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Outro: • [FREE] SUICIDEBOYS TYP...
Dantes: *genuinely talking about himself without being mental*
Chat: IT’S TERMINAL
you sir made me laugh. well done
DOCTOR
'Doctor Tarzaned' IT'S TERMINAL
this is the funniest thing ive ever read
*"AH SHIT WE AIN'T GOT NO CURE FOR THIS ONE YET BOIS"*
"If I die tomorrow, I won't be conscious of the fact that I'm dead, therefore for every second that I'm alive, I am immortal in my consciousness."
That's so cold-
Its an old idea invented by some philosopher. I honestly don’t remember who. The original quote says something like: “where we are, death is not. And where death is, we are not.”
I can’t believe Dantes came up with that on his own.
@@elliottandreasen4148 It's from Epicurus.
@@wlink639 oh right!👌🏼
Colder than Lissandra R
@@elliottandreasen4148 It seems like I’ve never had an original thought, I was on the same thought process 🤣
The genuineness in this video is insane. Can’t believe bro didn’t hold back about the yordles
bro u copied my pfp
bruh cant believe you ran it down on attack speed shyvana the other day smh
@@Sean-pv1nwthats Gryffinn bro He is one of the best Junglers In League wtf are u on he doesnt take shit from u
What part??
@@zerogts5434you clearly aren’t in the loop bro 😂
Seeing this man being a genuinely grounded and well adjusted individual is scary.
@@oabh1808 easy to judge being a nobody
@@Melindroyou have a point but do you get what Ole is trying to say?
@olehalvorsen it is no measure of Health to be well-adjusted to a profoundly sick Society.
@@chaoskiller1758 most illnesses are a manifestation of the mind, of trauma.
@@Melindro ironic, you literally told that person is a "nobody". Making a ad-hominem because can't attack the arguement so diminishing their self-image is your only coping strategy.
Psychiatrist- "What game do you play ?"
Dantes-"League of Legends"
Psychiatrist- "Okay buddy, it's over you are doomed"
xDDD
*starts lenghtily and intensily writing in his notebook*
@@pot7979Dante’s: says one sentence
Dr: *INTENSIVE NOTEBOOKING*
@@pot7979Dante’s: says one sentence
Dr: *INTENSIVE NOTEBOOKING*
XDdDDDDDDd
ITS TERMINAL
Dr. K has the best approach ive seen in asking the correct questions at the right time. I wish all psychiatrists was like him.
yea its talent i guess you cant learn it, really gift from god and Dantes is very genuine smart guy and of course good guy i wish him awesome life which he deserves, tonight i will pray for him
Hes topnotch for sure but its just called 'caring' which none of us do like he does
@@DantesFromHospital you can learn it but just because it good to watch doesnt mean it good for therapy. it really depends on the type of person.
The sad reality is there is literally always only going to be 1 dr K. There might be others like him but we actually need others willing to be as authentically THEMSELVES as he is.
I think thats just general thing they have to get to know you of course and usually everyone has their different approach but they will let you open yourself up as long as you are comfortable to the way Dantes was able to communicate made it much better able to get himself across more it's something we can all learn I mean I am still pretty young and I try to do my best to..even if I struggle myself in some ways too but trying to learn is a good step
dantes telling dr k about his experience banging yordles was truly one of the moments of all time
timestamp pls lol
@@SurfingJakeOwns 24:40
Regardless of how serious the video was, i can't get over chat saying "it's terminal" "doc he needs help"
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HAHAAHHAAHA
Watching this conversation has helped me recognize things about me that I haven't recognized. Dantes relatibility is out of the roof with this video and I feel like this kind of format with this kind of talk is truly what the internet needs more.
This video really helped me look at my self and its almost scary how much I relate to Dante
I also can relate to dantes and i feel like this was a eye opener for me..
Yes also for me, especially when he said "I can notice redflag in a person"
I was asking myself if do that was a mistake, but its not
AoE baby
It's crazy how smart Dantes actually is
And has a surprisingly good memory
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He’s a challenger league player and top streamer, I wouldn’t expect anything else. Bros killing it
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I’ve only seen him in clips and short form content. I believed he was permanently unhinged but this was actually a very good conversation, changed my view of him for sure.
@@pregnanttomato9576 He does come off that way. It's kinda just how shorts work. Most would opt to watch a guy say some out of pocket shit over a guy having a genuine conversation.
Props for being open, actually really cool that you're open about it. Being realistic and open abt mental issues helps a lot of kids who see social media and think everyone else is perfect, being open helps those kids develop healthy relationships with themselves
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I definitely know it's helped me at 16.
