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  • Опубликовано: 26 окт 2024

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  • @HunterBrenaé
    @HunterBrenaé  3 месяца назад +61

    Hihi 👋🏾
    I just noticed that the video quality on my last few uploads has not been where I want it to be. I want to apologize! I think something is up with the file transfer process from my editing software to RUclips, but I will make sure the future videos are up to my standards ❤
    And thank you all for the sweet messages so far!

    • @japc684
      @japc684 3 месяца назад

      You're amazing 🎉🎉🎉

    • @japc684
      @japc684 3 месяца назад

      Thanks for sharing with us 😊
      I know it's a lot of work to make sure your blog reflects "you." I put the word you in quotation for your authentic self. Because you have talked about being authentic. Thank you!!! 😊

    • @cassandrabyer2094
      @cassandrabyer2094 3 месяца назад +1

      I can't complain. I am here in Canada, and the quality was great.

    • @japc684
      @japc684 3 месяца назад

      Video quality was great in Kentucky.

  • @herstorylives7405
    @herstorylives7405 3 месяца назад +67

    I hope you will be in a area in the US with a large Korean population so that you can have keep up with your Korean language skills, in person. Things will feel so much with your Mama's hugs. Sending prayers and best wishes for your return home.

    • @HunterBrenaé
      @HunterBrenaé  3 месяца назад +22

      It's actually so good that you mentioned that. I have grown such a love and admiration for the Korean language, food, and culture. That's something I don't want to lose as I transition back home. So I will definitely get some language exchange partners and hang our at the nearest Korean marts and restaurants to get the food ❤

  • @claudettetessier8484
    @claudettetessier8484 3 месяца назад +39

    Blessings to you Hunter.Remember giving up are only words that people who don't try use. Going home to regroup and rest is a wise thing to do.

    • @HunterBrenaé
      @HunterBrenaé  3 месяца назад +9

      Thank you so much for saying this! I beat myself up so much for not living the life that I think that I should live. I am learning that no life is "perfect" and I shouldn't worry so much about how my life is portrayed to others. Anyways~ I can go on all day about this haha but I really appreciate your insight ❤

  • @pams.8824
    @pams.8824 3 месяца назад +37

    Thank you for being brave and talking about your mental health. It’s important to take care of you. May God bless you on this new journey in your life. He’s just preparing you for bigger things.

    • @HunterBrenaé
      @HunterBrenaé  3 месяца назад +3

      It's not talked about enough, especially for young Black women. My moments of depression do not define me, but I have to acknowledge and work through them in order to get better. I'm learning that in therapy ❤️❤️

  • @kelseya2802
    @kelseya2802 3 месяца назад +20

    As an expat myself (in Japan), I have really enjoyed watching your videos that have such a positive take on some difficult things we experience in life. I hope you live in a community that allows you to remain connected to Korea in some way 🤗 It takes a lot to talk about your mental health and taking care of it--but also inspiring others to look into their own mental health.
    Please never change your beautiful outlook on life and I hope you continue to share your journey with us here 💓

    • @HunterBrenaé
      @HunterBrenaé  3 месяца назад +1

      Hi Kelsey! I think it is so cool that you can relate to my experience, also being an expat in East Asia. Korea has truly changed me for the better, and I am going home a completely different person than I came. What I'm learning is that I need to love on and support myself in this transition home even more than I did on the transition here. And I am setting up communities and opportunities for me to stay connected to Korea once I'm home. I love this place so much so I know I'll be back! And I will continue to be authentic in this space because y'all have created a safe space for me to do so ❤️❤️

  • @dani3640
    @dani3640 3 месяца назад +32

    There's no place like home!!!

  • @twylalove8857
    @twylalove8857 3 месяца назад +24

    Hunter ❤ sweet girl ❤
    You remind me so much of my niece with your love of Korean culture and your sweet/smart demeanor. Your venturing out to live in a different country makes me hopeful that she, too, will be able to do those kinds of things after she graduates college! ❤
    I hope your transition back home is just another stop in your journey and you're able to go back to Korea if you want to later after getting all the love, hugs, reassurance, grounding and more hugs from your family back home.

    • @HunterBrenaé
      @HunterBrenaé  3 месяца назад +2

      Wow! It's so nice to hear that your niece also shares an admiration and love for Korean culture. The purpose of my channel is to show young people, especially Black and Brown youth, that the world is so much bigger than our limited perspective. I have an 11 year old niece who is following in my footsteps, and I want to be a role model for her and all those who look up to me! I have wanted to visit Korea for more than half my life, and once I was able to make this dream happen for myself, I didn't look back. I also hope your niece can have the courage to travel (both on her own and possibly with friends/family).
      As I mentioned in this video and my previous break-up video, I am whole. I am going home a well-rounded and level-headed woman, and I have my time in Korea to thank for this life transition I've experienced here. And whether I am led back in the future or elsewhere, I am so thrilled to know that I will know myself! ❤️❤️ Thank you for your comment and I'm so sorry for sending you a book as a response haha

    • @twylalove8857
      @twylalove8857 3 месяца назад

      I love ALL of this. Thanks so much for this "book"! ❤️
      I can't wait to watch more.

