Don’t abuse your power [MAID]

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  • Опубликовано: 15 дек 2021
  • this is probably the best fucking series I've seen all year. I'm so happy I was able to make something from this. I still have chills, it's so raw and important. Sorry, the quality sucks I still don't know how to render my videos on this new computer.
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Комментарии • 91

  • @brookealex1871
    @brookealex1871 Год назад +130

    This show helped heal my inner child. I watched my mom go through this and begged her to leave him since the age of 5. But financially she couldn’t support 5 kids on her own. She kicked ass and got us out of there and this show made me feel for her because she went through all of this

    • @Yoyobb409
      @Yoyobb409 4 месяца назад +5

      You’re not alone. Abuse is no joke…

  • @yabellparkin5576
    @yabellparkin5576 2 года назад +261

    My abuser called me boring, more than once. He used it as an excuse for his cheating. He used to say horrible things about me and I think that stuck with me. I never left because I always told myself that I would not find anyone who really loved me, I had no self-love and that was what had given him power over me
    , but now that time has passed, I really do not care that it can be boring because I like calm and quiet , I like who I am. thanks for this video

    • @VEKProduction
      @VEKProduction  2 года назад +30

      Im so sorry you went through this! I love this comment, youve come so far sweetie. Im proud of you

    • @JalisaHapp2000
      @JalisaHapp2000 Год назад +7

      You are so amazing ❤

  • @robynhames2568
    @robynhames2568 2 года назад +38

    They captures the feeling of depression so well when she sunk into the couch and felt invisible.

  • @andreamenter4028
    @andreamenter4028 2 месяца назад +10

    This tv show made me realize I was in one myself. I left him a few months later and am now 2 years free.
    I love this tv show so much, i dont know where id be without it.

  • @541Pro
    @541Pro 2 года назад +172

    This is a truly beautiful edit. You captured the feeling of the show while keeping your normal style. So glad you got around RUclips’s rules and managed to post again. Keep it up!

  • @911nmg
    @911nmg 2 года назад +65

    As someone who's been through this shit, this edit hits hard. Thanks for putting your effort on capturing the show!

  • @jessicacandy1471
    @jessicacandy1471 Год назад +22

    Danielle deserved so much better

  • @naamamannheim3473
    @naamamannheim3473 2 года назад +25

    I just loved this show, it brought so many emotions, and Alex is just a incredible character, she is po strong and powerful

  • @MsTinkerbelle87
    @MsTinkerbelle87 3 месяца назад +8

    0:35 this scene hit me hard, i wish just once my mother chose me and my safety 💔

  • @MellanClear
    @MellanClear 2 года назад +40

    Absolutely gorgeous as usual, so glad to see you vidding this show!

  • @TheOnlyLilBro
    @TheOnlyLilBro 2 года назад +59

    By far the best show of 2021 so far! And this edit is beyond beautiful! You captured the essence of the show perfectly and managed make yet another incredible video!

  • @peaachybri2005
    @peaachybri2005 2 года назад +14

    this made me finally watch maid and holy shit, the best thing i’ve seen all year!

  • @Mona-hw2pm
    @Mona-hw2pm 2 года назад +12

    This series is the best emotional series I wasn't even ready for😭❤️

  • @thelaranaz
    @thelaranaz 2 года назад +21

    This show is so special for me, as I've been through all those things myself. Thank you so much for this amazing edit💙

  • @jessicacrow3350
    @jessicacrow3350 Год назад +7

    Ive watched this about 20 times in the last month. You did a really good job. Makes me cry every time

  • @cvsmixsunflxwer8604
    @cvsmixsunflxwer8604 2 года назад +8

    I grabbed my earphones the second I saw this. This show + your editing = phenomenal

  • @leximoore8364
    @leximoore8364 2 года назад +6

    It’s crazy that the song choice matches the these of the show to me. Like you truly captured the essence of the series in this one 4 minute clip which is crazy awesome 🤩 job well done

  • @vblood_orchid1628
    @vblood_orchid1628 10 месяцев назад +8

    I have never seen a show so relatable to my life. Everything she has dealt with I have been through. Even now I am not with my abuser but I still feel like I'm in a huge pit. I have tried to dig my way out but things keep tumbling onto me. I have not given up yet. But I don't see myself doing this much longer

  • @MaddieBullock
    @MaddieBullock 2 года назад +28

    I love this series. It’s so good! I wanna read the book so bad!

  • @katerynatokar8520
    @katerynatokar8520 Год назад +1

    Great edit, watched this show 3 times already, better discovery of the last year for me! This show is special ❤️

  • @someone5502
    @someone5502 9 месяцев назад +9

    I'm 20 and I'm running away today. I've been abused by my mother my whole life. I dont know what comes next from here but leaving her is the first step I NEED to take to have control of my life.