Seriously that’s exactly why I watch him, he says real shit ppl are too afraid to admit
Looking back at your old clips with the stuffed animals, excalibur, and MOM, it's crazy how far your content has come.
excalibur LOL? i need context on the dantes lore
@@Kaklueimagine not being here since 20k subs lol it was only like 1 summer ago his growth has been so insane
@@prodigygetgud7921 the real fans were here since the beginning
@@prodigygetgud7921 literally nobody cares lmao
@@kumadori9627 youre not real
I used to study psychology and whenever we say "i'll not diagnose you" thats a lie, we always do that shit LMAO
...Yeah, but *_in game_*_ only_
I probably will do this too if I go for my psychology degree
you do realize then he has to say that to avoid potential legal repercussions right? He's an MD in a nonprofessional setting. He can be held responsible for people interpreting his words as official medical advice if he doesn't stare that upfront
@@matsiv5707 while thats true, im fairly sure they just mean they do it in their heads just cause they know about the symptoms and whatnot.
@@chronically_insane_crowno shit
Imagine you're a psychiatrist and having to hear your patient speaking about fucking yordles and shit, ingame ofc
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As long as they pay me, if the card declines im selling them out to cops 💀
timestamp for the yordles...?
lol I’m definitely sure they’ve heard way worse tbh lol
he's a psychiatrist. he has seen and heard way worse than some guy making a weird joke with no actual consequences
Dante's mom giving the advice to ask any question is such a great outlook. It's always important to ask questions, even if they seem odd. Being inquisitive and asking dumb questions is 1000x better than being confused and not putting your hand up. Teachers need to get better at dealing with the odd questions. I wish I had a teacher who would research my odd question and give me an answer, and inspire inquisitiveness. That's how you instill passion and interest in students, and how some of the greatest minds are formed. Nobody is born knowing everything!
Don't be afraid to ask questions if you're genuinely curious.
The only teacher who would do this was my physics teacher who I still regard as one of my favorite and best teachers. He knew I did jackshit in school and still passed, so he answered my questions and kept me engaged with more challenging work. If it took a long time explaining he told me to stay after the lesson so others would still get the lesson they needed. He made me want to study physics sadly I had to dropout due to crippling disease.
Teacher dont differ from any other job and thus everybody one of them has a lot of chance to be insecure about smth in their lives thus odd question for them is just like trigger to down smn to feel better of their insecurities.
So only healthy mental and confident in themselves as human being teachers can ever accept any kind of questions, even if it is the odd one they just dont feel need to laugh at you cause they are self-sufficient
My mother taught me this, and I would talk her head off asking about things all the time. It's definitely important to ask questions, not enough people do anymore.
While I do agree, you also need to understand and experiment by your own. You wont train your adaptability if you always try to rely on someone to get answers. It needs a balance. Throwing too many questions can be as troublesome as being quiet
Honestly this was the most entertaining and interesting content I've seen in a while and I hope Dantes takes those steps when he is ready because he seems like such a genuinely good guy
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I never would have thought me and Dantes would be so much alike, same struggles and backstory , it was actually kind of cathartic almost like watching a video of myself go to therapy.
Damn you grew up on a boat
Wow he looks like really wise and smart when he doesn't act like a schizo and starts being more serious, I like it! I wish he posted more content like that in the future.
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Hes not really that wise, smart yes
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@@lasis5496he is very wise
@@lasis5496 this whole talk describes him as wise not smart if anything lol
Bro is actually so well spoken wtf. He doesn't fumble his words at all and explains some of his complex thoughts so well
Dr K and Dantes,probably my 2 favorite people in the online community right now,amazing!! I AM HYPED AS FUCK GENTS LETSGOOOOO!!!!!!!!!!
Dr K killed reckful
he made reckful end his life
@@feelsbadman1833deserved 😂
@@feelsbadman1833there’s no way you genuinely believe that
@@hata6290 okay
I've spent the last few hours listening to this and I'm honestly impressed with your willingness to have a discussion with this level of intimacy publically and by the amount of growth shown over the course of the discussion. Rooting for you too :)
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i love how the chat literally references every story, every detail of the stories like it's jojo or something
At a certain point (~16 minutes) Dantes acknowledges that his attempts at self-actualisation are futile (its a never-ending pursuit of improvement, you can never actually be the best), and refers to this as an "issue" in terms of reaching his end goals. He mentions this directly after talking about how everything is temporary and constantly changing, which is a motivation to keep improving because otherwise the world would change around him while he would "stay the same". But then, he doesn't seem to acknowledge that his own performance gains are equally temporary and will inevitably decline. Probably more concerningly, He doesn't seem to recognize that not only is this constant pursuit unnecessary to achieve his true end-goals (kids, family, friends - the things that would ideally make him happy), but actually harmful to it - because he feels it's necessary to alienate himself from others (family, relationships, even interactions with those wanting his interactions) in order to succeed in his endless "progression". It's all stemming from a deeply ingrained insecurity that he has at this point far surpassed, but the residual anxiety it left behind still festers enough to produce this worldview of constantly needing to know that IF he were being judged, hes already likely to be his own worst critic.
