Life is too short to waste on regret

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  • Опубликовано: 5 окт 2024
  • Ever caught yourself wondering "what if?" and feeling the weight of past decisions? You're not alone.
    In this heartfelt video, I dive deep into the topic of major life regrets and share practical strategies to find peace with the choices we've made.
    Join me as I open up about my own experiences with regret and reveal the methods that have helped me cope, including reflective meditation and imagining alternate life paths.
    Discover how to embrace the life you're living now and let go of idealized visions of what could have been.
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Комментарии • 26

  • @bymmim
    @bymmim 3 месяца назад

    It definitely shows that you find it idealistic to have the standard marks of success defined by society, especially seeing your young. I just want to remind you that, there are lots of people with a partner+kids+dog+picket fence house who are going through the same feelings you have, loneliness, depression and all.

  • @alexanderklepp
    @alexanderklepp 4 месяца назад +4

    Your videos are really comforting and nice to hear. I’ve wanted to try to be in a relationship but I’ve had trouble meeting someone.

  • @arpananautiyal1243
    @arpananautiyal1243 2 месяца назад

    I was listening closely to this Justin, your dad is right, there is no point regretting. We may strive for anything but what is not our reality will not stick with us in the long run. This is what is my understanding so far in life. Thanks for posting this video.

  • @myredrose45
    @myredrose45 4 месяца назад +2

    I don't have any regrets, just learning experiences.

  • @monbw5772
    @monbw5772 3 месяца назад

    Obsessed with the vessel emails! This how i ended up here today! Insightful!

  • @lindaolsen7828
    @lindaolsen7828 4 месяца назад +3

    After my husband died I was, for a while, affected by profound regrets. Eventually I realized I couldn't go forward by looking back and saw how much I had learned by the 'mistakes' I'd made. We make the best decisions we can for the times in which we made them.

  • @cp6st2oc1w
    @cp6st2oc1w 4 месяца назад +3

    Accept what is and if you can change it okay. There are some things that you need to accept that you can't change it

  • @graciousmohale5621
    @graciousmohale5621 4 месяца назад

    I don't have regrets at all, I feel motivated since I have taken my power back. I will never give up on love. I'm just waiting for Mr Right to sweep me off my feet. The previous relationship was a learning experience. Each and every person is unique and should be treated as such.

  • @mohamedwalla5203
    @mohamedwalla5203 4 месяца назад

    You made my day ty.

  • @laswanlewwis
    @laswanlewwis 4 месяца назад +1

    Is hard to find somebody is very hard I'm not gonna get married I never being no relationship no friends just do me being my self and staying my own lane I can live the way I want to live I don't bother people I just move on my own life.

  • @adrianazollo2688
    @adrianazollo2688 4 месяца назад

    thank you

  • @pradeeppatil164
    @pradeeppatil164 4 месяца назад

    There is much difference in Ideal life which we want & in practical life which we had...what your thoughts how to tackle this difference???😊

  • @zhugeliang3905
    @zhugeliang3905 4 месяца назад

    Are you Australian?

  • @JackyMoroke
    @JackyMoroke 4 месяца назад

    Hi mam can you please 🎉🎉😢😢😢🎉

  • @zaige11
    @zaige11 4 месяца назад

    This is a great message, but as a woman who wasted the best years of my life doing whatever I could for a man who DIDNT EVEN WANT a family with me….this vid was just another waste of time. Cool messages!!however. Didn’t help with the regret I feel from deciding to love him. I lost ohr family. And that’s all I ever wanted.
    You buffoons don’t understand what it means to hurt a woman who loves you that way. I don’t think a cis male ever could tbh

    • @zaige11
      @zaige11 4 месяца назад

      See cuz for me there was no “other path”. There wasn’t a fork. The only choice in my mind and heart’s eyes was him. He didn’t feel the same and wasted my entire f***ing life goal. He used me sexually and left me behind as a “chapter,” as he put it, when another opportunity finally arose.
      OP you seem like the exact same kind of dude as my ex. From this video alone, do I make this judgement.
      I really wish you would go apologize to your ex, OP. you might chuckle if you see this, but an “I’m sorry” from YOU might very well be the sigh of relief that this “gorgeous” girl of yours has been holding onto for a decade now
      However men that actually own their shit are rare. I doubt you’re one of them

    • @zaige11
      @zaige11 4 месяца назад

      Saying “there’s no point to_____(regret)” is easy to say when you’re the one that causes it

    • @graciousmohale5621
      @graciousmohale5621 4 месяца назад +1

      I know what you are talking about, i have been there and felt it. The best revenge is to take your power back, live your life, He won the battle but you will win the war. I have won the war.

    • @mariannemohan9929
      @mariannemohan9929 4 месяца назад +1

      Life is full of choices amd as much as you may want to blame your ex, you still chose to be with a man who didn't want children with you. That is on you and no one else. You could have always left. To say you had no choice is not true. But it is much easier to blame and spend your life being bitter than to look in the mirror and take accountability for your part. No one held a gun to your head. You chose to stay with him. So really if there's anyone you should be angry with- it's yourself for the decion you made but it's just so much easier to to blame him. Accept your role and maybe grow up.

    • @zaige11
      @zaige11 4 месяца назад

      @@mariannemohan9929 that’s actually not true at all lol he DID want kids with me and was ecstatic when we had a pregnancy scare.
      Obviously you have no conception of what it’s like to experience narcissistic abuse. As it’s not as easy as “you have an option to leave.” And your lack of empathy yourself is honestly astounding.
      Marianne your reply is unhelpful, negative, and not appreciated. Please keep your shitty, condescending opinions to yourself.