honest thoughts on baby #3...
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- Опубликовано: 30 авг 2023
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Podcast name idea: Talking it Ovard
Wait I love that
I thought “in ovard our heads”
Love it
Ovard-sharing!
You are hired!
if you’re coming back to this video she speaks about baby 3 at 10:32 :) congratulations 🎉🎉🎉
I really respect how much thought you’re putting into your children’s privacy going forward. You’re an amazing mom ❤
I definitely agree sharing a pregnancy/baby online is different from sharing a kid. Now that my daughter is a year old and turning into a toddler, I am definitely seeing the difference. She has her own personality, and is turning into her own little person. I’m rethinking even sharing pictures of her on my personal Facebook.
I’m in the same boat! I have personal FB and IG accounts, private and with very little friends/followers, and now that my daughter just turned one, I’m really cutting back on posting her. I want her to have that autonomy over what is shared about her online. It’s a hard decision. I want to update family and friends who don’t live near us, but social media just isn’t the place to do it.
Who came back to this after her announcement?! ❤
Who’s watching this after her announcing baby #3!!
Aspyn I've been watching since 2015 and I am so proud of how you and your content have evolved and matured. Moving away from showing your sweet girls was the best thing you could do for them as a mom and you've never had to rely on them for content. I respect you so much for that. Much love from Wilsonville Oregon
it makes sense to be sad but making the decision you did to keep the girls out is one you’ll be grateful for and i’m sure they’ll be grateful for!!
2 vlogs in 5 days?!?! Yes queen werk
2-3 has been the best transition for me! My older two are similar in age to Cove and Lola and my baby is almost 4 months. So, all very close in age! But! My oldest two literally entertain each other all day long and my baby is just along for the ride! It's seriously been the best! Doooo it!
I have been really loving the vlogs lately. I feel like you have found the perfect way to show what you are doing without showing your kids. Having them in the background feels like they are still present but at the same time, their privacy is also respected. also living for these long vlogs!
i’ve been loving these vlogs aspyn! even when it’s just you, these vlogs are actually so calming and feel like friends chatting. i hope you don’t feel too pressured to have more people in them or like these are boring. ❤
I honestly prefer your vlogs without kids. I feel like so many vloggers just become family channels after they have kids and it gets kinda old just watching everyone become a family channel. Your newer vlogs without your kids feel more like your old videos :)
it’s lovely to see someone enjoy and thrive in summer… people always look at me crazy when I say I enjoy how free I feel in the summer
i’ve been watching you since you and parker were in high school and i love this change in content not that i don’t miss the girls but i love seeing more of your life and what you do! i would love to see you and parker more together maybe a q&a together or date night vlogs if u guys still have a nanny! you’re doing really good !
video idea: I would love to see a fall bestie day with you and Lauren! (if she's interested) - maybe trying fall products from trader joes, going to target, trying a new restaurant for dinner, I love your bestie days with Lauren!
It definitely makes sense to be sad. I remember you and Parker mentioning that even though this is your job, these vlogs are also for y'all and great ways to look back on memories of your family, and it's probably just difficult changing what the videos are of since the girls aren't in them. At the same time, your decision to not show them is completely understandable and respected and obviously the best thing for your family in the long run. It's just a transition period right now, but you're finding your flow again! We're all here to support you and watch your videos whatever they may be 🤍
Awhh I love seeing more Luma she's so cute 😂🥲❤️ also so sweet that Parker did that for you! 🥰
Aw I loved that this video seemed more natural, it seems like you are figuring out your filming style again!💕 As a fellow toddler mom I loved hearing you talk to the girls🥰
Love that you’re making videos again! ❤
I have an almost 7 yr old, 4 yr old and 1 yr old. Going to 3 was easier than 1 or 2. There was just something so different about it the third time. There was confidence, peace, and just joy. I didn't get postpartum anxiety the third time. And it felt like he just fit right in. The older boys loved their little brother. No jealousy. It was really wonderful. ❤️
I want to add, i think age gap plays a really big role in how easy/hard it is. If your kids are all really close, it's going to be hard! I've got almost 3 years in-between my boys and that made it really easy!