The basal question - If you can never be the best, and if you have to constantly improve to be the best or else the world will surpass you, when will you ever reach the point that you say "okay, thats enough, now I can stop sacrificing my opportunities for happiness"?
damn.
In this case yes, most people wouldn't be on league for 10 hours per day. Lifting is a great way to meet people, same with literally anything other than being on your PC. Secular to hardcore gamers, I agree. But, I ask what is the purpose of self actualization? Where is the benefit if not in the journey itself? If one desires self actualization, yet forgoes everything immediate for these goals, is he truly on the path to self actualization?
Food for thought, extended beyond current context
He seems to have a timeline and goals set up. Hes in his twenties and wants to be in a exteemly convenient position in his early thirties it doesnt matter if hes already surpassed his financial goals at this point its more about starting his other goals when he feels more confortable to do so? Why rush a young man best do things at your own pace and take your goals seriously while youre at it. What do you mean by self-actualizing and what does it have to do with forgoing happiness?
Hopefully he is wise enough when he reaches that stage to recognize everything has an end and the grinding needs to stop so he can cherish life.
What I am mostly curious about is how you would réconciliate the idea that everything is temporary and yet try to improve. Why improve if it will dissipate. Especially if you alienate yourself in the grind, i.e you don't enjoy the process. Because I am sure things are worth doing. And I am also sure they are temporary and will fade away even in my soul. Yet there is this irrepressible and continuous urge to keep doing them (which I think is what some refer to as an instinct).
@@dooday1 So i approach this from the basis of want. Ultimately we have our needs met, but why do we eat the foods we prefer? Simple preference, with this in tow would you rather trend toward stagnancy or would you prefer a little spice here and there? The spice takes form in our wants, built through natural stressors into motivation.
However, when approached with the question "What's the point?" I rely on two answers. One being my religious, now agnostic, background. The second being what you reference, instinct. A large part of me wants to fuck the world with both hands, so even if the universe becomes purely a black hole in another 14 trillion years, I'll be out here lifting weights to entertain simple fantasies.
On the other hand, my spiritual side says this is just another stone in a pond we are unable to conceive. These thoughts derive from questions of consciousness, where it goes upon death, what comprises sentience, alongside an interest in ghosts and potential realms beyond. Meditative practices led me to believe in whatever entities inhabit the spaces between our senses.
The most sanest person on earth trying to get his mental health under control. Learn people LEARN!!
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You can learn but you can only earn peak mental
I get it now looking back. I didnt understand at first, it seemed like dantes didnt need the therapy cause too self aware. But dantes was so self aware to the point of blindness. Over intellectualizing, too much logics, mind, not being in the feelings. That's what Dr K was trying to get dantes to: Get out of your head go into your heart.
I am exactly like him. and I'm at the worst point of my life. do you have any tips on what I can do?
@oikawascursedplushie9912 man, get closer to God day by day. I know that this advice will help for sure. I'm just an online stranger, so, you might not trust me but, I wish you the best in your life.
The ending was so wholesome, man. I can agree with Dantes over and over again in this video and relate. I have the same problem with avoiding hurt, pain, and rejection by not letting it effect me. I genuinely hope your mental arrives in a good place soon.
I really hated the ending, Dr k just tried to rush it and didnt rlly care anymore
That last 30 to 45 minutes of him just sitting back and absorbing everything must have been harrowing. Love dantes.
The way the physiatrist reacts when league is said, really shows this isn’t his first patient to play it.😅
He’s a gamer himself
Dr. K plays lol as well
His channel is called healthy gamer and he used to play lol all the time in his 20s
Its a "self defense" mechanism (overthinking and self reflecting) to make it so no one can ever hurt you and you can never hurt yourself because your beliefs are just and and you're being the best person you can possibly be. To be prepared for absolutely anything that comes your way. Its like Ive also spent hours thinking not being able to sleep because I haven't thought through every step I took that day and if it was the right thing and what I can do better to work on myself. Its like after winning any argument or anything going wrong in my life was in some way my fault even if "it wasnt" because I could see the fault in myself and around the situation itself. Its like building new relationships with people on the regular growing up because my family was constantly moving made it possible to see certain parts of other people and myself that in turn made me in to the kind of person who is never perfect because I can see the flaws in myself as-well. Its like a day not working on myself is seeing a loss in myself reminding myself that everything can be lost in a moment and will be lost in a moment if I don't change just like everything in the past was lost in an instant. Its like any version of myself in the past is someone that I hate and every version of me in the future will never be enough and Its like I know exactly how it feels.
(Edit: Its like im not even 20 minutes in but I have to stop watching before I start thinking)
(Discord: elemiger) -
It's not just a self defense mechanism, he seems to have OCD.
1) Need for control
2) Ruminating over thoughts (compulsion)
3) Violent/degenerate intrusive thoughts (obsession)
4) Need to get up and walk to talk about certain things (compulsion)
I say this because I have OCD myself. And I'm not just trying to be "just like him fr", as a matter of fact I was convinced he didn't have OCD until he mentioned the rumination and needing to stand up to talk. That's when things clicked.
