Being a stay at home mom is SO hard. I had no idea it would be this hard. I feel like I should be more thankful that it's even an option for me, so I feel guilty for saying that... but it's difficult, and that's the truth. It's so easy to get stuck in ground hog day with all the little things that need to be done at home and we forget who we are and what else is out there. Easy for me to say to you to just take the time for you and utilize the help and assistance of family and friends... ASK for help, but I need to learn to take my own advice too. But mom to mom, your doing a great job!!!! And as a subscriber I want to say thank you for sharing, it helps me not to feel so alone in it all, bc these are real feelings that I 'think' alot of moms feel but just don't share. I appreciate the realness. Your awesome!! 😘
Megan Campbell Aww thank you so much!! I NEVER ask for help or even accept help really. I don’t know why I find it stressful to think of really 😬 But we all need a break! Even for just a couple hours here & there!! Thank you ❤️❤️
girl i totally get what you mean when you said it’s a different sort of peace when your kid is at home with their other parent- and not “burdening” another adult. it’s a different peace. i get it. it’s always hard to explain to others but you said exactly what i’ve tried to explain to others lol.
As soon as you started crying I did also, I know exactly that feeling you are talking about. Being a mom is the hardest yet most rewarding jobs there is. We don’t get breaks as moms we have no sick days or off days! Love you 💕💕
I felt the same way on Saturday this past weekend...and i couldn't even pinpoint the exact reason, i think just from feeling exhausted/drained/overwhelmed/always taking care of others and just wanting a moment to focus on myself or have someone else take care of me. I love your channel and you're doing amazing! Btw I'm not a single mom even so I can't imagine how you do it all yourself!
Being a SAHM is the most rewarding yet draining job in the world!❤️ I always feel guilty complaining or feeling completely overwhelmed and exhausted because so many moms would love the opportunity to stay home with their littles. But no one tells you how hard and isolating it really is!
I was a single mom of two boys (25 years ago) Sure wish youtube was around as I felt so alone....You are so sweet and are such a good mom! Even though i am old enough to be your mom, i sure enjoy your videos, i feel uplifted and positive.
You don’t have to justify needing a break. Everyone needs a break. Being a stay at home mom is a JOB. Normal 9-5 jobs, you have breaks. It’s okay. It took me a while to understand that. Your friend wouldn’t offer to watch Sydney if she didn’t want to or thought she couldn’t handle her. Sydney is a great kid!
Wow! As soon as you started crying I started crying 😭💗 as a mom I know how you feel. When you cried WE cried together mama!!! Sending all my love, you are so amazing!!!
You are one of my biggest inspirations as a mom. I have a 7 month old at home and you've helped me literally since I was pregnant. You're doing amazing. Take time for yourself!
You are such an inspiration to me. 💕🙌🏽 When I have a bad day, I remember there are strong moms out there like you, and instantly I feel motivated to keep going.
Sometimes you need a good cry, you do a amazing job & is a lot of work doing what you do. Never ever think it is bad to cry or take some time off. You are so beautiful & relax & enjoy yourself when you can.
I absolutely love watching your channel.. you inspire me so much. I’m a 20 year old single mother to a 16 month old daughter. My boyfriend of 3 years passed away when she was just over a month old so ive been on my own since and its been the absolute hardest thing ever, but watching you really helps me for some reason.. you make me want to start a youtube channel and document mine and my daughters lives.. lol
Thank you, seriously thank you. I have been having these moments lately and feeling guilty for it. I think as a single mom I don’t stop to think about how doing it all affects me. So lately I’ve had moments when my LO happens to nap that I’ll be working and start to cry, with no reason why. I am so happy, yet sporadically crying lately. I think the weight of it all is hitting me lately and I try to push it down. Because I am so grateful for my daughter. But with the tantrum stage lol and life, it’s heavy. Thank you for helping me to feel normal and not alone. You are killing it! Loved this Vlog! Momtober has been amazing xx
Simply Justine You literally took the feelings out of my head. Same exact. We are always doing so much. It’s bound to spill out at some point ❤️❤️ Sending you my hugs girl
I know how you feel -sometimes emotions can’t be explained and we just have to be in them, let out whatever needs to be let out and remind yourself that it’s okay and that you’re awesome because you are ❤️
You just vocalized exactly how I've been feeling lately about "always being on." Thank you for sharing! I feel a little better knowing I'm not the only one that feels like this.
Just watch this video, you don't have to feel bad about crying, you are a wonderful woman who carries the things of your life and those of your baby on your shoulders 24/7. You are an example to follow.
I think you are wonderful and a great mum to Sydney, and trying to do it all on your own is overwhelming and I have so much admiration and respect for you and you inspire us all everyday xx
I give you props for taking a break! I have a 5 month old and idk how you do it by yourself majority of the time! I struggle accepting I need to take a break but self care is so important!
This is beautiful! Thank you for sharing that moment with us. It made me feel not so alone. As moms we are constantly going going going, doing for everyone but ourselves sometimes. It’s nice to just get quiet time for just us. 💗💗
Thank you for being real and showing raw emotion on what we go through. Cried a bit along with you! Its alot. I know. We all know. And its totally ok to let it go. :) Xoxo
Oh, I feel you. I really do. I'm married, but a stay at home mom of an 11 month old. And it's SO hard. I don't have any "outside" help right now, and I can't even depend on my parents to help out (they are older and can't really help). My husband is literally my only break that I get. I love my baby, but man, I had no idea how hard it really is to be a mom until I became one. I applaud you 100%!
I appreciate beyond belief how real your vlogs are compared to a lot of others. I feel like you always show the good and the bad and it makes it way relatable
I perfecly understand you ...what you feel when you are just alone! When I leave my baby boy for an hour whit somebody else...I feel the same...a kind of mix between guilt and incomplete! Its hart to explain!
Got to see Sydney's compassionate side today ! To be frank I was a little shocked when I didn't see Sydney in her car seat. We are so used to see her all the time when you drive. But nice to know that she was happy with her dad at home.
Am so glad that you got that time for yourself today. It’s so needed sometimes! You truly are amazing with all that you do! I hope you have those moments more often!
