I met a guy on line and he was saying the sweetest of things to me. we swapped numbers and he still was as sweet as pie until I told him am not a bedhoper or I have never been a friend with benefits and how precious my body is and that I respect it . never heard from him again. How obvious was that! !
+you got no jams dont let him slip away, your feelings have been on fire for 6 years! trust me just go for it and be done with it. odds are he don't like you, in which case you move on finally, or two he likes you back and you two become that 1 in a 1million couples
Nobody's ever asked me out, I know I'm not ugly... it's just that I have short hair and my best friend is gay that they think I'm a lesbian... But I AINT BITCH IM STRAIGHT AF
You are adorable! The examples you gave are right on. One that you didn't mention is the crush that always says, "You're such a good friend." It usually means just that...you're just friends and that is all it will ever be.
Awesome video! I agree with all of these signs because I've experienced all of them. I think another sign is when the person emphasizes they are "super busy" so that's why they haven't responded, but you've seen them active on social media. So they have time to comment on statuses, post things, and so on, but can't seem to find the time to answer you. Also when you notice they are avoiding you at school, yeah that's happened to me. You always know how to give the right advice! :)
Theres one more that you missed out and I have experienced it before is when you go out to buy something in the store and you spot the person you and notices you he/she tends to hide from you or when the person you're not interested let them know what's your ideal type. Great stuff Jay :D
This is totally true and a lot of your signs can also be applied to friendships imo, you know when a friend that you're really close to all of a sudden has problems texting you back but can easily text her boyfriend constantly even when you two are supposed to be hanging out... yeah, that's happened to me so many times it isn't even funny, I'm like an afterthought :( Having a conversation with myself has happened to me more often than I would like but we've only been friends since pre-school and of course the guy she meet a few years ago is more important than me (sarcasm)... Lol thanks for making this video, Jay, I just had a wake up call because of this :P
Haha I've done the one-sided conversations a lot lately... This video was a real slap in the face by reality from you~! Thank you once again Jay! Love you! ❤️
Oh my god you are so right! It's not like we don't see the signs we just don't want to. There are so many signs. I will keep all of these points in mind while dating! Also, you're such a cutie!
Exactly! Awesome points, Jay :) It really sucks and it's hard to accept when someone doesn't like you back, but don't worry about it! There's nothing wrong with you :) It happens to everyone - love is a gamble. It often doesn't work out, but that just makes the times when it does even more special, so don't settle for just anyone. I'd say the best thing is just to always trust your gut. It knows what's up.
Blessed!! I tell my friends about the delete option all the time and they think me crazy and mean. But why keep someone who is not going to put effort into a conversation?? Thank you for voicing my thoughts. Develop ADHD!!! Hahahahaha! You're really on point!!!
I got a guy that I've been crushing on for two years, put him to the back of my mind, saw him last week and started crushing so hard again. Decided to add him on Facebook though we've never officially met and he added me back. I'm super afraid that if I make the first step in the conversation that what you all listed in this video is going to happen. Ahhhh! ._.
#6. They come to you when their love interest is not interested in them. It's like your the automatic rebound when they are unhappy. And they are quick to disappear when things go smooth sailing for them.
I have never gone to a movie thinking it was a date, even if it was I am so oblivious that I can never tell. This just cleared up what I accidentaly did.
if you are hanging out, and grab something to eat and the girl insists on paying but you're trying to be a gentleman, and she says "chill its not a date", she isn't interested lol or if they only want to chill if your friend is going too, then they are not interested in you. great vid btw!
Sometimes though, when someone responds to your confession in that "confused" way- they may also be simply taken aback and at a loss for the right words. I've responded this way before not bc I didn't like the guy but wasn't prepared nor aware of my own feelings so was using that to fill an awkward gap :-///
Hahaha Jay Guo love it!! Yes it happens that we think, it's a date, nope fooled ya, it's a group thing!! Thank you! It was enlightening... To comment on the last sign, they will answer "I would like to date but I am moving away or I have to focus on my studies, I will not give you my full attention " some excuses... Thank Jay, gooood video
Can you make a video about how to act around the person after u stop giving them the time of your day? Like from this video, I know now that this guy I like doesn't like me, and I made it clear that I don't want a one way friendship relationship (even though I like him), and I was planing on not messaging or caring about him, but idk how to act after I do totally ignore him (that's basically holding me back from forgetting about him).
