
    @nikkyshamz2696 3 года назад +58

    Pastor K stay hitting the nail on the head everytime📌📌📌🎯🎯🎯 women, our life is not hard like that, just understand us. We will make sure you are good,just be good to us.

    • @womenshealthfertility9975
      @womenshealthfertility9975 3 года назад +6

      Exactly 👌

    • @utteero
      @utteero 3 года назад +6

      That Understanding gan gan is where the problem is. Inside that one word "understand" is an encyclopedia of knowledge.

    • @gracembakwe2202
      @gracembakwe2202 3 года назад +2

      Exactly

    • @CantizeSay
      @CantizeSay 3 года назад +1

      Yes MA, we'll understand you.

    • @isaacomotayo2298
      @isaacomotayo2298 2 года назад

      @@utteero very true

  • @peaceamgbapu3827
    @peaceamgbapu3827 3 года назад +16

    This is mind blowing. Churches should inculcate these kind of series in their programs

  • @sita6328
    @sita6328 3 года назад +18

    It's amazing to hear a man describe women so ACCURATELY😊
    I keep nodding my head in agreement..
    Wow.
    God Bless you sir

  • @alinayili2199
    @alinayili2199 3 года назад +21

    I wish he would go on forever.
    I learned and laughed at the same time, one of the best teachings ever

  • @Kingdomthingstv
    @Kingdomthingstv 3 года назад +32

    Pastor k,God bless you! Am single, but a potential husband..literally I have been listening too your message since last year and it as been a blessing too me..more grace pastor sir

    • @womenshealthfertility9975
      @womenshealthfertility9975 3 года назад +4

      Your future wife is so blessed. Kudos!

    • @Kingdomthingstv
      @Kingdomthingstv 3 года назад +1

      @@womenshealthfertility9975 exactly, I wish she also listens to pastor k message.thank you

    • @fragrancedeparadis1275
      @fragrancedeparadis1275 3 года назад +1

      You someone is anointed when you don't feel bored listening.
      This pastor is one of them. Glory be to God.

    • @Kingdomthingstv
      @Kingdomthingstv 3 года назад +2

      @@fragrancedeparadis1275 not only anointed also informative about marriage.if only lot of men we listen to him it will save them from the future headache in their marriage.as it is normally said prevention his better than cure..

    • @abikayministries8043
      @abikayministries8043 3 года назад +4

      Congratulations in advance

  • @remithefirst
    @remithefirst 3 года назад +23

    The teachings are different and somewhat difficult. But they are true. Scripturally. Scientifically. Statistically.

    • @oluchiujun4305
      @oluchiujun4305 3 года назад +2

      Exactly. The Holy Spirit is helping me unlearn a lot of things to accept this message.

  • @anniedaniels9937
    @anniedaniels9937 3 года назад +14

    Pastor K you're a blessing to this generation, sent to prevent and repair marriages, may the Good Lord continue to bless and fortify you and your family.

  • @Star22TT
    @Star22TT 3 года назад +18

    I will have a successful marriage Glory to God I have you so early in my life

  • @CaribbeanSoulfulQueen33
    @CaribbeanSoulfulQueen33 Год назад

    Pastor. You really amazing 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽 you blow my mind

  • @crispindamilola4475
    @crispindamilola4475 3 года назад +5

    I hate when he says "okay, what is the way forward?" when all I want to do is talk and talk 😂

  • @kefilwetsotetsi3500
    @kefilwetsotetsi3500 2 года назад +1

    Iyo!! Pastor K. I wish some men could stop being proud and listen to teachings like this. It'd really simplify things. Much as I've learned, I'm sending this video to him as well.

  • @carineawum3863
    @carineawum3863 3 года назад +5

    Thank you pastor k. This is exactly me you talked about as if I poured out my mind to you. I'm sure gonna convince my husband watch this 😂😂😂

  • @fragrancedeparadis1275
    @fragrancedeparadis1275 3 года назад +4

    You know someone is anointed when you don't feel bored listening.
    This pastor is one of them. Glory be to God

  • @angiegrace1028
    @angiegrace1028 2 года назад +1

    Pastor K, you are also a psychologist. It shows that you keep yourself update as well by reading books and attending seminars. I love the christian perspective you have when sharing your knownledge. Be blessed abundantly.

