reacting to instagram 'it girls' in real life - hailey beiber, madison beer, kylie jenner

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  • see your favourite 'it girl' influencer? the one you think is 'body goals'? well you might be surprised to see that she actually looks a lot like you in real life! so if SHE is body goals - well then so are you!
    In this video we're taking a look at some of most popular instagram 'it girl' influencers; madison beer, hailey beiber, kylie jenner etc. they're beautiful on instagram but theyre beautiful in their real life unposed pictures too!
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  • @blackequine.official
    @blackequine.official Год назад +4096

    hope you realise your're literally changing lives. thank you so much Stephanie.

    • @whims6278
      @whims6278 Год назад +68

      I second this. I will be having my 5yo watch them as she gets older, because I WISH I'd had someone like Stephanie when I was younger

    • @katybug6572
      @katybug6572 Год назад +15

      Facts 💜✌️ love her so much!!

    • @Lucyskywd
      @Lucyskywd Год назад +7

      🙏🙏🙏

    • @sarahwaywell
      @sarahwaywell Год назад +7

      ❤🧡💛💚💙💜💗
      ❤🧡💛💚💙💜💗

    • @steffnic13
      @steffnic13 Год назад +6

      Amen, girl.

  • @jessicaparzanese
    @jessicaparzanese Год назад +51

    I am so in support of what you do. I hope you reach millions of young girls. It's next to impossible these days to not compare yourself to these "models" and to feel like you desperately need to glow up and loose weight and gain booty like these girls. Thank you for being authentic, we really need it right now.

  • @boodoobydoo8731
    @boodoobydoo8731 Год назад +12

    “Why am I shit” is such a mood

  • @mrscrystalking
    @mrscrystalking Год назад +69

    I hold my body fat in my arms, and I've always been insecure about this. I look hour glass everywhere else, but I guess with having a decent sized chest comes with arm fat to proportion it out. I always felt insecure when looking at people like Kylie Jenner with a big chest and other things with small arms. It's very comforting to notice that it really is genetics with small amount of cellulite on your arms. I have a little on my arms and I always felt bad, because they weren't even that big according to my husband.

    • @loverofbeautifulthings
      @loverofbeautifulthings Год назад +6

      I am the same and I feel you! At age 62 I have forever covered my upper arms~~the rest of my is proportionate (I am 5'9" and wear a size 6), but I have large breasts and have always had fat upper arms and now at my age they have cellulite on them. I so envy those who can go sleeveless (and braless, haha!). I guess we are just never happy~~it's human nature, I suppose.

    • @BoomBoom-rb4iy
      @BoomBoom-rb4iy Год назад +2

      Same body type as yours ! I have a typical hour glass figure with developed breasts thin waist and hips/booty but also have HUGE arms and I've always been insecure about them I've never worn anything like sleeveless tops .. I hope I'll be able to be at peace with my arms .. happy i found someone like me 😅

  • @caitlinadalton
    @caitlinadalton Год назад +8

    You open the eyes of so many women and help them to love them selves again after society has told us were nothing but wrong. Thank you.❤

  • @math7498
    @math7498 Год назад +5

    I love how kind you always are ! You’re truly helping people Stephanie. Thank you♥️

  • @luciaandreebachrichalvarad3900
    @luciaandreebachrichalvarad3900 Год назад +8

    You are so inspiring! Thank you for the work you do. I have struggled with low self esteem all my life and am used to nitpick every single thing about my body that does not fit my idea of perfection or well the idea of perfection that we are made to believe due to the system that we live in and I am absolutely sure I am not the only one. Most of us feel this way. Since I saw your first video I have felt confident enough to look at myself in the mirror and love, appreciate and respect what I see, even if it is not my idea of body goals st the moment. It feels good to know that not everyone is as perfect as they seem on social media and that the people we compare ourselves to are also human people with beautiful human normal bodies. I am grateful for you. Thank you Stephanie. You are awesome. 🎉❤

  • @KimmieArgyshev
    @KimmieArgyshev 6 месяцев назад +3

    I also think that Hailey doesn’t alter her pictures much. She looks in real life pretty much the same.

  • @kscritelli
    @kscritelli Год назад +3

    Your videos have changed my life thank you for doing what you do!

  • @cozy.ladybug
    @cozy.ladybug Год назад +1

    Your channel has helped me significantly with my body dysmorphia and low body self esteem. I am 114 lbs and am pretty slim but still find my body extremely uncomfortable to be in sometimes. I feel jiggles and get bloated and my brain convinces me that I am gross looking. I see myself from certain angles and I like what I see and then 10 min later will see my reflection in a window or something and then the body dysmorphia flares up again. Thank you for fighting to normalize this, its nice to see even the rich and famous women of the world have the same bodily issues as me.

