This is an act of true love towards her kids. If people are disappointed or upset that aspyn is going to stop showing her kids, that’s weird imo. This is Aspyns channel, not her kids. She’s doing it for their privacy, and obviously we should 100% agree with it!
You can still make mom content without showing the girls. You can give updates and talk about them without physically showing them. You can also discuss mom things like snacks and meals for them, toys you get them, birthday and holiday planning etc
Aspyn you don’t owe any one of us anything, you’ve worked your butt off for the last ten years producing content and getting to a point where you are able to be financially set. You’ve got two girls and a husband that are your world, your true fans understand that they come first. I’m just happy that you are taking care of your mental health/family first. We support you❤️❤️
Aspyn, I’m so proud of you for making this change. You are funny, talented, beautiful and can still have a great channel/community without exploiting your children on social media. I also think a lot of people will support you in this change! Anyone who doesn’t…needs to get better hobbies. You can film makeup vlogs, hauls, shopping with me, baby/kids clothing hauls. You can still talk about your kids, just not show them! ❤
I’ll definitely miss seeing coco and Lola but I understand why you want to stop showing them! I do love the mom content since I’m about to have my first it’s helpful!
THANK YOU THANK YOU THANK YOU for honoring those sweet, innocent girls by giving them privacy and security. They will thank you so much when they can fully understand what that means.
girl i think you are overthinking it! post what you like to watch and we’ll be here for it! a lot of us have been here through many stages of your life we aren’t going anywhere at this point
i found your channel because i was pregnant with my first child when you were pregnant with your first child, i’ve watched you ever since but i’ll always be a ride or die aspyn fan, you not showing your girls just shows your love for them. love watching absolutely anything you post - chats, tutorials, unboxing, silliness, date nights, day in the life, shopping, anything!
I follow a few moms who don’t show their kids and it seems completely natural. You just need to figure out your new flow! It’s probably hard to think of yourself as anything but a mom, but you are so much more! We will watch you share the other aspects of your life and your various interests. And we change as people all the time. Your likes and interests will evolve and we will be here to engage!
i super duper respect your choice. i know your girls will be super grateful to you in the future for this decision!! so proud of you for setting this example as it’s like absolutely not the norm to anymore. i’m actually here bc you came back up on my snapchat and i enjoyed the day in the life you shared the other day. so yes if you post there, at least i will see it!!
I love hearing about the kids and still love hearing about ideas, holidays, meals you make for them etc! It's my favorite part of your channel "moming" lol .. I think it is a little weird that people are upset that you won't show them. I totally agree with you keeping their privacy!
Totally understand this Aspyn ❤ a video series idea might be to do “Aspyn Time” like this when you go out what does your self care look like that’s just for you!
I always love when you upload! I know traditionally you've always just vlogged one single day and then uploaded, but what if you switched to more "weekly vlogs" then maybe you'll have more time to capture clips that don't have the girls in them? I totally respect the decision to share the girls less. You're a great mom!
We love and miss y’all! But there’s nothing better than a happy mommy…. Cause no one is happy if mom isn’t happy! 😂❤ I think a little 10 minute car chat every so often would be a great way to organically ease into a new era. The updates will eventually just grow into a pattern and then you can start showing whatever you feel comfy with. Or, they could just stay car chats. I don’t think anyone would mind that! 🥰❤
I really respect that you're giving yourself the space to figure this out. Being an influencer doesn't mean you aren't allowed to establish boundaries. I can see how this would be very hard to navigate especially with how many years you've been online. I love that you mentioned that your views and opinions have changed. That's okay and I admire the way you're showing yourself compassion and grace through this process. I ran to this video because I do miss your content but I also understand you're a whole person and you don't exist purely for my entertainment. Whatever you choose to do will be the right decision because you made it. I have been watching your videos for years and loved your content before you became a mom. I'm not going anywhere. Take your time ❤️
What brought me to your channel was honestly your nose job experience video but I stayed for the hauls and home decorating. The kids are obviously way cute but are definitely not my main reason for watching. I adore your sister's content as well! You and Parker also seem very genuine and I love that. I will continue to watch whenever you upload and support you guys! ❤
I totally respect the privacy you want for your kids! Good for you! I would loooove to see packing/moving vlogs when you move! And then how you organize and style your new house!
