the story of your dad hitting the bed and telling you to scream louder while he pretended to whoop you, had me crackin up. That's a father's love right there. what a great memory to have. thank you for sharing with us.
Thank you, Tripp. It takes courage to open up in front of thousands of people and be so vulnerable. Your story is the story of myself and many, many others. ✌🏿🖤
Courtney Taylor it’s not just for teenagers because there are few that follow my channel. It’s for everyone, straight, gay, parents whoever that’s who this is for. Had nothing at al to do with teenagers. Not sure what you got from it
"I didn't know I was gay. I was just being me". I can sooooo relate. I wanted to play double dutch with the girls. I wanted a pink outfit for Easter. I like playing with my sisters dolls more than my own toys. I loved singing & dancing. I remember getting my ass beat for kissing a boy when I was eight. My mother, along with other kids, made me feel like a freak from another planet when all I was doing was being me. To this day I still feel a sharp pain in my spirit when I hear the word "faggot" cause other kids (boys) tortured me with that. That pain really f&%ed me up emotionally.
Man this is great story!! When you said your dad was hitting the bed & told you to cry...that was the best!! A parent true love for their child. This story is heartfelt & I almost teared up. I had that Michael Jackson doll & so did other straight boys at that time. It was Michael Jackson!!! Lol. Great story man. Your heart is pure. Keep doing what you do man.
I listened to the entire video, you are amazing! Every parent that think their child maybe gay need to watch this, have to see this. It was awesome and so was your dad, I wish you could’ve had more time with him. Much love ❤️ to you wishing nothing but blessings from the Lord, peace, love and prosperity.
As always cuz, thank u for sharing; sharing your heart, your emotions, your experiences, your wisdom. You make us think. You make us feel. You make us reflect. You make us engage. You make us relate. You make a difference cuz. Thank God for you.💙💙💙
****TEARS**** Watching this I cannot help but get emotional. All I will humbly convey is this: I remember.... Tripp: I love you. Thank you! Thank you! Tears....
Once again, thank you for sharing. 🙏🏾💛 There is much strength in vulnerability and openness. I know for many hearing ‘I love you’ from random strangers may be strange and uncomfortable, but I love you. It’s that Soul love. ☺️
Your father was a blessing and very special indeed. I know we give kudos to the moms, but when you have a man in your life that loves unconditionally such as this it is truly wonderful.💙💙💙
Tripp, thank you for validating how I have chosen to react to questions and statements made my son. He questioned his sexuality largely due to interactions with a certain female some months ago. And that initial question and fright he expressed not knowing what he felt towards a male, was terrifying for him to say the least. So I literally stated, no matter the outcome, mommy I loves you and let's talk about this more. I am a firm believer in talking things through and it allowed my baby boy, who is 17 to feel comfortable enough to share his confusion. Several months have now passed and although he may still be a bit unsure, I breathe easy knowing that I didn't handle the matter like how my mom handled me when she knew I was being courted by a female. And to this day. I find regret in choosing to make my family happy as opposed to myself. Anywho, I digress, thank you endlessly for being raw, uncut and plain ole honest, a rarity on these public platforms now adays. May you find happiness, be loved and love abundantly. Tye
Cuzzo Tripp😩Man I Love You So Much From The Bottom Of My Heart💖 I Dealt With The Same Situations That You Explained In This Story Time❗And Whats Crazy Is My Dad Told Me He Always Knew From Age 2 That I Was Different And Wasn't Gonna Be Like Everyone Else Because He Was The Same Way At One Point.
Damm Trip thats so sad to hear u lost your Pops so young, he sounds like a beautifulll person who loved & accepted you uncondtionally as his son but also cool that he still guidiing you as he lives in your heart forever bro
I think some parents get pressured by other family members and society to try and suppress because they are saying things about their kids and in a way they feel some type of embarrassment. That is just so sad! All that hitting little boys and punching them is just too much. All kids don't need that and they wonder why a lot of these kids grow up with so much aggression and feel that is the only way to get results. The cycle just continues and they subconsciously pass down and do the same things with their kids.
This video was Heart Moving to me, Tripp...You are one who doesn’t follow, but is a leader of his own life. There are many who needs to see this video...
Man, your story made my viewing this like being on a roller coaster - I shed so many tears from both the deep dive of sadness and the thrill of seeing the revelation that there is happiness. Today you sit before us as an amazing grown man having gone through the some of the most difficult and wrong crap. I know what you mean when you say that you were just a kid. Like you I was just a kid who didn’t do all the stuff that most of the other boys were interested in doing. I could do sports but I wasn’t into sports like the other boys. I eventually realize just like you that people around me looked at me different, but of course all was unspoken. I’m so grateful that I was able to move beyond the pain of those growing up years. I want to support any kid being able to just be a kid, and having the freedom to discover who he/she is and the life that will bring them joy and happiness. Thank you for sharing this moment, and for again giving this grown man renewed strength and hope for a better world. Love you, Cousin Tripp.
Heyy Tripp.. Thanks for what you share on this channel. I have needed a good laugh and to expand my thinking on some of the topics you've shared. I love you and this channel for that very reason. The live was great. #YouRock #Salute
I'm my dad's only child. I know deep down he don't want me to be gay but he loves me unconditionally. Ali we both are blessed. I'm sorry for the loss of your dad.
I have been following this dude right here for some time now an it’s the first time that am speechless,I just had to comment bro....... your so special an spectacular and mind blowing.....keep inspiring Bro.... this is me sending send my unconditional love from the side..
