WTH! Who ever said that Hmong men in the US don't beat up women is lying to all you Laos/Thailand people! Hmong men in America are just as abusive! Txiv neej Hmoob meskas ces yeej ntaus pojniam thiab os.
Niam tai jenney Aw kuv tu txiv twb yog hlua nraug kuv yog hlua nkauj wb tug kav tug wb tseem hlua2 kuv tuaj yuav nw tau ib xyoo ntau no ne twb g hlub kuv 🥹 txawm nyob lub teb chaw twg lo yog tu phem ce yeej phem os
Yog kawg peb cov thaub lau thab cov poglau , kuv yeej nrog lawv cov me nyuam thiab tsev neeg uas lawv mus yuav cov ntxhai cov tub luas hmoob nplog feeb coob lawv lub neej yeej puas tas tub siab tas vim lawv twb laulau lawm los lawv tseem muab tus pojniam nrauj lub neej tawh tas cov pog lau los tsi mloog tej me nyuam hais coj lawv tej nyiaj mus siv rau vov tub hluas hmoob nplog ntxias lawv tuam choj tuaj txog thaum kawg lawv lawv tsi yuav ce ho mobmob siab tuag kiag tsi muaj leejtwg xav hlub xav yuav xav tu cov niah lau ntawm kiaglis.
Agree nrog koj os sister Jenny, ntxhais hmoob nplog yug los zoo zoo nkauj los tuaj yuav cov thaub laus xwb ces yug los xiam tiam lawm tsis tsim nyog yug los ua 1 tug ntxhais zoo nkauj li os.
War stories always get me teary 😢. I couldnt imagine growing up in those time especially now that I am a parent too, and have little ones. Kuddos to all the brave heroes, passed or alive, and survivors living to share your stories.
Hi Jenny! Yes, you are so correct. These married Laos ladies that were able to cross over to America because they married old men are so wrong for saying this. Men that chooses to be abusive and violent are everywhere, not just in the Hmong community.
Q: your 100% correct. In my opinions Abusive spouse is in all nationalities and race. Married someone who fits your personality best. Zero tolerance for any bullying or Abusive.
Jenny thank you for coming out to speak up about the topic of wife abuse and the dumb idea of encouraging Lao girls to come marry old men in the US. You said it very well and true. Love should be from within your self.
Ib qho ntxiv, most of nkauj hmoob nplog txawm cov tos tau tuaj lawm los cov coob tsuas yog khwv nyiaj noj RUclips thiab live nyob fb xwb lawv tsis kam mus nrog lawv tus txiv khwv, txawm lawv mus khwv los lawv lub hom phiaj yeej khwv xa rov tim nplog, tsis yog tas tus tab sis 75% yog cov ua li ntawd
Txhob nrhiav tus zoo neeg, yog yus twb tsis yog neeg zoo tsis hais pojniam losntxiv neej nawd. Kev sib ntaus no yog los ntawm ob leeg txawj sib hwm sib tham kom totaub txhob siv zog thiab lub siab dub los sib tawm tsam ces zoo xwb.
Peb cov poj niam sawv daws yog nej kam no pebkoom siab ua ntawv mus txwv peb chaw loj nyob meskas teb no txwv tsi pub mus xwb .yog nej pom zoo li no kuv ib tug thiab nawb
Answer/comments to question: I believe that if you have a good man, these advertisements are not going to change a man’s mind/feelings about leaving his wife/family to those young girls in Laos. A great man always appreciates, respects, loves the only woman he married to and have established a great life with unless she passed away but having said that, of course! I am with you! These are not the right messages from these nkauj hmoob nplog to sent home to these young girls, but we have to understand that these messages are from women who aren’t very mature or educated/intelligent.
I agreed with that lady question. Tbh, most hmoob meska men that married hmoob nplog is usually the grandpa-looking one or the left-over men who seem to have difficulty finding a hmoob meska girl. However, I don’t think we need anymore oversea hmoob nplog girls or guys that only come here for many wrong reasons and not for the right reason. With that being said, the lady that made the statement how the girls in Laos should only married hmoob meska instead of their hmoob nplog is *WRONG* in many ways. SMH *WHAT A BACKWARD WAY OF THINKING*
Don’t try to find a solution to something you can’t fix. Start from the root cause. We need to teach the younger generations that it’s not ok to abuse your spouse.