Missed you Aspyn! I respect you so much as a mom and a person! I’ve always loved your vlogs but you truly deserve this change of pace after all these years.
I have so much to say so I’m sorry I’m advanced! First off, I love your hair it’s grown so fast!! I’ll miss seeing/hearing about Lola and Cove so much but obviously their privacy needs to be a priority too and we can all respect that. I will honestly watch anything and everything you post. I’ve been a subscriber since you had less than 10,000 subs so I’ve grown up alongside you as well. I love the vlogs and your daily life and this chit chat was fun too but also maybe it would be fun to do more producer type videos again as they’d be easy to do in one sitting without the kids in the background (your swimsuit try on/ratings we’re always my fave!!). I also miss Parker too so you could always do couple style challenges etc with him!
The mom stuff is my fav since cove was growing around the time my daughter was. Loved the updates on her development… but a lot of moms change to not showing their kids which I’ll miss but I understand that.
As a young mom, I appreciate you taking that step for your babies and yourself…. Take the time for yourself … if you’re up to vlogging when you’re by yourself or with Parker that’d be cool! Reintroduce yourself babe 💕💕💕
THIS! I’m so proud of you for making the choice to show your babies less. I know they will appreciate that as they grow up. I know you’ll appreciate having that portion of your life be private. I always feel guilt watching family vlogs. To the point where I stopped watching a lot of RUclipsrs that I love. Because I feel guilty knowing so much intimate stuff about a complete strangers children. I wouldn’t have wanted those things broadcasted if it were me. So therefore I feel it’s only right that I not watch. So I’m so happy to hear you’re working towards making this switch. I think it’s very mature and wise of you to do so!❤
I started following you before you had the girls and will keep watching if you show them or not. As a Mama, I get that decision. The desire to protect our babies is soooo strong.
People get so pressed when people don’t share their kids. I have no followers and still only post my daughter when I FEEL like it. I even cover my daughter’s face in most pictures and people freak out. The entitlement people feel towards others kids is wild. Excited to see how Aspyn’s content will change 🙂
Will miss the family vlogs/mom life as I’m in that season of life and looked forward to seeing another moms perspective/ideas. But I will always respect your opinions and wish you all nothing but the best ❤️
i think you're doing the right thing. i see like saconne jolys and other family vlogs that literally broadcast every single detail of their kids lives and it always rubs me the wrong way. Ofc everyone shares pics and here there. But to regularly record a kid like they're on a TV show and post it for thousands to watch isnt the same as posting a few pics on instagram (at least in my personal opinion). I think as your kids are growing, your instincts are right on the money and you should follow your gut. Mommy content doesnt HAVE to include your kids. you're your own person and have your own journey!
Anyone who is upset with you removing your kids from social media clearly has a creepy parasocial relationship with them or is a p3d0. You’re doing what’s best for your kids! Keep doing it and don’t worry about anyone else.
I think it’s great you’re doing what feels right and protecting your kids! Sunbeamsjess is a RUclipsr that never shows her daughter and I still love watching her content! You could also chat like this while getting ready, share your outfit etc?
Good for you. I don’t know how anyone could regret this decision in the future. I’m afraid for this whole new generation of kids growing up on RUclips with literally no privacy
You can always do mom content and do your own content w/o sharing your girls. “Mom content” I like it mainly just the mom talking about gadgets, tips, snacks that has helped them out w their kids but don’t necessarily show their kids. And that also share things like makeup, q&a, mini vlogs here and there. Also I’m glad you’re working less and spending more time on your fam and just yourself
Honestly so relieving to see influencers taking steps to protect their kids. I definitely don't plan on posting my kids online because you just never know what could happen. You can't go wrong with protecting your kids' online privacy!