Through the mist of sadness, the most high was still there..It could have went a lot ways but he kept his hands on you..Your dad was an amazing man and I’m sure you are very grateful..This video brought up a lot of old wounds for me..we as blk ppl truly need therapy ..if we don’t take time to invest in a good therapist, we will continue to repeat these detrimental paths.. For me, weight was and still is my struggle..I used weight to mask who I was and to this day I still struggle with it..I thought that fatter I was the less people would focus on me but it only made it worse..unlike you I didn’t have a good father in my life so I had to figure things out for myself..my life is not the best but in the mist of it, I’m still here healthy and maintaining..keep putting out the videos ❤️❤️❤️❤️
So, so, Powerful!!!.. Thank you, for your Truth. This was from the heart, and it was heart felt. God Bless You, This needs to be Shared on All platforms. Love you Cousin!🙏🏽☮️♥️
Thanks for pouring your heart out for us on this one , I watch you religiously man , But after the video that I saw today with you and the tub talk I decided that I have to make it my business to comment and not just look and press like because if you could keep it 100 with us and be vulnerable with the whole world who u don’t even know I could take my time out and comment, And furthermore I know if it was something negative I would have had a whole mouthful to say , so am going start being more active because we out here man , one family for real ✊🏾.. I truly appreciate the fact that you always keep it in mature and talking about serious stuff and not know pranks and a whole set of jokey B.S .. I just want to say I am so sorry and my condolences to your dad I am sorry you lost Such a great parent like that at such a young age and was left to fend for yourself, I am happy and proud of you for making it through all those trial and tribulations... I just find it really crazy that someone who brought us into this world could not love us because of our sexual orientation or even who we choose to love..
I feel you are doing exactly what God would have you do. In this one video you have imparted so much insight and wisdom amidst the sea of idiocy. Thank you for being strong enough to tell the truth despite the negativity that may come with it. You are doing good. Thank you. P.S. Your Dad was awesome.
It’s the worst feeling when You family members make You feel like You embarrass them. As far as I’m concerned, they do not exist. It’s hurtful, but I know I have a broader extended family outside!!! Learned this as I matured.
Your Dad gave u unconditional love as my Dad and Mom gave me and once you have experienced that kind of love everything else seems to insufficient ...some wise soul told me that's why its hard for me to find a love that is fulfilling....
Bravo!!! Bravo! I say again that you are an excellent story teller. My dad was also like yours in a way. I didn’t realize that until listening to you. Continue the great delivery of your work. 👍🏻👍🏻👍🏻
Tripp (Ali), this whole video was so "therapeutic". I could only wish that I had something like this back to view when I was growing up. Your story parallel mine's and so many others... You are saving lives... Just by doing what you do. That's your purpose. And, your Dad is looking down and seeing all that you are doing. The way you described your parents is almost the same as my parents. I never got any whippings from them with regards to my gayness and that was because I basically stayed to myself, in order, to avoid any whippings and criticism and along with staying away from the so call bullies and predators that were roaming around. Thank you, Tripp, for taking me back in time and with reflecting on that time that took place in my childhood. A lot of it I can put to rest and move forward now. Just knowing that you were "not" the only one out there going through such, makes a world of a difference. Now, I have a gay child... She a beautiful girl and daughter. And, let me tell you, you would think that it would be easy to let her go ahead and be gay. BUT It's still hard. I have been on BOTH sides of the fence and knows (e.g. straight and gay) each sides augments. It doesn't get any easier. Nevertheless, I love my daughter with all my heart and still one of her biggest fans and supporters.
Thank you so much for sharing your story and also pointing out that even though when we are kids that we aren't out of touch with who we are and we definitely know it's something different about us. I always knew ever since I was younger that I was going to be different. I may not have had the words for it but! I knew it was something different about me. I came out finally at 21 or 22 to my mother and it literally was the scariest thing I had to do. She wasn't homophobic or anything but I didn't expect her to be supportive finding out her oldest of 6 kids is Gay. She's cool with it and just wishes happiness for me. My dad is ok with it too but he did tell me it's going to be a little tough to bite for him. Either way, nobody treated me any different after hearing the news. So I'm blessed and fortunate to be one of the Lucky ones, thank god. Once again thanks for sharing. 😃
This one was heavy. I wholeheartedly appreciate you sharing the lessons of your life journey. I would pay for the moments you've had with your father. He sounds like a gift that continues to bless people through you and what you are doing. Much respect.
Such a touching story. Thanks so much for sharing it with us. Tripp, I'm still waiting on that book to drop. I hope you incorporated this story in it. Your book is going to be HOT!!!!!
I wasn’t planning on watching the whole episode tonight but your story just grabbed me and kept me. It touched me deeply and brought me to tears. Your parents are supposed to be your advocate as well as your caretaker and provider and Dwayne Wade is the Advocate for Zaya and if we had more parents as advocates, the world would be a better place. I’m thankful that for the short time you had your dad, he was that advocate for you. I know he’s proud of you now. Thank you for sharing your story and while i support Zaya already, you helped me have even more empathy & respect for her. Thank you for that. “May U Live 2 see the Dawn” - Prince
Felt this whole video this video hit home so much omg I also got hit in the chest by older cousin and I had asthma at the time I almost died and my dad was the same way I miss him dearly R.i.p pops 💔😢 he died when I was 11
Cousin Tripp I really enjoy your channel. I enjoy the laughs we have on here. I enjoy these serious conversations that we have on here. I've said it before you have a voice that needs to be heard. Keep up the great work Favorite Cousin.