  • @alternativeviewz3762
    @alternativeviewz3762 3 месяца назад +14

    You’re in my prayers, don’t never EVER mentally register any of those negative thoughts cause there not you whatsoever. You’re a genuine & bless person, you’ve truly touched so many people lives out here. Stay blessed & know you are loved ALWAYS ❤

    • @HunterBrenaé
      @HunterBrenaé  3 месяца назад +1

      I'm learning to discern the difference between the voices in my head. I'm learning important tools in therapy which are helping me compartmentalize these thoughts and combat the negative ones. Thank you for this sweet message and supporting me ❤️❤️

    • @alternativeviewz3762
      @alternativeviewz3762 3 месяца назад

      ALWAYS❤

  • @Mpoindexter
    @Mpoindexter 3 месяца назад +15

    I’m sorry it didn’t work out for you in Korea but you have memories to take with you. I’m looking forward to your new journey. I believe goods things are coming your way. Run straight into your mother’s arms. There is no place like home. Many blessings to you 🥰

    • @HunterBrenaé
      @HunterBrenaé  3 месяца назад +2

      This journey in Korea has been a dream come true! I would not change or trade anything, especially because it led me to create content on RUclips! This next chapter is going to be an exciting one! And I am looking forward to bringing you all along with me ❤️

  • @ninamel9375
    @ninamel9375 3 месяца назад +31

    Hunter, maybe you should become an author. Write a book about your journey and share it. It might be a great help for you and your viewers, besties. However, do what makes you happy. Because at the end of day, God is in control. Trust him. ❤ I wish you the best, Hunter.

    • @HunterBrenaé
      @HunterBrenaé  3 месяца назад +3

      Nina, babe!! (also please let me know if that's not your name) You're comments always have me re-thinking my career paths 😂 obviously writing aligns with my movement towards the creative world, and it is something I am slowly getting more interest in! You're giving me more to consider, but my therapist said a similar thing so it's on my radar ❤️❤️ thank you for commenting!

    • @ninamel9375
      @ninamel9375 3 месяца назад +2

      Yes, it is, Hunter! I'm an author as well. The book industry isn't easy including all career paths. I mean as long as you love want you do and your geniune readers/ fans enjoy your personality and work. There's a great chance your potential work might became famous and turn into a movie, anime, webtoon, drama series or video game. Give God the glory for everything. Because no job is a walk in the park unless you love it and determine with God's help of course to make it through. I'm happy to hear that my comments motivate you. You're therapist is right. However, pray about it. Let God guide you through your journey. That's what I did.☺️❤️ And you're welcome, Hunter.🥳💯

  • @vigerminaberrios4116
    @vigerminaberrios4116 3 месяца назад +13

    Keep positive vibes, that’s life struggles, ups and downs, what differentiates us is how we deal with it. I have confidence that you will do like the phoenix, lots of blessings and positive energy. Sending blessings your way ❤ Also tattoo looks very good

    • @HunterBrenaé
      @HunterBrenaé  3 месяца назад

      You send ALL the inspirational quotes all packed into one comment! haha thank you for this ❤

  • @nanzalawinnie7133
    @nanzalawinnie7133 3 месяца назад +2

    Going home is also a way of relaxing & refreshing yourself

  • @loveydovey8291
    @loveydovey8291 3 месяца назад +11

    OMG WOMAN YOUR ARE AWESOME! I believe that you are a "strong woman" intelligence on WHO YOU ARE & WHAT WORKS 4 YOU & STREGTH TO GO FORWARD! Please continue your channel I look forward to following YOUR "Life Journeys" with Happiness Success & Great things! "Choice Blessings" Always - Thank you for your honesty! Much Aloha

    • @HunterBrenaé
      @HunterBrenaé  3 месяца назад

      Aww thank you so much!! I'm blushing (which is difficult considering my complexion haha) ❤️ I gain so much strength from y'all and I am forever appreciative!

  • @clarissawhite9804
    @clarissawhite9804 3 месяца назад +10

    Moving is always bittersweet. I wish you nothing but happiness in your next chapter.

  • @ksj61kj
    @ksj61kj 3 месяца назад +9

    I’m so happy to see You posting again. You look great. Take care of Yourself and think of Us as Your Family 🥰

    • @HunterBrenaé
      @HunterBrenaé  3 месяца назад

      We are a family!! We support each other and help keep each other upright ❤️❤️

  • @lchanel33
    @lchanel33 3 месяца назад +10

    Wishing you nothing but the best in your future ❤

    • @HunterBrenaé
      @HunterBrenaé  3 месяца назад

      That's so sweet! I appreciate that ❤❤

  • @cherrylhirsch7738
    @cherrylhirsch7738 3 месяца назад +1

    I see the sadness in your eyes and hear the hurt in your voice. God bless you and surround you with strength, peace and much love!

    • @HunterBrenaé
      @HunterBrenaé  3 месяца назад

      Everyone goes through a season of discomfort and sadness. I am in mine, but I recognize that it's a season. It won't last forever and I am using this as an opportunity to be vulnerable with my RUclips family. ❤️

  • @PhenomenalWoman-zw3ns
    @PhenomenalWoman-zw3ns 3 месяца назад +6

    Many blessings to you Hunter. You've been on a journey and it has shifted paths. Continue to be positive and know that what is for you will come into fruition. Here's wishing you continued support and encouragement!

    • @HunterBrenaé
      @HunterBrenaé  3 месяца назад

      I'm at the tail-end of my 20s and I'm evolving a lot. I used to think that I had my life figured out and with age, I'm learning that life can throw curveballs that we don't always see coming. All I can control is how I respond to the turbulence and the story I tell once the storm is over. So grateful to have my internet family to love on me and support me ❤️❤️

  • @YAHSchildDeborahbee
    @YAHSchildDeborahbee 3 месяца назад +23

    Know when changes like this happens, it is like rhe birthing process, labor is hard. Your next move is probably what needs to happen, it is definitly time. Think of what that baby feels during the process, probably as you do right now. Understand you are not failing, transition is happening. You will be fine.

