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  • Опубликовано: 7 сен 2024
  • Deidra believes her fiancé and baby’s father, Jamar, is a cheating and manipulative liar! Deidra says that she caught Jamar texting another woman and claims Jamar is gaslighting her. Deidra wants to know once and for all what Jamar has been hiding, and needs Karamo to unlock his phone! What will Jamar’s phone reveal?
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Комментарии • 925

  • @socool245
    @socool245 Год назад +1398

    Never let a man tell you more than once that he don't want you

    • @EMM1908
      @EMM1908 Год назад +11

      ‼️‼️‼️

    • @israelcoleman7876
      @israelcoleman7876 Год назад +21

      My grandfather told me this when I was younger. Always stayed with me

    • @deloresevans4235
      @deloresevans4235 Год назад +6

      Period

    • @kazb4496
      @kazb4496 Год назад +5

      Run 🏃‍♀️

    • @Callherlele
      @Callherlele Год назад +2

      He never said that he didn’t want her

  • @dianalogan6185
    @dianalogan6185 Год назад +644

    She see all the red flags but still want prove 🤦🏾‍♀️

  • @angeldiannah8306
    @angeldiannah8306 Год назад +1262

    He said he didn’t want her 20 times and she still didn’t hear it 🤦🏾‍♀️😩

    • @bianca2011d
      @bianca2011d Год назад +59

      Because he didn't say I don't want to be with you. She will not see it

    • @teresa_chosen
      @teresa_chosen Год назад +42

      1 🚩 isn’t enough sometimes they need 40 🤷🏽‍♀️

    • @barbaracarley3601
      @barbaracarley3601 Год назад +67

      She made me so exhausted. Wake up Girl!!!!! Geesh!

    • @nikkiallday8167
      @nikkiallday8167 Год назад +40

      She can’t hear cuz she never be quiet

    • @akbasg
      @akbasg Год назад +13

      @@bianca2011d you seem like you will be in this type of situation... Clarification is not only saying word by word "I dont want you"... He made it very clear that does not want her and the child is the reason why he is around ... He has the door open for new realtionships...
      Please don't be in such a situation

  • @sarcastic_truth
    @sarcastic_truth Год назад +1167

    The saddest part is him saying he stays with her so his daughter doesn't have a broken home. A broken home is any dynamic that is toxic and untrustworthy. Two people “staying” together for the sake of a child but abusing another in the process is broken. IMO

    • @snigglestraggletheatre1749
      @snigglestraggletheatre1749 Год назад +3

      Cheating is not abuse as long as they're not physical you do whatever to be in the same house with your kids fool !

    • @sarcastic_truth
      @sarcastic_truth Год назад +67

      @@snigglestraggletheatre1749 cheating on someone is not emotional abuse? What would you call it, since you seem to be an expert on abuse?

    • @snigglestraggletheatre1749
      @snigglestraggletheatre1749 Год назад

      @@sarcastic_truth look victim bich it's not abuse.Dont have kids and stay single ! Keep it pushing

    • @sarcastic_truth
      @sarcastic_truth Год назад +24

      @@snigglestraggletheatre1749 Oh wow! I've never suffered from abuse but based on your level of anger toward a stranger shows that you may have. Be blessed.

    • @snigglestraggletheatre1749
      @snigglestraggletheatre1749 Год назад +2

      @@sarcastic_truth thank you ! Now keep it pushing

  • @jalisajohnson9277
    @jalisajohnson9277 Год назад +483

    He done called her annoying one too many times

    • @kiera6288
      @kiera6288 Год назад +16

      @@bfields112 he's weak

    • @wandumazgabu7252
      @wandumazgabu7252 Год назад

      She’s annoying af….. the way she comes off

    • @Samanthas1
      @Samanthas1 Год назад +48

      @@bfields112 her annoyingness is in response to his lies… maybe?