I feel ya Cuz. I grew up with a similar story and around the same time. My mother was not like that as much as a lot of other family members were. A lot of people in my hood made sure that I did "boy" things. Probably the reason that I'm probably not as feminine. Like I always say I've been called names because of my race color and sexuality and guess what? Different prejudices but they all hurt the same
Watched the video again. I wanted He Man for Christmas I didn't get it the year I asked for it. Mom told me Santa 🎅 said he ran out of He Man 😂 I eventually did get my He Man but we had to share and my brother always had the He Man. That Michael Jackson doll was the ish back in the day! Great vid Ali 👍
This was the best video I’ve seen in a long time ❤❤. I’m 66 and my parents divorced when I was 6. Didn’t see my father again till I was 18. If only I had you when I was a kid to hear this message. My Dad was Tripper Ali. Thank you
Cried twice while driving to work. I had to stop the video at 38:26 mark. I can't cry a third time then be around ppl with my eyes red. This story touched my soul. I will watch the remaining later...😢❤
Honestly I just wanted to give you the BIGGEST hug I could after I saw this video. I'll have to settle for giving you a virtual hug. Thanks for sharing!! Your Dad sounds like a very WISE man. And I agree that Dwayne and Gabrielle are AMAZING parents and their daughter is soooo impressive.
Ali: Thank you so much for sharing your story. What a beautiful story. I Appreciate you opening up and showing us an even more beautiful, sweet, venerable side of you. It is so beautiful to relate too, because you are beautiful inside and out. I truly see that you love and you love hard. A fathers love for his son. Your story spoke to the inner young boy in me. Thank you Ali, Thank you
Cousin sorry for the long comments but this is really close to my heart. I remember when my dad was gone from me,and wishing for him everyday for years. Hearing negative comments from my mom and her side of my family wondering if I did something wrong and why he wouldn't come for me. Children get their identity from their fathers without my dad who am I?!!!
That was very heartfelt! I really appreciate you sharing your experience with the world. You are right having supportive parents that love you make all the difference in a child’s life. For me I had both my parents and grandparents. Now that I am older I cherish those moments and those relationships. Having a father figure in your life is so extremely important for children. My dad’s love and support has gotten me through the most difficult moments in my life. People have to love and accept their children because the world will definitely take advantage of the weak.
Your Kids come from you, BUT they Are NOT YOU!!! RESPECT IT!!! Cause you are the Parent doesnt mean you are right all the time or can't LEARN SOMETHING FROM YOUR KIDS!!! I LEARNED THAT THE HARD WAY, BUT IM GLAD I LEARNED IT!!!!!
Great story about the Michael doll! I would have traded my Leggos for that Mattel Easy Bake Oven back in Cleveland in 1970. Even then we gay boys were still about about the cakes RIght?! I love your authenticity! Keep up the great work!
Sometimes God gives us what we need, even though God allows it to be taken away from us sooner than we would like. If we believe God has a purpose for our lives, then we have to keep the faith that the pain we experience (if we allow ourselves to be healed) will one day be the strength we need for the purpose of our lives. Thanks for sharing.
Outstanding! I understand your story, I learned so much about you and your story conveys clearly that you are able to access your inner gifts and share your unique self. I will be 54 soon and I have learned that our own truth is powerful, hats off to you. I am so sorry for your loss; even though it happened when you were 11, I know personally the sting of this loss, huge hugs, Most sincerely, Royce.
Tripp, thank u for ur transparency....we need ur truth so much...I am so sorry for ur loss of ur Dad at such a young age & when u needed him most...thank u for sharing so much of ur life with us, I just recently discovered ur podcasts...sometimes u have me CTFU/sometimes crying...bruh u are a gift...we are so honored....
Did you ever think about she wanted you to be tough because she knew you were gay and you were going to have to go through a lot and face a lot? As a mother myself I would never want my child to hurt and that's probably what your mother thought about a lot knowing you were going to have a lot of challenges being a gay black man.
Bro u had me crying bro.... I wish I had this I really didn't from both sides and growing up in the Caribbean where everybody business is everybody else's business it really hurt me so I'm glad to hear this side that there is hope for these kids God bless cuz ❤️🥺
Well,you won me over on this video. You said the things I wanted to say regarding this issue. The objectivity, the tolerance and the intelligence of the blog tells me there is more to you than what you display on the surface. 10 points
You are an inspiration You rock my inner soul to the depths, it made me I was that child from Cabrini Green you are a very strong man God is moving you where he needs you to be Amen thank you for being the man you are... Wish you had an email. ✝️
Thank you Brotha Tripp, For sharing your wisdom. I believe that as gay people we all get it! That why we have so much respect for Dwayne Wade & Zaya. Thank God Dwayne Wade Has that unconditional love for his child! Living in a hyper Masculate World of Sports. It A Gift Too have such a parent!!!
Ali..that was a beautiful story of love and acceptance....ur Dad was my Dad...and u are ur Dad as i am mine...I cried the whole storytime but not out of sorrow but out of joy....
Thank you for this Trip. As you see from my picture, I'm a dad with two kids. I tried to raise them as best as I could to be their best selves, but they were sexually abused by people I trusted and physically/mentally abused by their mother. It's been awful road to their healing process, but we're working on it constantly. God bless you, man. I know your dad is proud of you as my dad is of me.
