Sometimes sacrifices are necessary to survive another day. You know the reasons why you make your choices. No need to apologize to anyone and you don't owe anything to anyone. Just focus on yourself, your family, and those who loves you. For those that mistreated you and abused you, no need to give them any attention.
You did what you have to do to survive and support your younger siblings, you are not to blame. Your dad failed you guys. He should be ashamed of himself! It's great that you found someone who loves you for who you are.
I am sorry you went to such a hard time. I am happy you found someone that loves you. Go and live your life. Do ever feel sorry for yourself and your life. It’s your time to shine and be free. Sending love and hugs.
Sister, you been through so much and suffered greatly as a daughter. You have no debts to your father and stepmom whatsoever. Some of our Hmong stepmother and stepfather are terrible people. Glade that you’re able to find love and peace in America. America is the land of laws. No one is above the law…wish you luck and peace 😩👍🤠!
I'm sorry that you went through a very bad hardship life....your dad fail you...your dad suppose to protect u as a young girl. Remember...all this bad things happened to you is never your fault....don't blame yourself. I'm so happy that you find a way to survive and support your siblings...it is very blessing. Remember..don't lose hope and God is with u....blessing u well. Stay away from negative pple who not in your shoes. I'm very proud of you as a strong woman. Keep your head high and continue to be strong. May God bless u sister.
What is past is past. I applaud you for your courage. No one can judge your life because no one was in your shoes. You had to do what you needed to do to survive period. Bravo!
Nrog koj zoo siab os sister. I support you doing whatever it takes to survive. Poverty is REAL. Many of us never experienced that and so its easy for us to pass judgements.... you don't have the luxury to think of "Self Respect", your main focus in life is to survive and when people pass judgments without attempting to step in ur shoes, I really don't understand what they're trying to achieve. I'm proud of you. And ur decisions to end up where u are in life!
You did what you did to survive when your father failed to protect and support you. I’m glad you were able to get yourself out of poverty and created a good life for you. Be happy and continue your life. No need to look back at your dad and stepmom.
Sister I'm so happy you are so loved right now. You deserve nothing but love. Don't be ashamed for your strength and resiliency. Be proud. I am proud of you.
Niam laus aw zoo lawm o lub ntuj yeej muaj qhov muag nrog kj zoo siab qhov muaj kj tu txiv lo rub kj tes es kj thiaj li hlub tau kj ob tug yau ces zoo lawm o
Tus me viv ncaus aw!! Txoj kev ua ntsuag yeej tu siab tshaj mog yog leej twg tsis tau ua ntsuag ces yeej tsis paub li mog es kuv twb tau ua ntsuag dua los lawm thiab es thiaj paub txoj ua os mog kuv pab hlub koj os mog . tab si koj twb muaj hmoo es tau lub neej zoo22 lawm es sib2 hlub xwb mog. Es koj ua ntawv mus tos koj tus niam hluas tuaj nrog koj nyob teb mekas no es kom nws tsis txhob txom2 nyem mog .
Nrog hlub nej cov me nus muag ntsuag yav thaum nej tiv thaiv tsis tau nej tus kheej. Zoo siab koj tau lub neej zoo lawm mog tus vivncaus. Koj yuav leej twg los tsis tseem ceeb. Qhov tseem ceeb yog koj tau lub neej kaj siab. Hlub tus neeg hlub koj xwb mog. Tus neeg tsis hlub koj thaum pib los koj tseem ua zoo rau los yeej tsis muaj nqi mog. God bless you.
Tus me ntxhais, yuav haiv neeg twg los tsuav yog nws hlub yus thiab yus hlub nws os mog. Peb muaj mekas yeej muaj tej tub ntxhais yuav lwm haiv neeg coob coob kawg, tus zoo kuj muaj tus ho tsis zoo raws siab los kuj muaj os me ntxhais es txhob tu siab txhob xav tau…yus twb muaj tej me nyuam ces yus tso siab rau yus tej me nyuam hlub yus thiab yus hlub lawv os mog ❤️👌
Sister don’t worry as long as you n your husband love each other don’t care about your parents if you read this statement you are not ALONE I’m also Hmong too i married to Hmong man but my parents are real parents not even step parents but they don’t love me as the other siblings they only want to suck your money so don’t feel bad feel disappointed your fortune happy what you have and continue love yourself since I came to America almost 30 years I NEVER go back to my old country so love your husband your kid and the most is yourself happy start from you…. No one understands you if they are not on your shoes
Tsis cem koj os tus me ntxhais, tsuas yog nrog koj tu siab rau koj zaj neej neeg xwb os, txoj kev ntsuag tu2 siab, leej twg tsis tau ua ntsuag ces yeej tsis paub os mog, tus ua ntsuag thiaj to taub koj txoj kev ntsuag tu siab xwb os mog!
Dang I crying 😢 😭.. neog nej tu siab tshaj. My dad love me even my ex left ne.. my dad help me out watching my kids for me to go work. I'm lucky one, but so sad my dad he passed away last year 😢.
I’m glad you found your happiness. You are a strong woman and you deserve the best. Don’t ever stop believing in yourself. I too have a wonderful quiet life with my American man. I have to say I’m the luckiest woman. I understand why you don’t go around the Hmong community. They always have something to say, and it’s not nice.
