I get one guy like that ,that year We'd quarrel and I'd vex and say I'm going home and he'd tell me to wait for him to drop me off and when we reach my house , we would have forgotten the quarrel.
I now understand why he turned his back the time He collected his keys , he couldn't see the pain in her eyes Like the way God turned away when Jesus was on the cross and he became dark all of a sudden
@@WunmiAkin This made me tear 💔!!! We celebrate the victory of the cross, but we will never know the pain our Heavenly Father endured to watch such sorrow to come upon His Begotten Son Jesus for us. 😭😭😭 I’m crying.
I watched this episode like 5 days back, and I'm just sharing this here now. Maybe I can help someone. Whoever is dating Brother Felix in their real life, I'm worried about you, sister. I have a friend who was dating such a man, but things were worse by the time she let go to the extent that the man strangled her, but God spared her life. We almost lost her to ruins. It was by the mercies of God and healing that we got her back. I think it's right and healthy for one to relate with someone who's upright in all the aspects of life even though this person may not be perfect, but if its life threatening please run, God didn't give you life to take it lightly. A healthy man like Munanchi is there ❤🥰🤣🤣🤣. Please sister 😢🙏
We need to create an awareness about narcissistic personalities. People who are charming to the world but devilish on the inside. They say only a therapist believes the victim of a narcissist. The world wouldn't believe the victim's side of story vs a perceived Saint.
Tbh Kanyi and Munachi are two very unserious people. When they went to Kanyis mother, that was Munachi’s chance to sell himself as a hardworking, successful entrepreneur. Like “no I didn’t go to any fancy school, but I’ve been able to build my business from scratch. I’ve worked with clients ranging from the governor of Lagos, to the president of xyz. I even won the abc award last year” etc. instead, he was just looking, talking about “I’m in love with your daughter”. Abeg shift. And Kanyi, does this girl even want to make something of her life? She keeps complaining about her mother, yet she’s doing nothing to gain her freedom. She’s a whole doctor, she has the money. Quit your job and go and work in the field that you want to. Then move out of your mom’s house and go live somewhere else with your friends. She’s just there looking like mumu. Even their relationship sef, it’s beginning to look toxic. I love how Munachi treats Kanyi and showers her with love, but there’s too much deceit. How will you date someone for over two years, yet the topic of how you grew up, your relationship with your parents, your dream job etc never came up? How? And you want to get married?
This woman here is not out with business tycoons .......it's obvious she prices education above anything else. It will be hard to please her with anything business.
Why would anyone call Kanyin Toxic? She has an attachment issue.. She needs to visit a therapist. Her mother has such stronghold over her mentally. I dont blame her for not defending muna, she can't even speak when her Mom is talking. 1) you're a Doctor, get another apartment and leave your mom's house. 2) Volunteer in other hospitals, you might ended up employed in one of them. If your mom plays your salary and house you, she obviously knows alot of your business. Set boundaries Baby girl.
Having untreated attachment issues and seriously dating someone who obviously wants to marry you, then ACTIVELY lying and leading them on is toxic behaviour. Having attachment issues doesn’t negate or excuse the toxicity. The other person in the relationship is being dragged into something they have no idea about. It’s very painful. Until she heals or at least speaks up, it really isn’t fair. Whether we like Ella or not, kanyi’s lies ruined a relationship for Muna. More relationships could’ve been destroyed if Muna never met the mum by mistake
Me I would have comfortably stayed alone in that house Sha. Me I don't have strength for flat mate. I will Sha make sure the house is dark. Very dark 😂😂😂😂
Actually, there's a lot to say about this episode. From Muna's multiple heartbreaks and Sis Kanyin's "Did I not tell you?" to Sister Ameh's own justification for the lohl, accepting his gift for "making me hit you". That one, an entire topic that makes me even more interested in her own backstory. But ermmm, my people, the one that's bothering me now is, "When are we to be expecting the next episode plix?"🤲🏾 PM, I thought I was over the addiction to the series ni but e be like say i don relapse o. Who go con epp my life laidis?😩😩
When you tell people about how unreasonable a parent is, they dismiss it and assume you are exaggerating. "I'm sure they love you". Until they see for themselves. I dont get it.
An abuser only keeps coming back when they feel the abused is under their spell and simply can't do anything about it. My prayers are with the Amehs in real life situation ❤
My dad isn't even close to Kayin's mum but I grew up with the knowledge that "my dad knows best and whatever he says is the only correct way". I grew up thinking he can never make a mistake. He's perfect and so all my life's decisions were decided only if he approved of it. It wasn't until when I took a major decision myself despite the strife it caused our relationship and it actually worked out that he decided to trust that I also can make good decisions for myself. I'm still a bit nervous when it comes to telling him about my love life but I always give the guys I'm involved with a heads-up about the kind of person my dad is. I still love my dad so much oo but I know he can be quite rigid and strict so I've learnt to work around it. Kayin has to stop being dependent on her mother first before she can have a mouth. You can't be living in her house, driving her car and getting a salary from her and you'd think you can stand up to her. It's going to be tough but with time, she'll come around. If a strict parent hasn't seen you take the lead and you survived it, they won't have confidence in your decisions.
You just spoke my mind,Kayin will be taken serious by her Mom any day she becomes independent of her Mom for survival. For now her Mom is a demi god in her life
Believe me, sometimes these things are not as simple as we think. How can you easily break free from something that has been a part of you for so many years? You may try and fail at times. However, one must not surrender; instead, one must become weary and frustrated and ultimately break free by seeking assistance from both God and men who are willing to help.
my thoughts exactly!!!everyone has to be ready to stand up to their parents. its the first step towards adulthood.my hubby did not let me breath before our wedding.at some point he said i cant stand up to your family for you. you have to. thats like after 5 years of alot of interference
I believe Koyi's mom is planning a blind date with the son of the doctor she mentioned. She must have got her a suitable spouse 😂😂😂 Lord teach me to be a better parent🙏🏽. Parents should be able to give anything for their children but this one is doing everything against her own child.
