Let me get this straight. He lied about name, allegedly gave the woman at the beach his number and was living it up without his wedding ring and wifey standing next to him proud. Lol okay! He may have NOT slept with the woman in the video but he definitely ain’t no stranger to full on cheating on his wife. That marriage is being held together for the sake of kids as far as I can see. She’s married to him but he clearly for the streets.
@@samlocoaa1726 She'd probably rather be than have this man for a husband. Many women have more self-respect than to accept any man just to be able to say they have one.
Like red flags she didn’t have my number and if so it was a fake number I gave her my name if so it wasn’t my real name I had time to pose for a picture but it was innocent 😇 oh I have a wife and rather do that with her instead but I did a lot with another girl
i pray he doesnt cheat again.... god change anything.... i dont want to see mariages and parents falling apart.... i know how it is to grow up with a single mother and its not pretty..... this is a beautiful black couple and we have to praay for them to stay together
Yes! he definitely has cheated before. And she’s making excuses for him. Talking about I know what kind of man I married. He’s not a cheater. As soon as she said that, he started drinking his drink. Then he side eyed her like that’s what she thinks. From 3:03 until 4:08. He is very deceitful in his action and in his ways. The film doesn’t lie 😏
He’s DEFINITELY cheated before and is currently cheating. This is a classic case of Never give up more that you’re willing to lose; meaning he’s the type of dude who will LIE and DENY until he’s caught in the act. And even despite him being caught ON CAMERA playing and holding hands with another woman, he STILL denied it and said “it’s not what it looks like. And he tried to make it seem ok because he didn’t have sex with her. The way he dismissed her very valid feelings of hurt (due to his blatant disrespect) and down played his flagrant cheating actions is Absolutely DISGUSTING! 🤮 The sarcastic faces that he was making throughout the video like his wife is getting on his nerves is all characteristic of a 🗣NARCISSIST!!! We all know men can’t take things like this being done to them. The young lady who was looking for him was telling the truth! He did give her his number, but of course he denied that because she misplaced it. I pray that the wife leaves him. GOD bless her. He will pay for his actions!
@@chrisestelle9825 • I mean for her to go on social media when there are LITERALLY MILLIONS AND MILLIONS OF MEN OUT HERE. And she was in Miami. I Just can’t see someone on social media checking for a guy unless they slept together and once she realized he gave her the wrong number and possibly married oh yeah she was out to show him if you’re married ? Boom!💥
@@savannahtalbert4221 exactly. She was big mad. I think it was much more than what she said. She gave up the cookies to a person that gave her the wrong # and name. How you lose a number on your cell phone? She just had the wrong # and name. Lol some females are scandalous.
@@brighteyes3445 How is SHE scandalous ? He is the one who is married , he is the one who was lying to her AND to his wife , he is the one that cheated , he is the one who broke their marriage vows , he is the one who gave out his number , he is the one being ignorant , disrespectful to his wife during this interview , rolling his eyes , dismissing her feelings etc yet somehow you ignore all of that and then insult the innocent victim of his lies and try to shame her . smdh
He knows his wife is too good for him. Jokers like that want to tie the woman down with babies, as a way to keep her stuck. Wifey deserves better and even with 4 kids you are worth so much more.
He’s a clown and he looks guilty, he should’ve publicly apologized to his wife right then and there too and she should’ve left him- that’s embarrassing!
She’s a good Wife because I don’t play like that. He didn’t have no business touching that girl PERIOD!!! It’s disrespectful and it’s cheating to me because a married man don’t have no business touching any woman like that unless she’s his wife!🤡💩
Exactly!!! Finally somebody commenting with some logic. What if she had called that number and hooked up with him later like he wanted? It would be a DNA test… and the wife would be assisting him with child support payments. He cheated when he tried to meet with her later.
Exactly. He's a fking clown my husband would never n thats on Mary's lamb o would have gave him the business.. literally ion play those games .. no sir
Exactly he entertained that woman too much for me now the other thing to look at too is he got caught on this encounter don't think this the first time he's done it
He sitting up there agreeing like he didn't know what he did was wrong. He held her hand and stuff. "I POSED FOR THE PICTURE, NOT THE CAMERA." UM WHAT?? 👀 I gotta go.👋🏾🤣🤣
They both sat up there like goofies. He knew what he was doing and so did she. 🙄 She's obviously trying to CONVINCE herself that she didn't marry a cheater because that's Definitely what she's feeling....
@@britlowkey8053 Yeah seems like we've all been there. It's a terrible feeling. Especially when you don't want to believe it but you already know what's going on.
@@Beautywithbribri right I feel like if that young woman was ready to give it to him,he wouldn't have turned her down... I feel like he has cheated before cause all that sneaky smirking he was doing was strange. it read through to me like yesss I got this she doesn't know what I've already done!!! I'm sorry dude is alil weird!!