    • @kiera6288
      @kiera6288 Год назад +18

      @@Samanthas1 don't mind him. That's the same dude who said he would have punched her in the throat because she's too masculine

    • @NELL_SCORPIO
      @NELL_SCORPIO Год назад +1

      ​@@bfields112 ding ding ding ding 👏👏👏

  • @iamkenithia1446
    @iamkenithia1446 Год назад +151

    He literally is screaming that he don’t want you.

  • @lindawilliams429
    @lindawilliams429 Год назад +274

    She knows exactly what's going on. She just refuses to see it!! Both of them need to walk away from each other.

  • @laquishasm
    @laquishasm Год назад +115

    I spent 20 years in a relationship with a man like this... When I finally left and started to heal I had to hold myself accountable for completely ignoring the facts, signs and disrespect that was right in front of me... I was fighting for a man who was only fighting for himself.

    • @petersonkimani1195
      @petersonkimani1195 Год назад +2

      The guy is telling you, I don't want you, at all. Make your choices.

  • @1234532785
    @1234532785 Год назад +317

    …….I’ve never seen someone be so in denial about the person they’re “engaged” to. He’s been acting single this whole time, she’s SEEN proof and she still wants clarity??!???!! I really hope she wakes up and leaves him. Sis if you’re reading this, there is a MAN out there that will never have you crying yourself to sleep. I promise once you wake up, you’ll be so glad you chose yourself and your child. You wouldn’t want your daughter being treated that way.

    • @deidramanson444
      @deidramanson444 Год назад +13

      I’m reading ❤

    • @ebonyjones2246
      @ebonyjones2246 Год назад +3

      @@deidramanson444 I wish I could talk to you ❤️❤️❤️

    • @jasminegreene8159
      @jasminegreene8159 Год назад +3

      @@deidramanson444 sis, stand tf up!!! 🤦🏾‍♀️🤦🏾‍♀️

  • @theempressspeaksunapologetical
    @theempressspeaksunapologetical Год назад +149

    She's gaslighting herself point blank period

    • @ilikepickles9568
      @ilikepickles9568 Год назад +5

      Exactly

    • @sipstea9794
      @sipstea9794 7 месяцев назад +8

      No he’s gaslighting her she just feeding into it and holding onto false hope

    • @latonyafunches9991
      @latonyafunches9991 2 месяца назад +1

      @@sipstea9794baby HE TOLD HER.

  • @Vanett77
    @Vanett77 Год назад +368

    I hope when she gets home she watches this episode and it finally wakes her up because right now, her blinders are screwed on tight!

  • @innikkac
    @innikkac Год назад +308

    That man is living his best life tearing you down!

    • @jamesgibson3716
      @jamesgibson3716 Год назад +6

      Sad to see....

    • @Vdub481
      @Vdub481 Год назад +5

      Sad ain’t no way to explain but u said it right

    • @alexjones28
      @alexjones28 Год назад +7

      She's tearing her damn self down.

    • @innikkac
      @innikkac Год назад +1

      @@alexjones28 😂 yea.....you right!

    • @period8705
      @period8705 Год назад +4

      She's allowing it

  • @Ilikefrogs..
    @Ilikefrogs.. Год назад +418

    People spend so much time shaming single moms and not enough time shaming men who emotionally and physically abuse their partners and children. This is what that kind of societal shaming does. It forces women and children to stay in toxic, potentially dangerous situations.

    • @agray7474
      @agray7474 Год назад +1

      He’s definitely a grade A LOSER…HOWEVER, she’s choosing to be with a LOSER which means she values a LOSER over herself and her CHILD! Maybe she needs to be shamed in order to WAKE UP! That child could be damaged as a result of their relationship. I’m sorry, I’m all in favor of shaming her because this child is involved. His low class character goes without saying…

    • @tremonsprings8920
      @tremonsprings8920 Год назад +2

      How did he abuse the kids?

