Are You Stubborn? This May Hinder Your Happiness and Healing

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  • Опубликовано: 16 ноя 2024

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  • @bruatou
    @bruatou 6 лет назад +14

    I'm pretty damn stubborn. My dad, who was never around(literally never) when i grew up was gonna give me his car for free. It was a 2013 hyundai. I yelled at him saying I WILL BUY MY FIRST CAR. On my own. I had the i can do everything on my own mentality. 3 years later and I still haven't even bought my first car.

  • @nancybelli
    @nancybelli 4 года назад +6

    This was the best healing information for stubbornness Ive ever heard!!!! Thank you!!

  • @katyboebaty9193
    @katyboebaty9193 6 лет назад +20

    Jason. I’m very stubborn but I want to change because my stubbornness has been in my way and it’s ruining my life.

  • @NM-fu9zt
    @NM-fu9zt 7 лет назад +8

    ..letting go is very very very very healthy...I only get stubborn when love is absent ...but I will try because I have not liked this about me for a last twelve years..in some things..like personal objects..people.. and memories ! Thank you

  • @annehdixon
    @annehdixon 8 лет назад +10

    Jason, I have been a subscriber and watching your videos for several months now and I must say I feel privileged to witness them. You speak so directly to your viewers. Straight to their eyes and their souls. I can't believe there aren't millions of views and subscribers. You are such a gem. There are so many spiritual providers offering an "experience" but you always seem to hit the "IS"ness of it all. I'm fascinated by your presentations. I also love the mantras and music. I plan to buy your songs and book and to contribute more financially so that your message can reach more people. You are such a gift. I'm honored to have found you. I just enjoy so you tremendously, have shared you with like minded friends, and value your contribution to the planet and to my own earthly existence. Thank you so much for all of the video and musical contributions you just give away to the seeker. Thank you, thank you....

    • @JasonJGallant
      @JasonJGallant  8 лет назад +1

      So great to hear that the videos are resonating with you. Thank you for sharing your heart with me. :)

  • @DenaJaq
    @DenaJaq 9 лет назад +6

    Very True!!!Hard lessons to learn! I still struggle with this!

    • @JasonJGallant
      @JasonJGallant  9 лет назад +2

      +Dena Jaquillard yeah, it's an exercise in subtleties. No matter how far along you get, you still take the surrender deeper to obliterate those layers of resistance. :)

  • @iamchannelll
    @iamchannelll 3 года назад +1

    Yes I am way stubborn unwilling to face reality ect trying to go backwards instead of forward

  • @TKK-gr3cc
    @TKK-gr3cc 5 дней назад

    I am stubborn and refuse change although current situation will lead to no way..

  • @tinaking9120
    @tinaking9120 4 года назад +1

    Control is the source of all pain. Deep

  • @scoobytubey4514
    @scoobytubey4514 5 лет назад +1

    struggled to hear all of this and am so grateful you said it. thank you for your video. very important message.

  • @sitthachongprasobtam6585
    @sitthachongprasobtam6585 8 лет назад +3

    I feel like every of your videos speaks to me personally

  • @tinathompson591
    @tinathompson591 5 лет назад

    Im trying my hardest to soak in all your videos and your knowledge
    I want to grow !!
    Change old / bad habits and beliefs etc
    Become a BETTER PERSON 🙏🙏🙏
    INSIDE and OUT!!
    Sometimes my stubbornness gets in the way!!
    YOUR videos are Soo HELPFUL and INSPIRING !!
    Thank you 🙏🙏🙏
    I KNOW
    With your videos and wisdom I will learn and grow!
    Takes time!! But I'll continue on this spiritual journey 🙏🙏🙏🙏
    BLESS YOU!!
    Thank you for ALL YOU DO ☯☯☯

  • @des7911
    @des7911 5 лет назад +2

    I’m very stubborn, and it’s ruining my relationship with my boyfriend. When I feel personally attacked, I put up my walls and won’t back down. I’m a Taurus so my horns definitely do come out and I do not and will not ever back down, I hate this trait about me and when it comes to my stubbornness that’s where self loathe comes in, and I feel so bad for my boyfriend because when he does try to help I take it personal and will not let anything go... then it ends up hurting us because he feels I have no faith in him and I don’t trust him. I’m scared to become vulnerable, I’m scared to open up and to accept love...