The stream really taught me a lot of important things in life, such as avoiding online relationships and drugs/alcohol. Thank you Dantes for inspiring me to improve myself, you truly are a legend!
Drugs and alcohol are fine in moderation, depending on the drug obviously. Don't take Dante's fear of loss of control as a moral lesson, he doesn't do it because it's right or proper, but because they scare him.
If avoiding drugs and alcohol is what is best for you, that's cool, but it should be an active choice made in the pursuit of something, be it your health or something else, not because you're avoiding something.
@@Nebukanezzer Well I do fear of not having control as far as Im concerned. Thing is, Ive been out of control for nearly 10 years and that really deteriorates my mental and physical health. Ive been living as an alcoholic and a junkie, and I really hate myself for that but I just couldnt stop.
About online dating, I feel like u gotta notice the red flags because there r definetly some good girls/guys out there,I have a friend of mine who's been dating a girl for half an year at this point and it's goin well, plus been seeing ppl who online dated before actually marrying eachother so it definitely can work, it's just you gotta be more cautious about it
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@@Nebukanezzer perhaps, but I can't really think of a good thing that comes from drinking more than one shot
I came in and didn't expect to sit and relate to someone for 2 hours today. Especially a league player... this was really helpful
People are going to laugh at this, specially since I'm older than Dantes. But seeing you overcome your challenges, get better. And the couple of serious videos you have posted giving an inside of what has been on your mind this last year, has taught me so much about not only my life, but life in general.
It may seem stupid to say this, but I'm proud to said that watching Dantes Doanel has legitimaly changed my life for better.
:)
Considering something: Everybody is stupid aka ignorant of it until they learned more than the one they are comparing themselves to. People who laugh at ignorance are themselves ignorant - they do not understand what the process of learning means. Being ignorant of matters is only natural independent of age. Even if you experience every day more than anybody else, you will still be ignorant of something. I am happy you managed to improve your life; Keep going!
Cool name
you watched Dantes... Doanal? wew
No matter where you find the knowledge that helps you go through life as long as it truly makes a difference
in game ?
Genuinely eye opening. Makes me think about multiple things in my life. Love the way you speak never realized how well spoken you are. Much love dante!
I'm relatively new to the channel and I must say I really love how Dantes on first impression seems to be a completely unhinged insane person but when he gets to realtalk you can just see what a genuine, charismatic and insightful person he is. He is truly one of the people of all time
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dantes is like the most genuinely mentally healthy schizo poster ever
He isn t a schizo, he does it for content
The ultimate control technique is having no control whatsoever and letting whatever happen, knowing that whatever happens…. You will be fine. Damn man thats staying on me… sounds like pure acceptance
I'm exactly like him. everything. it's uncanny. the constant grinding and overworking searching for an impossible perfection (to the point even others are cencerned by my actions), moving around a lot on my childhood, too self-awareness or self reflection, ambition, insecurity, self isolation, locking myself up in my room to work, everything. everything he said, i resonated with. i've genuinely never met someone so similar to me. the question is, i have no idea what to do to fix it. if you're caught up on the recent relationship breakup situation, it's obvious that he's self sabotaging, and i do that a lot as well. so, he really resonates with me a lot. i know dantes will never see this, but if you do, jsut know that you've made me realise and learn a lot about msuelf through you.
yep real its probably the autism and adhd but same i do also rly relate to him and share very similar views and stuff
I can't really say anything to that. But have you considered professional help/therapy? It could be useful
@@railasvuo I have lol.
I did not expect to watch this for more than 10 mins and I ended up watching it’s entirety. Cheers to your health and untapped potential!
He wants love at 30 but he doesn't know what love is and is not levelling up his love attributes so he will never find it. When you reach this stage, you'll truly know what emptiness is.
i watched thrue this entire video in one sitting and i just want to say is it is incredable how open you are willing to be online and show your vunerable side, even tho you might not feel like being vunerable, it has learned me very much because in some ways i feel simmaler to how you tend to put it. so thank you and dr K for putting so much into perspective for me, i really think it will help me grow
People tend to do things when they see popular figures do them. I don't know if you realize but you are genuinely going to be convincing people to go get help understanding themselves on a deeper level. And im only 5 minutes into the video, I never thought id be sitting on youtube listening to a person talk to a psychiatrist casually. This is super cool
Bro legit helping me rediscover myself, bless your realness man.. need more like you out here.
1:45:15 This part and onward is the most eye-opening stuff I've seen in a long time. It's one of those things (see what I did there) you need it spoonfed (animation++) to actually understand it, even though you've grasped it all along. This was magical!
Wow you're young but so wise, I always felt alone in the sense of questioning everything. Or imagining scenarios in my head to the enth degree from a young age, you a good soul Dantes. Never watched one of your streams before but you chill asf! Hope everything going good man! I started the stream grind in february & aint looked back since!