I totally feel for you. I do it all even though I am married, and I can seriously relate. I can’t remember the last time I was alone or did anything for myself and my daughter is 2.5. Crying here with you, mama...all the hugs! I’m glad you were able to get away! Take advantage of it when you can. 😊
I get such a kick out of it when Sydney gives you a running commentary on what she's doing, like with putting the stickers on the pumpkin. 55F is a pretty standard autumn temperature, even down here. Not too warm, not too cold. Nowhere near a frost. We all have actual winter temps to look forward to yet. Tell Sydney she is helping give warm winter cover for underground creatures, like rabbits in warrens, putting leaves and twigs into that stand of trees by your yard. And in the spring small animals and birds will use those to build nests for their babies. My grandfather used to say, "You have to eat a peck of dirt before you die." The little bit on the cheese won't hurt her. Sweet how she helped you clean up the yard. Emptying the water out of the jack o'lantern may help it to last longer before rotting. She was quite the trouper at the salon and she did some people-watching. How's the plastic covering on the window holding up in the wind? I think you are saying that you do not have another adult there as a sounding board to commiserate, to help, to get an opinion on something. It is largely all going on inside your head as a monologue and we are gregarious animals, so it helps to have other available adults close by off whom you can bounce things. It not only takes a village to rear a child, it takes a village for an adult to safely navigate the shoals of whatever their responsibilities are. Plus you get little adult conversation about things you need to discuss as a grown woman: recreation, politics, sex, budgeting, any adult topic. Sometimes all any of us needs when we say that we are disgusted with waiting for our hair to grow to the length we want it, is for the other grown-up to say how they get it because their hair grows so fast and so thick that they wish they could switch with you because they, too, are constantly frustrated with their look compared to what they want. They'll tell you they have to go monthly to get it cut and thinned and then you both laugh at how life really is, yet have supported one another in it. So glad her father showed up for her, though unannounced, and that you could get away for a bit of alone time to regroup a bit. His visit is allowing you to get work done and to get a bit of alone time, but he is not a coparent really and not a companionable friend, from what little I can tell. You do it alone and he shows up when the mood takes him. Which for your child is better than nothing and one day she will see for herself how it is with no one saying a word. He is being a baby daddy, but not really a coparent. Why, oh why, do male type persons never understand, unless they're gay, that chick flicks are great for allowing us to have a really good monsoon rains cry? You did some chores, so go walk on a wooded trail or sit on a swing in a park or playground. Do you report your estimated taxes on a quarterly basis? So use that as your reminder to get a babysitter for a half day and get out of the house for Hayley time. Quiet time. Restorative time. I don't quite do what you mentioned. But, if I see a great blouse and get it and it turns out to be everything a blouse should ever be and I just knew it would be, but got only one - I want to kick myself to kingdom come for not having bought one in every available color because there is not going to be another whatever it was that was that great. And I never find them again somewhere.
Omg I felt that when you said sometimes you just need a good cry and move along. It’s so true I think it’s so easy to forget about ourselves as mommies. 😊💓
A good cry ❤️ your doing an amazing job. Being a single mom is really difficult and you should be super proud of how good of a mom you are! We all need moments to ourselves.
I love your videos. I barely ever comment on RUclips but it gives me confidence everything will be okay. Cuz of unfortunate circumstances, I am now a single mom since beginning of February. It gives me hope that in the future I will be ok. It is the hardest thing I’ve had to ever do is be a single mom and I’m only 19 so it’s been an adjustment to say the least. I hope I can look back and say the same as you. I’m a better person now cuz of this and I’ve come out stronger. Thank you for uploading!
You’re amazing and give me so much inspiration. It’s so hard being a single mom, believe me I get it but it’s people like you that help us single mamas out 💕
I cried watching this because I know exactly how you feel. I’m a sahm and I am married but I have zero help. My husband works so much and travels very often. I do everything, literally everything and I get so overwhelmed trying to keep up with life. You’re such a wonderful mom and I love watching your channel. It helps me feel less alone. Thanks so much for sharing your life with us. 💗
I had the cry a few days ago while cleaning the kitchen and i cant tell u how relieving it was.. and thankfully i felt better and i got back on track on my household chores.. am a mom of 4 (7 and under)
🙌🏻 yesssss having a carved out amount of time by yourself feels so amazing and can be so productive ! And literally driving around in your car running errands for yourself and getting a Starbucks treat is the best feeling everrr! you deserve a mental mama break from time to time- and this makes me SO happy that you got the chance to breathe, alone ! 💕Please do this more often for yourself. (*ps.. great job on the makeup ! Totally stayed in place even with a few happy tears falling )
Jenny Lee You are so right. It felt productive even though I did nothing haha I really would love to start doing this once every couple months haha It was so incredibly refreshing!!
You’re crying because you work your @$$ off with no breaks 100% of the time!! I think it’s just a relief to actually get a minute to yourself. You’re such a great mom and no one doubts how much you love your babe but that doesn’t change the fact that everyone needs a break and time to themselves! Just know that you are a great mom and you have the right to cry, break down - even if you are happy! I find that I can’t process my emotions and get over them if I don’t let myself feel them. It helps to just get them out :) Hope you enjoyed your day off and that you get a babysitter so you get more well deserved time to yourself!!
Sometimes we do need to just cry it out, and if you feel that way, just let it out,we moms don't have everything together all the time. It's very hurd to be a mom.You doing wonderful job,and love love how real are your videos. 😊😊😊😊
I am a stay at home mom of 2 who are almost 2 and 3 months. Since we had our second, my husband has had a lot of work obligations that have had him away A LOT and for multiple days a lot of the time. In just this time, I have been struggling. So, I can only imagine how challenging it must be to do it every single day the way that you do. Honestly, I have so much admiration for you and it’s why I enjoy watching your videos so much. We all need some time to ourselves and we all need a good cry every now and then. ❤️❤️❤️
Thank you for your honest talk! I am a single mom doing it all by myself too and you are absolutely right, it is so so hard, not only to always be there and do it all, but also making decisions by yourself, finding the best way, making the best life! It’s so hard physically and emotionally! And let me tell you, you are doing amazing and it takes a strong person to do all this! It’s funny how they say „it takes a village to raise a child“....and here we are, all by ourselves doing it all alone. You are truly a wonderful mom and Sydney is benefitting so much from having such a strong mom, who is always there for her. And absolutely take time to yourself, get a babysitter once in a While, it really does make such a difference. You are a human and you need you-time also!! Much respect and love to you❤️
Caro Lina I’m crying again after reading this! The village part hit home 😭❤️ We are some strong women, that’s for sure! Thank you for this!!!! And sending hugs
Never, ever feel like you need to justify or defend your reasoning for needing a moment. You are a MAMA and that is the HARDEST job in the world. Take. That. Time. Take that moment girl!