…if you came into the water after her, this means you’re pursuing her. My beautiful sister who is a mother of 4, DON’T believe the “it ain’t what it seems.” With that, I salute you for being willing to fight for your life you’ve built. And I pray God restores what’s been compromised. Also, I get comedic relief is a real thing but bruh, now is not the time. You need to be on your Kanye tip right now - proving to that beautiful woman AND YOURSELF how YOU see the errors in your actions and solid plans to make sure it never happens again with the balls to at least say goodbye before she gets another text about infidelity. 🧘🏾♀️🧘🏾♀️🧘🏾♀️
Right because being with the man who embarrassed you on social media isn’t belittling lmao. People are just so blind. Men are allowed to treat women however they want. Idiots. Everyone lol
His wife is gorgeous...and you can tell she's a good woman too..which the no good ones always end up with a good woman🤦🏽♀️...but listen ladies...as women..we have to stop making excuses for these men just because we "love" them...like she said..had it been the other way around he would've flipped..probably would've left her and said she's for the streets...🙄 he ain't had no business playing on his wife top like that..he should've immediately told ol girl he was married..he had no business touching her or hugging her...he was tooo quick to disrespect his wife..so that makes me think he's cheated before..like I said ladies..stop making excuses for these men..now the wife dun excused this behavior...he do something else a lil worse..she gon excuse that too after prayer...smh🤦🏽♀️
yeah cheating isnt good.... but its not just with men or not just with women, lust is something that is taking over the whole world right now, but yeah theyre married i do want them to get back together especially since they have kids..... im praying for them because i dont want to see any kids with single mothers
Yes! he definitely has cheated before. And she’s making excuses for him. Talking about I know what kind of man I married. He’s not a cheater. As soon as she said that, he started drinking his drink. Then he side eyed her like that’s what she thinks. From 3:03 until 4:08. He is very deceitful in his action and in his ways. The film doesn’t lie 😏
He's definitely cheated on her and she probably made it easy for him to do so, cause she "trusts him". Trusting your man, does NOT mean he's trustworthy!!!! His type cheats the worst!!! Married men cheat more than anyone.
He wasn’t wearing his wedding in that video, now sitting next to his wife he has it on 🤦🏾♀️ Oh please… I love the way both women respected each other regardless what happened…
You know it's really terrible that the wife had to go through that and the embarrassment of seeing her husband on a Tik-Tok video for the world to see his dog as ways. For her to say that it's not cheating is insane to me. It won't be long till he'll go to the next level. Women know that you are beautiful and that you are loved and don't feel like you need to have someone so bad in your life that you would accept anything from anybody even your own husband.
I think that you guys have the wrong idea about cheating. Cheating is not just sexual, it's anytime someone actively pursues the company of someone else, outside their marriage then it's cheating with the intentions of spending time with that person is indeed cheating. Sex is a byproduct of cheating. Never get it twisted.
@@Jadeisacolortoo I implore you to look up the word cheating. Although certain things lead to cheating. It’s not cheating until you engage in sexual activities.
The question is: Why would he go and introduce himself, have his arm around her, play in the water and hold hands with her? Look at the definitions of intention and cheater, below. Intention definition ~ A thing intended, an aim or plan. Cheater definition~ A person who acts dishonestly in order to gain an advantage. Either way, his actions are speaking loudly. He got caught, that is why he keeps bringing up the camera. It really doesn’t matter if someone were filming or not. That is irrelevant. You were exposed for your part that you played.
I'm sorry but his background actions are speaking VOLUMES 😩 I don't know this girl, but I definitely know she deserves so much better. That bullshit would've been a deal breaker for me. Know your worth beautiful ❤️
Sis he a single man with kids when he’s alone or out of town. Wife girl don’t be so quick to brush off the disrespect that was beyond unnecessary just bc he saw a beautiful thick women in the water alone. His whole demeanor is some bs
Unfortunately his wife is trying her hardest to find some little loop hole of an excuse to justify what happened for everybody to see. I can handle a lot of things in life but one thing no counseling, prayer, yoga, acupuncture will ever help me to “evolve from” is insulting my intelligence. 🙄🙄
Fr! Others may say I’m wrong but I am not okaying a trip to a thirst trap place for my husband to go without me. It’s like a set up for failure. Everyone can say you’re suppose to trust but if you keep going to that weed/crack house, You gon smoke, Stay away period😂
Spot on. Either she stay with him just for the kid's sake, or, she leave his cheating ass. He's a narcissist and she doesn't even know it. The worst kinds.😖
So, you think SHE lied?! The husband who was all hugged up on some random woman when his wife is not around should be trusted but not the innocent woman who says he gave her his number?!? Ok. Wake up! He’s a cheater!!
This breaks my heart. This is his first time getting caught. He moved so smoothly on the beach that day because he’s had practice. And why didn’t she have his “real name”? If you’re giving out fake names, hand cradling a stranger, hugging chest open a stranger and not wearing your ring… it’s because you want to be someone different in that moment. I wish the wife peace and clarity. I’d want that if this were me. Bless.
A real Man that loves his wife doesn't feel a need to put his hands on another woman .. look at how he's making faces,dude does not respect his wife & he's laughing when she said she knows she didn't marry a cheater, he's playing her!!
8,000 people aren't seeing something that wasn't happening. He was trying to get it in, stop lying. He's to cool and chill about it. Like that I've been doing it, without getting caught for a long time, cool.
