Lola!! You handle situations so gracefully and maturely I would be acting a lot worse…these boys seem to really do a number on you and you deserve the world and more, I hate them for you and don’t even know them or u personally!! We need to protect this girl at all costs, what an absolute gem you really are, the most beautiful RUclipsr
Praying every night u find a love again like what u had…but this time someone acc worth it who won’t treat u like u don’t deserve. Can’t even think who would want to treat u like that look at u !! and ur heart is so pure
feel like u are the definition of what was I made for by billie eilish, like the most beautiful song ever but the lyrics also. one day I'm gonna come back and ur gonna have millions because the heart u have to have to open up and help people the way u do... a literal angel.feel like I know u. thank you❤❤
I honestly feel like you're the only RUclipsr who actually is so open & honest and literally girl to girl you help me so much & I hope you keep being brave & speaking on how hard life can be because I mean it when I say you're literally the voice we all need as young girls & there's no one else as honest and as vulnerable as you and I think it's a superpower. Feel like you're the big sister I've never had...I love you and your videos ❤
Hi Lola, I’ve watched your videos for sooo long now. I was just wanting some advice because I love how absolutely open you are about everything and ur a real inspiration to me. I’ve been heartbroken by this boy and after seeing how hurt you were through your breakup With preston, im wondering how you got through it nd over him? He has just got in a relationship with somebody else and im really struggling to move on and it’s effecting me really bad. I know ur saying u met somebody else but it makes me feel sick at the thought of even looking at another boy after him, im scared I’ll always love him. Pls help.. ur so strong and an idol to me…I love you and ur videos thank you for being u🩷X
hi sophia, thankyou so much for watching me🤍im glad me being open about my breakup helped you abit. it’s good that ur acknowledging ur feelings & trying to see a way forwards first of all, it’s really brave. the thing is, everyone heals at different stages, boys have a tendency to move on really quick and get in rebounds because they want to avoid their feelings and they can’t deal with the emotions that come with a breakup (typically), girls tend to feel it first and then end up happier & healthier, that’s most of the time anyway. so don’t compare you moving on to how quickly he is, the likelihood is he will still care for you & just because he’s with someone else doesn’t mean he doesn’t still miss you, it’s just filling a void and an easier way to move on. my ex is with someone else too i think, obviously it’s a tricky one because even if you are moved on/over your ex it’s never nice to see or hear about them with another girl, so you need to block him/her if you have them still on stuff, so then you aren’t seeing it, trust me, if you go looking you’re gonna find things that are gonna hurt you even more and you probably won’t like what you see. you can only move on if you actually want to, but it’s fine if you aren’t ready to yet. i had to accept that just because they’re with someone else, doesn’t mean your relationship is disregarded also they do act that way, and it does matter, you can’t compare yourself to her because you’re two different people, and she probably isn’t better, she’s probably easier and like I say it’s filling that void. they may be better suited, but that doesn’t take away your value, sometimes things just aren’t meant to be. you will move on, I promise, life has to go on with or without someone, if you aren’t in the mindset to let him go get there’s no rush, he doesn’t get the power or control of the timeline of things, it took me a while to grasp that because my ex was moved on virtually the next day, & at the time I couldn’t understand it, but don’t drive yourself insane trying to, because you’re searching for answers you won’t get from him. in terms of me meeting someone else, it took me a while to feel that way again, and even then it did feel strange being with someone else. i tried not to compare it, but just because i met someone new doesn’t mean i threw away all them memories with my ex, but if you live your life looking backwards you can’t move forwards. it took me nearly a year to meet someone who i actually liked although he turned out to be an arse also! so you don’t need to worry about that rn. there’s no real rush for a relationship, spend some time with you and learn things about yourself, being young & single is the only time you’re really gonna discover who you truly are. keep going & keep your head up, you’ll get through this I promise. lots of love & a sending you a big cuddle 🤍🤍🤍
I actually think you’re the most incredible human in the world even tho I don’t know you I feel like I do, ty so much for taking the time out of your day to say that, that really has helped me and you have the best advice. if you can move on then i know i can too, because I could see from watching you how much you loved him and i am in a really similar way. Thank you so so so so much you’ve saved me honestly u give me hope X
can we all agree that this girls accent is incredible pls ?? off topic but why can’t i be a geordie ?? ps can someone give this girl a break and send her some good pls? she is an actual angel
Showed this to my friend lewy and it’s changed his outlook. Slay!!!