When someone came to my chair and had issues with growth and breakage, the answer was always take a break from heat tools(I know, it can be hard!) and take a break from bleach. Over processed hair easily breaks and becomes extremely porous! I would go back to your natural color for a little bit before bleaching again, do Conditioning treatments a few times a week(olaplex and Kerastase make great treatments) and if you absolutely must use a straightener, do so maybe once a week with a good heat protectant sprayed on beforehand. Bumble and bumble makes a great no blow styling cream as well as a thermal protection product. Up your water intake and invest in collagen supplements, vital proteins makes a great one you can mix with any liquid and it has no taste! ❤️
I can't believe how good Sydney is to be able to take to your hair appointment. My son is two and he would be trying to wash his hair in the sink🤦 for that reason I just put him in preschool three days a week and it's been a game changer. It's help with the mom guilt because I can run all my errands and do my cleaning while he's at school and 100% focus on him when he gets home.
Julie Escalante I honestly was shocked by her. I think it’s because she was uncomfortable lol If she knew someone there she probably would have been a wild animal 😂
Take time to yourself mama. You are so right! Sometimes we need a good cry! Take a bubble bath, cry it out, then put your face mask on, and just breathe! You are doing incredible!
I know how hard it is to be so open and honest and get on camera and have a good cry. I am a stay at home mom too, and so thankful to have a supportive husband, but he does work 7am to usually 9pm Monday to Saturday. So I cant say I'm a "single" mom but it does feel like it sometimes when I'm the one that does it all, and maintains the house, and then still have to be a "wife" at the end of the day too. Its exhausting and us other moms out there can all totally relate in our own way! I am so used to having my little guy with me, and having a break from him makes me feel awful. I hate leaving him and always feel like I'm "pawning" him off on someone else to go do something for me, or just clean and get laundry done and feel guilty doing it! Its terrifying to be away from our normal mom life and afterwards I always say- I should really do this more. And then next time I go thru all the same anxiety! Your not alone girl, none of you mamas are! Hope you got to enjoy time alone and have some sence of relief! Xoxo
Hayley, thank you for the amazing video's and sharing your life with us! I am sending a big virtual hug and know that we all are in that place ocassionally.. i really hope something will change for you so you can just be alone or with friends once in a while 😘 being a mom is great but being just Hayley is also so very important!
Oh, I totally get you with the bottling up and you always feel like you have to have a brave face for your little one, especially when it is just you. I only realised how constantly I am on edge/anxious when I was once at the petrol station (without my son) and I saw a parent leave their little one in the car to pay for petrol (something I also do all the time) and watched them fervently looking back at the car (probably more worried about what state their little one will be when they get back to the car). I saw so much of myself in that person and realised how relaxed I was pumping petrol, knowing my little one wasn't in the car. I know it is a weird story, but it is the best example I could think of to demonstrate how I realised how 'on' I always am being a single Mum :-) BTW HAVE A GOOD CRY - You don't need a reason!!!! The chronic overwhelm is enough (plus there are proven scientific studies that prove that having a good cry every now and then his beneficial to your health, releases tension etc) Take care sweetie xoxo PS You don't have to be sad to cry, since becoming a Mum, your emotions are all over the place, I am always crying at happy, sad and random stuff, it's ridiculous, that love you feel for your little one spills over and gets spread all over the place, I feel!
I know they say trim / cut your hair for it to grow and in my case I just let it go without cutting. Every time I would cut it you’re just cutting off new growth. I curl and style my hair daily and just started using a heat protectant spray. Also washing or conditioning every other day helps by massaging the scalp helping the follicles grow, at least for my hair. I also use Suave Professionals Avocado and olive oil conditioner and I get told I have the prettiest hair. Find what works for you! 😍 and you’re beautiful with or without makeup!
Girl I so understand. We all need breaks sometimes. Even if it just means going out by yourself for like 45 minutes lol. I just wish I could quiet my mom guilt when I need time to myself.
I’m so happy you were able to take time for yourself. It seriously made me smile when you said you were going to take a walk. You’re so dedicated to your work you deserve a break! p.s. studies show that it’s healthy to have a good cry. Plus it cleanses the soul 😉 You’re an amazing role model for Sydney she’s lucky to have a mama like you! 👩👧💗
I’m watching this late but you’re so cute I had to pause and say it .. you said “ permanent bubble wrap thingy” 😅😇🧡 I was beyond late when my Mae started likening them and I just called it a fidget till I found out about the whole “pop it” thing 😅🙃🤎 baby Sydney is TOO cute 💘
Girl it’s ok to cry I think you need more me time I know you love Sydney but you need to do little earreds and thank you for sharing just remember it’s ok to cry your an amazing mama thanks for sharing this video was amazing and taking the time to share ❤️💕
It always amazes me you do all the mom stuff and then all the things my hubby would do because I say no way. Like winterize the house out the wraps on the windows and clean up the sticks outside. ❤️ I just love that about your videos Good job momma 👏❤️😘 Get it all done ❤️
You needed a break and a good cry. WOW, that makes you human! I used to say I should have bought it, my husband tells me “just buy it”, so now I do. I wish I could give you a big hug! Love to you girls🇨🇦👍🎀🎃
I feel the same I am not a single mom but I feel the same being a stay at home with little ones is soo hard. Never no alone time. I am happy for you though!!
Awesome video, as always, Hayley ❤ I know I've sorta dissapeared in the comments, but I still watch your videos as much as I can. I have so much on my mind right now, financial problems (my employer went bankrupt and he owes me 2 months of salaries), I had to rush my boy in the ER 3x in 5 days (one day we stayed in the hospital) and once more 2 weeks prior that, so it's been pretty stressful, really... but enough about me. You look fabuolus ❤ A tip for faster hair growth - cut your hair up to 48 hours prior to full moon (to keep short hair is the opposite, up to 48 hours before waning cresendent). It really works. I went from long hair to short hair and did it in the right moon phase and I'm thrilled - my hair has never grown so slow before 😁 usually my hair grows just a little under 1"/month and now it's almost a month since my haircut and it grew less than 0.5" (unlike like once I've had bangs made just before full moon and just 3 days after my hair was 0.5" longer). I know my hair grows really fast, but everyone I've recommended this to seem to notice results. Hope this helps you, too 😊
As a single mom who deaf and working full time over 3 days ( I max out my hours as cannot afford childcare for more days ) single mom hood is so hard some days !!! I don’t have any family about bar one uncle is all and when I do see him I’m so thankful ! It may only be every 3 months but I count my blessings ! Never feel bad for how hard it is ! It has good times and bad times and days that wish had someone ask for more help but not all of us are blessed with that extra family or even friends ! I always make times for myself in the mornings before my son wakes up to go to school or when I’m off and do school run I then have those couple of hours to myself ! So vital because I can’t ask many people for help and already paying out for help so can work and can’t pay for help just sit have a break ( one day when I’m more wealthy I may do this ! Hehe ). I’m lucky to have 4/5 close friends but they all live their own lives in different parts of the world but I use their help by calling them for advice or tops and tricks :) Just use what you have to make it work YOUR way . It’s never easy! But as time goes on it does get some what a little easier :) have a blessed day
Ps I also had a lot of times where I broke down and needed a break mentally too . Cried in my sleep . Cried at work when just all became too overwhelming!
