I agree, give them coal and either give the presents to you either kids or slowly give them the gifts you bought for them throughout the year for improvement
@@cursedglingz702 I noticed that you used “😭” in your comment. Just wanted to say, don’t give up anything in your life. I don’t know what you’re going through but I’m always here to help you through.
I wouldn't say cancel christmas, but do the 'ole "well, Santa told me that you were on the naughty list this year so he didn't give you any presents this year"
Honestly agree with the mom who cancelled christmas, parents spoil and pamper their kids farrrr to much these days and its partly why we have so many brats these days.
Well, the whole point of Christmas is that santa Claus won't give you presents if you're bad, if anything, we've been going way too light on that principal nowadays
I remember 1 year my 11-year old older brother got in huge trouble for throwing rocks at a neighbor’s house and breaking their windows. Needless to say, for Christmas, he got a bag of coal as his present 😂.
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Christmas always gets “cancelled” every year somehow
They can’t because of Gen Alpha like you know like skibidi toilet blame everybody even parents too they shouldn’t give iPad that’s the reason edit: I am 11 years old and I hate my life because all of this and five year old always bad things but I had to same problem is little kids can’t control because they don’t know what they doing wrong I think so or not and tell me did I spell wrong
Instead of complaining, those moms should teach their kids how to behave, that’s the only problem here. Edit: guys quit arguing it really isnt that deep 💀
Five year olds don't get 54 page emails home. She's a bad mother of her child is acting that bad at five years old, that baby is still in daycare, not even school so where tf she learning to act bad enough to have 54 page letter sent home? Her mother! I threatened three girls and incited violence in middle school cause they kept bullying the two black girls who sat at my table and I didn't even get a letter that long, and those girls called the police on me💀 this is a bad parent, not a bad child.
@@Ahrucgan Which is exactly when you want to nip that behavior in the bud. Not all behavior can be blamed on the parents either (and I am childless so I am not looking to defend myself or anything) but could just be a case of 'child copies other child'. Which reiterates my point - regardless of who-whats, that behavior needs to be nipped in the bud asap. Cancelling Christmas seems like a good place to start.
I totally agree with that. If kids are going to be disrespectful, and ungrateful after you use your HARD EARNED MONEY that you worked your butt off for to buy them a really nice gift, and they react in a negative way, then, yes. Maybe they don’t deserve Christmas.
My mom "canceled" Christmas for me and my sisters one year, because we kept being dishonest, disobeying her, and being very rude. We all thought she was joking, until that morning when we woke up and there wasn't a single present at all. No Christmas music playing, no nothing. It really made us realize the gravity of our actions, and it definitely worked. So I completely agree with what the parents are doing here.
Idk if the child is 8+ then yah cancel it for them but if their under dont cancell it for them tell them “Santa said you were very bad this year and very naughty so Santa didn’t make you a gift!!” Just to keep their illusion
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@timmyfuntime yeah, I mean I'm sure these parents don't mean that they can't like eat dinner with the family, enjoy the festivities, it most likely means no presents.
@ yeah I know but to a literal FIVE year old taking presents away would ruin their day just take Santa’s presents away not your presents that shows you really don’t care
Kids need to learn the hard way that when they act like little spoiled brats, they get nothing. My friends and I had this happen many times as kids when we ruined things around the house or destroyed something that our parents couldn’t replace and we knew better. Sometimes kids need to know who’s in charge and that is the parents. Being your kids’ “friend” or “pal” is never gonna work out. Besides, you chose the behaviour, you chose the consequences.
I agree. Just get tf off TikTok and parent your child instead. I mean, all kids are going to push some boundaries, but if they're so bad that they are "canceling Christmas," maybe they should look in the mirror rather than the phone camera.
Maybe I haven’t scrolled far enough, but I don’t see a lot of people bringing this up: if your kids are constantly misbehaving that is at least a good percent your fault as a parent. I understand the concept of this as punishment however, a lot of this seems to not be punishment to teach a lesson but punishment out of spite. If you were upset with your kids because they keep misbehaving, maybe parent them to not do that. At least what I’ve seen a lot of parents haven’t been parenting and then just randomly snap at their kids for acting the way that they basically taught them was OK. I know this isn’t all parents, i’m aware that there are other situations, however, this is a good amount of the ones I interact with.
I agree. My sister is like this to a certain degree...let's her kids get away with stuff and then when it inevitably leads to bad behavior she goes straight to the worst punishment. It should be constant smaller punishments in the moment that they are needed and that fit the crime.
Agree Christmas isn’t all about gifts and gift giving has gotten way out of hand . Christmas should be about memories and coming together with the ones you love
Canceling Christmas is a little too much. Why can’t the mom just punish her in a more mature way by teaching her how to be more respectful towards others. I swear some parents don’t know how to properly punish their kids
It’s not a punishment to teach them to be respectful. A punishment is more along the lines of losing a privilege, having to do extra chores, being grounded, etc. They do go hand in hand, though. I probably wouldn’t have cancelled Christmas, but I would’ve made her write a letter apologizing. Also maybe apologize to the teacher in front of the class to show other kids her behavior was unacceptable.
@corrinnelindsey6568 not really too much but okay. Actions have consequences, and if a kid is behaving badly enough to the point where you have to threaten to cancel Christmas, then maybe the kid will learn "Hey, I should probably change up my act". Sometimes teaching them doesn't actually work. You can do everything right and still have disrespectful kids.
@@Me5219-x1o she isnt learning respect, shes just learning, oh if i behave bad then I dont get christmas, her mom needs to teach her and help her do better, not saying consequences arent allowed because they defo are but I can bet 100% after christmas she didnt do anything to actually teach her to act better cuz if you didnt read shes 5, FIVE YEARS OLD, I dont even remember what life was like when I was 5, shes still learning and growing, and its clear where she learns it from
I agree with the mom the presents go to the good kids what do you think the naughty and nice list are and i think when you don’t care about what your kids does that means you don’t love them because who lets their loved one get away with bad stuff
Stfu no it’s not, it’s just u that is depressed, if u are depressed then no offense. Christmas isn’t losing its spirit, I’m with my family and having time with them as we speak
Oh, I agree and I’m not a parent. My sisters call me about my nieces and nephews and how they have been treating them. I felt like I shouldn’t even get them present but still their moms and got them gifts, but I totally agree with this.
