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  • Опубликовано: 11 окт 2024
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    I have been feeling a lot of resistance lately. I don't want to do this or that. I don't want to commit to the gym or eating better. I don't want to do laundry or dishes because I want to watch tv and rest. I don't want to take the extra 15 minutes of private time with God because I'm emotionally drained... I don't want, I don't want. I DON'T WANT... well wait a sec... I need to ask myself two questions here... 1. Do I not want to do these things because I'm not being led by the Holy Spirit to do them? Or 2. Am I not wanting to do these things because I am pursuing a life of selfish comfort where my happiness is the top priority? Both of those are good questions... in my specific season of life it's because I am wanting to be lazy, comfortable and "appeased". I am not wanting to do the dirty work. I do not want to stay disciplined and that is alarming! it helps that I am so competitive because I can legitimately feel the "ugly" part of me, or the enemy getting its way and I don't like that. My desire to keep the enemy unhappy and to fight my sinful nature is greater than my desire to be comfortable and selfish. So if you are struggling like me, maybe ask yourself those questions and sort out if you need to reprioritize things in your life or if you need to get competitive and do the hard things.
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  • @ToriAndChad
    @ToriAndChad  Год назад +82

    loved making this sweet vlog for yall! Sorry we haven't been active in the comment section as much.. we will get back! Just doing our best right now!

    • @SamuelJayakumar
      @SamuelJayakumar Год назад

      No problem!!!

    • @jessmin6288
      @jessmin6288 Год назад +1

      No worries yalls!! Just take your time! We appreciate yalls' effort and dedication! :)

    • @mariamangion21
      @mariamangion21 Год назад +1

      That’s okay! Most important thing is that baby Micah and YOU are okay!!

    • @natashapinerostachita9755
      @natashapinerostachita9755 Год назад +1

      NOT A PROBLEM WE LOVE YOU

    • @vandaaltje
      @vandaaltje Год назад

      All that's been said!!!

  • @joanninsiima2529
    @joanninsiima2529 Год назад +25

    Anyone else wanting to cry seeing how happy Chad and Tori are with baby Micah? 🥹🥹🥹🥹🥹🥹🥹🥹

  • @jess1ic5a
    @jess1ic5a Год назад +56

    Seeing Chad interact with Micah... MY HEARTTT

  • @BethSchaeffer17
    @BethSchaeffer17 Год назад +6

    You guys are doing AWESOME! God bless you during this time and thank you for this encouragement! I have a 3 year old and a 9 month old, work full time, active in church, and pursuing a doctorate degree. And I feel that I still struggle with letting go of the freedom I had before. Though I adorreee my children, I also love my alone time. But thank God for the life he has giving me, and may I submit to Him His current Will for my life and may I find freedom in it in Jesus Name!

  • @racheloshaksmusic
    @racheloshaksmusic Год назад +12

    This was a lovely cosy video. It was kinda soothing😅. I love how Tori is talking so quietly 😂❤️ you guys are doing great! I can tell that having a newborn has really changed and surprised you both but you are both doing it with grace. Chad’s message about change was really encouraging. And Tori while you were talking in the beginning it about learning about God, it made me realise that the bible says God neither sleeps nor slumber over us. He’s always watching over us to help and protect us. If our marriage represents our relationship with God, and our parenting representing God being our parent, then how you love, care/provide and protect your children will be like God. Meaning sleepless nights ! God really wants us to be like Him. God knows we need sleep, but when you have a child there will be times you sacrifice sleep to help your child, you get this strength from God because He does it for you. ❤️🙏🏾 This is a temporary change because he won’t always be a baby, but it will forever transform you both to this new stretched, god-like people. Created in His image. Hope this blessed y’all! ❤️