Your doing a great job! But I know what you mean by the overwhelmed feeling even with a helper I get overwhelmed!! Stay at home mom life is so hard but so worth it!!!
Can I just say to all,of you - do not apologize for crying, for feeling overwhelmed, for needing to have a few moments of alone time. Sometimes I feel like all of you who identify as SAHMs feel you need to justify needing to be alone for a little bit. Please remember moms that work, go off to,work and are in the land of adults for a portion of the day, as well as traveling to/from work having a bit of time to deco,press on your trip. When you are home all day, especially when the bulk of care for your little ones is yours alone,you become emotionally depleted. A very old woman told me once that if mother does not take care of mother, who,will take care,of everyone else? So instead of feeling like you are being selfish because you need to have an hour away from everyone remember you are taking care of you just as you do everyone else. It is okay to be first sometimes.
When you got in your car and the carseat was empty, it was so odd to see! I thought for sure you had just already gotten Sydney out and put her into a shopping cart while you emptied the backseat. It was strange to see you by yourself - that just goes to show you how you really *are* never alone! You deserve that time away, by yourself, to decompress and it was so nice to see you enjoying it. I hope you can get to do that more often! :)
Christa Luciana I’m so emotional that just reading this comment made me well up with tears. I love my little girl more than anything obviously but man, sometimes we need to mentally check out for a second 💆♀️
I would love to see you rock your curls!! I would straighten my hair all the time and I couldn’t get it to grow. Then I started wearing it natural more and my hair grew like crazy!
In regards to your hair, ask your stylist or find a salon that offers Olaplex treatments. That should help alot especially since you lighten your hair. Also, It's a 10 leave in conditioner spray is great, i use it after I wash my hair and let my hair air dry. I will use my curling iron or flat iron still to style, but use a heat protectant. Hope that helps 😄
I think you need a reminder that you are An AMAZING mom from what we can see! You are doing such a great job and trust me we all appreciate you as a RUclipsr ! ❤️😘 breaks my heart to see you cry ! Everything will be okay don’t worry😘 Also advice for your hair. Get half a inch cut from split ends every month. Also use that “it’s a 10” leave in spray after a shower on towel dry hair as well as 100% Argan oil as well as the pink ION shampoo from Sally’s. *knock on wood* my hair gets sooo many compliments from how fast it grows and how thick it is just because I use these products and get my split ends cut regularly 😊
Being a stay at home mom is SO hard. I had no idea it would be this hard. I feel like I should be more thankful that it's even an option for me, so I feel guilty for saying that... but it's difficult, and that's the truth. It's so easy to get stuck in ground hog day with all the little things that need to be done at home and we forget who we are and what else is out there. Easy for me to say to you to just take the time for you and utilize the help and assistance of family and friends... ASK for help, but I need to learn to take my own advice too. But mom to mom, your doing a great job!!!! And as a subscriber I want to say thank you for sharing, it helps me not to feel so alone in it all, bc these are real feelings that I 'think' alot of moms feel but just don't share. I appreciate the realness. Your awesome!! 😘
Megan Campbell Aww thank you so much!! I NEVER ask for help or even accept help really. I don’t know why I find it stressful to think of really 😬 But we all need a break! Even for just a couple hours here & there!! Thank you ❤️❤️
girl i totally get what you mean when you said it’s a different sort of peace when your kid is at home with their other parent- and not “burdening” another adult. it’s a different peace. i get it. it’s always hard to explain to others but you said exactly what i’ve tried to explain to others lol.
Abbie Aceituno Yes!!!! 1000% you get it! It’s just a different peace 👌❤️
My heart broke for you in the car... I think we all know that feeling of just wanting to cry for no real reason. You are doing great!!
- Alana
Chris&Alana Awww I’m ok! Sometimes we need to let it all out 😆😭❤️
Girl, you do NOTTT need makeup!!! You are naturally beautiful 😉
Nicole Ruffolo ❤️❤️😊
As soon as you started crying I did also, I know exactly that feeling you are talking about. Being a mom is the hardest yet most rewarding jobs there is. We don’t get breaks as moms we have no sick days or off days! Love you 💕💕
Lindsay Slagle I had always heard that before but it’s a total different ball game to live in it & experience it ❤️
I felt the same way on Saturday this past weekend...and i couldn't even pinpoint the exact reason, i think just from feeling exhausted/drained/overwhelmed/always taking care of others and just wanting a moment to focus on myself or have someone else take care of me. I love your channel and you're doing amazing! Btw I'm not a single mom even so I can't imagine how you do it all yourself!
Olesya Mussman You took the words right out of my mouth! Exactly how I felt. It’s everything we do all the time & sometimes it needs to come out ❤️❤️
Being a SAHM is the most rewarding yet draining job in the world!❤️ I always feel guilty complaining or feeling completely overwhelmed and exhausted because so many moms would love the opportunity to stay home with their littles. But no one tells you how hard and isolating it really is!
I was a single mom of two boys (25 years ago) Sure wish youtube was around as I felt so alone....You are so sweet and are such a good mom! Even though i am old enough to be your mom, i sure enjoy your videos, i feel uplifted and positive.
It is the stress we mothers get ... specially the single moms... Huge respect for you and all single moms. Moms are people too..thanks for being real
You don’t have to justify needing a break. Everyone needs a break. Being a stay at home mom is a JOB. Normal 9-5 jobs, you have breaks. It’s okay. It took me a while to understand that. Your friend wouldn’t offer to watch Sydney if she didn’t want to or thought she couldn’t handle her. Sydney is a great kid!
Stormi White You’re so right!! About all of this ❤️
Wow! As soon as you started crying I started crying 😭💗 as a mom I know how you feel. When you cried WE cried together mama!!! Sending all my love, you are so amazing!!!