    • @jeanp1323
      @jeanp1323 Год назад +30

      @@tremonsprings8920 this relationship will affect the kids in the long run. I'm sure the little girl sees her parents fighting, her mother crying and when she gets older she'll probably understand the lies her father tells. Eventually, when it'll be time for her to find herself a partner, she might end up with someone as distrustful as her father...

    • @uwilberforce4628
      @uwilberforce4628 Год назад +1

      Truth

    • @babieatiti7259
      @babieatiti7259 Год назад +12

      @@tremonsprings8920 by not being faithful and appreciating there mother,that takes a toll on the mother's emotionally, physically and mentally and hence she can't take care of the kids properly,because she is also human,that's how.

  • @NerlandeBeauty
    @NerlandeBeauty Год назад +96

    Girl respects yourself. You shouldn’t allow anyone to disrespect you like that. Love yourself sis. Please and thank you!

  • @blxckdixmonds
    @blxckdixmonds Год назад +94

    she kinda annoying me too, but she didn’t deserve to be lied to & cheated on 😭

    • @jazzyjennshighway
      @jazzyjennshighway Год назад +25

      Lmbo 😂I said same thing… she overtalks everyone & just plain annoying , her voice got on my nerves … I saw what he was talking about . Jesus take her mouth

    • @GIRLY4293
      @GIRLY4293 Год назад +17

      Like she never shuts up. Like girl hush.

    • @jazzyjennshighway
      @jazzyjennshighway Год назад +16

      @@GIRLY4293 she kept talking more than Karamo 😩

    • @DONTASKMYNEIGHBORCUMMEIGOTTHET
      @DONTASKMYNEIGHBORCUMMEIGOTTHET Год назад +11

      Girl she aggravated me too 😂😂😂😂

    • @erica-5198
      @erica-5198 Год назад +3

      Is it really a lie at this point?? He has pretty much said he doesn’t want her.

  • @kelipeterson5231
    @kelipeterson5231 Год назад +195

    “The biggest lesson I have for you is to figure out why 1 red flag isn’t enough. Why do you need 40?” -Karamo
    Geesh! He nailed that in that whole statement.

    • @nneoma6106
      @nneoma6106 9 месяцев назад

      Period! 👏🏽

  • @autyyx
    @autyyx Год назад +122

    she thinks by exposing all his bs that he looks bad, not realizing that she looks silly knowing all these sneaky things. she seems like a smart girl, leave him in the dust. No man should be able to tell you he’s “ leaving the door open b/c you’re annoying “ .. absolutely NOT. take off the rose colored glasses babes

    • @vernissiegaines6589
      @vernissiegaines6589 Год назад +3

      Lord Jesus, you can't make men do right or make them treat you right. Learn to love and respect yourself put God first everything will fall in place.

  • @fernquez2216
    @fernquez2216 Год назад +128

    This dude is cold 🥶. He's gaslighting her, so bad.

    • @kiera6288
      @kiera6288 Год назад +15

      from jump he was gaslighting her

  • @BlakeRenn
    @BlakeRenn Год назад +124

    She’s definitely an “As long as he comes back home to me”type. I DO NOT FEEL SORRY for this foolery. He is blatantly telling her that their time is up, and she’s indirectly begging him to reset the timer. Self Esteem can not be purchased. After a while, she’s not the victim, she’s the fool.

    • @shereelewis2251
      @shereelewis2251 Год назад +5

      🎯

    • @jazzyjae8777
      @jazzyjae8777 Год назад +2

      👏🏽

    • @latonyafunches9991
      @latonyafunches9991 2 месяца назад +2

      That was very ignorant of you self esteem is a mental issue just bc yall might see it she doesn’t u can’t wake up one morning and have high self esteem

  • @MsMarilyn1234
    @MsMarilyn1234 Год назад +100

    She needs to love (and chose) herself, the signs are so clear

  • @amandachristine2046
    @amandachristine2046 Год назад +41

    I just can't feel sorry for her because she saw all the signs & he straight up told her he doesn't want her! She can do better!