Aspyn voice makes me feel so relax I love seeing her being a mom and taking care of herself with the workout and makeup every morning. I have a random question, why you don't use your engagement ring and wedding band anymore?
As a Southern California resident my whole life that lives very close to the beach, a little more inland is for sure the better option. And I’m not talking miles and miles but 2-5 miles in, there are way better home options with more land. Being so close to the beach means your house is also sooo close to other people’s homes. It gets to feel very claustrophobic. Also California summers near the water are horrendous. So many tourists. I know you guys visit balboa island a few times a year for short amount of time, but living in that environment all the time can be hectic if you are the type of person who likes their space from others, it might not be enjoyable. Maybe that’s just me because I’ve lived here my whole life 😂 it’s not a fun feeling like you live on top of others and others on top of you. Just some insight if you cared to know!
It definitely depends on the person and their priorities! I’m a native Californian and would hate to live more than a mile from the water. 😅Being able to walk to the ocean increases my happiness so much!
Aspyn is my fav 🤍 I’ve watched her videos since I was in 7th grade and I’m a senior in college 🤍🤍🤍
Would love more vlogs with Lauren! She's always super happy and positive!
I would love a podcast with you and your sister!! It would be so fun just hearing you two chat and have sister banter.
omg I would love to hear an aspyn and avrey podcast
I miss you hanging with Jaci too! You guys are the best! 🫶🏼
I'm just happy you are still uploading I've been watching you for 5 years now. Time sure has gone by fast.
I have 3 kids (3 under 3) and to be honest it’s a lot but also not. Very mixed feelings. There are times when I wish I only had 2 because it would be easier but also I love the dynamic of 3. Mine are so close in age though and that has its own pros and cons. Only person who knows if you should have more kids is you! You know your current children and your family dynamic. No wrong decision. Pros and cons to every number of kids and every age gap. Only you and your husband know what’s right for your family.
Honestly my transition from 2-3 was better than 0-1. It was chaotic but that’s because my second and third were super close in age. With the girls being older, I think adding a third for you would be even smoother with the age gap and honestly coco will take on such a super helper role if she hasn’t already! My oldest who is now 6 complains about her sisters but yet is also the first to tend to their needs or tell me what they want!
Even blurred out she’s still the cutest thing ever hahaha gosh i love your kids!! Precious!
I love your vlogs and have watched forever. I enjoy longer vlogs! Thank you for still posting. Can’t wait to see your next vlog
Awe Aspen, your doing Amazing. I felt your emotions in this one for sure. Mama's understand! It's okay new transition new you. Love you girl your a Rockstar. 🤍
Thank you for protecting your children 💗
Aspyn! I can’t tell you enough how brave you are. Thanks for giving your family privacy! Keep it that way! You are doing a fantastic job!
I just wanted to let you know that I do enjoy watching your pregnancy and new born vlogs and videos!!!
I live in FLORIDA mind you and my winter depression is AWFUL in FLORIDA!!!!!!!! So I'm totally with you on that. I'm so glad that i can relate to you on this because I can see and feel your anxiousness through the camera about winter. I love you Aspyn and you're just always such a sweet girl.
Girl what winter? we get 3 days of 50 degree weather n its right back to summer
I love you guys!! Never miss a video 😊💜
Hey I have been watching since middle/high school (26 now) and this was one of my favorite vlogs! Thank you for being open about your life! I can totally relate with the seasonal depression. I feel like I can’t enjoy fall because I know what’s coming 🥶 also died at Coves “oooooooo 😯” at the protein powder! 😂
I have been loving watching your videos recently!