    • @HunterBrenaé
      @HunterBrenaé  3 месяца назад +5

      I really needed to hear that. I'm so resistant to change that I can sit in something even if I know I have outgrown it. I love Korea and there's a chance that I will come back. But for now, I need a change, and I should celebrate this transition period and not be afraid of it ❤ thank you for this sweet comment!

    • @YAHSchildDeborahbee
      @YAHSchildDeborahbee 3 месяца назад +3

      Remember, it's for now, not forever. I'm about 30 years older than you, and I refer to the different times of my life as in a past life. I say this because I've lived and gone through so many changes, so many lives. Sometime s I can't think of myself as going through some of the things I did. At the time you can't think of how you'll make it through, but you always do. You learn so many lessons along the way, and the experience allows you to pull someone else up in the future. Hang in there, brace yourself, and once you're on the other side of it, you can breathe easier. You will overcome.

  • @marciagilmore8076
    @marciagilmore8076 3 месяца назад +3

    "May the best of your past be the worst of your future!" Wishing you happiness on whichever path you take. Thank you for educating me on Korea through your journey there. I look forward to learning about wherever you travel next.❤

    • @HunterBrenaé
      @HunterBrenaé  3 месяца назад +1

      It makes me so happy to hear that I helped you understand Korea better! Thank you for joining me on this part of the journey and I hope you stick around for the next chapter ❤️❤️

  • @sarakyomugisha5953
    @sarakyomugisha5953 3 месяца назад +4

    I am just happy to see you again. Was worried that maybe you are so not okay. Thanks for the update. Praying for you and wishing you all the best when you get home. East West home is the best.

    • @HunterBrenaé
      @HunterBrenaé  3 месяца назад

      Aww thank you so much for thinking about me. My silence has been me prioritizing my mental health and getting back to Hunter. I'm looking forward to getting back home, and sharing more content with y'all here ❤️❤️

  • @justebania
    @justebania 2 месяца назад +1

    Omgosh I feel so sad that you're leaving Korea but I can't wait to see where life takes you on your next journey. I'm beyond proud of you for being vulnerable and opening up about therapy. I have been down that road, so I know how amazing it is to talk about things you don't feel safe talking about with anyone else. Anyway, I'm so excited to see where life takes you next and I really hope you find your way back to Korea someday. We need beautiful brown girls like you to make things more inclusive. 🥰🥰💝

    • @HunterBrenaé
      @HunterBrenaé  2 месяца назад

      Aww thank you so much! ❤️❤️

  • @joenellgaitor483
    @joenellgaitor483 3 месяца назад +1

    It takes a lot to be so honest with us, the viewers, about such delicate and private matters. Especially when it comes to mental health issues, which I'm sure we all at some point may have gone through or will go through in our lives about something or the other. Myself included.
    I wish you all the best in all of your endeavors. I believe that your inner strength will lead you through your next paths in life. Thank you so much for sharing with all of us❤🙏🏽

    • @HunterBrenaé
      @HunterBrenaé  3 месяца назад +1

      I love this comment! I know everyone can relate and that's why I wanted to share more candidly and honestly than I normally do. I want everyone to know that managing you mental health is a struggle that everyone experiences, including someone living in South Korea who many believe is living her best life. Nothing is perfect and it's important to show that ❤️❤️ thank you for being so honest and sharing your thoughts in the comment!

  • @fdbrown5850
    @fdbrown5850 3 месяца назад +5

    Welcome back. It's good to see a video from you.

    • @HunterBrenaé
      @HunterBrenaé  3 месяца назад +1

      I'm back babayyyyyy hahaha ❤️❤️

  • @yourstrulygenie
    @yourstrulygenie 3 месяца назад +7

    Hey sweetie, I commend you for your transparency and vulnerability. It's hard to do that, especially online. You know I'm always in your corner, and in the near future, you'll be back in South Korea. 🫶🏾🫶🏾🫶🏾 Love you sweetie.

  • @debradunham8508
    @debradunham8508 3 месяца назад +7

    Hey Hunter! I was just saying that i haven't seen any vlogs from you, and here is a vlog. LoL. I just thought you moved already. All the best, Hunter. Therapy is the best. I'm so happy you got help. Many Blessings. ❤

    • @HunterBrenaé
      @HunterBrenaé  3 месяца назад +1

      I know I disappeared for a bit 🙈 needed to recenter with myself and just reclaim my life! Been feeling down and beating myself up for things I can't control. But I'm glad that you're back and I hope you enjoy the video ❤

    • @debradunham8508
      @debradunham8508 3 месяца назад

      I'm glad you're better. Sorry things didn't work out in Seoul, but better things are headed your way. And yes, I enjoyed the video. Much success to you.

  • @SGA201
    @SGA201 3 месяца назад +4

    Hey Hunter.... Good to see ya and looking forward to your journey homeward. Don't stress too much and continue to work on getting your "groove" even let it take time and heal from the inside/out. Perhaps once you find that inner you again you will take us on many of your adventures to come. Everything happens for reasons, forward.

    • @HunterBrenaé
      @HunterBrenaé  3 месяца назад +1

      I love this message! And Stella is trying to get her groove back. I'm excited to share this journey with y'all! Thank you for commenting ❤️❤️

  • @jame4930
    @jame4930 3 месяца назад +3

    Our beautiful Sister, May God bless you on your next journey. Sorry to hear you are leaving South Korea. Enjoyed seeing you there and seeing the country through your eyes. But, the most important thing is your wellness and happiness. Continue to be the beautiful and sweet spirit person that you are. Safe travels back to US❤🙏🏽

    • @HunterBrenaé
      @HunterBrenaé  3 месяца назад +1

      Y'all are really treating me with these beautiful comments! ❤️❤️ I may be leaving Korea, but this place will always have a special place in my heart. If I was able to grow this much here, there's no telling what the next chapter will teach and show me! I'm excited to take you all along with me!