    • @annag.9350
      @annag.9350 9 месяцев назад +1

      Hey, how are you doing? Sending you lots of love.❤

    • @someone5502
      @someone5502 9 месяцев назад

      @@annag.9350 I'm doing pretty good actually, taking it one step at a time

    • @Jennifer-xd1vy
      @Jennifer-xd1vy 4 месяца назад +1

      Hey are you good

    • @raylafure7431
      @raylafure7431 3 месяца назад +1

      Hey, are you okay?

    • @someone5502
      @someone5502 3 месяца назад +1

      @@raylafure7431 Not great honestly, just trying to survive but feeling lost

  • @AngyReynols
    @AngyReynols 2 года назад +7

    LOVE this show and your masterpiece too 💖

  • @Countryrebelempress
    @Countryrebelempress 2 года назад +12

    THE SAME THING HAPPENS GOING BACK TO A NARCISSIST

  • @annedio2828
    @annedio2828 4 месяца назад +1

    Ive been through this young child with my parents very traumatic. Watching this show hits hard to home. This show very good eye opening message for people that are going through domestic violence

  • @xGianniProdz
    @xGianniProdz 2 года назад +2

    A beautiful edit for a beautiful show! Love this so much :')

  • @fleuve4737
    @fleuve4737 Год назад +2

    Amazing edit! Thank u for this!💖

  • @lilliw3361
    @lilliw3361 Год назад +6

    Honestly kinda late to this video but like wow!! This is one of the best edits for any show I have ever seen... Keep up the good work!!

  • @kat6038
    @kat6038 Год назад +1

    my favourite series of all time.

  • @christinal.9534
    @christinal.9534 3 месяца назад

    Never watched the show but I love this edit. Definitely watching now, great song choice ❤

  • @tahraethestoryteller6079
    @tahraethestoryteller6079 2 года назад +5

    I wish you could see your work through our eyes
    So you know how great you and your work is 💖🤗

  • @lihikaveh6464
    @lihikaveh6464 Год назад +2

    This edit broke me I can't oml

  • @CountryCowboy008
    @CountryCowboy008 2 года назад +6

    I think “She Used To Be Mine” would be perfect for her too 😍

  • @brih9613
    @brih9613 2 года назад +2

    this is amazingggg

  • @oni8787
    @oni8787 Год назад +2

    I started this today and finished it today. it's so rare for me to do that. Even high rating K-drama bore me out. This is a very different series and I love how it influence me.

  • @ql688
    @ql688 8 месяцев назад +1

    ❤❤❤ i remember those blank stares for the first few months. Trying to figure out how i was going to make money to raise my two lil ones. I remember this harsh pains and secret cries.

  • @jacquinwimbish5103
    @jacquinwimbish5103 2 года назад +2

    First go around the mother & the little girl won my heart, when she messed up the 2nd time I felt like she the mother deserved it!!! Good series...

    • @juliacoelli3738
      @juliacoelli3738 Год назад +2

      Anyone coping with so much stress and whose self esteem has been messed up might be fooled by someone they once cared for promising to change. It happens to so many people, it's an impossible situation and many are killed by those who abuse them. She did her best

  • @luazultraducoes5840
    @luazultraducoes5840 2 года назад +2

    wordless 😭

  • @julia.38254
    @julia.38254 Год назад +1

    Lloré muchísimo cuando ella volvió al refugio 😭😭😭😭

  • @wanderinginthewoods_sam
    @wanderinginthewoods_sam 2 года назад +16

    Thank you for making this video. I'm going through a dark time right now due to my ex-boyfriend. He abused me for six years and it took me a long time to get away from him due to his manipulative tactics, gaslighting me, and telling me that nobody else could love me. He'd also drink and take his anger out on me, and even poured alcohol over my head one night. That's such a mind game they play with you. They'll always remind you that you'll have nobody if you end up leaving them. Another thing they do is try to get you to feel sorry for them, by crying, tell you their depressed, suffering and that it's your fault in some way. He did this many many times when he felt like I was close to leaving him. I spent so many years blaming myself and I've also lost friends. Even on social media, which I rarely log onto anymore, because I came forward with speaking out. People will always judge you. I don't speak about it anymore. I'm now with a therapist and progressing everything, learning to heal and love myself for once before I ever get into a relationship again. I watched this video and cried, but thanks for making this video. I think it'll help other survivors of abuse speak out. Please don't be silent. You are not to blame. "I been on this carpet. I've lost weeks of my life to this carpet." That scene got me.

    • @usmantariq872
      @usmantariq872 Год назад

      Don't give up keep going keep improving 👍🍀🍀

    • @leila7812
      @leila7812 Год назад

      You are so strong and incredible, I hope you know this and have a wonderful life

    • @Yoyobb409
      @Yoyobb409 4 месяца назад

      I’m so sorry. My mom went through this exact thing. My heart hurts for her every second and I really wish I could have done more.

  • @cat_fromctr6189
    @cat_fromctr6189 2 года назад +2

    I truly feel stuck

  • @lovelyrodriguez2190
    @lovelyrodriguez2190 14 часов назад

    "Why don't you like me anymore?"
    Can you take an educated guess?