I have that same prob :( I want to be friends but I can't forget that I like him more idk if he likes me back, probs not though he has another girl friend and I was doing fine untill I messed up and might have shown a sign I don't like him by accident :/
The guy I like would start a conversation with me when he sees me in person and he is playful with me.... but rarely text me. ps: We went on a date before. I could not figure if he is interested in me or not. xox
The last one was my issue multiplied 10 fold. It honestly went well till one of my friends decided on my behalf to tell a guy that I liked him. So his response to it was to ignore my existence completely, and I didn't know at the time my friend told him. The actions that took place after did not go well, but the way I took it I lost all respect for him, and the fact that he couldn't tell me himself showed me that he wasn't a man in anyway.
OMG that made me laugh out loud sending 6 text messages with no reply part!!! Been there done that! It doesn't ALWAYS mean they are not interested though... sometimes they are playing hard to get or pissed off/have issues! But no matter what the explanation there's no excuse and it's rude!
Faith Zulu hmmmm, I have a video on long distance relationships: ruclips.net/video/SSPM0lmJCN0c/видео.htmlheck it out and if it still doesn't help let me know =]
+JayGuo i wish u answer me i know a guy works in thr administration of my uni and we are not allowed to go there once i did and he was checking my ID so he saw my phone number there then after i finished he called me and tell me that i forgot some peaper there i went back and those were not mine so i texte him on whatsapp and he answers me only with a word or so means he is not interested by the way he is alittle shy how i am going to pay his attention?
There are several components to reducing shyness at home . One place I discovered that successfully combines these is the Sebs Shyness Tactic (google it if you're interested) it's the most useful guide that I've heard of. Check out all the interesting information .
I'm laughing but I'm also sad because the last one really happened to me! I finally confessed to this guy and he's just like, "what? Huh? Who, me? That's like-- so what were you saying?" LIKE BRUH FORREAL THO THIS IS WHY I DON'T APPROACH PEOPLE.
4:45 😣😣😣😣 I got that before in high school. Then when I gave up and moved on, he started trying to get my attend back. I get turned off by that type of behavior.
after i went on my phone and saw that i was the only one to start the conversation and then like he would stop replaying i could see just that i was just talking to my self so i deleted him off my phone
yea this just happened to me, i got her number and i figured this was the case but my friend was over hyping me. He said be positive and it wasn't that i was being negative, but realistic.
When they suddenly go from talking/texting to you frequently throughout the day and then tell you that they've made a complete schedule for their day (when to eat, sleep, workout, study, & even breaks), but time to spend with you is nowhere to be found. Then they start responding less and less (with excuse after excuse of why they didn't reply for DAYS) til you're the one having the long conversations with little or no response. Yep! That's a 3 striker right there with red flags all over the place. I too stopped and noticed the chat log was mostly me and just stopped.
Jay Guo Honestly, all of those signs are so annoying to go through. I wish that the people who'd do that to someone would have the common decency to just be honest. Like instead of just suddenly ignoring the person just say "I'm sorry, but this is not working out. I want to break up." Pretending the person doesn't exist, ignoring their texts, etc is just childish.
Hi love love your video's! I was wondering what your take on girls and guys dating in their levels are. whether or not girls and guys who consider themselves to be lower in looks should stay with people in the same looks category. I'm attracted to guys who are handsome, fit and have style, i obviously look for personality but that's never the initial attraction but if i were to go by i guess normal views I'd be in mid level, I'm heavier weight and average looks, should i remain in that level?
When someone talks about another person in front of someone else it could be that he/she is trying to make her crush jealous to see if their crush likes them
With most people I would say all of them are true. Except for me... I don't like to feel like I'm annoying or bothering someone so I usually never message someone first(I usually tell everyone this though). Although you can tell I'm engaged in the conversation. I'm also always in constant denial about people liking me so when someone tells me I'm always looking around like WHO? ME?! I have never been the person that thought I was going on a date and it ended up being a group thing but I am the person that has done it to someone that liked me BUT I did not know he liked me til later on.
a guy i liked and i thought he liked me, asked me to the movies once. when i showed up, i was like "hey lets go in now" bc he was just standing around. he said "my other friends aren't here yet". i was like wuuuut lmao. 2 other guys and another girl showed up. it was so awkward.. i ignored him as much as possible after that. it felt like the ultimate friend zone. hahaha
+livvy trivvy lmao, nah it wasn't friend zone it was more lack of confidence. If he wasn't interested or thought you were cute he wouldn't have asked you to movies, problem is he was probably to nervous to go by himself. haha poor guy.