  • @KimontheWeb
    @KimontheWeb Год назад +60

    Honeymoon phase was his love bombing you, he’s a narcissist and does not have the capacity to love you. Chose yourself and move on.

  • @suzieq9578
    @suzieq9578 Год назад +17

    She’s not gonna leave. She already has her answers, but she doesn’t want to leave. Hopefully she finds the strength or gets fed up enough to walk away.

  • @katfox2104
    @katfox2104 Год назад +61

    "Figure out why 1 red flag isn't enough and why u need 40" Powerful!!

    • @laura4495
      @laura4495 Год назад +4

      Yeah, that comment was deep

    • @roselandebazelais8236
      @roselandebazelais8236 11 месяцев назад

      She had more than 1.
      She just pretending she wants to see more,so she could secure her sister.
      She could find a million red flags,she ain't going nowhere.

  • @chroniclesofangie2762
    @chroniclesofangie2762 Год назад +54

    Wait... she caught him cheating numerous times,she doesn’t trust him, she knows it’s not going past engagement, he admitted he wants to sleep with his ex, he’s very open to his cheating scandals to her -it’s time to leave💔
    And the crowd’s just clapping at the weirdest moments💀

  • @mznamohamed
    @mznamohamed Год назад +33

    no mother chooses to be a single parent, but some mothers need to start choosing their kids over and themselves over their men

  • @allbymyself4927
    @allbymyself4927 Год назад +93

    His behavior has literally driven her crazy, hence the reason for her behavior. She’s annoying??? However, she speaks to him like he’s her son. She doesn’t know what to do? She wants him to love her?? This is so sad.

  • @mioshichaffin4870
    @mioshichaffin4870 Год назад +25

    Man… I remember when I used to sit up and argue with dudes like this. Right, wrong, or indifferent. I would see alllll the signs and still ignore it. Everything was their fault. I thank God for growth. Ain’t shit worth arguing and exuding this much energy over. Crying and fighting does not make them love you… and going through their phone only to see what you already know only creates a new unhealthy habit. Glad I grew up

  • @impactfully5714
    @impactfully5714 Год назад +13

    She is not his type. He is holding on for the convenience and benefits, but he does not feel like her, much less love her. He knows she has self-esteem/confidence issues, and he breaks her down. She needs an awakening YESTERDAY.

  • @sweettexastee
    @sweettexastee Год назад +20

    This was a waste of airtime and resources! She said if his phone is squeaky clean, he cleaned it before they got there so why did they come! Also, he will never find peace of mind lying about having a child and otherwise!

    • @TewasaSonko
      @TewasaSonko Год назад +2

      HIS OWN BLOOD DAUGHTER‼️ That’s just WICKED‼️

  • @shawnda8317
    @shawnda8317 Год назад +16

    She keep saying the home is his peace - BABY - no it’s not! If you acting like this on TV, I can only imagine behind closed doors. Not saying he’s innocent, but good LORDT!

    • @deidramanson444
      @deidramanson444 Год назад +2

      Right because you seen 15 mins of me so you got it all figured out. Makes sense.

    • @shawnda8317
      @shawnda8317 Год назад +5

      @@deidramanson444 Exactly, and that’s ALL I needed to see.

    • @Lunaparshae
      @Lunaparshae Год назад

      @@deidramanson444 look up what feminine characteristics are and ask yourself do you have them cause you’re very masculine.

    • @Lunaparshae
      @Lunaparshae Год назад +1

      @@deidramanson444 I’m sorry you’ve been with a narcissist, you need to heal and get therapy so that you don’t attract more narcissistic men.

    • @itsallaboutjayy1012
      @itsallaboutjayy1012 2 месяца назад

      @@deidramanson444you need healing god bless you

  • @autyyx
    @autyyx Год назад +38

    I know someone’s going to comment “
    Don’t let a man tell you twice he done want ya “

  • @LauraSunga
    @LauraSunga Год назад +15

    Self love is so important. When you know God's love and self love you can never settle.