Sister don’t worry about your life in the past what you did we understand you. We say you did a very good job, and you so lucky come to United State of America. Don’t ever think about your husband is too old, he’s not your nationality. You really need the one he loves you, don’t worry about what peoples said it’s your life.
Sister everyone who doesn’t have parents to guide them, education, and role model, can make mistakes. Don’t let your mistakes define you. I am very happy to hear of your happily ever after. Happy you can be a role model for your siblings, because you had to walk the mistakes to learn to guide them. Don’t worry about the Hmong community, they don’t deserve you that is why God gave you the a different community.
She didn’t make a mistake, she did what she had to, to live, to support her young siblings. It was the only way she knew how not having education or a way out. Proud of her that she didn’t let it kill her or defy her life but did it only to better herself in the long run. 😊
@@JRxwb exposing herself to her boyfriend in the beginning was because she thought he loved her to only find out he didn’t. She didn’t expose herself to him to survive. Her troubles worsened after that and so she then did what she had to survive. So yes she made a mistake by thinking it was love. She didn’t let her mistake define her.
@@NN-ks9pq True, that was her mistake but again she thought that was what he wanted in order to get $$ from him lol 😂 When Hmong Mekas date girl from back there (haven’t you heard) all they want to see is her naked 🤣 but yes she was stupid to fall for it. 🤦🏻♀️
Txhob tu siab os.nrog koj zoo siab hmoob lub neej ces koj hais tsawg los paub ntau os.tsis thas hlub los yeej tau.koj ua tau zoo kawg raws kuv siab xav ntag.nej cov hmoob nplog mas kuv tsis nyiam kiag li lawv yog neeg dag noj dag haus npav lub yeej yim kuv ntxub dhuav tshaj plaws.
Everyone has made a lot of mistakes in their lives. Nobody is perfect so don’t worry what others say or think about you. What’s important is that you’re loved and you’re happiest than you’ve ever been. Sometimes the families are the ones letting you down and hating on you. Don’t let them get in the way of your dreams. It’s mostly your dads fault for not defending you as he should be. He just let your stepmom have her ways. How dare she abuse you like that. It’s ok to cut out toxic people out of your life, even family members. You deserve to be loved and have a happy life for yourself. You are absolutely right! You don’t need others approval on how you live your life. If they can’t accept you then cut ties with them. Im glad that stepmom and dad are suffering they’re own karma for not loving you and your siblings.
Wow! Sister May, this story is one of your best IMO. The sister in this story was so brave in my eyes. She loved her siblings so much she was willing to sacrifice herself to support her family. Love has no boundaries. Age is only a number. She made a good decision to marry the one who showed her love and support. I wish her nothing but the best. ❤️
Me niam hluas aw hmoob hais hmoob yus tsis muaj neej tsa lo tsis care kav tsij hlub koj tus txiv kom tsim nyog qhov nws cawm koj tuaj es dim plaws txoj kev txom nyem xwb os mog..hlub tus neeg cawm yus txoj sia es thiaj tsis muaj kev npam mog..
Thank for sharing your story. I'm so heart broken and what you have to go through. But am also happy you found happiness and love. Anyone who bashes you obviously have no brain. As for your younger sister because they have such a wonderful older sister who love and support her please advise her to study and work hard for herself. Not all old people are good. What's best is she becomes independent and doesn't rely on anyone. Become a necessity and not a want. Best of luck to you and your family ❤️
Whatever happened in the past is history. Let them be a lesson to learn and teach your daughters to be a better person. No matter what storm came through your way, you are strong enough to fight through it.
Ca peb hmoob es feem coob kv yeej pom cov coob es yog thaum twg yus muaj nyiaj cev rau luag thiab muab rau luag tas li xwb es yus thiaj li yog tu zoo xwb os...... Yog thaum yus tsis muaj nyiaj lo yog tsis muaj rau luag noj ces luag yeej tsis xam tia yus yog luag neeg li os tu siab tshaj li os peb hmoob tsis txawj sib hlub
Hauv qab ntuj no ces cov menyuam ntsuag tsis muaj niam tsis muaj txiv es raug tej niam hlob txiv hlob, los yog niam ntxawm txiv ntxawm tsim, los tsis muaj tus niam es raug niam tshiab tsim, thiab tsis muaj txiv es raug txiv tshiab tsim mas thiaj mob ti txha nkaus li no tiag. Yuav luag txhua tus Hmoob yeej tsim menyuam ntsuag li no. So sad, but I’m glad you found a loving husband and having a good life! God bless you and your family!
There is nothing to be ashamed of, you had to do what you needed to do to survive. You are kind and loving. And sacrificed a lot, for your brother to have a better life and future. You deserve, to be loved and treated well.
Parents like that don’t deserve your love. They only notice you bc you are better off now, and they can use you. You could be dead now and they would of never cared to call and follow up on you, if you had no money and life.
All the issues the evil step mom did was all your dad's fault for allowing her to do. A real loving dad will never allowed that. He would choose his children over her. Your dad is the heartless one. So sorry 😞
Tu me viv ncau kj lub neej tu siab heev kv mloog ma ib ke mloog ib ke quab vim kv lub neej tseem nyb rau txoj kev txom nyem ntawv khwv nyiaj txhawm rau tej yau ua hnub ua hmo xb os
Koj ua Yog kawg lawm os sister, tsis npam li os. Tug neeg ntxub yus Thaum me, niam no yus loj hlo tsheej neeg lawm. Lawv mam tig los hlub yus thiab kom yus pab ces lig lawm. What you do is right sister.