It's a great pun tho... Like made up and premeditated... Good Clout!! It worked. I'm sure his girl was the one holding the camera and going in on all of us, because it work. People are getting real sick with these made up puns for likes and algorithm's.... Hey can't be mad, it worked! The proof is in the evidence; #1 she's black or mixed female!! That already right off the muscle indicates it's planned, because no black female or mixed Hispanic female gonna be this cool and chill about a gat damn thing. I've been beat up for not putting my socks in the hamper. #coloredfemalesDontPlay
I'm a man bro I'm so sorry but speaking from a male perspective. You were dead wrong thank God you have a woman of God as her rock and parents who believes in marriage. Seriously I'm hurt by your actions because I'm still not sure you recognized the damage you have done by breaking her trust. You just made your wife burden with doubt that's going to be with her for a painful period of time. Yes, both of you are smiling as that's nice to show the ordinance that you guys got it covered and not bitter. But your black queen state of mind going to be challenged immensely. I pray the counseling is a success and that trust is restored even stronger after you put in the work to reassure your wife that your eyes and heart is only for her. And you won't fall into temptation because of opportunity. For if we continue to feed the flesh above our spirit we will fall. Trust facts, the devil will gladly sever you that meal of the flesh only to rob you of everything God gave you like your wife and family. You can break the pattern that allowed you to find yourself down this ugly path. And know anything that you won't be comfortable doing in the presents of your Queen. Is something that you shouldn't partake in.
Sadly she just gave her husband an excuse to push boundaries. Not holding him accountable is going to cause more problems, and speaking on his behalf wasn't a good move. She is in denial about him. Had that other woman been more persistent it would have been a different story.
Baby girl!! You gon need more then counseling. As a happily married women ain't no way will you be able to trust him ever again. especially since he's the one who initiated the encounter.
Hearing her say, "I know what type of man I married," made me cringe because I once thought that about an ex. Like everyone else is saying in the comments, this wasnt his 1st time and it won't be his last. That whole playing dumb thing on his part is just an act. I saw right through him in this 5 min video. Wifey needs to take the blinders off.
Towards the end he said that “whatever y’all go through, if y’all strong enough you can get through it” 😩🤦🏾♀️. I hate when men cheat and then say we can get through this or things along this line just to make you stay because if the shoe was on the other foot…😒
Speaking as therapist, kudos to their marriage therapist. He’s already lying, he said she didn’t have his number. But sis said they exchanged numbers, but she lost his. Reason being she posted the video. 🙄
Whatever they decide to do is their business, but what I was absolutely appalled with was HIS response on Instagram to the young woman on the beach, where he belittled her and made her out to be some desperate, unattractive, attention grabbing liar. That told me everything I would ever need to know about this “man”.
He walked into the water to introduce himself and give her his number. Holding hand's that quick and smiling big. He made excuse's the entire interview. He has cheated.
It always amazes me when a wife excuses this behaviour, defends her husband and plays it down in order to save face when it is obvious that the man was/ is up to no good. What this says to a man is that regardless of his behaviour the wife will forgive it creating an environment for more disrespectful behaviour & eventual cheating/ affair.
What screams guilty and caught in the act? The fact that his wife is doing all the talking. She doesn't want to lose what's hers, so she'd rather keep him and convince herself "if he would've wanted to cheat, he would've"
You can tell the wife is extremely insecure and still upset. Her voice is trembling. Also, what I suspect is he may be “outgrowing” his wife. This is a marriage that is on shaky ground.
As a married man he shouldn’t have taken a picture or give his number to any female. He’s facial expressions is everything. I hope he learned he’s lesson.
When Aiden said, "Honestly no" with a look like he had to think about it.....his whole body was saying, "Yes I gave that chick my phone number". Stop playing. He just didn't want to rehash that there. I think he'll come clean to the wife later on that.
This is so sad and disrespectful... on the beach arms wrapped around someone who he should have told immediately he was a married man. His wife had to tell this unsuspecting women that he was married. 😳
Marrying a cheater or a guy you didn't know was a cheater, HUGE difference. He could be completely innocent, but I hope for her sake he is and wouldn't do anything to publicly humiliate her anymore than this may have.
The sad part he still not fully admitting his infidelity. I see why she wants therapy I truly hope she gets what she needs for her marriage and her kids may it be with him or without him. I’m team wife 100%! Prayer for her and her family 🙏🏼
First and foremost, I give an applause to both of these beautiful women. They handled themselves accordingly and mature as the women they are in this matter. With that being said: I guess the the woman didn't know he was married because he definitely didn't have on his ring. I truly believe he gave his number to her because why would she take time out her day to find him on social media. My prayer is that he be honest within himself about struggling being conmitted. Your loyalty does not stop when your spouse is not in your presence. For anything, your loyalty should heighten and be more in the forefront. The fact that he's not being totally honest his actions will repeat itself. Especially, when he expressed he didn't know he was being recorded. Forget you're out in public (a beach) without your ring and your concern is being caught on camera. Lord, help him now.
BABY PLEASE! NOT A CHEATER??? OK . HE WAS TRYING TO GET BIZZY. HE BEEN OUT THE LOOP 4 SO LONG, HE DIDN'T KNOW HOW . WHO WOULD HAVE THUNK??? LADY POST HIS VIDEO??? HE MADE NO Mention of a wife for a reason.,. BLOOP
Ha! She from Detroit, the "D" and we DON'T PLAY ABOUT OUR MAN! The incident may have not gotten sexual but there was definitely flirtation and an inappropriate exchange of words for a married man!
This SHOULD serve as a lesson to married folks out there...This could have really cause the end to a marriage and for what? Know what you have at home and if it's not enough, handle things the respectful way to get out of it. Blessings...
