TMI Questions Muslim Women are Too Scared to Ask! | GIRL TALK
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- Опубликовано: 15 сен 2024
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GIRL TALK for Muslimahs! Modesty, friendships, deen, self-growth - this video is packed with all of the details for being your best self!
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Hope you girls enjoyed! Here are some important notes I wanted to include:
- Since I received many questions on how to grow an islamic yt channel, halal jobs for Muslim women etc, I will be making a separate video completely on that topic, so stay tuned!
- If I didn't answer your question, it would be because I felt I wasn't qualified to answer them. These were questions that took on a more personal + serious issue route, and I genuinely believed that they could be better asked by a local sheikh or someone else, as I don’t want to give an answer to a very serious question in which I have little knowledge/experience in.
- Questions that were sent through the link on my community board is the ONLY way I can answer them. This promotes fairness for all of you and it helps me to better organize them. For the next Girl Talk segment, I will give the new link on my community board :)
Idk who to talk to, I’m Muslim, I rlly care abt my religion, it’s number one for me, just, like u know, in our religion being lgbt is strictly prohibited, I used to to live in Canada for 7 years and i recently moved, it’s been an entire year since I moved, I had two friends from Canada, one was Muslim and the other one was Hindu, the three of us were best friends, (we still are) we contact each other daily using social media and call from time to time, we’re rlly close, then I found out she was bi yesterday, I felt like my world just shattered, idk If it’s ok to continue our friendship, even tho she says I’m still the same person, I just can’t see her the same way anymore, I feel so empty and torn, my religion is second to nothing so I can’t help but feel this might end our friendship, I tell my mom everything, I’ve been thru some stuff and my mom has been there for me, I used to lie a lot to my mom so I promised her that I would never lie to her again, I told her abt this and she was just as surprised as me, she doesn’t want me to be friends w/ her anymore, but it’s not that easy, I’m scared of losing her, I want to give this a chance but is this the right thing to do!? were rlly young (13-15) so should we rlly be thinking abt our sexuality from this age, in my old school (the one my 2 friends are in rn) they talked abt lgbt ALOT, like they even showed videos of them to kindergarteners telling them “it’s ok to be gay” I’m wondering is she just confused or smth cuz they talk to us abt this 24/7? I’m so confused, a day ago our friendship was perfect and now idk, this channel, I rlly relate to it, I have no one to talk to abt this, just wondering any of my Muslim sisters been thru this? And since we’re young what the hell do I do? I don’t support her actions nor accept it, which rlly just put us in an awkward position, I thought these 2 would be my friends for life, now I’m not so sure, and it’s killing me. Pls anyone have advice or experience?
@@No_name_here368 Assalamu Alaikum sister, sorry for the delay in response! While I don't have experience with this issue, my heart bleeds for the dilemma you are in. It can be very painful to re-evaluate friendships, especially close ones. First, you need to see if this friendship will affect your Deen. Your friend, does she personally talk about lgbt to you? Is she aware that lgbt issues is a boundary for you? When you say it puts you both in an "awkward position" does that mean her being bi makes her uncomfortable around you? Or does it mean that you feel uncomfortable with her identity because of your beliefs? It's important to clarify these feelings with her, but also within yourself. Open and honest communication could help both of you navigate this situation better.
You don't have to completely cut her off, but it’s important to establish clear boundaries that align with your faith. If she respects your boundaries and understands that certain topics are off-limits, it may be possible to maintain the friendship without compromising your values. However, if you find that her views or discussions are impacting your spiritual well-being, it might be necessary to distance yourself for the sake of your Deen.
Remember, it’s okay to prioritize your relationship with Allah over any other relationship. But it's ALSO important that you gently communicate those concerns to her, explaining that while you value the friendship, your faith guides your principles, and there are certain boundaries you need to uphold (just as she does too). InshaAllah, she will understand and respect your stance.
At the end of the day, make lots of duaa for guidance and trust that Allah will steer you towards what is best for your heart and your faith. Sending you love sister
@@HerDeenDunya_ Thank you so much for replying! I made it clear that lgbt is prohibited in my religion and she made sure not to talk abt it to me, all she did was tell she me she is bi and she’s never brought it up again, she still talks to me the same way so sometimes I actually do forget she bi and when I remember the depression hits hard 😭. But she respects my beliefs and when I told her I don’t support her actions nor do I accept her she fully understood and didn’t argue, I don’t think our friendship will be the same since now I see her as someone’s who likes both genders, but I hope to guide her and talk to her abt Islam more, all I can do is put my trust in Allah SWT.
@@No_name_here368 No problem! Yes, that's the way to go. It sucks, but It's nice to see how much she respects you and your religion, may Allah make it easy for you :)
SubhanaAllah!!! Shukran for this beautiful reminder and beneficial knowledge Ma shaa Allah TabarkAllah 🤲🏾🤲🏾♥️🌹
And honestly this video helped me think in the ways in where I lack so again jazakallh so much for your help 😗
Allahummah barik, thank you for this series, a lot of the answers were really helpful. Jazza kullai kairen!