Kuv yog txiv neej tab sis kuv yuav tuaj tus muam no tog kuv ntxub cov txiv neej ua tsis taus txiv li no thiab kuv ntxub cov poj niam siab lim hiam li no tus muam koj tsis yeem xa nyiaj mus rau ob tus neeg tau tsim txom koj dhau los yeej tsis npam koj ib zaug li o nawb
just be happy with what you have now and appreciate those who pulled you out from the pit of sufferings. love those who loved you and move on away from those who hates you.
Tus me niam aw niam tshiab ces yeej zoo yam txhua 2 tus li os peb cov niam tuag lawm ces yeej ntsib txhua yam koj tshib los ma yus tus txiv ces yog tus hlub tshaj xwb os
Good for you tus me vi ncaus ntsuag! Nrog koj zoo siab koj tawm tau ntawm txoj kev txom nyem lawm. Education is everything to me, but I will never understand the Hmong people in Laos and their educational goals when the return is practically ZERO to NOTHING. If you know how to read and write, then STOP wasting your very hard-earned money to continue or go any higher. Your Laos country has no jobs - no companies that will hire anyone to make a decent living. No place cares if you have a degree or not because your degree(s) absolutely cannot and will not get you anywhere in that country unless you are a Superior Laotian Government Official’s daughter or son who will someday run Laos. My father-in-law has his younger brother in Laos, and he has sons that went over sea to Japan, the Philippines, and China for Higher Education. These sons returned with Ph.D. yet ended up with a Teacher position that pays $100 to $150 per month. Health care Dr. with higher levels get $150 to $200 per month. And if the Laos government hires them, they have a municipal city job that pays $45 to $75 per month. Their earning wages got them nowhere. The many $$$$ that my father-in-law and his six other brothers in the USA helped these nephews was wasted. My husband, his brothers, and his Hmong USA cousins were pissed and told their one and only uncle and auntie that were left behind after the Vietnam/CIA war, plus these Hmong Laos cousins, to farm, raise livestock and sell their crops and meats to Chinese and Vietnamese Exporters. They made much more money for their living expenses and needs. They have STOPPED asking us families here in the USA for support for more than 12-15 years. Also, these Laos cousins no longer care if the kids in their generation have higher education or not, as it is not helping anyone in the line of making a living.
Your past, the good, and the bad makes you who you are today, sister. I'm sorry for your struggles and hardship you have been through when you were younger. I hope now you're doing great and doing well. I hope only good comes to you and your siblings. Keep your head up ❤️
No matter what the situation is then I hope you are doing well today and living the dream. I hope you do yourself proud, if not for anybody. If you have fulfilled your dream that's all that matters. Live it up, life is short, and enjoy life while you can.
Tus me niam hluas kj yog 1 tug ntxhais ua muaj peev xwm tshaj plaws li os thov qhuas kj os g muaj neeg tsa los txhob ntshaw os tsuav kj muaj lub chaw nyob ces yog qhov zoo lawm os mog
Yus yeej los ua Niam ntsiab tabsi cas tsis muaj lub siab phem npaum li cov Niam tshiab nyob tim nplog thiab. Pom lawv cov me nyuam ntsuag2 nos es yus twb pab2 hlub tsis ntxawj tas li. Rau tus Niam tsev nov, koj yeej ua Yog kawg lawm…tseem ua Niam ntiav tseem zoo dua muaj tus txiv Hmoob es tus txiv Saib tsis taus yus. . Ua Niam ntiav yeej yog muaj pheej xwm, yog ib txog haum lub xwb thiab tau nyiaj los Pab yus cov nug muag, Yog muaj hniav txiv es yus hmag deev tsuas2 hmo los twb tsis tau nyiaj tseem tau ua nws qhev ua rau nws noj thiab. Zoo siab ua kj tau ib tug txiv hlub2 kj lawm, thiab cawm tau kj tuaj nyob Mekas theb no lawm. Yog kawg tsis hlub kj txiv thiab Niam ntshiab los yeej tsis npam vim lawv ua rau yus ntxom nyem txaus2 lawm. Ua li koj ua mAs yog kawg li lawm os. Tseem yog kuv los ntshe kv yeej yuav ua li thiab mog.
Very good story. Hais tau thiab ua tau yog kawg. Peb hmoob cov niam tshiab thiab txiv tshiab mas yeej siab me. Thiab feem ntau yeej tsis kam hlub cov menyuam ntsuag. Thank you for sharing.
Txhob tu siab os mog, txoj kev txom nyem koj raug ko Los Twb yog Tim koj txiv es qhov phem los koj Twb ntxeem dhau qhov zoo CES koj Twb ntxeem mus txog lawm os mog, nrog koj zoo Siab tshaj li nawb mog, kev hlub ces yog los ntawm yus Niam yus txiv yus Viv ncaus thiab yus tej nus yog ib Co roj ntsha xwb cov sab nraud CES txhob TOS lawm mog😭😭
I am so sorry to hear what you have been through. We known the old use to tread orphans like that. But do not feel broken heart too much to you dad. At least he is your dad who gave you life. Please forgive him and God will bless you more. By the way one day you don't regrate. Do not let it be that way until one day it is too late. Forgiving is a very beautiful thing a human can do.
