You’re voice is soothing and comforting. It’s something the little one inside of me needs to hear… the things you teach are like ok, I’m gonna be ok now. Thx so much Lisa!!
The one thing I have discovered is that in addition to what is said here, many times we do not take time to look at what is it that we really want, how do we really feel, are our needs being met.
The challenging circumstances created by my narcissistic partner have significantly hindered my ability to sell the house or negotiate a resolution. As a result, I am contemplating the possibility of selling all my personal belongings, initiating divorce proceedings, and embarking on a journey of self-discovery. While uncertain about the specific steps to take or the destination to pursue, I firmly believe that any alternative would be preferable to enduring the torment of this personal hell. It saddens me to acknowledge that I have inadvertently contributed to the growth of this distressing situation over time. Nevertheless, my determination lies in maintaining a positive mindset and distancing myself from this detrimental environment.
No longer addicted to their drama, left the trauma, no contact now. So many users out here. Genuine love I require, no longer just settling for a one-sided situationship.
Take a Moment to catch your breath and realize that YOU ARE AS IMPORTANT AS ANYONE ELSE ON THIS PLANET... And your happiness and mental health, are as important as Anyone else on the planet.. Keep that in mind 😊 hope you have a great day.
GOD is merely the word GOOD first used by Plato when he wrote virtue is GOOD!!!! some time later the early church so as to control the poor poor poor blind pathetic 🐑🐑🐑🐑🐑🐑🐑🐑 dese cat's removed an O and CREATED CREATED CREATED CREATED CREATED GOD!!! my PINEAL GLAND BUST over at lifestyle luminaries blogspot bill Donahue ❤️🌞🌞
It is pure hell because in essence, you were actually putting an end to the identity that was formed at a young age, and that you’ve learned as part of your livelihood even though it may not have been healthy, it’s all you know. It takes a very courageous person to be aware, and to take the steps to changing every single thing that they have ever learned and intuitively now is not who they genuinely are, and then digging in deep inside and changing it all it says, if a port, if you was dying, it’s a very very frightening experience, and at the same time it becomes very liberating, because as you go through each, and every challenge you become who you were meant to be… you start to feel like your authentic self, and all the hell that you feel you’re going through will pay off more than you’ll ever know… this is just some minor change. This is a major major metamorphosis. Eckhart Tolle said something that that did not make sense to me, but it does now he said the trick is to die before you die…. Meaning all that you learned and how your ego was formed may not have always served you well may not have been healthy, so you literally have to end and identity that was formed from an early age. It really is extremely challenging…. it really does help to know that there are people who are going through the same challenge… just keep taking it a step at a time because you’re learning a whole new way of life, and most of all be really gentle with yourself, because healing is not linear. You will always take a step forward, and then a step back….. self-love, self parenting, acquiring healthy habits, and doing things that you love to do are all part of the recipe of making these changes…. it’s a practice and it’s a daily one I thought, but the more you practice the more it becomes a way of life until you no longer feel that it’s not familiar to you. In essence you’re forming a whole new identity. Anyone who goes through this and who is making it a point to make these changes deserves all good things that will come from all the efforts that they are making because they’re still other way of putting it, and to say that you are essentially transforming yourself.❤
@@pamchesler242 thank you for that 💪 after reading it many examples come to mind with what you described quite nicely!!! in nature the snake shedding it's skin comes to mind and of course the caterpillar becoming the butterfly ❤️ moving to da Bible you have many examples of what you just layed out!!!! sari becomes Sarah Abram becomes Abraham Jacob becomes IS - RA - EL ( three Egyptian gods NOT a country oy vey 😱 lifestyle luminaries blogspot bill Donahue ❤️👍) Saul becomes Paul I am smack in the middle of this brutal process RIGHT NOW 🥳🤠 the most important thing is to trust the universe 💯 🧐 life is definitely not for sissies 😂🤣👌
You are an amazing teacher Lisa❤ Thank you for all your time wisdom and love 🙏🏼💐 This video really does help and touch on a lot of interesting concepts re focussing on" what's happening inside and be in tandem with the flow. " Change is hard for me and constant. I am trying to let go let God & not ego, (Edging God Out)🙃❤🙏🏼🌹 Love Jillisa
I get stronger each day, might lose a few ppl along the way but I'm gaining ME. Keep the tools coming! I'm doing so great and grateful 🙏 for you these past several years...God Bless You Lisa..XOXO
Great video and messages! I kept thinking of contrasting Steven Pressfield's concept of charging into Resistance (to be a Salmon swimming up a river). I like both perspectives and see occasions for both.
