Answering TMI Marriage Questions...

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  • Опубликовано: 16 ноя 2024

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  • @vaibhavk2400
    @vaibhavk2400 2 года назад +226

    From “Partners” to the Pattersons, and from ldr to married and always together, no one is a better inspiration or more adorable than you, thank you guys so much and love you :) And pet lovely Sonny for me 🥰

  • @ehc7775
    @ehc7775 2 года назад +281

    Sam and Monica are one of the reasons I believe in true love.

    • @MarkK395
      @MarkK395 2 года назад +5

      Same here!

    • @flaurocontino
      @flaurocontino Год назад +2

      Guys true! You give hope to people. We want be more like you.

    • @clearskies8098
      @clearskies8098 9 месяцев назад

      It’s great to see 2 people like those too get along so great!
      Monica has the type of qualities I would look for in another person. 😊🙃💯

  • @antoniafaust
    @antoniafaust 2 года назад +89

    I think you guys aren't even aware of the impact you have when you talk about having arguments or disagreements aswell and how you handle them. It gives people hope and is so so valuable in this time where everyone tries to seem perfect online. THANK YOU

    • @SamAndMonica
      @SamAndMonica  2 года назад +21

      That means so much thank you so much 🥰

  • @vanessa_42
    @vanessa_42 2 года назад +6

    Not married but from a child of divorce, about balance of holidays with two families, we always did thanksgiving with one, Christmas with the other and switch every year 😊

  • @tans3015
    @tans3015 Год назад +3

    Alone time... In the beginning of my relationship I wanted to be present with him all the time, but after about 10 years, he still wanted to be with me all the time. He even wanted to be with me in the bathroom. I remember one time I took an especially long bath just to have "alone time" and he came in the bathroom and I got so so pissed! Eventually, everyone needs some alone time, PRIVACY! It doesn't mean that you don't love the other person. It just means that you want to be yourself without that person for a "moment", you just need a sense of privacy.

  • @danpineda5597
    @danpineda5597 Год назад +3

    Coming from a married man of almost 6 years (married in October of 2017) who also dealt with long distance for 2+ years, you guys are so amazing in every way. I just recently found your channel and I’m so happy I did. Holidays definitely are challenging, but we (like you guys) alternate between families each year. Huge fan and would love to meet you guys one day!!!

  • @ajb7530
    @ajb7530 Год назад +3

    It's very mature how you both communicate so well together. Willing to put your egos aside for the betterment of your relationship.

  • @TheTP1007
    @TheTP1007 Год назад +17

    Been following on TikTok for so long without knowing there was a RUclips channel, love the videos of your lives/pranks and you two are perfect for each other!

  • @philippemalgoyre8922
    @philippemalgoyre8922 2 года назад +8

    You're truly beyond adorable couple. Monica has the sweetest smile and reactions and Sam is a true British gentleman. I discovered again your videos and shorts after some time and I'm glad to watch you again. Men should behave like Sam to see women with the same sweetest smile and tears of joy of Monica. Thank you for being here on RUclips 😊😊

  • @bellarina853
    @bellarina853 Год назад +3

    what we do is go to my dads side for christmas eve, have christmas day at our home with just our immediate family and either the next day or a few days later, we go to new orleans and have another christmas there with my moms side

  • @8avexp
    @8avexp Год назад +2

    You can tell that not only do they love each deeply, they like each other, too. They are best friends.

  • @samreenrafiq11
    @samreenrafiq11 2 года назад +24

    I discovered you two through TikTok this week only and since then have been watching your RUclips videos all day everyday long.
    My goodness your guys have restored my belief in love and I'm just so in love with you too as well.
    I relate to Monica on sm levels I couldn't even start but her love for Harry oh girllll you got taste😍
    And Sam omg you're such an incredible person and thank you for bringing that gorgeous laugh on Monica's face it's everything.
    I hope & pray to have a relationship like yours one day.
    Much love and best wishes your way❤️
    PS: I'll be so embarrassed if any of my friends found this comment 😅

    • @SamAndMonica
      @SamAndMonica  2 года назад +10

      This is such a sweet comment! Thank you so much - it means a lot 🤍

  • @chasejackson8869
    @chasejackson8869 Год назад +2

    Love the alone time, gives time to process. Keep the growth, time is key.