+Jay Guo hmm okay that makes sense haha well too late now, guess he thought i wasn't interested and found himself someone new. guess i just misunderstood the situation. thanks for replying though!!
hey jay! i have a question! What if you definitely know there's an attraction there, but he doesn't speak English AT ALL. There's always hope right?? hahah xx
Thanks for the help xD I'm not the type to get heartbroken easily lol~ As long as I got my endless supply of ice cream and subscription to netflix, then life is good. ;P
This was so me before. I started to text someone I liked but he only replied to me with 2 or 3 words and I was always the one trying to make a conversation so I had to give up on him bc I didn't wanted to give my time to someone who doesn't appreciate me.
One of the signs were, talk to your self. Lmfao I relate to this one alot. Once I texted him about 8 messages and few of them were long. Then he had to say "lol sorry I was busy". Yeah busy reading them and not responding after two hours! -.-
I was just thinking about stuff like this today! Like how to spot if u are being played... one of the things I thought about is, every time a guy says "we should be married" or "why aren't we married yet" when you say something funny or whatever, they never mean that they would actually be interested. It's just one of the things players say in order to make a girl feel good and start liking the guy who says stuff like that. And they're just chasing booty :P I spot guys like that from miles away, I just hope other girls would too, it would prevent some of the heartache girls go through :
The thing with the girl/guy asking you for advice is eh too. I've had a girl ask me for advice before and even date another guy while we were friends. She was so shy to make a move so she was using that to make me shy.
No, I didn't make up the fact that she did it because she was shy. She dated her friend of two years and would stare at me allll the time and eventually told me what she did when we dated.
I asked a girl out to a winter light festival she brought a random guy I don't know at all and didn't tell me.... Lmao idk why she did the cruelest thing to me
I was on a roll with this one...because this clearly doesn't happen to me...so I was trying to see if I did it to other people...but nooo...I was happily in the clear...grinning from ear to ear...until you threw out sign #5 lol!!! Then, I just died...but on a positive note...thanks for the insight...
On the bright side, I understand what this convenient memory lost means..lol...and I feel much better knowing...Its less pressure on us both...I'm Happy!!! Thanks For this video!!
I feel sad , I haven't actually talked and had a real conversation with Jack in almost a week and four days ( yes I counted the days he hasn't texted me )
how do i fix that 3rd one or something??? like, my crush always talks about trying to get with "cute" girls but they're all assholes. I'd treat him so nice, but he won't even notiiiicee why won't he let me love him, how can I get him to like me?? please, I am in need of help
Omg Jay u reminded me of a person who honestly didn't get any of my signs that I was not interested and even when I told him directly. This will never and impossible to happen and then a week later he tried again. I was like WTH. I told you already. Omg I am laughing right now because there are such people who don't understand. And honestly don't push yourself , if someone was going to love you, they will love you without all this painful effort lol.
I have like this messed up thing. I mostly never talk to anyone if they don't initiate the conversation :))) Thank god my friends got used to it and don't give up on me :3
...and altough most of the people who have watched every single youtube video like this one will still think their crush likes them ( even if they obviously don´t) afterwards.including me.damn it.
well there was this one time I told my crush "I liked him" he said he did to, so after a while we talk an all but he starts to slowly change an acts different, he doesn't text like he used to an avoids me so I asked him one simple question which was probably a mistake, I asked him if he still likes me and he never answered at all he just read it so yea ,that's one story u can read ig lol.
well, there's this guy! and i guess he likes me but only as a friend i guess! i talked to him on fb and he didnt make conversation, but he replied so fast and didnt givve me one word answers..also gave me 2 winky faces! anyways..everytime i see him during school we say hi, but only if its in front of my friends THAT HE KNOWS or if i'm alone or if he's alone! how do i continue to speak to him? in real life and on fb? HAAAAAAALP
hmm what about if he starts conversations in real life but on the phone I'm always the one asking how he's doing? he always answers directly or after 1/2 hours but i feel kinda like a stalker always texting him first :/ and always doesn't mean every day haha just when i didn't see him for a while
+Mell Pink That's what i was wondering. Some people just aren't the texting type. I think it's best to go off of real life experiences texts can only tell you so much.