Munachi loves this girl die 😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢and i love their love ❤. I love it when he said "now we have to discuss what to do about your mother" 😂 like she's a big problem 😂😂
It’s not that Kanyi isn’t willing to do anything……………if you pay close attention, you will realize she can’t even defend herself to her mum, can she give what she does not have? If she can not defend herself how can she defend another? Girl is crippled with fear. The day she defends herself is the day she will be able to defend Muna and her love for him.
The first thing Kanyi need to do to her mum is to follow her dreams of the kind of medicine she wants to practice. Then she can stand up for herself in the choice of relationships...
This series is very well written. There are too many issues going on in relationships that are being addressed. I pray that may all those who are hurting, confused, depressed or in any relationship bondage find this series and find answers and healing. Amen
Yesh it's possible she believes she aimed low in choosing her dad and regretted the decision later. So she's projected all that regret unto Kayin and making Kayin pay for the mistakes she believes she made earlier in her life and marriage. She's over compensating for her own regrets and mistakes with trying to mold Koyin into the woman she wanted to be or thought she should have been
Ultimately, the main issue is yet to be treated... What's happening now is, wounds are trying to be sealed instead of healed. Munachi hasn't yet addressed Kayinsola's fear of her mother and the childhood trauma... And he's expecting her to defend him. Munachi is the only reason Kayin was able to stand up to her mother in the first place. So, he should calm down. Baby steps...
👏👏👏👏 for Chief,she is quite the actor. For Muna to expect kanyin to defend him from her greatest fear is completely absurd... Kanyin is scared to death of her own mom,how can she possibly defend another person...... Pls cut her some slack abeg. Ameh own,mtcheeww....in this age? Jite,how I've missed you darl'n
Awwww. Glad Muna forgave Koyin. We need men like Muna, men that sees their partners has a team. We face the world together. ❤ Jite Jite my Jite, I just love her. The way she switches from pidgin to good English, she's just a vibe. Need a friend like her. Beautiful series
I know I should be feeling bad for Muna but i feel for Ameh more. What is "this is supposed to cheer your up so you don't feel bad for making me hit you"? My God!! Narcissists should be quarantined! I really pity Ameh.
Kanyin you suppose no argue with Muna o. The guy is pained. But, I believe they would have given it more time before they met Kanyin’s mum. Pray about it and all
Exactly my point ooo this kanyin is too mild with her mom… she needs to make her point n stand by it…. She should have prepared muna for the worst case scenario too…
I don't know why nobody is mentioning the fact that Munachi used the wrong card. After knowing the prejudice Kayinsola's mom has against him, he shouldn't have gone there with the 'I love her' card. He should have tried to sell himself as a hardworking, innovative, and promising young man who is capable enough to start his own business at a young age. Not, I love your daughter. Who love ehp? 😅 Also, why is Muna upset? Didn't she tell him her mother is that way? What was he expecting? Anyway, good good movie! Can't wait for next episod!
So now, you seriously think that if Munachi went to the mother of the woman he loves trying to get help career wise, it would put him in a good place??? 😂😂😂 You don't see Kanyinsola's mum yet
Kanyinsola was not honest with him. She's not even ready to fight for their love. She's also acting like Munachi needs to fight for her, they are not yet a team abeg! She is just like her mum!
@estherifeoluwa5882 I'm not saying Muna should have gone there to ask for help. We can both agree that Kanyin's mother is insufferable and that would have backfired 😅 What I'm saying is, when her mom started mentioning highly accredited culinary schools, he should have said that he might not have attended any of these schools, but with his determination and willpower, he will soon be employing the students of these schools 🤷♀️ As for Kanyin fighting for him, the young lady is terribly scared of her mother, not to mention the stronghold her mother has over her 🥲
Exactly! He was supposed to bring out his business/marketing persona and sell himself. Like “no I didn’t-attend any fancy school, and I understand your concern, but I’ve been able to build my business from scratch and I’ve grown to having over 10 faithful employees. I’ve worked with over 1,000 clients ranging from the governor of Lagos, to the president of xyz. I even won the abc award last year and will be providing my services to the actress xyz at her wedding in July” etc. instead, he was just looking, talking about “I’m in love with your daughter”. Abeg shift.
@@estherifeoluwa5882Munachi Is a good guy and trust me no one can keep waiting forever, he has tried, she should have opened up. Another issue Is lies, once you start lying you have to keep lying to cover up. She should have simply told him what the issue Is, my mum is here but she doesn't like you let's restrategize and see how to convince her. For me there's nothing like a white lie, a lie is a lie Regardless of the situation just say the truth
Did bro Felix really say he brought sis Ameh gift to make her feel better about "her causing him to hit her"??aaarrrhhhhhhh sis Ameh😤😤😤To even think that there are truly people like sis Ameh dating guys like bro Felix in reality scares me a lot.😢😢
Mehn.. I heard that! I thought I heard wrongly! Oh boy! Talk about toxicity in a relationship! The signs are always there, the question is, we will listen?!
The scenes and dialogues that I couldn’t get over; 1. The part where Kanyi didn’t utter a word whiles her mom washed Muna. She wants him but she’s not willing to do anything to keep him. 2. She lied again when she invited him to her mom’s house, knowing well that her mom didn’t respond positively. 3. Ameh not sending that message was a big blunder. But maybe she’s planning how to invite her brother to come and beat him up soon. 😂 4. I wish she said something in Jite’s presence about being physically abused. Kite wouldn’t mind leaving him in a caste. In other news, where is Jite’s man? Having said all these, I think I’m ready to see how the story unfolds… Kanyi should allow Muna visit her at the hospital. Make she display am before her mom. I must commend the character of this Munachi Okeke..: chai! He has exemplified love to Kanyi ❤
I agree with all points except Point 1. Do you know what fear is? I totally understand Kayin for not defending Muna. She's scared to death of her mum. She can't even defend herself to her mum, not to talk about defending her boyfriend. The deep seated issues she has with her mum have to be addressed and solved first before she can do anything like defending Muna
@@henriettazon7292 I may not know what fear is but I understand that her way of loving Muna hasn’t been in good response to the love he has shown to her. She’d been lying about her mom being in the country, she’d prevented him from seeing her. Can you imagine how long she’d have continued lying if Muna decided to say nothing? Possibly, they’d be engaged for 20years and the fear will never go away. So, I understand fear but she should communicate with her partner the truth. I guess that will something called TRUST.