Koj ma ua yog tsaj li lawm os koj xaiv tau txoj ke yog taug lawm peb nyob mecas no los peb yeej yuav mecas ib yam! Me ntxhais xaiv txoj ke kaj siab xwb mog
Viv ncaus aw...tsis hais leej twg li yog u ntsib txoj Kev txom nyem ces yeej ua 1 yam li os mog peb hmoob ces yeej 1 txwj tsis txaej xav ua dab tsi Los lawv tias u rhuav lawv ua rau lawv txaj muag no xwb tab sis xab maim no leej two ua yam two Los tshuav u muaj peev xwm os mog txhob tu siab os zoo siab rau koj lub neej niaj hnub no xwb txhua yam phem tso pob tseg os mog .
Pab hlub koj thiab koj cov siblings dhau lawm os. Yus tej neej tej tsa tsis hlub yus. Tus yuav hlub yus ces yog yus tus kheej xwb thiab yus tus txiv xwb. I’m happy you found happiness and love. What everyone seek is love. Some that seek money is never really happy. Nej yeej tsis npam ib zaug li os sister aw. Nws lub siab tseem lim hiam tshaj qhov lim hiam lawm thiab os.
I'm happy you found a family who doesn't judge you for your past. I happy you've found a whole new family who loves you dearly
Sometimes sacrifices are necessary to survive another day. You know the reasons why you make your choices. No need to apologize to anyone and you don't owe anything to anyone. Just focus on yourself, your family, and those who loves you. For those that mistreated you and abused you, no need to give them any attention.
You did what you have to do to survive and support your younger siblings, you are not to blame. Your dad failed you guys. He should be ashamed of himself! It's great that you found someone who loves you for who you are.
I am sorry you went to such a hard time. I am happy you found someone that loves you. Go and live your life. Do ever feel sorry for yourself and your life. It’s your time to shine and be free. Sending love and hugs.
Sister, you been through so much and suffered greatly as a daughter. You have no debts to your father and stepmom whatsoever. Some of our Hmong stepmother and stepfather are terrible people. Glade that you’re able to find love and peace in America. America is the land of laws. No one is above the law…wish you luck and peace 😩👍🤠!
Wow! Thank you for sharing your story. It helps us to understand things from a different perspective. And .. That is one wicked step- mom you got!!!
I'm sorry that you went through a very bad hardship life....your dad fail you...your dad suppose to protect u as a young girl. Remember...all this bad things happened to you is never your fault....don't blame yourself. I'm so happy that you find a way to survive and support your siblings...it is very blessing. Remember..don't lose hope and God is with u....blessing u well. Stay away from negative pple who not in your shoes. I'm very proud of you as a strong woman. Keep your head high and continue to be strong. May God bless u sister.
What is past is past. I applaud you for your courage. No one can judge your life because no one was in your shoes.
You had to do what you needed to do to survive period. Bravo!
Nrog koj zoo siab os sister. I support you doing whatever it takes to survive. Poverty is REAL. Many of us never experienced that and so its easy for us to pass judgements.... you don't have the luxury to think of "Self Respect", your main focus in life is to survive and when people pass judgments without attempting to step in ur shoes, I really don't understand what they're trying to achieve. I'm proud of you. And ur decisions to end up where u are in life!
Peb cov txiv laus2 yeej hlub pojniam dua. Txhob xaiv nraug laus. Zoo siab koj nrhiav tau txoj kev kajsiab rau koj thiab pab tau koj cov yau.
You did what you did to survive when your father failed to protect and support you. I’m glad you were able to get yourself out of poverty and created a good life for you. Be happy and continue your life. No need to look back at your dad and stepmom.
Sister I'm so happy you are so loved right now. You deserve nothing but love. Don't be ashamed for your strength and resiliency. Be proud. I am proud of you.
ua siab zoo rau koj tus txiv vim muaj nws koj thiaj tuaj tau zoo lawm os mog
Niam laus aw zoo lawm o lub ntuj yeej muaj qhov muag nrog kj zoo siab qhov muaj kj tu txiv lo rub kj tes es kj thiaj li hlub tau kj ob tug yau ces zoo lawm o
Tus me viv ncaus aw!! Txoj kev ua ntsuag yeej tu siab tshaj mog yog leej twg tsis tau ua ntsuag ces yeej tsis paub li mog es kuv twb tau ua ntsuag dua los lawm thiab es thiaj paub txoj ua os mog kuv pab hlub koj os mog . tab si koj twb muaj hmoo es tau lub neej zoo22 lawm es sib2 hlub xwb mog. Es koj ua ntawv mus tos koj tus niam hluas tuaj nrog koj nyob teb mekas no es kom nws tsis txhob txom2 nyem mog .