  • @anastasiakholod2222
    @anastasiakholod2222 Год назад +2

    What I did when babies were little I did not change diapers at night if they did not poop. I bought overnight diapers for this cases. Purpose of it is not to disturb their sleep. First diaper change was around 4 am when they were awake for feed. And then we had another couple to three hours to sleep before we start a day. It helped to regulate their sleep by 4 months. After it they were sleeping through the night, both my girl and boy. Also do not forget to give Micah baby’s vitamin D. I noticed that not every pediatrician will recommend it. It is a must. Telling it to you just in case.
    Do not stress about schedule right now. By 2 months your baby will adapt to it. You just following his cues.
    Do not be scared about 4 months sleep regression. Usually If you following baby’s cues everything transitions easy. Unless you decide to travel, that can switch to nightmare. When I had only my baby girl we went for walk for 2-3 hours every day, no matter what weather was like. Of course not under the heavy rain😊. I live in Illinois, so when fall came and it became cooler, she started to sleep during the walks. And I stayed outside until she woke up. So keep temperature low in a bedroom where he is sleeping. Use humidifier if your air is dry. It will help with sleep tremendously.
    And start some kind of routine before bedtime for a night. Every day it should be the same that is how you will teach him to be ready for the night. For example ( what I did): we started with some tummy time and exercises (similar to what Chad did with Micah) , then we did a bath. Plain water, no soap, just to relax, or sometimes I brew some herbs soothing for the baby skin, and add it to bath. Aroma helped them to relax as well. Then after putting clothes on, I fed them fully and then sang some lullabies. They were fast asleep. The best time to put baby at night is around 7pm. Not later then 8:30pm. The next feed was around 12 pm, and then they slept till 4, 4:30 am. If you do your routine daily almost minute by minute, you will be thankful with sleep regression cause you may not notice it all.
    I am no expert by any means. But I listened lots of them and the techniques I described worked like a charm. I did not have luxury of any help, my husband was at work almost whole time, long distance. And all relatives are abroad. So I learned as much as possible to teach my babies for independent sleep as fast as possible.

  • @Greg_Orr
    @Greg_Orr Год назад +33

    Feeling so blessed with the double upload! I’m honestly in awe of your commitment to filming and uploading these recent videos for us! As well as the podcasts! All while being absolutely incredible parents to Micah! I have so much appreciation for you guys! Sending so much love to you three and praying for you all!

  • @lilbitomajjiktm
    @lilbitomajjiktm Год назад

    I'm a 58 yr old Momma Grandma and Great Grandma run the vaccum make noise have guests etc allow those babies to get use to noise So they'll sleep virtually anytime anywhere and not be bothered by noises or conversation 🙂 Blessings to all of You! You'll catch your groove 🥰

  • @AaronShu
    @AaronShu Год назад +2

    Blissful! The pure joy on your faces is priceless!

  • @Oneblessedhome
    @Oneblessedhome Год назад +4

    Yes! Rely on the Holy Spirit through parenthood!!! It's not what the world tells us it's what God tells us , show us the way Lord 🙏

  • @danirenosidda
    @danirenosidda Год назад +13

    Tori - you two are doing such a good job. Watching you become a mama has been so beautiful. Truly happy for you and Chad!

  • @moniqueaglibut4840
    @moniqueaglibut4840 Год назад +14

    Ahhh I just love how baby Micah is in the video. Your new normal is so much full of happiness. Like literally you both are doing a great job being parents now. Baby Micah is really loved 😍

  • @Vessel4MyFather
    @Vessel4MyFather Год назад +2

    once upon a time as a brand new mommy and daddy, we lived in our very first little apt with our newborn baby boy. my grandma had come over to check in on us and see how we were doing. down the street was a fire station. well while grandma was there lol the sirens started sounding off and i suddenly jumped up and ran to the baby's bassinet (as my grandma watched me in amazement) i quickly picked up the bassinet as hubby grabbed the opposite end and in a hurry we rushed the baby off towards the kitchen area so that the firetruck sirens would not wake him up. my grandma laaughing and said WHAT ON EARTH ARE YOU TWO DOING WITH THAT BABY????! ... (Remember Grandmas almost Always know best!) ... Well i told grandma that we didn't want little mikey to wake up from these sirens that keep going off here and there throughout the day and night. She looked at me and simply said go put that baby right back where he is used to sleeping. i said BUT GRANDMA THE TRUCKS WILL WAKE HIM UP. She said put him back .... and do not do that no more. Grandma said YOU ALLOW HIM TO GET USED TO NOISE AND THEN HE WILL BE USED TO IT AND NOW BE ABLE TO LEARN TO SLEEP RIGHT TO IT ... i knew my grandma knew what She was talking about. So, from that point on i listened to grandma and mikey stayed right in his bassinette and NO more rushing him out of the room. He indeed DID get quite used to it and he slept right through it. NORMAL noise ... Let baby get used to it. don't tip toe around him don't whisper around him ... do not SCREAM lol but just let him literally get used to normal regular noises and he truly WILL get very used to it. by the way, my "mikey" is now "43" year old Mike and what a Fine man and Dad He has turned out to be. Mike is the oldest of 5 Son's. This Momma Knows well how to take care of Boys 😉❤

  • @MKh-kv8hl
    @MKh-kv8hl Год назад

    i myself am in a very chaotic phase of life, was feeling overwhelmed today but tori's voice has calmed me down so much!

