Why Overthinking RUINS Every Relationship (And How to Stop)

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  • Опубликовано: 19 авг 2024

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  • @BeUltranormal
    @BeUltranormal  2 месяца назад +3

    👋🏻👋🏻Heya all! Hope you enjoyed the vid! Let me know if you struggle with overthinking in your relationship!
    🚨Come join my NEW Relationship Bootcamp! be.ultranormal.co/relationship-bootcamp?YTE079&
    - Chris

  • @ducganktem201
    @ducganktem201 2 месяца назад +3

    Aw man, I have 5 of them all. I mean, I just can't stop thinking of the past, what I did something wrong or she did something wrong. I can't think straight even though the problems were in front of us.

    • @BeUltranormal
      @BeUltranormal  2 месяца назад

      It's a really good thing to recognize these! Recognizing them is the first step to being able to *do* something about them.
      When I first start working with members they have the same reaction "oh damn I got work to do" but soon enough once you start to unpack them you can stop them from holding you back and start moving yourself forward! :)

  • @rhondafrederick4049
    @rhondafrederick4049 Месяц назад

    I don’t know why I didn’t realize I was doing this. Ive recognized it in so many other parts of my life for a long time. I wish id known this 2 months ago😢😢 We had been together for 10 years until he left me 2 months ago. We had broken up and gotten back together so many times in those 10 years but this one is final. He complained about a lack of affection but I think it was because i was always resentful for something irresponsible he had done or said. I thought he was the porcupine but maybe it was me. Ive been in severe pain since he left but im starting to learn to love myself and that helps a lot. I didn’t understand why he left angry.

    • @BeUltranormal
      @BeUltranormal  Месяц назад +1

      It can feel confusing and *final* final in many ways, some of my members had been split up for *years* and still turned things around and reconciled. I'd suggest this video to you as an alternate point of view to start looking at: ruclips.net/video/u74SwMdU2pQ/видео.htmlsi=rH3WDKY0AUC9AoHh
      Hope this helps!

    • @rhondafrederick4049
      @rhondafrederick4049 Месяц назад

      @@BeUltranormal thank you, ill watch it

  • @VanSpence604
    @VanSpence604 2 месяца назад +1

    Hey Chris, really enjoying your videos lately. Great topics and you come across quite well in them. Thanks for your efforts. It is appreciated.

    • @BeUltranormal
      @BeUltranormal  2 месяца назад

      Hey, thank you so much! I really appreciate the kind words. Honestly that means a lot

  • @kalam_29
    @kalam_29 2 месяца назад

    Ok very weird and off topic question but what if a boy looks completely like him mom like completely same nose same eyes same lips so would he still look like a boy? And im only talking about face wise

    • @BeUltranormal
      @BeUltranormal  2 месяца назад

      I'm really not sure what to say to that question tbh lol