  • @ShortNSweetTay
    @ShortNSweetTay Год назад +39

    You say you not insecure, you smart, sis. The smartest thing you can do is RUN!!!! 🏃🏾‍♀️🏃🏾‍♀️🏃🏾‍♀️🏃🏾‍♀️💨 The narcissistic personality is heavy with this one!

  • @Myztic71
    @Myztic71 Год назад +31

    I saw and heard him say that he didn't want to be with her multiple times, but she was not looking or listening. He's not even trying to hide it at this point. IMO, if it gets to the point where you feel you need to follow someone or have their phone unlocked, the relationship is already over because the trust is gone.

  • @flovelaceproed
    @flovelaceproed Год назад +21

    No one deserves to be cheated or lied to. The truth is so transparent; however she wants to continue this relationship. Her constant going on irritated and triggered me. I found myself telling her to shut up as I watched. I wouldn’t want to live in that home.

  • @adayahowens9442
    @adayahowens9442 Год назад +28

    The fact that he’s trying to explain how he feels and she only cares about if he’s cheating is enough for me… like yes girl he’s cheating he’s doing him and if I was her and I didn’t leave I’d def give this relationship some space and do me

  • @teresa_chosen
    @teresa_chosen Год назад +33

    She got her answer when he scrubbed his phone. She just don’t want to leave him alone. Most times you know the truth before you come to a talk show

  • @iniscodugo4654
    @iniscodugo4654 Год назад +17

    Everyday quarrelling in front of your daughter is more terrible than a broken home

  • @wadilotus
    @wadilotus Год назад +27

    This man is driving this woman crazy, literally. He clearly doesn't want to be with her but she doesn't want to hear it.

  • @enhvisualz5808
    @enhvisualz5808 Год назад +127

    I swear the audience will clap for anything

    • @Yo-ey4ue
      @Yo-ey4ue Год назад +7

      😂😂

    • @brown27407
      @brown27407 Год назад

      🤣🤣

    • @georgia1191
      @georgia1191 Год назад

      Lollll 😂

    • @LaricolaHD
      @LaricolaHD Год назад

      LMFAOOO

    • @Armelleee
      @Armelleee Год назад

      Its a show...im sure there are rules and they have too. If they were just quiet it would be awkward no 🤷🏾‍♀️

  • @Chase_Dapremont777
    @Chase_Dapremont777 Год назад +39

    Coming from a person who’s ex is just like him, sis for your health, please leave him. He’s the type that’ll want you to have 3sumns and still cheat. You can’t change him. Believe people when they show you who they are.

  • @pheonyxjohnson5966
    @pheonyxjohnson5966 Год назад +33

    She’s known him for so long that she is Comfortable and we don’t know what she has been through in life. Alot of times when a man seems good outside people like family pushes you to stay with him especially if you have children together.

    • @kiera6288
      @kiera6288 Год назад +3

      very true especially the older generation will tell you a piece of a man is better than no man. I disagree

  • @Blonde50
    @Blonde50 Год назад +10

    She didn't even have to come to the karamo show to get the answers that she needed, because it was already there in plain sight. Karamo was right about telling her to take the blinders off.

  • @brownskin220
    @brownskin220 Год назад +19

    He doesn't want to be with you anymore babe, and he's most certainly cheating. There will be no confusion when someone really loves and want to be with you. You will know without a doubt.

  • @Bellydaughter
    @Bellydaughter Год назад +5

    he loves her but I can see why he's annoyed. but the bickering is annoying she ain't let him talk once.

  • @ramonahamm6292
    @ramonahamm6292 Год назад +11

    Sis he don’t want you . There is no clarification you need. He is showing you daily YOU ARE NOT THE ONE. You are the problem here , he’s telling you , you’re not listening !! And all that I caught you l, your lying, I have receipts talk is truly just noise. Leave or let him cheat in peace ❤️ I pray for your healing

  • @lakeishahoward6563
    @lakeishahoward6563 Год назад +7

    Sis doesnt want to believe what it is .Shes not gonna leave him shes fina put up with his mess.. But sis if u stay u can’t continue to play the victim…Your stronger and smarter than that….