  • @eafoley2766
    @eafoley2766 Год назад +7

    Thank you for sharing this! This is the exact chapter we are in right now. The wonder weeks book and app is so helpful during this time!

  • @nataliejaemartin
    @nataliejaemartin Год назад +2

    Thank you for filming this more raw point of view! I’m a new momma to my second baby and it feels nice to not be alone in this. :)

  • @TheOtherJennyLee
    @TheOtherJennyLee Год назад

    this is so sweet and so very realistic. THANK YOU for showing the laundry and the kitchen. We are 3.5 months in with our baby girl and finally coming up for air :) 2-3 months will be another new season. God bless!

  • @kateroberts000
    @kateroberts000 Год назад +1

    If only I had learned to lean into the grace of God with babies 20 years ago...you are so wise to already know the opinions and ideas will fly everywhere and all you need to know is you, your hubby and baby. Period. 4 kids later I never figured out sleep or alot of other things! Resting in Jesus is the only place to lay your mama and papa minds in this changing time! Each one so unique. No such thing as a system that works for everyone. And how grateful I am that we are all so different!! God is so good and using you both to further His kingdom and be an encouragement every step of the way. Precious Lord thankyou for Tori and Chad-cover their tender hearts with the new mercies you bring each morning. What a gift they are as a Son and Daughter of our perfect King. Amen

  • @michaelaalison1900
    @michaelaalison1900 Год назад +3

    Yall are doing so good! You're almost out of the hard first month of fog and second guessing! We just had our second child and she is completely different from our son haha our son woke up every 2 hours and was such a mad baby, our daughter sleeps 4-5 hour stretches and is a totally happy giggly baby! Stick to your instincts! They are always right ♡ praying sleep finds you both soon. Dishes and laundry will always be there but babies dont keep ♡

  • @rebekahmalcom2500
    @rebekahmalcom2500 Год назад +2

    You’re both doing a great job with baby Micah, who, by the way, is completely precious!! I totally agree that the more you grow in parenthood the more you realize you don’t know! But just soak up this time; I know the days seem long with little sleep, but the months and years are short and they grow so fast!

  • @MummaBauer
    @MummaBauer Год назад

    So gorgeous guys ❤ don’t put pressure on yourselves, don’t worry about the mess, and take each day as it comes. Just treasure all these moments with Micah as he will grow up before your eyes. Much love xx

  • @katiemcgrath959
    @katiemcgrath959 Год назад +1

    the level these two go to to support their community with content is outstanding and honestly shows how much strength they have from God. absolutely loving every minute as we get to see their promise grow.
    p.s. can't tell you how much i loved the realness of this video, its a first for me here on youtube. no cleaning up before the camera goes on, merely showing the messiness of life that every one of us lives in, even if we don't want others to always see it. thank you so much for taking the time to show us your intentionality amidst the chaos, it means the world to us.

  • @alysky4481
    @alysky4481 Год назад +1

    You guys are so committed, two uploads back to back 👏🏼 don't forget to rest tho ofc, praying for you guys 💕

  • @jazpatuzzo4721
    @jazpatuzzo4721 Год назад

    Same I can relate 100%, you’re doing amazing! Trust your gut❤

  • @meliadianne953
    @meliadianne953 Год назад +1

    I love how honest and sweet you both are! Thank you for allowing us a glimpse into your life :)

  • @splarsh2145
    @splarsh2145 Год назад +2

    Aww thanks for that little snippet about the bible verse and not idolising our freedom when God is calling us to a season of serving. We just had our 4th baby 8 weeks ago and it is even more chaotic than it’s ever been, I’m talking giving up alllll my freedoms (showering 😂) it’s been hard not to feel totally overwhelmed but just hearing that helps me find even more purpose in going through these motions raising our 4 babies. Thanks guys ❤ your killin it btw.

