The Braxtons | The Sisters Are FED UP with Tamar. Not Jealous.

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  • Опубликовано: 11 сен 2024
  • Tamar is not the easiest person to work with or deal with. She is all over the place and brings a lot of drama. Her sisters are not jealous of Tamar. I think they are all just sick of her, especially after Tracie passed. Everyone had a different life perspective except Tamar

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  • @aminatoucunningham1237
    @aminatoucunningham1237 24 дня назад +270

    Tamar is almost 50 years old and still acts like a 2 years old, she will always be immature.

    • @madehoney5052
      @madehoney5052 23 дня назад +9

      Reminds me of my older sister she’s 52 & no one’s telling her how she looks they allow it because she’s entertaining but I be pissed and avoid contact. Leave a message!

    • @reyjenetapia2957
      @reyjenetapia2957 19 дней назад

      ​@@madehoney5052 wow I'm sorry hun you went thru that

    • @Ashera630
      @Ashera630 11 дней назад +1

      It's her mama and daddy's fault; by the time they had Tamar they were Tired. So they never Corrected Her. They just let her do whatever because she is the youngest.

    • @reyjenetapia2957
      @reyjenetapia2957 11 дней назад +1

      @@Ashera630 yup definitely

  • @cds2319
    @cds2319 22 дня назад +83

    Yes! Iyanla called this out in their episode of her show. She said Tamar was the living manifestation of her mother’s anger… Or something like that. 😂

    • @TrickyNikki44
      @TrickyNikki44 22 дня назад +23

      Tamar said that her sisters left her there to deal with the stuff that went down from her parents divorce because the other ones were older and they moved out she was just like 16 or 17 years old so she couldn't move out the home yet like the rest did.

    • @kingcrab9557
      @kingcrab9557 22 дня назад +10

      @cds2319. Iyanla clocked that tea!!!

    • @TheTremell1
      @TheTremell1 День назад

      So her being the youngest... How can you blame her... Like yeah I'm gonna want different but .... Fuck

  • @terrieflawlesslyslayed8827
    @terrieflawlesslyslayed8827 23 дня назад +110

    People hate when folks have boundaries and be at peace

    • @giftofleadership
      @giftofleadership 22 дня назад +5

      Exactly! They so want others to be as miserable as they are.
      Peace is Priceless 😊😂

  • @kimjones5595
    @kimjones5595 23 дня назад +134

    Lady you told NO Lies about "Mommy" who does not put Tamar in her place. She's too busy being bitter about her Ex.

    • @Gracebann
      @Gracebann 17 дней назад +3

      Bringing up the ex is funny bc it’s not about someone else it’s about yourself herself tbh

  • @kimberlym.2697
    @kimberlym.2697 22 дня назад +56

    Ms. E isn't going to check Tamar. Tamar is Ms. E reincarnated. Very bitter!!!

  • @kookiekrumbles
    @kookiekrumbles 24 дня назад +218

    Ms Vanzant called this out! But the heat was too hot in the kitchen.

    • @OpinionNobodyAskedFor
      @OpinionNobodyAskedFor  23 дня назад +27

      @@kookiekrumbles HELLO! Ms. Iyanla was on point about Tamar’s behavior

    • @NajSinghs
      @NajSinghs 23 дня назад +5

      💯

    • @XxMercuriiXx
      @XxMercuriiXx 23 дня назад +15

      What she say about the fish smell? It starts at the head *cough* mom *cough*

    • @gb5262
      @gb5262 23 дня назад +4

      Didn't TD Jakes say something as well

  • @judithwright3466
    @judithwright3466 23 дня назад +67

    I believe Towanda like any sister loves her sister but she is done with all the antics. It's ok to protect your peace from bad energy even if it's your family. And that is where Towanda is at now

  • @naynayjenkins4488
    @naynayjenkins4488 23 дня назад +252

    If Tamar treat her sisters with the same respect she’s treats the men she runs behind they would be better off. Funny how she knows how to act with them tho.

    • @zleo7054
      @zleo7054 23 дня назад +19

      Boom!!!!!!! You said it

    • @OpinionNobodyAskedFor
      @OpinionNobodyAskedFor  23 дня назад +11

      @@naynayjenkins4488 BOOOOOM

    • @TruthIsLove7
      @TruthIsLove7 23 дня назад +14

      She can’t even keep that mask on. She’s twice divorced and covers up the first divorce because no matter who you are, two failed marriages looks like YOU are the problem.

    • @naynayjenkins4488
      @naynayjenkins4488 23 дня назад +7

      @@TruthIsLove7 True. Cause this the 3rd failed marriage. Remember she was married before Vince.

    • @ebonywhite50
      @ebonywhite50 23 дня назад +3

      I said the same thing after I saw how she been talking about JR.

  • @alaneofmyown
    @alaneofmyown 22 дня назад +59

    When you was imitating Tamar childish ahh 😂 😅 “ a beep beep and a bop bop bop” 😭

  • @simplytina5627
    @simplytina5627 23 дня назад +55

    And she always want to expose her sisters short comings but protects her business. Like when her and Vince got divorced she tried to keep it under wraps but when the sisters were getting divorced Tamar was judgemental and wanted the tea.

    • @kayrup3712
      @kayrup3712 21 день назад +10

      O, Tamar stayed in everyone's business. And always put their husbands down, and compared her life to her sisters. She has a very envious spirit. Always unsettled.