Tus PY hais ntawd kuj yog thiab tsis yog sib npaug zos. Peb yuav teb koj lino. Vim yog cov ntxais mos ab tim nplog xav2 tuaj lub tebchaws no lawv tsev neeg nrog nws tus kheej yuav muaj lub neej zoo dua yuav cov tub hluas hmoob nplog. Peb hmoob ces ib txwm tshaw nkauj mos ab ntxawm nyob nplog teb los nyob tebchaws no. Yog li hmoob thiaj muaj niam hlob niam yaus tsis hais nyob nplog los tim meskas no. Peb tib tsis tau leej twg. Nyias muaj nyias tus npau suav. Yuav ua npaum twg los yeej tseem muaj mus tsis paub kawg.
Cov niam tsev teb chaws America muaj qee leej mas heev heev dhuav dhau lawm ces ua ib siab mus yuav niam mos ab kav tsawg hnub los kav liam zoo tshaj qhov mob hlwb hais tsis tau jaj twg
Sister Jenny aw, cov ntsiab lus topic hauv no ces yeej muaj tseeb2. Yeej happens ua ntu zus los tau ntau2 xyoo Tus yuav ntxias tuam choj xwb los muaj, Tus yuav ntxias Nyiaj tsim lawv lub neej xwb los muaj, tus ho tso lawv poj niam los yog lawv Tus txiv tham hmoob miskas ntxias Nyiaj siv los yog kho lawv lub neej xwb los muaj tabsis vim hmoob miskas los yeej ruam txaus2 thiab es lawv siv lub mi suab qab2 zib , lo lus mos2 ntxias thiab muab kiag lawv daim av luaj 3 nti los yog lawv 1 choj 2 Lis xa kiag rau lawv pom xwb ces lawv ruam tsis ruam ces xa loo Nyiaj rau thiab mas. Cov ruam los ruam, cov dag noj dag haus los paub tias khwv Nyiaj yooj yim npaum no ces thiaj sib tw los kawm ua thaj no mas.
Nkauj hmoob nplog nyiam 2 dag hmoob mekas nyiaj noj lawvyuav siv lub mab no kom hmoob mekas cov txiv lee 2 es vam 2 xwb thiaj li yuav lawm xwb vim lawv hom phiaj yuav kom peb pojniam hmoob mekas lub neej puas mus xwb kuv pom ib tug ntxhais hmoob nplog tuaj txiv hmoob mekas nyob sab qaum teb tawm los hais pom txhij paub txhua vim hmoob nplog lub hom phiaj yog yuav rhuav los peb pojniam hmoob mekas lub neej vim lawv xav hais tias lawv hluas 2 ces ua li cas los yuav yeej txhua yam qhov nov yog lawv lub hom phiaj tos niaj hnub no peb cov niam tsev hmoob mekas ua pojnrauj coob 2 los vim cov poj hmoob nplog txojkev dag yeej xwb
Xuam coob cov ntxhais cov tub tim nplog tim ub lawv yeej tsis xav yuav cov pog laus thaub laus tim mes kas li os lawv lam ntxias tuam choj kom tau tuaj xwb thaum ntaub ntawv tiav zuj zus ces twb pib ua phem zuj zus txog thaum ntaub ntawv tiav kiag ces twb khiav lawm aw es thov tsis txhob ntxias cov tim no neej puas tag lawm os mog.
Nej txhob muab kev khib lo hai kom zoo nej siab nyia muaj nyia kev xav kev ntshaw ... Nej yeej txawj txawj nej yeej ntse nej heev heev nej khwv khwv ua niam nej tsi hwm nej tu txiv .. ce txiv neej lawv tsi care tu tsi paub lo tu paub lu os lawv care tu txawj fwm lawv xwb .. txhob ua ua niam txhob caij caij tsuj lawv xwb .. nyob nplog teb nyob qhov twg lo yog poj niam tsab tsab ntse ce txiv neej kawg hloov siab xwb ok poj hmoob meka ruam khib tshaj plaws lau lau lawm ce tseem heev thiab ce txiv kawg nrhiav cov mos mos hai lu zoo zoo xwb as
Q: yes agreed with you about women in Laos saying for everyone to married old men in America. What they’re saying it’s wrong but only wants to used those old men to bridged them over.
