Friendship Break-ups | IMAN AZMAN + AMAL AZMAN
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- Опубликовано: 12 сен 2024
- In this episode, Iman and Amal talk about their fallouts in friendship and how it has affected their relationships. It's important to identify issues within a friendship and address the conflicts.
Have you ever fought with your friends? Leave a comment down below!
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Theres a said 'People change. Feelings change. It doesnt means the love once shared wasnt true n real. It simply means that sometimes when people grow, they grow apart' 🙂
So trueeee Amal! For me some friendship break-ups were even more painful than romantic ones. 💔 I miss my friends and the memories we had, asked forgiveness over stupid things, but like Iman, I got the hint that some doesn’t even bother about me+my feelings, so bye-bye. Spent so much time crying over it, and for some, I’m still finding the courage to move on with the-end fact. :(
masturah mohamad nadzari i ve been there. 🥺 the struggle is real
I am sad that all of the examples here lead me to thinking of just one super good friend of mine.. For someone who treasures every single soul she meets, this one particular friendship gone distant had torn a huge piece of my heart and shattering it into million pieces, especially when it was the ghostly one. Even more when you can sense the other person has been drifting away and before you know it the long late night chats became shorter to none at all. One without goodbyes, one with no closure. Leaving me thinking what did I do wrong.. How can I undo this?
That said, I was emotionally disturbed for a whole one good year after not hearing from each other.. There was not a single day passed without me thinking of her. I even wrote a long text like what Iman shared, but I ended up not delivering it.
I used to put so much effort and pray for things to get back like how it used to be, to the extent that I almost disbelieved hopes and prayers when I see it ain't getting there, until I reminded myself to only pray for things to be as Allah has planned, cause indeed He is the best planner, He knows what the future holds. He knows, what is best. For both of us.
Maybe while I wanted us so bad, she needed to find herself and perhaps I too, needed to find me. I wasn't ready to lose any of my favourite persons at that moment but I learn to (try) to let go and pray for her success, for her to fly high, until we meet again.
And may when that time arrives, we then are both transformed souls - strong yet gentle, with pride, yet remained humble.
Despite all this, I know I should not let this get in the way of all the good memories we had together. I shall not allow all these to disregard the good time we had together. Indeed the person had always been there, always a great addition to my life, that is why everything reminds me of her.
I still do think of her, but instead of struggling with my emotion, I have learned to channel it into hopefully sincere prayers.
For I'm an introvert, this episode really suits a person like me. Thanks for the infos and tips.
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For me, if you come to a point where you think that the relationship is no longer beneficial to you. For example: does not make you happy, or make you a better person and etc, stop and re-think it through. If you are losing sleep/mind/temper or whatever, over the relationship, get it over with. Why stay in a relationship that would make you bitter. We are all different and when we don't feel like we can compromise, staying away is better than becoming enemies. Inshaa Allah when the time is right, who knows one day our path may cross and things may be better.
I can relate to this too. I've had some friendship break-ups after primary school when me and my friend started going to different high schools. We were the best of friends and we stopped talking to each other. It is really awkward to even follow her on instagram and whatnot now.
I feel you! Seeing them "move on" on social media is weird, but it's necessary in life to keep going so I've just got to roll on. Inshallah everything is for the best!
same here, Iman. same here. the resemblances in our story. Growing up, ceh, padahal im 23 now, and I noticed from the age of like years old tu, Ive lost a lot of friendships too. glad im not alone. I didn't know what to do except tryna be strong and believe everything happens for a reason. many might not know this.
I like how close you two are despite being two completely different people. plus being different, you guys offer two different perspective which i appreciate a lot. Thanks for sharing :)
Iam laughed at the moment they said. " kesimpulannya jgn ada bestfriend" 😆😆😀😁
Interesting topic, this is amazing and I think I learned a lesson from the breakup friendship I am faced before. Its hurting but yeah back off for the best.
Me too, Iman! I've been through many friendship breakups too
just wanna say; not everyone leaves because they want to .
"Fight for that friendships" ❤ w/ dua' effort and tawakkal to Allah, Insya Allah, It will last longer, not only in Dunya, also in akhirah' Insya Allah..
Bout the say it straight to my face..thats how we communicate for 13 years whether we like it or not...yes it hurts but its better to have a friend yg berterus terang dari ada kawan yg cant accept u for who u are..
I think for me I have had more of "distant friendships" more than breakups, but that hurts just the same. so, here's just sharing mine:
1. I had an amazing friend I met in high school who gave the best advice, was a selfless person but she was going through bullying and she dropped out because of it but we managed to be friends for a while but when I was taking my GCSEs we were just too busy figuring our lives and I sensed she really didn't want to be friends with anyone from the school due to her traumatic bullying experience :( so we lost contact plus I lost her phone number. I really wish she's well and happy now.
