Most Men Don't Know What Secure Love Looks Like
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Thank you for this subject. I believe that is what is up with my guy. I am one to be very present, I'm not in any stories, I'm calm. And it seems like he is relaxing into a sense of feeling safe with me.
ITS BEAUTIFUL THAT YOU LET US INSIDE YOUR HEAD AND WHAT YOU ARE FEELING AND THINKING HOPE ALL GOES WELL FOR YOU IN YOU BUDING RELATIONSHIP ❤😊
Great content… In my new, healthy, mutually emotionally connected relationship, I am choosing to show
up in my intentional “Secure Attachment” side of my self… It does feel unfamiliar, but enlightening
I'm glad you are working on yourself! 😊
Thank you for this video! It really resonates with me.
LOL 🤣 As teenage I would watch "Love American Style " ❤️ thinking I would learn something.
Yes! Luvd it!
Both heart and mind should be in unison I believe. How do you feel about this?
YES… your last comment “We should feel calm”
I went through EXACTLY the same feelings, thoughts, doubts...it felt exactly like what you are feeling now - unknown, strange, too calm, too..."normal"... a year later I cannot imagine my life without this person. I mean, I can, of course I can, but... I don't want to.
Once you become physically intimate you will know for sure ❤
Thank you for talking about this subject. I have been divorced for almost 5 years. I have dated about 60 men. I have a lot of weird and funny stories to tell. This show explains why these men are the way they are and it helps me to understand myself also. I did date someone for several months but a lot of red flags were showing up. I was very much in love with my husband throughout out marriage. After 37 years of marriage he left me for his affair partner. After many months of counseling together with my husband it came out that he had been addicted to porn since childhood and he had been living a double life the whole time we were together. Of course this has left me with a huge trust issue.
It’s good to be aware of these things.
Best of luck with your new relationship. ❤
I'm listening and thinking .. I get that feeling about my current person too. When will the other shoe drop.. LOL its too good to be true. For me its never about loss of freedom when I am with my person. I feel I am always free, inside. I feel calm and relief, at least for now. Its been almost a year.
Are you a psychologist??
I've taken classes but no...
It's interesting how your dating life plays out in these videos. It's like a movie we can go back and re-play lol!!! I've gone back and watched your videos that you recorded with your ex-girlfriend Marie. I wonder how she feels knowing she's still on this account....
Thank you for being so blatantly honest! So much to unpack from your journaling and this video!!!!!!!!!!
Yes, there is a lot to discuss!
@ I am watching again because there is SO much content. My approach is similar to yours, so it really resonates with me. Best wishes for your new relationship and all the STUFF you’ll learn on the journey!
I had the same blueprint as you Jonathon. Thought I wasn’t trying hard enough even though I had three failed marriages - never one to give up until I was sure I had turned over every stone looking for a way to fix things for all-sacrificing ‘love’. Working it out now though and understand my kryptonite so much better! 🎺😃💕🌟
Wishing for you that every moment in your new relationship and in life is a mindful one where you choose your truth every time 🙏💕✨
It's great to hear you're in a better place! ❤️
Jonathan, what is her zodiac sign? So far, so good. You sound more grounded in this one.
Wow Jonathon! This is one of my favorite videos ever. I too, didn’t know what a heathy relationship felt like after a 25 yr marriage. It was anything but secure. I described it the same way. Calm and peaceful were my adjectives. It just felt like home. Good luck to you on getting to know this woman and building the trust/foundation of your relationship.
I feel you!
Thanks Jon 😊
This was such a gift you gave us today Jonathan. I love healthy notices…
This is definitely resonating with me. I came from a 20 plus year narcissist. Controlling relationship and I'm now in a calm relationship with calm love and listening for almost 5 mths.
It hasn't always been easy, but it has been amazing.!!!♥️
Wishing you luck in this relationship
It sounds like you're finding your way!
This is exactly why I prefer to meet people IRL as opposed to dating apps. The dating app always seems to never get deleted successfully. I see dating apps is a great way to meet people and have placeholder relationships. I wish you luck Jonathan!
Jonathon, we can't fight against our deep imprint🎉 if You don't feel great in a relationship then why being in one? You should feel younger and fresher😂 not older and unmotivated;)
That's not what I said. I like this person, and I'm happy. And I have fear... it's natural.
Just got your book...what the heck is self love anyway two days ago!! Love it!!
Glad to hear it!
Invest and test, she is showing effort and so are you feels great 👍
Building a foundation and you feel at ease BINGO... and she doesn't mind you sharing sounds like a winner as a person first. Its great you can open your heart again 🎉🎉🎉 and yeah age appropriate. She sounds perfect 🥰 happy for you 31:54
That's an MH saying: invest and test. 👍🏼
@JonathonAslay yes was playing it back, I am so happy for you, more importantly healing happens and new good things come ❤ youu trusted the process.. can you do a piece on age differences after 60 pls
Happy your interest is overcoming the doubts / feelings you have. Being able to relax together and enjoy the connection, yes a good thing sometimes feels foreign. With so much failure” all around I think it’s almost normal to feel that way. I pinch myself every time I’m with my person due to the past, experiences have made my nervous system hypervigilant. I think it will subside eventually. ❤
You are amazing! I'm 54, wish I'd seen you at 18!!! Keep going!!!!
Glad I could help!
So inspiring....I attach quickly, I'm honest and at first they fall in like and then 3weeks to 3 months in cold feet set in on their part. So is it just sex and then I'm looking for monogamy am I alone.
Cheers to Natalie. She was brave, calm, focussed. I sympathise as in 2019 I also lost my husband of 17 years.
Good points, I wonder what thoughts if any you have on the various ethnicities, heritages which have evolved as well. And then say how each of us looks at the self (self-love) and then the dynamics of two people (love that grows and matures and may include reproduction), and then dynamics of family and friends (as so many different situations may happen to any person - being an orphan, single parent, blended family, being raised by grandparent(s) as opposed to parent(s), foster parents, etc.) and how these families are encompassed in different countries which have their own identity and how they view love for their citizens. As is the life cycle of coming into the world as one person, and likely leaving the world as one person who has had a multitude of experiences, tapestry of various emotions, would secure love not change with different times even within different decades? Just some questions, hopefully this makes sense. Appreciate you creating this channel, and sharing your journey and expertise.
This was not one of your best shows. You talked way too much about your personal relationship. It was kind of cringe. And the focus was all on you and this mystery person. Not satisfying for your audience imho.
That's interesting because other comments say the exact opposite. Thanks for sharing your pov 😊
Still like you though!
You are right Johnathon I DONT THINK I HAVE EVER BEEN LOVED BY A MAN (don't know who my father was) but like to thing my wee Mim loved me
Sending you love ❤️
You don’t have to explain about the nail appointment. I’m surprised anyone would comment on it. people do what they want to do For love and for anything in life. We make space for who we want to be. You can’t say the wrong thing to the right person, remember that .
Exactly
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11:11 🙌