Nah why my cheeks hurt now from smiling when baba came on 😭 he’s so cute! U don’t need to explain his aura girlies, we see it, it’s very evident ❤ What a a luminous force he is.
I love the way you ladies speak about women and what it takes to be a woman. More young women need to hear these things from grown women like yourselves!
Speaking from experience, financial abuse is one of the worst kinds of abuse. It impacts every aspect of life. And it often comes with other forms of abuse.
I love the podcast but can you guys talk about stuff other than relationships & men , I’d love to hear about how Yasmin changed her diet and started working out. Like talking about goals and how to reinvent yourself
i totally agree that the age difference can take away from you. I am Mexican and my aunt shares her story of getting married with a guy 10 years older & feels like he robbed her years as he has already lived his life and wants to "chill" and she is just starting to live her life.
34:36 😂😂god he’s hilarious. Now all my questions on why you’re the hilarious, hard working, wise woman you are…is answered❤ happy new year baba thank you for that made my day ❤
Also, I’ve noticed that in age gap relationships, the older person almost sucks the youth out of their partner.. bc they end up looking great and the younger one ages a lot faster 😭 Every time. Idk what that is. I don’t like it.
Definitely something too it, I had one ex say “you keep me young” I clocked that so fast especially as someone who recognises energy transfer (I need to recoup & spend time with God if I’ve been with people for awhile) so definitelyyyyyy some truth to this!
ANOTHER GREAT EPISODE! I really loved hearing both of your perspectives. The don’t have a baby unless you can do it on your own is MOST DEF something that would only be said in America and I actually think the same thing. And my reason is because “if I let this happen, am I going to rely on a man that may or not be around” I think it’s more so for the women’s protection BECAUSE OF THE LACK of accountability men have for creating a baby. It’s horrible. You guys hit it right on the nail! If only other people thought like this
When my Dad died, my Mom was able to get survivors benefits ($) for us 4 children. It was a major help. If my parents were not married, we wouldn't have gotten shit. That is just a small example of benefits of being married. Sometimes the worst does happen ladies, and marriage is not just a piece of paper.
Y’all got real with the “marriage is just a piece of paper” part, hahaha. I also don’t understand why people say that, they just say it to make themselves feel better about not being able to take the next step. If they don’t want to get married then fine, be happy without worrying about it, but let’s not reduce it to a meaningless piece of paper. Let’s not act dense and say “a guy can leave you whether you’re married or not”. As true as that is, a guy willing to commit to marriage will think way harder about leaving, and is probably more of a committed person just based on the fact that they decided to make that commitment in the first place. Yes there are very committed men in long term relationship without marriage but it’s more rare I think. Like if you’re trying to set yourself up for success, ideally you would try to marry before having multiple kids etc 🤷🏽♀️
This was by far one of my favorite episodes from the book share and to Yasmin preaching about discernment 🙌🙌 look forward to your episodes, reminds me that I can be feminine but still strong and respected and can care for myself still as a mom 🤍
I have been following you two for years, absolutely love your content and both of your work ethics! I am also from Ohio and so happy guys represent us! Baba is so precious and I admire the bond--nothing is as special as the love from your parents! God bless you two and your families! xoxo
Lol the whole time you were explaining the book I was like wow this sounds a lot like a book I started but haven’t finished. It took me like 5 minutes to realize it’s the same book 😂😂😂
As soon as I saw the intro i rushed to like the video before watching the rest because Baba said so!! :) He is so adorable!!!❤️ God bless his heart and love for his family!!💕
I feel like the end is relatable for Wendy ortiz. So many people come for her and she’s literally just trying to hustle hard for her daughter. The things people say about her are so unbelievable sometimes.