  • @gabriellejablonski3294
    @gabriellejablonski3294 Год назад +3

    I know people have varying opinions on this- but if Micah is sleeping, I always suggest letting him sleep!! I’m a new mama myself to a two month old sweet boy and we let him sleep as much as he wanted and by five weeks he was sleeping through the night. The more you wake him up the more you’re teaching him to wake up on his own and that’s it’s not “good or okay” for him to sleep. As much as good is important for his growing body, so is sleep!! 💙💙💙

    • @lekasa1508
      @lekasa1508 Год назад

      I have a one month old and let him sleep and feed on demand. I find that during the day he falls asleep while nursing a lot and when I try to put him down he will wake up again and keep eating. This is how he keeps cluster feeding and I don’t feel like he gets a good stretch of sleep for a longer period of time. Do you have any advice on this? During the night I nurse him while lying down that way when he falls asleep he’s already lying down too. But can’t really do that during the day.

  • @mamaat5682
    @mamaat5682 Год назад +1

    I recommend a daily schedule, I would go to a daycare or call a daycare to see how there routine work. They have quite a bit of babies and 1 adult for more then one infant. You would be surprise how infants catch on routines quickly and try to test what they can get away with. As a mother of 5 and having a sister who worked a daycare I learned so much. Thanks for sharing your experience with us. Hope my advice helps a little. I did symphony music instead of white noise because I heard that it stimulates babies brain.

    • @vitaliaschultz138
      @vitaliaschultz138 Год назад

      Adding to that look into wake windows as well. Overtired baby is the hardest. You guys are amazing parents. Don't worry about clean house. You guys got this. Routines are the best. Feeding wake times at the same time every time that's what worked for us. Every child is different. Mamma/ daddy you got this.

  • @jenniferbeaman6620
    @jenniferbeaman6620 Год назад

    I remember those late night car rides!! Another game changer is a relaxing warm bath. Used to tucker them out and help them relax into a full sleep. Great for before the last feed of the evening before bed ❤️

  • @ashjeansmi
    @ashjeansmi Год назад +7

    Y’all are doing great! Jesus always sees us through. What awesome parents baby Micah has! Your little family is such a gift! ❤

  • @alisonrittener5606
    @alisonrittener5606 Год назад

    Praying for your transition!
    Depending on the Holy Spirit guiding you and making the most of the community God has given you sounds so wise. So encouraging to see you guys depending on the Lord! What a great example😊🙏

  • @deborahswett3508
    @deborahswett3508 Год назад

    Of course it turns your world upside down. You have a brand new person in your house!!! Just love the parts you can and ignore the rest. Try to enjoy your beautiful new baby and be easy on yourself. It will all change as you get more familiar with his ever changing ways!!!!

  • @unaproblemalikemaria
    @unaproblemalikemaria Год назад +2

    Woah! Idolizing my free time just slapped me, thanks Chad!! Love you guys ♥️

  • @eden-caledoniajohn3168
    @eden-caledoniajohn3168 Год назад

    Also a huge thank you for sharing Summit ministries, I’m about to watch the 3rd video and the attached devotional! I love their content - it’s so uplifting and informative!

  • @angelarust6243
    @angelarust6243 Год назад

    I use the huckleberry app to track when I do stuff so then it’s less confusing for the sleep and stuff bc you can see how long they’ve been awake or when they were last changed so it helps in the guessing game of why your baby is crying 😊

  • @sophiegoodwin264
    @sophiegoodwin264 Год назад +1

    Awww Micah is so cute. You are both doing an amazing job as parents. ❤

  • @kaydeebeedy1582
    @kaydeebeedy1582 Год назад +1

    Baby sleep is so hard! When it finally gets better (different for everyone!), you will be like, whoa, thank you Lord!

  • @Anna7Collins
    @Anna7Collins Год назад +11

    I remember asking myself that question in the newborn stage “is this my new normal??” The constant crying or sleep deprivation came and I was so scared to ask if It really was my new normal but then I found the answer is nope! It’s really not your new normal. Just a season :) it’ll pass and then a new season starts! Lol but it can feel overwhelming in the thick of it. You guys are doing such a great job! And the messy, crazy, hard seasons will pass… I tell myself all the time now; it’s all just a season, the hard AND the good 🫶🏻

    • @heybristevens
      @heybristevens Год назад +3

      As a new mom I’m in this season and super struggling 😅 when did it get better for you?