Its so cool hearing someone that has AWOKEN like you teach about this! Youre brilliant and awake something. Thank you Lisa your videos give me tools and tips hope and clarity
Very intuitive, .....*Your single source of self* & what you do to wrap yourself around that with "Mind, Body & Soul"! Vibrations expansion in exercise. ☮️✌️
It’s very difficult to be a sensitive person in a world that mocks it.. makes you feel weak for caring.. so much so that you internalize that and begin to hate the fact that you even care…
Thank you for the suggestion of facing my fears. I just made a list of my core fears and dontcha know that they all stem from my childhood experiences (hunger, homelessness, physical suffering). So I will contemplate these issues and move forward. Love your vids! TYSM!
recently seen or heard? hence copy & paste from the past, albeit a distant past Thank you kindly for sharing. As an "always mama's boy" at age 56, I can relate. Co-Dependency seems to be the KEY as in my case Father was a Merchant Seaman, per chance assumed my Mother would be somewhat adept in coping with "foreign issues in a foreign land". Over time, She Truly became dependent on such from me, thereby hindering my current (chronic anxiety since '89) issues. Love/hate with Respect relationship I continue, despite She is Always right?
I had bad anxiety if I’m around couples and they argue my heart starts to thump fast now I’m aware intelligence as well with self healing to know that I know what I attract and I just look at it from far and see that’s not gonna be seeking attention 😂it’s about being his peace still tranquil Relaxing 😎
Hello Lisa God bless you for helping many thousands I'm waiting for the house to get out of probate but for one year since mom passed after Dad.... I have a cousin I don't know next door and she said I was breaking artist one of her kids that she did not raise you know many of many many he brags that can break in anything so it really has been happening to me but by her. but I'm safe maybe the back door is more camera sufficient except one thing the surveillance cameras don't work at night wish me luck I taped the doors with gorilla glue when I go to sleep at night and the cheapest of all things a chain on your door is the biggest improvement did my dad introduced you to her because if I got together with dad's friends it would be a healing experience there's another girl who's a shopper on the RUclips here but I have to tread softly his dad was kind of embarrassing may he rest in peace very bad trickster to the point of real reputation damaged and abuse
My mothers family alwas made me feel responsable for my fathers behavior. That was traumatizing. I am trying to detach. Bur it's hard. I am trying to gift myself with love and growth. They like to blame and critise others for their poor behavior. All codependents make you feel bad for not wanting this dynamic
Thank you, Lisa! 🙏💚💜🧡💙🪷🦋🌙☀️✨ My parents, who I haven't seen in 5 years are stopping by today to do an exchange of items and I need all the strength I can get!!!!
You’re voice is soothing and comforting. It’s something the little one inside of me needs to hear… the things you teach are like ok, I’m gonna be ok now. Thx so much Lisa!!
I feel the same way about Lisa. She's truly met her calling helping us heal.
Wonderful!
The one thing I have discovered is that in addition to what is said here, many times we do not take time to look at what is it that we really want, how do we really feel, are our needs being met.
What a relief after listening to this video. Thank you Lisa for making it crystal clear.❤❤
The challenging circumstances created by my narcissistic partner have significantly hindered my ability to sell the house or negotiate a resolution. As a result, I am contemplating the possibility of selling all my personal belongings, initiating divorce proceedings, and embarking on a journey of self-discovery. While uncertain about the specific steps to take or the destination to pursue, I firmly believe that any alternative would be preferable to enduring the torment of this personal hell. It saddens me to acknowledge that I have inadvertently contributed to the growth of this distressing situation over time. Nevertheless, my determination lies in maintaining a positive mindset and distancing myself from this detrimental environment.