1:41:42 THIS IS MAJOR foreshadowing to the break up today...
definitely
Bro no lie it would be so goddamn fun to have a real, genuine conversation spanning hours with you. Seeing so many parallels just makes me interested
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we're young men watching twitch! lots of intersectionality for sure
Thought Dantes was psychopathic but the more I listened to his rationale, thought process and experiences the more I realized he has a scarily similar thought process to me and now I don't know what to think
You really shouldn't be THAT surprised. We're all human beings. We're more than likely living the same life without even realizing it
ye, watching the vid i thought he legit displayed symptoms/tendencies of pure psychopathy
@@potatostarch9363His fear of losing control has nothing to do with psychopathy, It's to do with being wise enough to realize that uncertainty and the unknown should be feared. He doesn't want control because of domination, he wants it because it makes him feel safe. Also, Dr K would've brought it up and he's a Harvard trained psychiatrist. You're not nearly as qualified.
@@potatostarch9363 bruh he wanted control over himself not others.
hes healthy ???
Damn I think you just became the reason I'm seriously considering finally getting me a therapist. I know it's been due for years now...
Do it
do it bro !! 😊
dont be afraid to go next if you dont think you get a GG match, all psychiatrists work differently and you may not mesh well with the first one you come in cotact with but theres a few that absolutely smurf it, probably dont need a wizard but dont let a bad first experience discourage you brother.
@@EverIess but how do I know he or she is smurfing? How do I measure their competence without seeing their movement and Makro. I don't know the meta of therapists. Dr. K seems cool and I haven't finished the videos yet. Is it only about feeling secure and good with the therapist? Is that how I measure their competence? I guess I just don't know what to expect. I guess I just have to do it for curiosity. For the experience.
@@nishinoja3775 I think you need to feel like they understand you, which might naturally form a connection. And they bring some practical or emotional value. However, neither of these things might happen in the first session, so maybe don't give up straight away if it looks like it's getting somewhere.
This is actually fascinating. I haven't seen anything from doanel before but this was such an amazing insight into a genuinely unique mind for better or worse.
Just extremely interesting from a people watching perspective
@dantes being all's shy and bashful after receiving a compliment literally gave me hope in humanity 😭😭🥺 like seriously that was so wholesome and adorable I nearly cried from adorableness
Loved hearing this and reflecting on myself as well throughout my life. I'm 7 years older than you @Doaenel but I've gotten through the trauma of my early 20's thankfully at this point. One very important thing I'd like to suggest (and this is coming from a nobody, probably much less successful and less controlled stranger on the internet who couldn't even dream of having a conversation with a semi-celebrity) is it's very good to give yourself more experiences. It's kinda like, if the square block doesn't fit in the circle hole then find a block that does you know? Maybe you've never even seen the circle block though. Are you gonna wear a blindfold and not look for it? Or maybe force that square block into the hole till its mangled up enough to go? You can't know what you don't know basically and the only way you will learn is when you place yourself in a different place. I've learned it doesn't even have to be an uncomfortable place either, just something different or new, cuz that brings on more new things and new reflections. It also brings on different drives and excitement and that can change you or make you feel different as well. It can even bring you down a path that becomes the right one to get through the road that we don't want to travel on. For relationships, I think this was what finally got me success there. I marry in February next year and life is now nothing like I thought I'd ever achieve. Also patience is a good thing to have, but infinite patience is not. I honestly think as long as you are comfortable with finances the way they are, or aren't aiming to quit entirely by a set date or set amount of money, then streaming less and shrinking those numbers a bit would do you no harm so that you can take time to feel better and fulfill your own dreams. Don't be a thing for people on the internet, because 99% of us do not matter at the end of the day, and you do. I think you agree that none of us are really the end goal. Everyone has to have some amount of self-importance so that they are able to help others. It doesn't work the other way around unfortunately. Thanks for sharing, I think you've got a lot of guts to be open like that. I've got a completely different perspective on who you are now compared to the online façade that people portray you as. I look forward to watching you some more and even continuing to work on myself vicariously through you.
Damn that upload schedule is fire dantes keep this up
he does his own youtube?
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Dante is fascinating. He seems so comfortable with himself and is so real and grounded. What a truly beautiful exchange. I really enjoyed this.
Dantes says that his ultimate goal is marrying and starting a family, but makes it clear that in his day to day he makes no effort to forward that goal outside of his financial gain. He mentions that one of the positives of streaming for him is being able to lighten up people’s days, but does not once mention his desire to improve a community or any notions of morality. Dantes calls himself insecure, but spends every single day looking at himself in the mirror and thinking about himself and his actions. He thinks that his sigma grindset will make him more desirable to others, but in reality, he will always struggle with relationships bc this narrative he tells himself about desirability is a fallacy. The key to authentic and genuine connections is rooted in the question: focusing on other people, not alienating yourself, not lying to yourself about the addictive nature of gaming, and simply putting yourself out there in the real world, not online, having real human experiences.
