Please Don't Kill Yourself | Tim Ross

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Комментарии • 114

  • @NDeraBreyan
    @NDeraBreyan Год назад +55

    I think this video saved my life today

    • @TheBasementPodcast
      @TheBasementPodcast Год назад +5

      Please stay here❤

    • @sabrinanicole7084
      @sabrinanicole7084 Год назад +1

      Please stay

    • @GuidedByGod13
      @GuidedByGod13 Год назад

      You are loved❤️

    • @rickeychavarria2771
      @rickeychavarria2771 Год назад

      I promise you that if you stay strong and follow god for your strength you will be SO GRATEFUL THAT YOU DID 🤲. I ALSO WAS ONCE THERE AND MY GUARDIAN ANGEL PROTECTED ME … CRY , PRAY , THEN STAND UP AND LIVE TO FIGHT THROUGH IT AND SHOW YOU ARE A QUEEN 👸 WE LOVE YOU ❤️😇❤️

    • @Jason-qf8ig
      @Jason-qf8ig Год назад

      Hallelujah!!!! In Jesus' name! 🙏🏾

  • @iluvmari238
    @iluvmari238 Год назад +53

    I love myself so much I wouldn’t want to harm myself but lately I feel like the enemy has been attacking my soul I feel like not wanting to be here or I feel like my life is boring right now but I’ve been praying and I know God loves me so much and I know he has a plan for me I’ve been telling myself these things out loud . I love God so much and I’m working on trusting him I don’t want to give up on myself

    • @zanine33
      @zanine33 Год назад +3

      You are loved and wanted. Don't give up. Praying for you 💗 🙏🏾.

    • @healyoufirst222
      @healyoufirst222 Год назад +1

      Depression feels like shit! I’ve been there many times. You will get through it all!!!! Do not give up love! It’s not worth it! You’re worth more than you may think…… there’s a light at the end of the tunnel. Keep going .. pray about it.

    • @law7739
      @law7739 Год назад +1

      I have some encouraging news God loves you Jeremiah 29:11 For I know the plans I have for you, declares the Lord, plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future"... and not to spook you but people that commit suicide will not inherit the kingdom of God, why would someone want to spend eternity burning for ever and ever... always ask yourself and if anyone else going through whatever, it's not worth it in the end!

    • @leviescott4819
      @leviescott4819 Год назад +1

      Never give up, you were worth the blood of JESUS to JESUS!!!

    • @See-if_I_care
      @See-if_I_care Год назад

      That's your first problem,trusting God.
      That just gives you a false sense of hope.
      Rather surround yourself with positive people. Do things that you love, take a breath. If need be go for professional help.
      Maybe it's just a situation or certain people that makes you feel so down.
      And stop comparing yourself to others...go off social media platforms for a month or so. That's what I did.

  • @judybrown2959
    @judybrown2959 Год назад +19

    So true. I’ll take it a step further and call the lie “suicidal and Homicidal depression is very real. Life is better! This is temporary. You are perfect! You are okay right now! Just live for this moment! I survived stage 4 cancer because I did not give up.

  • @healyoufirst222
    @healyoufirst222 Год назад +6

    I got chills when you said somebody is about to live. 🤍

  • @simpsonr98
    @simpsonr98 Год назад +24

    Amen!!! Whoever sees this you are no longer held by guilt or condemnation in Jesus name Amen!

  • @kennethbrown771
    @kennethbrown771 Год назад +11

    Had I succeeded I wouldn't have heard the prophecy that I would get custody of my children who I was fighting for. I was tired of losing. I almost made a permanent decision. The enemy is a liar. December 9 2009 I got custody. God is good. Keep fighting with the strength of the Holy Spirit.

  • @20Moody00
    @20Moody00 Год назад +15

    If you’re reading this. This is the sign. Don’t do it. Please❤️

  • @Bookwithbrook
    @Bookwithbrook Год назад +7

    You really are one of God most amazing vessels. Thank you for being here.

  • @jessijones5811
    @jessijones5811 Год назад +3

    One of the best clips from 2022. You are loved and necessary! We love you and will hold space for you! Stay alive!