I noticed that you used “😭” in your comment. Just wanted to say, don’t give up anything in your life. I don’t know what you’re going through but I’m always here to help you through.
@KoleKady huh. I used the cry emoji because imagine thinking your getting present for Christmas But no you don't get any presents because you were being disrespectful.
Good on the mom, can’t let your kid think they can act however they want to and still get what they want as a reward for bad behaviour, we need more parents like this, none of that gentle parenting BS that doesn’t work
A lot of teachers are quitting because of children being disrespectful. We literally can’t keep teachers. My friend is a teacher and where he lives they practically beg anyone to teach because no one wants to deal with these kids anymore. There have been mean teachers since the beginning of learning but these days with permissive parenting these kids are out of control.
I actually agree, like so many kids these days need a realty check 🤦🏻 like no hate but those spoiled sephora kids 😭 they need to discover the real world tha shit doesnt come easy to them, when i was a kid I HAD A JOB!! And bought my own clothes, makeup etc 😔🙂↔️🙏🏻
exactly. people always claim that it doesn’t feel like Christmas anymore and that it doesn’t hit the same. Well you’re growing up. So obviously it won’t be the same, and won’t have that same magic spark to it that it once had
Reminds of this scene in The Office Michael: I’d like everybody’s attention. Christmas is cancelled. Stanley: You can’t cancel a holiday. Michael: Keep it up Stanley and you’ll lose New Year’s. Stanley: What’s that mean? Michael: Jim, take New Year’s away from Stanley.
As a Psychology major, i can say that this is known as negative punishment, which is to take something away from a child in the likelihood of decreasing the negative behavior. While it can be effective to an extent, abuse of negative punishment can cause frustration and do the opposite of what you want to do.
my 5 year old is being a brat time to take away her presents that I already bought but my oldest is still allowed to celebrate.just tell them to behave after Christmas instead of souring their Christmas memory
Christmas was my favorite holiday growing up, and that would devastate me if my mom canceled it. Also the kid won’t understand why YOU canceled Christmas but not Santa.
I absolutely HATE when people say things like "They're just a little kid" whenever a child is bad behaving, What does that even mean? Being a kid doesn't mean that you don't have learn, especially kids need to learn things like well manners while they're still little, because a lot times how mannered we learned to be is how mannered we'll be once we are older.
For those who are disappointed in Maddie’s moms decision of cancelling Christmas, you have to understand that when a teacher call a parent because of their child’s behavior, that can cause the teacher to think the child is getting that behavior from their parents. So Maddie’s behavior in school reflects on her family. just needed to get that off my mind. Merry Christmas 🎄
The children learn from the parents, they are the reason they are disrespectful and rude. Blame the parents. Good for them taking it away from them tho..
You haven’t learned anything at all it isn’t about the gift is about the people you are with on Christmas, she is 5 who doesn’t know better, kids learn from us and how we act and behave, the mom should talk to her calmly on why she behaved the way she did, canceling Christmas doesn’t solve anything,
I noticed that you used “😭” in your comment. Just wanted to say, don’t give up anything in your life. I don’t know what you’re going through but I’m always here to help you through.
@Movieshadoethehedgehogofficalits a daycare not school that's why. She's five getting huge notes written home…sounds like the teachers are suspecting that child’s home life isn't very good, no teachers want to sit and write that much so there's obviously a lot of concern for the child. She's also five years old, all her behavior has been learned from the environment she is surrounded by
These drastic measures should be the final straw to bad kids. Parents need to strip kids back to basics because its not normal for a 5 year old to get to this point... Major punishments should had been put into place and no child should sabotage and ruin the family spirit.
It’s called discipline, I know everyone’s parents are different but I do know that it’s unacceptable to disrespect an adult, so Merry Christmas and behave
This is kinda understandable. Christmas PRESENTS are meant to be for GOOD kids, giving them presents and stuff will show them they will get whatever they want even if they are bad. while it is kinda far for completely cancelling christmas, plus also it meant to be more that just presents, its meant to be with family and (for religious people) loving God. somethin my parents did was lose a present (or more) depending on what i did. EXAMPLE: i yell at them and refuse to do chores/listen, i lose a present
The whole point of Christmas is if you're good you get rewarded and if you're not you get nada in my opinion i believe she is doing the right thing and should be replicated for other misbehaving and disrespectful kids
@@Wysticalism i really doubt shes rewarding her for existing, she was acting up before and she can only learn that behaviour from the people around her, thats what yall dont understand, children arent born bad, and just based on the moms decision I can tell she didnt raise her well enough, for one for her to act that way at school and she didnt realize till a teacher had to tell her... that you dont know how you own child acts is crazy work to me, and shes only 5 too so she cleary isnt gonna know better, she can probably still barely read.
The mother is not canceling Christmas for the whole family just her 5 year old daughter. I think it’s a great teaching moment for her daughter to respect and learn to appreciate her family. Christmas it’s not about presents 🎁 it’s about to be in the present! Teaching, loving and caring!
people who are saying the mom is taking it too far are delusional and soft. this is why we have disrespectful mannerless children and teens. parents need to understand that if a child is not on the right path you need to correct them no matter how much it may hurt to do so, that is YOUR JOB.
The parents should've grown a pair looooooong before Christmas, and then this wouldn't have happened in the first place. I've never seen a truly good parent have to 'cancel' Christmas. Why? Because they shaped up their child's behavior from the very beginning, so they never had to do this! Just because these parents are taking drastic measures to discipline in the moment such as this, doesn't necessarily mean it's a good parenting move...
Christmas like all holidays are a pleasure that no one will die from not experiencing. If you can’t behave yourself, then parents absolutely should take it away. One of the only few rule to Christmas is be good, if you’re bad, you get nothing. She can try again next year, I am all for punishing bad behavior.