It feels so weird listening to this because even though my life has been incredibly different to yours, there's the same thought process, the same endless spiral of introspection (?), the same way of viewing things and progress, to a point where everything Dr.K mentioned I can apply to myself. And yet I wonder if I'm not just a little ahead, since I expect what's coming from Dr.K seeing those spirals I do in your words, but I think that's due to being a spectator of the moment.
I wonder if all this is due to the, scratch that, I'm convinced all this is due to us growing surrounded by internet, social media, etcetera, combined to a specific percentage of people. But it might just be everyone, and that's a whole lot scarier and yet... hopeful.
In any case it was incredibly informative, thx for posting the video man.
I usually don’t comment on youtube videos but I just want to say that I watched through the entire video and learned a lot just from listening to the back and forth between you two. I found it extremely inspiring that you were able to speak your truth not only in front of Dr. K but also your whole stream who are not exactly the most mature. I really do hope you find happiness through your successes and failures.
Damn i just started laughing when he was talking about his childhood and chat said AUTISM DIAGNOSED
I don’t really watch your streams because you’re a little high energy for me but this was so fascinating! One of the best collabs I’ve seen in a while
Isnt it fucked up that we need jobs like therapists, because we dont trust each other?
If they say why, why? Tell them that it's human nature. -MJ
It do be like that huh?
takes huge courage to post this man and it is very insightful. not many streamers are very intimate with their audience. it's sweet to know you are.
I think he was just being intimate with himself and Dr. K. His viewers are just his viewers. Not saying he doesnt care what others might think but I dont think he did this for us lmao.
Funny thing about me watching this VOD of Dantes talking to Dr. K is that I only knew Dantes from popular memes off the internet.
Now after watching some compilation clips, jumping into a live one night and now watching this. I can confidently say I am a supporter of Dantes and I think he is probably one of the most down to earth people I have came across on the internet.
This whole VOD of him talking about his life and then Dr. K giving him some solutions to his current problems helped me to be more introspective of my own life. And whilst we are not the same person (obviously) and we didn't have similar up bringing and family relationships. I can still relate in some certain aspects. Also on top of that, I have learnt and again allowed myself to be introspective of my own life and take away things from this VOD and overall remined me of this life that I live in and reinforced the "It what it is" mentality to keep carrying on and to learn from past mistakes and improve and to become better overall as a person.
TLDR: Didn't know much about Dantes now I do. Learned a lot from VOD. Great stream of Dantes and Dr. K.
This video actually worked as therapy for me and i understood so mich more about myself. Love the geniunity of both in the stream.
It's so interesting to me to hear Dantes pov on so many things considering he's only 9 months older than me, we have had such different experiences even growing up in the same country, I had similar experiences in high-school and elementary school, it's nice to see how others deal with things
This man is truly inspiring and very impressive,he honestly deserves the best, so much so that i wish he would be reincarnated as THE main character in a better world
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Are you train to Isekai him?
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I think an important thing about the want for control is that you’re never going to be able to control someone else. As doctor K said everyone has their own truths. And the truth is you’re never going to able to use your truths to figure out someone’s true intentions because everyone’s truths are different. So from my point of view I think the most optimal thing to do in a situation out of your control is to not seek control in the those situations. In some moments you will be much more happier just being, than trying to find control in a situation, that’s a constant chase of something that’s not really possible. You just have to be okay with idea of not being to control every aspect, and just being as I said before. And that’s when I truly feel like you can live in the moment
This guy is the younger version of me. On top of the world in his 20s but grumpy old man yelling get off my lawn by your 30s. Good luck, my friend. Introspection is a trip.
To avoid doing something, all I have to do is ignore the possibility of future regret. On the other hand, doing something requires overcoming an activation energy, which is usually my fear of failure or judgement. Upon reflection, I realize that overcoming fear is really about accepting the possibility of future regret. It follows then that once I have identified something I want to do, I simply need to accept the possibility of regretting my actions instead of ignoring the regret of inaction. It's easier to follow through when viewed in this way because of the realization that the possibility of regret will be there either way. I've allowed avoiding actions to provide the illusion of control in the past. I need to accept that I don't always have control and that's okay. I should ground my identity in the direction I choose to go rather than attaching myself to my starting point.
To continue to do something, discipline and motivation are required. Discipline and motivation are big words, but they're just that: words. Discipline and motivation will come naturally when you reflect on your actions properly. Take drinking alcohol for example. In the moment, what are the benefits? I would say the primary one is reduced awareness of your fears, resulting in a lower activation energy to partake in group actions, which in turn results in short-term fun and easier social acceptance from fellow drinkers. How about the negatives? Well, you're poisoning your body and damaging your liver. Additionally, the positive I mentioned above becomes a negative in the long-term. You learn to ignore your fears and medicate them with alcohol instead of coming to terms with them... it's just another form of avoidance. It's harder, but you can achieve the same social acceptance without alcohol. I should know... I've been sober for 7 months and lost 60 lbs without changing anything else about my social life.