He’s a cheater. When he does it again, he’ll try to be more slick to keep from getting caught. Also while watching the video, what was so damn funny to the wife? Every time I saw that TikTok video of him, I would’ve had to restrain myself from slapping the sh!t out of him.
He sat on camera and told a whole lie. He definitely gave her the number with the intent to hookup in Miami. Thank God she lost it. He's a cheater, and unfortunately his wife believed his lies. I'm glad they're getting counseling, but he needs to be honest.
This wasn’t his first time. He is extremely sneaking. His wife is beautiful and deserves so much more. I’m mad she interviewed tho, this man caused issues in the relationship not her smh
This is giving me Derrick Jackson vibes. We're going to counseling,we prayed about it. It wasn't what it looked like which means don't believe what your eyes can clearly see but if they like it I love it. God bless
He's probable been cheating on her for years now But he finally Got Caught . Remember what's done in the dark always come to the light and it took social media to do that.He embarrassed the Hell out of her and himself. This should let her know that he doesn't value his marriage with her. And to be honest I don't think counseling is going to work..... IJS 🤷♀️
Don’t ever listen to who a man says he is, his actions will speak for him. He was being shady on the low bc his girl wasn’t around smfh
Right! He’s literally giving out fake names while on vacation🧐 For what reasons??
Right!! Now he’s acting like she was being weird by trying to reach out .., but he did initiate and was flirtatious 🙄. Annoying
You are preaching now and so correct...
Yep
A lil to physical wit a stranger on the beach
A wife should Never have to speak on the behalf of her husband's inappropriate behavior with another woman. Especially, when caught on camera.
Exactly, he never should have gotten in the water talking and touching on the lady!
@@marshayn6358 Period!
Unfortunately that’s what women do lol always clean up the mess
Chyle.. It was giving very much Derrick Jaxn “helmet of salvation” 😭
This
He’s definitely a cheater. That was just his first time being seen with a woman on camera smh
That part
Yep
@ 3:51 He's like " Yup, she fell for it" drinks his water... thinks 💭 "this was easy"
He's definitely a cheater
I believe he cheats on her all the time. It’s just that this time it went viral.
Let me get this straight. He lied about name, allegedly gave the woman at the beach his number and was living it up without his wedding ring and wifey standing next to him proud. Lol okay! He may have NOT slept with the woman in the video but he definitely ain’t no stranger to full on cheating on his wife. That marriage is being held together for the sake of kids as far as I can see. She’s married to him but he clearly for the streets.
Imagine being caught cheating all the way across the world lol
FOR THE STREETS!!! He’s definitely community 🍆 and she appears to be just fine with it.
You must be single
@@samlocoaa1726 She'd probably rather be than have this man for a husband. Many women have more self-respect than to accept any man just to be able to say they have one.
Like red flags she didn’t have my number and if so it was a fake number I gave her my name if so it wasn’t my real name I had time to pose for a picture but it was innocent 😇 oh I have a wife and rather do that with her instead but I did a lot with another girl
He's a cheater and he's going to do it again.
Period. He gave her his number lol
Yup!
i pray he doesnt cheat again.... god change anything.... i dont want to see mariages and parents falling apart.... i know how it is to grow up with a single mother and its not pretty..... this is a beautiful black couple and we have to praay for them to stay together
Yes! he definitely has cheated before. And she’s making excuses for him. Talking about I know what kind of man I married. He’s not a cheater. As soon as she said that, he started drinking his drink. Then he side eyed her like that’s what she thinks. From 3:03 until 4:08. He is very deceitful in his action and in his ways. The film doesn’t lie 😏
He been cheating he slick as hell or think he is
He’s DEFINITELY cheated before and is currently cheating. This is a classic case of Never give up more that you’re willing to lose; meaning he’s the type of dude who will LIE and DENY until he’s caught in the act. And even despite him being caught ON CAMERA playing and holding hands with another woman, he STILL denied it and said “it’s not what it looks like. And he tried to make it seem ok because he didn’t have sex with her. The way he dismissed her very valid feelings of hurt (due to his blatant disrespect) and down played his flagrant cheating actions is Absolutely DISGUSTING! 🤮 The sarcastic faces that he was making throughout the video like his wife is getting on his nerves is all characteristic of a 🗣NARCISSIST!!! We all know men can’t take things like this being done to them. The young lady who was looking for him was telling the truth! He did give her his number, but of course he denied that because she misplaced it. I pray that the wife leaves him. GOD bless her. He will pay for his actions!
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Yeah he going to be old and single one day and the only way he will be able to get a woman is with lots of money
You care more than his wife
AGREED
He FINALLY got caught!!!! And if you lost his number it was a sign......GET RID OF HIM!!!! HE SICKENS ME
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Thank you You lost the number for a reason God was trying to tell you something then
@@chrisestelle9825 • I mean for her to go on social media when there are LITERALLY MILLIONS AND MILLIONS OF MEN OUT HERE. And she was in Miami. I Just can’t see someone on social media checking for a guy unless they slept together and once she realized he gave her the wrong number and possibly married oh yeah she was out to show him if you’re married ? Boom!💥
@@savannahtalbert4221 exactly. She was big mad. I think it was much more than what she said. She gave up the cookies to a person that gave her the wrong # and name. How you lose a number on your cell phone? She just had the wrong # and name. Lol some females are scandalous.