I’m sure you guys know this but as I’m watching your video and I see baba come on I said out loud “you guys are so lucky” he’s such an amazing spirit and energy. My fathers wasn’t around. You guys are so lucky 🫶
I love this podcast so much. Wish I would of have this mentality when I was younger. I’m now 30 and realize my worth. And I now preach to my women that they are the prize regardless of what they have or don’t have. I truly love you guys, feels like my sisters. Please don’t ever stop. ❤️🫶🏼
I love you guys so much but I just want to say sometimes people find themselves in bad relationships or even in a relationship they are unhappy in because of their up bringing. When Yas says she just doesn’t get it, it’s because you guys thankfully have a loving good family. Sometimes people come from sad broken families and once they feel love from someone else they want to hold on to it. No hate just food for thought 💕
Meredith was not nice yall lmaoo literally after meeting the first twin she said " "First chance I make is to send that two-faced little brat off to boarding school in Timbuktu"😂
Actually Meredith Blake was mean to the girls. Lol! She was faking being nice, the only reason she wanted the dad was because of his money she wasn’t really in love! 😂😂
In my option whoever said you’ll never be ready to have kids were not ready or had no support bc I planned my first baby at 24 and my second at 25 and girl my husband takes care of us financially and still loves coming home and running to spend time with his baby boy ❤
I’m in an age gap marriage with a millionaire for a few years and kids. You know that saying “marry for money, you’ll pay everyday”. Um it’s true lol. I didn’t marry just for money but the power/money dynamic is tooooo real
I know someone who is fairly conservative, he’s not doing nothing behind anyone’s back. Anyway he liked a girl who wasn’t conservative and he decided that he didn’t want to proceed further with her because he didn’t think it’s fair she should have to change in any way for him and he wanted her to dress like she wanted and do what she wanted. I thought that was very sweet and mature
There is actually a reward to the mother struggling as a single mother or a mother in general. It was narrated from Mu'awiyah bin Jahimah As-Sulami, that Jahimah came to the Prophet (ﷺ) and said: "O Messenger of Allah! I want to go out and fight (in Jihad) and I have come to ask your advice." He said: "Do you have a mother?" He said: "Yes." He said: "Then stay with her, for Paradise is beneath her feet." The meaning of this Hadith is that the proper treatment and respect of our mothers “No matter what their religion is” could be a reason to enter Jannah. This life is just a test and temporary. May Allah guide us all and help us to be always there for our beloved parents.
Amen, I am a married Mother with 5 kids. I stay home and make sure I do my duties because he’s off to work. When I started working , yea right will I stress myself out to make sure everything I did before work was done. I refuse to stop taking care of myself because that is who I am and how my husband met me. If your husband/man loves you, he will do what it takes and not question nor expect from you.
Ya’ll came CORRECT on the topic of age gap. I have soo many thoughts! One being i think an underlying reason for men to normalize going for really younger women is simply a fetish and they dont wanna admit that they dont wanna go for someone closer to their age. It’s also really selfish because the huge age gap could insinuate he might pass before she does and now she is a widow at a younger age… again may sound extreme but let’s normalize men not putting an expiration date on women and seeking women closer to their own age.
Lol as a lover of the Parent Trap, Meredith had the worst of intentions and was catty from the beginning. Like imagine if Mel got a new boo & she was weird & not welcoming to your kids 😂😂😂 love the episode.
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Nah why my cheeks hurt now from smiling when baba came on 😭
he’s so cute!
U don’t need to explain his aura girlies, we see it, it’s very evident ❤
What a a luminous force he is.
😂 same he’s such a sweet man ❤
Mannnn yall spoke straight FACTS on this episode. Control is definitely not love, it’s ego!
As soon as I seen baba I clicked so fast! I lost my dad a couple years back so seeing y’all’s close relationship makes me so happy ❤
me too girl… 😭❤️🩹
“Men are checking out children” CLOCK EMMMM
yall became so masculine but children is a no go plz don't exaggerate
I love the way you ladies speak about women and what it takes to be a woman. More young women need to hear these things from grown women like yourselves!
Book reviews should be a segment on the podcast! I loved the conversation.
Pleaseeee I would love this, I so enjoyed her sharing her read! I’m def checking out the series now 🥰
Can I please have the name of the book she was referring to?
@ I believe the series is called praise 😊
BABA!!!🥺🥹❤️THE SISTERS LISTENED TO WHAT THE PEOPLE WANT 😭I’m so excited baba is such a vibe already 😂❤
NAZ YOU BETTER START WEARING THAT BRACELET 🥹❤️🥰
Who ever ends with yaz is gonna hit the jackpot❤
Speaking from experience, financial abuse is one of the worst kinds of abuse. It impacts every aspect of life. And it often comes with other forms of abuse.