I discovered your channel today, by chance. I’m very touched by the things you say. As a gay man in my early 50s, I grew up hearing homophobic slurs from my parents, especially my mom. I grew up hiding myself and pretending I was someone else. What I’m proud about is that I never felt wrong, understanding way before sexuality , like you, that I was different and that was ok. Hearing you talking about how your father supported you really touched me. When I hear stories about parents who are supporting to their children, my heart feel sadness and joy. Thank you for sharing this, because it makes me happy. I related to what you said in many things, like when I came out to my parents I was told: “I didn’t think I had a girl, and not a son”. We often grow up trying to please and not disappoint our parents first, and the people we love or care for after. Understanding that we also have to not disappoint ourselves, is a milestone. Thanks for the love and the heart you share with your videos. 🙏🏻
This is so touching, I feel your pain. Your stories as I have said many times touch my heart. It continually wish I wad there to hold you, and let you be loved
But like I always saw in every comment I am truly praying for you cuzo! And I praying for great success and great blessing. But I understand this story all to well cuzo
I loved my Tonka Truck..And my sisters doll heads..😁 Times were so different then. They didn't know how to handle it..My mother use to punch me. And I would purposely try not to stand up because I towered over her. Oh!! But, one day she kept pushing me literally back into a closet..I ended up pushing her back down on the bed..And demanded that she stop ! Not having the right family or support is what happened to me..
douchetube onyoutube no hard feelings to you, but why where you here? You had every opportunity to move on to something else. That’s a mean thing to say..... period!
I knee at the age of 5. Not saying I was gay, but I wanted to be a boy. I wanted cars, trucks, guns. Didn’t won’t anything girly. I was into sports and loved playing with the boys. When I came out about 19, my mama used to tell me she always knew, bc I was different. But I’m glad that not only her but my daddy and family love me unconditionally. My mama would always tell everyone she has a handsome son and a beautiful daughter. She would always call me her baby girl, even when I’m dressed like a boy with a haircut. Not saying that wanted me to be gay, but they accothe fact that’s who I am. For people who think that d wade song is wanting to have sex with a boy bc he’s gay. We all had crutches when we were 4,5,6 but the thought of sex didn’t come to mind. When people don’t understand that assume and say crazy shit. In reality some people are born that way. Some girls have testosterone and some males has low testosterone. But I’ll I can say worry bout yo self and don’t judge other people. And if you do I hope someone you love deeply isn’t gay......but maybe it’ll open ur mind and heart that we are all the same,
Salute king✊🏽Your stories are touching bro. My dad passed also when I was 11. I can relate to your situation. My mother and father was Dwayne Wade. My brothers are the ones I took all of the heat from. Beat me, lied on me, pushed me to almost commit suicide. My brothers and I still do not have a bond. But through it all God made us some strong individuals as adults ✊🏽
My brother was extremely flamboyant as a child. Everyone knew he was gay. He eventually transitioned into a woman. He was a trail blazer for his time and had many of his own challenges. Growing up was hard becuase I was just being me. I probably wasn't the average boy and family members could probably tell. My parents, especially my dad tried to make sure I didn't turn out like my brother. Having a transgender brother made my experience so much harder.
Very touching....Your father seemed like a great man and you are carrying your father's legacy very well! You are a inspiration!
Yes he is .....
the story of your dad hitting the bed and telling you to scream louder while he pretended to whoop you, had me crackin up. That's a father's love right there. what a great memory to have. thank you for sharing with us.
Never underestimate the value of a supportive father.
Thank you, Tripp. It takes courage to open up in front of thousands of people and be so vulnerable. Your story is the story of myself and many, many others. ✌🏿🖤
Thank you for sharing your story. Some teenager somewhere will find this inspiring.much love to you.
Courtney Taylor it’s not just for teenagers because there are few that follow my channel. It’s for everyone, straight, gay, parents whoever that’s who this is for. Had nothing at al to do with teenagers. Not sure what you got from it
Most parents know but it's how they respond to it and nurture their child in it. Bless you, you are a beautiful soul.
"I didn't know I was gay. I was just being me". I can sooooo relate. I wanted to play double dutch with the girls. I wanted a pink outfit for Easter. I like playing with my sisters dolls more than my own toys. I loved singing & dancing. I remember getting my ass beat for kissing a boy when I was eight. My mother, along with other kids, made me feel like a freak from another planet when all I was doing was being me. To this day I still feel a sharp pain in my spirit when I hear the word "faggot" cause other kids (boys) tortured me with that. That pain really f&%ed me up emotionally.
Yea, that word "faggot" or "punk" or "sissy"... It Stills brings up fear and pain from my childhood. I basically stayed to myself and lived on the DL.
I understand your story and I know the feeling! But growing up in the projects I had to fight.
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I got called faggot and gay from grade 5 to 12. The amount of verbal abuse I endured for being myself or being different. Smh
I’m so sorry for your pain and that people treated you this way.
Man this is great story!! When you said your dad was hitting the bed & told you to cry...that was the best!! A parent true love for their child. This story is heartfelt & I almost teared up. I had that Michael Jackson doll & so did other straight boys at that time. It was Michael Jackson!!! Lol. Great story man. Your heart is pure. Keep doing what you do man.
I listened to the entire video, you are amazing! Every parent that think their child maybe gay need to watch this, have to see this. It was awesome and so was your dad, I wish you could’ve had more time with him. Much love ❤️ to you wishing nothing but blessings from the Lord, peace, love and prosperity.