    • @gogego998
      @gogego998 5 лет назад

      Everything you wish for is on the other side of the fear. U dont wanna get hurt of the unknown,in this case the unknown being the act of being vulnerable. You are deeply betting in an emotional way for the negative to happen and not considering the fact that it is cut both ways. And the other way cut is something beyond your current fear that's keeping you closed. Be open to different interpretations and will make yourself feel a lil bit better because new things open up to you. You have to weigh the desire of vulnerability and openness with the fear that's keeping you there. And then from then on u can decide which route is for your best. Good luck.

  • @freecreator6426
    @freecreator6426 7 лет назад +1

    Thank you Jason this was helpful for me, but I know that my journey is still in its beginning and so long, I need to dive deeply inside to find my true self and learn how to manage it.

  • @kpgUser
    @kpgUser 6 лет назад +2

    Fear of somthing will b gone causes stubborness

  • @kailynae2271
    @kailynae2271 5 лет назад

    Wow thank you for this. Helped open my eyes more on what I felt I already knew. Clarity from God through you 🙏🏽 God bless 🙏🏽✨

  • @josephmurphy7768
    @josephmurphy7768 4 года назад +1

    Yes I'm stubborn, but I'm very introverted and deep about things, i have strong willpower or survival instinct which if i could change to surrender rather than fight or resist would help....but surrendering in the concrete jungle is difficult because the distractions are everywhere....also i have tinnitus which i have surrendered to when indoors...i have surrendered to a degree is wot I'm saying...but outside its more difficult to sustain the surrendered state.

  • @lesleydonnelly2622
    @lesleydonnelly2622 9 лет назад +2

    Thank you Jason, excellent video, just what I neededvto hear

    • @JasonJGallant
      @JasonJGallant  9 лет назад +1

      +Lesley Donnelly so glad to hear. I try to get across that no one is at fault for their situation, it's just that once you're in it, you've got to find a way to deal with it, or "not deal with it." lol.

  • @thecheekyambipom5730
    @thecheekyambipom5730 4 года назад

    Yeah humility is important but at the same time I think for myself I'd rather follow my heart and bring wrong than just follow ideals or what I think I should do

  • @Integrationportal
    @Integrationportal 4 года назад

    Thank you so much kind soul🙏

  • @fiftycalcoulton
    @fiftycalcoulton 9 лет назад

    I find the hardest part about accepting and trying not to control is the motive for trying not to control is to feel better, which is still trying to control in a way.

    • @JasonJGallant
      @JasonJGallant  9 лет назад +1

      +fiftycalcoulton yeah, that's the trick, isn't it? The surrendering aspect is the only way to recycle the energies responsible for the pain. Surrender is the only part of control that works.lol. Either way, as you surrender to the emotional pain, then it will be easier to let go of the motives in the mind that show up as thoughts. From there you become a clearer vessel for the energy to flow through. Don't worry if results don't come right away, every little bit of energy you unravel will have massive effects on your life on a holistic level. :)

  • @lockinatti
    @lockinatti Год назад

    I'm always right

  • @Shenlonbe
    @Shenlonbe 8 лет назад

    Those are the same words and phrases that match my senses to help close ones. But not as good and balanced like this video. Thanks for the balance of the voice of peace and knowledge. Greeting and respect for you and others who understand this. :)

    • @JasonJGallant
      @JasonJGallant  8 лет назад +1

      Glad my words could match the words in your heart. :)

  • @juliegloer786
    @juliegloer786 Год назад

    Ha! And I thought I WAS doing this and everybody else wasn’t ! Holy shit! My eyes are so wide open and I feel like a baby that knows nothing !

  • @SommyLogic
    @SommyLogic 5 лет назад

    Wow so glad i found you!

  • @ashleyrhae1554
    @ashleyrhae1554 4 года назад

    Thank you! I will fix this.😣❤️

  • @patrickkissane4341
    @patrickkissane4341 6 лет назад +1

    Hello jason,
    What I'm finding extremely difficult, is keeping conversation with my family and friends, I can feel the resistance inside me as we're talking, and just feel I'm to uninterested and want to get the hell out of there. I'll feel I'm able to listen, but have trouble finding responses that are along the lines of what they're talking about...I have "awakened" but maybe not as woke as i thought due to me not being able to remain at peace or even just comfortable talking, around certain people...thanks Jason, PeAcE!