    • @notaytguru8214
      @notaytguru8214 17 дней назад +3

      When she had the comment in season one “this one is TOTALLY DIFFERENT”! About Vince, but where is he now…..

    • @ToastyT-l9k
      @ToastyT-l9k 12 дней назад

      ​@@notaytguru8214Away from her antics!

  • @tcrump212IsLmbrJck_t
    @tcrump212IsLmbrJck_t 23 дня назад +79

    Tamar is almost 50 acting like she about to audition for the Mickey Mouse Club. She is literally the personification of her mother’s anger and narcissism.

    • @ToastyT-l9k
      @ToastyT-l9k 12 дней назад

      😅😅😅Not The Mickey Mouse Club!

  • @slickpatt7870
    @slickpatt7870 22 дня назад +19

    And toni said it best finally "Mommy you did great at raising us close and to stick together with family but not so much with living our individual lives"

  • @rosemorton5829
    @rosemorton5829 23 дня назад +54

    No towanda was making perfect sense She is sick of Tamar’s shit, period!!!

  • @erykahpradu839
    @erykahpradu839 23 дня назад +122

    Thank you! I always felt like the reason all of them have issues, whether if it's relationships with men or personal issues with each other, is because Ms. Evelyn. And I honestly believe Ms. Evelyn held some type of animosity towards Tracy due to the fact that she didn't pick a side between the father and her. Heck, even the son don't deal with them.
    Ms. Evelyn is the example of a nice nasty church lady.

    • @mitzi4043
      @mitzi4043 23 дня назад +6

      I find these types of comments interesting. There’s never any negative comments regarding their father. 🤔

    • @erykahpradu839
      @erykahpradu839 23 дня назад +20

      @@mitzi4043 I mean father cheated on the mother. And after that, due to the obvious, the father wasn't around as much. However, Tracy and the Son,Michael Jr. Kept that relationship with their father which goes back to point about Ms. Evelyn's relationship with Tracy. The tried to keep contact with his kids but the other kids "picked a side" with the mother. Now with you assessment, can you sense the difference between Tracy and Michael vs. The girl's in emotions and relationships with their partners? Genuine question here.

    • @erykahpradu839
      @erykahpradu839 23 дня назад

      @@mitzi4043 please disregard any typos

    • @OpinionNobodyAskedFor
      @OpinionNobodyAskedFor  23 дня назад +26

      @@mitzi4043 you know why no one talks about the father?
      1) He wasn’t on the show as much and when he was they obviously love him
      2) Evelyn made them girls choose a side. Yes the father cheated and he ate that but Evelyn hated that man so much she put a wedge between them and their father

    • @Shannderiv-hy5qw
      @Shannderiv-hy5qw 23 дня назад +4

      The brother lives in another state and he didnt sign up to be a talent on the show so we cant say if he deals with them or not

  • @ladygoodmen7399
    @ladygoodmen7399 23 дня назад +29

    I'm the youngest, and you have to grow up at some point. The spoiled brat image she has as an adult and mother is wild.

  • @ebonywhite50
    @ebonywhite50 23 дня назад +25

    I’m sorry but if Tamar has fallouts with everybody it’s her for sure. I don’t see what any of her sisters would be jealous of her for. Look how Tamar treated Tracy, we have to be honest. Tamar make everything about herself, she called her family toxic, but not herself or JR. Look at what her tour manager said about her. I been saw that Mrs E was an issue. Even the way Mrs E put so much pressure on Toni over her sisters, then Toni finally said it.

  • @TruthIsLove7
    @TruthIsLove7 23 дня назад +22

    Tamar’s arrested development needs to be studied by science. It’s profound. I see a 40 something year old woman but it’s acting like a toddler. She’s entertaining and cracks me up sometimes but her personality is too exhausting for me to ever consider having as a loved one.

  • @Melisblessed
    @Melisblessed 23 дня назад +64

    The whole thing is embarrassing when Evelyn be yelling at them. These women are in their 50’s.

    • @tcrump212IsLmbrJck_t
      @tcrump212IsLmbrJck_t 23 дня назад +25

      But let’s be perfectly clear: it would take away Evelyn’s true utility. Her narcissism allows her to self define as the one who “gets them together” but is literally enabler and cause of all of the confusion.

    • @tcrump212IsLmbrJck_t
      @tcrump212IsLmbrJck_t 23 дня назад +7

      I totally agree.

    • @madehoney5052
      @madehoney5052 23 дня назад +13

      Can you imagine what the father and brother went through in that house full of girls & your wife won’t let you lead?!? The guys were soft spoken but the women mom included are loud leaders…. You won’t find men dealing with that bs!

  • @NODE1975
    @NODE1975 23 дня назад +71

    Toni always had Tamar's back even when Tracey was alive

    • @journiee2me518
      @journiee2me518 22 дня назад +29

      No she didn’t. Toni just always stayed neutral between the sisters. Tamar always made sure to run up behind Toni because Toni is the legend. Toni outwardly didn’t seem to hold grudges against any of her sisters. However, the true story was told when Toni said if they weren’t sisters she wouldn’t talk to any of them, and she certainly didn’t exclude Tamar from that. Also, when Tamar let some sideline bs drama cause her to not be there for Toni’s son we also caught a glimpse of Toni being fed up with her. Also the time when Tamar refused to admit that Toni paved the way for her. She thought adding in God would make it acceptable for her to deny Toni’s contribution to her career, never mind the fact that WETV wouldn’t even greenlight the original BFV without Toni, but again, Toni let all that slide and took it in stride. Doesn’t mean she didn’t feel a way inside about Tamar just like the rest of the sisters.