  • @Puhdge
    @Puhdge 2 года назад

    Godt nyttår! (Hvis det er lov å si så sent i januar???) Håper ting går bra, sender deg kjærleik! 🥰

  • @Digmer
    @Digmer 7 месяцев назад

    Amber saw this and said yeah i could use this.

  • @Khadidjakhadidjamu8js
    @Khadidjakhadidjamu8js Год назад

    My favorite series love u alex and maddy 👸👧🏻💖

  • @sameraffe7452
    @sameraffe7452 2 года назад +5

    Omg the Cassie edit got taken down 😞 what was the name of the song in that edit?

  • @inactive120
    @inactive120 Год назад

    don't mind me, just going thru all my isfp 6w7 characters so I can see how I'm perceived 💗💓💗💓

  • @For-Ever-A-Blessing
    @For-Ever-A-Blessing Месяц назад

    Iam literally a reality of maid

  • @lihikaveh6464
    @lihikaveh6464 Год назад

    How do you save the clips?? I'm looking for then for ever

  • @pridelover6665
    @pridelover6665 Год назад +1

    Eternity I love love love love love to love love love love your love your💘

  • @amnaahmed7472
    @amnaahmed7472 2 года назад +1

    How to avoid copyright claims??
    Plz guide..

  • @franciscagomes185
    @franciscagomes185 2 года назад +3

    i'm watching this show. I love this song. Have you ever watched Cruel Summer? It's a great show you could edit. I'm watching this edit as soon as I finish the show. Love you♥️

  • @MondoBeno
    @MondoBeno 8 месяцев назад +1

    Nate wasn't really fair to her. He took her in because he wanted to sleep with her. But she wasn't being responsible either. She didn't put her foot down when ex was rude to him, and she should've called to let him know she'd be coming back late.

    • @Exquisite11
      @Exquisite11 6 месяцев назад

      Nate really loved her don’t say that. It’s unfair for her to be with her ex while his baby sitting her kid and accommodating her

    • @surette2012
      @surette2012 3 месяца назад

      @@Exquisite11not excusing anything more so just explaining, but these guys really do swoop in during these tumultuous overlaps and transitions during these women’s lives. These guys just get that ‘I’m gonna save her and she’s gonna owe me so bad.’ fantasies stuck in their heads.
      It was a vulnerable time, she is trying to shake off a trauma bond with her abuser. What should be an interim of healing and getting her on her feet is this Ill timed courtship. expectation of some transaction for his kindness and aid. I won’t dismiss she was rude or confused at times and it can look a certain way seeing a pining guy babysit for the girl he likes while she’s still dealing with her ex .
      Whenever she went to her ex it wasn’t like this romantic escapade, it was scary and sad. Her dissociating and just falling back into bad habit. It’s not a random fact that it takes multiple tries for people to gets away from manipulative abuse.
      If he had any realism in his head he would not expect a relationship in that bubble of time.
      Many irl women Try to date while being stalked/having a retraining order on the ex.
      They go through a lot of shame and guilt by trying to bring someone else to their "drama".
      Idk I just think it’s not a cut and dry he good and she bad situation. Lot of nuance.
      The whole drama of it all is no one is perfect here and there’s a lot of fear, avoidance, and resentment bubbling in her. She’s in survival mode and people get selfish in that state, especially if a kid is in the mix.

  • @tiffanymadison6606
    @tiffanymadison6606 2 года назад

    Back song?

  • @frenchenglish8918
    @frenchenglish8918 2 года назад

    Movie name please !!

    • @alainag744
      @alainag744 2 года назад +1

      It’s a tv show it’s called Maid

  • @Pinshes_Shishotas
    @Pinshes_Shishotas 2 года назад

    My girlfriend is a nympho. Is that considered abuse?? Im all dried up and cant say no cause she can cheat on me. Im 19yrs old and shes 20.

    • @rebecamoreira4900
      @rebecamoreira4900 2 года назад +4

      You deserve something better than this. You are young you totally can find someone that treat you better

  • @__Pars__
    @__Pars__ 2 года назад +1

    why don't you upload videos like before ?

    • @VEKProduction
      @VEKProduction  2 года назад +1

      RUclips deletes almost all my videos

    • @__Pars__
      @__Pars__ 2 года назад

      @@VEKProduction why?

    • @__Pars__
      @__Pars__ 2 года назад

      @@VEKProduction
      Is it because of copyright?

    • @__Pars__
      @__Pars__ 2 года назад

      @@VEKProduction Jeg synes du er veldig vellykket

    • @VEKProduction
      @VEKProduction  2 года назад +1

      @@__Pars__ Nei, Eller jo litt siden yt ikkr liker at jeg lager videoer av ekte problemer, og det er det jeg elsker å gjøre

  • @MissB-fg1kd
    @MissB-fg1kd 2 года назад

    Sean 🥵🥵🥵🥵

  • @redminote5pro399
    @redminote5pro399 Год назад

    Beautiful N Proud Western Society 😅😂