Shelia Little awww thank you so much
I smiled at you really hard when you said you still want your Michael Jackson doll. I hope you one day get yo doll baby.
As always cuz, thank u for sharing; sharing your heart, your emotions, your experiences, your wisdom. You make us think. You make us feel. You make us reflect. You make us engage. You make us relate. You make a difference cuz. Thank God for you.💙💙💙
This video hit home for me and brought up emotions I thought I've gotten over... I THANK YOU FOR THIS VIDEO
A poignant, life-changing story that opens the eyes of the blind. Your heart is felt here and it is beyond all circumstances.
****TEARS**** Watching this I cannot help but get emotional. All I will humbly convey is this: I remember.... Tripp: I love you. Thank you! Thank you! Tears....
Once again, thank you for sharing. 🙏🏾💛 There is much strength in vulnerability and openness. I know for many hearing ‘I love you’ from random strangers may be strange and uncomfortable, but I love you. It’s that Soul love. ☺️
You tube is helping you tooo.... omg Bless your heart...🥺
Your father was a blessing and very special indeed. I know we give kudos to the moms, but when you have a man in your life that loves unconditionally such as this it is truly wonderful.💙💙💙
Very well said! 👍 What up El Mo! I needed to holla at you bro! Take care! 👍
@@davidtaylor8787 Sup my cuz. We need to give the bruthas their props too. Cause there are some good fathers out there
@@elmo4729 I agree with you El Mo! It's great to hear from you cousin! 👍
@@davidtaylor8787 You too man
Tripp, thank you for validating how I have chosen to react to questions and statements made my son. He questioned his sexuality largely due to interactions with a certain female some months ago. And that initial question and fright he expressed not knowing what he felt towards a male, was terrifying for him to say the least. So I literally stated, no matter the outcome, mommy I loves you and let's talk about this more. I am a firm believer in talking things through and it allowed my baby boy, who is 17 to feel comfortable enough to share his confusion. Several months have now passed and although he may still be a bit unsure, I breathe easy knowing that I didn't handle the matter like how my mom handled me when she knew I was being courted by a female. And to this day. I find regret in choosing to make my family happy as opposed to myself. Anywho, I digress, thank you endlessly for being raw, uncut and plain ole honest, a rarity on these public platforms now adays.
May you find happiness, be loved and love abundantly.
Tye
Cuzzo Tripp😩Man I Love You So Much From The Bottom Of My Heart💖 I Dealt With The Same Situations That You Explained In This Story Time❗And Whats Crazy Is My Dad Told Me He Always Knew From Age 2 That I Was Different And Wasn't Gonna Be Like Everyone Else Because He Was The Same Way At One Point.
Tripp...THANK YOU!!! You help people. Don't stop! ❤
Damm Trip thats so sad to hear u lost your Pops so young, he sounds like a beautifulll person who loved & accepted you uncondtionally as his son but also cool that he still guidiing you as he lives in your heart forever bro
I think some parents get pressured by other family members and society to try and suppress because they are saying things about their kids and in a way they feel some type of embarrassment. That is just so sad! All that hitting little boys and punching them is just too much. All kids don't need that and they wonder why a lot of these kids grow up with so much aggression and feel that is the only way to get results. The cycle just continues and they subconsciously pass down and do the same things with their kids.
This video was Heart Moving to me, Tripp...You are one who doesn’t follow, but is a leader of his own life. There are many who needs to see this video...
Awwwww... this is a beautiful story of you and your father.. I'm just listening and smiling.😊😊😊
Man, your story made my viewing this like being on a roller coaster - I shed so many tears from both the deep dive of sadness and the thrill of seeing the revelation that there is happiness. Today you sit before us as an amazing grown man having gone through the some of the most difficult and wrong crap. I know what you mean when you say that you were just a kid. Like you I was just a kid who didn’t do all the stuff that most of the other boys were interested in doing. I could do sports but I wasn’t into sports like the other boys. I eventually realize just like you that people around me looked at me different, but of course all was unspoken. I’m so grateful that I was able to move beyond the pain of those growing up years. I want to support any kid being able to just be a kid, and having the freedom to discover who he/she is and the life that will bring them joy and happiness. Thank you for sharing this moment, and for again giving this grown man renewed strength and hope for a better world. Love you, Cousin Tripp.
I love you cuz... virgo power!!! I felt the same way.. 💯💯💯👍🏽👍🏽👍🏽
Heyy Tripp.. Thanks for what you share on this channel. I have needed a good laugh and to expand my thinking on some of the topics you've shared. I love you and this channel for that very reason. The live was great. #YouRock #Salute
I'm my dad's only child. I know deep down he don't want me to be gay but he loves me unconditionally. Ali we both are blessed. I'm sorry for the loss of your dad.
I have been following this dude right here for some time now an it’s the first time that am speechless,I just had to comment bro....... your so special an spectacular and mind blowing.....keep inspiring Bro.... this is me sending send my unconditional love from the side..
I appreciate that so much
Omg Cuzz you have me in tears my Dad was the same way, LOVING!!! I MISS HIM. DAMN CUZ GREAT STORY!!