    • @rbmiddleton1979
      @rbmiddleton1979 22 дня назад +1

      ​. Amen

    • @ToastyT-l9k
      @ToastyT-l9k 12 дней назад

      ​@@journiee2me518I don't like when people stay neutral, because not picking a side is still enabling. People don't need to turn a blind eye to bad behavior and disrespect. Because they always got Toni back.

  • @2zai207i
    @2zai207i 23 дня назад +46

    Agreed 👍🏾 100% on point! Tamar is so manipulative and it’s so sad.

  • @ADyani6
    @ADyani6 23 дня назад +28

    I agree 98% miss E has definitely checked Tamar, especially when she told her she’ll slap the piss outta Tamar 🤣🤣🤣🤣 Towanda or any of the other sisters have no reason to be jealous of Tamar

    • @TrickyNikki44
      @TrickyNikki44 22 дня назад +5

      Agree with you on this one Miss E do be checking Tamar.

  • @mrzzmel
    @mrzzmel 23 дня назад +65

    Evelyn is Tamar old

    • @mrzzmel
      @mrzzmel 23 дня назад +12

      Tamar is ALMOST 50. no excuses anymore

  • @nixxb449
    @nixxb449 23 дня назад +52

    When at the end, Evelyn tried to lump Tawanda with Tamar, that pissed me off. Tamar will never change.

    • @theresawright294
      @theresawright294 22 дня назад +3

      Ikr who cares Tamar becoming a non member of family Toni said on Ivana if they weren't her sisters they wouldn't be her friends Toni like me can't stand drama queens

    • @babrabrawright1814
      @babrabrawright1814 22 дня назад +1

      That don’t have to be close they can just be sisters with love n boundaries ❤

  • @koc1270
    @koc1270 22 дня назад +10

    It’s been like this ever since Tamar got married and started to act like she was above everyone of her sisters except for Toni

  • @cynthiagarrett6060
    @cynthiagarrett6060 23 дня назад +98

    I think the sisters have deep resentment towards Tamar for her total disrespect of their then marriages and careers. When she was with Vince at the height of his career, and the beginning of her solo career, she talked really down on the sisters on the show, their then spouses, their livelihoods, specifically Tracy, and also Trina and Towanda. She, at times, dragged Toni, too. They are OVER Tamar, and who could blame them. People need to treat people just where they're, family, or not. If you won't let a stranger treat you horribly, why would you let family do it? Toxic is toxic, so stop excusing and tolerating it just because it's "family." If Tamar was my sister, I would have been cut her off, sorry, not sorry. Listening to them even talk about how they've been groomed and conditoned to put one another first is crazy, when they have had spouses and also have children. No wonder their marriages failed. What husband would put up with that for real? I think Tracey was the only one of them who wouldn't put them before her husband and son, thus the reason she dealt with the most isolation and BS at times. I remember a lot about that first season, and I think the foregoing seasons were them trying to change the narrative because they were getting 💩ed on big time in the media and public opinions. So many were really rooting for Tracey, and they ALL saw how she was the fan favorite, and I think it was because she was treated in such a way, but she lead a life different from theirs that appeared to be a much more loving marriage, peaceful, close-knitted and happier family life. Her marriage wasn't perfect, but her marriage lasted through it all. Her and her husband had crested a LIFE outside of the Braxtons.

    • @OpinionNobodyAskedFor
      @OpinionNobodyAskedFor  23 дня назад +11

      @@cynthiagarrett6060 YES!! All of this!!

    • @crystalstewart1218
      @crystalstewart1218 23 дня назад +6

      👏🏾👏🏾

    • @tashiagentry3987
      @tashiagentry3987 23 дня назад +8

      She was also the only sister that linked up and spent a lot of quality time with their Dad and stepmom often. I remember meeting Tracy at DMV airport 10 yrs. ago! I was in shock, b/c I wasn’t expecting to see her😊

    • @ReasonablySpeaking9808
      @ReasonablySpeaking9808 22 дня назад +7

      She was the best genuinely and her personality was stellar, above all her sisters. The baby sister despised that truth and went out her way to treat her poorly. Tamar is the real Evelyn, if ever Evelyn showcased her true identity. That quiet, meek disposition is not who mom really is: it’s that loud, rude, jealous, bitter and obnoxious Tamar in the mirror!

    • @cynthiagarrett6060
      @cynthiagarrett6060 22 дня назад +4

      @tashiagentry3987 ..Yeah, she didn't fall into the trap of their mother who went out of her way to isolate and cause division between them and their Dad due to her bitterness.

  • @slickpatt7870
    @slickpatt7870 22 дня назад +12

    I think Tamar is the jealous 1. Shes the only one not content with life. Tracey had Micheal and they lived close.Towanda and Trina have always gave sister bestie cousins 😂😂😂😂. Toni was her bestie, but Toni is going through her own battles and desires to be alone more now. Shes lost and where they would normally go hunt for her with a flashlight to find her they instead have finally decided to leave her ass lost.