Topic: The niam mos abs in USA shouldn't encourage young Hmoob girls in Laos to marry Hmoob Mekas. It's bad enough that most of their parents encourage and promote prostitution for their family's well-being. It's horrible advice to guide these young girls to marry "anyone" at the cost of their own youth and independence just to come to the USA. Just because it worked out for a small percentage of niam mos abs doesn't mean that abuse doesn't exist in the USA. I have to agree with Payengxa when it comes to not marrying at a young age, getting an education, and having your own financial independence, regardless of gender or what country you live in.
Tus ua poj niam hais los lus ntawv ces yog poj niam vwm xwb kom cov niag ntxhais nyob tim nplog tuaj hnia cov pus thaub laus quav hniav xwb os vim cov tiv yog niam ntiav xwb ces qhov twg tau nyiaj ces thiaj xav ntxhias cov pus thaub laus xwb tiag
Answer to this sister question... I totally agree with you, I have five sons and they are not interested to get to know any young women in Laos because they think those women are too young and on mature enough for them hahaha my boys don't care about their beauty or young.. even my sons still single and just young men but they still think those women in Laos are still too young for them...
Concerning the question, most average person understands common decency even just within the culture. So, if we look at right and wrong, we know what to do if we are in the "right". Just think - would any young person here ever go to Loas and married an older person? The reverse only happens because of extreme sacrifice for potential economical gain and sexual psychosis. Both far from decency and respectability. The story is a very sad story, and it is what war brings. War only brings fear, destructions, and death. No one wins. We the few sit here with opportunities but must never forget the more that wasn't so lucky.
Answer to question: you are correct. I told my husband he can marry a hmong Laos girl… his response; hell no, I’m not spending $30k on a beach. I’d rather go down payment a nice truck.
The lady that asked this question is right! No one is the same and those younger ladies shouldn’t think that the USA is the land of milk and honey. If they are just going to use these Hmong guys for the bridge to a better life then later leave them. This is wrong to do this. Every man is different!
Kuv tsi tuaj tog twg li 2 tog hmoob no yeej coj lub siab tus cwj pwm phem ib yam kuv tsi qhua nej.cov tshav hmoob ces yeej tsi sib hlub li os yog nej hmoob mekas tsi mus ces lawv yeej tuaj tsi tau tim 2 cov hmoob mekas thiab hmoob plog ib yam.dhuav dhau lawm os.
Lawv txawm hais npaum cas los yog nyob ntawm koj tus txiv xwb os. Lawv advertised los yog koj tus txiv tsis nti ces lawv yeej yuav tsis tau koj tus txiv li os.
cov niag txiv neej hmoob meka no nej txhob xav tia yuav zoo ta tu os nw hmoov zoo ce nw yuav ncaj tu zoo xwb nw hmoov phem ce nw yuav tsi tu phem kuv qhia rau nej tia cov tub hlua ma nw txawm phem lo nw tsi muaj tswv yim cem yu pe tsawg nawb nw tsua yog tsi txawj hai lu zoo xwb tab sis cov niag txiv thaub lau ma tau cem yu ma haj yam txawj cem nw mob nw lau nw muaj tswv yim tshaj ma nw nrhiav cov lu phem tshaj plaw thiab mob tshaj plaw lo cem yu xwb nawj yuav cov niag txiv lau ma ntxim ntxub thiab ntxim dhuav tshaj plaw os lawv aw 😂🤣😂🤣
Kuv xav tias tu viv ncaus ua mag ntau nyob Phonsavan mas zoo li Nws tsis yog ib tus neeg tsim txiaj thiab. Tos Kuv hai li no los vim tias nws khiav mus ua nkauj fa xwb es cas nws hnav khaub ncaws hmoob zoo2 nkauj twb tsis vov nws lub nraub qaum li na. Nej sim xav seb ib tug neeg muaj txiv es hnav li nws puas ua rau nws tus txiv npau taws ma. Kuv tsis paub txog nkawd lub neej thiab tus cwj pwm tabsi hais li qhov pom hauv video xwb nawj es Nej txhob lo tawm tsam Kuv ov
Yeah I don't know why Hmong Meska trying to preach to Hmong Lao about physical abuse. There's also plenty of physical abuses cases here in the Hmong American community as well. Hmong Meska should solve and find solutions to their problem before preaching to others. Plenty of physical abuses from men to women in America. Plenty of mental abuses from women to men in America. And plenty of cheating from both in America. No need to preach to Hmong Lao about their problems when your yard hasn't been trimmed yet.