Chanel Jones 😭🥰🥰 I am so lucky to have you as a supporter!
You are one of my biggest inspirations as a mom. I have a 7 month old at home and you've helped me literally since I was pregnant. You're doing amazing. Take time for yourself!
You are such an inspiration to me. 💕🙌🏽 When I have a bad day, I remember there are strong moms out there like you, and instantly I feel motivated to keep going.
Sometimes you need a good cry, you do a amazing job & is a lot of work doing what you do. Never ever think it is bad to cry or take some time off. You are so beautiful & relax & enjoy yourself when you can.
I absolutely love watching your channel.. you inspire me so much. I’m a 20 year old single mother to a 16 month old daughter. My boyfriend of 3 years passed away when she was just over a month old so ive been on my own since and its been the absolute hardest thing ever, but watching you really helps me for some reason.. you make me want to start a youtube channel and document mine and my daughters lives.. lol
Thank you, seriously thank you. I have been having these moments lately and feeling guilty for it. I think as a single mom I don’t stop to think about how doing it all affects me. So lately I’ve had moments when my LO happens to nap that I’ll be working and start to cry, with no reason why. I am so happy, yet sporadically crying lately. I think the weight of it all is hitting me lately and I try to push it down. Because I am so grateful for my daughter. But with the tantrum stage lol and life, it’s heavy. Thank you for helping me to feel normal and not alone. You are killing it! Loved this Vlog! Momtober has been amazing xx
Simply Justine You literally took the feelings out of my head. Same exact. We are always doing so much. It’s bound to spill out at some point ❤️❤️ Sending you my hugs girl
Tres Chic Mama You are such an inspiration 💛
I agree a GOOD cry always helps me too. Your such a beautiful mom!!
Michelle Richmond 💗💗 Aw thank you!
EVERY MOTHER NEEDS solo time without guilt. We love you guys!❤❤❤💋💋💋
I know how you feel -sometimes emotions can’t be explained and we just have to be in them, let out whatever needs to be let out and remind yourself that it’s okay and that you’re awesome because you are ❤️
You just vocalized exactly how I've been feeling lately about "always being on." Thank you for sharing! I feel a little better knowing I'm not the only one that feels like this.
Holly Bajko It’s so exhausting!!!!! 💆♀️ We are all in this together ❤️
Just watch this video, you don't have to feel bad about crying, you are a wonderful woman who carries the things of your life and those of your baby on your shoulders 24/7. You are an example to follow.
I think you are wonderful and a great mum to Sydney, and trying to do it all on your own is overwhelming and I have so much admiration and respect for you and you inspire us all everyday xx
I give you props for taking a break! I have a 5 month old and idk how you do it by yourself majority of the time! I struggle accepting I need to take a break but self care is so important!
“Can I play this in the car mommy?” Lol I’m so obsessed with her. She’s so cute and well-mannered.
This is beautiful!
Thank you for sharing that moment with us. It made me feel not so alone. As moms we are constantly going going going, doing for everyone but ourselves sometimes. It’s nice to just get quiet time for just us. 💗💗
AutumnLynnsLife What a difference it actually made. Even just for a few hours... it felt incredibly refreshing ❤️
Thank you for being real and showing raw emotion on what we go through. Cried a bit along with you! Its alot. I know. We all know. And its totally ok to let it go. :) Xoxo
Oh, I feel you. I really do. I'm married, but a stay at home mom of an 11 month old. And it's SO hard. I don't have any "outside" help right now, and I can't even depend on my parents to help out (they are older and can't really help). My husband is literally my only break that I get. I love my baby, but man, I had no idea how hard it really is to be a mom until I became one. I applaud you 100%!
Thankful for your honest mom chat in the car. Genuine feelings are like unicorns 🦄 these days .
God bless you! Being a single mom can be so hard. Thank you for your videos! They really encourage me and help me get through this single mama life 💜
Coz-e Aww thank you!
I appreciate beyond belief how real your vlogs are compared to a lot of others. I feel like you always show the good and the bad and it makes it way relatable
Amber Nelson ❤️❤️ Just trying to share my real life 😊 Thank you
Your such a strong mama!!! I love your videos you make me want to be a better version of myself, thank you for that :)!
I cried with you I totally get what you are saying. I feel this way all the time. Thanks for being real and honest it really helps other moms.
I perfecly understand you ...what you feel when you are just alone!
When I leave my baby boy for an hour whit somebody else...I feel the same...a kind of mix between guilt and incomplete! Its hart to explain!
Got to see Sydney's compassionate side today ! To be frank I was a little shocked when I didn't see Sydney in her car seat. We are so used to see her all the time when you drive. But nice to know that she was happy with her dad at home.
Ved Vlogger I was very happy for her as well 💕 I kept looking in my mirror to see her haha
Am so glad that you got that time for yourself today. It’s so needed sometimes! You truly are amazing with all that you do! I hope you have those moments more often!
I totally feel for you. I do it all even though I am married, and I can seriously relate. I can’t remember the last time I was alone or did anything for myself and my daughter is 2.5. Crying here with you, mama...all the hugs! I’m glad you were able to get away! Take advantage of it when you can. 😊
I get such a kick out of it when Sydney gives you a running commentary on what she's doing, like with putting the stickers on the pumpkin. 55F is a pretty standard autumn temperature, even down here. Not too warm, not too cold. Nowhere near a frost. We all have actual winter temps to look forward to yet. Tell Sydney she is helping give warm winter cover for underground creatures, like rabbits in warrens, putting leaves and twigs into that stand of trees by your yard. And in the spring small animals and birds will use those to build nests for their babies. My grandfather used to say, "You have to eat a peck of dirt before you die." The little bit on the cheese won't hurt her. Sweet how she helped you clean up the yard. Emptying the water out of the jack o'lantern may help it to last longer before rotting. She was quite the trouper at the salon and she did some people-watching. How's the plastic covering on the window holding up in the wind? I think you are saying that you do not have another adult there as a sounding board to commiserate, to help, to get an opinion on something. It is largely all going on inside your head as a monologue and we are gregarious animals, so it helps to have other available adults close by off whom you can bounce things. It not only takes a village to rear a child, it takes a village for an adult to safely navigate the shoals of whatever their responsibilities are. Plus you get little adult conversation about things you need to discuss as a grown woman: recreation, politics, sex, budgeting, any adult topic. Sometimes all any of us needs when we say that we are disgusted with waiting for our hair to grow to the length we want it, is for the other grown-up to say how they get it because their hair grows so fast and so thick that they wish they could switch with you because they, too, are constantly frustrated with their look compared to what they want. They'll tell you they have to go monthly to get it cut and thinned and then you both laugh at how life really is, yet have supported one another in it. So glad her father showed up for her, though unannounced, and that you could get away for a bit of alone time to regroup a bit. His visit is allowing you to get work done and to get a bit of alone time, but he is not a coparent really and not a companionable friend, from what little I can tell. You do it alone and he shows up when the mood takes him. Which for your child is better than nothing and one day she will see for herself how it is with no one saying a word. He is being a baby daddy, but not really a coparent. Why, oh why, do male type persons never understand, unless they're gay, that chick flicks are great for allowing us to have a really good monsoon rains cry? You did some chores, so go walk on a wooded trail or sit on a swing in a park or playground. Do you report your estimated taxes on a quarterly basis? So use that as your reminder to get a babysitter for a half day and get out of the house for Hayley time. Quiet time. Restorative time. I don't quite do what you mentioned. But, if I see a great blouse and get it and it turns out to be everything a blouse should ever be and I just knew it would be, but got only one - I want to kick myself to kingdom come for not having bought one in every available color because there is not going to be another whatever it was that was that great. And I never find them again somewhere.