  • @ashlieyreed3486
    @ashlieyreed3486 22 дня назад +18

    FINALLYYYYYY someone said it Tamar is the most childish 40 something yr old ....my lil sis would've been got these hands... then a hug after 💯

    • @dontelindsey5846
      @dontelindsey5846 21 день назад

      I said this to someone in another post awhile ago and got attacked. They all said they act like that and don't see the problem and called me all types of names.

    • @askdrshani
      @askdrshani 19 дней назад

      😂😂

  • @kamikoils9336
    @kamikoils9336 23 дня назад +19

    Ummm Ms Destini ma’am!!! Honey when I tell you you broke this shit ALL THE WAY DOWN!!!!!! Yes!!! You hit the nail on the head!!! The sisters are tired of Tamar and her mess! And truth be told I believe they are also tired of their Holier than thou acting mother too! They just can’t say it.

  • @lordvoldemort5725
    @lordvoldemort5725 23 дня назад +25

    6:49 Seriously. She’s always saying she’s sick of them fighting and whatnot, but she never actually does anything to mitigate the actual problem.

    • @MsButterflyJan1976
      @MsButterflyJan1976 19 дней назад +1

      She can’t mitigate when she’s most likely the source of the problem. How can you mitigate a problem you refuse to take accountability for being a primary cause of?

    • @lordvoldemort5725
      @lordvoldemort5725 19 дней назад +1

      @@MsButterflyJan1976 I get that. I 100% do. That’s why she shouldn’t be trying to do anything regarding them if she isn’t going to do anything about herself. Like you said: she is the cause, and she doesn’t seem to know how to address what’s happening with herself (which isn’t too far fetched from what’s happening with her daughters).

  • @mrsd6020
    @mrsd6020 22 дня назад +11

    You are sooooo on point with all that you said. They will never grieve the right way when one sister always needs to be in the spotlight at all times taking the focus off of the grief they are all feeling.

  • @micheledelahay3987
    @micheledelahay3987 22 дня назад +12

    I totally agree with this, everyone’s comments on point!

  • @askdrshani
    @askdrshani 19 дней назад +4

    Their mom is a narcissistic mother, aka Mommy Dearest, and the daughters learned from her. They are so beautiful and talented. It's sad to see. Evelyn can't hold herself responsible, so she can't hold her daughters responsible. ❤

  • @aprillovelist9268
    @aprillovelist9268 23 дня назад +8

    I’m fed up and I’m not even her sister. She carries the spirit of pride and offense.

  • @bridgetteyoung1930
    @bridgetteyoung1930 24 дня назад +67

    They should have never returned

    • @theresawright294
      @theresawright294 22 дня назад +2

      That part

    • @MsButterflyJan1976
      @MsButterflyJan1976 19 дней назад +2

      I agree. Grieving and healing should be done in private, not in front of an audience.

  • @LovelyLexiie
    @LovelyLexiie 23 дня назад +27

    If you go back and watch one of the Braxton family episodes where they had therapy. Towanda had let it be known that it was their fault why Tammar asked that way because they spoiled.Tamar .

    • @OpinionNobodyAskedFor
      @OpinionNobodyAskedFor  23 дня назад +20

      @@LovelyLexiie exactly!! And Towanda said CLEAR in season 4 her main issue with Tamar is her behavior. How do people conflate being tired of someone’s energy vs jealousy?

    • @tcrump212IsLmbrJck_t
      @tcrump212IsLmbrJck_t 23 дня назад +1

      @@OpinionNobodyAskedForI love the word conflate 😂

    • @ToniGirl21
      @ToniGirl21 23 дня назад +3

      Tracy said the same thing. They created that monster..

  • @taraanthony6326
    @taraanthony6326 22 дня назад +5

    I completely agree with everything you said. I've always said her behavior was always tolerated and never checked by the Mother and that's why she act like a child
    .

  • @HeyitsBri_
    @HeyitsBri_ 21 день назад +4

    I think the mom has created an environment where the girls were in constant competition like Kris Jenner and the Dash/Jenner girls so they have clear cliques. Tony is golden and right under her is Tamar. These 2 are the faves but also have bigger personalities, and mom promoted that, than Towanda and Trina. Tracey was the only one that fought for unity. They’re adults but they’re all operating with the tools mom raised them with.

  • @carlacarter9444
    @carlacarter9444 22 дня назад +9

    The Fame is what's happening with Tamar and how she treats her sisters

    • @MsButterflyJan1976
      @MsButterflyJan1976 19 дней назад

      It’s not just the fame but it definitely doesn’t help the situation.

  • @totallynotme5840
    @totallynotme5840 23 дня назад +30

    Whoop whoop and a beep beep😂😂😂

    • @OpinionNobodyAskedFor
      @OpinionNobodyAskedFor  23 дня назад +10

      @@totallynotme5840 LMFAOOO that what she does!

    • @totallynotme5840
      @totallynotme5840 23 дня назад +5

      @@OpinionNobodyAskedFor you got her down to a t lol

    • @Qd322
      @Qd322 22 дня назад +3

      It's the remix ignition piping hot out the kitchen

  • @vrworld1949
    @vrworld1949 23 дня назад +17

    You are absolutely right. Tamar acted the same way with Vince. She would be disrespectful then turn around and play the victim. Every time.