@@brighteyes3445 How is SHE scandalous ? He is the one who is married , he is the one who was lying to her AND to his wife , he is the one that cheated , he is the one who broke their marriage vows , he is the one who gave out his number , he is the one being ignorant , disrespectful to his wife during this interview , rolling his eyes , dismissing her feelings etc yet somehow you ignore all of that and then insult the innocent victim of his lies and try to shame her . smdh
He knows his wife is too good for him. Jokers like that want to tie the woman down with babies, as a way to keep her stuck.
Wifey deserves better and even with 4 kids you are worth so much more.
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He certainly was 😱 shocked... He had to come quickly with a lie to explain himself.
Lmfaoooooo you funny 😁
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PERIODT.
Only sorry cause he got caught....he meant to do that shit! Mad disrespectful!!!
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Amen! Straight up cold busted!!
You care more than his wife 😂
He’s a clown and he looks guilty, he should’ve publicly apologized to his wife right then and there too and she should’ve left him- that’s embarrassing!
"YOU didn't marry a cheater", but you have one now! He's a liar, and his wife will soon find out when she opens her eyes wider!
Exactly. She will see sh,,**" now them eyes and ears open for sure
Exactly!! She just want to believe her husband exchanging #'s and hugging up on another woman was innocent 🤨🤦🏽♀️🤷🏽♀️
You care more than his wife 😂
If she would've called him and met up after, he definitely would've slept with her. He's so completely guilty.
She’s a good Wife because I don’t play like that. He didn’t have no business touching that girl PERIOD!!! It’s disrespectful and it’s cheating to me because a married man don’t have no business touching any woman like that unless she’s his wife!🤡💩
Exactly!!! Finally somebody commenting with some logic. What if she had called that number and hooked up with him later like he wanted? It would be a DNA test… and the wife would be assisting him with child support payments. He cheated when he tried to meet with her later.
Agreed
Exactly. He's a fking clown my husband would never n thats on Mary's lamb o would have gave him the business.. literally ion play those games .. no sir
Periodt!!💯💯
Exactly he entertained that woman too much for me now the other thing to look at too is he got caught on this encounter don't think this the first time he's done it
Prayers to the wife and kids. May she do what's best for her and her children
****Prayers FOR! 🤦🏻♀️ We pray to God/Yahweh/Allah, etc.
@@msshieka943 Be blessed
@@twokidsmom5309 thank you...you, too!
He sitting up there agreeing like he didn't know what he did was wrong. He held her hand and stuff. "I POSED FOR THE PICTURE, NOT THE CAMERA." UM WHAT?? 👀 I gotta go.👋🏾🤣🤣
They both sat up there like goofies. He knew what he was doing and so did she. 🙄 She's obviously trying to CONVINCE herself that she didn't marry a cheater because that's Definitely what she's feeling....
@WannaSmackAllTheseBitches So true! Cheaters will call her a "Real one" for sticking by his side while he hurt her. 🙄😒
@@Beautywithbribri yup I been there before 🥺she trying to convince herself that it wasn’t cheating.
@@britlowkey8053 Yeah seems like we've all been there. It's a terrible feeling. Especially when you don't want to believe it but you already know what's going on.
@@Beautywithbribri right I feel like if that young woman was ready to give it to him,he wouldn't have turned her down... I feel like he has cheated before cause all that sneaky smirking he was doing was strange. it read through to me like yesss I got this she doesn't know what I've already done!!! I'm sorry dude is alil weird!!
…if you came into the water after her, this means you’re pursuing her. My beautiful sister who is a mother of 4, DON’T believe the “it ain’t what it seems.” With that, I salute you for being willing to fight for your life you’ve built. And I pray God restores what’s been compromised. Also, I get comedic relief is a real thing but bruh, now is not the time. You need to be on your Kanye tip right now - proving to that beautiful woman AND YOURSELF how YOU see the errors in your actions and solid plans to make sure it never happens again with the balls to at least say goodbye before she gets another text about infidelity. 🧘🏾♀️🧘🏾♀️🧘🏾♀️
I love how both women didn’t allow this situation to belittle them 💪🏾🙏🏾💯
Yes, I agree. Mature women
Very Mature Women good communication and she apologized
Right because being with the man who embarrassed you on social media isn’t belittling lmao. People are just so blind. Men are allowed to treat women however they want. Idiots. Everyone lol
@@borntolove9376 why does she need to apologize?
@@Pinkfairydust23 because she was so desperate and thirsty that she caused a situation 🙄 after the man gave her the wrong number and name
He had no business going up to that woman in the first place! Men, ALWAYS RESPECT YOUR MARRIAGE!
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But these days they won’t ! Why I have trust issue for sure
Men always cheat cause if not they will
His wife is gorgeous...and you can tell she's a good woman too..which the no good ones always end up with a good woman🤦🏽♀️...but listen ladies...as women..we have to stop making excuses for these men just because we "love" them...like she said..had it been the other way around he would've flipped..probably would've left her and said she's for the streets...🙄 he ain't had no business playing on his wife top like that..he should've immediately told ol girl he was married..he had no business touching her or hugging her...he was tooo quick to disrespect his wife..so that makes me think he's cheated before..like I said ladies..stop making excuses for these men..now the wife dun excused this behavior...he do something else a lil worse..she gon excuse that too after prayer...smh🤦🏽♀️
yeah cheating isnt good.... but its not just with men or not just with women, lust is something that is taking over the whole world right now, but yeah theyre married i do want them to get back together especially since they have kids..... im praying for them because i dont want to see any kids with single mothers
Yes! he definitely has cheated before. And she’s making excuses for him. Talking about I know what kind of man I married. He’s not a cheater. As soon as she said that, he started drinking his drink. Then he side eyed her like that’s what she thinks. From 3:03 until 4:08. He is very deceitful in his action and in his ways. The film doesn’t lie 😏
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He's definitely cheated on her and she probably made it easy for him to do so, cause she "trusts him". Trusting your man, does NOT mean he's trustworthy!!!! His type cheats the worst!!! Married men cheat more than anyone.