    • @Anna7Collins
      @Anna7Collins Год назад +2

      @@heybristevens Awww sending you lots of love! To be honest I hear a lot of people start to feel it getting easier earlier on but I had PPD so it took a bit longer and me finally getting the help I needed! Therapy was huge even if you don’t have PPD I highly recommend! It mind sound cliche but taking time out of your day to get your mind right even a quick Bible study before hopping in the shower.
      But also in the thick of it I decided to think about the things I was most anxious about and write out possible solutions-she wasn’t latching EVER I ended up supplementing and telling myself “she is fed, she is healthy, it’s OKAY!” , I had insomnia and was up for 5 days straight I needed to know that she was sleeping ok so I ended up doing a gentle sleep training and had to tell myself that was OK! Figuring out where you need help, writing out possible solutions and reminding yourself of those solutions look different to the norm, it’s okay 🤍 during those hard times or the times where they cry for hours just remind yourself “this is a season, it is not forever” because it is truly not forever. 🤍those little things were when I started to feel better.
      Not sure if that helped but just know it DOES get better and that you are doing an amazing job! There’s no better mama for your baby than YOU! You got this :)

    • @Anna7Collins
      @Anna7Collins Год назад

      @@heybristevens ​ Awww sending you lots of love! To be honest I hear a lot of people start to feel it getting easier earlier on but I had PPD so it took a bit longer and me finally getting the help I needed! Therapy was huge even if you don’t have PPD I highly recommend! It mind sound cliche but taking time out of your day to get your mind right even a quick Bible study before hopping in the shower.
      But also in the thick of it I decided to think about the things I was most anxious about and write out possible solutions-she wasn’t latching EVER I ended up supplementing and telling myself “she is fed, she is healthy, it’s OKAY!” , I had insomnia and was up for 5 days straight I needed to know that she was sleeping ok so I ended up doing a gentle sleep training and had to tell myself that was OK! Figuring out where you need help, writing out possible solutions and reminding yourself of those solutions look different to the norm, it’s okay 🤍 during those hard times or the times where they cry for hours just remind yourself “this is a season, it is not forever” because it is truly not forever. 🤍those little things were when I started to feel better.
      Not sure if that helped but just know it DOES get better and that you are doing an amazing job! There’s no better mama for your baby than YOU! You got this :)

    • @juanam.3024
      @juanam.3024 Год назад

      @@Anna7Collins I read your comment and then this one (copied) and I think that was maybe the reason of your anxiety, cz it´s not natural to have the baby sleeping appart (let´s think of the ancient times, where there were no rooms): "Definitely recommend "gentle sleep " by Sarah Ockwell-Smith. It totally changed my point of view on sleep. She is basically saying that babys are not created to sleep alone but sleep so much better next to their mom as they are used to it from the womb :)

    • @Anna7Collins
      @Anna7Collins Год назад +1

      @@juanam.3024 yeah that could totally work for some people! I had insomnia when she was in my room though! Even if she was asleep, I would lay awake. But when we did the gentle sleep training and she slept in her nursery, (when she was of able age of course) then my insomnia got so much better! She slept a lot better too! She must be like her mama lol. When she was in our room I moved her to my husbands side and that helped too! Totally different for everyone, some may do the complete opposite and that could work for them, just depends on what works best for you and your fam 🤍🫶🏻

  • @heidiv9516
    @heidiv9516 Год назад

    Love this real raw video so much! Became a mom in August and it's so recognizable! God bless you and things get better soon ❤️

  • @viktorija400
    @viktorija400 Год назад

    I loved this video, it was sooo sweet and real, and I felt like I was there. Good job guys, you're doing great !

  • @majomoranh
    @majomoranh Год назад

    wow. this really made me realize that i'm idolizing my freedom and being a slave to my schedule. wow. thank you, chad, for the reflection.