  • @rozinahegedus1348
    @rozinahegedus1348 8 месяцев назад

    You can't even imagine how much these videos help me (I'm a 14-year-old girl) to see myself as pretty. Thank You! 🥹

  • @alex-dy3uv
    @alex-dy3uv Год назад +2

    i remember scrolling through images of madison beer and the jenners and cindy and crying my eyes out (btw i still love madison beer she is gorgeous 100%) it really ruined the first months of high school (11-16 in uk)

  • @sarahschaum5948
    @sarahschaum5948 4 месяца назад

    “It will feel like everyone has that shape, except for you” .. I felt that

  • @Anthony.and.Bigsis
    @Anthony.and.Bigsis Год назад

    4:45 i love Stass! And 5:52 love how Kylie shows her scar on her thigh too and doesnt hide it

  • @cancerlight7842
    @cancerlight7842 Год назад +3

    Congratulations on your baby, i didn't realise you were pregnant! You look beautiful. Thank you for your videos, keep up the good work 👏

  • @lael88leal
    @lael88leal Год назад

    So happy that you uploaded new video from this series!❤Waited so longg for new video😍

  • @brennnabean
    @brennnabean Год назад +3

    I went to treatment for my ED back in 2010-2011 and we learned about the dangers of photoshop and how they make celebrities look flawless. However they did not prepare us for the day when average everyday people would have unlimited access to facetune and other photo altering apps.

  • @delwrge
    @delwrge Год назад +1

    your channel is the best, these videos help so much. love ya!! take care x

  • @carmelareznik6678
    @carmelareznik6678 Год назад +1

    Hey Stephanie,
    I love your videos so much and am so grateful for all the work you’re doing for women! I was wondering if you could do one of these videos on mid and plus size influencers as they also look different on Instagram to in real life. As midsized girl myself it can be quite demoralising and disorientating to see representation of people your size that is still seemingly flawless. It just places so much pressure on all of us women and I’m so sick of it!! Again thank you so much for all that you do and congratulations on your pregnancy 💓💓💓

  • @ec1222
    @ec1222 Год назад +1

    You know, theres something to be said for that very French attitude of perfect imperfection, where the woman will carry herself as a goddess, never questioning/being insecure about (openly)/drawing attention to any flaws, and letting her natural allure come out. I’ve met a few women who do this, and if they’re not questioning themselves, turns out you don’t question their beauty either! And you start seeing them as beautiful because of their charisma and because of their very real form of beauty. You know who I think is a perfect example of this (even though she’s not French - you don’t have to be to rock this ofc haha!) is Sabrina Claudio. Natural body, showstopping sensuality and presence.
    I think all that is actually more important than cookie-cutter perfection - many of us trying to glow up physically so hard that we forget personality is half of the equation. I wish the younger generation knew this about being attractive, instead of swallowing the naive message that you’ve just gotta look perfect physically. We’ve all met many physically gorgeous women who kinda, after the first five minutes of wow, didn’t leave any mark and kinda faded into the background whilst more fun people took the stage again.

  • @elfymbouity
    @elfymbouity Год назад

    You and your videos are such a blessing! Thank you for what you do, for showing us that we are just perfect the way we are and we don't need to look like somebody else to be beautiful.

  • @sophiagrace7807
    @sophiagrace7807 Год назад

    thank you for making these vids frequently ily❤

    • @sophiagrace7807
      @sophiagrace7807 Год назад

      and also cause it helps me and probably lots of other people

  • @angelinal7120
    @angelinal7120 Год назад +1

    i truly think that if we all looked like barbie dolls/instagram bodies all the time, our body goals would maybe be to look more like how we are actually built right now. body goals change all the time and the barbie doll era will end at some point so really don’t compare yourself to the influencers or anybody else :)❤️

  • @spookyufo98
    @spookyufo98 Год назад +2

    even at 24 it’s really difficult for me to understand that these girls don’t actually look this way and that my body isn’t wrong. it’s awful how deep this runs 😢

  • @superlegal2965
    @superlegal2965 Год назад +3

    Realness!! What a great video!! The internet is really bad for womens' self-confidence.

  • @Findyourcall
    @Findyourcall 5 месяцев назад

    I just go to re-watch your videos when I feel like shit looking in the mirror. Thank you!❤

  • @wanderingsoul2931
    @wanderingsoul2931 Год назад

    Wow this made me feel so much better. It’s literally all an illusion. Imagine how they feel when they lay in bed at night knowing they’re getting praise for something that’s not even real?