    • @KingdomLifeDec
      @KingdomLifeDec 2 года назад

      very true. because anyone can try to wash this off by saying they are not believers so it doesn't apply to them, but the crazy thing is the biblical truth gets pointed back with the scientific, and psychological facts.

  • @CaribbeanSoulfulQueen33
    @CaribbeanSoulfulQueen33 Год назад

    Wooooooooow what wisdom 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽

  • @TapchinE
    @TapchinE 3 года назад +1

    It feels like Pastor K is describing my mother and father. Especially Daddy. Now I understand better🤭👌🏾👌🏾👌🏾

  • @mercynanlop2374
    @mercynanlop2374 3 года назад +5

    Pastor k. thank you for all the videos the knowledge and all that you do for us. I pray as a young lady that I will not miss it in marriage after listening and watching much of your videos and teachings ijn.

  • @debby424
    @debby424 8 месяцев назад

    This words are pure truth ❤

  • @CaribbeanSoulfulQueen33
    @CaribbeanSoulfulQueen33 Год назад

    I love this 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽Amazing 🙏🏽

  • @exclusivelyeso7261
    @exclusivelyeso7261 3 года назад +3

    I really wish my soon to be ex would be able to see this. It would have saved our home. God bless you sir

    • @skbillionman
      @skbillionman 3 года назад

      Send the video link to him then and promise him he will love it.

    • @unyimei930
      @unyimei930 3 года назад +1

      Hi, you said soon to be ex. That means he’s not ex yet... maybe you can send it to him if you are interested in working it out. It takes two people to be on the same page and I’m sure if you pray about it and send it to him the Holy Spirit will do the rest ☺️

    • @crispindamilola4475
      @crispindamilola4475 3 года назад

      Send the video to him, praying for you both 💛

  • @akorfa1684
    @akorfa1684 3 года назад +7

    God bless you Pastor K 🙏🏽

  • @ChrisFoli
    @ChrisFoli 3 года назад +1

    Many people say marriage breaks down because of lack of communication. Ironically, communication is rather one of the main reasons why marriages break down; miscommunication to be specific. Usually, what the husband says is not what the wife hears and vice versa so an argument erupts out of a simple situation that could have been avoided if men and women paid the price to learn how each communicates.

  • @mt-inspire2436
    @mt-inspire2436 3 года назад +3

    Thank you so much sir. You hit the nail deeply with this message..

  • @timothyezekiel2559
    @timothyezekiel2559 3 года назад +3

    I really feel blessed and enlightened by your sermons... I’m planning to wed in the first quarter of next year, and anytime I listen to your post, it gives me direction. May the lord bless and keep you pastor.🙏🙏

  • @olivierfrancisndayishimiye3815

    Very instructive.

  • @franklin_chukwunenye7201
    @franklin_chukwunenye7201 3 года назад +5

    We're waiting for the prophetic words sir❤️

  • @margaretahogberg6869
    @margaretahogberg6869 2 года назад

    Yes you are so true about that,ill try to not say what is on my mind that will hurt him.
    Thank You for your lovely advice 💖💖💖

  • @ekeamarachi1002
    @ekeamarachi1002 3 года назад +3

    Don't book the talk😂😂📌

  • @yomaimoesiri9922
    @yomaimoesiri9922 3 года назад

    Pastor K, you are just too much. God sent.

  • @dr_ghost31
    @dr_ghost31 3 года назад +2

    Damnn he’s sooo spot on👌🏾👌🏾

  • @ladyboss2944
    @ladyboss2944 3 года назад +2

    Golden Nuggets as usual 👏

  • @matefelicidade8750
    @matefelicidade8750 3 года назад +1

    Ah Pastor...you are really a blessing to us. I follow You/Mama M.K, and your every teaching that comes online. Actually whenever I enter car on my way home, i don't even feel the traffic bcz my spirit is being blessed with lessons for life. Stay blessed Sir. Felicidade From Mozambique-Maputo.