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Some strong points:
your in resistance to/the flow of life: 2:35
We don't trust others: 4:33
in the play/ how you feel creates what you think 6:22
"Blessed are those who mourn."
No longer addicted to their drama, left the trauma, no contact now. So many users out here. Genuine love I require, no longer just settling for a one-sided situationship.
It's pure hell. And God trying to get through. Never had anything so crippling.
Take a
Moment to catch your breath and realize that
YOU ARE AS IMPORTANT AS
ANYONE ELSE ON THIS PLANET...
And your happiness and mental health, are as important as
Anyone else on the planet..
Keep that in mind 😊 hope you have a great day.
GOD is merely the word GOOD first used by Plato when he wrote virtue is GOOD!!!! some time later the early church so as to control the poor poor poor blind pathetic 🐑🐑🐑🐑🐑🐑🐑🐑 dese cat's removed an O and CREATED CREATED CREATED CREATED CREATED GOD!!! my PINEAL GLAND BUST over at lifestyle luminaries blogspot bill Donahue ❤️🌞🌞
It is pure hell because in essence, you were actually putting an end to the identity that was formed at a young age, and that you’ve learned as part of your livelihood even though it may not have been healthy, it’s all you know. It takes a very courageous person to be aware, and to take the steps to changing every single thing that they have ever learned and intuitively now is not who they genuinely are, and then digging in deep inside and changing it all it says, if a port, if you was dying, it’s a very very frightening experience, and at the same time it becomes very liberating, because as you go through each, and every challenge you become who you were meant to be… you start to feel like your authentic self, and all the hell that you feel you’re going through will pay off more than you’ll ever know… this is just some minor change. This is a major major metamorphosis. Eckhart Tolle said something that that did not make sense to me, but it does now he said the trick is to die before you die…. Meaning all that you learned and how your ego was formed may not have always served you well may not have been healthy, so you literally have to end and identity that was formed from an early age. It really is extremely challenging…. it really does help to know that there are people who are going through the same challenge… just keep taking it a step at a time because you’re learning a whole new way of life, and most of all be really gentle with yourself, because healing is not linear. You will always take a step forward, and then a step back….. self-love, self parenting, acquiring healthy habits, and doing things that you love to do are all part of the recipe of making these changes…. it’s a practice and it’s a daily one I thought, but the more you practice the more it becomes a way of life until you no longer feel that it’s not familiar to you. In essence you’re forming a whole new identity. Anyone who goes through this and who is making it a point to make these changes deserves all good things that will come from all the efforts that they are making because they’re still other way of putting it, and to say that you are essentially transforming yourself.❤
@@pamchesler242 thank you for that 💪 after reading it many examples come to mind with what you described quite nicely!!! in nature the snake shedding it's skin comes to mind and of course the caterpillar becoming the butterfly ❤️ moving to da Bible you have many examples of what you just layed out!!!! sari becomes Sarah Abram becomes Abraham Jacob becomes IS - RA - EL ( three Egyptian gods NOT a country oy vey 😱 lifestyle luminaries blogspot bill Donahue ❤️👍) Saul becomes Paul I am smack in the middle of this brutal process RIGHT NOW 🥳🤠 the most important thing is to trust the universe 💯 🧐 life is definitely not for sissies 😂🤣👌
It is pure hell. I have lost many relationships since I have started to heal and it is scary as well as hard.
You are an amazing teacher Lisa❤
Thank you for all your time wisdom and love 🙏🏼💐 This video really does help and touch on a lot of interesting concepts re focussing on" what's happening inside and be in tandem with the flow. " Change is hard for me and constant. I am trying to let go let God & not ego, (Edging God Out)🙃❤🙏🏼🌹 Love Jillisa
I needed this today. I am going to my first CODA meeting tonight. Thank you Lisa for the work you do in your healed self
❤❤❤ Lisa, thank you for sharing your knowledge & Wisdom! 💞💞💞 Blessings!!💞💞💞
Peace and gratitude are my favorite on that big menu.
Thanks Coach!
Your video came exactly in the right moment for me! 🥰
You have hit a home run, AGAIN. I hear you and understand.