Through the mist of sadness, the most high was still there..It could have went a lot ways but he kept his hands on you..Your dad was an amazing man and I’m sure you are very grateful..This video brought up a lot of old wounds for me..we as blk ppl truly need therapy ..if we don’t take time to invest in a good therapist, we will continue to repeat these detrimental paths.. For me, weight was and still is my struggle..I used weight to mask who I was and to this day I still struggle with it..I thought that fatter I was the less people would focus on me but it only made it worse..unlike you I didn’t have a good father in my life so I had to figure things out for myself..my life is not the best but in the mist of it, I’m still here healthy and maintaining..keep putting out the videos ❤️❤️❤️❤️
I understand the point people need to love their kids for who they are,find out and have a relationship with them!!!
So, so, Powerful!!!.. Thank you, for your Truth. This was from the heart, and it was heart felt. God Bless You, This needs to be Shared on All platforms. Love you Cousin!🙏🏽☮️♥️
Thanks for pouring your heart out for us on this one , I watch you religiously man , But after the video that I saw today with you and the tub talk I decided that I have to make it my business to comment and not just look and press like because if you could keep it 100 with us and be vulnerable with the whole world who u don’t even know I could take my time out and comment, And furthermore I know if it was something negative I would have had a whole mouthful to say , so am going start being more active because we out here man , one family for real ✊🏾.. I truly appreciate the fact that you always keep it in mature and talking about serious stuff and not know pranks and a whole set of jokey B.S .. I just want to say I am so sorry and my condolences to your dad I am sorry you lost Such a great parent like that at such a young age and was left to fend for yourself, I am happy and proud of you for making it through all those trial and tribulations... I just find it really crazy that someone who brought us into this world could not love us because of our sexual orientation or even who we choose to love..
I feel you are doing exactly what God would have you do. In this one video you have imparted so much insight and wisdom amidst the sea of idiocy. Thank you for being strong enough to tell the truth despite the negativity that may come with it. You are doing good. Thank you. P.S. Your Dad was awesome.
It’s the worst feeling when You family members make You feel like You embarrass them. As far as I’m concerned, they do not exist. It’s hurtful, but I know I have a broader extended family outside!!! Learned this as I matured.
Your Dad gave u unconditional love as my Dad and Mom gave me and once you have experienced that kind of love everything else seems to insufficient ...some wise soul told me that's why its hard for me to find a love that is fulfilling....
Wow! One day you are going to be a remarkable Dad!! I can see it!
You were so fortunate to have a father that unconditionally loving and accepting. Such a beautiful blessing..
Bravo!!! Bravo! I say again that you are an excellent story teller. My dad was also like yours in a way. I didn’t realize that until listening to you. Continue the great delivery of your work. 👍🏻👍🏻👍🏻
Tripp (Ali), this whole video was so "therapeutic". I could only wish that I had something like this back to view when I was growing up. Your story parallel mine's and so many others... You are saving lives... Just by doing what you do. That's your purpose. And, your Dad is looking down and seeing all that you are doing. The way you described your parents is almost the same as my parents. I never got any whippings from them with regards to my gayness and that was because I basically stayed to myself, in order, to avoid any whippings and criticism and along with staying away from the so call bullies and predators that were roaming around. Thank you, Tripp, for taking me back in time and with reflecting on that time that took place in my childhood. A lot of it I can put to rest and move forward now. Just knowing that you were "not" the only one out there going through such, makes a world of a difference. Now, I have a gay child... She a beautiful girl and daughter. And, let me tell you, you would think that it would be easy to let her go ahead and be gay. BUT It's still hard. I have been on BOTH sides of the fence and knows (e.g. straight and gay) each sides augments. It doesn't get any easier. Nevertheless, I love my daughter with all my heart and still one of her biggest fans and supporters.
Thank you so much for sharing your story and also pointing out that even though when we are kids that we aren't out of touch with who we are and we definitely know it's something different about us. I always knew ever since I was younger that I was going to be different. I may not have had the words for it but! I knew it was something different about me. I came out finally at 21 or 22 to my mother and it literally was the scariest thing I had to do. She wasn't homophobic or anything but I didn't expect her to be supportive finding out her oldest of 6 kids is Gay. She's cool with it and just wishes happiness for me. My dad is ok with it too but he did tell me it's going to be a little tough to bite for him. Either way, nobody treated me any different after hearing the news. So I'm blessed and fortunate to be one of the Lucky ones, thank god. Once again thanks for sharing. 😃
I really just want to hug....you. frfr🥺
Wow I remember the Michael Jackson doll my male cousin had it and he's not gay. Thanks for sharing favorite cousin. Keep teaching CUZZO 👍
Thank you for sharing your story it somewhat remind me of my up bringing. Blessings to you!
This one was heavy. I wholeheartedly appreciate you sharing the lessons of your life journey. I would pay for the moments you've had with your father. He sounds like a gift that continues to bless people through you and what you are doing. Much respect.
This was so powerful Cuzzin. We need to share this with DWade..
Such a touching story. Thanks so much for sharing it with us. Tripp, I'm still waiting on that book to drop. I hope you incorporated this story in it. Your book is going to be HOT!!!!!
I wasn’t planning on watching the whole episode tonight but your story just grabbed me and kept me. It touched me deeply and brought me to tears. Your parents are supposed to be your advocate as well as your caretaker and provider and Dwayne Wade is the Advocate for Zaya and if we had more parents as advocates, the world would be a better place. I’m thankful that for the short time you had your dad, he was that advocate for you. I know he’s proud of you now. Thank you for sharing your story and while i support Zaya already, you helped me have even more empathy & respect for her. Thank you for that. “May U Live 2 see the Dawn” - Prince
Felt this whole video this video hit home so much omg I also got hit in the chest by older cousin and I had asthma at the time I almost died and my dad was the same way I miss him dearly R.i.p pops 💔😢 he died when I was 11
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Cousin Tripp I really enjoy your channel. I enjoy the laughs we have on here. I enjoy these serious conversations that we have on here. I've said it before you have a voice that needs to be heard. Keep up the great work Favorite Cousin.
