So easy to understand and endlessly relatable. Also, excited for more enneagram cocktail episodes. (Side note: Back Pew was my #2 podcast of last year as I burned thru everything I could. Loved listening to you both!)
My best friend is a 9w1 and I’m a 1w2, both INFJs.. everything you said is so accurate that I keep laughing. I speak up for her, she can not speak up about a problem forever, she finds me to be the be “braver version of the person she wants to be”, I find her to be the “warmer version of the person I wanna be”.
My old boss 1w2 sp/sx giving me a trauma experience one but now my senior 1w2 so/sp is so healthy which bring me so much peace and joy i could die without her
I'm 9w1, and a cozy night in by the fire sounds so lovely! (I mean, I'm also happy to do more active / fun stuff, but I don't *need* to do it. Cozy nights in are great!)
So excited for the rest of this series; this was great! Even though I'm perpetually single, this was still 1) fun for me to muse over what a future relationship could look like, and 2) somewhat helpful for deeper friendships too. I definitely had an "oh crap" moment with the point about interpersonal connection being more important than being right. 😬
Yessir! Sorry for the long hiatus, but I had a looooooooong season of research, writing, rewriting, and filming because I'm doing all 36 relationship combos roughly around the same time 😅 You'll have plenty new content this year tho.
@@YouveGotaType Hey, if you're looking for video ideas... When I started studying the Enneagram, I had trouble discerning if I was a 5w4 or a 4w5. That might be a cool 9-video series you could do, "Am I a 1w2 or a 2w1?" "Am I a 2w3 or a 3w2?" etc, all the way around.
As 9w1 i feel like im listening into both sides as related to both , i tend to be critical on myself a lot so i empathize with 1s . So i am a dreamer of idealistic relationships with others that don’t exist so i just make them exist in my own head anyways lol. Im learning a lot this year on how to let myself do mistakes and be okay with letting people in .
Glad to hear it! And I'm not focusing on the wings in particular, but the 8-5 relationship video is coming up soon :) Just starting with the type 9 combos, then going to 8s, and 7s, etc. etc.
There was a crime in my country where the woman, the murderer, was a clear 7, (who got help for the physical part of things from her 8 lover), and the victim, her partner, was a clear 4... Those are the only two types I've ever dated as a 1 and I would have trouble seen how that could work between them. Eager for the video!!
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Dude just casually dropping some of the most well researched enneagram content available 🙌🙌🙌
Much appreciated! Can't wait to do some more enneagram cocktail episodes with ya in the near future now that the year of sobriety is over 🥃
So easy to understand and endlessly relatable. Also, excited for more enneagram cocktail episodes. (Side note: Back Pew was my #2 podcast of last year as I burned thru everything I could. Loved listening to you both!)
100% - I’m newly obsessed with this channel. As good as it gets.
I’m a 9w1, no wonder I’ve been single for so long, I’m already in a perfect relationship with myself 😂
Haha hey that aint a bad way to go!
My best friend is a 9w1 and I’m a 1w2, both INFJs.. everything you said is so accurate that I keep laughing. I speak up for her, she can not speak up about a problem forever, she finds me to be the be “braver version of the person she wants to be”, I find her to be the “warmer version of the person I wanna be”.
Thanks for sharing your experience of this typology combo - and so glad you enjoyed it
you deserve so many more subscribers!!!! the work you do is so thorough and informative
Thanks so much! And it's growing, slowly but surely :) The ole youtube algorithm is a tricky beast.
Leave it to an ennegram 1 to create the perfect ennegram content! 👍👍👍
Aw shux, thanks much!
Wait! You are a One!!! 😮
Haven't you seen how perfect he is?? Nothing to complain about, I could be watching him forever.
Wooohoo!! Have waited for this type of video!! Really long for 4 and 7, and 4 and 5. Thank you for the best enneagram videos on RUclips ❤❤❤
It's my pleasure! So glad you're enjoying the channel, and those combos will be coming up soon enough 🙌
You can be right or you can be in a relationship…..so true 😊
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So glad you’re back! This is great content and is definitely worth a second view.
Thanks so much 🙌
Enneagram be like how do you want your partner to be traumatised 😂
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My old boss 1w2 sp/sx giving me a trauma experience one but now my senior 1w2 so/sp is so healthy which bring me so much peace and joy i could die without her
I'm 9w1, and a cozy night in by the fire sounds so lovely! (I mean, I'm also happy to do more active / fun stuff, but I don't *need* to do it. Cozy nights in are great!)
Glad the YGAT Rating System prevailed! ;)
This series is great! Can’t wait til you get to the 9 and 7 . You provided a great base of knowledge! Thank you!
Thanks so much! And that combo is coming in just a few weeks ;)
So excited for the rest of this series; this was great!
Even though I'm perpetually single, this was still 1) fun for me to muse over what a future relationship could look like, and 2) somewhat helpful for deeper friendships too. I definitely had an "oh crap" moment with the point about interpersonal connection being more important than being right. 😬
So glad to hear it! I'm hoping it's helpful for friendships as well, not just romantic relationships.
Hey! Great to see you posting again!
Yessir! Sorry for the long hiatus, but I had a looooooooong season of research, writing, rewriting, and filming because I'm doing all 36 relationship combos roughly around the same time 😅 You'll have plenty new content this year tho.
@@YouveGotaType All 36! I admire your thoroughness!
@@YouveGotaType Hey, if you're looking for video ideas... When I started studying the Enneagram, I had trouble discerning if I was a 5w4 or a 4w5. That might be a cool 9-video series you could do, "Am I a 1w2 or a 2w1?" "Am I a 2w3 or a 3w2?" etc, all the way around.
As 9w1 i feel like im listening into both sides as related to both , i tend to be critical on myself a lot so i empathize with 1s . So i am a dreamer of idealistic relationships with others that don’t exist so i just make them exist in my own head anyways lol. Im learning a lot this year on how to let myself do mistakes and be okay with letting people in .
I can't wait to see all the 3 videos. I've always wondered which number pairs best with the 3w4.
It's gunna be a little while, but the 3s are coming!
Thank you. Can you do Enneagram 8 and 1 in relationships.
Yup! I'm doing all combinations and dropping a new episode once a week so 8-1 wont be too far out
Love the channel! Will you do an 8w9 and 5 any time soon?
Glad to hear it! And I'm not focusing on the wings in particular, but the 8-5 relationship video is coming up soon :) Just starting with the type 9 combos, then going to 8s, and 7s, etc. etc.
8 and 9 in relationship please!
It's coming in a few weeks, so stay tuned :)
i love your content so much!, can you do a relationship between 7 and 1? thanks!
Thanks again! And sure can, it's coming out soon! Just going in order from the 9s, to 8s, then 7s, etc etc.
Cannot wait for more combos with Ones! Especially Ones with Sevens!
Coming slowly but surely!
No rush!! Take your time!! You’re doing so brilliantly!!
You’re amazing
Why thank you 🙏
would you mind doing 7 and 4? I think this is an interesting combo, but it's one that I, as a 4, have the most success in!
Yup I'm doing all of the enneagram combos this year - so stay tuned!
There was a crime in my country where the woman, the murderer, was a clear 7, (who got help for the physical part of things from her 8 lover), and the victim, her partner, was a clear 4...
Those are the only two types I've ever dated as a 1 and I would have trouble seen how that could work between them.
Eager for the video!!
Second atleast!!❤
Well done ;)
AMAZING!!!!
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Complementary vs contradictory wing!
Me and my boyfriend... So similar...