Muna is a true representation of a Gentleman. I love Jite and Muna's characters and role play. Jite is a perfect representation of a friend who sticks closer than a brother.😊😊
I can’t even understand why Munachi is the one to blame here. Yes, he lacks the wisdom to handle the situation nevertheless he is not responsible for bringing Kayinsola out of this situation. She needs to wake up! As far as I am concerned, kayinsola is still a child and has no business getting married or being with anyone untill she gets past her issues with her mom. I may not be able to provide a solution for her because If i were in her shoes, I would have let go of the woman a long time ago probably 😂 but one thing’s for sure, God is able to get us out of such situations. That’s if we are willing to ask and hearken to His voice. These are the things that a close walk with God and constant surrendering of our problems to Him will fix. It’s no big deal. How is it that I have Christ in me and my life is in such chaos? It’s not possible. Most times we just don’t seek the solution in Him. Kayinsola should leave man and touch God to fix her abeg. Nobody deserves to go through what Munachi is going through please. I admire Munachi’s undying love for her though, but wisdom is profitable to direct! His suffering is unnecessary. Christ already died for Kayinsola😂
I agree that she's not ready for marriage at all. She still has so much independence to gain, her life is built int he comfort zone. But hey, maybe this relationship is her breakthrough. I have hope for her with Munachi
LOL Muna wants Kayinsola to defend him, someone who has not finished defending herself? LOOOOOOOL. Honestly, rebellion is the word. That is the only language African parents understand. Kayin needs to give it to her mother hot hot because this is becoming too much 🙄
That's the word oh. Rebellion because sometimes parents don't understand that you are grown, no longer a child and have a brain to make your own decisions. Only few parents understand boundaries oh. If you don't put your foot down, they'll keep trying to control your life.
Do you get? Plus now she earns an income. Even if her income won’t afford her a big nice house it can afford her a small comfortable one. Abusers/Bullies/Narcissists/African parents prey on your weakness and lack of (financial) power.
I loved every inch of this episode, my mum is like kanyin’s mum a bit ooo, she would give a guy like muna a hard time, I cannot even lie😢…it is well with us
If your mother continues to dictate your appearance, career, or romantic choices, or even meddles in your life long after you've reached adulthood, that is a sign of toxicity. Great episode! Season 2 is here 😍💃❤ We're in for a treat.
Lol it’s Munachi’s reaction for me after meeting Kanyin’s mom officially 😂🤣😅 what was baba expecting at least now he understands what Kanyin is going through now that he wore her shoes
Someone should tell Koyin’s mum that Muna also makes milky donuts ooo😂😂😂 probably that will help the matter at hand Please Lord help me to be a good , approachable mother to my kids and treat others right I miss Jite and every other person in this movie Muna na man you be sorry Koyinsola sorry I feel your pain , rich people with different wahala Thank you Pastor Mildred
Wow I can't even tell how I feel right now, Konye's mom is so strict, I pray she understands her age and choice . I think this is so real to us ladies in our decision making 🥲
Muna needs to break up with Kanoyin fr! Let her go and heal herself from these years of issues. Then maybe later they can come together. As for Ameh, that guy will trigger her past mental issues if she continues with him. Then everything will be exposed. Btw, love mummy Saffys acting ☺
Munachi is such a gentleman, quick to forgive. My own is "they must marry ooo" Let this wahala not eventually lead to a final break up. There's a lot about Konyin we are yet to know, importantly her Dad Ameh, need to open up to her brother about this red flag of a guy Felix
Poor girl isn’t even able to defend herself, how would she defend another person? People who have parents they’re not afraid of don’t know what God has done for them because it’s really not as easy as it seems on the surface. I totally get where Kanyinsola is coming from and I wish Muna would’ve tried to understand her ordeal. The fear she has for her mother stems deep. The poor girl is traumatized ! She’s feared her mother since she was a child. We should cut her some slack. What she she should do though, is take baby steps to free herself from her mothers control. For example, move out of your mothers house and go get your own place Kayin !!
Exactly! I understand trauma and all that, but she just needs to try something. She’s not poor or unemployed. She can save her money, get therapy, move out of her mothers house and quit her job to go work where she wants
I feared my dad too alot as well that man always reprimanded me omo the day I gathered mind eheh it was chaotic I did still apologize but I think from that day I was free
Koyin tried to explain to Muna the kind of person her mum was and he felt she was exaggerating and said he’s a “Charm guy”. Good a thing he saw things for himself, Koyin tried to speak for him at first but her mum shut her up. My catching point was at the sit out when Koyin came to apologize and the drink spilled on the table, immediately Muna moved her bag and kept it on his laps, that was really beautiful 😍❤️
i beg to disagree. koyin lied to muna again that her mum had agreed to meet, meanwhile she hadn't even gotten a hearing nor prepped her mum for the visit.
Kanyinsola should have stood up for Muna instead she kept quiet and expected Muna to understand when her Mum rained insults at him. Kanyinsiola is too calm for my liking and I think it's high time she works on that.
Yes that's so true but looking at the kind of relationship she has with her mom that is so close to impossible, she doesn't have a say in almost everything
You're very funny. Someone that can't defend her own self. Everyone can see the girl's greatest fear is her own mum. Can't wait to see flashback to the extent of her childhood trauma that put her voice so low in life even concerning her own dreams
Am I the only one who's expecting S2E2, I have been here not less than 3 times, hoping to get a notification for Ep2....God abeg, feels like I am hooked o.
Me watching in Nov 2024 so that I watch everything at once
Not having the experience the wait of each episode😂😂🔥🔥
Me too o, but we ll still have to wait for season 4
Even season 3 is not yet fully aired
We gather dey 🤣🤣🤣
Same here
Same here 😂
We are waiting for episode 2 use this button
Who also feels they need to be compensated for the wait😭😭
Me like this😅
I agree😭😭😭🤧🤧🤧
I know I do😂😢
Me oh i need to be compensated oh
I do 🥰😃
I'm so happy seeing this
Who else is patiently waiting for Jite to find out that Bro Felix is an abuser
He will collect wotowoto!!! 😂
me ooo me!!!!