+Miri Waru i waved at him once and he was srsly far away noone infront of where i was standing and he looked quickly then away then looked again then walked away very fast smiling like shy
what if the guy text you out the blue. there's a guy that whenever he not feeling good or sick he texts me I know he is busy he goes to college and works
That 180° view is eh. I've had a couple girls that liked me and once or twice in like the 100 times that I was by them not notice me. Sometimes a girl might just be distracted. It's something bad if it happens more than once/twice in like a week unless she's having a bad week. This is why relationships are complicated 😂. Don't overthink it.
I feel like I'm doing these things to the person I have a crush on...
But why?
I met a guy on line and he was saying the sweetest of things to me. we swapped numbers and he still was as sweet as pie until I told him am not a bedhoper or I have never been a friend with benefits and how precious my body is and that I respect it . never heard from him again. How obvious was that! !
I came here to seek advice and tips, but got distracted by how cute you are XD
AWEH! 😂
PetTheWhiteFox11 lol why is this true
I no
Omg Jay, you never start a conversation with me..
Bison Gee Haha, This comment made me die laughing XD
lol
dead af 😂😭😂
more than half of the video was about txts and talking to him, but im SO SCARED AND SHY to even say hi to him!
+you got no jams dont let him slip away, your feelings have been on fire for 6 years! trust me just go for it and be done with it. odds are he don't like you, in which case you move on finally, or two he likes you back and you two become that 1 in a 1million couples
I don't think I can move on! It's too hard to like him for that long and then just not like him!
Nobody's ever asked me out, I know I'm not ugly... it's just that I have short hair and my best friend is gay that they think I'm a lesbian...
But I AINT BITCH IM STRAIGHT AF
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Maybe you should change image 😂
You are adorable! The examples you gave are right on. One that you didn't mention is the crush that always says, "You're such a good friend." It usually means just that...you're just friends and that is all it will ever be.
+Kristin Quist lol that is a good one, the youre the best friend anyone could want lol classic.
The "talking to yourself" part got me so much! I did that with the guy I told you about on you live stream today
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+Ashley Regis hey ashely haha, see my vids do make sense! Listen to them! xD
+Jay Guo that's what I do best, haha! Thank you for your hard work and effort!! ♡♡
Can you make a video about relationships between asians and foreigners ?
Awesome video! I agree with all of these signs because I've experienced all of them. I think another sign is when the person emphasizes they are "super busy" so that's why they haven't responded, but you've seen them active on social media. So they have time to comment on statuses, post things, and so on, but can't seem to find the time to answer you. Also when you notice they are avoiding you at school, yeah that's happened to me. You always know how to give the right advice! :)
Theres one more that you missed out and I have experienced it before is when you go out to buy something in the store and you spot the person you and notices you he/she tends to hide from you or when the person you're not interested let them know what's your ideal type. Great stuff Jay :D
MIXED SIGNALS
This is totally true and a lot of your signs can also be applied to friendships imo, you know when a friend that you're really close to all of a sudden has problems texting you back but can easily text her boyfriend constantly even when you two are supposed to be hanging out... yeah, that's happened to me so many times it isn't even funny, I'm like an afterthought :( Having a conversation with myself has happened to me more often than I would like but we've only been friends since pre-school and of course the guy she meet a few years ago is more important than me (sarcasm)... Lol thanks for making this video, Jay, I just had a wake up call because of this :P
NeonEcko187 what you said about friendships is also true! thanks for sharing that ecko =]
Haha I've done the one-sided conversations a lot lately... This video was a real slap in the face by reality from you~! Thank you once again Jay! Love you! ❤️
Oh my god you are so right! It's not like we don't see the signs we just don't want to. There are so many signs. I will keep all of these points in mind while dating! Also, you're such a cutie!
Deborah Levy thanks for the compliment deborah =] i hope you find the right one!
Exactly! Awesome points, Jay :) It really sucks and it's hard to accept when someone doesn't like you back, but don't worry about it! There's nothing wrong with you :) It happens to everyone - love is a gamble. It often doesn't work out, but that just makes the times when it does even more special, so don't settle for just anyone. I'd say the best thing is just to always trust your gut. It knows what's up.