  • @stateofeuphoriah
    @stateofeuphoriah Год назад

    your videos need to go viral honestly thanks you are realy helping young women

  • @rkaur6166
    @rkaur6166 Год назад

    I'm in love with the honesty

  • @susanaweeber
    @susanaweeber Год назад +2

    I love lily silk! I love that you promote it.

  • @Jess_icaaaaaaa
    @Jess_icaaaaaaa Год назад

    i love your channel so much omg! especially cause I'm half Asian (British and Thai) and I have struggled with finding where I belong e.g., what beauty standards etc and I naturally have extremely pale skin which is desired in Thailand but I personally don't like it and prefer tan skin but because of the beauty standard I have felt obliged to use brighting products and not go into the sun and I convince myself that I have to not tan and stay fair to be loved there. But ever since watching your videos I have learnt that that stuff doesn't matter and I'm beautiful even if I don't conform to the standard's and that makes me stand out. And now I don't feel ashamed to tan in the sun and I also learnt to love myself because of watching your amazing videos. So, I say thank you!🥰

  • @romanzadgk
    @romanzadgk Год назад

    Love you so much Stephanie ❤ Thank you for this video

  • @RC-gh7os
    @RC-gh7os 11 месяцев назад

    Imagine if girls spent as much time celebrating each others natural beauty, indide and out, as they did altering themselves to fit a, frankly, silly and cartoonish ideal. Our bodies and faces are gorgeous and unique to us, diversity is magical. You areall gorgeous girls, never change for anyone.

  • @amyhuntington5336
    @amyhuntington5336 Год назад

    Thank God in 2022 we have videos like this!

  • @iino07
    @iino07 Год назад

    The beauty standards today, if we tried to achieve the body types we see on Instagram without surgery or Photoshop, would mean we have to starve ourselves silly and exercise excessively, malnutrition and over exercising causes serious physical and mental health issues.
    The more you'd feel you're reaching the "perfect body" the more sick and tired you would feel. I'd much rather have my body type and feel healthy and have energy. Life is far too short to be chasing perfection.
    Thank you for making these informative videos, Stephanie.
    Congratulations on your baby ❤️

  • @aliconellen
    @aliconellen Год назад

    I just love you. I love you for give me so much more confidence ❤

  • @user-ht1ft3dy3s
    @user-ht1ft3dy3s Год назад

    I feel better about myself after watching your videos :)

  • @bellaNZ
    @bellaNZ Год назад +1

    I love what you do!

  • @kellx4321
    @kellx4321 Год назад

    Omg that baby bump😍

  • @societymadewanda7539
    @societymadewanda7539 Год назад

    you should definitely talk about the "coquette" body trend that's floating around on tiktok

  • @user-ss6cy9ov4o
    @user-ss6cy9ov4o Год назад +1

    Yoooo I've never been this early 🎉🎉🎉

  • @LoriRodman
    @LoriRodman Год назад

    I love your videos. I absolutely love your hair and hair color!! May I ask what color you use?

  • @mheuman
    @mheuman Год назад

    You rock!

  • @lauraribeiro6596
    @lauraribeiro6596 Год назад

    Love your videos 😘😘

  • @LeslieStafford
    @LeslieStafford Год назад

    Thank you so much! You are going to be a GREAT mom!

  • @roseobrian2586
    @roseobrian2586 Год назад

    I wish I had watched these videos when I was in my 20s.

  • @lilbabytears
    @lilbabytears Год назад

    Please keep exposing this. We need you.

  • @lvn4229
    @lvn4229 Год назад +2

    beautiful

  • @ivyleague1122
    @ivyleague1122 Год назад

    Omg Steph, listen, i am a person who doesnt watch reality tv or are into celebs and influencers, but I'm obssessed with your videos. U r so beautiful with and without makeup and ur vibe is so positive. Literally, ur vids are totally great!

  • @binashoe
    @binashoe 8 месяцев назад

    Im a Young girl who is insecure about herself everytime i feel like that i watch your videos

  • @mairebertho4614
    @mairebertho4614 Год назад

    Thank youuuuuuu

  • @hentailoverxxx
    @hentailoverxxx Год назад

    Celebrities like Selena Gomez, Ariana Grande still ruling a big part of Instagram without being a "it girl" I'm so happy and proud of them haha

  • @carow6244
    @carow6244 Год назад +2097

    I feel sorry for the younger generation now as everything is "so perfect" and there is a massive pressure to be the same.
    I can't remember that same pressure when I was a teen/early 20s .... and I know it's easy to say, but we need to accept our differences and lumps and bumps 🥰

    • @Metacognition88
      @Metacognition88 Год назад +4

      This shit trips me out. Human beings are mammals. Our bodies look the way we do because genetically we have primate bodies. Why do you think women grow hair on their legs. I it’s so weird seeing people stress and trying to obtain some sort of “perfection” on natures selection of genetic traits.