    • @jame4930
      @jame4930 3 месяца назад

      Well said! Excited to see what’s next for you❤️🙏🏽🤗😊

  • @youtubeaccountt100
    @youtubeaccountt100 3 месяца назад +13

    Hunter! Omg I haven’t been here in minute but I just started getting caught up on your journey yesterday and you’ve come a long way. I’m happy that you got to experience so much LIFE in Korea. That something to be proud of. I haven’t even watched the video yet I’ll prob comment again lol

    • @HunterBrenaé
      @HunterBrenaé  3 месяца назад +1

      Well first, WELCOME BACK!! haha and that means a lot! I can feel the growth in myself. But change is a bit painful and uncomfortable, so I am trying to go with the flow. I wish I could have done more here and shown y'all more, but it is what it is~ and please let me know what you think after you watch! ❤

  • @ec9518
    @ec9518 3 месяца назад +10

    I wish you the best!

    • @HunterBrenaé
      @HunterBrenaé  3 месяца назад +1

      Thank you!! But also, let's turn up and have some fun while we're still here!

  • @katiesherman2899
    @katiesherman2899 3 месяца назад +3

    Girl, I’m going to message you but you’re doing great sweetheart! Keep your head up. I hate to see you down. You’re doing amazing! I am so proud of you for going after what you love and what you want. Everything always works it’s self out. You got this! Love you ❤

    • @HunterBrenaé
      @HunterBrenaé  3 месяца назад

      Kate!!!! What's up ❤️❤️ thank you for this! Like I said in the video, I've always been the girl who had everything figured out. As I'm sure you know since you've known me so long. So I am learning what this new, unrefined version of Hunter is like. I am finally in a place where I am not trying to hide my imperfections. I am owning them proudly.

  • @gabynas
    @gabynas 3 месяца назад +3

    Hey Hunter! I identified what I said while putting on makeup. I am also in a process of inner healing and I understand that sometimes it hurts. I hope and hope, as I do with me, for you to proceed and be happy. Even from afar, know that I have empathy for your moment and I wish you a lot of peace, health and wisdom in the new cycle. Hug from 🇧🇷 ❤🤗

    • @HunterBrenaé
      @HunterBrenaé  3 месяца назад +1

      Hi Gaby! I really appreciate your message and also for you opening up. I also hope that as you heal, you are gentle and patience with yourself. Acknowledging and healing from pain are not easy, and society often tells us to heal quietly. I say, FUCK THAT! However you are feeling, please know that I am a safe person for you and this is a safe place for you ❤️❤️ sending you my love!

  • @changeisgood9955
    @changeisgood9955 3 месяца назад +3

    Many blessings on your next chapter.

  • @ChinaDollF88
    @ChinaDollF88 2 месяца назад

    ♥️♥️ Congratulations for your WIN!! Sharing and Recognizing and Healing yourself.

  • @ketoles7777
    @ketoles7777 3 месяца назад +1

    Blessings to you for your next Chapter ❤❤❤. Forward!!!!

  • @JUST_Mesha_E
    @JUST_Mesha_E 3 месяца назад +6

    I love you so much because you are incredibly relatable. How you offer so much of yourself with your honesty is appreciated. I look forward to the rest of your journey. You are a great content creator and so much more will come your way. Greatness awaita you!! ❤❤❤

    • @kelseya2802
      @kelseya2802 3 месяца назад

      Yes, I agree...she's a very relatable RUclipsr for sure 🤗

    • @HunterBrenaé
      @HunterBrenaé  3 месяца назад

      Aw this warmed my heart! I accept this as a huge compliment! And believe me, there are still things that I try to keep private for my own safety. But my goal was to present a relatable and real version of myself on RUclips and I'm so happy that is showing through! ❤️❤️ thank you for commenting and supporting!

    • @HunterBrenaé
      @HunterBrenaé  3 месяца назад

      ❤️❤️

  • @championsareessential
    @championsareessential 3 месяца назад +7

    Congrats on your decision.

    • @HunterBrenaé
      @HunterBrenaé  3 месяца назад +2

      Thank you! And trust me, it wasn't an easy one. Korea is all that I've known for 3 1/2 years, so going back to the US makes me nervous. But I know I have family and friends in both countries who will support me ❤

    • @ede3237
      @ede3237 3 месяца назад

      It will be an adjustment returning to the USA. Good luck in whatever you pursue. 🍀

  • @cassandrabyer2094
    @cassandrabyer2094 3 месяца назад +2

    I am sorry it did not work out as you planned. I live in Canada 🇨🇦 and I sure hope you will visit . We have a strong Korean population here and would love to take you to those areas so you can see and have fun

    • @HunterBrenaé
      @HunterBrenaé  3 месяца назад

      OMG! That sounds amazing! I just might take you up on it in the future 😉

    • @cassandrabyer2094
      @cassandrabyer2094 3 месяца назад +1

      It will be my pleasure to show you around.