Nrog hlub nej cov me nus muag ntsuag yav thaum nej tiv thaiv tsis tau nej tus kheej. Zoo siab koj tau lub neej zoo lawm mog tus vivncaus. Koj yuav leej twg los tsis tseem ceeb. Qhov tseem ceeb yog koj tau lub neej kaj siab. Hlub tus neeg hlub koj xwb mog. Tus neeg tsis hlub koj thaum pib los koj tseem ua zoo rau los yeej tsis muaj nqi mog. God bless you.
Yog kawg
Tus me ntxhais, yuav haiv neeg twg los tsuav yog nws hlub yus thiab yus hlub nws os mog. Peb muaj mekas yeej muaj tej tub ntxhais yuav lwm haiv neeg coob coob kawg, tus zoo kuj muaj tus ho tsis zoo raws siab los kuj muaj os me ntxhais es txhob tu siab txhob xav tau…yus twb muaj tej me nyuam ces yus tso siab rau yus tej me nyuam hlub yus thiab yus hlub lawv os mog ❤️👌
Life is unpredictable. Everybody has their own dark and shine light. Your light is shining super bright now. Congrats 😘😘💘🌞🌞
Sister don’t worry as long as you n your husband love each other don’t care about your parents if you read this statement you are not ALONE I’m also Hmong too i married to Hmong man but my parents are real parents not even step parents but they don’t love me as the other siblings they only want to suck your money so don’t feel bad feel disappointed your fortune happy what you have and continue love yourself since I came to America almost 30 years I NEVER go back to my old country so love your husband your kid and the most is yourself happy start from you…. No one understands you if they are not on your shoes
Cas yuav hais tau2 sab ua luj tsis yog koj tseem kuv ma pug ntxhais poj laib ntag lu.
You did the right thing.. Live a long happy peaceful life!
I cried listening to this!!! The past is the past. What you have accomplished today is because of your hard work. I'm so proud of you sister
Peb ua neej nyob tsis pom txoj hmoo, zoo siab koj tau lub neej kaj siab luag nrog koj zoo siab !❤
Txhob tu siab nawb mog…thov kom koj tsuas tau kev Kaj siab
Tsis cem koj os tus me ntxhais, tsuas yog nrog koj tu siab rau koj zaj neej neeg xwb os, txoj kev ntsuag tu2 siab, leej twg tsis tau ua ntsuag ces yeej tsis paub os mog, tus ua ntsuag thiaj to taub koj txoj kev ntsuag tu siab xwb os mog!
Dang I crying 😢 😭.. neog nej tu siab tshaj.
My dad love me even my ex left ne.. my dad help me out watching my kids for me to go work. I'm lucky one, but so sad my dad he passed away last year 😢.
Koj ua yog lawm os tus viv ncaus.
Zoo siab nrog kj o tu me viv ncaus aw txom2 nyem thaum me thiaj kav yus laus os
I’m glad you found your happiness. You are a strong woman and you deserve the best. Don’t ever stop believing in yourself. I too have a wonderful quiet life with my American man. I have to say I’m the luckiest woman. I understand why you don’t go around the Hmong community. They always have something to say, and it’s not nice.
Sister don’t worry about your life in the past what you did we understand you. We say you did a very good job, and you so lucky come to United State of America. Don’t ever think about your husband is too old, he’s not your nationality. You really need the one he loves you, don’t worry about what peoples said it’s your life.
Me ntxhais aw.. kuv nrog koj zoo2 siab kawg os hlub2 koj tus txiv os mog Thov Vaj tswv hlub koj tus txiv neb ob leeg mog
Sister everyone who doesn’t have parents to guide them, education, and role model, can make mistakes. Don’t let your mistakes define you. I am very happy to hear of your happily ever after. Happy you can be a role model for your siblings, because you had to walk the mistakes to learn to guide them. Don’t worry about the Hmong community, they don’t deserve you that is why God gave you the a different community.
She didn’t make a mistake, she did what she had to, to live, to support her young siblings. It was the only way she knew how not having education or a way out.
Proud of her that she didn’t let it kill her or defy her life but did it only to better herself in the long run. 😊
@@JRxwb exposing herself to her boyfriend in the beginning was because she thought he loved her to only find out he didn’t. She didn’t expose herself to him to survive. Her troubles worsened after that and so she then did what she had to survive. So yes she made a mistake by thinking it was love. She didn’t let her mistake define her.
@@NN-ks9pq True, that was her mistake but again she thought that was what he wanted in order to get $$ from him lol 😂
When Hmong Mekas date girl from back there (haven’t you heard) all they want to see is her naked 🤣 but yes she was stupid to fall for it. 🤦🏻♀️
Nrog koj zoo siab koj xaiv koj tus txiv tsis yuam kev li os.. peb cov txiv Hmoob khwv heev rau lawv thiab laj tiam heev!
Txhob tu siab os.nrog koj zoo siab hmoob lub neej ces koj hais tsawg los paub ntau os.tsis thas hlub los yeej tau.koj ua tau zoo kawg raws kuv siab xav ntag.nej cov hmoob nplog mas kuv tsis nyiam kiag li lawv yog neeg dag noj dag haus npav lub yeej yim kuv ntxub dhuav tshaj plaws.
Live your life sister!! God Is watching over you at all time!!!