Kuv xav mas yog nej cov ntxhais hmg nplog khiav qws khiav ncaws xwb es nej tsis hlub nej tus kheej, tsis rua muag saib neeg diaj teb tsis pab yus tus kheej kom yus ntse txaus2 ces txawm nej yuav tus txiv nyob sab ntuj twg los nej yeej mag ntaus mag ncaws li mas... txhob npaj qhov yoojyim es khaws xyeem luag lwm tus lub zog noj ma lawv.
Txiv neej hmoob meskas mas yeej zoo nawb hahaha. 😂😂😂😂😂 kuv xav tias tus nug question twb teb tsis tau nws sob lus nug es. You need to clearly understand understand the what you tried to asked .
Ca kuv ho tsi nyiam cov niag e pheej hai tia nkauj hmoob nplog raum no tiag yom nw lo hai li ce nw twb hai nw thiab nw niam nw txiv lawm thiab ma txhob dag os cov hmoob tim no ma tshaw cov ntxhai tim ub tuaj ua nyab tshaj li ho tsua yog koj xwb thiaj hai xwb os nyaj koj yuav txai tau txhua hai hauv no lawm
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Koj hais yog kawg
Yog kawg mas
Niam tais Cas koj hais tsis tsua nrov li
WTH! Who ever said that Hmong men in the US don't beat up women is lying to all you Laos/Thailand people! Hmong men in America are just as abusive! Txiv neej Hmoob meskas ces yeej ntaus pojniam thiab os.
🤣 Apparently, Hmoob nplog girls think U.S men don’t beat their girlfriend/wife. 😂
Zoo mloog kawg kuas paab ntsug koj tu sab tsua koj tug hlob 👍👍👍
Tu siab kawg li os 😭😭
So true txiv neej nyob teb chaw twg los yeej mus cov ntau ntaus2 poj niam thiaj Tsis ntaus poj niam ib yam li os
Agree with you Jenny about what the lady encourages young women to marry hmong Americans
Niam tai jenney Aw kuv tu txiv twb yog hlua nraug kuv yog hlua nkauj wb tug kav tug wb tseem hlua2 kuv tuaj yuav nw tau ib xyoo ntau no ne twb g hlub kuv 🥹 txawm nyob lub teb chaw twg lo yog tu phem ce yeej phem os
ua cas kj yuav tso ib lub raj kho siab kawg li tiag yom
Yog kawg peb cov thaub lau thab cov poglau , kuv yeej nrog lawv cov me nyuam thiab tsev neeg uas lawv mus yuav cov ntxhai cov tub luas hmoob nplog feeb coob lawv lub neej yeej puas tas tub siab tas vim lawv twb laulau lawm los lawv tseem muab tus pojniam nrauj lub neej tawh tas cov pog lau los tsi mloog tej me nyuam hais coj lawv tej nyiaj mus siv rau vov tub hluas hmoob nplog ntxias lawv tuam choj tuaj txog thaum kawg lawv lawv tsi yuav ce ho mobmob siab tuag kiag tsi muaj leejtwg xav hlub xav yuav xav tu cov niah lau ntawm kiaglis.
Wow...peb hmoog ma raug kev tsim tshaj li os. Peb hlub nej txua tu rau lub sib hawm ntawv os. Thanks for sharing, brother
Yes I agree with that sister.we hmong meka women had enough headache lawm os. Don't get more ideas for our hmong old men over here.