  • @savannahwilson7982
    @savannahwilson7982 Год назад +9

    He’s so checked out. He’s only there for his child and that is more damaging than leaving. Go and still be active but showing the child toxicity isn’t worth it

  • @joypierce230
    @joypierce230 Год назад +10

    She's hurt...I feel sorry for her and pray she finds the strength to leave him!

  • @lynncdaily6741
    @lynncdaily6741 Год назад +16

    I’m learning not to allow a man to have full control of my life

  • @passion2dope
    @passion2dope Год назад +10

    When they say “im with you all the time how can i cheat” means he cheating lmao.. all that social media and texting calling whatever is emotional cheating.. smh

  • @LB-rn2pg
    @LB-rn2pg Год назад +9

    Don’t let him tell you more than once that he don’t want you

  • @FinDom1
    @FinDom1 Год назад +57

    She’s annoying but it’s because she doesn’t feel safe and that’s his fault. He’s embarrassing.

  • @teneviac
    @teneviac Год назад +6

    She has all the proof she needs. She just doesn't want to leave this man. She will endure this hurt until SHE'S tired. She has to get fed up before she'll leave.

  • @eshaandthingz
    @eshaandthingz Год назад +12

    That man told her in so many words he is done and over the relationship. And she to aggressive for me she's like a tom boy. I wouldn't wanna be around that masculinity either

  • @kukuakukua
    @kukuakukua Год назад +16

    You are staying with such a man because you don't want your daughter to grow up in a broken home. Sis you know damn well you ain't staying for that child, you are using the child as an excuse to justify your insecurities. Your child is better off coming from a broken home than living inside one. Move on with your life ,he ain't changing today or tomorrow. You have to look yourself in the mirror and tell yourself you deserve better.

  • @joyhudson5674
    @joyhudson5674 Год назад +4

    She don’t deserve this ! She is gorgeous ! He don’t respect her. She is a queen. She does not need this stress. You are beautiful and you deserve to be treated well. This man don’t want you. And you don’t need him. There is another man out there that will love her the way she needs. I just can’t get over how beautiful she is 😍😍😍😍😍

  • @treywavvy5646
    @treywavvy5646 Год назад +1

    He couldn’t even keep a straight face😂😂😂😂

  • @deronreed2945
    @deronreed2945 Год назад +21

    Gurl he's just not that into you.

  • @faithn8279
    @faithn8279 Год назад +6

    This is sad....He dont want you honey.....Too much energy wasted on nothing..... Love yourself lady!!!

  • @akbasg
    @akbasg Год назад +6

    He doesnt want you lady ... He is just there because he feels like you the type to punish him with his children

  • @GIRLY4293
    @GIRLY4293 Год назад +10

    He doesn’t like her at all and clearly doesn’t want her. Never let a man tell you twice he doesn’t want you.

  • @asiarandolph8713
    @asiarandolph8713 Год назад +4

    I don't understand why people go on these shows knowing the truth and to
    ”find out” the truth just to stay... It's weird

  • @terricastaples852
    @terricastaples852 Год назад +36

    Honestly he's a narcissist and she's his victim at the moment, I hope she gets the healing she deserves 💯💪❣️

  • @j.d1780
    @j.d1780 Год назад +8

    Girl you need to run🏃‍♀🏃‍♀🏃‍♀🏃‍♀🏃‍♀🏃‍♀🏃‍♀🏃‍♀🏃‍♀🏃‍♀🏃‍♀🏃‍♀🏃‍♀🏃‍♀🏃‍♀Please don't look back....