    • @jenn8179
      @jenn8179 Год назад +48

      I'm trying to hard to instill this in my girls. I try not to put myself down. I compliment other women in person and on TV. My girls are preteens now...I'm just hoping I can do enough to help them. 🤞

    • @yaniwet
      @yaniwet Год назад +61

      The 2000 were worst!!! The body goal was heroin chic, girls super skinny with no muscle, eating disorders were at a peak, all the brands photoshopped their pictures but we were not aware that that even existed so we thought that the perfection in pictures was real. Is was a horrible time to be a teenager.
      Not all past was better, I’m sorry.

    • @andin916
      @andin916 Год назад +14

      It wasn’t bad if you were skinny 🤷‍♀️ it was still more acceptable to look like a human in other ways - you’d look like a clown with today’s makeup. just sayin.’ The curvy trend was the worst for me, because I literally cannot gain weight AND people alter pics 5000 times more now than they did back then.

    • @sluttymctits4496
      @sluttymctits4496 Год назад +7

      @@yaniwet True. I came of age in the 90s and early 2000s and am a lifelong twiggy waif. When heroin chic was everything, I always had people commenting on my body, how I was so thin and they wish they could be like me. I always hated it. Even though I had the "ideal" body type for the time, it put crazy standards and on me, made me feel like the only thing people cared about me was how thin I was or that i had to be thinner. My body became who I was: "Oh yeah, she's that skinny athletic girl."
      I have to say that with the curvy trend now, it's easier for me, personally. That's likely because I'm in my 30s and am too old to matter nowadays, and also that I just don't care so I don't pay attention. Moral of the story, girls will always have unrealistic beauty standards thrown in their faces. It's up to us, and only us, to rise above it and not care what others think about us.

  • @OliviaGatto
    @OliviaGatto 6 месяцев назад +110

    I'm a STEM major going into medicine and every time I take an anatomy class I laugh at all the 'perfect' body goals posts i see on instagram because it is literally. Physically. Anatomically. Biologically. IMPOSSIBLE.

  • @juliatribolet2808
    @juliatribolet2808 Год назад +929

    I saw Kylie Jenner in real life and was shocked at how different she looked.

    • @kassandravaldezcontreras8075
      @kassandravaldezcontreras8075 Год назад +297

      Definitely would want to see. I saw shakira once at a concert and she was BEAUTIFUL.. but different? Idk how to explain it. Just odd to see her in motion and normal like a teacher out in the wild lol

    • @Greetingsearthling22
      @Greetingsearthling22 Год назад +164

      @@kassandravaldezcontreras8075 teacher out in the wild 😂😂😂😂 love that

    • @daniellenelson5300
      @daniellenelson5300 Год назад +57

      She's also had so much cosmetic surgery which the average person could never afford

    • @RiddimKingdom
      @RiddimKingdom Год назад +204

      This! I saw the three Kardashian sisters and Kris at The Grove in LA a few years ago and I thought they were impersonators! They looked almost nothing like their pictures. And no shade to anyone who has surgery but what really stood out was how abnormally fake and misplaced their bums looked

    • @thehapagirl92
      @thehapagirl92 Год назад +70

      Me too. I’m 5’3 and until early 2022 was 100-103 lbs. Much MUCH thinner than Kim, Khloe and Kourtney. However, in pics they looked as thin as me. That was until I saw them irl and was super shocked. It’s so apparent that they’re not that thin at all, they’re normal

  • @liachang126
    @liachang126 Год назад +769

    How did I not know you're 8 months pregnant?!? Wow you're gorgeous and your baby belly is such a beautiful thing

  • @sammiesideup
    @sammiesideup Год назад +436

    "If you're curvy enough to have this coveted big booty that is so popular today, you're likely going to have curves elsewhere too" wow I've never thought about it like that. It makes me feel so much better about my body, thank you Steph

    • @annelieserainey7874
      @annelieserainey7874 Год назад +40

      I have ALWAYS said this! Coming from a curvy girl, the curves are everywhere…my upper arms are thicker, my thighs…even my lower legs x