Sofia B Sofia, I couldn't have said it any better myself. =]
Seriously though the 3 one is so on point
Like everything u said ist so true 😂
Blessed!! I tell my friends about the delete option all the time and they think me crazy and mean. But why keep someone who is not going to put effort into a conversation?? Thank you for voicing my thoughts. Develop ADHD!!! Hahahahaha! You're really on point!!!
han-bi Oyeyemi Yeah! show ur friends my videos if they not listening to u lol
I got a guy that I've been crushing on for two years, put him to the back of my mind, saw him last week and started crushing so hard again. Decided to add him on Facebook though we've never officially met and he added me back. I'm super afraid that if I make the first step in the conversation that what you all listed in this video is going to happen. Ahhhh! ._.
Wilde Kylee since you have him on Facebook, just poke him lol
What if you dont like the person, but having a problem telling them no.
Omg having a crush can be so hard 😕 you always gotta be aware of whatever little sign the other person give you.
Dalia Bonilla lol thats if you crushing, id just say confess and get it over with. know what you want and go after it.
Can I get some advice lol
I just discovered your videos and honestly, they're very very helpful for me not to make a fool of myself so thanks cx
#6. They come to you when their love interest is not interested in them. It's like your the automatic rebound when they are unhappy. And they are quick to disappear when things go smooth sailing for them.
Oh, Thanks I'm cutting some people from the circle... Relationships are a two way street...
Amaimomo yeap, I'm glad you are getting rid of the negative
I have never gone to a movie thinking it was a date, even if it was I am so oblivious that I can never tell. This just cleared up what I accidentaly did.
if you are hanging out, and grab something to eat and the girl insists on paying but you're trying to be a gentleman, and she says "chill its not a date", she isn't interested lol or if they only want to chill if your friend is going too, then they are not interested in you. great vid btw!
BooksmartBeauty LMAO, if i was on a "date" and a girl said that id so shot down lol
This is so true, if someone don't even have a minute to text or say hi is not interested at all in you.
3:32 that happened to me, lol.
Kyori Shan lol, I'm sorry that it did =/ buttttt like i always say its better to not waste anymore of your time and move on =]
Sometimes though, when someone responds to your confession in that "confused" way- they may also be simply taken aback and at a loss for the right words. I've responded this way before not bc I didn't like the guy but wasn't prepared nor aware of my own feelings so was using that to fill an awkward gap :-///
Grace Charles haha yea this is true too. that has also happened to me a couple of times.
Hahaha Jay Guo love it!! Yes it happens that we think, it's a date, nope fooled ya, it's a group thing!! Thank you! It was enlightening... To comment on the last sign, they will answer "I would like to date but I am moving away or I have to focus on my studies, I will not give you my full attention " some excuses... Thank Jay, gooood video
Those are some good points, people will make excuses to let you down lightly. :) thank you for watching!
The harsh truths, but important to be aware of them.
Can you make a video about how to act around the person after u stop giving them the time of your day? Like from this video, I know now that this guy I like doesn't like me, and I made it clear that I don't want a one way friendship relationship (even though I like him), and I was planing on not messaging or caring about him, but idk how to act after I do totally ignore him (that's basically holding me back from forgetting about him).
I have that same prob :( I want to be friends but I can't forget that I like him more idk if he likes me back, probs not though he has another girl friend and I was doing fine untill I messed up and might have shown a sign I don't like him by accident :/
The guy I like would start a conversation with me when he sees me in person and he is playful with me.... but rarely text me. ps: We went on a date before. I could not figure if he is interested in me or not. xox
I really enjoy your videos .. they are so realistic you know .. Thanks for sharing your opinions .... keep going
sally dreamduchess ahh thank you sally!
My first video of yours and you've mentioned my name and Korean BBQ so I'm sold! lol subscribed real quick
The last one was my issue multiplied 10 fold. It honestly went well till one of my friends decided on my behalf to tell a guy that I liked him. So his response to it was to ignore my existence completely, and I didn't know at the time my friend told him. The actions that took place after did not go well, but the way I took it I lost all respect for him, and the fact that he couldn't tell me himself showed me that he wasn't a man in anyway.