Meeeeeee tooooo!!!!
Meeeeeee...I honestly am running out of patience for that part...it should happen quickly 😂😂😂...can't wait for him to receive it on all sides😅
Omo! Everywhere go red😂
Munachi’s anger is cute though, he Dey vex but still go open car door. Hot and spicy chivalry😂
I get one guy like that ,that year
We'd quarrel and I'd vex and say I'm going home and he'd tell me to wait for him to drop me off and when we reach my house , we would have forgotten the quarrel.
@@ezinneerhirhieneeukaogo1439 Awesome
😂😂😂😂😂😂
Every second was worth the watch❤❤❤ Gather here if you have seen yourself in at least 1 of the characters?😊 I have 🤭
You knowww 😂😂😂❤️
Honestly, some parents are punishment to their children. Person wey get good parents, no know Wetin God do for am😢😢
I dey tell you
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You can say that again
I say ooooo😂
Ditto!!
The fact that Jite always addresses things as it is makes me love her more
I love her for being real
Jite na Brother Nicholas in Abattoir
She’s the fire 🔥 in this whole series
That message Ame cleared off, she will still write it again. I just hope it won't be with broken bones or purple eyes.
😂😂😂😂"purple tears"
😂😂😂😂purple what? 😂
🤣 I'm telling you.
As in. I was expecting her to copy and paste it somewhere 😂but lo and behold, she'd rather retype it from scratch
Or with twins sef😂
Men like Munachi are very rare, He is such a gentle kind man
I now understand why he turned his back the time He collected his keys , he couldn't see the pain in her eyes
Like the way God turned away when Jesus was on the cross and he became dark all of a sudden
They’re rare indeed, we only see them in Just Us series
@@WunmiAkin This made me tear 💔!!! We celebrate the victory of the cross, but we will never know the pain our Heavenly Father endured to watch such sorrow to come upon His Begotten Son Jesus for us. 😭😭😭
I’m crying.
@@Homeschool-maths 😆, If we can find them in Just Us series, I believe we can find them in real life too.
Just when SGIT ended, Just Us Girls came back, lets feast🎉🎉
Yasssss 💃💃💃
Which one is SGIT
SGIT ended in the most unbelievable way. Mide cheated ahhhhhhh.
@@nakazzisarah1577 Skinny girls in transit. It's an interesting series too
Yesss
I watched this episode like 5 days back, and I'm just sharing this here now. Maybe I can help someone. Whoever is dating Brother Felix in their real life, I'm worried about you, sister. I have a friend who was dating such a man, but things were worse by the time she let go to the extent that the man strangled her, but God spared her life. We almost lost her to ruins. It was by the mercies of God and healing that we got her back. I think it's right and healthy for one to relate with someone who's upright in all the aspects of life even though this person may not be perfect, but if its life threatening please run, God didn't give you life to take it lightly. A healthy man like Munanchi is there ❤🥰🤣🤣🤣. Please sister 😢🙏
We need to create an awareness about narcissistic personalities. People who are charming to the world but devilish on the inside. They say only a therapist believes the victim of a narcissist. The world wouldn't believe the victim's side of story vs a perceived Saint.
Tbh Kanyi and Munachi are two very unserious people. When they went to Kanyis mother, that was Munachi’s chance to sell himself as a hardworking, successful entrepreneur. Like “no I didn’t go to any fancy school, but I’ve been able to build my business from scratch. I’ve worked with clients ranging from the governor of Lagos, to the president of xyz. I even won the abc award last year” etc. instead, he was just looking, talking about “I’m in love with your daughter”. Abeg shift. And Kanyi, does this girl even want to make something of her life? She keeps complaining about her mother, yet she’s doing nothing to gain her freedom. She’s a whole doctor, she has the money. Quit your job and go and work in the field that you want to. Then move out of your mom’s house and go live somewhere else with your friends. She’s just there looking like mumu.
Even their relationship sef, it’s beginning to look toxic. I love how Munachi treats Kanyi and showers her with love, but there’s too much deceit. How will you date someone for over two years, yet the topic of how you grew up, your relationship with your parents, your dream job etc never came up? How? And you want to get married?
My thoughts too!!!
Munachi doesn’t even deserve the treatment he’s getting from her. I feel for the guy though…
In real life, It's not that simple......
This woman here is not out with business tycoons .......it's obvious she prices education above anything else. It will be hard to please her with anything business.
Tension never hol you before
@@theresanzewi9613 RIGHTTTT .. YOU WILL FIND THE WORDS AND YOU WON'T SEE THEM LOL
Who noticed Muna's easy to forgive ,team work and understanding spirit ❣️❣️❣️.Best boyfriend ever.
She knew how to get him 😂😂😂😂
Munachi is just the man every woman must pray and fast for ohhh chai
You else Misses Jite like I did
Seeing her, awwwwwwwww 😊
We all did o😂
See me here
She's a whole mood
I did too,I love her very much 😅😂
Munachi didn’t see that coming😂 He thought his charm would work for CHIEF. E shock the Bro🤣
😂😅
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Charm no be money
😂😂😂😂
Stop it😂
I like when Jite said you Rich children you have diffeerent problem from us ,,for me my Mother could just approve anyone😂
for as long as he has an account 😂😂😂😂😂, JITE
😂😂😂😂
With a sum of above 100k....
Oh Charlie 😂😂😂😂😂
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Nothing anybody wan tell me! Kanyon and Muna need to order 'I LOVE YOU BUT MY PARENTS SAY NO' by Dr. Kingsley Okonkwo
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😅
😂😂😂😂😂😂
Is that an actual book?
@@cherieecoco
Yes it is
They need that book seriously
Nobody is talking about Kanyinsola mum exceptional acting skills🔥
For some reasons, I knew Jite will go talk to Muna.
What a friend😢😢😢
Exactly, when kayin couldn't get through to him, I silently prayed and hoped Jite would go see him on her behalf. I'm glad she did.😂😂😂😂
Why would anyone call Kanyin Toxic? She has an attachment issue.. She needs to visit a therapist. Her mother has such stronghold over her mentally. I dont blame her for not defending muna, she can't even speak when her Mom is talking.