    • @SheisGraceful
      @SheisGraceful Год назад +42

      Yes! Unless you’re injecting fat into specific area like the kardashians, but that’s why their bodies look so unnatural! My uncle is an expert in nutrition and has been training almost his whole life. I’ll never forget when I looked at this girl’s hips and perfect backside and admired it sooo much and my uncle just laughed and said, “rule number one, if you’re backside is that curvy, you can’t have twig legs, never think you’ll achieve that😂”

    • @annelieserainey7874
      @annelieserainey7874 Год назад +5

      @@SheisGraceful 👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻

    • @Namak91
      @Namak91 Год назад +9

      ​@@SheisGracefulso true. Many actually fitness experts and nutritionists say you cannot spot train (i.e. make one part bigger than the rest). Either your whole body gets big or your whole body gets small.

  • @julicbo
    @julicbo Год назад +936

    I used to think that my perception of how women's bodies look like wasn't affected by social media and all that and I just hated my body cause it doenst look skinny enough and has "flaws". That was until I saw your videos and I was shocked seeing something as natural as cellulite, i then realized I really thought some things only existed in my body. So thank you so much for what you are doing ❤️

    • @hassanhazrat3615
      @hassanhazrat3615 Год назад +5

      I was thinking like that too but not anymore now ( no let's say LESS now) because of her 😊

    • @julicbo
      @julicbo Год назад +5

      @@hassanhazrat3615 she is doing even more than she realizes 💕

    • @julicbo
      @julicbo Год назад

      @weyheylarry its like they keep inventing flaws

  • @hannahd9071
    @hannahd9071 Год назад +403

    Has anyone ever told you that you were amazing Stephanie?! Bc you are!! Thank you for making the best most honest videos. ❤

  • @karenrobbins6656
    @karenrobbins6656 Год назад +73

    I’ve got a rectangular body shape! No matter how much workout I do, my waist can only get so thin because of the way my ribs and waist bones are. So I just make the best using tricks with how I style myself

    • @dorad.8555
      @dorad.8555 Год назад +2

      Waist bones lmao

    • @punkiepromise9254
      @punkiepromise9254 Год назад +4

      @@dorad.8555 they’re prolly referring to their pelvis and the height/placement

    • @Pink_pr1ncess
      @Pink_pr1ncess Год назад

      @@punkiepromise9254 they’re being dumb on purpose, ignore them

    • @thebonniewong
      @thebonniewong 5 месяцев назад +1

      Yay team boxy bods! I've accepted that I have hip dips and high waist things look absolutely stupid on me and that is totally ok. I will stand with my low waist pants and baggy silouettes.

  • @DoeRaeMe
    @DoeRaeMe Год назад +116

    Angles are everything honestly! Growing up I was a really skinny ,tiny teen, often half the size of my peers(cause I developed later) and because I was just all about having a good time when me and my “girlfriends” took pics together I looked like the biggest one! Cause I was often standing directly in the middle and just straight on to the camera… while they were sideways, angled, bodies twisted, legs elongated etc for the perfect pic 📸 even now that I know that’s what girls do! If I’m in a group pic, I just don’t do that! I’m happy knowing I workout, and I feel healthy and strong, I don’t have to look the skinniest or tallest in cameras! Everyone who meets u in life just knows how you look😅

    • @HeyEm777
      @HeyEm777 Год назад +1

      Curious, because another side of this is feeling insecure because you’re “too skinny” and stuff, I’ve felt insecure about being too heavy, then due to extreme stress and anxiety I developed a gut issue which turned itself into a kinda… well an unintended eating disorder. Hurt to eat, hurt to digest, so it felt better just not to eat:( I’m on liquid gainer and meal replacement to help me at least keep my weight and hopefully gain. I just didn’t realize before experiencing it that skinny people can be just as insecure. Some people love to hear how they need to “eat a burger” and when I hear it coming I’m just dreading the rest of the words… anyway I was just curious. I love your take on it and how proud you are to stand right in the middle and represent your beautiful self just as you are:) ❤️‍🩹

  • @juliettully
    @juliettully Год назад +183

    These videos help me so much! I am so tired of comparing myself to girls that don’t even look like that. You are the best Stephanie, thank you

  • @dredubz5825
    @dredubz5825 Год назад +100

    The Hourglass figure is the least common body type.
    Thanks so much for all you do Stephanie 🙏🏼 I hope young girls and women everywhere see your videos. Lots of love from Sweden 💐🇸🇪

    • @iknow2145
      @iknow2145 Год назад

      It's just the least common where you are because nordics are built like bananas, like Kesha.