  • @iluvmari238
    @iluvmari238 Год назад +8

    This was literally for me holy shit

  • @Fresh59
    @Fresh59 Год назад +13

    This is real and thanks for talking about this. I was there about a year and a half ago after a breakup. I didn't want to deal with that pain, the hurt and how it played out. I was just going to drive all the road and be done. Remembering God, my family and friends are here for me.
    James 1:12 (message version) helped me with this, got my first tattoo of this scripture.

  • @joleencox5900
    @joleencox5900 Год назад +1

    Idk how I didn't see this until a month after you posted it but here i am, crying my eyes out. I think I needed to see this just at this very moment though, as much as I hate to admit it.

  • @luisbanegas3972
    @luisbanegas3972 Год назад +1

    Thank you Tim you are real dude god bless you

  • @ivagreen11
    @ivagreen11 Год назад +3

    2:44 no! It's not a temporary situation/problem. Ppl who want to delete themselves are tired of years of misery, hence the hopelessness

  • @geddon436
    @geddon436 Месяц назад +1

    If someone is done with their life, at least let them choose a painless method

  • @new_generation_oldhead4223
    @new_generation_oldhead4223 Год назад +1

    i needed this thank you and thank God

  • @Izzy-he7rn
    @Izzy-he7rn Год назад +6

    My mom committed suicide recently & Ive really been struggling as well 😔😔 its hard to feel God in the midst of this

    • @roodzapierrelus3599
      @roodzapierrelus3599 Год назад +3

      We are here for you izzy

    • @Izzy-he7rn
      @Izzy-he7rn Год назад

      @@roodzapierrelus3599 i appreciate this so much. It’s been a pretty lonely process

    • @Kelly-uc8mp
      @Kelly-uc8mp Год назад +1

      Sending love 🫂 I hope you feel it

    • @rickeychavarria2771
      @rickeychavarria2771 Год назад +3

      Just keep praying go to church and have them pray over you ….just know your momma and my momma are our guardian angels 👼 I’m one of the toughest people I know ….people don’t understand it came from all the pain I endured since I was a child ….they are right here with us and so is god you just have to seek him 🙏🏻😇❤️

  • @MutedOwl
    @MutedOwl Год назад +8

    This is great ! Thank you for making this a safe space

  • @victorzapata4044
    @victorzapata4044 Год назад

    Thank you! I was bawling but I needed to get that out. Thank you.

  • @dotun1988
    @dotun1988 Год назад +5

    Tim Ross you are a walking testimony, thank you for your realness all the time, your transparency and your spiritual wisdom, thank you 🙏🏽.

  • @MsMeditatingPanda
    @MsMeditatingPanda 9 месяцев назад +2

    Yall im tired of fighting. Im 40 years old. Ive been diagnosed with bipolar disorder since I was 16. I’ve done nothing with my life. My health is no good. My relationship with God is worse. I’m not married and no kids. This has not gone away. I go on feeling like this at least once a month. I’m tired of these thoughts and feelings. I’ve had mental health care for years and I have nothing to fight for. Nothing has worked. I can’t keep going through this cycle

  • @leviescott4819
    @leviescott4819 Год назад +4

    I wish we all could broadcast’ Tell Me Where It Hurts’ by Fred Hammond ❤

  • @nagidasmith2598
    @nagidasmith2598 Год назад +3

    It truly does Tim it takes everything you have and learning to trust that God can handle that not me cause waking up daily is a fight living in this world is the battle and trusting God is a choice to stop the lie of the enemy that your better off gone. Know that God loves you as you are, I'm learning to trust in Jesus more and pray when darkness falls over me. Thank you again and again for this space Tim to come down to the basement and open up and let Jesus in I'm so happy to be a basement dweller🙏🏽♥️

  • @emilyshabang
    @emilyshabang Год назад +3

    I need this life to end. I lost the only family I had in the whole world on Monday, and my heart shattered. Everyday since feels like I'm suffocating and if we're being honest, my life doesn't exist to anyone. I've been fighting this since I was in my early teens and its been exhausting. I'm not worth 10 seconds of anyone's time anymore. I don't care how "strong" you think you are, no one can survive being alone 247 and have no choice in the matter. I'm alone in a crowd of people just as much as I am alone in my home. I spent my whole life in church, volunteering in the church, a youth leader, a church summer camp counselor and went to college for youth ministry...I've tried so hard to make a difference in this world only to fall flat on my face. Monday I had to put my service dog down and whatever strength I had left flew out the window. I truly hope God takes me tonight