  • @U9us
    @U9us Год назад +8

    The crazy thing is she knows she’s being gaslighted but she still stays in hopes it’ll stop. It won’t stop! I guess her hopes on this show was to get him to stop and stop cheating. He’s not going to change. For her or anyone that’s who he is and he’s going to stay and keep doing it cause she allows it. Her fussing at him is just a minor inconvenience to him.

    • @aadyahmelton3653
      @aadyahmelton3653 Год назад

      That what I can’t understand! You knew all this why even be on that show

  • @affirmationqueen7006
    @affirmationqueen7006 Год назад +5

    He’s right she is annoying. The man saying he don’t want you. He’s coward to say it! She’s to weak to accept it. Let it go!

  • @TrinaWitDaRedLips
    @TrinaWitDaRedLips Год назад +18

    If she doesn’t know her own worth, it sounds like they need an open relationship. She’ll learn it then. He’s operating as if he’s in an open relationship 😮

  • @trebiensouth652
    @trebiensouth652 Год назад +7

    What Judge Lynn Say…. Something Like Umm “Never Let A Man Tell You More Than Once He Don’t Want You”. This So Sad Man.

  • @marybrown5992
    @marybrown5992 Год назад +2

    how honest you want him to be dang....she crazy

  • @celestineallen5148
    @celestineallen5148 Год назад +3

    Leave this man alone. You are smart, intelligent and hardworking. A child cannot make you be in this toxic relationship. Jamar bye 👋

  • @reginaharrigan7454
    @reginaharrigan7454 Год назад +7

    She doesn't own him and sis can't stop a man from cheating

  • @teonadavis9634
    @teonadavis9634 Год назад +6

    He dropped off the D to the hotel

    • @MrsDymples76
      @MrsDymples76 Год назад +2

      😂😂😂 first thing I said! And was compensated well! Where they do that though?

  • @WhiteOreotastic
    @WhiteOreotastic Год назад +1

    You can tell he messed her up and when she gets angry he smirks he loves hurting her. She needs to know the love she can give herself is enough. Love yourself.

  • @doclittlejohn3261
    @doclittlejohn3261 Год назад +9

    This is classic Narcissistic Personality psychological Abuse and gaslighting, I pray she finds her strength to leave, it is not probable he will never change, the beginning was the Love bomb web he used to get her hooked, this is a hard relationship to leave because the psychological trauma changes to the physiology of the brain as well as the hormonal changes (effects dopamine, serotonin, Oxytocin [trauma bonding} cortisol norepinephrine fight or flight) , not to mention it affects the self esteem and self worth, because they need a energy source to feed their esteem and that is the host or person they are in the relationship, they sick their energy dry (energy vampires).

  • @MrFirebomb969
    @MrFirebomb969 2 месяца назад

    In the beginning, he said he never had any thoughts of cheating on her and then he just couldn't keep lying after that. 😂😂😂😂😂

  • @anotherlevel-e3121
    @anotherlevel-e3121 Год назад +12

    THIS IS WHY FATHERS ARE SO IMPORTANT! WOMEN NEED AN EXAMPLE BUT MOST FATHERS ARE NOT PRESENT

  • @beryl804
    @beryl804 Год назад +2

    I don't even see the need for opening the phone, she has says it all

  • @childofgod8365
    @childofgod8365 Год назад +5

    People hating on him...why? Listen to this woman please? Nobody is making her stay but yet she is here loud ...and all crazy. He tells her, I wanted to sleep with the ex...she tells her tell me the truth....lol she should watch this....

    • @Mixmasala218
      @Mixmasala218 Год назад +1

      100% the man is tired,i think he needs to move in.