    • @dredubz5825
      @dredubz5825 Год назад +9

      @@iknow2145 wow that is a rude thing to say. I’m Canadian by the way, but Scandinavian women come in all shapes and sizes like everyone else. Google about hourglass shape. It’s true. It’s very rare to have shoulders that aren’t wider than hips. Even Kim K isn’t a true Hourglass.

    • @andreia0000
      @andreia0000 Год назад +1

      Hourglass its the most common in Brazil, along with the fat curvies

    • @dredubz5825
      @dredubz5825 Год назад +17

      @@andreia0000 are you sure they are not just pear shape who make themselves appear to be hourglass like Kim K?
      If you google it, it does say hourglass is the least common body type. Brazilians do seem to be naturally more curvy, so perhaps you are right, but it’s not a difficult thing to fake if you are a pear and get breast implants it can be hard to tell your shoulders are not wider or same width as your hips.

    • @bryna7
      @bryna7 Год назад +11

      @@andreia0000 doubt it, there are tons of butt surgeries there.

  • @momodoro7163
    @momodoro7163 Год назад +167

    Stephanie's voice putting me on earth again. Its funny how some of things we KNOW aren't real and still proceed to sabotage ourselves. Thank you for showing it.

    • @HeyEm777
      @HeyEm777 Год назад +9

      True we need her reminders right?! it’s not a subject matter that could be over stated because like any other girl or woman it’s easy to fall back into the belief of inadequacy based on how we look, it’s sad but thank God for her❤️❤️‍🩹 I feel you sister

  • @juleeanng
    @juleeanng Год назад +94

    You're doing all both young women and older women a whole lot of good Steph..Ive followed you since your makeup tutorial days and appreciate where you've taken the direction of your platform to help us all women with our self image and self esteem. I hope for you all the good things life can offer you for what you are doing.

  • @EufrozinaSafely
    @EufrozinaSafely Год назад +40

    Shame on those women that mimick body positivity and tries to convince us that they don' t use apps and filters and edits. In the end they really mock and fool themselves.

    • @pastelflower8512
      @pastelflower8512 Год назад +1

      They are the same victims of the system and they deserve a conversation, not a shame.

  • @emshka06
    @emshka06 Год назад +73

    Stephanie I love that you are so active recently. Your videos always make my day.

  • @mariainespidhir
    @mariainespidhir Год назад +36

    I would love a video talking about over sexualization of kids and teeganers on social media. It's something more and more frecuent and kind of scarry. Love from Argentina ❤️

  • @LilithXD666
    @LilithXD666 7 месяцев назад +11

    Stephanie my body dysmorphia has been helped massively by your videos xxx THANK YOU!

  • @solanum6039
    @solanum6039 Год назад +6

    Positivity is great and all, but I kinda feel like it’s a bit dishonest of you to call everyone and everything beautiful… You tend to do that a lot, in pretty much all your videos. And I think you’re just trying to tell your followers they are good as they are, but in all honesty, no, not everyone is beautiful. BUT that’s the thing though, we shouldn’t feel pressure to be beautiful. Not every body shape or every face is pretty, but they don’t have to be. Your self worth is not rooted in your looks. So instead of pretending that everyone is beautiful, because deep down we know that’s not true, let’s start accepting ourselves even if we aren’t beautiful. And besides societal beauty standards there’s always personal preference, so even if you’re not what most people find beautiful, there’s definitely someone out there who thinks you are.

    • @TheaHFrancis
      @TheaHFrancis Год назад +1

      I agree! This is why I feel it's much better to be "body neutral" than "body positive". When body positive we are still playing the same game, but we should just jump out of the old game all together and moving onto improving our body health, mental health and overall happiness 😊

  • @letsgettanked7344
    @letsgettanked7344 Год назад +90

    First off you're serving looks in that silk omg
    But you've helped me so much in coming to terms with how important it is to take care of my body over how it looks
    My organs need space and my body needs food to work! Thank you so much and I can't wait to see more from you

  • @Rem12753
    @Rem12753 11 месяцев назад +7

    I am 110 pounds and I have cellulite! I even had it at 95 pounds. Everyone has cellulite it’s completely normal.

  • @SvetlanaVillegas
    @SvetlanaVillegas Год назад +36

    The fact that people still believe social media is just mind blowing, thank you for creating this videos 😊

  • @teru_9921
    @teru_9921 Год назад +60

    I stumbled upon your video today and now this is my 3rd video of yours. I wasn't really expecting to be sitting down and actually pay attention but here I am 😆I love everything that you say and found myself nodding several times to it lol. Keep up the good work!