1) you're a Doctor, get another apartment and leave your mom's house.
2) Volunteer in other hospitals, you might ended up employed in one of them. If your mom plays your salary and house you, she obviously knows alot of your business.
Set boundaries Baby girl.
I think you understand this whole thing the best
Having untreated attachment issues and seriously dating someone who obviously wants to marry you, then ACTIVELY lying and leading them on is toxic behaviour. Having attachment issues doesn’t negate or excuse the toxicity. The other person in the relationship is being dragged into something they have no idea about. It’s very painful.
Until she heals or at least speaks up, it really isn’t fair.
Whether we like Ella or not, kanyi’s lies ruined a relationship for Muna. More relationships could’ve been destroyed if Muna never met the mum by mistake
Na so e be ooo...set boundaries period!
While this might explain her behaviour, it doesn't excuse it. She is a terrible person abeg.
If she sets these boundaries her ultimate mom would learn to let her be
That insult from Kanyi's mum to Muna hit really hard
It hit me too oh😂 heeyyy!🙆♀️
Is good
Shey she tried telling him
I swearrrrrr😂, like watin happen... That woman's acting is something else! Magic...
The way jite and ameh switched from quarreling to consolation once koyin entered the house was something else 😂
Still can't believe it
This is the day the Lord has made we will rejoice and be glad in it 💃💃💃💃💃💃💃💃💃💃💃💃💃
What still baffles me is, the mother wanted her to live in that house all alone.
I have been thinking about this too.
😂😂😂 Exactly!!
😂😂😂😂...her mother is just something else...thank God I've never had a parent like that...I would die😩
Likee....Make depression kill the girl or what? I'm even glad she has two friends. People in her situation don't have any friends at all.
Me I would have comfortably stayed alone in that house Sha. Me I don't have strength for flat mate. I will Sha make sure the house is dark. Very dark 😂😂😂😂
Actually, there's a lot to say about this episode. From Muna's multiple heartbreaks and Sis Kanyin's "Did I not tell you?" to Sister Ameh's own justification for the lohl, accepting his gift for "making me hit you". That one, an entire topic that makes me even more interested in her own backstory.
But ermmm, my people, the one that's bothering me now is, "When are we to be expecting the next episode plix?"🤲🏾 PM, I thought I was over the addiction to the series ni but e be like say i don relapse o. Who go con epp my life laidis?😩😩
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We begin in the name of God the Father, Son and Holy Spirit ❤
When you tell people about how unreasonable a parent is, they dismiss it and assume you are exaggerating. "I'm sure they love you". Until they see for themselves. I dont get it.
See, God will help us
An abuser only keeps coming back when they feel the abused is under their spell and simply can't do anything about it. My prayers are with the Amehs in real life situation ❤
My dad isn't even close to Kayin's mum but I grew up with the knowledge that "my dad knows best and whatever he says is the only correct way". I grew up thinking he can never make a mistake. He's perfect and so all my life's decisions were decided only if he approved of it.
It wasn't until when I took a major decision myself despite the strife it caused our relationship and it actually worked out that he decided to trust that I also can make good decisions for myself. I'm still a bit nervous when it comes to telling him about my love life but I always give the guys I'm involved with a heads-up about the kind of person my dad is.
I still love my dad so much oo but I know he can be quite rigid and strict so I've learnt to work around it.
Kayin has to stop being dependent on her mother first before she can have a mouth. You can't be living in her house, driving her car and getting a salary from her and you'd think you can stand up to her. It's going to be tough but with time, she'll come around.
If a strict parent hasn't seen you take the lead and you survived it, they won't have confidence in your decisions.
You just spoke my mind,Kayin will be taken serious by her Mom any day she becomes independent of her Mom for survival. For now her Mom is a demi god in her life
Believe me, sometimes these things are not as simple as we think. How can you easily break free from something that has been a part of you for so many years? You may try and fail at times. However, one must not surrender; instead, one must become weary and frustrated and ultimately break free by seeking assistance from both God and men who are willing to help.
I expect Kanyi to grow weary and opt for freedom, rather than shedding tears and allowing things to pass unchallenged.
my thoughts exactly!!!everyone has to be ready to stand up to their parents. its the first step towards adulthood.my hubby did not let me breath before our wedding.at some point he said i cant stand up to your family for you. you have to. thats like after 5 years of alot of interference
am sure by the time munachi starts ignoring her she would know its time to man up, speak up,f ight for her man, her love.
Friends like Jite❤
I Like Jite 😊correct friend
Jite is truly a good friend 💯
❤❤priceless
One in a million ❤
The way ifee looked at Ameh when she said she would give her something to wear😂
Shaffy Bello is whoever she thinks she is👏👏
I've been in Konyin's shoes, I managed to talk sha.
Very, very difficult place to be. Your heart literally breaks, like you can feel it hurting.
I believe Koyi's mom is planning a blind date with the son of the doctor she mentioned. She must have got her a suitable spouse 😂😂😂 Lord teach me to be a better parent🙏🏽. Parents should be able to give anything for their children but this one is doing everything against her own child.
Some mothers are from hell cus wat is dis ????
I cant wait for the episode where we finally unravel church sister's matter. Let it be in this season O lord.
The Lord has done it finally.. 🎵🎵 finally finally 😃
Even in Munachi's annoyance he's still a gentleman ❤❤ opening door for his woman ❤
Honestly 😅 a real gentleman
Kanyin's Mum is supposed to be the villain.... but her acting is just too goooodd
We're supposed to hate her, but somehow, her good acting makes her villainy justifiable 😫
Too good
I knoooooooow😅
And I just genuinely like Ms Shaffy Bello abeg😭😹 nothing can make me hate her
A lie is a lie no matter how you tell it . And the greater lie is the one you tell to yourself….🙌
I like how ELLA acted...it was a mature one
Munachi loves this girl die 😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢and i love their love ❤.
I love it when he said "now we have to discuss what to do about your mother" 😂 like she's a big problem 😂😂
She is o 😂. A threat to their intending marriage union.