It’s been 81 years since we’ve seen y’all. Missed y’all! 🩵
I love the podcast but can you guys talk about stuff other than relationships & men , I’d love to hear about how Yasmin changed her diet and started working out. Like talking about goals and how to reinvent yourself
She already talked about it🥰
i totally agree that the age difference can take away from you. I am Mexican and my aunt shares her story of getting married with a guy 10 years older & feels like he robbed her years as he has already lived his life and wants to "chill" and she is just starting to live her life.
10 years is not bad. Well I guess it is if she’s 20 and the guy is 30. Once both people are over 25, I don’t see an issue with that gap.
Yaz brings so much wisdom!!! I’ve been watching you guys foreverrrrr and me and Naz are both Sag sisters 👯♀️. So proud of you guys 💕
I don’t really watch podcasts because i feel like everyone is doing it but your podcasts i don’t miss!!!! I love it
Might sound weird but when you guys cheer on mom’s, I take it as if you guys are personally telling me to pour into myself. Love you girls 💕
34:36 😂😂god he’s hilarious. Now all my questions on why you’re the hilarious, hard working, wise woman you are…is answered❤ happy new year baba thank you for that made my day ❤
Also, I’ve noticed that in age gap relationships, the older person almost sucks the youth out of their partner..
bc they end up looking great and the younger one ages a lot faster 😭
Every time. Idk what that is.
I don’t like it.
Definitely something too it, I had one ex say “you keep me young” I clocked that so fast especially as someone who recognises energy transfer (I need to recoup & spend time with God if I’ve been with people for awhile) so definitelyyyyyy some truth to this!
@@FaithAnswered
I relate to all of this! 🤍
ANOTHER GREAT EPISODE! I really loved hearing both of your perspectives. The don’t have a baby unless you can do it on your own is MOST DEF something that would only be said in America and I actually think the same thing. And my reason is because “if I let this happen, am I going to rely on a man that may or not be around” I think it’s more so for the women’s protection BECAUSE OF THE LACK of accountability men have for creating a baby. It’s horrible. You guys hit it right on the nail! If only other people thought like this
YASMIN ATEEEEE WITH THE EGO IN MEN TOPIC 😮💨😮💨😮💨
Baba is the sweetest angel ever!!! He’s so proud 🥹
When my Dad died, my Mom was able to get survivors benefits ($) for us 4 children. It was a major help. If my parents were not married, we wouldn't have gotten shit. That is just a small example of benefits of being married. Sometimes the worst does happen ladies, and marriage is not just a piece of paper.
He is literally the best dad in the world. You both are so blessed
You guys are so blessed to have such a supportive father. Baba is really a cute❤
Literally nothing warms my heart then seeing girls who look like me (ethnic representation) being sooooo honest and raw been supporting since 2020
Y’all got real with the “marriage is just a piece of paper” part, hahaha. I also don’t understand why people say that, they just say it to make themselves feel better about not being able to take the next step. If they don’t want to get married then fine, be happy without worrying about it, but let’s not reduce it to a meaningless piece of paper. Let’s not act dense and say “a guy can leave you whether you’re married or not”. As true as that is, a guy willing to commit to marriage will think way harder about leaving, and is probably more of a committed person just based on the fact that they decided to make that commitment in the first place. Yes there are very committed men in long term relationship without marriage but it’s more rare I think. Like if you’re trying to set yourself up for success, ideally you would try to marry before having multiple kids etc 🤷🏽♀️
Go off !!!! Yesss, very well said! 🎉
Totally on the money.
Amen
This topic was so good! You guys are amazing with your responses.
I’m mom, and my relationship is soo draining. I needed to hear this ❤
24:50 I agree for all the things your sister said it’s EGO . She was on 🎯 with what she said .
The marriage segment is hands down my favorite! It was honest real and raw
My favorite episode!!!! ❤ Not only did Baba make an appearance but man oh man did you girls spit facts!! Love yall seriously!!!💕
Yasmin is always spitting facts ❤
The way Baba and KK speak the same is so cute 🥹🥹🥰
That’s what I noticed
YAS went off, straight facts!!