  • @mochalatte7163
    @mochalatte7163 Год назад

    Not that you guys are lacking in advice and resources from other people, but something you might want to look into as you think about trying to help Micah find more of a routine is a method called Babywise. My mom used this sleep/feed/play routine with me and all seven of my siblings and it helped all of us sleep through the night (8hrs straight) consistently at 8-9 weeks. A couple of my siblings and many of my friends have also used it with their babies and have all seen so much success, and my husband and I are excited to try it with our first (due Feb 2023)! It's originally a book (On Becoming Babywise), but there's also lots of RUclips summaries, explanations, and tips available by different people (my favorite is Infinite Mamabilities).
    Anyways, feel free to take it or leave it, but it's at least worth looking into 😊 especially while Micah is still so little 😊

  • @untameyourflame
    @untameyourflame Год назад

    Sarah Beeston and Derik made/bought a black sorta tent thing for Jack to go over his cot…maybe not yet but might be an idea later down the track for the darkness during the day

  • @eden-caledoniajohn3168
    @eden-caledoniajohn3168 Год назад

    Mama of two teens here, my babies slept in their pram (stroller with a bassinet)/ bouncer when we were up and we never were quiet - they are comforted by noise as they heard you speaking in the womb, so silence might make him unsettled. My daughter slept through our dog barking, her toddler big brother making all his toddler noise and she would wake if there was silence! That’s why babies like white noise, as they are used to it.
    You guys are amazing parents, don’t be hard on yourselves. This is your job, take a little maternity/ paternity leave and we will all be here when you are ready to come back! You would get leave if you were employed elsewhere.

  • @cindyrigsby5746
    @cindyrigsby5746 Год назад

    It is hard, but it’s worth it,as you know. He is adorable. So happy for you. I hope your feeling better. God bless you and your family. My oldest baby only slept for no more than 5 hours in a 24 hour span. I was so tiered. We tried to be so but I actually realized that he would do better if I wasn’t so quiet. I’m not talking about vacuuming, but you do what you feel is best. Oh my goodness, my second there’s know way we could be quiet. We had a toddler,plus he slept all the time. I was so nice but I thought is he supposed to be sleeping this long. Lol. Daylight Ana dark,that’s what babies are like. Lol chads so funny with the workout. ❤

  • @purplecowmovement7677
    @purplecowmovement7677 Год назад

    So nice to see a husband help out his wife! We're not all that lucky 😞 Im happy for you guys ❤🙏

  • @nataliebrown6530
    @nataliebrown6530 Год назад

    You guys are doing a fantastic job! Absolutely love the realness in this video! ❤️

  • @emily-sharingChrist
    @emily-sharingChrist Год назад

    Loved seeing this video!! 😍 Y'all are the cutest parents to sweet baby boy!! God bless!!

  • @angelasantiago7797
    @angelasantiago7797 Год назад

    LOVE YALL! & appreciate your transparency and your effort so much ! You all are amazing! 🎉

  • @helenemai1000
    @helenemai1000 Год назад +1

    Definitely recommend "gentle sleep " by Sarah Ockwell-Smith. It totally changed my point of view on sleep. She is basically saying that babys are not created to sleep alone but sleep so much better next to their mom as they are used to it from the womb :)

    • @ToriAndChad
      @ToriAndChad  Год назад

      Awe I love that bc that’s the only place he wants to sleep at night

  • @lizzysmith4627
    @lizzysmith4627 Год назад +2

    I love seeing ya'll be parents 😭❤

  • @missyl3576
    @missyl3576 Год назад

    Swaddle! Works like a charm for mist babies.❤❤

  • @jazzye_92
    @jazzye_92 Год назад +1

    Love the video and seeing y'all navigate parenthood and how happy a baby Micah is😊 also this totally random, I thought it was cool watching Chad fold those towels. I think cuz we fold the same way lol 😂

  • @jadagarza
    @jadagarza Год назад +1

    this video made me so excited to watch after school 🫶🏼

  • @isabelamaria7184
    @isabelamaria7184 Год назад

    i’m so happy to see this promise coming true ❤

  • @alittlecupofmotherhood
    @alittlecupofmotherhood Год назад

    Aw mama there is absolutely nothing wrong with the "when in doubt, whip it out method". I hope society isn't putting that pressure on you. Nursing is not only for nutrition but also so much for comfort. Congratulations to you both. 💗💗💗

  • @stephanieeckman5786
    @stephanieeckman5786 Год назад

    I guess I’m gonna be one of those people offering parental advice. All of my children are now adults. So I guess you could say I’m a survivor. I had twin babies and husband was military and gone a lot. So I do understand being afraid my noise would wake them up. Of course you can take it or leave it.
    But when it comes to being afraid to make noise or be quiet- I found that always having “ life noise” ( tv on, kitchen noise etc) helps so that noise won’t wake him up.
    Hope this helps

  • @carolynkowalewski6547
    @carolynkowalewski6547 Год назад

    You guys are doing amazing! I love all the whispering lol we do the exact same thing!