  • @tyrann742
    @tyrann742 2 года назад +59

    You guys literally make my day...! It's really so nice to see you two together who appreciate each other and love each other so much... Here, I'm sending all my hugs from India 😊❤️

  • @allidolnet429
    @allidolnet429 2 года назад +19

    Just found you guys recently, you’re an absolutely brilliant couple,love your channel 🥰

  • @monam.5923
    @monam.5923 2 года назад +4

    I found your channel last year. I have learned a lot about LDR, from you both.
    My Fiancé is Brittsh. We go back and forth about who is relocating.
    I hope he comes here! 😀
    My best to you both. ❤️

  • @saltcurrent9397
    @saltcurrent9397 2 года назад +4

    You guys are amazing. Keep it going and remember a relationship, no matter how awesome it is now, needs nourishment to continue that way. May you have a wonderful life together ❤

  • @Youcanthidefromahyde
    @Youcanthidefromahyde 2 года назад +1

    I also need my alone time too, it makes the time you choose to spend together more intentional ❤️

  • @AbdulRAref
    @AbdulRAref Год назад +1

    Both are amazing & loving human beings & I as a 67 yrs young @ ❤️father of (2) adore them !!! God Almighty bless them always. 🌺🌺🌺🥰🥰🥰

  • @TheGreatJRW
    @TheGreatJRW 2 года назад +8

    I watched about 50 or more shorts from you today. And now a proud Subscriber. You are so funny and such a cute couple!

    • @SamAndMonica
      @SamAndMonica  2 года назад +3

      You’re the best, Justin!! Thank you!!

  • @mommymackey
    @mommymackey 2 года назад +4

    Hi I'm also Monica! Me and my husband also had a long distant relationship for a couple of years before we were married. I'm from Texas and he is from Missisouri. We've been married for almost 5 years and now live together in Missisouri. We would rotate the holidays. If we spent Thanksgiving in Texas then we spent Christmas in Missisouri and swapped it the next year. Now we have 2 kids and we will still be swapping Thanksgiving, but we will be spending Christmas eve in Missisouri with his family and Christmas morning in our home and then traveling to see my family in Texas for Christmas night thru New Years.

  • @johngayo8149
    @johngayo8149 11 месяцев назад

    To add a comment about sharing holidays between families. In our case our two daughters and families live in Texas and we reside in Missouri. Both of our daughters' husbands also have their families to consider. We tend to swap holidays between families especially the more important ones like Thanksgiving and Christmas. If it is not your turn to have say Thanksgiving a particular year, don't begrudge the family that is spending the holiday together. You can always celebrate the holiday on a different date when you are all together. It's not the date that is important but the wonderful times spent together that count.

  • @mauradonovan1667
    @mauradonovan1667 2 года назад +4

    Subscribed to you guys :) I discovered you guys on tik tok probably a year ago and look forward to seeing your videos pop up in my feed, it really makes my day. I genuinely love watching you guys because it’s so fun and you guys show me what real love is like

  • @robertclark2923
    @robertclark2923 2 года назад +37

    You guys make the perfect couple, I’m glad you found one another. It’s refreshing seeing two people getting along as well as you guy’s. This should give people hope hahahaha definitely does for me , thanks so much for sharing your life’s journey with us…. Red

    • @SamAndMonica
      @SamAndMonica  2 года назад +5

      Awww thank you so much, Robert!!

    • @robertclark2923
      @robertclark2923 2 года назад +1

      @@SamAndMonica your welcome guys and thanks.