You are free now and live your best life
Everyone has made a lot of mistakes in their lives. Nobody is perfect so don’t worry what others say or think about you. What’s important is that you’re loved and you’re happiest than you’ve ever been. Sometimes the families are the ones letting you down and hating on you. Don’t let them get in the way of your dreams. It’s mostly your dads fault for not defending you as he should be. He just let your stepmom have her ways. How dare she abuse you like that. It’s ok to cut out toxic people out of your life, even family members. You deserve to be loved and have a happy life for yourself. You are absolutely right! You don’t need others approval on how you live your life. If they can’t accept you then cut ties with them. Im glad that stepmom and dad are suffering they’re own karma for not loving you and your siblings.
Koj xaiv yog lawm os tus ntxhais aws txhob tu siab os, koj neej twb zoo lawm pab koj zoo siab.
Wow! Sister May, this story is one of your best IMO. The sister in this story was so brave in my eyes. She loved her siblings so much she was willing to sacrifice herself to support her family. Love has no boundaries. Age is only a number. She made a good decision to marry the one who showed her love and support. I wish her nothing but the best. ❤️
So happy that you found love. Your story is one of survival and perseverance. Be happy. That is the best revenge in life!
koj zaj dab neeg tu siab heev li o viv ncaus aw, koj niam tshiab siab Phem dhaus tsi txho Pu ib npi rau ntaws kiag nawb ,
I understand about your life. I imagine if I wear your shoes, I could have done the same sister. You did and are doing great.
tu me viv ncau. cas peb cov ntshai es ib leeg nim muaj ib txoj ke tu22 siab li os yom. 😭😭😭
Mi viv ncau kuv nrog koj tu tu siab kawg😂😂😂😂
Yog tsis yuav hmoob ces xum yuav tus dawb zoo tshaj, I support you. Wish you happiness.
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Txhob tag kev cia siab mog koj txiv lawv tseem npab nauj dhau lawm xwb uas tsis nkag siab txog txoj kev koj ua tsis muaj leej twg xav ua txoj kev koj taug ntawd zoo siab koj tau tus laus2 los hlub koj mog peb hmong meskas tsis khe txog cov ntxhaig yuav2 hom neeg twg los tsuav lawv sib hlub xwb os niam tshiab yeej limhiam os
Me niam hluas aw hmoob hais hmoob yus tsis muaj neej tsa lo tsis care kav tsij hlub koj tus txiv kom tsim nyog qhov nws cawm koj tuaj es dim plaws txoj kev txom nyem xwb os mog..hlub tus neeg cawm yus txoj sia es thiaj tsis muaj kev npam mog..
Sister nrog koj zoo siab ua koj tau lub neej kaj siab lawm nyob ntiaj teb no ces yus niam thiaj yog tus neeg uas hlub yus tshaj plaws
Zoo siab koj tuaj tau neej zoo lawm os tus vivcaus aw…
Thank for sharing your story. I'm so heart broken and what you have to go through. But am also happy you found happiness and love. Anyone who bashes you obviously have no brain. As for your younger sister because they have such a wonderful older sister who love and support her please advise her to study and work hard for herself. Not all old people are good. What's best is she becomes independent and doesn't rely on anyone. Become a necessity and not a want. Best of luck to you and your family ❤️
Whatever happened in the past is history. Let them be a lesson to learn and teach your daughters to be a better person. No matter what storm came through your way, you are strong enough to fight through it.
pab koj zoo siab kawg os
Koj hai yog tshaj plwg mi n
Txhob hlub leej twg lawm tsuas hlub koj tus nus thiab koj tus niam hluas nrog koj tus txiv nrog koj cov me nyuam xwb txhob tu siab os mog
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Ca peb hmoob es feem coob kv yeej pom cov coob es yog thaum twg yus muaj nyiaj cev rau luag thiab muab rau luag tas li xwb es yus thiaj li yog tu zoo xwb os...... Yog thaum yus tsis muaj nyiaj lo yog tsis muaj rau luag noj ces luag yeej tsis xam tia yus yog luag neeg li os tu siab tshaj li os peb hmoob tsis txawj sib hlub
Nrog koj zoo siab rau koj lub neej os. Peb tib neeg nyob ntiaj teb no muaj tus phem los yeej muaj tus zoo thiab. Txoj kev npam yog yus tsis muaj kev txhaum ces yeej tsis muaj kev npam. Happy for you
Lawm hnub kj txiv tuaj txhob pab nws tuaj txhob pab thiab cia ob tug txom nyem o
Hauv qab ntuj no ces cov menyuam ntsuag tsis muaj niam tsis muaj txiv es raug tej niam hlob txiv hlob, los yog niam ntxawm txiv ntxawm tsim, los tsis muaj tus niam es raug niam tshiab tsim, thiab tsis muaj txiv es raug txiv tshiab tsim mas thiaj mob ti txha nkaus li no tiag. Yuav luag txhua tus Hmoob yeej tsim menyuam ntsuag li no. So sad, but I’m glad you found a loving husband and having a good life! God bless you and your family!
Omg that's so sad, im so glad you are here in America for better life!
There is nothing to be ashamed of, you had to do what you needed to do to survive. You are kind and loving. And sacrificed a lot, for your brother to have a better life and future. You deserve, to be loved and treated well.
Parents like that don’t deserve your love. They only notice you bc you are better off now, and they can use you. You could be dead now and they would of never cared to call and follow up on you, if you had no money and life.