  • @wandagreen4330
    @wandagreen4330 3 месяца назад +1

    Dear Hunter Brenae, I want you to be ok. You have done very well. I am proud of you for being confident, brave, & smart. You had a long stay and successful stay. I am an old country woman who has never taken any risks. Come home for a while and regroup. You are beautiful, successful, & I am sorry the guy did not stick. Please do not give up. You are very well spoken and therapy is good. Oh, the 1st video of yours I watched was the one of you with two other Black teachers in South Korea in the dating scene. Sincerely, Wanda

    • @HunterBrenaé
      @HunterBrenaé  3 месяца назад +1

      Hi Wanda!! Thank you for this sweet comment! I used to think that I wasn't the risk-taker. After Covid, I realized how short and fickle life can be, and I decided to take the risk of my life (so far) and move here. This was the best decision I've ever made! I've grown so much and I have created opportunities for myself that I never would have gotten if I had just stayed in the US. I recognize my privilege in doing this since I didn't have anyone depending on me back home. I could come here and do my thing without having to think too much about life back home. But my mission has evolved and I have devoted time into showing others that they can take risks! Life is full of risks but it is also full of rewards. I'm excited to bring this new mindset back to the US and see where it takes me! And if it's meant to be, I'll be back here before I know it! Take care and let's meet in the comments again! ❤️❤️

  • @jlj2984
    @jlj2984 3 месяца назад +1

    Good to know you are moving on. Life is a journey. Good luck!

  • @amazing152
    @amazing152 2 месяца назад

    Praying for you!!!!!!

  • @carleneblake
    @carleneblake 3 месяца назад +6

    All the best to you nuff blessings 🙏💞🎉

    • @HunterBrenaé
      @HunterBrenaé  3 месяца назад

      I appreciate that! And I'm excited to see where this next chapter leads ❤

  • @Teena-yi9xw
    @Teena-yi9xw 3 месяца назад +7

    You are beautiful!

  • @teresawiley6077
    @teresawiley6077 3 месяца назад +1

    Hunter you are in a period of transition. It’s hard in the hallway of transition because you don’t know where you are going. You will be okay and out of these ashes you will spring forth a new Hunter. She will be braver, stronger, and wiser! I will pray for you Beautiful!

    • @HunterBrenaé
      @HunterBrenaé  3 месяца назад

      This is such an important message! Thank you for sharing your wisdom with me and supporting me while I'm on this journey ❤️❤️

  • @CariW90
    @CariW90 3 месяца назад +1

    You do what you have to do girl! The sad thing about being in a new country that you love is not being able to stay there unless there is something or someone keeping you there legally such as a job or a spouse. Hoping that you can go back one day because I can tell you want to but I know you will be SO happy to be back in your home country with things that are more familiar to you! ❤

    • @HunterBrenaé
      @HunterBrenaé  3 месяца назад

      I feel so seen by your comment! Haha I would love to stay and if I was more comfortable with an unstable life, I might. But I am in a place where I am starting to think about a family so I know I need more security. If I can find that in Korea later, I'll be back. Otherwise, I am looking forward to visiting in the future! Either way, I am thankful for this journey that I've been on and for the community we have build here on RUclips ❤️❤️

  • @ItssChristol
    @ItssChristol 3 месяца назад +7

    You should vacuum seal everything and put them in suitcase so much easier and more things to fit. 😊

    • @HunterBrenaé
      @HunterBrenaé  3 месяца назад

      I ended up vacuum sealing some of my bulkier pieces. Thank you for the tip ❤️❤️

  • @LindaRoberts4187
    @LindaRoberts4187 3 месяца назад +1

    I wish you all the best when you come back to the states. No, getting away from it you will miss Korea because you like it so much but just keep in mind everything that happens to us in life happens to us for a reason. Take care.

    • @HunterBrenaé
      @HunterBrenaé  3 месяца назад +1

      I agree 100%! The transition back home will be tough, and I will always cherish these special memories I've made in Korea. I am hopeful that if I am meant to return, I will in the future ❤️❤️

  • @colleenrodamer9497
    @colleenrodamer9497 3 месяца назад +1

    May blessings may u find what u desire may u always b ur true self n may u find peace

  • @kimoichetabarapberenge1765
    @kimoichetabarapberenge1765 3 месяца назад

    The future is bright Miss Hunter.

  • @EnjoyingLife2024
    @EnjoyingLife2024 3 месяца назад +1

    Hunter, thank you so much for sharing your latest status with us. You've gone through a lot of losses this year. Depression is expected. Thank goodness you sought therapy instead of letting your sadness keep you in a dark place. I've been there. It's scary. Please keep using BetterHelp's services even as you start to feel better. Give yourself the time you need to heal.
    I think you said your family is in Charlotte. I'm in Durham. I would love to meet you in Kannapolis or Salisbury to just chat about your Korea experience. You're a cool person who helped me understand the challenges of being a foreigner in Asia. I'd like to help welcome you back to the States and thank you for all your YT channel has done to educate me. You are truly the best!
    Best wishes to you and please travel safely. If you still have time to buy items for your suitcase, try buying space savers for your luggage. Space savers might make the packing a great deal easier. ❤👍🙏✈️

    • @HunterBrenaé
      @HunterBrenaé  3 месяца назад

      Hey hey! I really appreciate your comment so much! ❤️❤️ This is the first time I have sought out therapy myself. I'm so proud of myself for taking this leap and it has already worked wonders on how I see myself in the world. I'm also learning that I'm not as broken as I thought I was haha which is funny to say considered how polished my online presence is. But we often view ourselves more critically than how others see us.
      My family is actually in Hillsborough so I'm a lot closer than you think! I would love to meet when I get back and chat! Just send me a message on Instagram and I will be sure to check the folder for your message. These days Instagram hides messages from new friends 🙄
      And thankfully I've made a lot of progress in packing since these clips were filmed. A lot more has been purged so I'm feeling a lot better about it!

  • @japc684
    @japc684 3 месяца назад +1

    Hunter, I'm so proud of you. You're a beautiful woman. Keep positive. Keep busy until you depart from Seoul, South Korea. Be safe in your travels home. Are you still doing your trip with your friends before you leave Seoul?