The quality of the production is very very high !!! Thank you 🙏🏾
Glad you think so!
True, can't agree more.
From the script written, costume, music, characters and acting, top notch ❤❤❤
It’s not that Kanyi isn’t willing to do anything……………if you pay close attention, you will realize she can’t even defend herself to her mum, can she give what she does not have? If she can not defend herself how can she defend another? Girl is crippled with fear.
The day she defends herself is the day she will be able to defend Muna and her love for him.
The first thing Kanyi need to do to her mum is to follow her dreams of the kind of medicine she wants to practice. Then she can stand up for herself in the choice of relationships...
Facts
This comment right here was my thought exactly
Gbam!
Thank you!
This series is very well written. There are too many issues going on in relationships that are being addressed. I pray that may all those who are hurting, confused, depressed or in any relationship bondage find this series and find answers and healing. Amen
Amen
That comment on Kayin's dad says a lot but what her mom is battling with. There's always more to it than meets the eye. Looking forward to episode 2
Yesh it's possible she believes she aimed low in choosing her dad and regretted the decision later. So she's projected all that regret unto Kayin and making Kayin pay for the mistakes she believes she made earlier in her life and marriage. She's over compensating for her own regrets and mistakes with trying to mold Koyin into the woman she wanted to be or thought she should have been
Ultimately, the main issue is yet to be treated... What's happening now is, wounds are trying to be sealed instead of healed. Munachi hasn't yet addressed Kayinsola's fear of her mother and the childhood trauma... And he's expecting her to defend him. Munachi is the only reason Kayin was able to stand up to her mother in the first place. So, he should calm down. Baby steps...
This is so true. Address the issue from the root.
Even the wait for almost 2 hours at the house should say a lot to Munachi. I don't think he fully understands what's going on or refusing to.
Actually
@@rubyazaletey I doubt if he is yet to understand what's on ground.
Exactly. The poor girl is so scared of her mother
👏👏👏👏 for Chief,she is quite the actor. For Muna to expect kanyin to defend him from her greatest fear is completely absurd... Kanyin is scared to death of her own mom,how can she possibly defend another person...... Pls cut her some slack abeg.
Ameh own,mtcheeww....in this age?
Jite,how I've missed you darl'n
Point One is very on point. Fear is a terrible thing.
Awwww. Glad Muna forgave Koyin. We need men like Muna, men that sees their partners has a team. We face the world together. ❤ Jite Jite my Jite, I just love her. The way she switches from pidgin to good English, she's just a vibe. Need a friend like her. Beautiful series
May we girls save ourselves feom the likes of bro.felix
I know I should be feeling bad for Muna but i feel for Ameh more. What is "this is supposed to cheer your up so you don't feel bad for making me hit you"?
My God!! Narcissists should be quarantined! I really pity Ameh.
Me too 😭😭😭, it is important we heal oooo, sweet girl like Ameh with secure support system like her brother and friends , yet settling with that 😭😭😭
@@WunmiAkin such a terrible thing!
Kanyin you suppose no argue with Muna o. The guy is pained. But, I believe they would have given it more time before they met Kanyin’s mum. Pray about it and all
Muna has been itching to meet her since nah😂😂😂
Sadly, he didn't know it will be this bad
But they lack alot spiritually. When last did they pray for this relationship and all? As friends they don't even pray in the house at all.
@@nakazzisarah1577
With this new development, they will
I hope
Do gen-Zs even pray anymore 💔
Koyin needs to stand up to her mother. Like a lit bit confrontational. Break that fear and live life on your terms
In real life, it's not that easy o😢
It's just like me standing up to my father😂😂😂😂
She really needs to!
Exactly my point ooo this kanyin is too mild with her mom… she needs to make her point n stand by it…. She should have prepared muna for the worst case scenario too…
@@stitchesspeaks but she did tell him and he said he is Mr Charmer
I don't know why nobody is mentioning the fact that Munachi used the wrong card. After knowing the prejudice Kayinsola's mom has against him, he shouldn't have gone there with the 'I love her' card. He should have tried to sell himself as a hardworking, innovative, and promising young man who is capable enough to start his own business at a young age. Not, I love your daughter. Who love ehp? 😅
Also, why is Muna upset? Didn't she tell him her mother is that way? What was he expecting?
Anyway, good good movie! Can't wait for next episod!
So now, you seriously think that if Munachi went to the mother of the woman he loves trying to get help career wise, it would put him in a good place??? 😂😂😂 You don't see Kanyinsola's mum yet
Kanyinsola was not honest with him. She's not even ready to fight for their love. She's also acting like Munachi needs to fight for her, they are not yet a team abeg! She is just like her mum!
@estherifeoluwa5882
I'm not saying Muna should have gone there to ask for help. We can both agree that Kanyin's mother is insufferable and that would have backfired 😅
What I'm saying is, when her mom started mentioning highly accredited culinary schools, he should have said that he might not have attended any of these schools, but with his determination and willpower, he will soon be employing the students of these schools 🤷♀️
As for Kanyin fighting for him, the young lady is terribly scared of her mother, not to mention the stronghold her mother has over her 🥲
Exactly! He was supposed to bring out his business/marketing persona and sell himself. Like “no I didn’t-attend any fancy school, and I understand your concern, but I’ve been able to build my business from scratch and I’ve grown to having over 10 faithful employees. I’ve worked with over 1,000 clients ranging from the governor of Lagos, to the president of xyz. I even won the abc award last year and will be providing my services to the actress xyz at her wedding in July” etc. instead, he was just looking, talking about “I’m in love with your daughter”. Abeg shift.
@@estherifeoluwa5882Munachi Is a good guy and trust me no one can keep waiting forever, he has tried, she should have opened up. Another issue Is lies, once you start lying you have to keep lying to cover up.
She should have simply told him what the issue Is, my mum is here but she doesn't like you let's restrategize and see how to convince her.