Tus mi ntxhais nrog koj zoo siab tias koj tuaj tau lub neej zoo lawm os. Yog kawg koj txiv thiab niag niam tshiab ntawd tsis tsimnyog tau koj txoj kev kiag li nawj txhob xa mus pab kiag li ntag
That was sad. I'm glad you have a better life now! You are a very strong person!!!
All the issues the evil step mom did was all your dad's fault for allowing her to do. A real loving dad will never allowed that. He would choose his children over her. Your dad is the heartless one. So sorry 😞
Tu me viv ncau kj lub neej tu siab heev kv mloog ma ib ke mloog ib ke quab vim kv lub neej tseem nyb rau txoj kev txom nyem ntawv khwv nyiaj txhawm rau tej yau ua hnub ua hmo xb os
Koj ua Yog kawg lawm os sister, tsis npam li os. Tug neeg ntxub yus Thaum me, niam no yus loj hlo tsheej neeg lawm. Lawv mam tig los hlub yus thiab kom yus pab ces lig lawm. What you do is right sister.
We both love your story. Thank you for sharing.
Kuv yog txiv neej tab sis kuv yuav tuaj tus muam no tog kuv ntxub cov txiv neej ua tsis taus txiv li no thiab kuv ntxub cov poj niam siab lim hiam li no tus muam koj tsis yeem xa nyiaj mus rau ob tus neeg tau tsim txom koj dhau los yeej tsis npam koj ib zaug li o nawb
Gurl...u have my 100% support... luv comes in different colors and races... I'm so happy for you in finding happiness
Tus neeg tsis tau taub thiaj thuam ib tug neeg txoj kev khwv noj khwv haus. Qhov tseeb tiag neeg tsis tau taub. Thov qhuav koj lub peev xwm hlub koj tus kheej thiab koj ob tug yau. Sij neej no kuv hnov cov neej neeg niam tshiab lub siab lim hiam ma kuv xav tsis txog tias peb cov poj niam muaj lub siab phem paum li no. Koj txiv ua tsis tau txiv cia niam tshiab tsim nej. Koj hlub tsis tau koj txiv los tsis ua cas vim ib leej txiv zoo li ntawv tsis tsom nyog txais nej 3 nus muag txoj kev hlub. Thov foom koob hmoov rau nej 3nus muag kom nej tsis txhob poob kua muag ntxiv lawm tsuas tau kev kaj siab lawm yav tom ntej. Thov hlub koj tus kheej thiab saib xyuas koj tus kheej. Tseem muaj coob leeg Hmoob muaj siab zoo tsis zoo li koj txiv thiab niam tshiab. Qhov kawg no thov zam txim rau koj tus kheej txog koj lub neej yav tas tsis yog koj xa2 taug txoj kev ntawv ❤️😘. Hugs and kisses to tus niam hluas no.
Thank you for sharing, yus txoj hmoo yeej coj yus mog txhob Tus siab ov
Ca koj zaj neej neeg no yuav tu siab ua luaj li o viv ncau aw hai txog txoj niag kev ntsuag ce tsi quaj lo kua muag poob li o
just be happy with what you have now and appreciate those who pulled you out from the pit of sufferings. love those who loved you and move on away from those who hates you.
Nrog koj zoo siab os koj los tau lub neeg zoo thiab zoo qhov koj niam tshiab tsim koj los nws twb tau npam lawm es nws txhiaj mob npam..
Tus me niam aw niam tshiab ces yeej zoo yam txhua 2 tus li os peb cov niam tuag lawm ces yeej ntsib txhua yam koj tshib los ma yus tus txiv ces yog tus hlub tshaj xwb os
Tus niam laus aw kj muaj peev xwm heev li os
Hle ris tsho rau thaum laus yuav hmoob meskas nyiaj, tuaj mus muag cev…….nej cov poj hmoob nplog yeej ua yam num no….thiab npaj rhuav luag lub neej
Good for you tus me vi ncaus ntsuag! Nrog koj zoo siab koj tawm tau ntawm txoj kev txom nyem lawm. Education is everything to me, but I will never understand the Hmong people in Laos and their educational goals when the return is practically ZERO to NOTHING. If you know how to read and write, then STOP wasting your very hard-earned money to continue or go any higher. Your Laos country has no jobs - no companies that will hire anyone to make a decent living. No place cares if you have a degree or not because your degree(s) absolutely cannot and will not get you anywhere in that country unless you are a Superior Laotian Government Official’s daughter or son who will someday run Laos. My father-in-law has his younger brother in Laos, and he has sons that went over sea to Japan, the Philippines, and China for Higher Education. These sons returned with Ph.D. yet ended up with a Teacher position that pays $100 to $150 per month. Health care Dr. with higher levels get $150 to $200 per month. And if the Laos government hires them, they have a municipal city job that pays $45 to $75 per month. Their earning wages got them nowhere. The many $$$$ that my father-in-law and his six other brothers in the USA helped these nephews was wasted. My husband, his brothers, and his Hmong USA cousins were pissed and told their one and only uncle and auntie that were left behind after the Vietnam/CIA war, plus these Hmong Laos cousins, to farm, raise livestock and sell their crops and meats to Chinese and Vietnamese Exporters. They made much more money for their living expenses and needs. They have STOPPED asking us families here in the USA for support for more than 12-15 years. Also, these Laos cousins no longer care if the kids in their generation have higher education or not, as it is not helping anyone in the line of making a living.