  • @Kiayamarieee
    @Kiayamarieee Год назад +2

    Two videos in one week! What a treat❤️

  • @jessaduck
    @jessaduck Год назад

    Lol figuring out the new normal is a struggle 😂 I have a little one year old and every time you find a “normal” they switch it up on ya 😂 you guys are doing great though! 🤎🤎

  • @AmishaChhabraMusic
    @AmishaChhabraMusic Год назад

    This video just made me so grateful to the Lord for blessing you guys so much!!!!!! Love you guys❤

  • @Songwritersbehindthecurtain
    @Songwritersbehindthecurtain Год назад

    Congratulations 🎊🎈🎉🍾 on your new baby boy now The Maayers Fam RUclips channel has officially begun.

  • @Miracleshappentv
    @Miracleshappentv Год назад +2

    Love you guys. Pray you are having a blessed week

  • @jessmin6288
    @jessmin6288 Год назад +2

    FIRST AGAIN!!! Loving the 2 days i a row uploads!! ❤ hope yalls are doing well despite the sleepless nights!! :)

  • @SamuelJayakumar
    @SamuelJayakumar Год назад +3

    Haha the workout with Micah was cute 😂😂❤

  • @rowanjackson9104
    @rowanjackson9104 Год назад

    I love y’all so much!!!!❤️❤️❤️❤️

  • @jlv61560
    @jlv61560 Год назад +4

    Just want to note (since you didn't mention it Tori), that you need to start doing power napping during his down times during the day too. This part of raising a baby is really hard on you (even more so than on Chad, who is also losing sleep -- you are breast feeding, which takes a huge amount of energy from you that Chad doesn't lose). You have to let Micah work out a schedule of his own for a while, and then slowly migrate him to a more "normal" daily schedule. Being gentle with baby is absolutely necessary, but being gentle with yourself is vital as you have a huge amount of adjustment to work through. God bless and good luck! Praying for you.

    • @meganwalker5013
      @meganwalker5013 Год назад

      Couldn’t agree with you more, especially if they’re doing the Cara baby program. She states in the program that little man doesn’t need to be on a schedule until four months! In my opinion infant stage is the best stage to be in when you’re tired. Some people disagree it’s where you sleep when they sleep especially if it’s your first you don’t have to worry about anybody but you and the baby and that MILK!

    • @jlv61560
      @jlv61560 Год назад +1

      @@meganwalker5013 Yep. Trying to "do it all" is the most common mistake among new parents (because they simply can't imagine the degree to which their lives will change when the new addition arrives -- people can TELL you about it, but you just don't get it until about ten days after the first one arrives...), and I was guilty of the same thing with my first too. So you have to do a bit of prioritizing to get to something more or less productive that isn't absolutely killing you as a parent! And CONGRATULATIONS on your own new addition! 🥳🎂

  • @maryrain2162
    @maryrain2162 Год назад

    GOD BLESS YOU ALL!!! Get some rest❤❤❤

  • @lynnetnjokiwainaina4492
    @lynnetnjokiwainaina4492 Год назад +1

    Maybe i would have became a better person if i had loving parents like you .

  • @ToriAndChad
    @ToriAndChad  Год назад

    Hi MastersFam! Please do not fall for these spam/scam comments. We will NEVER ask you to send money or for your banking information etc… The only messages from us are the ones with a checkmark by our name… Report any spam comments you see! Sorry this is a reality but YT does not do a lot to stop these spam/scam accounts…

  • @katiewilson9983
    @katiewilson9983 Год назад

    We call those “Nap Laps”
    Specifically “Luke’s Nap Lap” lol

  • @mpat100
    @mpat100 Год назад

    Blessings to the three of you

  • @MegaTelenovela
    @MegaTelenovela Год назад +1

    Pinach! Sleep deprived fam! Hang in there guys 💞 my Bebes is almost 9 months..