For me there's nothing like a white lie, a lie is a lie
Regardless of the situation just say the truth
Ame and her pastor relationship is a definition of love is blind
Did bro Felix really say he brought sis Ameh gift to make her feel better about "her causing him to hit her"??aaarrrhhhhhhh sis Ameh😤😤😤To even think that there are truly people like sis Ameh dating guys like bro Felix in reality scares me a lot.😢😢
Mehn.. I heard that! I thought I heard wrongly! Oh boy! Talk about toxicity in a relationship! The signs are always there, the question is, we will listen?!
As in erhh Ameh is really lying to herself... eii you hit me and I'm the cause ..where was your self control then 😢
That line irritated me ehnnn😭😭😭😭
Classic gaslighting!
I wish she could talk to her brother sef.
Felix is a red flag from day 1
Munachi has suffered in this life😕
As in ehh, no bi small suffer
That kanyin is a mumu..shey you cannot talk! Stand up to your mom!!! Are you a foolish person!!!!!!
Somebody that should have broken up with the girl since.
I even felt the insults fr here lol. The guy likes stress
😂😂😂
Thank you Jesus for 40 mins episode unlike other channels that give us 10 to 15 mins
Just call out SGIT directly 😂😂😂
The scenes and dialogues that I couldn’t get over;
1. The part where Kanyi didn’t utter a word whiles her mom washed Muna. She wants him but she’s not willing to do anything to keep him.
2. She lied again when she invited him to her mom’s house, knowing well that her mom didn’t respond positively.
3. Ameh not sending that message was a big blunder. But maybe she’s planning how to invite her brother to come and beat him up soon. 😂
4. I wish she said something in Jite’s presence about being physically abused. Kite wouldn’t mind leaving him in a caste. In other news, where is Jite’s man?
Having said all these, I think I’m ready to see how the story unfolds… Kanyi should allow Muna visit her at the hospital. Make she display am before her mom.
I must commend the character of this Munachi Okeke..: chai! He has exemplified love to Kanyi ❤
Exactly
I agree with all points except Point 1. Do you know what fear is? I totally understand Kayin for not defending Muna. She's scared to death of her mum. She can't even defend herself to her mum, not to talk about defending her boyfriend. The deep seated issues she has with her mum have to be addressed and solved first before she can do anything like defending Muna
@@henriettazon7292 I may not know what fear is but I understand that her way of loving Muna hasn’t been in good response to the love he has shown to her. She’d been lying about her mom being in the country, she’d prevented him from seeing her. Can you imagine how long she’d have continued lying if Muna decided to say nothing? Possibly, they’d be engaged for 20years and the fear will never go away.
So, I understand fear but she should communicate with her partner the truth. I guess that will something called TRUST.
Muna is a true representation of a Gentleman. I love Jite and Muna's characters and role play. Jite is a perfect representation of a friend who sticks closer than a brother.😊😊
Ameh would be forming Mother Advicer to everybody, she would not sit down and advice herself 😒
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🤣🤣🤣🤣
😂😂lol
😂😂😂
I dey tell you
I can’t even understand why Munachi is the one to blame here. Yes, he lacks the wisdom to handle the situation nevertheless he is not responsible for bringing Kayinsola out of this situation. She needs to wake up! As far as I am concerned, kayinsola is still a child and has no business getting married or being with anyone untill she gets past her issues with her mom. I may not be able to provide a solution for her because If i were in her shoes, I would have let go of the woman a long time ago probably 😂 but one thing’s for sure, God is able to get us out of such situations. That’s if we are willing to ask and hearken to His voice. These are the things that a close walk with God and constant surrendering of our problems to Him will fix. It’s no big deal. How is it that I have Christ in me and my life is in such chaos? It’s not possible. Most times we just don’t seek the solution in Him. Kayinsola should leave man and touch God to fix her abeg. Nobody deserves to go through what Munachi is going through please. I admire Munachi’s undying love for her though, but wisdom is profitable to direct! His suffering is unnecessary. Christ already died for Kayinsola😂
I agree that she's not ready for marriage at all. She still has so much independence to gain, her life is built int he comfort zone. But hey, maybe this relationship is her breakthrough. I have hope for her with Munachi
LOL Muna wants Kayinsola to defend him, someone who has not finished defending herself? LOOOOOOOL. Honestly, rebellion is the word. That is the only language African parents understand. Kayin needs to give it to her mother hot hot because this is becoming too much 🙄
😂😂😂exactly rebellion! Omo set your boundaries.
That's the word oh. Rebellion because sometimes parents don't understand that you are grown, no longer a child and have a brain to make your own decisions.
Only few parents understand boundaries oh. If you don't put your foot down, they'll keep trying to control your life.
Do you get? Plus now she earns an income. Even if her income won’t afford her a big nice house it can afford her a small comfortable one. Abusers/Bullies/Narcissists/African parents prey on your weakness and lack of (financial) power.
I didn't realise how much I have missed Jite😂😂❤❤
I loved every inch of this episode, my mum is like kanyin’s mum a bit ooo, she would give a guy like muna a hard time, I cannot even lie😢…it is well with us
If you have a mom with Kanyin's mom trait. . gather here for a hugg 😊😊😂
Put your shoes outside the floor is clean. We all waited for this day 💃
If your mother continues to dictate your appearance, career, or romantic choices, or even meddles in your life long after you've reached adulthood, that is a sign of toxicity.
Great episode! Season 2 is here 😍💃❤ We're in for a treat.
THAT PART!!!
I wish she'd say something for once!
My mother is similar. There is no way I could work with her! Kanyin must stick up for herself.
Yes ohh I am here my fellow RUclips community
I love love love this
Nobody should carry my shoes wa dey outside ohh
Thank you Lord Finally it's here
A lot to learn from this movie Parents Please don't be too hard on your kids so that they can always open up to you
O my goshhhhh I'm crying 😭😭 munachi is such a sweetheart ❤
Jita go first show sympathy, then she go come attack you without water in her mouth
Assinn😅😂
That's why she is a whole vibe 😅
Her mouth no get filter 😂😂😂😂😂
As innnn😂
@imoleayoidowu856.... 😂😂😂At all.. Not even one
Lol it’s Munachi’s reaction for me after meeting Kanyin’s mom officially 😂🤣😅 what was baba expecting at least now he understands what Kanyin is going through now that he wore her shoes
Like
Soon the housemates will know ameh has been constantly abused in her relationship. Time will reveal.