  • @Islandgirl_18
    @Islandgirl_18 23 дня назад +7

    Ms Evelyn is the main problem. Her then Tamar.

  • @trinapoke5597
    @trinapoke5597 22 дня назад +9

    You are so right about Evelyn.

  • @victoriashaven
    @victoriashaven 22 дня назад +9

    I agree with the commentary 100%!!

  • @lovedo3870
    @lovedo3870 22 дня назад +4

    I don't know if anyone picked up on this so maybe it's just me because I come from a dysfunctional family and I can just tell when family members simply DO NOT like eachother. So Trina did an instagram live with Von and Towanda a couple of weeks ago and Towanda's boyfriend joined. Trina mentioned Tamar joining the live and Towanda's boyfriend asked if he should leave so that Tamar could join the live. There was one more spot so to my knowledge she could've joined and it would've made 4 people.
    That part wasn't so odd to me because maybe Tamar just doesn't like him. However, after Towanda's boyfriend left the live and Von was trying to accept Tamar's request to join the live, Towanda all of a sudden left the live and they were all making it seem like Towanda left the live because "someone" was being "rude". So then Tamar joins the live after Towanda leaves, says whatever she had to say, promoted the show etc and then she left. So then Towanda rejoined the live after Tamar left and I believe Von mentioned to Towanda that the "rude person" left or they were reported. Basically saying she can come back because whoever made her leave is gone.
    I thought that was bogus, I immediately saw right through that because that's something I would probably do to protect my peace. Maybe I'm reading too deep into it but I believe Towanda and Tamar's relationship became even more estranged after filming wrapped and that's basically what that whole interaction was, they were avoiding each other, or at least Towanda was avoiding Tamar and they just don't want to deal with eachother anymore. I think they tried to act like that was the case so it wouldn't stir up drama, especially on what Mrs Trina would call a "social network" lol. I'm not faulting Towanda but I just wondered if anyone else picked up on that interaction if they saw the live. It's still on Trina's IG page.

  • @khaylahaughton1872
    @khaylahaughton1872 23 дня назад +6

    I pray for this family as the spirit of disunity and unforgiveness is taking over.

  • @mieldor76
    @mieldor76 22 дня назад +6

    Great analysis of the situation!

  • @Thatout_sider
    @Thatout_sider 21 день назад +2

    It's nice to finally hear someone with the same feelings about Tamar as i do. All i see on social media is people saying "I love Tamar, she's so real and funny." 🙄 No she's insufferable, immature and i see why people don't want to work with her and also why her career hasn't gone any further. You can't tell her that though she'll act as if she's done nothing wrong. Smh.

  • @04weewee
    @04weewee 22 дня назад +3

    It really made me sad to see Tamar still do all of that extra stuff. That laugh, the shifting in her seat. I wish Towanda would have said i remember asking you in another counseling session with Dr. Sherry not to communicate with me with all that extra. I believe Toni as well said with Iyanla, i dont like that you feel you have to do all that to talk to me. And here you are still doing it. And you have the never to act as tho you dont understand why i dont speak to you.

  • @m.d.5050
    @m.d.5050 23 дня назад +6

    Traci, Trina and Tamar have always been my favorites personality wise, when Tamar is fun she's good. Her ways are set tbh yes she can change but she doesn't want to because she would have done it already. I'm the type of person that can accept people for who they are and lovr the parts of them that I enjoy, and when they start acting up I dismiss myself and not engage, that usually teaches them don't come over here around me with that bs lol. I honestly feel Evelyn feels guilty when it comes to Tamar because I don't think she actually parented her like the older ones, she was too wrapped up in the daddy cheating rather than paying attention to Tamar, and Evelyn is just like Tamar in a lot of ways.

  • @greensilk58
    @greensilk58 12 дней назад +1

    You’re so right. Nobody is jealous of Tamar, they’re just sick of her behavior and disrespect . Yes!!! Ms. E is an enabler.

  • @Ashera630
    @Ashera630 11 дней назад +1

    girllll when you said Whoot Whhoot Beep Beep Boop Boop 🤣😂🤣😂I hollored because that is HER🙄🙄😔😔😔💯

  • @Stacy..H
    @Stacy..H 23 дня назад +15

    What do they have to be jealous of? Tamar ain’t doing nothing! She has to resort to reality tv to stay relevant

    • @OpinionNobodyAskedFor
      @OpinionNobodyAskedFor  23 дня назад +8

      @@Stacy..H that part! Plus why would Towanda be jealous of Tamar when Toni is THEEEEE Braxton everyone recognizes before Tamar? Toni had the career Tamar wishes she had

    • @XxMercuriiXx
      @XxMercuriiXx 23 дня назад +1

      Well when Tamar was a hot commodity some years back I could see it, but now..nah

    • @rmoddy9929
      @rmoddy9929 17 дней назад +1

      ​@@XxMercuriiXx But even when she became hot commodity her attitude became even more horrible than it was before. So it could seem like the others were becoming jealous because of what Tamar had going on when in fact her attitude was the problem. Because let's be real. Who would want to be around someone like that or tolerate that. I genuinely don't think they were jealous. If they were, it would be of Toni and ir doesn't seem like they were. I believe that as Tamar's attitude got worse the sisters' tolerance got even lower. And she would say really nasty things about them. I remember Toya from Tiny and Toya saying and I'm paraphrasing, Tamar could never be a good friend just by the way she talks about her sisters. I believe it was the other way around, as she got more famous she treated her sister's like scum. They weren't jealous. And do you remember when someone has commented that they hope Traci gets her Grammy one day, Tamar responded "Are the Grammys giving out awards for auto tune now?" I'm sorry I'll never watch that show, but I enjoyed this lady's commentary on it😊