    • @japc684
      @japc684 3 месяца назад +1

      "Dream Life" can pivot. Visa is hard to focus on because some agencies don't take chances on "newbies". But, you pivot well!!!!🎉🎉🎉🎉

    • @HunterBrenaé
      @HunterBrenaé  3 месяца назад +1

      Absolutely! Still have trips planned before I leave, including the trip I just took to Daegu and my trip to Tokyo next week! Vlogs coming soon ❤️❤️

    • @japc684
      @japc684 3 месяца назад

      Hunter, I would love ❤️ to meet you in person. I'm so blessed to have found your channel 💓 💛 💗 💖

    • @japc684
      @japc684 3 месяца назад

      Life is nothing but a lot of chances and choices!!! You pray 🙏 that Jesus sees your choices and desires and blesses you to the blessed decisions. Stay positive and prayerful focused ✨️ 🙏

    • @japc684
      @japc684 3 месяца назад

      Have fun in Tokyo. I love ❤️ it!!! Stay strong 💪, happy 😊, positive ✨️, and focus on your new future and opportunities. You got this!!!

  • @fikinaturally_fikiswa2925
    @fikinaturally_fikiswa2925 3 месяца назад

    May God be you with you baby gal, wish you the very best of life

  • @brendapaul5950
    @brendapaul5950 3 месяца назад +2

    Brave Young Lady. Proud that as a Black lady, you are prioritizing your mental well-being.❤❤❤❤ Continue to work on wholeness and continue to show up as your authentic self. Peace & Blessings

    • @HunterBrenaé
      @HunterBrenaé  3 месяца назад

      Absolutely! It's not easy to be so vulnerable and share this transition online. But it's important to me to be authentic and real about mental health issues ❤️❤️ Thank you for commenting and supporting!

  • @yuditpozo2200
    @yuditpozo2200 3 месяца назад +1

    How sad to see you go, but your mental health comes first. I adored the beautiful couple you made and I thought there would be a wedding and children, but fate sometimes takes us down another path. Good luck and I hope you find love, I'm sure that one day he will also feel as much pain from losing you.

    • @HunterBrenaé
      @HunterBrenaé  3 месяца назад

      I understand where you're coming from. But as I said in the break-up video, the relationship didn't define me. I am Hunter, always have been and always will be. So I am looking forward to the journey that is meant for me and where it takes me ❤️❤️

  • @cynthialaster867
    @cynthialaster867 3 месяца назад

    I am glad you are moving on and starting a new journey.

  • @youloveyah2222
    @youloveyah2222 3 месяца назад +3

    Hunter B, where you going baby-girl? Where ever you go TMH Bless!

    • @HunterBrenaé
      @HunterBrenaé  3 месяца назад +1

      I'll be heading back to the US. Gonna go back home and spend some much needed time with family ❤ but the adventures and videos will continue!!

    • @kelseya2802
      @kelseya2802 3 месяца назад +1

      Korea and the rest of the world is always gonna be here! Please go and reset and then come back, if you want!

  • @addisabay1768
    @addisabay1768 2 месяца назад +1

    She is very muture women hunter we will always be with you❤

  • @Passion84GodAlways
    @Passion84GodAlways 3 месяца назад +3

    🤗 May the Lord's Perfect Will be done as you begin this next chapter of your life! 🤗🙏🏾

  • @thaifanmeetusa
    @thaifanmeetusa 3 месяца назад +1

    Sorry to hear it didn't work out. Things change, and can change again for the better. I'm curious why you didn't opt to mail you extra shoes, and decor home? I thought it was cheaper to ship your belongings. Don't be afraid to share with people around you what you're feeling. All of your feelings are valid. As a fellow person who lived in S. Korea for only a brief 6 months. I can imagine the ups/downs. Fighting!!!

    • @HunterBrenaé
      @HunterBrenaé  3 месяца назад +1

      I did consider shipping, but once I saw the price (size/weight) and the uncertainty with when it would be delivered, I opted to take everything on the plane with me. Plus this is a great chance to declutter and only bring things that serve me in my next chapter.
      And I appreciate your advice to open up to those around me. Believe it or not, I don't really open up often to my friends. I prefer to be the rock that others rely on, so I am learning to let down my walls and be more transparent when I am not feeling my best. Thank you for reminded me of that ❤️❤️

    • @thaifanmeetusa
      @thaifanmeetusa 3 месяца назад

      I only gave the suggestion because I remember what it was like trying to navigate 2 suitcases, and I can't imagine 4. Keeping you in my thoughts and prayers during this transition.

  • @sharissaw.
    @sharissaw. 3 месяца назад +2

    Hunter please purchase a aloe vera plant leaf and use it to treat your acne and other skin discoloration ls. It is effective and works quickly along with apple cider vinegar

    • @HunterBrenaé
      @HunterBrenaé  3 месяца назад

      Writing is down!! I used to use aloe vera in my hair, just never tried it on my face.

  • @ukametsesebata
    @ukametsesebata 3 месяца назад

    Its good that you have taken the courage to pick yourself up ❤

  • @fdoctor79
    @fdoctor79 3 месяца назад

    I know you will thrive wherever you are.😊 Tfs and continued success with your endeavors!

  • @karlaevans6175
    @karlaevans6175 3 месяца назад +3

    Hunter I don’t envy you at all with this packing!

  • @rennie2611
    @rennie2611 3 месяца назад +2

    No apology necessary, seems like you are going through growing pains. God moves in mysterious ways, maybe it’s time to return home. Still continue to grow. You will now have a solid foundation, and spread your wings, and fly. Those sodas reek havoc on your skin.