You know what, it’s good to see parents taking responsibility for their children’s bad behavior, rather than just blaming the other adults in their lives.
Have… have Gen Z parents never heard of coal? I’m genuinely asking. That’s literally part of Santa’s Mythos as it is for modern Christmas. The kids on the nice list get presents and the kids on the naughty list get coal. This is basic Christmas knowledge.
The other thing is that you’re not always gonna have Christmas forever because I used to be a homeless person. I didn’t begin to celebrate Christmas till I was 32 when I finally worked and got a job at McDonald’s and I’m doing better right now. Since I’ve got enough money from working at McDonald’s to try and go to law school in the university and now I’m a lawyer but specifically to the mom I think she’s doing the right and bad thing cause you’re not always gonna have Christmas forever because at one point, you’re gonna get depressed you’re gonna get drunk mad sad and just basically have a depressing Christmas.
I so agree with this they will be mad at the time but with time and if they have kids the kid will realize not to be a brat. I had my birthday cancelled because I had bad grades, bad attitude and walked all over my parents (sorry mom and dad) cancelled my birthday party and only received one gift because it was unreturnable. This will help kids realize not to act like a brat.
@ just depends on how strict you go. Strict parents raise sneaky children, soft parents raise spoiled children. Good parents raise mannered children (most of the time). See the correlation? Parenting makes the kid, not the other way around.
@@DrizzycheeseOnce a kid is older, they form their own personality and get influenced by other media and kids. A 13 year olds parents can say to their kid not to smoke but they'll do it anyways because it is cool. Can't fix ignorance sometimes
@@bakinibottom9635 no its 100% their fault, you are supposed to monitor every aspect of ur childs life so theyre guided the right path, especially during that age, shes 5, she probably cant even read or make a full sentence.
My take on this is: I get not wanting to reward your kids for bad behavior.... HOWEVER, I find it ridiculous that out of the 365 days, Christmas is the one time they're willing to discipline their kids. They're disrespectful for a reason, they haven't been disciplined at all. Here's my solution... Give them their Christmas, but just put coal in their stocking, and give them coal as a Christmas present. BOOM! Lesson learned!
This says more about the moms then the kids. If you're kid is a disrespectful monster, it's their fault. Kids don't magically become little monsters unless the parents encourage it or excuse bad behaviors.
If my teacher had called my parents at 5 AM when I was five years old to tell them that I wouldn’t be behaving class I wouldn’t be able to sit down to this day. My ass would still hurt and I’m 47.
Sorry but no matter how ungrateful you are, no one deserves no Christmas! I don’t want to be that person, but growing up, I looked forward to Christmas every year. Even more than my birthday. To take it away is just fucked up.
Then maybe teach your kids to be grateful. Teach them to be grateful even for the the simplest things. Having a bed to sleep on every night, having a roof over their head, having clothes to wear, having food on the table. Basic necessities that not every child is fortunate to have. And if they’re still ungrateful, then they’re not getting anything for Christmas. Simple as that
nah you’re crazy. if my child is ungrateful, then they’ll just get a stocking full of coal for Christmas. It’s also part of teaching them about the real world. If you misbehave, act up, or straight up ungrateful, then you won’t get anything
Wow this is kinda like me my mom told my sister “who said you were getting presents?” Because of how disrespectful she is she even gave my mom a breakdown and I was there to comfort there i also asked my mom to not get me any presents for Christmas because I want her to save up for my birthday I really love her because I got lucky for having a good mom.
Of course people would be upset and say it’s “too far”, do we not know the demographic of TikTok, it’s literally kids. In the end it’s just gifts, like it’s not that deep, just behave better yk
Fr. Honestly this'll be a good lesson for those kids of "you do bad things, bad things happen". People are honestly spineless if they think it's too far for a parent to cancel a holiday. There's plenty of other Christmases.
Okay ppl that support that little girl is the reasons more and more children are so spoiled. Go mom! Gentle parenting is not coddling your kid when they did something bad, its telling them that its bad and theres consequences for that.
you dont understand "gentle" parenting, gentle parenting is the "right" parenting, meaning making the right decisions for them when issues come up. A more realistic and effective method she could have took was: Dont reward her, shes right with this, but, also, tell her why this is happening, how she can change and do better, and maybe for herself she can actually be more involved cuz she didnt even know her children was acting up until a teacher had to call and tell her, note, thats not the teachers job, they teach and educate them, parents actually nurse them and if shes being mean to others in her class shes not learning that from anybody but her.
This is completely unfair to the little girl, because her behavior isn’t a reflection on herself, it’s a reflection on the mother/father or both on how they raised her, so if anything these parents shouldn’t be getting a Christmas, because as the old saying goes there is no such thing as a bad student (kid) only a bad teacher (parent).
Just tell them Santa ain't real and then cancell their christmas that's what my mom would do. Like um be respectful like some kids don't even get gifts or trees.😅 I would agree with these moms like they're doing a great job at doing this.
Seriously... I love this mom! Enough with raising little demons! What's the worst thing that could happen? The little girl learns that respect will go a long way? Sounds like a win to me!
Same. I was SPED as a child and I remember some bad days with my SPED teachers that I feel bad about now. Maybe this child is undiagnosed with something. Or who knows, she could simply just be a little shit with only her mother to blame.
The point is, THE PARENTS ARE THE REASON THE KIDS ACT SO HORRIBLY. I stand with this mother. It's too expensive and too hard to afford gifts as it is. It's a mix of parents spoiling and gentle parenting. Gentle parenting had destroyed kids. Parents my advice. As a former nanny. STOP TOLERATING BAD BEHAVIOUR AND ABUSIVE BEHAVIOUR. OR A BETTER IDEA. Set boundaries! I'm genuinely sick of hearing mom's complaints. When they play a part in that behaviour. I stand with this mom's decision. It'll teach her kid the hard way to be respectful. Raise your kids right, stop spoiling them, stop gentle parenting, and maybe get counselling. Because it's a double-edged sword. A cause and effect situation.
gentle parenting isn't letting your kids do whatever they want, it's teaching them to be respectful and wants good and bad without beating them with belts and constantly yelling at them for making mistakes
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Just give the bad kids coal instead. It's a bad kid classic.