Your past, the good, and the bad makes you who you are today, sister. I'm sorry for your struggles and hardship you have been through when you were younger. I hope now you're doing great and doing well. I hope only good comes to you and your siblings. Keep your head up ❤️
Damn.... NAS FORREAL.
No matter what the situation is then I hope you are doing well today and living the dream. I hope you do yourself proud, if not for anybody. If you have fulfilled your dream that's all that matters. Live it up, life is short, and enjoy life while you can.
Tus me niam hluas kj yog 1 tug ntxhais ua muaj peev xwm tshaj plaws li os thov qhuas kj os g muaj neeg tsa los txhob ntshaw os tsuav kj muaj lub chaw nyob ces yog qhov zoo lawm os mog
Yus yeej los ua Niam ntsiab tabsi cas tsis muaj lub siab phem npaum li cov Niam tshiab nyob tim nplog thiab. Pom lawv cov me nyuam ntsuag2 nos es yus twb pab2 hlub tsis ntxawj tas li. Rau tus Niam tsev nov, koj yeej ua Yog kawg lawm…tseem ua Niam ntiav tseem zoo dua muaj tus txiv Hmoob es tus txiv Saib tsis taus yus. . Ua Niam ntiav yeej yog muaj pheej xwm, yog ib txog haum lub xwb thiab tau nyiaj los Pab yus cov nug muag, Yog muaj hniav txiv es yus hmag deev tsuas2 hmo los twb tsis tau nyiaj tseem tau ua nws qhev ua rau nws noj thiab. Zoo siab ua kj tau ib tug txiv hlub2 kj lawm, thiab cawm tau kj tuaj nyob Mekas theb no lawm. Yog kawg tsis hlub kj txiv thiab Niam ntshiab los yeej tsis npam vim lawv ua rau yus ntxom nyem txaus2 lawm. Ua li koj ua mAs yog kawg li lawm os. Tseem yog kuv los ntshe kv yeej yuav ua li thiab mog.
Very good story. Hais tau thiab ua tau yog kawg. Peb hmoob cov niam tshiab thiab txiv tshiab mas yeej siab me. Thiab feem ntau yeej tsis kam hlub cov menyuam ntsuag. Thank you for sharing.
Hmoob hais tias tus nab Ntsuab tuag los yeej muaj tus dav tus Iab los nqa
Txhb tu siab o peb ua neeg nyb peb yeej muaj qhov ua yuam kev o txhb xav txog lawm o qhov tag ces cia tag mu o ສູ້ໆເດີ💜
Nrog koj zoo siab nb me sister
Txhob tu siab os mog, txoj kev txom nyem koj raug ko Los Twb yog Tim koj txiv es qhov phem los koj Twb ntxeem dhau qhov zoo CES koj Twb ntxeem mus txog lawm os mog, nrog koj zoo Siab tshaj li nawb mog, kev hlub ces yog los ntawm yus Niam yus txiv yus Viv ncaus thiab yus tej nus yog ib Co roj ntsha xwb cov sab nraud CES txhob TOS lawm mog😭😭
I am so sorry to hear what you have been through. We known the old use to tread orphans like that. But do not feel broken heart too much to you dad. At least he is your dad who gave you life. Please forgive him and God will bless you more. By the way one day you don't regrate. Do not let it be that way until one day it is too late.
Forgiving is a very beautiful thing a human can do.
Koj ma ua yog tsaj li lawm os koj xaiv tau txoj ke yog taug lawm peb nyob mecas no los peb yeej yuav mecas ib yam! Me ntxhais xaiv txoj ke kaj siab xwb mog
Viv ncaus aw...tsis hais leej twg li yog u ntsib txoj Kev txom nyem ces yeej ua 1 yam li os mog peb hmoob ces yeej 1 txwj tsis txaej xav ua dab tsi Los lawv tias u rhuav lawv ua rau lawv txaj muag no xwb tab sis xab maim no leej two ua yam two Los tshuav u muaj peev xwm os mog txhob tu siab os zoo siab rau koj lub neej niaj hnub no xwb txhua yam phem tso pob tseg os mog .
May God bless you.
Koj txiv ces tsua muaj rab qau yug tau nej xwb o yeej hlub g tau nej
Real life experience of Kaj Siab Xyooj - Niam Ntiav (Official MV). Wishing you the best sister.
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Listening to your story makes me cry. I'm also an orphan too. I'm glad you find someone who truly loves you.
Pab hlub koj thiab koj cov siblings dhau lawm os. Yus tej neej tej tsa tsis hlub yus. Tus yuav hlub yus ces yog yus tus kheej xwb thiab yus tus txiv xwb. I’m happy you found happiness and love. What everyone seek is love. Some that seek money is never really happy. Nej yeej tsis npam ib zaug li os sister aw. Nws lub siab tseem lim hiam tshaj qhov lim hiam lawm thiab os.
Koj xaiv yog lawm os mi niam hluas aws tus mi kas laus lawv hlub yus dua hmoob laus os mog
Kuv xav ma koj yeej ua yog lawm os mog