This was by far one of my favorite episodes from the book share and to Yasmin preaching about discernment 🙌🙌 look forward to your episodes, reminds me that I can be feminine but still strong and respected and can care for myself still as a mom 🤍
57:27 exactly, these women giving out kids like candy on Halloween !!! Absolutely not. A kid is a much bigger commitment!!!! Insane!
I have been following you two for years, absolutely love your content and both of your work ethics! I am also from Ohio and so happy guys represent us! Baba is so precious and I admire the bond--nothing is as special as the love from your parents! God bless you two and your families! xoxo
Lol the whole time you were explaining the book I was like wow this sounds a lot like a book I started but haven’t finished. It took me like 5 minutes to realize it’s the same book 😂😂😂
THANK YOU! HONESTLY!
BEST PODCAST!
It's great to hear from both of you. I wish most women spoke and taught other women this way more. love you both!
Just woke up from my nap and I’m staying in bed until I finish this. I have no shame. 😂💗😘❤️✨
Haha it’s so cute to see Naz get giddy over her mom bc she’s a mom herself but she’s still her mommy’s little girl 🥹
As soon as I saw the intro i rushed to like the video before watching the rest because Baba said so!! :)
He is so adorable!!!❤️
God bless his heart and love for his family!!💕
Definitely loving this podcast !!! These topics are so important and I felt like I related to a lot 😢of
I got excited when I clicked the video 😂 I thought baba was gonna be the guest for the whole episode
I love your podcast!! This is my go to when cleaning and getting this done! I get productive and motivated
I feel like the end is relatable for Wendy ortiz. So many people come for her and she’s literally just trying to hustle hard for her daughter. The things people say about her are so unbelievable sometimes.
I’m sure you guys know this but as I’m watching your video and I see baba come on I said out loud “you guys are so lucky” he’s such an amazing spirit and energy. My fathers wasn’t around. You guys are so lucky 🫶
I love this podcast so much. Wish I would of have this mentality when I was younger. I’m now 30 and realize my worth. And I now preach to my women that they are the prize regardless of what they have or don’t have. I truly love you guys, feels like my sisters. Please don’t ever stop. ❤️🫶🏼
I love you guys so much but I just want to say sometimes people find themselves in bad relationships or even in a relationship they are unhappy in because of their up bringing. When Yas says she just doesn’t get it, it’s because you guys thankfully have a loving good family. Sometimes people come from sad broken families and once they feel love from someone else they want to hold on to it. No hate just food for thought 💕
Also not to say that it’s good or right at all. I agree with you guys. But I also understand why people end up in those situations
Baba was low keying giving us gems on the age gap topic !! 📢
Yasmin is literally a preacher but sweet at the same time love it 🤣
Meredith was not nice yall lmaoo literally after meeting the first twin she said " "First chance I make is to send that two-faced little brat off to boarding school in Timbuktu"😂
Actually Meredith Blake was mean to the girls. Lol! She was faking being nice, the only reason she wanted the dad was because of his money she wasn’t really in love! 😂😂
Exactly she planned to send them to boarding school before they even met.
With my finger I’m liking the video ❤️😭 we love a supportive and proud dad
In my option whoever said you’ll never be ready to have kids were not ready or had no support bc I planned my first baby at 24 and my second at 25 and girl my husband takes care of us financially and still loves coming home and running to spend time with his baby boy ❤
I’m in an age gap marriage with a millionaire for a few years and kids. You know that saying “marry for money, you’ll pay everyday”. Um it’s true lol. I didn’t marry just for money but the power/money dynamic is tooooo real
Naz the hair is amazing!!!!
Go off sis! Absolutely LOVED this episode ✨
Nothing like putting yourself First ALWAYS 🤍🎀💅🏻
“Control isn’t love” AMEN 👏🏼 👏🏼 💯
Real talk Naz! Some women here wear struggle like a badge of honor!! So toxic!