I definitely really miss having the girls in the vlogs… I obviously respect your choice because I’m a momma to a two year old boy and a 1 month old boy so I get it but man it was just so fun to see them grow and to see you being a momma
2 to 3 kids was my easiest transition. Hands down.
My first 2 were best pals and played along greatly whenever the new baby came. ❤
Loveeeeeeee a podcast idea!!
I’ve never felt more relatable to you in the past. But the last few videos, I’m feeling you with the whole, not knowing who I am outside of being a mom. I have no friends, my husband always works, we don’t have a lot of free money to go and do things. I struggle so hard with winter also due to the fact of being even more stuck inside with my kids. What’s a girl to do?!
You are so pretty Aspyn!
I’ve loved watching the vlogs for years! Do you think you would ever go back to you and Parker vlogging back and forth? Like he vlogs when you’re with the girls & you vlog when he’s with the girls.
I would also love to see a Q&A with both of you. Maybe you guys could film it after the girls went to bed.
It’s so weird to see the differences in where you live. Like I live in az and get seasonal depression in the summer. It’s miserable and you don’t want to be outside at all. So fall coming is soooo exciting to me because we can finally enjoy life haha
Omg a big yes to a podcast with Avery 🙌🏼
Would love a podcast!! I feel like you have the best sarcastic humor and would love to hear more of it
I would LOVE a podcast with you and Avery ❤
Third baby is 2 months old, and my older 2 are close in age to Cove and Lola. My 2 year old is basically a feral cat and my 4 year old is a sass monster, so this has been the hardest transition by far. Straight up not having a good time
Hang in there mama, you got this!!🫶🏽
As for three kids, I think if you feel like you’re even considering it, then yes. When we had our third kid, our family felt complete and I knew that I was done. (Not because it was hard, but because it felt right)
I was really sad about that too, as I have son Cove’s age and we was pregnant in the same time going through that in the same time was fun and I supported u in my thoughts watching your stories, so my favorite videos was with kids that was so nice to see how it looks to be a mom from other perspective also they are super cute and I loved to see how they play or how they change and grow as I have son🤍
I hated having an odd number in our family growing up lol I was the middle child of 3 girls and it was always two against one but now that I’m older I love that my sisters and I are 1.5-2 years apart and I feel like we are all so different yet all get along and I have an option for which sibling to go to for different things but also not too many options ya know
2-3 was honestly an easy transition! My older two are besties and the baby is so chill and go with the flow. Once I had my third I truly felt in my heart that my family was complete and it made the decision to be done really easy
I relate so much to having anxiety about seasonal depression coming and our winters are mild so I can’t imagine 😢
Coves reaction sounds at the end 😂 haha just reminds me of when Aspyn would say everything is pretty much "cute" at unboxings
You inspire me I love you!!
My favorite and easiest transition was from 2-3! I now have 4 and it's honestly easier to have 4 that it was to have 2 littles.
You are so an inspiration in the style of life so thks
OMG YES PODCAST
I’ve been watching you guys for so long! I love y’all sm! 💗
would love to see you and avery do a podcast!!
I've always heard that going from 0-1 kid is the hardest. Going from 1-2, 2-3, and so on gets easier apparently because you already know what to do, what fits best with your family, schedules and such. Idk lol. I'm due with #2 in February soooo we shall see haha.
I'm a mom of 3 and my two youngest are close in age to Cove and Lola and I enjoyed watching videos of Cove cooking with Parker. She's a very smart girl and funny.
My transition from 2 to 3 was incredibly easy - BUT - my big kids are 5 and 9 years old, and my youngest is currently just barely 6 months old. So the big kids easier understood that baby sis needs mama, and they either need to be patient & wait a few minutes for me, or ask dad for help (or in the case of my 5 year old, ask big brother for help)
I'm pregnant with baby #3 (have two girls born in 2020 and 2021) I'm so excited!
you have such an easy voice to listen to so i think a podcast with avery would be a great idea
Love this vlog! ❤
You and your sister are just like me and mine and a podcast of you guys would be so fun!!