Awe babes we love you! And we respect your choice in not posting the girls faces, and navigating that too. I love seeing your videos because we’ve quite literally grown up together. I’m a year younger than you, had my baby right before you had Lola etc. I feel like a lot of us are in the same stages in life.. if that makes sense! And I really resonate with what you said about opinions changing etc because I’m experiencing all of that too! You’re not alone in this stage of life and it’s good to know that we aren’t either. I know back in the day it was really popular to make content specific videos but honestly I feel like it’s changed a bit and you don’t need to feel all of that pressure anymore. We always love you mamas.
Miss your vlogs Aspyn! Glad to see you post 😊 I’m wondering if you could still vlog your days, but just when you are filming not have the girls faces in the video? I know a few bloggers who do this, and just alter the camera angles. Love your daily life and mom content!
Aspyn we love watching you and respect your choices. You can just post when your out on your own and we would watch, but also take your time everyone needs a break
I understand and respect that you don't want to show the girls anymore, even though I did loved seeing them and watch you being their mom. :) I would still love to have new vlogs from you so would love if you could figure out your own way. Your vlogs are/were my favourite! You are a very big inspiration ❤
I can really respect you not wanting to show your kids and respecting their privacy, there’s a lot of channels that tell every little detail about their children and I can’t understand why someone would want to do that
I didn’t realize how much you were apart of my life until you slowed down. Im so happy for you and your little family but i miss you and am glad to see your face & see you happy. 🤍
I honestly don’t blame you for not wanting to share your kids. The world is a scary place and if I was in your position I would do the same. Also, this is your channel.
Thank you so much for making this decision for your kids 🤍 although of course they are precious and seeing updates is cute, not worth it. They’re safety and happiness is most important
You do not owe us anything babe! Your kids are adorable and I love the fact that you are respecting them and their privacy! We miss you too🫶🫶 Take care of yourself and your needs we will always be here!
I appreciate all you have shared with us! If you dont come back just know Ive enjoyed watching! You are a Beautiful young lady that walks with ALOT of GRACE! TY
This is an act of true love towards her kids. If people are disappointed or upset that aspyn is going to stop showing her kids, that’s weird imo. This is Aspyns channel, not her kids. She’s doing it for their privacy, and obviously we should 100% agree with it!
This IS an act of true love!! You’re totally right. Her girls will appreciate this so much when they are older.
Respect for prioritizing your kids needs. Thank you for setting a good example.
You can still make mom content without showing the girls. You can give updates and talk about them without physically showing them. You can also discuss mom things like snacks and meals for them, toys you get them, birthday and holiday planning etc
Kids privacy is the best thing honestly; to many people in life that are sick minded. ❤
Aspyn you don’t owe any one of us anything, you’ve worked your butt off for the last ten years producing content and getting to a point where you are able to be financially set. You’ve got two girls and a husband that are your world, your true fans understand that they come first. I’m just happy that you are taking care of your mental health/family first. We support you❤️❤️
I always appreciate it when RUclips moms set clear boundaries to keep their kids safe 👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻
Aspyn, I’m so proud of you for making this change. You are funny, talented, beautiful and can still have a great channel/community without exploiting your children on social media. I also think a lot of people will support you in this change! Anyone who doesn’t…needs to get better hobbies. You can film makeup vlogs, hauls, shopping with me, baby/kids clothing hauls. You can still talk about your kids, just not show them! ❤
I’ll definitely miss seeing coco and Lola but I understand why you want to stop showing them! I do love the mom content since I’m about to have my first it’s helpful!
THANK YOU THANK YOU THANK YOU for honoring those sweet, innocent girls by giving them privacy and security. They will thank you so much when they can fully understand what that means.
girl i think you are overthinking it! post what you like to watch and we’ll be here for it! a lot of us have been here through many stages of your life we aren’t going anywhere at this point
i found your channel because i was pregnant with my first child when you were pregnant with your first child, i’ve watched you ever since but i’ll always be a ride or die aspyn fan, you not showing your girls just shows your love for them. love watching absolutely anything you post - chats, tutorials, unboxing, silliness, date nights, day in the life, shopping, anything!