Agree nrog koj os sister Jenny, ntxhais hmoob nplog yug los zoo zoo nkauj los tuaj yuav cov thaub laus xwb ces yug los xiam tiam lawm tsis tsim nyog yug los ua 1 tug ntxhais zoo nkauj li os.
War stories always get me teary 😢. I couldnt imagine growing up in those time especially now that I am a parent too, and have little ones. Kuddos to all the brave heroes, passed or alive, and survivors living to share your stories.
Yog leej twg Hlub Hlub ces cia nws tus txiv rov mus yuav xwb las mas. Pój hmoob rhuav neej aw. Txhob txw luag tej neej puas os
Yes you are right!! Its wrong to tell oversea mo ab come to USA because never know how life goes.
Hmoob mekas hmoob nplog, txhua haiv neeg yeej muaj cov ntaus poj niam tib yam os.
Hmoob Mekas thiab Hmoob Nplog ces ib yam xwb os.
Yog lawm qhov ko yog qhov tsis zoo rau txhua tus lawm
Yog lawm kuv pog ib yam li koj hais thiab nawb
Good job Jenny. You’re a great person.
Thank you ❤
Hi Jenny! Yes, you are so correct. These married Laos ladies that were able to cross over to America because they married old men are so wrong for saying this. Men that chooses to be abusive and violent are everywhere, not just in the Hmong community.
Wow very sad story
Q: your 100% correct.
In my opinions Abusive spouse is in all nationalities and race. Married someone who fits your personality best. Zero tolerance for any bullying or Abusive.
Jenny thank you for coming out to speak up about the topic of wife abuse and the dumb idea of encouraging Lao girls to come marry old men in the US. You said it very well and true. Love should be from within your self.
Lus teb qhov question, peb cov tub txawj tub ntse lawv tsis lam tshua kam yuav nkauj hmoob nplog, vim lawv ntse txaus tsis lam qhib bank rau cov hmoob nplog.
Ib qho ntxiv, most of nkauj hmoob nplog txawm cov tos tau tuaj lawm los cov coob tsuas yog khwv nyiaj noj RUclips thiab live nyob fb xwb lawv tsis kam mus nrog lawv tus txiv khwv, txawm lawv mus khwv los lawv lub hom phiaj yeej khwv xa rov tim nplog, tsis yog tas tus tab sis 75% yog cov ua li ntawd
Txhob nrhiav tus zoo neeg, yog yus twb tsis yog neeg zoo tsis hais pojniam losntxiv neej nawd. Kev sib ntaus no yog los ntawm ob leeg txawj sib hwm sib tham kom totaub txhob siv zog thiab lub siab dub los sib tawm tsam ces zoo xwb.
Ua tsaug koj muab koj tsev neeg zaj neej neeg tu siab mob siab tuaj rau peb mloog os, txiv ntxawm. Pab hlub koj tus tijlaug kawg os.
Peb cov poj niam sawv daws yog nej kam no pebkoom siab ua ntawv mus txwv peb chaw loj nyob meskas teb no txwv tsi pub mus xwb .yog nej pom zoo li no kuv ib tug thiab nawb
Agree with you sister
Kuv pom tau tias cov niag pog hmoob nplog tuaj teb chaws no tsis yog cov xav tuaj ua neej, tuaj rhuav lwm tus hlub neej xwb. Lawv tuaj tham luag tej txiv, thaum kawg ces tso khawv koob kom luag tej txiv vwm ciaj,vwm tuag. Kuv pom ntau case cov pog hmoob nplog tso dab tso khawv koob lawm.
Well said Sister Jenny!
Answer/comments to question: I believe that if you have a good man, these advertisements are not going to change a man’s mind/feelings about leaving his wife/family to those young girls in Laos. A great man always appreciates, respects, loves the only woman he married to and have established a great life with unless she passed away but having said that, of course! I am with you! These are not the right messages from these nkauj hmoob nplog to sent home to these young girls, but we have to understand that these messages are from women who aren’t very mature or educated/intelligent.
Lawv cov nkauj hmoob nplog Ziag no lawv tsis xaiv lub neej zoo lawm. Lawv xaiv nyiaj nkaus lawm xwb.
Yeej yog li koj hais abtsi Yuam tsi tau vim lawd txoj kev xav tuaj mikas …
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I agreed with that lady question.