Tripp is so lucky to have had a father like that.
My father was/is "trash" (in my Bernadine voice from 'Waiting To Exhale').
I feel ya Cuz. I grew up with a similar story and around the same time. My mother was not like that as much as a lot of other family members were. A lot of people in my hood made sure that I did "boy" things. Probably the reason that I'm probably not as feminine. Like I always say I've been called names because of my race color and sexuality and guess what? Different prejudices but they all hurt the same
Watched the video again. I wanted He Man for Christmas I didn't get it the year I asked for it. Mom told me Santa 🎅 said he ran out of He Man 😂 I eventually did get my He Man but we had to share and my brother always had the He Man. That Michael Jackson doll was the ish back in the day! Great vid Ali 👍
This was the best video I’ve seen in a long time ❤❤. I’m 66 and my parents divorced when I was 6. Didn’t see my father again till I was 18. If only I had you when I was a kid to hear this message. My Dad was Tripper Ali. Thank you
Cuzzin', what an in depth man you are. Your transparency is astounding. Such an amazing storyteller. I felt your energy cuzzin'. #whoa 😌
Cried twice while driving to work. I had to stop the video at 38:26 mark. I can't cry a third time then be around ppl with my eyes red. This story touched my soul. I will watch the remaining later...😢❤
Honestly I just wanted to give you the BIGGEST hug I could after I saw this video. I'll have to settle for giving you a virtual hug. Thanks for sharing!! Your Dad sounds like a very WISE man. And I agree that Dwayne and Gabrielle are AMAZING parents and their daughter is soooo impressive.
I Like the way you explain things, cause you make it, make sense!! Thanks it helps me see things from another prospective!!!
I got a bit teary eyed from this video, just a bit verklempt. Your dad was AWESOME!!! 👍🏾
Awww So cool when your parent knows who you are before you even do! I think he did it cause more people were mad. he knew who you were..>Great man!
U are loved man thanks for sharing all the way from Africa keep shining
Ali: Thank you so much for sharing your story. What a beautiful story. I Appreciate you opening up and showing us an even more beautiful, sweet, venerable side of you. It is so beautiful to relate too, because you are beautiful inside and out. I truly see that you love and you love hard. A fathers love for his son. Your story spoke to the inner young boy in me. Thank you Ali, Thank you
Cousin sorry for the long comments but this is really close to my heart. I remember when my dad was gone from me,and wishing for him everyday for years. Hearing negative comments from my mom and her side of my family wondering if I did something wrong and why he wouldn't come for me. Children get their identity from their fathers without my dad who am I?!!!
Charles Brown I feel you cousin
Dammm I got to hear this when I am off of work
That was very heartfelt! I really appreciate you sharing your experience with the world. You are right having supportive parents that love you make all the difference in a child’s life. For me I had both my parents and grandparents. Now that I am older I cherish those moments and those relationships. Having a father figure in your life is so extremely important for children. My dad’s love and support has gotten me through the most difficult moments in my life. People have to love and accept their children because the world will definitely take advantage of the weak.
Cousin...you had me over here crying...and laughing... . You are great!
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The best and only love you will or has receive was the one from your own father A real man
Your Kids come from you, BUT they Are NOT YOU!!! RESPECT IT!!! Cause you are the Parent doesnt mean you are right all the time or can't LEARN SOMETHING FROM YOUR KIDS!!! I LEARNED THAT THE HARD WAY, BUT IM GLAD I LEARNED IT!!!!!
What a great man your dad was... Thank YOU for your story. Lesson Learned
Awwww once again you have shared your story and I understand my son more. I was that parent who tried to push “boy toys” . Glad I found your channel.😊
I can relate I was that kid as well
Theres a lot of us
This was beautiful. This was well done.
Cousin Tripp,
Wow, what a powerful message!
Thanks for sharing!
Love from Orlando
Great story about the Michael doll! I would have traded my Leggos for that Mattel Easy Bake Oven back in Cleveland in 1970. Even then we gay boys were still about about the cakes RIght?! I love your authenticity! Keep up the great work!
Sometimes God gives us what we need, even though God allows it to be taken away from us sooner than we would like. If we believe God has a purpose for our lives, then we have to keep the faith that the pain we experience (if we allow ourselves to be healed) will one day be the strength we need for the purpose of our lives. Thanks for sharing.
Outstanding! I understand your story, I learned so much about you and your story conveys clearly that you are able to access your inner gifts and share your unique self. I will be 54 soon and I have learned that our own truth is powerful, hats off to you. I am so sorry for your loss; even though it happened when you were 11, I know personally the sting of this loss, huge hugs, Most sincerely, Royce.
Appreciate all the stories it helps and gives courage to all us listening 💪💪
Man, you are so on point! Keep on doing what you do. God bless you my brother..............