OMG that made me laugh out loud sending 6 text messages with no reply part!!! Been there done that! It doesn't ALWAYS mean they are not interested though... sometimes they are playing hard to get or pissed off/have issues! But no matter what the explanation there's no excuse and it's rude!
mahadewiiii lol all i gotta say to people who do that is " Aint Nobody Got Time For That" lol
So true Jay - you really know how it is!! hehe
Jay Can u do a video on a distant crush. And how u should go about confessing. Also just ur thoughts. Really appreciate it love 😍😘
Faith Zulu hmmmm, I have a video on long distance relationships: ruclips.net/video/SSPM0lmJCN0c/видео.htmlheck it out and if it still doesn't help let me know =]
okay got it he is not interested by the way you have an amazing lips and teeth
+Kaw aaron thank you law =]
+JayGuo i wish u answer me i know a guy works in thr administration of my uni and we are not allowed to go there once i did and he was checking my ID so he saw my phone number there then after i finished he called me and tell me that i forgot some peaper there i went back and those were not mine so i texte him on whatsapp and he answers me only with a word or so means he is not interested by the way he is alittle shy how i am going to pay his attention?
There are several components to reducing shyness at home . One place I discovered that successfully combines these is the Sebs Shyness Tactic (google it if you're interested) it's the most useful guide that I've heard of. Check out all the interesting information .
I'm laughing but I'm also sad because the last one really happened to me! I finally confessed to this guy and he's just like, "what? Huh? Who, me? That's like-- so what were you saying?"
LIKE BRUH FORREAL THO THIS IS WHY I DON'T APPROACH PEOPLE.
This video made me laugh so much. It's making my day so much better. Keep doing what you're doing! ☺️
Mimi Pham thanks mimi! I'm glad you like it =] remember to subscribe for more!
Perfect timing. I needed this video. 😊
supitsabubblyaznx3 good, glad to be of service =]
4:45 😣😣😣😣 I got that before in high school. Then when I gave up and moved on, he started trying to get my attend back. I get turned off by that type of behavior.
you just said everything I would like to know. Thanks a lot!!!
Aline Marinho np aline! Im glad I can help you out!
after i went on my phone and saw that i was the only one to start the conversation and then like he would stop replaying i could see just that i was just talking to my self so i deleted him off my phone
We sometimes need tough love to wake up from dumbness. Trust Jay to give us that kind of love lol
Good advice!
Aide Ortega ah aide, lol ill always be here to throw realness at you lol
yea this just happened to me, i got her number and i figured this was the case but my friend was over hyping me. He said be positive and it wasn't that i was being negative, but realistic.
normally i wouldn't be on vids like this but my friend made it seem like i was just insecure lmfao
Hahaha I really needed to hear this. And the dude I'm crushing is asian omg. thank you for your advice
It's so true! every time people ignoring me but IM RIGHT ON THE OTHER SIDE OF THE STREET AAAAARRGH xD
BTW: I love you
Jenny Unaufgeräumt haha thank you jenny =]
When they suddenly go from talking/texting to you frequently throughout the day and then tell you that they've made a complete schedule for their day (when to eat, sleep, workout, study, & even breaks), but time to spend with you is nowhere to be found. Then they start responding less and less (with excuse after excuse of why they didn't reply for DAYS) til you're the one having the long conversations with little or no response.
Yep! That's a 3 striker right there with red flags all over the place. I too stopped and noticed the chat log was mostly me and just stopped.
whiepanda77 yea, it comes to a certain point where you know they are deliberately not replying
Jay Guo Honestly, all of those signs are so annoying to go through. I wish that the people who'd do that to someone would have the common decency to just be honest. Like instead of just suddenly ignoring the person just say "I'm sorry, but this is not working out. I want to break up." Pretending the person doesn't exist, ignoring their texts, etc is just childish.
When they actively ask if you like anyone else
Mcbustedforever 〈3 ohhh thats true, thats a classic one ahah
Hi love love your video's!
I was wondering what your take on girls and guys dating in their levels are. whether or not girls and guys who consider themselves to be lower in looks should stay with people in the same looks category. I'm attracted to guys who are handsome, fit and have style, i obviously look for personality but that's never the initial attraction but if i were to go by i guess normal views I'd be in mid level, I'm heavier weight and average looks, should i remain in that level?
When someone talks about another person in front of someone else it could be that he/she is trying to make her crush jealous to see if their crush likes them
With most people I would say all of them are true. Except for me... I don't like to feel like I'm annoying or bothering someone so I usually never message someone first(I usually tell everyone this though). Although you can tell I'm engaged in the conversation. I'm also always in constant denial about people liking me so when someone tells me I'm always looking around like WHO? ME?! I have never been the person that thought I was going on a date and it ended up being a group thing but I am the person that has done it to someone that liked me BUT I did not know he liked me til later on.