Tbh, most hmoob meska men that married hmoob nplog is usually the grandpa-looking one or the left-over men who seem to have difficulty finding a hmoob meska girl. However, I don’t think we need anymore oversea hmoob nplog girls or guys that only come here for many wrong reasons and not for the right reason. With that being said, the lady that made the statement how the girls in Laos should only married hmoob meska instead of their hmoob nplog is *WRONG* in many ways. SMH *WHAT A BACKWARD WAY OF THINKING*
Totally agreed!
Don’t try to find a solution to something you can’t fix. Start from the root cause. We need to teach the younger generations that it’s not ok to abuse your spouse.
Tus PY hais ntawd kuj yog thiab tsis yog sib npaug zos. Peb yuav teb koj lino. Vim yog cov ntxais mos ab tim nplog xav2 tuaj lub tebchaws no lawv tsev neeg nrog nws tus kheej yuav muaj lub neej zoo dua yuav cov tub hluas hmoob nplog. Peb hmoob ces ib txwm tshaw nkauj mos ab ntxawm nyob nplog teb los nyob tebchaws no. Yog li hmoob thiaj muaj niam hlob niam yaus tsis hais nyob nplog los tim meskas no. Peb tib tsis tau leej twg. Nyias muaj nyias tus npau suav. Yuav ua npaum twg los yeej tseem muaj mus tsis paub kawg.
Cov niam tsev teb chaws America muaj qee leej mas heev heev dhuav dhau lawm ces ua ib siab mus yuav niam mos ab kav tsawg hnub los kav liam zoo tshaj qhov mob hlwb hais tsis tau jaj twg
Sister Jenny aw, cov ntsiab lus topic hauv no ces yeej muaj tseeb2. Yeej happens ua ntu zus los tau ntau2 xyoo Tus yuav ntxias tuam choj xwb los muaj, Tus yuav ntxias Nyiaj tsim lawv lub neej xwb los muaj, tus ho tso lawv poj niam los yog lawv Tus txiv tham hmoob miskas ntxias Nyiaj siv los yog kho lawv lub neej xwb los muaj tabsis vim hmoob miskas los yeej ruam txaus2 thiab es lawv siv lub mi suab qab2 zib , lo lus mos2 ntxias thiab muab kiag lawv daim av luaj 3 nti los yog lawv 1 choj 2 Lis xa kiag rau lawv pom xwb ces lawv ruam tsis ruam ces xa loo Nyiaj rau thiab mas. Cov ruam los ruam, cov dag noj dag haus los paub tias khwv Nyiaj yooj yim npaum no ces thiaj sib tw los kawm ua thaj no mas.
Neeg Liam ces txawm li cas los yeej Liam os.
Nkauj hmoob nplog nyiam 2 dag hmoob mekas nyiaj noj lawvyuav siv lub mab no kom hmoob mekas cov txiv lee 2 es vam 2 xwb thiaj li yuav lawm xwb vim lawv hom phiaj yuav kom peb pojniam hmoob mekas lub neej puas mus xwb kuv pom ib tug ntxhais hmoob nplog tuaj txiv hmoob mekas nyob sab qaum teb tawm los hais pom txhij paub txhua vim hmoob nplog lub hom phiaj yog yuav rhuav los peb pojniam hmoob mekas lub neej vim lawv xav hais tias lawv hluas 2 ces ua li cas los yuav yeej txhua yam qhov nov yog lawv lub hom phiaj tos niaj hnub no peb cov niam tsev hmoob mekas ua pojnrauj coob 2 los vim cov poj hmoob nplog txojkev dag yeej xwb
Txhob Xav yuav kev tias 100% txiv neej hmoob nyob tebchaws vam meej yuav tsis ntau pojniam ov. Muaj ib feem los ham tsis lim hiam kawg thiab las as. Feem coob yog cov thaub laus / El cheater mus yuav cov nkauj hmoob nplog xwb tsis tsim nyog khu xab nas
Xuam coob cov ntxhais cov tub tim nplog tim ub lawv yeej tsis xav yuav cov pog laus thaub laus tim mes kas li os lawv lam ntxias tuam choj kom tau tuaj xwb thaum ntaub ntawv tiav zuj zus ces twb pib ua phem zuj zus txog thaum ntaub ntawv tiav kiag ces twb khiav lawm aw es thov tsis txhob ntxias cov tim no neej puas tag lawm os mog.