Tripp, thank u for ur transparency....we need ur truth so much...I am so sorry for ur loss of ur Dad at such a young age & when u needed him most...thank u for sharing so much of ur life with us, I just recently discovered ur podcasts...sometimes u have me CTFU/sometimes crying...bruh u are a gift...we are so honored....
awww man thats so kind cousin, It means a lot
This was really deep Unc. I appreciate you for telling this story. I wish my dad was there for me that way
Did you ever think about she wanted you to be tough because she knew you were gay and you were going to have to go through a lot and face a lot? As a mother myself I would never want my child to hurt and that's probably what your mother thought about a lot knowing you were going to have a lot of challenges being a gay black man.
Powerful moving narrative of your journey as a young man 🙏🏾🕊🙏🏾 thank you for teaching through your courage and precious vulnerabilities🙏🏾🕊🙏🏾
I appreciate you
Bro u had me crying bro.... I wish I had this I really didn't from both sides and growing up in the Caribbean where everybody business is everybody else's business it really hurt me so I'm glad to hear this side that there is hope for these kids God bless cuz ❤️🥺
Well,you won me over on this video. You said the things I wanted to say regarding this issue. The objectivity, the tolerance and the intelligence of the blog tells me there is more to you than what you display on the surface. 10 points
You are an inspiration
You rock my inner soul to the depths, it made me I was that child from Cabrini Green you are a very strong man God is moving you where he needs you to be Amen thank you for being the man you are...
Wish you had an email. ✝️
Thank you Brotha Tripp, For sharing your wisdom. I believe that as gay people we all get it! That why we have so much respect for Dwayne Wade & Zaya. Thank God Dwayne Wade Has that unconditional love for his child! Living in a hyper Masculate World of Sports. It A Gift Too have such a parent!!!
Thank you
Ali..that was a beautiful story of love and acceptance....ur Dad was my Dad...and u are ur Dad as i am mine...I cried the whole storytime but not out of sorrow but out of joy....
Thank you for this Trip. As you see from my picture, I'm a dad with two kids. I tried to raise them as best as I could to be their best selves, but they were sexually abused by people I trusted and physically/mentally abused by their mother. It's been awful road to their healing process, but we're working on it constantly. God bless you, man. I know your dad is proud of you as my dad is of me.
I discovered your channel today, by chance. I’m very touched by the things you say. As a gay man in my early 50s, I grew up hearing homophobic slurs from my parents, especially my mom. I grew up hiding myself and pretending I was someone else. What I’m proud about is that I never felt wrong, understanding way before sexuality , like you, that I was different and that was ok. Hearing you talking about how your father supported you really touched me. When I hear stories about parents who are supporting to their children, my heart feel sadness and joy. Thank you for sharing this, because it makes me happy. I related to what you said in many things, like when I came out to my parents I was told: “I didn’t think I had a girl, and not a son”. We often grow up trying to please and not disappoint our parents first, and the people we love or care for after. Understanding that we also have to not disappoint ourselves, is a milestone. Thanks for the love and the heart you share with your videos. 🙏🏻
I'm so sorry you lost your amazing father ar such a young age 😔. I'm glad you knew he loved you unconditionally for who you are before he passed.
This is so touching, I feel your pain. Your stories as I have said many times touch my heart. It continually wish I wad there to hold you, and let you be loved
But like I always saw in every comment I am truly praying for you cuzo! And I praying for great success and great blessing. But I understand this story all to well cuzo
You brought up a good point. I didn't think about the fact that she don't have the kids!
I loved my Tonka Truck..And my sisters doll heads..😁 Times were so different then. They didn't know how to handle it..My mother use to punch me. And I would purposely try not to stand up because I towered over her. Oh!! But, one day she kept pushing me literally back into a closet..I ended up pushing her back down on the bed..And demanded that she stop ! Not having the right family or support is what happened to me..
douchetube onyoutube no hard feelings to you, but why where you here? You had every opportunity to move on to something else. That’s a mean thing to say..... period!
I knee at the age of 5. Not saying I was gay, but I wanted to be a boy. I wanted cars, trucks, guns. Didn’t won’t anything girly. I was into sports and loved playing with the boys. When I came out about 19, my mama used to tell me she always knew, bc I was different. But I’m glad that not only her but my daddy and family love me unconditionally. My mama would always tell everyone she has a handsome son and a beautiful daughter. She would always call me her baby girl, even when I’m dressed like a boy with a haircut. Not saying that wanted me to be gay, but they accothe fact that’s who I am. For people who think that d wade song is wanting to have sex with a boy bc he’s gay. We all had crutches when we were 4,5,6 but the thought of sex didn’t come to mind. When people don’t understand that assume and say crazy shit. In reality some people are born that way. Some girls have testosterone and some males has low testosterone. But I’ll I can say worry bout yo self and don’t judge other people. And if you do I hope someone you love deeply isn’t gay......but maybe it’ll open ur mind and heart that we are all the same,
Salute king✊🏽Your stories are touching bro. My dad passed also when I was 11. I can relate to your situation. My mother and father was Dwayne Wade. My brothers are the ones I took all of the heat from. Beat me, lied on me, pushed me to almost commit suicide. My brothers and I still do not have a bond. But through it all God made us some strong individuals as adults ✊🏽
My brother was extremely flamboyant as a child. Everyone knew he was gay. He eventually transitioned into a woman. He was a trail blazer for his time and had many of his own challenges. Growing up was hard becuase I was just being me. I probably wasn't the average boy and family members could probably tell. My parents, especially my dad tried to make sure I didn't turn out like my brother. Having a transgender brother made my experience so much harder.
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