Bonus points if it’s hot coal
Yeah lol
Like fr, now they gotta wait 365 days which they consider decades because of their attention span
I agree, give them coal and either give the presents to you either kids or slowly give them the gifts you bought for them throughout the year for improvement
@@user-w5y-t1vbro wtf 😭
Cancelling Christmas ❌
No presents ✅
literally 😭
Give them coal. Then it’s still keeping the energy of the holidays 🫠
Or give them coal
@@emilyfloof728yess my parents did that to me but still gave me my presents after I apologized (at least the coal was delicious chocolate)
@@cursedglingz702 I noticed that you used “😭” in your comment. Just wanted to say, don’t give up anything in your life. I don’t know what you’re going through but I’m always here to help you through.
I wouldn't say cancel christmas, but do the 'ole "well, Santa told me that you were on the naughty list this year so he didn't give you any presents this year"
Bag of coal!! She deserves a bag of coal, the joy of a gift until she opens it.
I was gonna say the same thing because that’s what my parents told me when i was younger then now
Or give her coal or do what some Christmas traditions have the Krampus treatment
@Skeletal-Dude yea i forgot to add the coal idea
Kids aren't going to believe that now 😭😭
Honestly agree with the mom who cancelled christmas, parents spoil and pamper their kids farrrr to much these days and its partly why we have so many brats these days.
There a missing ingredient here. The father. They get what they allow in the situation they create
Just give her coal
Okay unc
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@@bakinibottom9635 its a bo, and your probobly one too
Well, the whole point of Christmas is that santa Claus won't give you presents if you're bad, if anything, we've been going way too light on that principal nowadays
Bro that’s not the point of Christmas.😂
@HipQuasar I'm talking about the whole Santa Claus perspective, I don't care about the religious part, given that isn't the point of the video
@@Mike-e4dlow-key all I hear outta you is just.. FACTS
@Mike-e4d I honestly agree with you, most people probably don't do Christmas for the religious part, but the Santa Claus thing
Real
I remember 1 year my 11-year old older brother got in huge trouble for throwing rocks at a neighbor’s house and breaking their windows. Needless to say, for Christmas, he got a bag of coal as his present 😂.
They gave him more ammo
@@Box_k1nglol😂
If he's a smart kid he will make a diamond
Ngl if I got that for Christmas when I was a kid I would've sold it to a power plant to get money and buy candy 😂
Unless you were born in 1900, lived within a one day horse ride of said facility, and had a substantial amount of it... then I'm afraid that musing of yours would have been highly improbable.
Christmas always gets “cancelled” every year somehow
And yet the parents aren’t to blame for there child’s behavior
27 seconds ago😮
I mean they can just put coal in the stocking
Easter egg?
blame today’s cancel culture. this wasn’t even a problem 20 years ago
Children's bad behaviour is parents failure to teach.
Not always
for sure. this is most likely happening because the guardian of the child didn’t teach discipline
Stop Spoiling them and teach them manners😡👍
They can’t because of Gen Alpha like you know like skibidi toilet blame everybody even parents too they shouldn’t give iPad that’s the reason edit: I am 11 years old and I hate my life because all of this and five year old always bad things but I had to same problem is little kids can’t control because they don’t know what they doing wrong I think so or not and tell me did I spell wrong
@@Idkplayzz2025what the hell are you saying kid
@idkplayzz2025 that’s true☹️
Preach brother preach
It's definitely the parents' fault for enabling that behavior.
Instead of complaining, those moms should teach their kids how to behave, that’s the only problem here.
Edit: guys quit arguing it really isnt that deep 💀
They can still complain and also cancel Christmas… that’s literally the lesson they’re teaching their kids to act right… you know that right??
@@corimoon3360Cancelling Christmas isn’t how you do it. We all know what Santa gives naughty kids right?
@@Mgameing123they’re still getting something lol 😭
@@Eternalsnshine What kid wants coal??
@@Mgameing123 calls krampus fr
Five is old enough to respect your teacher. Good on the mom.
Five year olds don't get 54 page emails home. She's a bad mother of her child is acting that bad at five years old, that baby is still in daycare, not even school so where tf she learning to act bad enough to have 54 page letter sent home? Her mother! I threatened three girls and incited violence in middle school cause they kept bullying the two black girls who sat at my table and I didn't even get a letter that long, and those girls called the police on me💀 this is a bad parent, not a bad child.
@@Ahrucgan Which is exactly when you want to nip that behavior in the bud. Not all behavior can be blamed on the parents either (and I am childless so I am not looking to defend myself or anything) but could just be a case of 'child copies other child'. Which reiterates my point - regardless of who-whats, that behavior needs to be nipped in the bud asap. Cancelling Christmas seems like a good place to start.
No? The kid is still in kindergarten, they hardly know subtraction
@@Ahrucganholy crap, it wasn't actually 50 pages, it was a hyperbole
@@mateoeche88 lol do you really think a five year old kid cannot be respectful?
I totally agree with that. If kids are going to be disrespectful, and ungrateful after you use your HARD EARNED MONEY that you worked your butt off for to buy them a really nice gift, and they react in a negative way, then, yes. Maybe they don’t deserve Christmas.
One of them is 5
Blah blah blah
@@mateoeche88 then they needa get they’re act together
My mom "canceled" Christmas for me and my sisters one year, because we kept being dishonest, disobeying her, and being very rude. We all thought she was joking, until that morning when we woke up and there wasn't a single present at all. No Christmas music playing, no nothing. It really made us realize the gravity of our actions, and it definitely worked. So I completely agree with what the parents are doing here.