Omg I felt that when you said sometimes you just need a good cry and move along. It’s so true I think it’s so easy to forget about ourselves as mommies. 😊💓
A good cry ❤️ your doing an amazing job. Being a single mom is really difficult and you should be super proud of how good of a mom you are! We all need moments to ourselves.
I love your videos. I barely ever comment on RUclips but it gives me confidence everything will be okay. Cuz of unfortunate circumstances, I am now a single mom since beginning of February. It gives me hope that in the future I will be ok. It is the hardest thing I’ve had to ever do is be a single mom and I’m only 19 so it’s been an adjustment to say the least. I hope I can look back and say the same as you. I’m a better person now cuz of this and I’ve come out stronger. Thank you for uploading!
A 33 minute video! I love it 💕and Sydney is so adorable! She seems VERY well behaved
Alize Castillo Awww thank you!! She has good & bad days haha 🥴
You’re amazing and give me so much inspiration. It’s so hard being a single mom, believe me I get it but it’s people like you that help us single mamas out 💕
You and Sydney are so adorable! I’m so happy you got some mom time. I was a single mom with my first and I totally get it.
I cried watching this because I know exactly how you feel. I’m a sahm and I am married but I have zero help. My husband works so much and travels very often. I do everything, literally everything and I get so overwhelmed trying to keep up with life. You’re such a wonderful mom and I love watching your channel. It helps me feel less alone. Thanks so much for sharing your life with us. 💗
Valerie Stewart It’s exhausting & overwhelming sometimes!! We need a break. We need a freaking minute 😭❤️ Hugs Mama
Wow I can relate to this so much, being a single mom is SO hard. Thanks for sharing, sometimes you feel like you’re the only one going through it. ❤️
You are great, a great mum and a great person, you deserve to be able to cry by yourself! I know it sounds stupid but... I totally feel you!
I had the cry a few days ago while cleaning the kitchen and i cant tell u how relieving it was.. and thankfully i felt better and i got back on track on my household chores.. am a mom of 4 (7 and under)
SAHM Alj Is t it incredible what we hold in without knowing it?! I hope you feel better girl!!! Mom of 4?! I cannot imagine 🙌🙌💪 You are superwoman
🙌🏻 yesssss having a carved out amount of time by yourself feels so amazing and can be so productive ! And literally driving around in your car running errands for yourself and getting a Starbucks treat is the best feeling everrr! you deserve a mental mama break from time to time- and this makes me SO happy that you got the chance to breathe, alone !
💕Please do this more often for yourself. (*ps.. great job on the makeup ! Totally stayed in place even with a few happy tears falling )
Jenny Lee You are so right. It felt productive even though I did nothing haha I really would love to start doing this once every couple months haha It was so incredibly refreshing!!
You are so strong!! You’re an amazing mom! I’m so glad you got a break. You deserve it!
You’re crying because you work your @$$ off with no breaks 100% of the time!! I think it’s just a relief to actually get a minute to yourself. You’re such a great mom and no one doubts how much you love your babe but that doesn’t change the fact that everyone needs a break and time to themselves! Just know that you are a great mom and you have the right to cry, break down - even if you are happy! I find that I can’t process my emotions and get over them if I don’t let myself feel them. It helps to just get them out :) Hope you enjoyed your day off and that you get a babysitter so you get more well deserved time to yourself!!
Jessica Lise Ahhh Thank you so much!!!! 💗💗💗
Sydney is such a good girl! My child wouldn’t sit still to save her life 😂
You should be so proud!
Sometimes we do need to just cry it out, and if you feel that way, just let it out,we moms don't have everything together all the time. It's very hurd to be a mom.You doing wonderful job,and love love how real are your videos. 😊😊😊😊
kristine venegas Thank you love
I am a stay at home mom of 2 who are almost 2 and 3 months. Since we had our second, my husband has had a lot of work obligations that have had him away A LOT and for multiple days a lot of the time. In just this time, I have been struggling. So, I can only imagine how challenging it must be to do it every single day the way that you do. Honestly, I have so much admiration for you and it’s why I enjoy watching your videos so much.
We all need some time to ourselves and we all need a good cry every now and then. ❤️❤️❤️
Courtney Roberge You absolutely know how I feel with doing it alone a lot though. And with 2 little ones at that! Thank you love 💕
Where is the pink sweater from that you were wearing around 21:00 ? So cute!
Thank you for your honest talk! I am a single mom doing it all by myself too and you are absolutely right, it is so so hard, not only to always be there and do it all, but also making decisions by yourself, finding the best way, making the best life! It’s so hard physically and emotionally! And let me tell you, you are doing amazing and it takes a strong person to do all this! It’s funny how they say „it takes a village to raise a child“....and here we are, all by ourselves doing it all alone. You are truly a wonderful mom and Sydney is benefitting so much from having such a strong mom, who is always there for her. And absolutely take time to yourself, get a babysitter once in a While, it really does make such a difference. You are a human and you need you-time also!! Much respect and love to you❤️
Caro Lina I’m crying again after reading this! The village part hit home 😭❤️ We are some strong women, that’s for sure! Thank you for this!!!! And sending hugs
Never, ever feel like you need to justify or defend your reasoning for needing a moment. You are a MAMA and that is the HARDEST job in the world. Take. That. Time. Take that moment girl!