  • @tylermckenzie3289
    @tylermckenzie3289 2 года назад +5

    When it comes to marriage, you guys are always open to anything!!!! Keep it up!!!!!!!😍😍😍❤️❤️❤️

  • @ireneeugene-517
    @ireneeugene-517 2 года назад +4

    You two are the cutest couple!! You're both so beautiful and you're so lucky to have each other. You're love is so strong even after 7 years, I love it! 💕
    Also for the holiday question, I'm not married but the idea I came up with is pick a holiday to spend in each place a year. Like you could do Thanksgiving in NY, and Christmas in the UK then switch it the next year

  • @ellieneal6226
    @ellieneal6226 2 года назад +6

    You guys are just adorable together ❤ I love seeing your relationship and wish you nothing but happiness together! Xxx

  • @therealgardener
    @therealgardener 2 года назад +1

    The way my family does it (my dad's family and my mom's family) is we go to my dad's family's house on the day before the holiday (Christmas Eve, thanksgiving eve, etc.) And we go to my mom's family on the day of the holiday.

  • @the_samuelsisters
    @the_samuelsisters 2 года назад +6

    Love you guys so much, everything about you makes me wanna cry... you guys are such a lovely couple and I pray God bless you guys...I literally enjoy watching you every day ❤️

  • @paulidis8639
    @paulidis8639 2 года назад +2

    1:45 Thats exactly what Steve Harvey once said, one account each and one conjoined account for the bills etc. I think that's the way to go. This way, each one can save, invest, buy things for personal enjoyment using his/hers personal account, and have everything paid using the conjoined one.

  • @siu3pkxd438
    @siu3pkxd438 2 года назад +2

    I also have a long distance relationship with my new york gf... I met her around Christmas... And i love her a lot💗💗💗💗..u guys remind me of us... U guys are very cute😃😃😃

  • @belongtobts
    @belongtobts 2 года назад +1

    Aw the charity thing.. making u two sweeter than sugar 🥺♥️

  • @linostoe
    @linostoe 2 года назад

    subbed!!! The dudes accent is so cute, and Monicas voice is WOWWWWW I love it 😭✨

  • @harpkalimbalover7196
    @harpkalimbalover7196 2 года назад +1

    i think monica had mellowed over the years

  • @josephbarker8923
    @josephbarker8923 Год назад +1

    Hi Sam and Monica I have subscribed to your RUclips channel last week love watching your videos and on TikTok your a amazing couple xx

  • @aaronsebastian5156
    @aaronsebastian5156 Год назад

    7:28 My wife moved up to Canada from the US to be with me when we were in our mid 20s, and went through the same thing as Sam. It took almost 18 months to finally get her permanent residency and allow her to travel back to see her family. It will be important to let Sam go back home and see family and familiar places when he allowed to travel. He'll probably want to have more trips back to the UK in the first year or so afterwards. Like you said though, communication is important, but understanding and recognizing when you or your partner are feeling homesick or missing family is critical. Make time and effort for that.

  • @AnnieBanapple
    @AnnieBanapple 2 года назад +1

    My boyfriend of 4 years is from the UK (Harrogate) and I'm from the US (Tennessee) - we've been doing it to where we try to spend the Christmas season in both the UK and America, but we'll maybe do Christmas Day / Eve / Boxing Day in one place and New Years Eve / Day in the other place, and then switch off. That way our families still get to see us & celebrate with us in the Christmas season, but Christmas day itself is taken in turns x

  • @simran_athwal
    @simran_athwal 2 года назад +3

    You guys are a huge inspiration to get through my ldr can’t wait to experience the joys of marriage ❤

  • @mollyralls6728
    @mollyralls6728 2 года назад +1

    I ALWAYYSSS AM SOOO EXCITED FOR A howdy Partners at the start of a video! Such cute Patterson's 💜💜💜🥺

  • @platypus1384
    @platypus1384 Год назад +1

    While I haven't been married. My parents are. My dad is American and his family lives in Texas, my mom is British and her family mainly lives in England. So we go to England for the Christmas to cost my mom's family and my summer time we go to America and vist the Texas family. Worked well for 18+ years 💪🏽

  • @Manifestor90
    @Manifestor90 2 года назад

    Oh my god.. I found your channel yesterday night only via shorts and I was checking your videos regarding your marriage/ love story and vola I manifested it in less than 24 hours