  • @matefelicidade8750
    @matefelicidade8750 3 года назад +1

    This teaching... probably is one of the best i have heard. All are really good and good..but this one..ah...😌☺️☺️😌

  • @KateTriumph
    @KateTriumph 3 года назад +1

    I just placed an order for your book A to Z of marriage looking forward to reading it.

  • @KingdomLifeDec
    @KingdomLifeDec 11 месяцев назад

    This could be the reason many marriages get troubled when they lose a child!,? Men just so easily move on faster than us woman. Which is so sad. That losa child also causes to lose your spouse.

  • @akinbobolaoluwaseun7382
    @akinbobolaoluwaseun7382 3 года назад

    Pastor K,you are blessed!!!! Kai so apt!

  • @amarachinweke5897
    @amarachinweke5897 3 года назад +1

    Wo! This teachings is even making me learn myself.
    Thank you Man of God

  • @adeolaoke4165
    @adeolaoke4165 3 года назад

    I am at ease now …l understand better now

  • @pamilerinesther9482
    @pamilerinesther9482 3 года назад +1

    This is so accurate

  • @dr.samiyiola7993
    @dr.samiyiola7993 3 года назад

    Thank you for your candid teaching

  • @temi2401
    @temi2401 3 года назад

    Na real Atilogun Handbook 😃😃 pastor you always crack me up oo

  • @KateTriumph
    @KateTriumph 3 года назад

    Thank God for you and Pastor Jordan Adeoye for your good work.

  • @olakunleojo1926
    @olakunleojo1926 3 года назад +1

    This is deep...
    Thank you sir, I am highly blessed.

  • @sunxlaw
    @sunxlaw 3 года назад

    I'm really blessed hearing this. Thank you sir

  • @fridanjiru
    @fridanjiru 3 года назад +10

    Men and Women are so different,How are we supposed to stay married!Or is Marriage a school?

    • @womenshealthfertility9975
      @womenshealthfertility9975 3 года назад +4

      As in ehn... People should be made to go through marriage school and must pass some key tests before they are joined in union. Then, couples should continue to go through marriage academy through the life of their marriage.

    • @fridanjiru
      @fridanjiru 3 года назад +1

      @@womenshealthfertility9975 Your comment makes a lot of sense, The level of dysfunction in marriage would definitely reduce.

    • @ifeomaikechukwu6389
      @ifeomaikechukwu6389 3 года назад

      🙌

  • @tolulopeajiboye4259
    @tolulopeajiboye4259 3 года назад

    Always blessed by your teaching sir. God bless you and Pastor M.

  • @healthyliving.5101
    @healthyliving.5101 3 года назад

    Thank you sir,🙏 this really is
    worth a Nobel price 💫

  • @Snqobss547
    @Snqobss547 3 года назад

    Powerful teachings thank you Pastor Kingsley

  • @ShirmoneSmith
    @ShirmoneSmith 4 месяца назад

    Oh Pastor K😂😂😂😂😂
    Despite all the jokes we are learning 👏

  • @josephchenga1417
    @josephchenga1417 2 года назад

    And you might think she didn't forgive you yet all faults are in one box.. Women just understand

  • @tunmise_olu
    @tunmise_olu 3 года назад

    I love you sir

  • @frankanwafor3964
    @frankanwafor3964 3 года назад

    So blessed

  • @nliamugochukwu4179
    @nliamugochukwu4179 3 года назад

    Thanks for the mesaage

  • @onyimbahchioma5618
    @onyimbahchioma5618 3 года назад

    Waoh so true!! God bless you Sir 🙌

  • @abikayministries8043
    @abikayministries8043 3 года назад

    Powerful msg
    I can't stop 😂😂😂😂😂

  • @clementinaebiloma600
    @clementinaebiloma600 3 года назад

    Soo Soo true. More grace sir

  • @gorethingabire923
    @gorethingabire923 3 года назад +1

    Pastor please tell us how to handle a spouse who lies to other people when you are together. Yet you need to be respectfully.