    • @patrickkissane4341
      @patrickkissane4341 6 лет назад +1

      Along my journey, it's crazy to me, because when i first started getting the hang of meditation, or truly going inside myself, (while very depressed/anxious) I would have small realizations, for instance, as simple as it sounds, about 3 years ago, I had this moment where I was like "wow, you just need to breathe this way", which made me feel like my depression and anxiety were over with. That might of lasted a couple weeks, of me finally feeling good to get out of bed and go do something active. Then it would be back into feeling shitty, and after sporadically meditating I would get more small realizations that were making me feel better...after about 3 years of this, I had the bigger realization, which was how to live in the present, truly. Where now I feel I can stay present fairly well when I'm alone, but not so well with others..better so when those others are stangers.

  • @dawndid5972
    @dawndid5972 2 года назад

    I 🧡 your shirt and I like it says shaman

  • @natashamudford4011
    @natashamudford4011 5 лет назад

    I'm a Christian, so not into chanting etc., but you have some good advice here.

    • @JasonJGallant
      @JasonJGallant  5 лет назад

      Religion has nothing to do it. Sound was here long before beliefs were built around them. :)

    • @natashamudford4011
      @natashamudford4011 5 лет назад

      @@JasonJGallant
      Okay... I'm not sure how we got from the subject of stubbornness to sound... but this was your first video for me to watch. What is your main schtick? Frequencies? Can you send me a link for newbies? And do you specifically address tinnitus anywhere?

    • @JasonJGallant
      @JasonJGallant  5 лет назад

      You said you're not into chanting

    • @natashamudford4011
      @natashamudford4011 5 лет назад

      @@JasonJGallant
      Chanting is very repetitious, and we are taught to not pray "with vain repetition." I am sure there is a soothing quality to it, but it does seem eerie and pagan to me.
      I used to hum a lot, when I worked in a hectic atmosphere around lots of negative people. I would just make up some upbeat ditty. It seemed to lift my mood.

    • @JasonJGallant
      @JasonJGallant  5 лет назад

      It's not pagan or anything like that. Mantra is Sanskrit for "Free from the Mind" the mind is your prison. Watch more videos and perhaps you'll begin to understand.

  • @Kaths311
    @Kaths311 2 года назад

    Stubbornness is just a word, which side you want to be? stuck in a word or freedom from pain and suffering.

  • @berzerkfury1459
    @berzerkfury1459 Год назад

    Every stubborn person i knew in school turned out to be a deadbeat 10 years on.

  • @hoorasoleimani190
    @hoorasoleimani190 Месяц назад

    عشق برای شما از ایران ای آشنای روحی❤🎉

  • @LanaClarkLC
    @LanaClarkLC 4 года назад

    Are you saying that who you are (personality) is a bad thing? Or is personality and “who you are” different? Can you make a video on this?

  • @lulugigi5312
    @lulugigi5312 7 лет назад

    Thanks for your tips and analysis 😊😊😊😊😊

  • @bratzsnoopy
    @bratzsnoopy 9 лет назад

    Hi, Jason! What are your teachings on certain physical ailments, like acne, and their connection to our suffering? Is there already a video on that? Thank You

    • @JasonJGallant
      @JasonJGallant  9 лет назад +2

      +Andrea De La Fuente well, firstly I'd say, how does the acne make you feel? What does it make you think? Let go of all of that until there is no suffering left around it and then see what happens.

    • @JasonJGallant
      @JasonJGallant  9 лет назад

      +Andrea De La Fuente Here's a video on "Do You Hate How You Look." :)
      ruclips.net/video/5fq0f__itf4/видео.html

  • @darlingmaximums5615
    @darlingmaximums5615 7 лет назад +1

    Damn u FINE, now dat I got that out my system. Let me apologize for over stepping my boundaries. I'm n need of therapy and having a really hard time with opening up. Any small and/or slow suggestions? Don't wanna just up n 2 it & how will I know if she's rite 4 me, thx for sharing. Night.

  • @SemFromAmsterdam13
    @SemFromAmsterdam13 3 месяца назад

    I tried a lot but not this

  • @saffronb1998
    @saffronb1998 6 лет назад +1

    Stop looking at me like that

  • @liquidmocofilmsllc4915
    @liquidmocofilmsllc4915 5 лет назад

    What a farce.