I've been wearing my hair up in claw clips. It definitely helps. Even low ponies with a scrunchie. Much softer than a rubber band. Just some ideas! 💛
When someone came to my chair and had issues with growth and breakage, the answer was always take a break from heat tools(I know, it can be hard!) and take a break from bleach. Over processed hair easily breaks and becomes extremely porous! I would go back to your natural color for a little bit before bleaching again, do Conditioning treatments a few times a week(olaplex and Kerastase make great treatments) and if you absolutely must use a straightener, do so maybe once a week with a good heat protectant sprayed on beforehand. Bumble and bumble makes a great no blow styling cream as well as a thermal protection product. Up your water intake and invest in collagen supplements, vital proteins makes a great one you can mix with any liquid and it has no taste! ❤️
I can't believe how good Sydney is to be able to take to your hair appointment. My son is two and he would be trying to wash his hair in the sink🤦 for that reason I just put him in preschool three days a week and it's been a game changer. It's help with the mom guilt because I can run all my errands and do my cleaning while he's at school and 100% focus on him when he gets home.
Julie Escalante I honestly was shocked by her. I think it’s because she was uncomfortable lol If she knew someone there she probably would have been a wild animal 😂
Wild animal😂😂😂 I need that on a t-shirt for my son.
Take time to yourself mama. You are so right! Sometimes we need a good cry! Take a bubble bath, cry it out, then put your face mask on, and just breathe! You are doing incredible!
After seeing this I went out and bought a pinky soft jacket. You inspire me love your style! 💗💓
I know how hard it is to be so open and honest and get on camera and have a good cry. I am a stay at home mom too, and so thankful to have a supportive husband, but he does work 7am to usually 9pm Monday to Saturday. So I cant say I'm a "single" mom but it does feel like it sometimes when I'm the one that does it all, and maintains the house, and then still have to be a "wife" at the end of the day too. Its exhausting and us other moms out there can all totally relate in our own way! I am so used to having my little guy with me, and having a break from him makes me feel awful. I hate leaving him and always feel like I'm "pawning" him off on someone else to go do something for me, or just clean and get laundry done and feel guilty doing it! Its terrifying to be away from our normal mom life and afterwards I always say- I should really do this more. And then next time I go thru all the same anxiety!
Your not alone girl, none of you mamas are! Hope you got to enjoy time alone and have some sence of relief! Xoxo
Megan Bell Even without the single mom title, you still get it 100%. Motherhood/life is exhausting no matter what it looks like 💗💗 You have got this!
Watching this while having 90° weather here in Southern California 🤗
Nicoleebee Hahahaha 🤯
I’m so glad you were able to have this time for yourself.. you work so hard you deserve all the happiness in the world.. 😘
Kasuni Sirisena Thank you!!!
Hayley, thank you for the amazing video's and sharing your life with us! I am sending a big virtual hug and know that we all are in that place ocassionally.. i really hope something will change for you so you can just be alone or with friends once in a while 😘 being a mom is great but being just Hayley is also so very important!
Oh, I totally get you with the bottling up and you always feel like you have to have a brave face for your little one, especially when it is just you. I only realised how constantly I am on edge/anxious when I was once at the petrol station (without my son) and I saw a parent leave their little one in the car to pay for petrol (something I also do all the time) and watched them fervently looking back at the car (probably more worried about what state their little one will be when they get back to the car). I saw so much of myself in that person and realised how relaxed I was pumping petrol, knowing my little one wasn't in the car. I know it is a weird story, but it is the best example I could think of to demonstrate how I realised how 'on' I always am being a single Mum :-)
BTW HAVE A GOOD CRY - You don't need a reason!!!! The chronic overwhelm is enough (plus there are proven scientific studies that prove that having a good cry every now and then his beneficial to your health, releases tension etc) Take care sweetie xoxo
PS You don't have to be sad to cry, since becoming a Mum, your emotions are all over the place, I am always crying at happy, sad and random stuff, it's ridiculous, that love you feel for your little one spills over and gets spread all over the place, I feel!
I know they say trim / cut your hair for it to grow and in my case I just let it go without cutting. Every time I would cut it you’re just cutting off new growth. I curl and style my hair daily and just started using a heat protectant spray. Also washing or conditioning every other day helps by massaging the scalp helping the follicles grow, at least for my hair. I also use Suave Professionals Avocado and olive oil conditioner and I get told I have the prettiest hair. Find what works for you! 😍 and you’re beautiful with or without makeup!
I completely understand you, youre doing great! It will all be ok. 💛 Ive been there
Girl I so understand. We all need breaks sometimes. Even if it just means going out by yourself for like 45 minutes lol. I just wish I could quiet my mom guilt when I need time to myself.
Keely Lynn Hurst Same!!!!! Like shit the brain down..... we deserve those minutes haha
You and Sydney's winter coats are so cute. Where did you get them?
My son winter coat fits him perfectly now but it was too big for him last year.
I’m so glad you got some me-time! ❤️
I’m so happy you were able to take time for yourself. It seriously made me smile when you said you were going to take a walk. You’re so dedicated to your work you deserve a break! p.s. studies show that it’s healthy to have a good cry. Plus it cleanses the soul 😉 You’re an amazing role model for Sydney she’s lucky to have a mama like you! 👩👧💗
I’m watching this late but you’re so cute I had to pause and say it .. you said “ permanent bubble wrap thingy” 😅😇🧡 I was beyond late when my Mae started likening them and I just called it a fidget till I found out about the whole “pop it” thing 😅🙃🤎 baby Sydney is TOO cute 💘
Girl it’s ok to cry I think you need more me time I know you love Sydney but you need to do little earreds and thank you for sharing just remember it’s ok to cry your an amazing mama thanks for sharing this video was amazing and taking the time to share ❤️💕
Tiffany Green You are absolutely Right! I preach this all the time but carry the weight all on my shoulders 24/7. Thank you for telling me this ❤️😭
It always amazes me you do all the mom stuff and then all the things my hubby would do because I say no way. Like winterize the house out the wraps on the windows and clean up the sticks outside. ❤️
I just love that about your videos
Good job momma 👏❤️😘
Get it all done ❤️
Jessica Marchetto I wish I had a hubby to delegate it too haha 🥴 Trust me, I dread doing it lol
Tres Chic Mama awe but your doing amazing ❤️
You needed a break and a good cry. WOW, that makes you human! I used to say I should have bought it, my husband tells me “just buy it”, so now I do. I wish I could give you a big hug! Love to you girls🇨🇦👍🎀🎃
I feel the same I am not a single mom but I feel the same being a stay at home with little ones is soo hard. Never no alone time. I am happy for you though!!