Creating change is hard, and it's scary because choosing to create change in a bad or unoptimized direction is entirely possible. However, nature demonstrates that change is inevitable, so we must adapt or be left behind. In other words, standing still may provide the illusion of safety, but really it just guarantees that life will run you over. Since inaction cannot give you control over your life, the most important thing is to identify which direction you want to move in. I'm still working out the best way to do that, but I believe that trial and error is a good place to start. It's important to remember that just because you've been going one way, it doesn't prevent you from turning around. Additionally, while there might be bad ways to approach life - like inaction or allowing others to manipulate your path for their own benefit - there also may not be a single best path. Nobody has all the answers; we should appreciate diversity, for we paint the picture of human existence together.
Well said, I don't usually take RUclips comments seriously but you analyzed this through well, hopefully we all accept that; regret following action is better than inaction... Have a blessed day.
This is definitely one of the streams of all time
RUclips comments are so braindead. Sadge
@@WhiskeyNeaty This is definitely one of the comments of all time
This is definitely one of the streams of all time
@@noahnaterrr113 ^
@@noahnaterrr113 legalize nuclear bombs
Seriously more people should have easy access to psychiatrists, even if you are not necessarily mental ill. But to some point I think everyone is, and everyone carries his shadows around with himself.
Talking all that stuff off of your shoulders with someone who was trained to do so with you, is just such a great thing. Too bad it´s almost impossible to have a psychiatrists if you are not absolutely insane and really need help asap...
The problem is insanity seems to be welcomed now.
Love this crossover. Can’t wait to see where this goes.
Dr K. always brings out the most interesting sides of people. Dantes seems like a cool guy even outside of streaming from what ive seen on tik tok and in this video. Hope for more stuff like this.
This is why having good parents is the best headstart in life you can get. Also imagine if the mother wasn't a cop with those kinds of skills and critical thinking, I wonder if would've been kidnapped and sold as a slave
hey man ive been in a weird and bad emotional place in my life for a bit now and i havent known how to approach it. but i always got joy from your clips and personality and seeing this really helped, because i wouldnt usually click on a video like this but seeing you two together felt like it was something i could understand
15 minutes in and damn, this is fascinating to listen to. Didn't expect this crazy insight and profoundness from Dantes.
I loved this conversation! Watched it completely. The ending where Dante is able to start to feel his emotions already and accept the compliment was awesome to see. 😊
I related so much to the sentiment of "you are a slave to being in control". I tried so hard to trim down the high and lows in my life that I basically flatlined. I was a "stoic", just letting everything phase by, but I got so much happier when I told people that I love them, that they hurt me, that I felt vulnerable. I let people come into my life even if they were uncertain variables and I let them change me, even if they hurt me.
I got too much into my own head and started taking notes, putting it in here if anyone is interested 😅
Your brain is a painting
Your brain is an ever changing painting of abstract colours smashing into each other.
To keep the mind happy keep the painting beautiful, and change the painting by piercing it with an arrow, splash it with water or envelope it in darkness to then keep painting.
The more outside information you get, the more knowledge you acquire the bigger it gets.
Keeping the painting beautiful and intriguing keeps you happy.
The world and the people in it is an infinitely big painting of all thinkable colours, and some colours you can only get from others, some designs you can’t make yourself, so you have to combine and splash colours onto others and let them touch your art and let them see and feel what you have.
You need to remove the blinds around you so others can see your art and add to it, to make it even more beautiful, hopefully. Being strong and in control is not having big blinds and strong blinds, it’s having few blinds but being okay with the paint going onto your canvas and using their paint to improve the art. All paint can be beautiful.
The art can show as an aura where the closer you get the more it effects you, the stronger the force the more you’re pushed.
Colours is not even enough and other art has to be combined like sounds to even further enchance the aura.
I’m an insecure person and I always find ways to rationalize why I’m better than every successful person I see despite having achieved far less in my life. When I see Dantes, this young dude who has accomplished so much and never stops giving everything his all and is so open and vulnerable about how he got here it just paints an undeniable picture of someone who is better than me in every single way. It makes me realize that he’s put in more hours and work into his goals and taken everything more seriously than I ever have. It makes me realize it is obvious that I am worse than him because I have never really worked hard at anything consistently in my life. It makes me want to change and work as hard as I can to achieve what I can with my remaining time in life. His perspective and mindset is like a beacon that makes one want to follow in his footsteps.