Idk if the child is 8+ then yah cancel it for them but if their under dont cancell it for them tell them “Santa said you were very bad this year and very naughty so Santa didn’t make you a gift!!” Just to keep their illusion
I be good and all I got was clothes
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@wonderingstxrs We should publicly shame your rude mother for cancelling Christmas
@@rayganparksmitchell who the hell is "we" 😭
Literally that's the entire concept of the naughty and nice list man. Completely valid
But if they’re on the naughty list, the rule is they don’t cancel Christmas they give them
“Un lump of coal”
@timmyfuntime yeah, I mean I'm sure these parents don't mean that they can't like eat dinner with the family, enjoy the festivities, it most likely means no presents.
@@gummyboi7544 yeah but no presents at all? that’s a bad move I would remember that when my parents wanted to spend Christmas with me if I was her
@R0TT3N_MUSHR00MS christmas is more than presents and there is still ways to make it a fun and engaging day outside of that.
@ yeah I know but to a literal FIVE year old taking presents away would ruin their day just take Santa’s presents away not your presents that shows you really don’t care
Kids need to learn the hard way that when they act like little spoiled brats, they get nothing.
My friends and I had this happen many times as kids when we ruined things around the house or destroyed something that our parents couldn’t replace and we knew better.
Sometimes kids need to know who’s in charge and that is the parents. Being your kids’ “friend” or “pal” is never gonna work out.
Besides, you chose the behaviour, you chose the consequences.
@Dripzz144you must’ve got your Christmas cancelled lol
@@Nobody-me2xkYeah? When he/she was a kid, they got disciplined.
@@Nobody-me2xknah bro must’ve got too much coal to act like this
@ frrrr
Maybe the parents is not doing parent job your logic is stupid the parents don't teach the child to behave properly
❌️ Cancel Christmas
✅️ Coal for Christmas
It's the parents fault 🤷♂️ you aren't born disrespectful you are taught it.
exactly, children aren't born with their disrespectful attitude
That’s why there’s a tradition to give naughty kids coal…not canceling Christmas
Why would you go out of your way to buy coal when you can just give nothing?
Everyone saids this but I’ve never actually seen anyone get coal
@@sleepjay6615Coal is easy to buy in the supermarket. It’s very clever because the child thinks it’s Santa who is telling them they are naughty.
@ to keep the tradition alive?
@@CJGJprods that’s because most parents spoil their kids no matter what, which is what leads us to the problem shown in the video
Everything is getting "Cancelled." Stop venting your frustrations on social media. If you cancel Christmas keep it private
I dont think its that big a deal
I agree. Just get tf off TikTok and parent your child instead. I mean, all kids are going to push some boundaries, but if they're so bad that they are "canceling Christmas," maybe they should look in the mirror rather than the phone camera.
RIGHT
LIKE IS IT NECESARY TO GO ON TIKTOK AND SAY "oH mY 5 YEAR OLD iS BeHaViNg BaDlY
Maybe I haven’t scrolled far enough, but I don’t see a lot of people bringing this up: if your kids are constantly misbehaving that is at least a good percent your fault as a parent. I understand the concept of this as punishment however, a lot of this seems to not be punishment to teach a lesson but punishment out of spite. If you were upset with your kids because they keep misbehaving, maybe parent them to not do that. At least what I’ve seen a lot of parents haven’t been parenting and then just randomly snap at their kids for acting the way that they basically taught them was OK. I know this isn’t all parents, i’m aware that there are other situations, however, this is a good amount of the ones I interact with.
I agree. My sister is like this to a certain degree...let's her kids get away with stuff and then when it inevitably leads to bad behavior she goes straight to the worst punishment. It should be constant smaller punishments in the moment that they are needed and that fit the crime.
Agree Christmas isn’t all about gifts and gift giving has gotten way out of hand . Christmas should be about memories and coming together with the ones you love
Canceling Christmas is a little too much. Why can’t the mom just punish her in a more mature way by teaching her how to be more respectful towards others. I swear some parents don’t know how to properly punish their kids
It’s away s the 🖤 moms who do this
It’s not a punishment to teach them to be respectful. A punishment is more along the lines of losing a privilege, having to do extra chores, being grounded, etc. They do go hand in hand, though. I probably wouldn’t have cancelled Christmas, but I would’ve made her write a letter apologizing. Also maybe apologize to the teacher in front of the class to show other kids her behavior was unacceptable.
@corrinnelindsey6568 not really too much but okay. Actions have consequences, and if a kid is behaving badly enough to the point where you have to threaten to cancel Christmas, then maybe the kid will learn "Hey, I should probably change up my act". Sometimes teaching them doesn't actually work. You can do everything right and still have disrespectful kids.
Just give em some coal and the job is done 😂
@@Me5219-x1o she isnt learning respect, shes just learning, oh if i behave bad then I dont get christmas, her mom needs to teach her and help her do better, not saying consequences arent allowed because they defo are but I can bet 100% after christmas she didnt do anything to actually teach her to act better cuz if you didnt read shes 5, FIVE YEARS OLD, I dont even remember what life was like when I was 5, shes still learning and growing, and its clear where she learns it from
Raise and Love them ❎
Cancell Christmas ✅
Raising and loving them doesn’t always fix bad behavior discipline is still needed
That first one doesn’t sound very realistic. You can be a warm trying parent and have disrespectful children
You do relise that's how Christmas works if your only good that's why theres a nice and good list. If your bad you get coal bozo
Agree this is insane
I agree with the mom the presents go to the good kids what do you think the naughty and nice list are and i think when you don’t care about what your kids does that means you don’t love them because who lets their loved one get away with bad stuff
I mean, the punishment is fair, behave bad you don't get presents, the wording is just stupid lmao
This is just depressing that Christmas has seemingly lost its spirit 😢😮💨
it kind if is tho, the calendar app is what reminded me it was Christmas Eve today, not really feeling the Xmas spirit this year 😢
@@dreamingofsaturn7 yeah lately just everything in general seems more dull 😢
Stfu no it’s not, it’s just u that is depressed, if u are depressed then no offense. Christmas isn’t losing its spirit, I’m with my family and having time with them as we speak
@@Sol_a_Solyou’re just growing up
@@dreamingofsaturn7me too.
Oh, I agree and I’m not a parent. My sisters call me about my nieces and nephews and how they have been treating them. I felt like I shouldn’t even get them present but still their moms and got them gifts, but I totally agree with this.