    • @Chronorust
      @Chronorust Месяц назад

      I truly hope you're still here. You DO deserve better. if you're reading this, you're still here despite all of that. ❤❤

  • @ramonabridgett9058
    @ramonabridgett9058 Год назад +3

    That prayer was Right Fit And necessary!!! Thank you God. Thank you for obeying that unction to pray and speak against that lie that trick of the enemy. Thank Pastor Tim and Basement Family

  • @RedTheOutlaw
    @RedTheOutlaw Год назад +1

    I appreciate your attempt, but my problem is not temporary. For some of us, nothing ever does get better.

  • @LostWolfFlow
    @LostWolfFlow Год назад +3

    I really need a 1 on 1 conversation with this man, cause I’ml listening to his message while still battling the same thoughts

    • @CarronC
      @CarronC Год назад +3

      Don’t do it. Please hold on

  • @reacheruniversity4860
    @reacheruniversity4860 Год назад +12

    If you have a pulse in your body TODAY that’s proof that there’s a purpose for you being here TODAY and there’s something good in store for you on TOMORROW!!

  • @JW.
    @JW. Год назад +2

    No lie the moment you began to pray the sun came out too. It is an overcast day just like it was there.

  • @fastingmywaytojenn3915
    @fastingmywaytojenn3915 Год назад +2

    I just feel so hopeless

    • @GuidedByGod13
      @GuidedByGod13 Год назад +2

      ❤️ "feelings are not facts" my therapist once told me. I love you. It gets better. I promise.

    • @jasminem5598
      @jasminem5598 Год назад +2

      You are worthy of hope and love ✨

  • @lifeofdre1361
    @lifeofdre1361 Год назад +4

    The silence every gem he gave out just hit even more

  • @isaac3252
    @isaac3252 Год назад +1

    Things arent even bad i just have no purpose in life and I dont see the point in going on.

  • @HereComesTheSonASL
    @HereComesTheSonASL Год назад

    This is my second time watching this 🙏🏾

  • @donnajohnson6809
    @donnajohnson6809 Год назад

    Ty ❤

  • @theresabanks5183
    @theresabanks5183 Год назад +2

    We shall live and not die !!!! I’m dying to self ……… struggles are real but God

  • @2krystopher
    @2krystopher Год назад

    Truth!

  • @terraappleberry828
    @terraappleberry828 Год назад +1

    Im tired of these constant "temporary situations". God knew they would break me down, I don't understand why He even gave me life if I would be miserable every step of the way.

    • @rachaelharper3778
      @rachaelharper3778 Год назад

      I know what that feels like! If it makes you feel any better what has helped me is find the thing that is triggering you and do whatever you can to work it out. Sometimes you just have to ride the wave to wait it out. Keep a gratitude journal to write down your thoughts. Once you put you feelings into words it will make it easier to work with ❤ hope your still here

  • @SweetTreatsBy_Marie
    @SweetTreatsBy_Marie Год назад

    Amen 🙏🏾

  • @arnoldgarcia915
    @arnoldgarcia915 Год назад +2

    Brought me to tears listening to this!!! God is bigger then any thing your going through 😊

  • @nkosi3820
    @nkosi3820 Год назад +1

    I've been set on finding a way not to be here by the end of this week and in the past I would take seeing a video like this as a sign of God talking to me and convince myself that there is more to my life than where I'm at, but it's been 3 years and I've decided I should probably stop lying to myself and just end it

    • @Laurenglewiz
      @Laurenglewiz Год назад +3

      Listen, it’s hard. Everyone goes through something and doesn’t understand themselves or life in general. There isn’t anything that someone can do to help you or to understand your situation but all I can tell you is seek god and seek something more. Look for something more in life and if you can’t just sit still and listen to everything around you and take a moment to breathe and do the things you love. Give urself grace because the permanent decision that you want for your temporary decision will not keep you satisfied. Only god will. If u won’t listen to me I get it I’m a stranger and I’m not in the same predicament that you are in. But I care about you and everything you go through. Follow god. Find him and he will set these feelings away. This is temporary your eternal life is forever. You belong here. Stay.