2. friends I had in different points of my life who were close but we fall out due to distance, commitments and responsibilities. these types of friendships are tricky because whenever I'm in need of support I find it hard to ask since them since they have a different set of friends and we haven't had any interaction in a long time. we still acknowledge each other but it kinda sucks not being in their life anymore.
3. I've also had my fair share of knowing my friends while travelling with em.would never go travelling with them ever again.it really humbles me knowing how true the hadith of the prophet PBUH which says that we can never truly know a person until we've travelled together w em.
Totally understand the feeling.I lost my best buddy whose always been there for me for 13 years..the break ups happen on september 2016 and thats d last time i saw her..its been 3 years now and theres nothing i can do about it but to move on cuz life goes on with or without her
This was so refreshing to hear that I'm not the lone wierdo who has friendship dissolve.. Maybe in the future you can make an episode about girl mind games in groups of friends (like the movie mean girls)
Al Hamdolilah, May ALLAH BLESS you two with Success in all your affairs and a ETERNAL home in JANNAH. I don't watch a lot of you two Blogs, but I APPRECIATE when MUSLIMS Teach, and Advise others like you two do. Al Hamdolilah keep up the good work and May ALLAH also increase your Subscribers, ameen.
Mostly girls yang selalu ada problem ni.
😢 The pain...
i have been a lot of friendship breakups as i always like transfer school since primary. but the worst fship breakups i think, when i was in highschool. they promised me a lot of things before i got transfer, but they keep silent like not replying my text, started being awkward while talking on the phone and stuff. thats ok for me because i think (at that time) i will go back to the place and make some change, which i can do some effort to make this friendship work again but then, after i saw them in social media, i think thats ok-this friendship is canceled, because they're fine without me. they dont even bother to reply my dm/pm on fb ig as excited as i am. there are like 8-12 group of people so i cant blame them, for sure lah they are good without just one of person, which is boring like me. they can pat each other and whatever. but now thats ok. that doesnt affect me emotionally, im ok with that as i am good at move on and yeah i got basicly new good friend to be with inshaAllah for a long time hopefully. thanks for these powerful content iman & amal. xx 🌹
Yeayy you guys back🎉🎉
I 've had friendship break-ups last week.I was very sad, that was my second friendship break-up.For me friendship break up are harder than romantic breakup :'(Thank you for this content.
I love amal's sudden input with her those facial expressions lol
"Kesimpulannya jangan ada kawan"
"Till the end of time"
I have issues with friendship things too and I liked your video.
Love the accent
sometimes……or maybe actually relationship in terms of friends when they reach the phase of breaking up, it's one of the most painful moments in one's life. Alhamdulillah till now i haven't got any breakup exp especially in friendship (Insha Allah hope it stays that way).......but i do agree that friendship is even stronger relationship than boyfriend-girlfriend or maybe even husband-wife
Baru plan nk travel dengan my bff lepas dengar ni rase takut pulak😂 better tak payah travel daripada hilang kawan😅
i have so many friendship broke up where maybe it cause im the slow one to realize early .they just block me and cant be reach so suddenly, i still pray all the goodness for them and it just im too old to care to think and try to patch up the friendship with those who dont really think im important and worth their afford to at least tell me what did i do wrong before the y decide to leave.
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I can't understand those Malaysian words midst of the video.plz add explanation for them Dopstv
I like your conclusion, Amal - don't have friends 😂😂😂
I takut dia nyampah kalau i put an effort to make thing better..
U guys are siblings right?😅just confirming...
Yes they are
@@nuraizzatysulhaazhari1892 thnx😅
They are twin right?
@@nadirahpazaer3812 no ..iman is 5/6 yrs older than amal
@@nadirahpazaer3812 i think amal is older so is the older sister thus they are not twins?😅
I have one online friend (I am a shy person that usually talks better online, haha) that I keep in touch with probably once or twice every year usually during our birthdays because we will text when we greet each other. We exchange our views, we told our stories, we agree to disagree on some things. I thought it was great that even though we rarely meet and talk, we still keep in touch with each other through birthday greetings, online. But then one day we were texting and I thought we were doing great at keeping up with each other. I was telling a joke but I guess I must have offended him one way or another because he didn't reply afterwards. At all. And because I clearly showcased (through text and emojis) that I was joking around and I found no offensiveness in it, I have no clue what happened. I was afraid to text again because I'm afraid to be a bother and not knowing my place. I concluded that I was ghosted because even his Instagram was missing on my following/follower list. I was quite bummed about it but I guess I learned to just let it be.