  • @Hasnain_Khan_10
    @Hasnain_Khan_10 2 года назад +1

    ABSOLUTELY LOVE SAM'S ACCENT 😍🤷‍♂️

  • @jodil1209
    @jodil1209 2 года назад

    Holidays are soooo difficult for us and we've been married 27 years. Our parents are both near us. My brother and his family live in Iowa though. So usually on Thanksgiving they come back home. So we stop at my husband's families for a couple of hours before we go to my parents. My husband's Mom wanted Christmas Eve with his side, so we have everyone from his family here and then my parents come over Christmas night for dinner. Now our kids do their own thing too because one is married and the other has a serious boyfriend. So things are going to change again because we want to share our kids with their husband's family or boyfriend's family. Our kids don't feel very close to my husband's family. His Dad seems to forget they are also his Grandkids.

  • @eleanorelaborates7084
    @eleanorelaborates7084 2 года назад +3

    Thanks for opening up with us! Love you guys :)

  • @ingridedmundsprinse4940
    @ingridedmundsprinse4940 2 года назад +1

    You are such a lovely couple and so well suited together.
    Concerning the holiday season questions....in previous relationships and coming from a broken home I always tried to alter by seeing one Xmas Eve, one Xmas day and final one on boxing Day. And even now I am divorced and living abroad from my family (due to my ex I moved abroad) I notice now my children start having relationships it is also here starting to go that way.... this year they spending Xmas Eve with me, Christmas day with their dad and new partner, and boxing Day in another way xxx

  • @apoorvrai1318
    @apoorvrai1318 2 года назад +1

    You guys do remind me of damon and elena❤️. You guys have amazing chemistry.

  • @johnrainsman6650
    @johnrainsman6650 Год назад +1

    I have a marriage question. I saw this happen in the hall near my brother's wedding reception. A female manager was upset with a caterer, who had signed up for a one-person shift. She said she didn't think he could manage the service alone. She was sternly all, "I've told you not to sign up for shifts by yourself, I've been very clear about that, I don't know how much clearer I can get for you to listen. You need someone there to give you instructions and guide you." And then the caterer said, "You know, I'm beginning to see why you work so many wedding receptions." What does his comeback mean? Whats the implied reason?

    • @abicadabi11
      @abicadabi11 Год назад

      Maybe you keep getting fired or smth I actually don't know tho

    • @johnrainsman6650
      @johnrainsman6650 Год назад

      @@abicadabi11 actually I forgot to add what he added: “Personal compensation, I bet”. Compensate for what?

  • @darkdweller1986
    @darkdweller1986 2 года назад

    this is my top favourite channel aside from heidi wong these couple is so lovely and charming they always lift my spirit up i love them both

  • @dalejr1776
    @dalejr1776 Год назад +2

    Doing the deed isn't the question though ,the real question is who enjoys it more 😂😂😂

  • @shubhra894
    @shubhra894 8 месяцев назад

    i have subscribed you guys for over two years, i love you both so much

  • @adahakadete9944
    @adahakadete9944 Год назад +1

    I'm a new subscriber .....
    I really enjoyed your every videos

  • @saimegha0002
    @saimegha0002 2 года назад +1

    Why do y'all look younger like the time when u guys were dating!🥺🥰
    Love y'all for making me smile each time!!🥺❤

    • @SamAndMonica
      @SamAndMonica  2 года назад +2

      🥺🥺🥺

    • @saimegha0002
      @saimegha0002 2 года назад +1

      @@SamAndMonica 🥺🥺😭y'all replieddd can't believe thisss!😭😭im so happy!!!

  • @laurencain1523
    @laurencain1523 2 года назад +2

    Just subscribed now! Watched a few of your videos now and am loving the content, you two seem like a genuinely lovely couple - wishing you all the best! x

    • @SamAndMonica
      @SamAndMonica  2 года назад +1

      You’re the best!! Thanks Lauren!