Perfect!
Thank you for this video. For ALL your videos. ❤ Everything you said is true. My existence doesn't depend on how I get someone else's needs met.
Brilliant
Thank you Lisa! I’m grateful!
You are so welcome!
You are the dear one & with all my ❤ l thank you for all your wise advice. You are awesome, love you. God bless 🙏
I get stronger each day, might lose a few ppl along the way but I'm gaining ME. Keep the tools coming! I'm doing so great and grateful 🙏 for you these past several years...God Bless You Lisa..XOXO
Sometimes the people you wanted as part of your story are only meant to be a chapter. God bless.
Thanks for everything you share!!❤❤
Great video and messages! I kept thinking of contrasting Steven Pressfield's concept of charging into Resistance (to be a Salmon swimming up a river). I like both perspectives and see occasions for both.
Brilliant!....as usual.....concentrating on the world.....instead of on our inner beings!
Its so cool hearing someone that has AWOKEN like you teach about this! Youre brilliant and awake something. Thank you Lisa your videos give me tools and tips hope and clarity
Very intuitive, .....*Your single source of self* & what you do to wrap yourself around that with "Mind, Body & Soul"! Vibrations expansion in exercise. ☮️✌️
It’s very difficult to be a sensitive person in a world that mocks it.. makes you feel weak for caring.. so much so that you internalize that and begin to hate the fact that you even care…
Thank you for the suggestion of facing my fears. I just made a list of my core fears and dontcha know that they all stem from my childhood experiences (hunger, homelessness, physical suffering). So I will contemplate these issues and move forward. Love your vids! TYSM!
Thank you 💙 Lisa
You’re awesome Lisa!!
Love lisaa 💙 😖
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Thank you!!🌹
Love ❤
content and presentation are excellent. Thank you.
recently seen or heard?
hence copy & paste from the past, albeit a distant past
Thank you kindly for sharing. As an "always mama's boy" at age 56, I can relate. Co-Dependency seems to be the KEY as in my case Father was a Merchant Seaman, per chance assumed my Mother would be somewhat adept in coping with "foreign issues in a foreign land".
Over time, She Truly became dependent on such from me, thereby hindering my current (chronic anxiety since '89) issues.
Love/hate with Respect relationship I continue, despite She is Always right?
I had bad anxiety if I’m around couples and they argue my heart starts to thump fast now I’m aware intelligence as well with self healing to know that I know what I attract and I just look at it from far and see that’s not gonna be seeking attention 😂it’s about being his peace still tranquil Relaxing 😎
Thank you❤
Liza thank you So so much❤❤❤❤❤
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What do u recommemd for someone who lets no one bc yhe fear of being abused like my mother was
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Hello Lisa God bless you for helping many thousands I'm waiting for the house to get out of probate but for one year since mom passed after Dad.... I have a cousin I don't know next door and she said I was breaking artist one of her kids that she did not raise you know many of many many he brags that can break in anything so it really has been happening to me but by her. but I'm safe maybe the back door is more camera sufficient except one thing the surveillance cameras don't work at night wish me luck I taped the doors with gorilla glue when I go to sleep at night and the cheapest of all things a chain on your door is the biggest improvement did my dad introduced you to her because if I got together with dad's friends it would be a healing experience there's another girl who's a shopper on the RUclips here but I have to tread softly his dad was kind of embarrassing may he rest in peace very bad trickster to the point of real reputation damaged and abuse
My mothers family alwas made me feel responsable for my fathers behavior. That was traumatizing. I am trying to detach. Bur it's hard. I am trying to gift myself with love and growth. They like to blame and critise others for their poor behavior. All codependents make you feel bad for not wanting this dynamic
My sister expects me to ‘grow up’ according to her perceptions instead of just being me
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Thank you, Lisa! 🙏💚💜🧡💙🪷🦋🌙☀️✨
My parents, who I haven't seen in 5 years are stopping by today to do an exchange of items and I need all the strength I can get!!!!
Hang in there Dear One!
@@lisaaromano1 thank you, Lisa! 🙏💚💜🧡💙🪷🦋☀️🌙
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