  • @gabrielapaz299
    @gabrielapaz299 Год назад

    I love you guys so much🫶 Congrats

  • @carlienhuiting62
    @carlienhuiting62 Год назад

    Felt like I was with you in the room and we just had a fun time together, it was really sweet :)

  • @untameyourflame
    @untameyourflame Год назад

    Is it weird I really enjoyed Chad’s time lapse towel folding?! Lol maybe it was the background message too but yea was peaceful to watch or something…I realise that seems a bit weird lol

  • @yaninabotejue
    @yaninabotejue Год назад

    Surprise video defs making my week over here 🥲❤️

  • @jordynferrari4161
    @jordynferrari4161 Год назад

    Mom on call book has saved my sleep and my life😅😅

  • @autumnbradfish4106
    @autumnbradfish4106 Год назад +1

    Oprah has an interview where the different sounds babies make are explained. It is a LIFESAVER when trying to understand those newborn queues! Here is the link: ruclips.net/video/afMNp6Q4u7s/видео.html
    Congratulations on your beautiful little blessing!

  • @noemibravo3130
    @noemibravo3130 Год назад

    those couches are a dream

  • @collinsnduati
    @collinsnduati Год назад

    My favorite RUclipsrs❤

  • @lorraineforget5483
    @lorraineforget5483 Год назад

    I love the name of Micah and it's biblical meaning. My name means "Victory in grace". It's important for people to know the meanings of their names. They can know how worthy they are to God.

  • @ivyevers8713
    @ivyevers8713 Год назад

    sleep deprivation treats you well. i was cracking up

  • @barbarboyland2877
    @barbarboyland2877 Год назад

    Iam so happy for you all always beautiful family he’s adorable

  • @untameyourflame
    @untameyourflame Год назад

    Hey have you ever thought to freeze your banana? Then you don’t need ice in smoothie? I prefer that

  • @aprilludwig4391
    @aprilludwig4391 Год назад

    Oh my gosh! NEVER wake a sleeping baby! Haha
    Rule number 1

  • @marciefinn6295
    @marciefinn6295 Год назад

    Every new parent goes through the mess you are❤

  • @kamahorodaphnepatra
    @kamahorodaphnepatra Год назад

    My lovely Family

  • @theagoartstudio2333
    @theagoartstudio2333 Год назад

    Have you tried WHITE NOISE? I think you're using one.... But that helps

  • @francescasalcedo
    @francescasalcedo Год назад

    Love seeing y’all embrace parenthood and how you focus on every positive moment in this season 🤍 As I shared with you I also received a miracle this year and whenever you post a pic of Micah my heart gets so happy as seeing how good God is!

  • @kristagerry8505
    @kristagerry8505 Год назад

    If you're interested try letting him sleep in noisy people fill places so when he's older he can sleep anywhere in any background environment 😴 .......

  • @MegaTelenovela
    @MegaTelenovela Год назад

    Omg baby sleeps Tori you could sleep instead of podcasting! That's your chance. For my first 3 months I was delirious from sleep depravation and I'd need hubby at night watching me because I could not keep my eyes open while feeding my girl and that's risky when they're not in their bassinet...

  • @RemainingFaithful
    @RemainingFaithful Год назад +3

    So was the video actually brought on by that comment or by the sponsorship?

  • @mariamangion21
    @mariamangion21 Год назад +1

    Love surprise videos ❤❤

  • @terrythomas7035
    @terrythomas7035 Год назад

    Honey make your noise he will get used to it other wise he will wake any time there is noise he will learn to sleep with the noise

  • @jesuschristuslebt3523
    @jesuschristuslebt3523 Год назад

    He looks like chad so cute 🥰

  • @annekestander3677
    @annekestander3677 Год назад +1

    Now you guys have real tiny hands** 😋

  • @annekestander3677
    @annekestander3677 Год назад +1

    Guys... co-sleep. Have Micah sleep between you two and sneak off to wherever for some Daddy-Mommy time. It works WONDERFULLY for breastfeeding and extra sleep at night** When our first started crawling, she would wake her Dad with kisses in the morning and we can both hold her as she falls asleep at night** It's genuinely amazing*

  • @zoeynecherem
    @zoeynecherem Год назад

    Tori is so beautiful

  • @monikapawlak7399
    @monikapawlak7399 Год назад

    ❤️❤️❤️