It’s baba’s sunglasses for me 😂🥰
Baba made my heart smile ❤
I know someone who is fairly conservative, he’s not doing nothing behind anyone’s back. Anyway he liked a girl who wasn’t conservative and he decided that he didn’t want to proceed further with her because he didn’t think it’s fair she should have to change in any way for him and he wanted her to dress like she wanted and do what she wanted. I thought that was very sweet and mature
Nah Baba should be in an advertisement 😭 he’s such a vibe
Can the next episode be about how we moms need to prioritize our mental Health ?
There is actually a reward to the mother struggling as a single mother or a mother in general.
It was narrated from Mu'awiyah bin Jahimah As-Sulami, that Jahimah came to the Prophet (ﷺ) and said:
"O Messenger of Allah! I want to go out and fight (in Jihad) and I have come to ask your advice." He said: "Do you have a mother?" He said: "Yes." He said: "Then stay with her, for Paradise is beneath her feet."
The meaning of this Hadith is that the proper treatment and respect of our mothers “No matter what their religion is” could be a reason to enter Jannah.
This life is just a test and temporary. May Allah guide us all and help us to be always there for our beloved parents.
I needed thisss!!!! I missed Baba Kavari so much
Yaz was passionate this episode! lol preaching at the end
Baba needs his own episode 😂
“They’re checking out children” clocked itttt
Amen, I am a married Mother with 5 kids. I stay home and make sure I do my duties because he’s off to work. When I started working , yea right will I stress myself out to make sure everything I did before work was done. I refuse to stop taking care of myself because that is who I am and how my husband met me. If your husband/man loves you, he will do what it takes and not question nor expect from you.
Baba is the absolute best omg!!! ❤️❤️❤️
Love this podcast! I feel like I’m chatting with my best friend! ❤
Watching today’s episode while on my lunch at work 🫶🏼💛
This talk is amazing esp. towards the end. lol love it
I love how yall talk about different things in every episode even if they can relate to eachother yall dont really repeat and babas appearance 10/10🎉😂
We love baba! Thank you for the podcast the only one I listen to! Love you both and your family ! ❤
This whole podcast is me! Thank you for making me feel more than I am!
Closed mouths don’t get fed !!!! Ladies , ASK FOR WHAT YOU WANTTTTTT
I’m seeing soft life as toxic because if a man wants to do you dirty you have nothing
omg i love BABA!! hes such a kind soul
Omg i never realized liking a video was effective, i’ve always just watched it🤣 but just because your dad mentioned it, i liked the video
Ya’ll came CORRECT on the topic of age gap. I have soo many thoughts! One being i think an underlying reason for men to normalize going for really younger women is simply a fetish and they dont wanna admit that they dont wanna go for someone closer to their age. It’s also really selfish because the huge age gap could insinuate he might pass before she does and now she is a widow at a younger age… again may sound extreme but let’s normalize men not putting an expiration date on women and seeking women closer to their own age.
Omgsh Baba!! The perfect guest! We love you!!
WE NEED MORE MEN LIKE BABA🥹
Baba is such a gem awwww
“MEN LOOK AT CHILDREN” lmfao DEADASSSSS
Aww baba is so wise and so funny definitely gave this video a like cause of him!!☺️❤️
Ordering the book now !!! I’m in my reading era again !!!!
what’s the title and author pleaseee?
Sara Cate !!
" I barely like you sir " LOLL love you girls
So excited to watch this one !! 💕
Clicked out of the other podcast I was watching sooo fast 💖
I love this conversation to be honest woman need freedom rather then listen what man thinks of us Red flag😢❤
Baba said like so we LIKE 😂❤
Lol as a lover of the Parent Trap, Meredith had the worst of intentions and was catty from the beginning. Like imagine if Mel got a new boo & she was weird & not welcoming to your kids 😂😂😂 love the episode.
“CONTROL IS NOT LOVE CONTROL IS EVIL” speak that shit jasmine
I feel like this is is Yasmin podcast 😩😂 I wanna hear Nas more ❤️
We LOOOVEEEE BABA 🥹🥹 we need more of baba and mama in the podcast 🫶🏼🫶🏼
We love Baba we need to see more of him ✨✨ he is a vibe 😂!
Use rose water sold as a facial toner without any other ingredients. It’s amazing dupe for micellar water
Awww baba is literally the best 😭❤️