Awww such a sad story. I’m glad your brother was able to help you all escape. RIP
Kuv ces yog ua tau ces xav txwv cov muaj poj niam lawm tseem mus tham cov poj meb cab Tim ub ces raug ntes raug kaw.txwv tsi pub mus xwb os
Jenny aw cov niam cov txiv nyob nplog ntshaws ntshaws kom lawv tau vauv thaub laus nyob USA es
What a heroic story. Thank you for sharing ❤
Nej txhob muab kev khib lo hai kom zoo nej siab nyia muaj nyia kev xav kev ntshaw ... Nej yeej txawj txawj nej yeej ntse nej heev heev nej khwv khwv ua niam nej tsi hwm nej tu txiv .. ce txiv neej lawv tsi care tu tsi paub lo tu paub lu os lawv care tu txawj fwm lawv xwb .. txhob ua ua niam txhob caij caij tsuj lawv xwb .. nyob nplog teb nyob qhov twg lo yog poj niam tsab tsab ntse ce txiv neej kawg hloov siab xwb ok poj hmoob meka ruam khib tshaj plaws lau lau lawm ce tseem heev thiab ce txiv kawg nrhiav cov mos mos hai lu zoo zoo xwb as
Q: yes agreed with you about women in Laos saying for everyone to married old men in America. What they’re saying it’s wrong but only wants to used those old men to bridged them over.
Topic: The niam mos abs in USA shouldn't encourage young Hmoob girls in Laos to marry Hmoob Mekas. It's bad enough that most of their parents encourage and promote prostitution for their family's well-being. It's horrible advice to guide these young girls to marry "anyone" at the cost of their own youth and independence just to come to the USA. Just because it worked out for a small percentage of niam mos abs doesn't mean that abuse doesn't exist in the USA.
I have to agree with Payengxa when it comes to not marrying at a young age, getting an education, and having your own financial independence, regardless of gender or what country you live in.
Kuv.xav.ntias.ua.siab.loj.nyias.yeem.nyias.xwb
Tus ua poj niam hais los lus ntawv ces yog poj niam vwm xwb kom cov niag ntxhais nyob tim nplog tuaj hnia cov pus thaub laus quav hniav xwb os vim cov tiv yog niam ntiav xwb ces qhov twg tau nyiaj ces thiaj xav ntxhias cov pus thaub laus xwb tiag
Cov tub hluas uas ntaus2 poj niam ntaw Tsuas yog tug puav xwb os, tsis yog yuav tas tus nawj .
Los Tau ob xyoo no tib cotub hlua Los yuav cov ntxhai Tim no xwb cov thaub tsi muaj os tab tib cov tub hlua pabpam paus xwb
Answer to this sister question... I totally agree with you, I have five sons and they are not interested to get to know any young women in Laos because they think those women are too young and on mature enough for them hahaha my boys don't care about their beauty or young.. even my sons still single and just young men but they still think those women in Laos are still too young for them...
Concerning the question, most average person understands common decency even just within the culture. So, if we look at right and wrong, we know what to do if we are in the "right". Just think - would any young person here ever go to Loas and married an older person? The reverse only happens because of extreme sacrifice for potential economical gain and sexual psychosis. Both far from decency and respectability.
The story is a very sad story, and it is what war brings. War only brings fear, destructions, and death. No one wins. We the few sit here with opportunities but must never forget the more that wasn't so lucky.
Answer to question: you are correct. I told my husband he can marry a hmong Laos girl… his response; hell no, I’m not spending $30k on a beach. I’d rather go down payment a nice truck.
Your husband is a smart man.
Sad
Cov Nkauj hmoob nplog siab yeej phem
Let those old man marry whoever they want. LoVE iS LOvE right? 🥴😂
The lady that asked this question is right! No one is the same and those younger ladies shouldn’t think that the USA is the land of milk and honey. If they are just going to use these Hmong guys for the bridge to a better life then later leave them. This is wrong to do this. Every man is different!