    • @XxMercuriiXx
      @XxMercuriiXx 16 дней назад

      @@rmoddy9929 I agree. Tamar’s attitude has always been nasty and she likes to throw rocks and hide her hand. I always appreciated Traci and Trina calling her out for her BS every time! Tamara was so rude towards Taci, even on the very first episode. I hope she feels bad about the way she treated her!

  • @Prismatic9008
    @Prismatic9008 16 дней назад +1

    Agreed. Tamar lacks self-awareness. They're just exhausted. Tamar needs individual therapy. Extensive individual therapy so that she can become more self aware before she winds up spending the rest of her life alone and without her sisters by her side. I remember Traci saying one time "Tamar, you make it so hard to love you." That's how I feel all the sisters feel.

  • @jonetommi1671
    @jonetommi1671 19 дней назад +1

    Everything from Tamar to Evelyn... Spot on❤❤❤

  • @jais7693
    @jais7693 19 дней назад +1

    Exactly. Those w common sense clearly see they are just over the shenanigans. You can love ur fam, but don't have to like them or tolerate ignorance in your presence. Towanda didn't want to say it and hurt her feelings. Tamar knows. She isn't slow. The fact she keeps pressing Towanda is just yet another example.

  • @lf5163
    @lf5163 23 дня назад +3

    That is not Tamar's true demeanor. Check her out on one of the Tiny and Toya episodes. She was chill and cool as a cucumber. I think she does it for the cameras . In my opinion, I don't think Miss E raised Tamar I think her sisters did because she was trying to keep up appearances as First Lady and eye on who Pastor Braxton was laying it low and spreading it wide with.

  • @laughterislife1114
    @laughterislife1114 22 дня назад +4

    They mama has always been the problem.

  • @rachelledavis1231
    @rachelledavis1231 21 день назад +2

    I agree and you nailed it!❤❤❤

  • @craikista
    @craikista 19 дней назад +1

    🗣️PREACH! Evelyn will be the reason the girls STOP talking all together! When the head of the family upholds that one bad apple it truly does spoil the bunch! Watch the family dissolve when Ms Everlyn is gone.

  • @ZeeIsWell
    @ZeeIsWell 11 дней назад

    Shout out to Tamar for helping keep the family relevant while trying to heal under the public scrutiny.

  • @yc9657
    @yc9657 19 дней назад +1

    Tamar made it clear on that clip that she was about herself.

  • @insidebeautyout
    @insidebeautyout 19 дней назад +1

    You hit it on the nose with everything… Tamar is irritating, exhausting, childish, hard headed, and just flat out disrespectful!!!! If towanda is setting boundaries I GET THAT!!! Like if I can’t get everyone on board to be about change and hold Tamar accountable, then I can hold myself accountable by not allowing her in my space!!!!

  • @auntiem71
    @auntiem71 11 дней назад

    I watched reruns of the show : exhausting ! Can’t imagine being around her.I looked at my fam and decided it will not end this way. 😢

  • @TrickyNikki44
    @TrickyNikki44 22 дня назад +2

    This not the family values. It's call The Braxton 's

  • @MZAWESOMEFORLIFERID
    @MZAWESOMEFORLIFERID 19 дней назад +1

    I completely disagree I don't believe that Towanda, Toni, Trina have always been against Tamar. Tamar has always had a relationship with her sister's where she has been close to each one at different times in her life. Tamar has been spoiled, physically hurt (allegedly) because I'm not sure if it got physical, and she was the last child in the family home after the parents were divorced so she got a lot of negative spirits poured into her. Toni has not only been sick for a long time battling lupus but she also has the burden of being the oldest having to take care of everyone financially for an extended time that broke her down. Toni's resentment runs so deep and I feel that her resentment also stems from childhood trauma and she holds Ms. E as the responsible party for that. Ms. E and Mr. Braxton reminds me so much of my own parents to certain aspects. Like Ms. E is a disciplinary type of mother she rules with an iron fist and it's probably because of her own upbringing and her not being able to be nurtured and loved. I really wish Ms. E wasn't there because I feel that her spirit has a negative effect on those girls and they feel like they can't be their true selves and speak freely because of fear that Ms. E will be hurt, get upset, and explode on them. I believe that the girls are all exhausted of Tamar antics and selfish behavior but Towanda especially has drawn a line and refuses to be abused just to be close. Tamar is a tormented child stuck in an adult body. Trina wants everyone to go back to how it was but that's impossible because Toni and Towanda want out for their own sanity. Toni needs peace because her illness is so serious and stress is the biggest benefactor to causing her flare-up with Lupus and now she is having heart trouble so she really needs to be surrounded by peace. They are all dealing with life and once you hit a certain age you get too tired to care about petty stupid childish things and you start removing yourself from those environments so I don't blame Trina and Toni and I completely understand Trina desire and need to be close because her life is at a peaceful state and all that's missing is her sister's being close again plus she's grieving the lost of Traci bit also what they had when they were supporting Traci. (that sisterhood) Trina is the peace maker of the family but that's hard when you have a fire starter Tamar an a escape aka Houdini Toni and a ice berg and wall builder aka Towanda. Just pray for them that God removes the devil and his minions out of our families so that there can be peace and love at the forefront.