These kids really got the if you don't behave for Christmas, santa is not going to give you presents or a bag of rock treatment 🙏🙏💀💀😭😭
I noticed that you used “😭” in your comment. Just wanted to say, don’t give up anything in your life. I don’t know what you’re going through but I’m always here to help you through.
@KoleKady huh. I used the cry emoji because imagine thinking your getting present for Christmas
But no you don't get any presents because you were being disrespectful.
@@Fluff_082 it's a bot
@@KoleKadyDUDE
Good on the mom, can’t let your kid think they can act however they want to and still get what they want as a reward for bad behaviour, we need more parents like this, none of that gentle parenting BS that doesn’t work
Back in my day our parents didn’t cancel Christmas, Santa would just bring us a box of fucking coal😂😂😂
Okay but remember, teachers aren’t always nice, kids can disrespect them for certain reasons. Respect is earned, not expected.
A lot of teachers are quitting because of children being disrespectful. We literally can’t keep teachers. My friend is a teacher and where he lives they practically beg anyone to teach because no one wants to deal with these kids anymore. There have been mean teachers since the beginning of learning but these days with permissive parenting these kids are out of control.
Yes, that is wrong. But what I’m saying is, some rude teachers shouldn’t be respected. Not all, just some
Canceling CHIRSTMAS ❌
GETTING AN ASS WHOOPINGS 👍
hmmmmmmmmmm meh
I actually agree, like so many kids these days need a realty check 🤦🏻 like no hate but those spoiled sephora kids 😭 they need to discover the real world tha shit doesnt come easy to them, when i was a kid I HAD A JOB!! And bought my own clothes, makeup etc 😔🙂↔️🙏🏻
Once you're an adult Christmas isn't like how it used to be.
exactly. people always claim that it doesn’t feel like Christmas anymore and that it doesn’t hit the same. Well you’re growing up. So obviously it won’t be the same, and won’t have that same magic spark to it that it once had
Real. I'm just feeling indifferent now.
Christmas is what you make it. Especially once you have kids of your own.
A lot of people act like Christmas is essential for a good childhood, many people straight up don’t celebrate it.
Reminds of this scene in The Office
Michael: I’d like everybody’s attention. Christmas is cancelled.
Stanley: You can’t cancel a holiday.
Michael: Keep it up Stanley and you’ll lose New Year’s.
Stanley: What’s that mean?
Michael: Jim, take New Year’s away from Stanley.
As a Psychology major, i can say that this is known as negative punishment, which is to take something away from a child in the likelihood of decreasing the negative behavior. While it can be effective to an extent, abuse of negative punishment can cause frustration and do the opposite of what you want to do.
my 5 year old is being a brat time to take away her presents that I already bought but my oldest is still allowed to celebrate.just tell them to behave after Christmas instead of souring their Christmas memory
Maybe dont go on the naughty list?
The whole point of Santa is that he gives presents to good kids and coal to bad kids, so really they are still following Christmas traditions
SHE IS 5
just give her a stocking full of coal while everyone else gets presents. bad behavior is not rewarded
just give them a stocking filled with coal. boom. merry christmas
Christmas was my favorite holiday growing up, and that would devastate me if my mom canceled it. Also the kid won’t understand why YOU canceled Christmas but not Santa.
I absolutely HATE when people say things like "They're just a little kid" whenever a child is bad behaving, What does that even mean? Being a kid doesn't mean that you don't have learn, especially kids need to learn things like well manners while they're still little, because a lot times how mannered we learned to be is how mannered we'll be once we are older.
For those who are disappointed in Maddie’s moms decision of cancelling Christmas, you have to understand that when a teacher call a parent because of their child’s behavior, that can cause the teacher to think the child is getting that behavior from their parents. So Maddie’s behavior in school reflects on her family.
just needed to get that off my mind.
Merry Christmas 🎄
Ungrateful kids i dont even want anything for Christmas unbelievable
She’s 5 who doesn’t know any better
@Uroligt Completely untrue. 5 year olds are old enough to know better.
The children learn from the parents, they are the reason they are disrespectful and rude. Blame the parents. Good for them taking it away from them tho..
I’d cancel it too. Children should not think that they can behave like this and then be rewarded
You haven’t learned anything at all it isn’t about the gift is about the people you are with on Christmas, she is 5 who doesn’t know better, kids learn from us and how we act and behave, the mom should talk to her calmly on why she behaved the way she did, canceling Christmas doesn’t solve anything,
@UroligtGiving the child a bag of coal is a good idea though.
Discipline will prove to be the best Christmas present that kid ever gets. Way to go mom!!!❤
My mom did that for me when i was like 7😭😭
I noticed that you used “😭” in your comment. Just wanted to say, don’t give up anything in your life. I don’t know what you’re going through but I’m always here to help you through.
Nvm your a bot
Imagine getting an email at 5am from the School on the day before Christmas and it’s saying that your daughter was being extremely bad. 💀
Why us the girl in school if it’s Christmas break
@Movieshadoethehedgehogoffical not all schools do break and are off only on Christmas.
@Movieshadoethehedgehogofficalits a daycare not school that's why. She's five getting huge notes written home…sounds like the teachers are suspecting that child’s home life isn't very good, no teachers want to sit and write that much so there's obviously a lot of concern for the child. She's also five years old, all her behavior has been learned from the environment she is surrounded by
These drastic measures should be the final straw to bad kids. Parents need to strip kids back to basics because its not normal for a 5 year old to get to this point... Major punishments should had been put into place and no child should sabotage and ruin the family spirit.
It’s called discipline, I know everyone’s parents are different but I do know that it’s unacceptable to disrespect an adult, so Merry Christmas and behave
The teacher who sent it at 5am is evil af 💀
I dont see how its realltly wrong, it should be normalised, here in Brazil we do the same every time
I honestly agree with the moms. Im ashamed to be part of gen alpha while the younger ones are acting like this
They’re already likely on the naughty list though
@@JPotato96it was most likely a joke
@@JPotato96 why don’t you answer your own question first
@@JPotato96 I do not find anything wrong with the comment.