    • @cutenella1511
      @cutenella1511 Год назад +2

      Wait are we living the same life?!?!???
      I literally just started watching her and this is also my 3rd video

    • @teru_9921
      @teru_9921 Год назад

      @@cutenella1511 whoa! No way 🤣

  • @tkeico
    @tkeico Год назад +21

    It’s definitely photoshop and facetune! Angles can only help so much but doesn’t actually remove weight/skin folds, smooth cellulite or lengthen torsos/legs. Being in the fashion and advertising industry, retouching models photos for ads is part of the trade but so glad we are moving away from over retouching and becoming more inclusive- although fashion could do better to be more inclusive and accepting. Thanks for shedding light on this subject and hope more girls have the confidence in themselves - celebrities and models are not perfect! Be yourself and celebrate your own unique beauty! ❤

  • @dnugget924
    @dnugget924 Год назад +40

    Steph, I just wanted to say thank you so much for drilling into us that what we see online isn't always the truth. We all know this to a degree but we don't truly believe it. I've come to accept myself so much better and am happy living life without constantly thinking I'm ugly and fat.

  • @Elathea77
    @Elathea77 Год назад +24

    This is literally my comfort channel. I've been struggling with self confidence, insecurities and "perfect body obsession" for years and this type of videos reallyyy help me out

    • @kassandravaldezcontreras8075
      @kassandravaldezcontreras8075 Год назад +2

      Same here hang in there 💖 it’s a nice feeling to know this is a shared frustration I just wish it was spoken about more day to day

  • @Jenncya
    @Jenncya Год назад +33

    I grew up reading magazines and NEVER knowing the women were photoshopped. I feel like women today have it even worse, social media has made filters and photoshopping the norm (without acknowledging it). Thank you so much for making this video

  • @myrinesee2376
    @myrinesee2376 Год назад +23

    Hey Stephanie! I absolutely love what you are doing! Normalising normal beautiful bodies of all shapes and sizes!
    What I'm thinking lately is another great idea would be to make a video maybe about faces? Like i feel like certain face shapes or unrealisic expectations about how a human face has to look like are just as much promoted. I actually always loved my face but just lately started to wonder if I have not a prominent enough jaw line. I mean how crazy is that???!?!? I really don't want that fucking thought and am on a media detox because these influences are really really bad for a person!! I think many people could benefit from a video about unrealistic beauty standards for faces!

  • @ericagarfinkel6482
    @ericagarfinkel6482 Год назад +33

    Kylie Jenner admitted during a blip of the Toonight Show I believe that she lik wouldn’t let anyone see her unless she was carefully constructed by professionals (i.e. makeup hair team etc) so yea

    • @Rain_Reign
      @Rain_Reign Год назад +5

      Gosh that’s sad. They constructed their own prison but still…I can’t imagine this being a happy & healthy way to live.

  • @Meow-Meow501
    @Meow-Meow501 Год назад +11

    Now that the heroin sheik skinny is coming back in style, I feel for all these people that enhanced their bodies to become slim thick. Love how you put so much positivity out there Stephanie.❤

  • @PerryPictures
    @PerryPictures Год назад +5

    honestly the only part of curated influencers that bothered me was the perception it gave my partner about women. He was seeing all these gorgeous ladies oozing sex appeal from every angle and seeing me from all the other angles in real life just doesn't compare. Men following babes online really can destroy intimate relationships IRL. Thankfully we've gotten passed that season of ours lives but it did destroy my confidence and I'm still recovering internally.

  • @empresslunah
    @empresslunah Год назад +15

    Not trying to be disrespectful to anyone but Marilyn Monroe is still the only It girl to me . She had the beauty and the kind personality - just my option please don’t hate me 😅

    • @ash-lc8mv
      @ash-lc8mv Год назад +11

      her and audrey hepburn were the real "it" girls,totally agree with you

    • @empresslunah
      @empresslunah Год назад +1

      YES 💗

    • @empresslunah
      @empresslunah Год назад +2

      @@ash-lc8mv how could I forget her , she was a queen nn

    • @maefromspace_
      @maefromspace_ Год назад

      Fax🔥 4ever love Marilyn

    • @_VR_8
      @_VR_8 6 месяцев назад

      @@empresslunahalso brigitte bardot

  • @whims6278
    @whims6278 Год назад +4

    Ftr I struggle to gain weight and am about 105lbs and even I have cellulite (just without the booty and boobies as perks 😭) so it seems like it's just an everybody kind of thing