Is wearing mist and perfume outside halal?
Allahumabarik your way of speaking is beautiful sister.May Allah continue to reward you with immense blessings.
Jazakillah sister!
Assalamalikum I am a teen with very big dreams such as have leadership so I could change my country for the best I really want to do something to benefit the Muslims who are in pain . Well just so you know it I'm a Pakistani and my country is in a really bad shape right now and since I haven't come across any men in my nation that will stand up against the corrupt leaders I decided that I'd dedicate my life to create better environment the new Muslim generation can live in but I'm still unsure if Allah will like it or despise it because even if you have good intentions you need to have right actions as well I will really appreciate if you could help me come to a conclusion because I can't decide wether to be selfish and go marry a good man and be a good wife and a good mother only to my children or the many more people who might be waiting for Allah to send help to them just so you know I'm alhamdullilah very fortunate and want to help the unfortunate. jazakallh u khair ❤❤❤
I think it honestly depends, for example live in a Muslim country but they sell alcohol, have clubs and haram stuff, so if I dedicate myself to get rid of those things to make my country a better place I think that would please Allah SWT, Inshallah you’ll make ur country a better place, my country is also in bad shape became of all the wars, I’m from Iraq. And the pple are still affected to this day, i used to live in Canada until a recently moved back here with my family. I also wish to make my country a better place, I’ve lived in a country where it was amazing, the difference is rlly big but living in a Muslim country ofc is better, hopefully Allah subhanna wa ta’aala will help us make our countries a better place, good luck to you my sister. And I think having a family is also important, we don’t know our future, so trust Allah subhanna wa ta’aala and Inshallah all will be good.
I personally, think it would be a better option to help your country without leading it somehow. Also it depends how many years you want to spend in leadership..
But if you want to do leadership. Do it. As for having a spouse and children. I’m sure that happens in jannah too. Maybe you could do both-
@@Hahahaha-7 indeed, becoming a doctor, or these kinds of things also helps, u don’t exactly have to be president or smth.
@@No_name_here368 I kind of disagree. Because there are so many Muslim doctors, lawyers, engineers. But mainly those in power can actually change things, look at Palestine, look at all the Muslim doctors, engineers, lawyers, journalists, around the globe, what are they doing exactly?. They can get fired for simply a tweet.
When you look at celebs and they are simply posting one photo of Gaza, they are able to raise millions and the ordinary Muslim isn’t even donating to help them a bit-
Assalamoalikum warakhmatullahi wabarakatuhu sis, you’re the first person who I’ve seen think’s like me. I also want to help people outside of my circle but don’t know where exactly to begin with (I’m Pakistani to btw). I think it will be best if we stay in contact (if you don’t mind & are comfortable with.
Alhamdulillah ❤ thankful for video
Yess Alhamdulilah you posted:)Also where can i post the questions?🤍i
I will give out the link on my community board when it's time to make another one, so stay tuned :)
@@HerDeenDunya_ Ok ukhti JazakAllah🤍
SubhanAllah!
The way you handled each question really impressed me,
Your communication skills are great ukthi MashAllahh!❤
Coming from a sister, just a short question I wanted to ask you, if you won't mind😅
How should one manage to lower her gaze around men, (in school/workplace)
I find it difficult to do it as we have almost all male teachers.
During lecture/just glamcing left/right we have boy classmates
So it's difficult especially with the teachers, often time we have to interact or ask questions.
If you have been in a situation similar to this or have some experience,then can you kindly guide?
JazakAllah Khair! ❤
Lowering your gaze isn't about not looking at opposite gender. It's about not looking them in a bad way like in a lustful way. I think you should watch Shaikh Aseem's lecture about this.
Assalamu alaikum sister i wanted to know if drawing human portrait is haram i loves drawing but more i want to follow thw rules of islam so if you can, can you please help me with it
the majority agree that it is extremely haram. on the day of judgement you will asked to give life to the drawings you created and of course, only Allah subhanahu wa ta'aala can give life. it was difficult for me to stop also, but believe me Allah will reward you with so much better. if you are struggling, you can draw figures without faces or features, then slowly move to only drawing inanimate objects. Allahu A'lam
It’s up for interpretation, but personally, I believe that it’s halal as long as what you’re drawing is 1. Not for worship/idolatry purposes 2. not immoral 3. not inappropriate. Besides it’s just a harmless hobby, as long as it’s not distracting you it’s all good (IMO)
(And just in case, i understand that we can’t decide what’s halal or haram in Islam, but the thing is- it was never really declared haram or halal so I hope you’ll research and see for yourself)
Well said sister!