  • @U9us
    @U9us Год назад +1

    When he said “I feel like I’m getting gaslighted” I died 🤣 boy bye

  • @elizabethprouddolllover641
    @elizabethprouddolllover641 Год назад +6

    It's amazing how so many women know the red flag and still put on blinders.😋 You can tell she the type that only listens to respond and only listens to herself

  • @Ryahthegoat
    @Ryahthegoat Год назад +1

    “Your not a tour guide” took me out a haha WOOOOOO😭🏃🏽‍♀️

  • @corneisharatcliffe8053
    @corneisharatcliffe8053 Год назад +6

    I really hope she watches this, he told her she's not listening

    • @deidramanson444
      @deidramanson444 Год назад +1

      I did like 3 times

    • @corneisharatcliffe8053
      @corneisharatcliffe8053 Год назад +1

      @@deidramanson444 don't let anyone make your decision not even your sister although she has your best interest at heart and not even me, but co-parenting isn't as bad as you think. I wish you the best!

    • @deidramanson444
      @deidramanson444 Год назад +1

      Thank you❤

  • @Hadiswife
    @Hadiswife Год назад +1

    I see why he feels the way he does. She is too much....he doesn't want her and she refuses to believe it

  • @cocochante6685
    @cocochante6685 Год назад +3

    She said she was smart. Honestly, she’s young, naive, and she’s trying to save this toxic relationship. The honey moon stage only last like two years, you will never get that back. She’s not ready to let him go. He will continue to cheat and lie about it until she chooses herself.

  • @sallysson
    @sallysson 4 месяца назад +1

    What's crazy is I'm not sure if thinks we believe him or if he actually believes himself 😮

  • @rororidley5829
    @rororidley5829 Год назад +13

    It’s been over 20 years. You already done let him use your womb without a real commitment. He ain’t worried even a little bit about her leaving. He knows that he is “the prize” in the relationship because she confirms it regularly. He no longer likes her, but finds a benefit in her loving him so much so he sticks around for now. He will waste all her good years then marry another woman he respects. And Baby Mama will be on the Wall. 💔

    • @teonbacs5917
      @teonbacs5917 Год назад +1

      Truth.... She best not have any more babies for this guy.

  • @tiffanybrown1644
    @tiffanybrown1644 4 месяца назад

    He told you that he don’t want you how much more clarity do you need.

  • @babiiluv7931
    @babiiluv7931 Год назад +6

    She not leaving right now.
    She in denial and wants him to love her the way she love him. He won’t leave for convenience. She has to be the one to leave this bozo for good regardless of the child. Just co-parent in a healthy space and leave dude TF ALONE. The nagging is just a tip of the ice berg. I don’t believe he wanted the relationship at all. Ever.

  • @NessiWorld205
    @NessiWorld205 Год назад

    Girl stand up he doing it in yo face and you still stay how your daughters gonna see you they deserve a strong mama

  • @beryl804
    @beryl804 Год назад +3

    Exactly, why does she need to collect 40 red flags

  • @sunshinestar6530
    @sunshinestar6530 8 месяцев назад

    His body language says everything. Lady.. He Does Not Want To Be With You!!!!

  • @YonUndone3064
    @YonUndone3064 Год назад +4

    Engaged for three years...😗

  • @gboii08
    @gboii08 Год назад +2

    I just don't understand how she knows all the answers that she wants to know but still wants to be with him...smh!!

  • @jessicatobias9371
    @jessicatobias9371 Год назад +10

    Gas light at its best !!!

  • @tamiko_8369
    @tamiko_8369 Год назад +1

    Why do you need to unlock a phone! You all ready know 🤷🏽‍♀️🙄 just move on! Dang girl you will look back and be like why did I waste my energy

  • @florencechiponde5628
    @florencechiponde5628 Год назад +5

    I really hope she left him 😔 and found someone that deserved her

  • @saida4292
    @saida4292 Год назад +1

    1st time someone tells you they don't want you best believe them! Never make excuses for their behaviour

  • @rustyhornzinstrumentalist-7596
    @rustyhornzinstrumentalist-7596 Год назад +3

    "MeN" Do ReaL ThinGS, IF TheY WaNNa Be a PLaYeR, It'S kNOWN, TheRe is No LyinG To WoMeN. She NeeDS To SToP BeinG in DeNiaL aBouT ThiS "BoY" 🤦🏾💯