ahh i'm so glad it helped🥰thank you for watching me
Lola!! You handle situations so gracefully and maturely I would be acting a lot worse…these boys seem to really do a number on you and you deserve the world and more, I hate them for you and don’t even know them or u personally!! We need to protect this girl at all costs, what an absolute gem you really are, the most beautiful RUclipsr
@@Emilierodhamm ahh you little beaut!🤍i love you guys too 🥹
Praying every night u find a love again like what u had…but this time someone acc worth it who won’t treat u like u don’t deserve. Can’t even think who would want to treat u like that look at u !! and ur heart is so pure
@@Emilierodhamm oh bless you that’s so sweet!🥲🤍🤍
U ARE SUPERWOMAN. thank u for being strong for all us gals out there going through crap with horrible boys and real life stuff xxx
omg superwoman...stop!!🥹thank you right back for watching me🤍
@@Lifeaslolaa you are though, you literally make me feel so valid for feeling the way i do, i wish i was as brave as u to come out and share it xxx
feel like u are the definition of what was I made for by billie eilish, like the most beautiful song ever but the lyrics also. one day I'm gonna come back and ur gonna have millions because the heart u have to have to open up and help people the way u do... a literal angel.feel like I know u. thank you❤❤
ahhh angel!!🥹🤍🤍
In Lola we trust !!! Praying for the downfall of these boys who’ve ever hurt this poor sweet girl
@@MollyMiraRose aww in lola we trust…cutie😙🤍
WE GOT UR BACK GIRL💜💜💜
I honestly feel like you're the only RUclipsr who actually is so open & honest and literally girl to girl you help me so much & I hope you keep being brave & speaking on how hard life can be because I mean it when I say you're literally the voice we all need as young girls & there's no one else as honest and as vulnerable as you and I think it's a superpower. Feel like you're the big sister I've never had...I love you and your videos ❤
this is so so sweet of you!! thank you for saying that🤍
i could sit and watch you all day even when things are bad...feel like we are on facetime😂thankyou for what u do lola xx
bless you!!🥹thank you right back🤍
Hi Lola, I’ve watched your videos for sooo long now. I was just wanting some advice because I love how absolutely open you are about everything and ur a real inspiration to me. I’ve been heartbroken by this boy and after seeing how hurt you were through your breakup With preston, im wondering how you got through it nd over him? He has just got in a relationship with somebody else and im really struggling to move on and it’s effecting me really bad. I know ur saying u met somebody else but it makes me feel sick at the thought of even looking at another boy after him, im scared I’ll always love him. Pls help.. ur so strong and an idol to me…I love you and ur videos thank you for being u🩷X
hi sophia, thankyou so much for watching me🤍im glad me being open about my breakup helped you abit. it’s good that ur acknowledging ur feelings & trying to see a way forwards first of all, it’s really brave. the thing is, everyone heals at different stages, boys have a tendency to move on really quick and get in rebounds because they want to avoid their feelings and they can’t deal with the emotions that come with a breakup (typically), girls tend to feel it first and then end up happier & healthier, that’s most of the time anyway. so don’t compare you moving on to how quickly he is, the likelihood is he will still care for you & just because he’s with someone else doesn’t mean he doesn’t still miss you, it’s just filling a void and an easier way to move on. my ex is with someone else too i think, obviously it’s a tricky one because even if you are moved on/over your ex it’s never nice to see or hear about them with another girl, so you need to block him/her if you have them still on stuff, so then you aren’t seeing it, trust me, if you go looking you’re gonna find things that are gonna hurt you even more and you probably won’t like what you see. you can only move on if you actually want to, but it’s fine if you aren’t ready to yet. i had to accept that just because they’re with someone else, doesn’t mean your relationship is disregarded also they do act that way, and it does matter, you can’t compare yourself to her because you’re two different people, and she probably isn’t better, she’s probably easier and like I say it’s filling that void. they may be better suited, but that doesn’t take away your value, sometimes things just aren’t meant to be. you will move on, I promise, life has to go on with or without someone, if you aren’t in the mindset to let him go get there’s no rush, he doesn’t get the power or control of the timeline of things, it took me a while to grasp that because my ex was moved on virtually the next day, & at the time I couldn’t understand it, but don’t drive yourself insane trying to, because you’re searching for answers you won’t get from him. in terms of me meeting someone else, it took me a while to feel that way again, and even then it did feel strange being with someone else. i tried not to compare it, but just because i met someone new doesn’t mean i threw away all them memories with my ex, but if you live your life looking backwards you can’t move forwards. it took me nearly a year to meet someone who i actually liked although he turned out to be an arse also! so you don’t need to worry about that rn. there’s no real rush for a relationship, spend some time with you and learn things about yourself, being young & single is the only time you’re really gonna discover who you truly are. keep going & keep your head up, you’ll get through this I promise. lots of love & a sending you a big cuddle 🤍🤍🤍
I actually think you’re the most incredible human in the world even tho I don’t know you I feel like I do, ty so much for taking the time out of your day to say that, that really has helped me and you have the best advice. if you can move on then i know i can too, because I could see from watching you how much you loved him and i am in a really similar way. Thank you so so so so much you’ve saved me honestly u give me hope X
can we all agree that this girls accent is incredible pls ?? off topic but why can’t i be a geordie ?? ps can someone give this girl a break and send her some good pls? she is an actual angel
hahah my accent...never heard that one lmao🤣& oh bless you that's so nice!! thank you🤍
I love you & I’m forever proud of you 🩷
@@demeleigh i love you more…my bestest friend🥹🤍