  • @angelamulenga381
    @angelamulenga381 2 года назад +1

    I wish I could find same one like Sam he is a very good guy

  • @RiverkeeperEmberStar
    @RiverkeeperEmberStar Год назад +2

    I can relate I like my alone time also if I typically crank up the music and dance for an hour and hour and a half maybe 2 hours and then I'm okay to be around other people

  • @timosmer4967
    @timosmer4967 Год назад +1

    Communication always don't ever go to bed mad always say you love each other at the end of the argument

  • @nalikaseneviratne779
    @nalikaseneviratne779 2 года назад +4

    You are such an amazing couple love your videos soo much
    From a huge fan from the Asian country Srilanka

  • @tans3015
    @tans3015 Год назад

    Always communication is the key, period.

  • @breadman6223
    @breadman6223 2 года назад +1

    This is the first time I’ve heard about extras for Patreon subscribers. Should mention that more often

  • @precious3844
    @precious3844 2 года назад

    Am from East Africa and have just found you guys have been watching you for three hours now I can't get enough of you❤️🥰

  • @beccacoleman498
    @beccacoleman498 Год назад +1

    Oh my gosh, I've always been embarrassed by the fact that my husband and I use the toilet in front of each other, I'm so glad we aren't the only ones! 😅

  • @ashutoshbatra3100
    @ashutoshbatra3100 2 года назад +1

    Sam and Monica made for each other

  • @shodan198
    @shodan198 2 года назад +1

    Also good healthy boundaries

  • @EdFabulousGaming
    @EdFabulousGaming 2 года назад +1

    i just subscribe and i really love the chemistry between you guys and i hope you guys will stay together forever❤

  • @pandaglitterstar
    @pandaglitterstar 2 года назад +9

    Y’all are so cute and so entertaining ❤

  • @grahamclark4518
    @grahamclark4518 Год назад +2

    Secrets of a happy maritage accept she's right

  • @NathanRBradfordMusic
    @NathanRBradfordMusic 2 года назад +1

    You both have a lot of videos in common with Carlo and Sarah. We’re you inspired by them? 😊

  • @jamespoppa
    @jamespoppa 2 года назад +1

    Subscribed today! Love you guys! ❤

  • @mimiyee28
    @mimiyee28 2 года назад +1

    the questions were great! You guys are so cute ❤️

  • @BevNewsom
    @BevNewsom 4 месяца назад

    Christmas: your juggling is great. BUT when you have kids, don't drag them away from home after they turn about 4 or 5. Tell everyone they can visit you. The kids don't want to leave their Santa toys😊😊

  • @johnjohnston2489
    @johnjohnston2489 Год назад +1

    I love watching the two of you and watch you interact with each other. But watching you guys makes me so lonely. I was married 32 years but there was absolutely no love in it. I was like a slave to her. It is like we married and she just changed. I really think she married me for my earning potential from what I went to college for. She spent every penny we had and then in the end walked away and left me penniless. But more then money I just want someone to love me like I see Monica loving Sam. I wish I could meet the two of you so much and see you interact in person and be able to talk to you. It hurts so bad to be so lonely and wanting to have someone love me so bad. I really love the two of you.
    John

  • @sophiadewet6051
    @sophiadewet6051 6 месяцев назад

    You two are the best couple. You both are Gods children 🙏🙏🙏

  • @leotwofiftyfive2870
    @leotwofiftyfive2870 2 года назад +1

    Subscribed the other day! U2 are the best!

  • @Alena-kd8ch
    @Alena-kd8ch 2 года назад +1

    Just subscribed recently I have only just found you .I am enjoying thanks

  • @justinahoffman1928
    @justinahoffman1928 2 года назад +1

    I found your guy's video short story on youtube, After a while, I was a scroll down to your video, and then you guys start making me laugh out loud. from there click on your profile picture it takes on to this channel.

  • @throughjulieseyes
    @throughjulieseyes Год назад +1

    Hi I'm subscribed I found your RUclips and loved the videos they make me laugh

  • @rashidabanu1566
    @rashidabanu1566 2 года назад

    Hello guys. First of all I wanna say I love you for both 🥰.. When I was feeling upset I was just scrolling through videos randomly and I clicked yours and I was feeling like floating around. I forgot all my pains I had. Last three days I'm watching your videos continuously and I love you both. I love the way you both are talking to each other and u guys have a very good understanding. I love you guys so much 😘🥰..