  • @presnyakovahelga3362
    @presnyakovahelga3362 Год назад +8

    I've always dreamed about rectangle body shape because of my hourglass figure. In real life being curvy does not usually mean having slim legs at the same time. It's always killed me until the moment then i started wach your videos, thank you🥰

  • @kristanricketts5028
    @kristanricketts5028 Год назад +10

    I appreciate your videos so much 💚 this young menopause body shift (I'm my 30s, had to have full hysto in my 20s) is working hard my Ana mind. This is such a good "pill" to argue it away for a bit :)

  • @trinasherry5899
    @trinasherry5899 7 месяцев назад +3

    I feel sorry for these younger generation they only care about what they look like and they want to be like these influencer and model that don't really look like what they on Instagrams these models and influencer should be ashamed of there self for what they are doing because they don't realize they are making these young girls have eating disorder and its sad its nice to have people like you that expose themselves so teenager don't develop eating disorder and they don't hate thereself so thank for this

  • @hannamattata3491
    @hannamattata3491 Год назад +51

    The difference in how ppl store fat blew my mind the first time I heard it. I had been so upset about my big fleshy upper arms, and suddenly the other shoe dropped and I was so much more relaxed. I know the Kibbe system isn't really reputable, but it still made me appreciate the diversity in body shapes (and fat deposits) more.

  • @HeyEm777
    @HeyEm777 Год назад +9

    Ok I love to know celebrities that throw so much bank in their bodies STILL HAVE cellulite. Thank you. Also I really commend you for being confident enough to show your “normal” beautiful self as another example. I mean 8 months pregnant and an absolute stunner 😍 you’re the best example for body goals and self love and you are… simply a badass 👊🏻🎤 I love and appreciate you, please don’t stop we all need reminders on the regular

  • @sashajean837
    @sashajean837 Год назад +26

    As a woman who just lived through her twenties, I cannot believe how much I've been scrutinized physically- strangers insisting i had plastic surgery when I haven't, strangers asking if I'm trans (I'm not, just very tall), men of all kinds commenting on my body every day, people assuming I was anorexic when I wasn't, people commenting on weight gain and loss, commenting on my clothes/makeup/hair/style like they are helping advise me.... I simply cannot imagine how horrible this would be amplified almost infinitely as a celebrity (and some like Gigi Hadid didn't really choose fame but were born into it). It is truly messed up and a reflection of a gross society.

    • @bryna7
      @bryna7 Год назад

      Poor celebs...

  • @renferal5290
    @renferal5290 Год назад +2

    All I care about is that I have a healthy body. These so-called Instagram models and IT girls do not impress me at all

  • @juns597
    @juns597 Год назад +16

    I love your vids. So well researched. 💯💯💯

  • @Sunnybias
    @Sunnybias Год назад +8

    More ppl should focus on videos like this which shows the reality of being human ❤️

  • @carolinelaronda4523
    @carolinelaronda4523 Год назад +14

    Your 8 months pregnancy back fat is really impressive ! You don’t even look pregnant from behind at all until you catch that little side pivot ! So cute ☺️

  • @allylovedance
    @allylovedance Год назад +12

    You are the voice of reason for our generation ❤I’m glad you made these

  • @palesasefurutshe6832
    @palesasefurutshe6832 Год назад +7

    This video make me to realise that my body is perfect the way it is. I won't lie I have the body type that these influencers fake?! The Hourglass shape. Am petite slim thick btw. I've been caught up in believing that am too fat! Quite conscious. There's nothing I can do to change my body that's what am starting to accept 😭🥰. Just to believe that someone could kill to have my body is surprising. But we all learn to accept our flaws. They don't really know the struggles of being sn Hourglass, we never find jeans that fit the waistline since it's small or get jeans that fits the butt lol.

  • @hannamattata3491
    @hannamattata3491 Год назад +8

    These videos give me such peace of mind. I literally watch you before I study, so I can shut down the voices and just go "My body is enough, now I'm gonna get that degree!". Love ya

  • @j15n5ll5
    @j15n5ll5 Год назад +9

    I show my daughter your videos. Thank you for shining light on the difference angles and lighting can make in photos, and letting young women see the natural shapes of "body goals" celebrities.

  • @Light-tc8xc
    @Light-tc8xc Год назад +7

    Content like this is something girls and younger women need to be exposed to regularly so they don’t forget the reality of all this.

    • @bryna7
      @bryna7 Год назад

      Boys too. They expect women and girls to look like this all the time.

  • @SibaroPercussion
    @SibaroPercussion 8 месяцев назад +2

    I am not a fan of Hailey Bieber at all but i thought she looked very pretty in her paparazzi photos.