The smirking on his face speaks for itself 👀
He wasn’t wearing his wedding in that video, now sitting next to his wife he has it on 🤦🏾♀️
Oh please…
I love the way both women respected each other regardless what happened…
I don’t wear mine in water…but we know he didn’t have it on the whole trip lol
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He was in water you can't use that against him lmao
You know it's really terrible that the wife had to go through that and the embarrassment of seeing her husband on a Tik-Tok video for the world to see his dog as ways. For her to say that it's not cheating is insane to me. It won't be long till he'll go to the next level. Women know that you are beautiful and that you are loved and don't feel like you need to have someone so bad in your life that you would accept anything from anybody even your own husband.
Pure insanity!! The part where he said - she didnt even know my real name.. smh
It may not have been cheating but it sure was gateway cheating! And for him to be that bold, it wasn't his 1st time....
It was cheating
@@jenp2901 if he had sex with her then yes.
I feel if the intention is there it's still cheating because if he had the opportunity he would have done it
I think that you guys have the wrong idea about cheating. Cheating is not just sexual, it's anytime someone actively pursues the company of someone else, outside their marriage then it's cheating with the intentions of spending time with that person is indeed cheating. Sex is a byproduct of cheating. Never get it twisted.
@@Jadeisacolortoo I implore you to look up the word cheating. Although certain things lead to cheating. It’s not cheating until you engage in sexual activities.
The way he took a sip of his water bottle right when she said “i know my husband he’s not a cheater” he was SO NERVOUS
His intention was to cheat 🤷🏻♀️
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The question is: Why would he go and introduce himself, have his arm around her, play in the water and hold hands with her? Look at the definitions of intention and cheater, below.
Intention definition ~
A thing intended, an aim or plan.
Cheater definition~
A person who acts dishonestly in order to gain an advantage.
Either way, his actions are speaking loudly. He got caught, that is why he keeps bringing up the camera. It really doesn’t matter if someone were filming or not. That is irrelevant. You were exposed for your part that you played.
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Disgusting that he brag about giving her the wrong number. I wish that she would have shown his number on 🖥.
I'm sorry but his background actions are speaking VOLUMES 😩 I don't know this girl, but I definitely know she deserves so much better. That bullshit would've been a deal breaker for me. Know your worth beautiful ❤️
Know your worth after 4 kids LMFAOOOOO EMOTIONAL DAMAGE
Why is he in Miami on vacation and you got 4 kids and a wife and none of them are there.. hell no.
Exactly...what I was thinkin?
So call man trip
Sis he a single man with kids when he’s alone or out of town. Wife girl don’t be so quick to brush off the disrespect that was beyond unnecessary just bc he saw a beautiful thick women in the water alone. His whole demeanor is some bs
Unfortunately his wife is trying her hardest to find some little loop hole of an excuse to justify what happened for everybody to see. I can handle a lot of things in life but one thing no counseling, prayer, yoga, acupuncture will ever help me to “evolve from” is insulting my intelligence. 🙄🙄
Very well spoken and so true
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Yeah You trusted him enough to let him go to Miami without you . We know you trust him Sis but WE DONT lol 😂
Fr! Others may say I’m wrong but I am not okaying a trip to a thirst trap place for my husband to go without me. It’s like a set up for failure. Everyone can say you’re suppose to trust but if you keep going to that weed/crack house, You gon smoke, Stay away period😂
Spot on. Either she stay with him just for the kid's sake, or, she leave his cheating ass. He's a narcissist and she doesn't even know it. The worst kinds.😖
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He didn't lay down with that woman but, he slept with OTHERS 🤷🏿♀️
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Advice from a man, don't do shit that makes you look guilty! EVER! It ain't worth the stress!
Exactly, looking guilty as hell...imjs
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@M.A.P. Investments Research how if his number is lost nd she dosent even know his name 😭
I don't believe she had his number. How did she lose it? He did nothing wrong. Of my husband did this in vacation I wouldn't care.
So, you think SHE lied?! The husband who was all hugged up on some random woman when his wife is not around should be trusted but not the innocent woman who says he gave her his number?!? Ok. Wake up! He’s a cheater!!
This breaks my heart. This is his first time getting caught. He moved so smoothly on the beach that day because he’s had practice. And why didn’t she have his “real name”? If you’re giving out fake names, hand cradling a stranger, hugging chest open a stranger and not wearing your ring… it’s because you want to be someone different in that moment. I wish the wife peace and clarity. I’d want that if this were me. Bless.
He's not to be trusted
A real Man that loves his wife doesn't feel a need to put his hands on another woman .. look at how he's making faces,dude does not respect his wife & he's laughing when she said she knows she didn't marry a cheater, he's playing her!!