  • @Beswift1989
    @Beswift1989 18 дней назад

    Tamar’s feeling are valid. She tried to unalive herself. She says what she feels and no matter how you take it it is valid. She is growing up and setting boundaries.

  • @mammamia8321
    @mammamia8321 20 дней назад

    "irks my soul" - this description about Evelyn? so on point! thank you for putting that into words!

  • @dcysivemedia3700
    @dcysivemedia3700 19 дней назад

    You’re right her mama is an enabler to the point that she stood for her when she was accusing her ex-husband of abuse him Mama Jean on radio and said the same thing and we know Vince didn’t abuse that woman nobody has abused Tamar because if Tamar was truly abused no abused woman runs her mouth like that acts like that showing her ass wouldn’t be one of them.

  • @shawnbaldwin3589
    @shawnbaldwin3589 23 дня назад +3

    Amen!

  • @petitdon
    @petitdon 23 дня назад +5

    I appreciated your input. U c it for exactly what it is.

  • @dontelindsey5846
    @dontelindsey5846 21 день назад +2

    Evelyn and Tamar are just the same.

  • @DesMoneSanders
    @DesMoneSanders 23 дня назад +3

    EVELYN HAS CHECKED TAMAR FOR HER MOUTH SEASON 2 EPISODE 1

    • @cb1298
      @cb1298 23 дня назад

      Said she would slap “the piss “ out of her… but that is the only time that I know of; unless I miss some other times

    • @OpinionNobodyAskedFor
      @OpinionNobodyAskedFor  21 день назад

      @@DesMoneSanders season 2 episode 1. Tamar is like this everyday.

  • @tavaresleora4286
    @tavaresleora4286 23 дня назад +3

    PREACH

  • @saida4292
    @saida4292 18 дней назад

    Woop woop ahh ahh lol you are so funny!!! Yesss on everything! TRACI BEEN TIRED!!! Ill never forget when she said to Tamar YOU MAKE IT SO HARD TO LOVE YOU! Tamar is not spoilt she has really got a mental disorder that she hasnt addressed ever! No social understanding and she cant read a room! There is nothing wrong with mental health if you learn how to deal with it and allow others like family to cope with it!

  • @dreamgrlarchive
    @dreamgrlarchive 23 дня назад +12

    fed up with WHAT though? she keeps asking the question “why are y’all upset with me?” they never have an actual answer. tamar has been FOR YEARS asking why her sisters have issues and they don’t just say what it is. that’s exhausting dude.

    • @OpinionNobodyAskedFor
      @OpinionNobodyAskedFor  23 дня назад +16

      @@dreamgrlarchive but they say the issue every season. “Tamar don’t listen. Tamar gets to walk away from conversations. Tamar does too much”
      Tamar has turned plenty of convos addressing her into something so unnecessary. Towanda was trying to explain but Tamar again AH AH BAH BAH mid-Towanda explaining. Towanda has said several times over the years it is her behavior and her mouth but Tamar still acts confused. Tamar takes everything as a personal attack. This was clear as day in the Iyanla episode. Iyanla called out the behavior and Tamar threw an entire fit, not letting anyone talk until Evelyn screamed “WAIT A MINUTE” and even with Evelyn speaking Tamar still wanted to go off so bad

    • @NajSinghs
      @NajSinghs 23 дня назад +11

      How many time do the sisters have to break it down for Tamar? Tamar talks but doesn't HEAR/LISTEN. She listens to RESPOND. #BigDifference Traci was the "loud" voice of reason bc she wanted unification. Unfortunately, the other members of the family desired living in ignorant bliss. Therefore, issues NEVER got resolved. ❤💔❤ Sad all around.

    • @dreamgrlarchive
      @dreamgrlarchive 23 дня назад +4

      @@NajSinghsthat’s funny you say that because traci was the one person to straight up say “tamar i don’t like how you talk to me” when tamar asked what her issue was. once she said that i feel like tamar and traci’s relationship got a bit better.

    • @dreamgrlarchive
      @dreamgrlarchive 23 дня назад +3

      @@OpinionNobodyAskedFori get this! but i feel like the “behavior” point is so vague. do you not like her personality, who she is, how she responds to stress? remember in that SAME episode toni said she doesn’t like the way tamar acts animated and iyanla told her “but that’s who she is” and it made toni apologize because toni has always had a snarky comment about who her sister is as a person and that must suck. i know how that feels to a degree.

    • @OpinionNobodyAskedFor
      @OpinionNobodyAskedFor  23 дня назад +4

      @@dreamgrlarchive i feel you on this one! You made a great point maybe that is who she is but didn’t Tamar go on the Tamron Hall show and said her personality is an act for the cameras and see sees the response she gets from it?

  • @ajbuchanan7077
    @ajbuchanan7077 19 дней назад +1

    Sis, I agree with you 1000%%%%%

  • @Godlywoman88
    @Godlywoman88 21 день назад

    What? Evelyn has always checked Tamar! What she didn't do was check Traci, whom was disrespectful to her sisters too.