    • @Lexinacnud
      @Lexinacnud Год назад +2

      You say probably stop lying to yourself… have you thought that maybe that is the lie. Question it. Where is it coming from? Why do you have that question. Is that truly your inner voice? Those moments you pushed/beat it down, you can’t think back to those days and apply it to now? You’re better than you realize and need to show yourself more grace baby ❤

    • @GuidedByGod13
      @GuidedByGod13 Год назад

      Enemy is lying to you. Stomp on him and his lies like the snake he is. Praying for your strength and healing. God's got you and you got this🙏

  • @meatwad-
    @meatwad- Год назад +2

    To anyone who needs to hear this. God has a plan for you. Something good. Never give up. Live just like the man says because God has something good for you in the horizon. That's a promise. Jerimiah 29:11

    • @KemoniAnimations
      @KemoniAnimations Год назад

      God doesn’t love me, I don’t care what you say.
      I am worthless and I am only here to suffer.
      I never asked to be here and I wish I was never born.
      God hates me and don’t lie and say “I have a plan”
      THATS A LIE STOP SYAING THAT IM TIRED OF HEARING THAT.

  • @NOMDY_NGA
    @NOMDY_NGA Год назад +2

    How would u feel if your mum says
    “sometimes, I regret having a child like u”,
    and part of it all boils down to the fact that u haven’t made money yet, Can u ever heal from that???. Majority of the things in my life are just not working. I am willing to compromise in anyway to do what ever offer is brought in for me at this moment, in the name of God would provide. But at the moment I don’t feel anything.

    • @aliedadaoud6893
      @aliedadaoud6893 Год назад

      Your mom is clearly in a dark place to say such a thing. Financial struggles can change, you can heal from this!

    • @rickeychavarria2771
      @rickeychavarria2771 Год назад

      YEA PEOPLE WHO ARE IN PAIN ON THE INSIDE LASH OUT IN ANGER ON THE OUTSIDE . Pray for her and put god 1st ! Words are just words nomatter who they come from ! Just know what GOD SAID ABOUT YOU ! I lost my mother when I was 17 right in my arms ! How do u heal from that ??? GOD GUIDED ME AND ALSO SHOWED ME MY MOTHER IS RIGHT HERE WITH ME AS MY GUARDIAN ANGEL 👼 …. Turn that pain into PASSION 💪🏽❤️

    • @brandononuzulike3314
      @brandononuzulike3314 Год назад

      I’m sorry that you’ve had to live with those words from your mom replaying in your head constantly for however long and being so vulnerable to be able to express your hurt for us to see . I pray for Jesus to heal your heart and to allow you to just feel again feel and know that you’re crafted by God made himself. A God that truly loves you a God who has more thoughts SPECIFICALLY ABOUT YOU than there are grains of individual sands on this planet. And these are beautiful loving thoughts. He made you for a reason, and no one not even your own mother can decrease the value God has for you in this life and I can’t wait for you to see yourself the way God sees you and even then it’s still hard to comprehend how amazing you are not just in his eyes but mine as well bro

  • @brittneynicole6244
    @brittneynicole6244 Год назад +3

    This blessed me so much! Thank you.♥️

  • @rachaelharper3778
    @rachaelharper3778 Год назад

    Thank you for this video🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏 if you choose suicide you’ll never see the light of day again 👏👏👏❤❤

  • @JasonLee-wb9nc
    @JasonLee-wb9nc Месяц назад

    Haven’t found the point in being here for the last 20 years

  • @Luke-nl6yk
    @Luke-nl6yk 9 месяцев назад

    I know a lot of young men are here, Christian or not, they are all facing this, may God send his son down soon, the world needs it.

  • @Chronorust
    @Chronorust Месяц назад

    Thanks for your words, Tim. Really needed it today.

  • @antoniedixon775
    @antoniedixon775 Год назад +1

    come to new zealand where its to small for anyone or anything to matter... sucks but im gonna end it in next few weeks coz there nothing here...

  • @flynewman1765
    @flynewman1765 Год назад +2

    I love you Ross,, thank you king

  • @brittanysapology9528
    @brittanysapology9528 Год назад

    Amen

  • @demetriawilson8928
    @demetriawilson8928 Год назад +1

    Thank you for praying for me!!!!!!!!!! Thank you Thank you so much

  • @tommyhernandez2305
    @tommyhernandez2305 3 месяца назад

    Thank you 🙏🏾 for this in Jesus name Amen.