Alexia Peterson haha we are similar alexia, I too am in constant denial haha
a guy i liked and i thought he liked me, asked me to the movies once. when i showed up, i was like "hey lets go in now" bc he was just standing around. he said "my other friends aren't here yet". i was like wuuuut lmao. 2 other guys and another girl showed up. it was so awkward.. i ignored him as much as possible after that. it felt like the ultimate friend zone. hahaha
+livvy trivvy lmao, nah it wasn't friend zone it was more lack of confidence. If he wasn't interested or thought you were cute he wouldn't have asked you to movies, problem is he was probably to nervous to go by himself. haha poor guy.
+Jay Guo hmm okay that makes sense haha well too late now, guess he thought i wasn't interested and found himself someone new. guess i just misunderstood the situation. thanks for replying though!!
I it hasn't happened to me but I have done it to ppl....where am like sure we can met up sat...then like 6 other ppl show up.
hey jay! i have a question! What if you definitely know there's an attraction there, but he doesn't speak English AT ALL. There's always hope right?? hahah xx
That last one hurt I have to accept it is true tho :( he doesn't like me
Brenda Serrano I'm sorry to hear that brenda, but its better to know and move on then to waste more time =]
Thanks for the help xD I'm not the type to get heartbroken easily lol~ As long as I got my endless supply of ice cream and subscription to netflix, then life is good. ;P
This was so me before. I started to text someone I liked but he only replied to me with 2 or 3 words and I was always the one trying to make a conversation so I had to give up on him bc I didn't wanted to give my time to someone who doesn't appreciate me.
Selena War mmmm good good you made the right decision.
One of the signs were, talk to your self. Lmfao I relate to this one alot. Once I texted him about 8 messages and few of them were long. Then he had to say "lol sorry I was busy". Yeah busy reading them and not responding after two hours! -.-
jaycie lee lmfao! two hours!? omg id be mad!
I was just thinking about stuff like this today! Like how to spot if u are being played... one of the things I thought about is, every time a guy says "we should be married" or "why aren't we married yet" when you say something funny or whatever, they never mean that they would actually be interested. It's just one of the things players say in order to make a girl feel good and start liking the guy who says stuff like that. And they're just chasing booty :P
I spot guys like that from miles away, I just hope other girls would too, it would prevent some of the heartache girls go through :
grafiitti ohh thats good insight grafitti, when girls try to smooth talk you thats a definite sign
LOL at the end about the ADHD
krazyazngurl99 lol I've done it before xD
The thing with the girl/guy asking you for advice is eh too. I've had a girl ask me for advice before and even date another guy while we were friends. She was so shy to make a move so she was using that to make me shy.
No, I didn't make up the fact that she did it because she was shy. She dated her friend of two years and would stare at me allll the time and eventually told me what she did when we dated.
GGGGLLLLLEEEEENNNN!!!!! lol
+Hay Beach lol hiiiiii
lol... You are freaking hilarious, Jay.
are you Viet?
Jessica Nguyen lol nah, im Chinese =p
This makes me understand people who hate humanity (people can be real mean 😕), Good video though!
CatsGoMwaw have faith, there are still good people =] and thank you
Best video of I have seen on this topic, very accurate :)
Ella H. haha thank you =]
You know he doesn't like you when he calls you "little sis"
I asked a girl out to a winter light festival she brought a random guy I don't know at all and didn't tell me.... Lmao idk why she did the cruelest thing to me
I was on a roll with this one...because this clearly doesn't happen to me...so I was trying to see if I did it to other people...but nooo...I was happily in the clear...grinning from ear to ear...until you threw out sign #5 lol!!! Then, I just died...but on a positive note...thanks for the insight...
Precious Elder lmao, i gotcha at the end huh >=] lol
On the bright side, I understand what this convenient memory lost means..lol...and I feel much better knowing...Its less pressure on us both...I'm Happy!!! Thanks For this video!!
I was this way with a guy. very honest. and he got mad said I broke his heart. lol but I am not the type to break heart.