❤ sending you love. We appreciate you sharing!
I would LOVE a podcast with you and avrey!!!!
minnesota girlie here and i am also already anxious about another winter
Oh my gosh I would love if you guys did a podcast
I have 3 daughters who are 5,3 & 1 and the 3rd baby just slides in perfectly! She is the easiest baby just because she’s always had to fit into the craziness already! I say do it 🫶🏼
It's funny how it's the opposite here in TX, I cannot WAIT for it to be fall because it's literally too hot to be outside rn. 100+ outside every day. But I came from the Midwest so I know that impending doom feeling of a snowy winter. I still like a hot summer better than a bitterly cold winter.
I miss this aspyn!!! ❤❤
loved this video ❤❤
Also I live in Iowa and I’m terrified of the winter starting. Even just how it’s getting darker earlier and is darker in the morning is already triggering
Aspyn: I am still posting I haven’t really stopped
Comments: omg so glad you’re back & posting
I haven't commented in a long time. Long time watcher but I don't comment alot but I felt like we related alot because I'm also a girl mom. I feel like having 3 is hard but my oldest is 9 so it's alot easier than I think alot of other people that have 3 closer together. I came back to this video after seeing you're pregnant with your 3rd and had to comment because I'm also pregnant with our 4th🥰 congratulations! we're hoping this will be our boy and maybe this will be your boy too💙
please vlog some of your party decorations if you do bluey coming from a mom with a bluey loving son and needing cute bluey ideas for his birthday 😅
yess love the vlogs
You look so pretty!!
I have 1000000 percent more respect then I already have for you to decide to not show your kids anymore. I started following you so long ago for YOU and I think your videos are just as lively with or without ur cute girls!
When does coco start school? That will definitely change the travelling unless you're going to homeschool! That could be a topic to vlog about.
In Canada my son starts junior kindergarten this week and he will be 4 in October 😢
I would die for an Avrey x Aspyn podcast omg
I recommend looking in the Del Rey neighborhood for a house. Really nicely close to the beach, slower pace, while still being in Los Angeles!
Yall should def do a podcast! It would be like Meeps & your nickname lol. Yall can rate stuff or just have girl talks! :)
I feel you 100000% on the anxiety about summer ending. like yes, fall is coming, cool. But that also means WINTER. ughhhh. I live in Michigan and the seasonal depression is TOUGH.
I would be sooooo obsessed with an aspyn-avrey podcast
I know it’s probably hard not to get in your head / overthink about your vlogs but I’ve personally been loving them!! If they’d stay the same I’d continue to watch them 😊
The amount of times I rewinded the little brave song you sang to Luna is ridiculous 🤣🤣🤣
I also live in Salt Lake City, and feel the same way about realizing I don’t have a ton of friends and I’m by myself a lot. I own a real estate media company so I also create content, but for luxury homes and new listing. I understand your dilemma!! I also photograph in your area of SLC multiple times a week.
I would totally listen to u and avery 😂 and like u can do zoom recordings
i would DIE for an ovard sis podcast!!!!!
We have 3 kids. It’s wild but you do find your groove eventually. It’s also okay to grieve the fact that your vlogs are looking different now because you don’t want to show your kids. That was something that at the time was fun to do, but now maybe not as safe because the world has gone sideways.
And one last thing, it feels like your heart is already in California. I sense the dread you’re feeling with possibly going through another cold season. Long cold winters are not for everyone. We had friends who moved from Canada to Florida because their hearts were in that place and they’re the happiest they have ever been. Their 3 kids adjusted to the move and they have found friends and community over there. I’m sure at the right time the perfect place will come up for your family.
My kids love bluey and my husband and I watch it as well. lol I have heard a lot of people film their kids and just keep it for them selves and close family to watch and not the internet. Maybe try that for the memories.
“She is not afraaaaid” 🎶
*shaking in fear* 😂