8,000 people aren't seeing something that wasn't happening.
He was trying to get it in, stop lying. He's to cool and chill about it. Like that I've been doing it, without getting caught for a long time, cool.
It's a great pun tho... Like made up and premeditated... Good Clout!! It worked.
I'm sure his girl was the one holding the camera and going in on all of us, because it work. People are getting real sick with these made up puns for likes and algorithm's.... Hey can't be mad, it worked!
The proof is in the evidence;
#1 she's black or mixed female!!
That already right off the muscle indicates it's planned, because no black female or mixed Hispanic female gonna be this cool and chill about a gat damn thing.
I've been beat up for not putting my socks in the hamper. #coloredfemalesDontPlay
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I'm a man bro I'm so sorry but speaking from a male perspective. You were dead wrong thank God you have a woman of God as her rock and parents who believes in marriage. Seriously I'm hurt by your actions because I'm still not sure you recognized the damage you have done by breaking her trust. You just made your wife burden with doubt that's going to be with her for a painful period of time. Yes, both of you are smiling as that's nice to show the ordinance that you guys got it covered and not bitter. But your black queen state of mind going to be challenged immensely. I pray the counseling is a success and that trust is restored even stronger after you put in the work to reassure your wife that your eyes and heart is only for her. And you won't fall into temptation because of opportunity. For if we continue to feed the flesh above our spirit we will fall. Trust facts, the devil will gladly sever you that meal of the flesh only to rob you of everything God gave you like your wife and family. You can break the pattern that allowed you to find yourself down this ugly path. And know anything that you won't be comfortable doing in the presents of your Queen. Is something that you shouldn't partake in.
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Red flag red flag girl run he is only doing this because he got caught imagine how many times he has done this before
I’m uncomfortable with how easy it is for him to lie in front of his wife like that
Oh babyyyyy he been cheating. She lost her mind “ik my man” lmfaooo bye
lol right he's hanging out in Miami alone like a single bachelor living his best life. he doesn’t care about his wife or his kids
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😂 Reminds me of that video where that "Dating coach" Made his wife sit up in a bonnet! This was cheating
He has a ring on now.. where was his ring at the beach
Sadly she just gave her husband an excuse to push boundaries. Not holding him accountable is going to cause more problems, and speaking on his behalf wasn't a good move. She is in denial about him. Had that other woman been more persistent it would have been a different story.
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Baby girl!! You gon need more then counseling. As a happily married women ain't no way will you be able to trust him ever again. especially since he's the one who initiated the encounter.
He gagged for dear life lmfaooooo he thought it was a sneaky link but he met a thirsty sister that would go to any means necessary to get him😂😂😂😭😭😭😭
Yeah he would of stepped out if she contacted him. He was looking for a good time and got caught up
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Prayers for the wife.
Did he just say he posed for the picture, not for the camera? ohh ok. 👀💀
Hearing her say, "I know what type of man I married," made me cringe because I once thought that about an ex. Like everyone else is saying in the comments, this wasnt his 1st time and it won't be his last. That whole playing dumb thing on his part is just an act. I saw right through him in this 5 min video. Wifey needs to take the blinders off.
I love Justin. He's a perfect fit for the job.
Towards the end he said that “whatever y’all go through, if y’all strong enough you can get through it” 😩🤦🏾♀️. I hate when men cheat and then say we can get through this or things along this line just to make you stay because if the shoe was on the other foot…😒
Speaking as therapist, kudos to their marriage therapist. He’s already lying, he said she didn’t have his number. But sis said they exchanged numbers, but she lost his. Reason being she posted the video. 🙄
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Whatever they decide to do is their business, but what I was absolutely appalled with was HIS response on Instagram to the young woman on the beach, where he belittled her and made her out to be some desperate, unattractive, attention grabbing liar. That told me everything I would ever need to know about this “man”.
He's not even as fine as he thinks he is. Dusty bama
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He ain’t shit honestly! Lol poor girl
Aye the way he sipped his water after she said I know I didn’t marry a cheater 💀
He walked into the water to introduce himself and give her his number. Holding hand's that quick and smiling big. He made excuse's the entire interview. He has cheated.
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It always amazes me when a wife excuses this behaviour, defends her husband and plays it down in order to save face when it is obvious that the man was/ is up to no good. What this says to a man is that regardless of his behaviour the wife will forgive it creating an environment for more disrespectful behaviour & eventual cheating/ affair.
Lmmfao 🤣🤣 did y'all see how he was sipping his water while she was saying "I ain't marry no cheater" he was looking like yeah I got her fooled 😏😉
Agreed!
What screams guilty and caught in the act?
The fact that his wife is doing all the talking.
She doesn't want to lose what's hers, so she'd rather keep him and convince herself "if he would've wanted to cheat, he would've"
The truth is he wanted to cheat and would've. Only he couldn't.
You can tell the wife is extremely insecure and still upset. Her voice is trembling. Also, what I suspect is he may be “outgrowing” his wife. This is a marriage that is on shaky ground.
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Girl bye 😂 y’all giving slow, insecure & miserable.
@@veronicastarr8499 Bye, Pickmeisha. Go continue to let Demarcus cheat on you in peace and stop blaming the woman
@@BriLaDivina98 she need to eat better look good and have a balanced life if he a high earning man if not he should be gone gone
As a married man he shouldn’t have taken a picture or give his number to any female. He’s facial expressions is everything. I hope he learned he’s lesson.