Alysia Perez You get it for sure! 😴😴😴
I know it’s hard for you but your hair is sooo nice naturally!
Awesome video, as always, Hayley ❤ I know I've sorta dissapeared in the comments, but I still watch your videos as much as I can. I have so much on my mind right now, financial problems (my employer went bankrupt and he owes me 2 months of salaries), I had to rush my boy in the ER 3x in 5 days (one day we stayed in the hospital) and once more 2 weeks prior that, so it's been pretty stressful, really... but enough about me. You look fabuolus ❤ A tip for faster hair growth - cut your hair up to 48 hours prior to full moon (to keep short hair is the opposite, up to 48 hours before waning cresendent). It really works. I went from long hair to short hair and did it in the right moon phase and I'm thrilled - my hair has never grown so slow before 😁 usually my hair grows just a little under 1"/month and now it's almost a month since my haircut and it grew less than 0.5" (unlike like once I've had bangs made just before full moon and just 3 days after my hair was 0.5" longer). I know my hair grows really fast, but everyone I've recommended this to seem to notice results. Hope this helps you, too 😊
Try the coil hair elastics! They are wonderful for putting hair up. They don’t leave a giant ponytail bump like a regular hair elastic. Worth a try 👍🏼
I had a good cry last weekend and sometimes i hold stuff in. Cry in the shower if you need too. You deserve to have free time.
Joy R Sometimes it just comes up without us even realizing it!! It’s crazy how that is. Something I never understood before becoming a mom
Natural Beauty! No makeup needed.
Shae's Space Aww thank you!!!
As a single mom who deaf and working full time over 3 days ( I max out my hours as cannot afford childcare for more days ) single mom hood is so hard some days !!!
I don’t have any family about bar one uncle is all and when I do see him I’m so thankful ! It may only be every 3 months but I count my blessings ! Never feel bad for how hard it is ! It has good times and bad times and days that wish had someone ask for more help but not all of us are blessed with that extra family or even friends !
I always make times for myself in the mornings before my son wakes up to go to school or when I’m off and do school run I then have those couple of hours to myself ! So vital because I can’t ask many people for help and already paying out for help so can work and can’t pay for help just sit have a break ( one day when I’m more wealthy I may do this ! Hehe ). I’m lucky to have 4/5 close friends but they all live their own lives in different parts of the world but I use their help by calling them for advice or tops and tricks :)
Just use what you have to make it work YOUR way .
It’s never easy! But as time goes on it does get some what a little easier :) have a blessed day
Ps I also had a lot of times where I broke down and needed a break mentally too . Cried in my sleep . Cried at work when just all became too overwhelming!
Your doing a great job! But I know what you mean by the overwhelmed feeling even with a helper I get overwhelmed!! Stay at home mom life is so hard but so worth it!!!
Sydney helping you..such a cutie
where did you get that bubble toy 😩😂
Abbie Aceituno Target!!! It’s the Chuckle & Roar line 😁
thanks!!
Loving all of the great music 🎶
April Taylor Aww thank you!! ☺️☺️
Can I just say to all,of you - do not apologize for crying, for feeling overwhelmed, for needing to have a few moments of alone time. Sometimes I feel like all of you who identify as SAHMs feel you need to justify needing to be alone for a little bit. Please remember moms that work, go off to,work and are in the land of adults for a portion of the day, as well as traveling to/from work having a bit of time to deco,press on your trip. When you are home all day, especially when the bulk of care for your little ones is yours alone,you become emotionally depleted. A very old woman told me once that if mother does not take care of mother, who,will take care,of everyone else? So instead of feeling like you are being selfish because you need to have an hour away from everyone remember you are taking care of you just as you do everyone else. It is okay to be first sometimes.
Verna Rosenblum AMEN 🙌🙌🙌🙌🙌
Try using a scrunchie or something soft to tie your hair up other than a typical hair elastic!
I think your hair looks so cute in a pony!
One thing I've noticed. You remind me of me in how self-deprecating u are. I'm exactly the same way. Let's (you and me) work on being less so!😀😍🤷🏾♀️
Jojo Satoes 😞 Sometimes I don’t even realize I do that
Where can I buy that bubble popper
Love that you bought something just because you didn't want to regret not buying it 😅 *I felt that.*
Dusty Riggin 😬🤣🤣🤣
What was the bubble wrap toy called? My daughter would flip her lid for that lol
I HAVE to know where you got that cardigan sooo cuteee
Jade Cee Vici Collection ☺️
When you got in your car and the carseat was empty, it was so odd to see! I thought for sure you had just already gotten Sydney out and put her into a shopping cart while you emptied the backseat. It was strange to see you by yourself - that just goes to show you how you really *are* never alone! You deserve that time away, by yourself, to decompress and it was so nice to see you enjoying it. I hope you can get to do that more often! :)
Christa Luciana I’m so emotional that just reading this comment made me well up with tears. I love my little girl more than anything obviously but man, sometimes we need to mentally check out for a second 💆♀️
I would love to see you rock your curls!! I would straighten my hair all the time and I couldn’t get it to grow. Then I started wearing it natural more and my hair grew like crazy!
Jazz and Jojo I hate that I know that solution haha It just takes me a while to enjoy my natural hair 🤦♀️
In regards to your hair, ask your stylist or find a salon that offers Olaplex treatments. That should help alot especially since you lighten your hair. Also, It's a 10 leave in conditioner spray is great, i use it after I wash my hair and let my hair air dry. I will use my curling iron or flat iron still to style, but use a heat protectant. Hope that helps 😄
Where did you get that popping toy for Sydney ?
JH Target! It’s the Chuckle & Roar line ☺️
I think you need a reminder that you are An AMAZING mom from what we can see! You are doing such a great job and trust me we all appreciate you as a RUclipsr ! ❤️😘 breaks my heart to see you cry ! Everything will be okay don’t worry😘
Also advice for your hair. Get half a inch cut from split ends every month. Also use that “it’s a 10” leave in spray after a shower on towel dry hair as well as 100% Argan oil as well as the pink ION shampoo from Sally’s. *knock on wood* my hair gets sooo many compliments from how fast it grows and how thick it is just because I use these products and get my split ends cut regularly 😊
Monii I need all that hair voodoo!! Haha 🙏🙏
Tres Chic Mama haha your so silly ❤️