    • @HunterBrenaé
      @HunterBrenaé  3 месяца назад

      That's a perfect way to describe my current state: growing pains. I know 30 is not old, but this transition into year 30 feels much different than any before and I am experiencing more discomfort than I have before. Like a plant that has outgrown its pot or a fish that has outgrown its tank.
      And you're right about the soda 🙈 grape soda is like my alcohol so I drink it when I want to unwind and destress. But I need to stop drinking it so often!

  • @nancyvargas2279
    @nancyvargas2279 3 месяца назад

    I’ve enjoyed your content and am excited for you in this next chapter in life. You inspire, it's in your DNA, and I am looking forward to your new segments.
    PS: What do you think of sending a few things ahead via carrier?

    • @HunterBrenaé
      @HunterBrenaé  3 месяца назад

      Aww thank you sooo much! It makes me so happy to know that ya'll are going on this journey with me ❤️ and I did consider shipping some items, but decided against it considering the price. And also this is. great opportunity for me to detach from some items and practice intentional decluttering. Thank you for the tip though!

  • @katie9735
    @katie9735 3 месяца назад +1

    You’re not going to be an extrovert forever. It fluctuates as you age. Maybe you’re both now and that’s okay. Same thing happened to me. Be patient and accepting of the new you… I didn’t know you could travel with so many suitcases. Can one do the same when moving there? Fly with 5 suitcases? I hope you enjoy the remaining weeks you have left. I wonder what’s the Facebook group to give stuff away. Oh and your new tattoo is cute! A nice fun memory.

    • @HunterBrenaé
      @HunterBrenaé  3 месяца назад

      Every year I inch closer to the introvert side haha soon I'll have to identify as an extroverted introvert!
      I'm not sure if there is a limit on how many bags you can fly with, as long as it's within reason. And I didn't share the name of the group because its private, but if you live in Korea and you're interested I can share it with you!
      Thank you for your compliments and for commenting ❤️❤️

  • @soniaalexander277
    @soniaalexander277 3 месяца назад

    ❤❤❤❤first of all love and light hunter i am happy to see you i was worried but deep down i knew you were nourishing your mind, body and soul. We are perfectly imperfect and we have periods of messy and self dowbt but we rise up at one point or another and it is ok not to be ok. Hugs hugs hugs and best wishes

    • @HunterBrenaé
      @HunterBrenaé  3 месяца назад

      I love how you phrased this comment! It's natural to take a step back and recognize our messiness as humans. I've been doing quite a bit of self-reflecting and learning about what I have to offer outside of being a "country bumpkin in South Korea." And I learned that I have more to offer, so I came back here and I will keep posting ❤️❤️ thank you for seeing me and for always sharing wisdom in the comments.

  • @almettat5692
    @almettat5692 3 месяца назад +1

    Hunttterrrrrrr! Remember, when a door closes, remember there is something bigger in-store for you. I've been there before, and remember everything that happened in life has a reason behind it. I have a saying for my adult grandchildren that if something is so easy to achieve , it's a chance that it was not worth it! SUNFLOWER the World is waiting for YOU!

    • @HunterBrenaé
      @HunterBrenaé  3 месяца назад +1

      What a powerful message! I wrote down that quote for me to remember! And I identify so much with this sunflower tattoo behind my ear. I'm blooming and I just need to be a little patient with myself. And also I need to give myself the best opportunity to grow! Right now, that's back at home. Thank you for the amazing comment ❤️

  • @laughoutloud439
    @laughoutloud439 3 месяца назад +13

    You are transitioning for the better. "All things are working together for your good." Romans 8:28 I am not going anywhere.😍

  • @levoregrant7058
    @levoregrant7058 3 месяца назад +1

    Wish you well

  • @vivianneciani3096
    @vivianneciani3096 3 месяца назад

    Good for you.❤

  • @msace6710
    @msace6710 3 месяца назад

    Next Chapter in Life.

  • @abena8339
    @abena8339 3 месяца назад +2

    Thank you for being so brave and sharing your feelings with us. I know I can relate. sorry if I missed it, what are the Facebook groups to buy preowned items?

    • @HunterBrenaé
      @HunterBrenaé  3 месяца назад

      Thank you so much ❤️❤️ and I intentionally didn't share because the group is private, but if you live in Korea and you're interested, send me a message and I'll share it with you!

  • @DunYappin
    @DunYappin 3 месяца назад +2

    Gonna miss you twin

  • @boyboy31100
    @boyboy31100 3 месяца назад +6

    Hunter you are a beautiful girl with a beautiful spirit. Seek Jesus he will give you the peace you are seeking. He will direct yoyr path. God bless you!

  • @EbereNwakamma-rr3vx
    @EbereNwakamma-rr3vx 3 месяца назад +1

    Good luck beautiful ....much ❤

  • @sharissaw.
    @sharissaw. 3 месяца назад +4

    Correcting my grammar errors leaves I meant lives. Pardon additional errors . I promise I am not illiterate😅💯💅🏾

    • @HunterBrenaé
      @HunterBrenaé  3 месяца назад

      Hahaha I am always in favor of a grammar correction ❤️❤️

  • @Living_By_The_Word
    @Living_By_The_Word 3 месяца назад

    When a door closes, God will open another. Stay strong and optimistic and hopeful! Praying for you

  • @deborahblackshear3325
    @deborahblackshear3325 3 месяца назад

    ❤😊. Hello my beautiful sister friend 💗. I am so glad that you are okay. Do what is necessary for your Mental health and for your well-being. I am happy for you. Looking forward to watching you wherever you go 😊❤. Blessings.