This is kinda understandable. Christmas PRESENTS are meant to be for GOOD kids, giving them presents and stuff will show them they will get whatever they want even if they are bad.
while it is kinda far for completely cancelling christmas, plus also it meant to be more that just presents, its meant to be with family and (for religious people) loving God.
somethin my parents did was lose a present (or more) depending on what i did. EXAMPLE: i yell at them and refuse to do chores/listen, i lose a present
That teacher is a hater fr, at 5 am?😭😭🙏🙏 bro was waiting
The whole point of Christmas is if you're good you get rewarded and if you're not you get nada in my opinion i believe she is doing the right thing and should be replicated for other misbehaving and disrespectful kids
"Not rewarding bad behavior" its a shame more parents don't get this concept. She is definitely right.
How is that right she’s a 5 year old kid
@Uroligt shes a 5 year old, it makes perfect sense. When they're that young they're gonna learn what rewards them and what doesn't faster.
@@Wysticalism i really doubt shes rewarding her for existing, she was acting up before and she can only learn that behaviour from the people around her, thats what yall dont understand, children arent born bad, and just based on the moms decision I can tell she didnt raise her well enough, for one for her to act that way at school and she didnt realize till a teacher had to tell her... that you dont know how you own child acts is crazy work to me, and shes only 5 too so she cleary isnt gonna know better, she can probably still barely read.
The mother is not canceling Christmas for the whole family just her 5 year old daughter. I think it’s a great teaching moment for her daughter to respect and learn to appreciate her family. Christmas it’s not about presents 🎁 it’s about to be in the present! Teaching, loving and caring!
people who are saying the mom is taking it too far are delusional and soft. this is why we have disrespectful mannerless children and teens. parents need to understand that if a child is not on the right path you need to correct them no matter how much it may hurt to do so, that is YOUR JOB.
THIS. Parents need to grow a spine and actually discipline their kids. Doing the right thing isn't always easy or fun, but it's necessary.
The parents should've grown a pair looooooong before Christmas, and then this wouldn't have happened in the first place. I've never seen a truly good parent have to 'cancel' Christmas. Why? Because they shaped up their child's behavior from the very beginning, so they never had to do this! Just because these parents are taking drastic measures to discipline in the moment such as this, doesn't necessarily mean it's a good parenting move...
Agree 💯 with mom. If any of my 3 boys are this disrespectful they will not get presents either.
Christmas like all holidays are a pleasure that no one will die from not experiencing. If you can’t behave yourself, then parents absolutely should take it away. One of the only few rule to Christmas is be good, if you’re bad, you get nothing.
She can try again next year, I am all for punishing bad behavior.
You know what, it’s good to see parents taking responsibility for their children’s bad behavior, rather than just blaming the other adults in their lives.
Uhm how do you cancel a birthday for Jesus…people have forgotten the reason Christmas exists
Fr
so I guess non-Christians aren't welcome?
People haven’t forgotten it’s just not everybody celebrates it for your religious reasons and that’s ok lol.
Do your research Jesus was not born on December 25
@@AllTechPride dude he wasn't talking about that he said "Jesus" as something like a sigh
Have… have Gen Z parents never heard of coal? I’m genuinely asking. That’s literally part of Santa’s Mythos as it is for modern Christmas. The kids on the nice list get presents and the kids on the naughty list get coal. This is basic Christmas knowledge.
it doesnt matter, christmas is a celebration of the birth of christ, not just centered around gifts and you can't cancel it
thats on maddy she should have criss cross apple sauced bro
The other thing is that you’re not always gonna have Christmas forever because I used to be a homeless person. I didn’t begin to celebrate Christmas till I was 32 when I finally worked and got a job at McDonald’s and I’m doing better right now. Since I’ve got enough money from working at McDonald’s to try and go to law school in the university and now I’m a lawyer but specifically to the mom I think she’s doing the right and bad thing cause you’re not always gonna have Christmas forever because at one point, you’re gonna get depressed you’re gonna get drunk mad sad and just basically have a depressing Christmas.
I so agree with this they will be mad at the time but with time and if they have kids the kid will realize not to be a brat. I had my birthday cancelled because I had bad grades, bad attitude and walked all over my parents (sorry mom and dad) cancelled my birthday party and only received one gift because it was unreturnable. This will help kids realize not to act like a brat.
I side with the mom, SOFT PARENTING WILL SPOIL THE KIDS
You do realize that is her fault, she’s the one who’s letting her kids act like shit so she can’t be surprised when they act like what she’s allowed
@@DrizzycheeseNot all children who misbehave are the fault of the parents. Bad behavior doesn’t get rewarded. Simple as that
@ just depends on how strict you go. Strict parents raise sneaky children, soft parents raise spoiled children. Good parents raise mannered children (most of the time). See the correlation? Parenting makes the kid, not the other way around.
@@DrizzycheeseOnce a kid is older, they form their own personality and get influenced by other media and kids.
A 13 year olds parents can say to their kid not to smoke but they'll do it anyways because it is cool. Can't fix ignorance sometimes
@@bakinibottom9635 no its 100% their fault, you are supposed to monitor every aspect of ur childs life so theyre guided the right path, especially during that age, shes 5, she probably cant even read or make a full sentence.
People say this is cruel but I’m glad parents are teaching their kids a lesson.
My take on this is: I get not wanting to reward your kids for bad behavior.... HOWEVER, I find it ridiculous that out of the 365 days, Christmas is the one time they're willing to discipline their kids. They're disrespectful for a reason, they haven't been disciplined at all. Here's my solution... Give them their Christmas, but just put coal in their stocking, and give them coal as a Christmas present. BOOM! Lesson learned!
They will learn nothing and keep disrespecting you sorry but thought love is needed sometimes
@@penacolada6451Most of the time that wouldn’t work, and the kid would manipulate the adult to think they learnt the lesson.