  • @linarili7957
    @linarili7957 5 месяцев назад

    You helped me with this video. Thank you

  • @zenzubean6481
    @zenzubean6481 Год назад

    #RealOne ❤‍🔥❤‍🔥❤‍🔥

  • @theresabanks5183
    @theresabanks5183 Год назад +1

    Jesus Jesus Jesus

  • @corbanvaughn206
    @corbanvaughn206 6 месяцев назад

    I'm gonna live tonight

  • @margdapierre4676
    @margdapierre4676 Год назад

    Although encouragement is good for those that are struggling and fighting the pain, I think people need to hear coping strategies and mechanisms. People want to escape and not feel the pain. The east way is to take yourself out. What are some coping mechanisms and strategies when they are in pain? How are they supposed to deal? What does that look like? How are they suppose to deal with the pain while on earth? How do they develop the muscle of resilience to fight through the pain? Some ppl are not strong enough to deal with and the east way out is to die…. Aside from praying, what can physically and mentally do to help fight strongholds?

  • @firstlast8258
    @firstlast8258 Месяц назад

    No

  • @DionBall
    @DionBall Год назад

    Thank you fr

  • @tabspinkelephant
    @tabspinkelephant Год назад

    Tim it’s Tab’s Pink Elephant again. We are picking up these conversations. We must heal. You are on it!
    #tabspinkelephant

  • @andrewkowalko9416
    @andrewkowalko9416 Год назад

    I feel like that sometimes it's just that loneliness is very hard to deal with and the world has left me there, hurt and upset that I don't, that most people could care less if I live a Holy lifestyle, including my own kind.

  • @djfrechette4349
    @djfrechette4349 Год назад

    You saved my life tonight man. Thank you for this 🤍

  • @VeridanaSea
    @VeridanaSea Год назад

    Bruh. I'm a Christian but I still have problems with stealing in every form that seems minimal. But thieves are not allowed in God's kingdom if they don't repent.

    • @GuidedByGod13
      @GuidedByGod13 Год назад +1

      Don't believe that lie. You accepted Jesus - that seals your salvation. He has washed your sins - past present and future. Lean on Him, look to Him, and HE will work it out. We were not meant to change ourselves and we cannot change ourselves. Give your heart to Him and He does it for you little by little 💓

  • @jonawells8064
    @jonawells8064 Год назад

    Who is the guy on this episode? It only played the ending

  • @deonscott6487
    @deonscott6487 Год назад

    This video definitely helped me today 💯

  • @See-if_I_care
    @See-if_I_care Год назад

    But who are we to tell someone not to take their own lives?

  • @Swisspastel80
    @Swisspastel80 Год назад

    Its NOT
    Things are so bad right now
    Its
    I AM THE PROBLEM AND THE ONLY WAY TO HELP THE WORLD IS FOR ME TO LEAVE

  • @richardgorlitz6731
    @richardgorlitz6731 Год назад

    Thank you.

  • @TherapeuticallySound
    @TherapeuticallySound Год назад

    Thank you🤍

  • @cantwinn191
    @cantwinn191 Год назад

    Yuall think you know me

  • @GuidedByGod13
    @GuidedByGod13 Год назад +1

    📍Strangest thing. I've posted this comment 2x and it disappeared ⬇️⬇️⬇️

    • @GuidedByGod13
      @GuidedByGod13 Год назад +1

      I feel like I can see the devil laughing every time someone takes their life. From 7 years old to 36, I thought about it or actually tried several times. The pain in my mind and circumstances was unbearable and seemed endless. But it gets better! Believe it. You are loved, you are needed, and you have purpose. Don't let the enemy steal it from you. God has so much more in store for your life❤️

  • @rameishasmith
    @rameishasmith Год назад +1

    thank you ❤

  • @HannahMillerFitness
    @HannahMillerFitness Год назад

    One thing that has always helped me is to try and find truth and love in everything - to see it. To be it. I believe that’s what everything comes down to at the end of the day. Don’t believe or give into the lies the enemy throws at you. You’re SO much stronger than you think. 🤍