Omggg yess all these things are the truest i have felt every one of them ..with guys i liked 😒😑
Deliberately ignoring you 😂 ouch
Im guilty of talking to my self and then being set up with the movies
I feel sad , I haven't actually talked and had a real conversation with Jack in almost a week and four days
( yes I counted the days he hasn't texted me )
how do i fix that 3rd one or something??? like, my crush always talks about trying to get with "cute" girls but they're all assholes. I'd treat him so nice, but he won't even notiiiicee
why won't he let me love him, how can I get him to like me?? please, I am in need of help
"Wassup" "nuthin, chillin" "Wassup" "nuthin, chillin" hahahahahahaaaa!!!!!! rofl
HEY! Jay Guo this is message #4 at 3:00 I'm checking to see if I've gotten a reply(!)...this clip had me laughing to myself hard.
Eva Aller hey eva, i am sorry i got back to you late but yes i have gotten your comment and replies!
O! Ok cool, no worries it's only been a couple days really. I was making fun of your clip! The 3 o'clock thing killed me. xD
Omg Jay u reminded me of a person who honestly didn't get any of my signs that I was not interested and even when I told him directly. This will never and impossible to happen and then a week later he tried again. I was like WTH. I told you already. Omg I am laughing right now because there are such people who don't understand. And honestly don't push yourself , if someone was going to love you, they will love you without all this painful effort lol.
Fatyma Yala Yala lol share this on your social media! maybe the guy might watch it and think ohhhhhhhh! lol xD
I have like this messed up thing. I mostly never talk to anyone if they don't initiate the conversation :)))
Thank god my friends got used to it and don't give up on me :3
Tania Vulpes lmao I do that too sometimes, but thats also because Im comfortable being by myself haha
Jay Guo ikr? Have you ever got through one of those times when someone straight forwardly asks you if you hate them? :)) that is waaay too weird :)))
Yoo
I always like your videos before I watch it, because I know it will be good, it's always so good and I think you so funny
Laís Freitas ah, thank you Lais
...and altough most of the people who have watched every single youtube video like this one will still think their crush likes them ( even if they obviously don´t) afterwards.including me.damn it.
Sahnieee lol try and change!
And if he's shy how do I know if he's not interested or he just can't show that he likes me bc he's shy?
What if I don't talk to this person. I just look at him from a distance.
well there was this one time I told my crush "I liked him" he said he did to, so after a while we talk an all but he starts to slowly change an acts different, he doesn't text like he used to an avoids me so I asked him one simple question which was probably a mistake, I asked him if he still likes me and he never answered at all he just read it so yea ,that's one story u can read ig lol.
This is soooo factual!
well, there's this guy! and i guess he likes me but only as a friend i guess! i talked to him on fb and he didnt make conversation, but he replied so fast and didnt givve me one word answers..also gave me 2 winky faces! anyways..everytime i see him during school we say hi, but only if its in front of my friends THAT HE KNOWS or if i'm alone or if he's alone! how do i continue to speak to him? in real life and on fb? HAAAAAAALP
Your 5th sign is so funny!!!!!!!!!!!!! LOL
Can you do one of this vids but in a traditional way not electronic.
I think some of the guys who talk to me should watch this video
= 3= hrmmmm
Damn relax
セーラーグール / Sailor Ghoul lol share it on your social media! they might watch it ! ahah
hhahaha yeah
2:30 is soo me! This is happening to me right now.
jhangelgurl if its happening to you, you need to stop it lol
This shit hurts cause people done this to me b4
hmm what about if he starts conversations in real life but on the phone I'm always the one asking how he's doing? he always answers directly or after 1/2 hours but i feel kinda like a stalker always texting him first :/ and always doesn't mean every day haha just when i didn't see him for a while
+Mell Pink That's what i was wondering. Some people just aren't the texting type. I think it's best to go off of real life experiences texts can only tell you so much.
Can you make a video about how to tell if a guy likes you without using your phone or something
what if they shy and they just answer you in one word because they dont know what to say?
+Miri Waru i waved at him once and he was srsly far away noone infront of where i was standing and he looked quickly then away then looked again then walked away very fast smiling like shy
Thank you for this !!
what if the guy text you out the blue. there's a guy that whenever he not feeling good or sick he texts me I know he is busy he goes to college and works
Suuupperr helpful. Contact deleted lol.
+dwaeji tokki good! thats the first step!
Haha this is so true. if only we could remember this before we waste 8 months on this.
That 180° view is eh. I've had a couple girls that liked me and once or twice in like the 100 times that I was by them not notice me. Sometimes a girl might just be distracted. It's something bad if it happens more than once/twice in like a week unless she's having a bad week. This is why relationships are complicated 😂. Don't overthink it.