    • @rashidabanu1566
      @rashidabanu1566 2 года назад

      Thank you guys for selecting me. I'm so happy for that 🥰 . But unfortunately I don't have telegram to text I'm using only WhatsApp. It's ok guys. My love for you both will remain always. I love you guys 🥰😘

  • @mcwthunder4
    @mcwthunder4 4 месяца назад

    While myself and my wife's distances aren't as much as yourselves while we lived together at her parents we would alternate who we saw Christmas day but now we live in wales we are 4 hrs ish from both families so we try and split all holidays between them both and they now come to us around Christmas as we have two young boys.

  • @hello-kw5qg
    @hello-kw5qg 9 месяцев назад

    Sam and Monica you are my favorite couple in the world and you make me smile very time I watch your video ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

  • @happinessajayitv
    @happinessajayitv 2 года назад +1

    Congratulations on 1million subscribers

  • @delitaelloren3137
    @delitaelloren3137 2 года назад +2

    Sam & Monica, charming couple.I admire your marriage

  • @francishughes2352
    @francishughes2352 Год назад +1

    Love your videos and love you both ❤

  • @crystalhailie
    @crystalhailie 2 года назад +1

    New subscriber here FROM PHILIPPINES LOVE BOTH YOUR SO BEAUTIFUL AND HANDSOME GODBLESS YOU DON'T FORGET TO PRAY 🙏

  • @ChilliTink
    @ChilliTink 2 года назад

    Most adorable couple on the internet!

  • @kristenbradley7040
    @kristenbradley7040 2 года назад

    Love you guys! Thanks for being so open

  • @albertpxl
    @albertpxl 2 года назад +2

    Hope to have a relationship like your one, guys, you are perfect ☺

  • @angelalerma2501
    @angelalerma2501 Год назад +3

    Hi Monica & Sam,
    Just started subscribing to your videos today. Sooow loved how you guys are so sweet and inspiring.
    Its also actually my first to really comment on a youtube video. For our family gathering we do christmas with my family then the New year with his family, for the following year we can switch or take both holidays just for us. But im not so sure if it might be useful in your situation since your family are in different country. 😊

  • @mememe909
    @mememe909 2 года назад +1

    I just love everything about you two as a couple ❤

  • @cuank
    @cuank 2 года назад +2

    Hello from Ireland 🇮🇪

  • @ThE4EvRPs3GaMeR
    @ThE4EvRPs3GaMeR 2 года назад

    Im so there with Monica! I don't like hearing people hearing me too nor being heard peeing.

  • @snehalmoharil1951
    @snehalmoharil1951 2 года назад +1

    You guys are so adorable! Lots of love!❤

  • @GocmenAbi
    @GocmenAbi Год назад

    I love you both. I just subscribed. Many thanks for good content

  • @nameless9462
    @nameless9462 2 года назад +1

    Been waiting for a new video for quite a while now

  • @mahikaagarwal2698
    @mahikaagarwal2698 2 года назад +1

    Just subscribed my cuties 💗💗💗💗 love love

  • @robynntention3558
    @robynntention3558 Год назад +1

    Yes 🤚🤚👍🤚 happy holidays 🎉🎉🎉🎉😙😙🎉

  • @patrickmontemayor5266
    @patrickmontemayor5266 2 года назад +1

    New Subscriber here from the Philippines 😍😍😍😍. Stay happy and inlove 🎉🎉🎉❤❤❤

  • @rishikathakur
    @rishikathakur 2 года назад +1

    definitely subscribed!

  • @priyatanwar6423
    @priyatanwar6423 2 года назад +1

    Hey Sam n Monica sorry I didn't know i haven't subscribed.. subscribed today..you guys are love 💕💕🧿any plans of coming to India??

  • @youbelongswme
    @youbelongswme 2 года назад +4

    i love you guys so so much i wanna marry a guy too and i know he too wants the same. im just learning new points everyday from you both on how to keep the spark going and have a relationship that everybody desires to have. i wish i were your close friend to know both of you better personally :))

  • @shadabahmed5518
    @shadabahmed5518 2 года назад +1

    Lots of love to you 💖 I love watching your videos and reels