  • @UloveFaith
    @UloveFaith 11 дней назад

    5:04 what about the “ before I slap the piss out of you “ during the early seasons when Tamar was beefing with whoever . I thought she was pretty stern on that

  • @barikiwa22
    @barikiwa22 21 час назад

    That woman is almost 50 but acts like a teen!!

  • @trinapoke5597
    @trinapoke5597 22 дня назад +2

    Tamar does too much. She is so selfish.

  • @BashfulB
    @BashfulB 22 дня назад +1

    Yes Yes!!! Awesome Commentary. Right On Point!! New Subbie!!!

  • @Sherron-e3k
    @Sherron-e3k 20 дней назад +1

    Yessss girl ❤❤❤. Tell the truth....

  • @GoddessPower777
    @GoddessPower777 7 дней назад +1

    I don’t even like towanda however she made all the sense. Everyone is tired of her crap. She owns nothing. Super childish. Always in mess. Miss E is indeed a big part of tamar being a problem.

  • @margaretjackson7953
    @margaretjackson7953 19 дней назад

    I am in agreement, Tamar needs truthful THERAPY🙏🏽🙏🏽

  • @TradeWynn65
    @TradeWynn65 18 дней назад

    Tamar is a manifestation of the bitterness Ms E has due to the breakup of her marriage.

  • @dreezy7982
    @dreezy7982 19 дней назад

    I stopped watching their show after season 1 because of Tamar. She reminded me of an ex I didn't want to think about. They have let her act like this since she was a baby. Now it's coming to a head with the enablers. Don't forget, their bro passed too.

  • @tcrump212IsLmbrJck_t
    @tcrump212IsLmbrJck_t 23 дня назад +2

    2:32 DECAAAAAAAADES*

  • @TTSantiago821
    @TTSantiago821 21 день назад

    Tamar is the definition of too much and it is what it is. Most of us can't take that type of energy as it disrupts our peace n a way we don't have to let it! She is too old, too tiring and too on folks nerves to continue. Smh. God bless her and keep your distance. I wouldn't feel any discomfort about it.

  • @JusTazzi
    @JusTazzi 23 дня назад +1

    I've never watched the show. I've always seen clips and short videos here on YT, I did however recently seen the episode with iyanla and that meeting they had with td jakes, that mama of there's is the main problem and she will forever be.

  • @beingbrittanyy
    @beingbrittanyy 21 день назад

    With Traci gone they are really about to ice Tamar out now. After Trina wedding it was clear Tamar is way more of the problem than we even see. I feel like being around her sisters bring out the worst in Tamar. Towanda and Trina are still angry about season 1-3 and it’s very clear.

  • @keishahouinsou2435
    @keishahouinsou2435 22 дня назад +2

    Yes gurl tell it u so right

  • @tobiastaurus6434
    @tobiastaurus6434 18 дней назад

    They just lost a sister and she just heard her nephew is in jail and she still make it about her ... girl ... if god wont help you at this point .. we cant !!!! Karma is gonna help you with it

  • @thompsonerica09able
    @thompsonerica09able 23 дня назад +1

    Exactlyyyy, thank you for thisssss❤❤❤❤❤

  • @renitaparker1494
    @renitaparker1494 23 дня назад +1

    I agree with your commentary, watched you for the first time and enjoyed it. Miss Evelyn is old enough to be your grandmother you should not call her by her first name.

  • @Ilovemesomemj1
    @Ilovemesomemj1 23 дня назад +4

    They created a monster, and now they are getting the brunt of it. Tamar would have had a bigger career, if she wasn't so extra, because she really is the best singer in the family.

  • @ShaggiBoii
    @ShaggiBoii 22 дня назад +1

    No matter what ima always have Tamara side. She’s a bit much but it really isn’t her fault she is a product of her upbringing. They all created the Tamar we see today and decided to wait 35-40yrs to place some boundaries.
    Go back to their FORST reality tv and Tamar was seen as the problem for simply following her dream.
    All y’all judgmental ways need to be pointed at Miss E!! She is the true villain in ALL OF THIS!

  • @MeleE751
    @MeleE751 22 дня назад +1

    Correction: The show is not BFV. It’s now The Braxtons.

  • @sistersouldier7773
    @sistersouldier7773 23 дня назад +1

    Holier than thou? "Mightier" than thou made me cackle! Lol well be holy as the Lord is holy, says the Lord. People should stop using that against someone who wants to live right, i think it's a bit unfair. But some people act a certain way that isnt pleasing to God either so i can understand why you said that
    Either way though, Evelyn is at fault but it is all of the girls problem to fix their own problems. I agree 🙏🏽

  • @joantorres3309
    @joantorres3309 17 дней назад

    I think the sisters paired up. It was, Toni and Tamar, Trina and Towanda. I think Traci wasn’t part of no “click”. A lot of times, she sat quietly. Until, Tamar pushed her buttons! I can’t stand that drama queen! Always wants to be the center of attention! I think Tamar is Ms. E’s favorite to be honest.

  • @joycesharfner6968
    @joycesharfner6968 21 день назад

    Tamar is the youngest with the most drama. In most families, as we age, distance becomes natural. Especially if you're living in different states.Braxtons has a good reality show.