Munachi has gone through a lot on top of love sha
What’s all this 😂
Asay oh 😂😂is too much
Muna don suffer😢
Na wa oo😂😂
Finally I get to see Jite again
😂😂😂😂 I missed her too
Someone should tell Koyin’s mum that Muna also makes milky donuts ooo😂😂😂 probably that will help the matter at hand
Please Lord help me to be a good , approachable mother to my kids and treat others right
I miss Jite and every other person in this movie
Muna na man you be sorry
Koyinsola sorry I feel your pain , rich people with different wahala
Thank you Pastor Mildred
Watin be dis???…..she say na milky doughnuts, please na😂😂😂😂
😂😂😂😂
@@phunmmielurlar1874😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂when she is a doctor say nah milky doughnut😂😂😂😂
Milky doughnuts 😂😂😂
Milky doughnut🤣🤣
In the words of Jite, ‘Muna, na man you be!’
The greenest flag….actually green forest 😍
OMG........... someone needs to check on Muna 😭😭😭😭😭, those words drove a chill down my spine
😂
I can only imagine what jite’s reaction will be when she finds out about bro Felix hitting ameh
All hell would break loose!😂😂
Wow I can't even tell how I feel right now, Konye's mom is so strict, I pray she understands her age and choice . I think this is so real to us ladies in our decision making 🥲
Kai Ameh sef
Sin thrives in secrecy
Muna needs to break up with Kanoyin fr! Let her go and heal herself from these years of issues. Then maybe later they can come together. As for Ameh, that guy will trigger her past mental issues if she continues with him. Then everything will be exposed. Btw, love mummy Saffys acting ☺
The "OND" joke finally made it to the series 👏 courtesy of pst Kingsley 😄🤣
Lols
Efe Iwara will honestly always be a forever fave. Amazing actor, love him so much
They are really good friends, even when they were hurt too, their friend emotional wellbeing was more priority
Munachi is such a gentleman, quick to forgive.
My own is "they must marry ooo"
Let this wahala not eventually lead to a final break up.
There's a lot about Konyin we are yet to know, importantly her Dad
Ameh, need to open up to her brother about this red flag of a guy Felix
Na real love is patient,love is kind that Muna portrays o
So, Muna can shiver 😅😂
Wahala 😂😂😂...names of culinary schools
😢😢😢Ameh o.. father lord
Omo real life things, he will get tired and they'll break up
If I could collect my heart back right now, I would 😢😢😂😂
'If I could collect my heart back, I would 🥺🥺🥺" Muna😭
This line🥹🥹🥹
This lineeee😢
Bro is broken.
That statement legit broke my heart 😢😢
Kanyin's mom is so condescending! Tufia! What kind of rubbish pride is that !? She has tied all her worth to money. Money that can fly away, mtcheewww
omoooo... Her words were so demeaning. Jeeeez...I felt it. Munachi didn't even see that coming.
This movie was perfectly directed. I appreciate all efforts put into this movie
Poor girl isn’t even able to defend herself, how would she defend another person? People who have parents they’re not afraid of don’t know what God has done for them because it’s really not as easy as it seems on the surface. I totally get where Kanyinsola is coming from and I wish Muna would’ve tried to understand her ordeal. The fear she has for her mother stems deep. The poor girl is traumatized ! She’s feared her mother since she was a child. We should cut her some slack. What she she should do though, is take baby steps to free herself from her mothers control. For example, move out of your mothers house and go get your own place Kayin !!
Exactly! I understand trauma and all that, but she just needs to try something. She’s not poor or unemployed. She can save her money, get therapy, move out of her mothers house and quit her job to go work where she wants
Thisssssss . I used to fear my mum until I stepped up whiles I was still in University
I feared my dad too alot as well that man always reprimanded me omo the day I gathered mind eheh it was chaotic I did still apologize but I think from that day I was free
A liar will find any reason to lie. You don't know what you're getting into.
When you love, please talk. Hiding the truth we are supposed to fight for with those we love only extends the days of betrayal and suffering.
Patiently waiting for the episode where Jite will beat up Bro Felix, because someone needs to show him a thing or two.
😅😅 Thought it was just me!
😂😂😂😂😂
Finally ! This is the beautiful day the Lord has made 🎉🎉🎉
My high point was the interaction between Muna, koinsola and her mum.
Muna acted so well and ignorant . I felt for him
"The highway is not always the right way", after lying your own. Ameh pleaassee 😑
😂😂😂asin eh
Koyin tried to explain to Muna the kind of person her mum was and he felt she was exaggerating and said he’s a “Charm guy”. Good a thing he saw things for himself, Koyin tried to speak for him at first but her mum shut her up.
My catching point was at the sit out when Koyin came to apologize and the drink spilled on the table, immediately Muna moved her bag and kept it on his laps, that was really beautiful 😍❤️
i beg to disagree. koyin lied to muna again that her mum had agreed to meet, meanwhile she hadn't even gotten a hearing nor prepped her mum for the visit.
Thank you Jesus! Finally ooohh!
Kanyinsola should have stood up for Muna instead she kept quiet and expected Muna to understand when her Mum rained insults at him. Kanyinsiola is too calm for my liking and I think it's high time she works on that.
Yes that's so true but looking at the kind of relationship she has with her mom that is so close to impossible, she doesn't have a say in almost everything
@@hansiaappiah-kubi8686 I understand but still she should have said something at least try to defend him.
You're very funny. Someone that can't defend her own self. Everyone can see the girl's greatest fear is her own mum. Can't wait to see flashback to the extent of her childhood trauma that put her voice so low in life even concerning her own dreams
Am I the only one who's expecting S2E2, I have been here not less than 3 times, hoping to get a notification for Ep2....God abeg, feels like I am hooked o.
Munachi is a finished Jesus Man. Eieeeeeeeeeee😂
A really finished man😂😂😂😭🥲
I really can't express how I feel right now after watching. Emotions here and there, running up high😢
Muna is such a gentle, forgiving and kind-hearted man. No wonder they say marry a KIND-hearted man. 🤭