W mom (But who raised your child 😭✋)
This says more about the moms then the kids. If you're kid is a disrespectful monster, it's their fault. Kids don't magically become little monsters unless the parents encourage it or excuse bad behaviors.
Treat your kids like they are special to YOU every day, and you don't need Christmas.
I honestly don’t blame the children, I blame the parents
Which is why this is the step in the right direction, actually showing your kids thst actions have consequences in a non-violent way at that.
If my teacher had called my parents at 5 AM when I was five years old to tell them that I wouldn’t be behaving class I wouldn’t be able to sit down to this day. My ass would still hurt and I’m 47.
Sorry but no matter how ungrateful you are, no one deserves no Christmas! I don’t want to be that person, but growing up, I looked forward to Christmas every year. Even more than my birthday. To take it away is just fucked up.
Fr bro
Yeah but my little sister is bratty asf and she got 9 presents... I'd do that too, but I see your point
we get it, you’re a gentle parent
Then maybe teach your kids to be grateful. Teach them to be grateful even for the the simplest things. Having a bed to sleep on every night, having a roof over their head, having clothes to wear, having food on the table. Basic necessities that not every child is fortunate to have. And if they’re still ungrateful, then they’re not getting anything for Christmas. Simple as that
nah you’re crazy. if my child is ungrateful, then they’ll just get a stocking full of coal for Christmas. It’s also part of teaching them about the real world. If you misbehave, act up, or straight up ungrateful, then you won’t get anything
No tell Santa to give them coal smh
Why not actually raise them and love them instead of cancelling Christmas?
Easter egg???
FR
You act like just because they're disciplining their kid means they don't love them
Just give them less presents or actual coal.. like.. what happened to the good ol’ days 😭 🤚-
Are we not talking about the teacher sending an email at 5 AM????!!!!!!
Wow this is kinda like me my mom told my sister “who said you were getting presents?” Because of how disrespectful she is she even gave my mom a breakdown and I was there to comfort there i also asked my mom to not get me any presents for Christmas because I want her to save up for my birthday I really love her because I got lucky for having a good mom.
Honestly I agree with the moms
In my opinion, I don’t agree with moms and I feel upset
All disrespectful kids should get coal not Christmas being cancelled to them 😭🙏
@@nicecoast2_aviationWhy? The kid was misbehaving so she was put on the naughty list.
Kids on the naughty list don’t get presents
Some naughty kids get coal on Christmas
Of course people would be upset and say it’s “too far”, do we not know the demographic of TikTok, it’s literally kids. In the end it’s just gifts, like it’s not that deep, just behave better yk
Fr. Honestly this'll be a good lesson for those kids of "you do bad things, bad things happen". People are honestly spineless if they think it's too far for a parent to cancel a holiday. There's plenty of other Christmases.
Okay ppl that support that little girl is the reasons more and more children are so spoiled. Go mom! Gentle parenting is not coddling your kid when they did something bad, its telling them that its bad and theres consequences for that.
Your so in the wrong here
How is he in the wrong?
you dont understand "gentle" parenting, gentle parenting is the "right" parenting, meaning making the right decisions for them when issues come up. A more realistic and effective method she could have took was: Dont reward her, shes right with this, but, also, tell her why this is happening, how she can change and do better, and maybe for herself she can actually be more involved cuz she didnt even know her children was acting up until a teacher had to call and tell her, note, thats not the teachers job, they teach and educate them, parents actually nurse them and if shes being mean to others in her class shes not learning that from anybody but her.
My mom did the same! And she said idk what’s going on with me, I have to energy I used to be hyped 😢
People complain about everything nowadays
True monkey
@@sleepjay6615?
This is why you DISCIPLINE your kids so that they don’t grow up being disrespectful to you
This is completely unfair to the little girl, because her behavior isn’t a reflection on herself, it’s a reflection on the mother/father or both on how they raised her, so if anything these parents shouldn’t be getting a Christmas, because as the old saying goes there is no such thing as a bad student (kid) only a bad teacher (parent).
i feel like the children should celebrate the holiday for the religious portion, but not get presents and stuff.
Parents fault, should've raised the child better
Just tell them Santa ain't real and then cancell their christmas that's what my mom would do. Like um be respectful like some kids don't even get gifts or trees.😅 I would agree with these moms like they're doing a great job at doing this.
This is entirely the fault of the parents, bad parenting equals bad behavior in children.
I was a bit rude this year but since I helped the homeless and was kind to a lot of people I got 6 presents for Christmas
If you gotta cancel Christmas, you suck as a parent.
Seriously... I love this mom! Enough with raising little demons! What's the worst thing that could happen? The little girl learns that respect will go a long way? Sounds like a win to me!
More parents need to do this! 👏
No
@Uroligt yes
Idk which side to be on.
well its the grinch vs the whos
Same. I was SPED as a child and I remember some bad days with my SPED teachers that I feel bad about now. Maybe this child is undiagnosed with something. Or who knows, she could simply just be a little shit with only her mother to blame.
@ it’s literally the grinch vs Christmas
My mom never cancelled Christmas because she knows how to raise a child 😂. Do better with discipline
The point is, THE PARENTS ARE THE REASON THE KIDS ACT SO HORRIBLY. I stand with this mother. It's too expensive and too hard to afford gifts as it is. It's a mix of parents spoiling and gentle parenting. Gentle parenting had destroyed kids. Parents my advice. As a former nanny. STOP TOLERATING BAD BEHAVIOUR AND ABUSIVE BEHAVIOUR.
OR A BETTER IDEA. Set boundaries! I'm genuinely sick of hearing mom's complaints. When they play a part in that behaviour. I stand with this mom's decision. It'll teach her kid the hard way to be respectful.
Raise your kids right, stop spoiling them, stop gentle parenting, and maybe get counselling. Because it's a double-edged sword. A cause and effect situation.
THANK YOUUUU
Yes💯
gentle parenting isn't letting your kids do whatever they want, it's teaching them to be respectful and wants good and bad without beating them with belts and constantly yelling at them for making mistakes
Nope. Cancel Christmas. The biggest problem these days is parents being too afraid to punish their kids enough.