  • @nliamugochukwu4179
    @nliamugochukwu4179 3 года назад

    Respect!!

  • @joyOsamudiamen
    @joyOsamudiamen 3 года назад

    thank you sir. but what about situations where the opposite is the case.

  • @cometoclass2224
    @cometoclass2224 3 года назад +4

    Please how can I get the hard copies of your books?

  • @imaobongetok9061
    @imaobongetok9061 3 года назад

    True

  • @assumptah.c.anyait.buyinza4165
    @assumptah.c.anyait.buyinza4165 3 года назад

    Chei....very very true

  • @OfficialSamanthaMartin
    @OfficialSamanthaMartin 3 года назад +2

    Wow you had to do us like that even from just the title? 😩👏🏽

  • @betayskitchen
    @betayskitchen 3 года назад

    Powerful message as usual pastor K. But I find it hard to believe men are not emotional sir. I believe we all are emotional beings. I mean how do we explain men crying when they loose Money, or even show other emotions like anger and so on? I'm just thinking

    • @ifeoluwaodedina1794
      @ifeoluwaodedina1794 3 года назад +1

      Those feelings you mentioned are practical emotions. They are direct reactions to clear circumstances. Women go much deeper into their emotions and have more complex feelings which they often express indirectly.

  • @elizabethoyinbo3614
    @elizabethoyinbo3614 3 года назад

    God bless you sir

  • @tomilolaadeoye-phillips3924
    @tomilolaadeoye-phillips3924 2 года назад +1

    i dont know if you take questions... but im really curious about something you just said about women putting every wrong their man does in one box and when her stress is high she unleashes it disregarding the most recent issues while men are forward thinking.... so how does one deal with an exception where the man is actually the one that is past oriented and digs up stuff everytime theres an issue, should it be to fill his emotional tank too? or help his work life?

  • @adepejutomison3230
    @adepejutomison3230 3 года назад

    Super blessed

  • @thandosekabwesha4226
    @thandosekabwesha4226 3 года назад

    🙂🙂 amen

  • @melissaiyamu2832
    @melissaiyamu2832 3 года назад

    Am blessed Sir

  • @hosannasamuel9903
    @hosannasamuel9903 3 года назад

    Wonderful insight.
    Pls sir what's the name of the book that Pastor Mildred read?

  • @homsielvire8524
    @homsielvire8524 3 года назад +2

    😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂, I see myself ooooo

    • @Cersebysharwyne
      @Cersebysharwyne 3 года назад

      Am just seeing myself in here 🤣🤣🤣

    • @roselineagbaje2632
      @roselineagbaje2632 3 года назад

      Am just so laughing out loud...pastor K nailed it. And am learning so fast here. Lord help me to have a better marriage.

  • @morinomopariola
    @morinomopariola 3 года назад

    8:28😂😂😂😂😂😂

  • @ritaotoo9750
    @ritaotoo9750 2 года назад

    I like your teachings and coaching but l find it rude when you repeatedly say in your sessions 'l didn't have time' to go over things...
    My time is going 'l don't have time' to do a b c d.......but we have taken time to listen to you.
    Maybe find alternative ways to word it as it sounds somehow and l wonder why that is a common phrase you like to use.

    • @eluyemikemi3411
      @eluyemikemi3411 2 года назад

      Sorry hello Ma'am. You know they are invited to preach and they are allotted time to which they can't go beyond even though they would have really loved to expantiate what they want to talk about better. So when P. K says "I don't have time" it's different from "I don't have your time".

    • @ritaotoo9750
      @ritaotoo9750 2 года назад

      @@eluyemikemi3411 thanks for taking time to respond. I think he should find alternative words such as ' my time is far spent' etc

    • @belindatumwine358
      @belindatumwine358 2 года назад

      Sorry Ma'am, but I think you are reaching. Appreciate the message and move on, don't let your feelings blind you from the message because it is bigger than them. Plus it is tasking enough to prepare a sermon or... Now thinking about who will be offended by.. he said I don't have time... Not I don't have your time.

  • @davidjoel9252
    @davidjoel9252 3 года назад +1

    God Bless you Sir