Thanks for sharing Aspyn ❤️❤️ lots of difficult choices but I’ll always be here to support you as a human being (not content) first!!
I follow a few moms who don’t show their kids and it seems completely natural. You just need to figure out your new flow! It’s probably hard to think of yourself as anything but a mom, but you are so much more! We will watch you share the other aspects of your life and your various interests. And we change as people all the time. Your likes and interests will evolve and we will be here to engage!
You’re always so transparent. Love that. Respect that and I’m happy you’re getting more time with your family.
i think it is hard bc this is the first real generation to deal with social media who have kids. We are learning as we go
I LITERALLY LOVE this video of just you!! So excited for you and doing this for the babes ❤
I RAN to this video
Same!!
@@Vicmersantana me too!!
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i super duper respect your choice. i know your girls will be super grateful to you in the future for this decision!! so proud of you for setting this example as it’s like absolutely not the norm to anymore.
i’m actually here bc you came back up on my snapchat and i enjoyed the day in the life you shared the other day. so yes if you post there, at least i will see it!!
I love hearing about the kids and still love hearing about ideas, holidays, meals you make for them etc! It's my favorite part of your channel "moming" lol .. I think it is a little weird that people are upset that you won't show them. I totally agree with you keeping their privacy!
i loveeeee this hair on you!!! the layers, the color, everything 💖
Totally understand this Aspyn ❤ a video series idea might be to do “Aspyn Time” like this when you go out what does your self care look like that’s just for you!
I always love when you upload! I know traditionally you've always just vlogged one single day and then uploaded, but what if you switched to more "weekly vlogs" then maybe you'll have more time to capture clips that don't have the girls in them? I totally respect the decision to share the girls less. You're a great mom!
Sending so much love and support! You're doing the best thing for you!
We love and miss y’all! But there’s nothing better than a happy mommy…. Cause no one is happy if mom isn’t happy! 😂❤ I think a little 10 minute car chat every so often would be a great way to organically ease into a new era. The updates will eventually just grow into a pattern and then you can start showing whatever you feel comfy with. Or, they could just stay car chats. I don’t think anyone would mind that! 🥰❤
I really respect that you're giving yourself the space to figure this out. Being an influencer doesn't mean you aren't allowed to establish boundaries. I can see how this would be very hard to navigate especially with how many years you've been online. I love that you mentioned that your views and opinions have changed. That's okay and I admire the way you're showing yourself compassion and grace through this process. I ran to this video because I do miss your content but I also understand you're a whole person and you don't exist purely for my entertainment. Whatever you choose to do will be the right decision because you made it. I have been watching your videos for years and loved your content before you became a mom. I'm not going anywhere. Take your time ❤️
love your hair like this!! also your cardigan is so cute!!! It was nice to see you pop back on here for a min!
What brought me to your channel was honestly your nose job experience video but I stayed for the hauls and home decorating. The kids are obviously way cute but are definitely not my main reason for watching. I adore your sister's content as well!
You and Parker also seem very genuine and I love that. I will continue to watch whenever you upload and support you guys! ❤
This hair on you is so good!
I totally respect the privacy you want for your kids! Good for you! I would loooove to see packing/moving vlogs when you move! And then how you organize and style your new house!
Your hair looks AMAZING
missed your videos but im glad you’re doing well 🫶🏼
So good to hear from you. To be honest when you said you weren’t really gonna post anymore I was sad! I love your posts!
Missed you Aspyn! I respect you so much as a mom and a person! I’ve always loved your vlogs but you truly deserve this change of pace after all these years.
Wow Aspyn never looked more fabulous 😍😍😍 Stunning!!
I have so much to say so I’m sorry I’m advanced! First off, I love your hair it’s grown so fast!! I’ll miss seeing/hearing about Lola and Cove so much but obviously their privacy needs to be a priority too and we can all respect that. I will honestly watch anything and everything you post. I’ve been a subscriber since you had less than 10,000 subs so I’ve grown up alongside you as well. I love the vlogs and your daily life and this chit chat was fun too but also maybe it would be fun to do more producer type videos again as they’d be easy to do in one sitting without the kids in the background (your swimsuit try on/ratings we’re always my fave!!). I also miss Parker too so you could always do couple style challenges etc with him!