Kuv tsi tuaj tog twg li 2 tog hmoob no yeej coj lub siab tus cwj pwm phem ib yam kuv tsi qhua nej.cov tshav hmoob ces yeej tsi sib hlub li os yog nej hmoob mekas tsi mus ces lawv yeej tuaj tsi tau tim 2 cov hmoob mekas thiab hmoob plog ib yam.dhuav dhau lawm os.
Lawv txawm hais npaum cas los yog nyob ntawm koj tus txiv xwb os. Lawv advertised los yog koj tus txiv tsis nti ces lawv yeej yuav tsis tau koj tus txiv li os.
Such a bittersweet story 😢
cov niag txiv neej hmoob meka no nej txhob xav tia yuav zoo ta tu os nw hmoov zoo ce nw yuav ncaj tu zoo xwb nw hmoov phem ce nw yuav tsi tu phem kuv qhia rau nej tia cov tub hlua ma nw txawm phem lo nw tsi muaj tswv yim cem yu pe tsawg nawb nw tsua yog tsi txawj hai lu zoo xwb tab sis cov niag txiv thaub lau ma tau cem yu ma haj yam txawj cem nw mob nw lau nw muaj tswv yim tshaj ma nw nrhiav cov lu phem tshaj plaw thiab mob tshaj plaw lo cem yu xwb nawj yuav cov niag txiv lau ma ntxim ntxub thiab ntxim dhuav tshaj plaw os lawv aw 😂🤣😂🤣
A wife beater will always be a wife beater no matter who or where he lives.
Kuv xav tias tu viv ncaus ua mag ntau nyob Phonsavan mas zoo li Nws tsis yog ib tus neeg tsim txiaj thiab. Tos Kuv hai li no los vim tias nws khiav mus ua nkauj fa xwb es cas nws hnav khaub ncaws hmoob zoo2 nkauj twb tsis vov nws lub nraub qaum li na. Nej sim xav seb ib tug neeg muaj txiv es hnav li nws puas ua rau nws tus txiv npau taws ma. Kuv tsis paub txog nkawd lub neej thiab tus cwj pwm tabsi hais li qhov pom hauv video xwb nawj es Nej txhob lo tawm tsam Kuv ov
yog lawm cov mus yuav Pog Niam Tim UB yog cov neeg seem thiab cov neeg Liam xwb os
Nyob ntawm siab o
Yeah
I don't know why Hmong Meska trying to preach to Hmong Lao about physical abuse.
There's also plenty of physical abuses cases here in the Hmong American community as well.
Hmong Meska should solve and find solutions to their problem before preaching to others.
Plenty of physical abuses from men to women in America.
Plenty of mental abuses from women to men in America.
And plenty of cheating from both in America.
No need to preach to Hmong Lao about their problems when your yard hasn't been trimmed yet.
Sad story
Kuv xav mas yog nej cov ntxhais hmg nplog khiav qws khiav ncaws xwb es nej tsis hlub nej tus kheej, tsis rua muag saib neeg diaj teb tsis pab yus tus kheej kom yus ntse txaus2 ces txawm nej yuav tus txiv nyob sab ntuj twg los nej yeej mag ntaus mag ncaws li mas... txhob npaj qhov yoojyim es khaws xyeem luag lwm tus lub zog noj ma lawv.
Txiv neej hmoob meskas mas yeej zoo nawb hahaha. 😂😂😂😂😂
kuv xav tias tus nug question twb teb tsis tau nws sob lus nug es.
You need to clearly understand understand the what you tried to asked .
Kuv xav kom nyais yuav nus phim yus
Kom hLuas ib xwb thiaj sib phim xwb os niam hluas
Ca kuv ho tsi nyiam cov niag e pheej hai tia nkauj hmoob nplog raum no tiag yom nw lo hai li ce nw twb hai nw thiab nw niam nw txiv lawm thiab ma txhob dag os cov hmoob tim no ma tshaw cov ntxhai tim ub tuaj ua nyab tshaj li ho tsua yog koj xwb thiaj hai xwb os nyaj koj yuav txai tau txhua hai hauv no lawm