    • @HunterBrenaé
      @HunterBrenaé  3 месяца назад +1

      I always look forward to your comments! Thank you ❤️❤️

  • @tinap9787
    @tinap9787 3 месяца назад

    Like # 495, thank you Hunter for sharing & it is pleasant to hear that you are taking steps to take care of you. I wish you all the best in your future endeavors. Tina in Cali

    • @HunterBrenaé
      @HunterBrenaé  3 месяца назад

      Aww thank you Tina!! And I love that you acknowledge which like number you were haha ❤️❤️

  • @LeightonReiley
    @LeightonReiley 3 месяца назад

    ❤❤❤❤

  • @SprinkleLewis
    @SprinkleLewis 3 месяца назад +3

    💗💗💗💗😘

  • @quine9386
    @quine9386 3 месяца назад +3

    Congrats coming back home. Can you please recommend some good Korean facial cleanser, and facial mask.❤❤❤

    • @HunterBrenaé
      @HunterBrenaé  3 месяца назад

      Hi~ what's your skin type and skin concerns?

  • @cl3140
    @cl3140 3 месяца назад +2

    May your new journey and endeavors lead you to an encounter with the best being in the whole universe, the Lord Jesus Christ !!

  • @ezugwulois3229
    @ezugwulois3229 3 месяца назад

    If I could chip in my 2-cent Hunter, I would say that you should try not to box yourself in especially relating to life and the opportunities you come across. It takes lots of trials to get to your destination and trust me when I say it will be worth it. God knows who we are and what we truly need in the life that he created for us to live and I would say that you should also turn to the Holy Spirit and ask for wisdom, especially with navigating through life. God bless you and I wish you the very best as you heal and move forward.

  • @grassroots8226
    @grassroots8226 3 месяца назад +3

    Did you think about sending some of your luggage home by FedEx? Then you wouldn’t have so much to take on the plane.

    • @HunterBrenaé
      @HunterBrenaé  3 месяца назад

      I did consider it, but then I checked the price and the uncertainty in the timeframe when the items would reach my home. I've lost important items in transit before, so that scared me. Also, this is a great chance for me to detach from some unnecessary items that I don't need to take into this next phase. So, I'm viewing it as an opportunity to detach emotionally from stuff. Thank you for the tip though ❤️

  • @Smbowen67
    @Smbowen67 3 месяца назад

    Hey girl, did you ever consider shipping your stuff instead of all the luggage?

    • @HunterBrenaé
      @HunterBrenaé  3 месяца назад

      I promise that I considered it, but it's expensive and unpredictable considering that I have things are really valuable to me. And, I need to stop buying so much stuff so this is a chance for me to practice decluttering and smart packing haha thank you for offering the tip though ❤️

  • @vandiw5576
    @vandiw5576 3 месяца назад

    Does it cost more to ship boxes home from their? Love your videos💕💕

    • @HunterBrenaé
      @HunterBrenaé  3 месяца назад

      Yeah, it was pricey considering the size and weight. So I opted to bring everything on the plane with me.

  • @patriciajackson6285
    @patriciajackson6285 3 месяца назад +1

    Guys, what happened to Hunter? I have missed a lot lately.😢😢😢

    • @HunterBrenaé
      @HunterBrenaé  3 месяца назад +2

      I'm growing and evolving! Nothing bad has happened ❤️

    • @patriciajackson6285
      @patriciajackson6285 3 месяца назад

      Good to hear you are growing and evolving. I heard you say on your last video about your breakup. It’s okay, Hunter, you will be fine. This will make you stronger and more judgmental about everything in life before you get back in that lane again. Stay positive.🌹⭐️🌹

  • @Naija_mimo
    @Naija_mimo 2 месяца назад

    Please what happened with her Korean boyfriend?

  • @인생마이웨이-f9h
    @인생마이웨이-f9h 3 месяца назад

    I want meet you in korea

  • @patriciagarrick8455
    @patriciagarrick8455 3 месяца назад

    Aaahhh leaving will you come back to SK

    • @HunterBrenaé
      @HunterBrenaé  3 месяца назад +1

      I don't know. We will have to see~

    • @patriciagarrick8455
      @patriciagarrick8455 3 месяца назад

      Ok as long as you’re ok, will still be able to follow you❤️🙏

  • @Bellesuppercute
    @Bellesuppercute 3 месяца назад +1

    Where is your boy friend?

    • @lucyscott422
      @lucyscott422 3 месяца назад +3

      They are no longer together, haven’t been for some time.

    • @Bellesuppercute
      @Bellesuppercute 3 месяца назад

      @@lucyscott422 Sad they seemed like such a nice couple.

  • @shammy-annkhan3866
    @shammy-annkhan3866 3 месяца назад

    thank you for sharing, i admire you for being so strong ; because change is never easy but i am one who will be always looking out for your content, for me its all learning and growing, so thank you

    • @HunterBrenaé
      @HunterBrenaé  3 месяца назад

      I appreciate your comment so much! And I want to say that it is okay to not be strong. I don't feel particularly strong, which is why I made the decision to begin therapy. But I acknowledge that we often see others in a different light than we view ourselves. Sending you peace and strength to get through this week ❤️❤️

  • @fatladychats
    @fatladychats 3 месяца назад +1

    I went through that last year February 2023

    • @HunterBrenaé
      @HunterBrenaé  3 месяца назад

      It's rough 😮‍💨 do you want to come pack for me? lol

  • @sunflower7874
    @sunflower7874 3 месяца назад

    i didn't know you guys broke up! :((

    • @HunterBrenaé
      @HunterBrenaé  3 месяца назад +2

      It's been a while~ nevertheless, I hope you can support me on my journey to discover new-Hunter and share my life online ❤️

  • @Theamateurecologist
    @Theamateurecologist 3 месяца назад +2

    ❤❤❤

  • @beramyers8873
    @beramyers8873 3 месяца назад

    ❤❤