The mom stuff is my fav since cove was growing around the time my daughter was. Loved the updates on her development… but a lot of moms change to not showing their kids which I’ll miss but I understand that.
As a young mom, I appreciate you taking that step for your babies and yourself…. Take the time for yourself … if you’re up to vlogging when you’re by yourself or with Parker that’d be cool! Reintroduce yourself babe 💕💕💕
THIS! I’m so proud of you for making the choice to show your babies less. I know they will appreciate that as they grow up. I know you’ll appreciate having that portion of your life be private. I always feel guilt watching family vlogs. To the point where I stopped watching a lot of RUclipsrs that I love. Because I feel guilty knowing so much intimate stuff about a complete strangers children. I wouldn’t have wanted those things broadcasted if it were me. So therefore I feel it’s only right that I not watch. So I’m so happy to hear you’re working towards making this switch. I think it’s very mature and wise of you to do so!❤
I am so happy to see you again. I hope you got what you needed!
very understandable update!! also ur hair looks so good i love it
Thank you for sharing ❤ I respect that a lot! Event though I love your mum content - it's very inspiring for me❤️❤️
I started following you before you had the girls and will keep watching if you show them or not. As a Mama, I get that decision. The desire to protect our babies is soooo strong.
I’m so excited you finally uploaded!! 🥹 missing your vlogs but understand your reasons & hope you’ll find a way to vlog without showing the kiddos ☺️
Love this sit-down! If you ever start doing less social media or idk something like that where you aren't so busy, you should start a podcast!
Totally respect your decision ❤❤❤❤❤❤
Your hair looks so good❤
I'll def miss your girls in videos and mum content. Loved those kinds of videos.
People get so pressed when people don’t share their kids. I have no followers and still only post my daughter when I FEEL like it. I even cover my daughter’s face in most pictures and people freak out. The entitlement people feel towards others kids is wild. Excited to see how Aspyn’s content will change 🙂
missed u queen (: also loving the hair ! 💞 + where’s the sweater from?
Miss you Aspyn! Thanks for this lil update. Your hair looks AMAZING!
Your hair looks so good!
Will miss the family vlogs/mom life as I’m in that season of life and looked forward to seeing another moms perspective/ideas. But I will always respect your opinions and wish you all nothing but the best ❤️
Thank you for mentioning the fan! I need to pull mine out!
i think you're doing the right thing. i see like saconne jolys and other family vlogs that literally broadcast every single detail of their kids lives and it always rubs me the wrong way. Ofc everyone shares pics and here there. But to regularly record a kid like they're on a TV show and post it for thousands to watch isnt the same as posting a few pics on instagram (at least in my personal opinion). I think as your kids are growing, your instincts are right on the money and you should follow your gut. Mommy content doesnt HAVE to include your kids. you're your own person and have your own journey!
I've seen more and more influencers mentioning snapchat again but it's not something I could see myself ever getting back into personally
Anyone who is upset with you removing your kids from social media clearly has a creepy parasocial relationship with them or is a p3d0. You’re doing what’s best for your kids! Keep doing it and don’t worry about anyone else.
We miss you too! Thanks for sharing an update
I think it’s great you’re doing what feels right and protecting your kids! Sunbeamsjess is a RUclipsr that never shows her daughter and I still love watching her content! You could also chat like this while getting ready, share your outfit etc?
Good for you. I don’t know how anyone could regret this decision in the future. I’m afraid for this whole new generation of kids growing up on RUclips with literally no privacy
love that you’re giving your kids the privacy they deserve cause there’s weirdos out there but i wanna see the little babies🤣🤣
You can always do mom content and do your own content w/o sharing your girls. “Mom content” I like it mainly just the mom talking about gadgets, tips, snacks that has helped them out w their kids but don’t necessarily show their kids. And that also share things like makeup, q&a, mini vlogs here and there. Also I’m glad you’re working less and spending more time on your fam and just yourself
Honestly so relieving to see influencers taking steps to protect their kids. I definitely don't plan on posting my kids online because you just never know what could happen. You can't go wrong with protecting your kids' online privacy!