Chile he lying you can tell by responses…lol he just got caught.
He talking about I didn’t even know they were recording 😂 lol that’s the whole freaking point, you got caught up 💯
When she say he not a cheater and he drinks the water…… sis look again 😮💨😬😂
His wife had no self respect fr😭
When Aiden said, "Honestly no" with a look like he had to think about it.....his whole body was saying, "Yes I gave that chick my phone number". Stop playing. He just didn't want to rehash that there. I think he'll come clean to the wife later on that.
So glad these ladies handled this properly!!! Great job ladies!!!
I think he would of cheated if the video hadn’t come out
This is so sad and disrespectful... on the beach arms wrapped around someone who he should have told immediately he was a married man. His wife had to tell this unsuspecting women that he was married. 😳
YA'LL need to start a support group 4 married couples! 🙏❤🙏
The fact he is down playing the situation. Red flags smh
Sharre,
Life will happen its what you do when its comes into your home. God has you covered. Prayer will make you stronger
The way that he sipped that water when she said I would never marry a cheater come on dear too obvious….
Idk what kind of prayers she doing cuz I would left!!🤣
Marrying a cheater or a guy you didn't know was a cheater, HUGE difference. He could be completely innocent, but I hope for her sake he is and wouldn't do anything to publicly humiliate her anymore than this may have.
That was cheating !!! He was ready and willing sis he gave his number to her FOH he a cheater just mad he got busted
The sad part he still not fully admitting his infidelity. I see why she wants therapy I truly hope she gets what she needs for her marriage and her kids may it be with him or without him. I’m team wife 100%! Prayer for her and her family 🙏🏼
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The garbage goes in the garbage were it belongs you can’t trust that
He still a liar to me
First and foremost, I give an applause to both of these beautiful women. They handled themselves accordingly and mature as the women they are in this matter. With that being said: I guess the the woman didn't know he was married because he definitely didn't have on his ring. I truly believe he gave his number to her because why would she take time out her day to find him on social media. My prayer is that he be honest within himself about struggling being conmitted. Your loyalty does not stop when your spouse is not in your presence. For anything, your loyalty should heighten and be more in the forefront. The fact that he's not being totally honest his actions will repeat itself. Especially, when he expressed he didn't know he was being recorded. Forget you're out in public (a beach) without your ring and your concern is being caught on camera. Lord, help him now.
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BABY PLEASE! NOT A CHEATER??? OK . HE WAS TRYING TO GET BIZZY. HE BEEN OUT THE LOOP 4 SO LONG, HE DIDN'T KNOW HOW . WHO WOULD HAVE THUNK??? LADY POST HIS VIDEO??? HE MADE NO Mention of a wife for a reason.,. BLOOP
How did they lock hands together to begin with?? He only left after seeing someone recording 🙄
Ha! She from Detroit, the "D" and we DON'T PLAY ABOUT OUR MAN! The incident may have not gotten sexual but there was definitely flirtation and an inappropriate exchange of words for a married man!
Period
He is sitting there acting like this is a joke to him. This is probably not the first time with his behavior, he just got caught on camera this time.
lmaooo that’s definitely cheating..
This SHOULD serve as a lesson to married folks out there...This could have really cause the end to a marriage and for what? Know what you have at home and if it's not enough, handle things the respectful way to get out of it. Blessings...
She wasn't going anywhere if he did cheat
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@KingP for real though
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Big facts!
Omg... I hope her eyes are open and YES you do know the kind of man YOU married.
“I didn’t know they were recording”. Hmm so what are you doing when you’re not being recorded and why are you giving your number out as a married man.
Exactly!!!
He’s a cheater. When he does it again, he’ll try to be more slick to keep from getting caught. Also while watching the video, what was so damn funny to the wife? Every time I saw that TikTok video of him, I would’ve had to restrain myself from slapping the sh!t out of him.
Def not his first time ... he don't seem like he sincere ... just got caught
This man disgusts me, sitting there like a fool while his wife still tries defending him, smh
He sat on camera and told a whole lie. He definitely gave her the number with the intent to hookup in Miami. Thank God she lost it. He's a cheater, and unfortunately his wife believed his lies. I'm glad they're getting counseling, but he needs to be honest.
His wife is very naive seems like he's done it before he just got caught,she's trying so hard to justify his behavior.
This wasn’t his first time. He is extremely sneaking. His wife is beautiful and deserves so much more. I’m mad she interviewed tho, this man caused issues in the relationship not her smh
As a married man why is he going on vacay w/o his wife?
Now if she went to Jamaica & met Backblower 3000, hubby would be in his feelings. 😡
This man is so full of it! He got caught. He approached the lady in the swimsuit and had his intentions. Busted!!!
That video was his warning from the Universe. He's done this before!
This is giving me Derrick Jackson vibes. We're going to counseling,we prayed about it. It wasn't what it looked like which means don't believe what your eyes can clearly see but if they like it I love it. God bless
I was thinking the same thing.
He's probable been cheating on her for years now But he finally Got Caught . Remember what's done in the dark always come to the light and it took social media to do that.He embarrassed the Hell out of her and himself. This should let her know that he doesn't value his marriage with her. And to be honest I don't think counseling is going to work..... IJS 🤷♀️