I miss you but I am happy for you and where you are at In life ❤
You deserve all of the love 🤍
Finally!!!! I’ve missed you ❤
Amazing news Aspyn❤ we have to protect our kids
So happy to see you ❤❤❤
Hair looks soooooo good 🌸🤍
This is great news. The number of predators that watch just because there are children in videos is so scary. I think this is a wonderful decision!!
I love this! I don’t show my child online at all so I totally get it 🥰
Awe babes we love you! And we respect your choice in not posting the girls faces, and navigating that too. I love seeing your videos because we’ve quite literally grown up together.
I’m a year younger than you, had my baby right before you had Lola etc. I feel like a lot of us are in the same stages in life.. if that makes sense! And I really resonate with what you said about opinions changing etc because I’m experiencing all of that too!
You’re not alone in this stage of life and it’s good to know that we aren’t either. I know back in the day it was really popular to make content specific videos but honestly I feel like it’s changed a bit and you don’t need to feel all of that pressure anymore. We always love you mamas.
You can still do hauls of stuff you get for the kids and share any mom tips you have without having to show your kids!
Omg in heaven you are absolutely gorgeous ❤
I think the tea they gave you was the Honey Citrus Mint! It’s sooo good I’m going to try the mint majesty!
Praying!! 🙏🏻❤️
Miss your vlogs Aspyn! Glad to see you post 😊 I’m wondering if you could still vlog your days, but just when you are filming not have the girls faces in the video? I know a few bloggers who do this, and just alter the camera angles. Love your daily life and mom content!
Love the hair!! Can you tell us what you say to your hair gal when you get it done? Not sure how to explain the color :)
Love you Aspyn 💕
Aspyn we love watching you and respect your choices. You can just post when your out on your own and we would watch, but also take your time everyone needs a break
Toyota Highlander has vents on the top! My favorite part about my mom car lol
Do what you need to do for your family! ❤️
do you have any trips planned for this year?
I understand and respect that you don't want to show the girls anymore, even though I did loved seeing them and watch you being their mom. :) I would still love to have new vlogs from you so would love if you could figure out your own way. Your vlogs are/were my favourite! You are a very big inspiration ❤
i like the insta stories!!
A great example also 💖 just thank you
I love this video so much! It just felt like catch up with and old friend. Also I 1000% respect your decisions! Will always watch for you
You're a great mom!
This is the way to go. Good for you guys, it's the right decision
This color of hair on you is stunning and so mature ❤
I can really respect you not wanting to show your kids and respecting their privacy, there’s a lot of channels that tell every little detail about their children and I can’t understand why someone would want to do that
Off topic but your hair looks so nice!
I miss your videos! I 💯 % agree with not showing the kids. I recently stopped showing mine and deleted photos of them on all social media platforms.
I didn’t realize how much you were apart of my life until you slowed down. Im so happy for you and your little family but i miss you and am glad to see your face & see you happy. 🤍
So happy for you to be doing what’s best for your kiddos, but I will miss the coco TikTok’s 😂😂🤪
I honestly don’t blame you for not wanting to share your kids. The world is a scary place and if I was in your position I would do the same. Also, this is your channel.
Thank you so much for making this decision for your kids 🤍 although of course they are precious and seeing updates is cute, not worth it. They’re safety and happiness is most important
You do not owe us anything babe! Your kids are adorable and I love the fact that you are respecting them and their privacy! We miss you too🫶🫶 Take care of yourself and your needs we will always be here!
missed you !!!!
PLEASE share however you did your makeup for this video
I appreciate all you have shared with us! If you dont come back just know Ive enjoyed watching! You are a Beautiful young lady that walks with ALOT of GRACE! TY