Lol I relate to the rationalization thing so much man. Even then, its nice to be aware of it so that when the thought comes we can fight it
Hope you are doing well man
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I in my case just dont do mich so i dont realy care how other people see me therefor ill just be myself and not care. Ofc i will always feel tendensioes tomake fun of people who are say a bit less atractive or pretty or whatever look like
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No, don't do that. You see his problem is compensating emotional hurt and emptiness with work and achievments. Yes work towards your goals, work hard but let yourself be vulnerable. As the doctor said, there is an alternative universe with fat Dantes who is happy and fullfilled (even though he isn't as successfull). Achieving your goals and working hard won't necessarily fullfill you.
I genuinely really enjoy Dantes because he's just so genuine. It's incredibly rare to see someone so genuine and down to earth in the content creation world.
Down to earth? All bro does is yap about incest yordle dreams
I love how this is just a relaxed and genuine conversation and the title ist like "YOU WONT BELIEVE WHAT HAPPENED. DANTES IS A PSYCHOPATH?? (CONFIRMED?). DO I HAVE TO GO TO PSYCHIATRIC WARD?"
I really enjoyed this video. And i really wish you 222
I find it amazing how genuine he remains during the talk. He seems like a very introspective, thoughtful, and caring person
theres so many things in here ive thought about a lot, and its given me a good insight on some mental hurdles ive been stuck with. so first and foremost, thanks :) great discussion
1:11:11 this in perticular is something i find hard to explain to people, and they never truely understand what i mean, because they are too afraid of opening that "pandoras box". but i find authenticity and honesty more valuable than shallow compliments and kind words, in deeper friendships
love dr. k, him having a deeper conversation with someone self-reflected as dantes is a treat for psychological analysis and discussion. great video!
Dantes body language was really interesting toward the end, he closed off then opened up. It was lovely to see.
True confidence comes from not being afraid of failure, and trust (once earned) shouldn’t be easily discarded. Don’t be afraid of the failure of others either, we’re all the same idiot.
Good luck on your journey Dantes
2:04:00 smfh this guy man didn’t listen to advice
Dantes is actually quite more rational that I would imagine, and so relatable this conversation. This conversation was crazy good. The dr. is amazing.
This is by far my favorite Dr. K episode , glad to see this side of my favorite streamer
This made me so happy to watch. I feel like Dantes got what he needed to hear and also wanted to hear. Keep up the good work man and I appreciate the pure honesty
"Do you want to be less insecure?""
"I don't know"
brahhh
In a lot of ways i really can relate to what you and Dr K. were talking about. I have simular issue with my life right now. I don't wanna go to much in detail, but just leave a quick thank you! I belive that I was able to take a glimpse at what inner peace could look like for me and I really needed that. I had a mental image form and it felt good and relaxed the tension i constantly feel myself beeing in.
now this psychiatrist will need a psychiatrist 😭😭
wait is he not one
@@hegemon3883 he said it at the start of the video
@@hegemon3883he says on the beginning he isn't "his psychiatrist", idk if that means he isn't one or just means he is one but not "his" just to open him up
@@narcissus4852he is one he just isn't diagnosing Dantes with anything. Just talking
@@narcissus4852he is a Harvard certified psychiatrist, it’s just a disclaimer he has to say for legal reasons
Thank you so much for speaking up about this. I also struggle with valuing my self worth off my success. Being the most attractive and interesting and fun and successful and talented has become things i need to have self worth. Your self awareness and insight is really inspiring. Thank you
Dantes being the most sane lol player and also actually being sane is hilarious
I've known dantes only from a few shorts or clips on youtube. Having watched this "interview" in full, I have to say you are a super cool and intelligent guy! Keep up the good content.
I've watched this over a couple days as someone who only watched Dantes clips and part of the Jaymo arc. I can say this was insanely interesting to watch. I do know there is more to Dantes than the chaotic schizo but it's so so interesting to see what that "more" is.
Dantes seems genuinely brilliant to me. This seems more like the therapist affirming things he understands or would end up understanding without reading about them (unlike the therapist) than actually offering real value
watched the whole conversation and I can relate a ton with what you have said and what Dr K. did say as well, I know the session wasn't directly done for me but I did take it very personal, thanks.
Same
I have the exact same thing as Dante and just watched this for free 🙌 I actually saw the issue Dante and I have before the iPad this doc is awesome he really knows his thing 🙌
Of course it's free no one would pay for this shit unless ur parasocial
Dantes you’re such an incredibly genuine person. It’s great to see you constantly grinding & trying to improve yourself. Keep at it man, you’ll get rank 1 in League & in the world in no time. ❤
This was amazing man. Thank you for stepping up and being genuinely you in the public eye. It might be nothing to you, but for some it's impossible to risk being emotionally vulnerable like this. Seeing you talking like this could be the push for people to seek help they need.
33 minutes in and Dantes is so emotionally intelligent and I share a lot of experiences with him, I'm glad he can look at things in such a good light, he's progressed more than me in some spots, but I'm going to keep moving too. actually crazy hearing this kinda stuff from the guy who wanted to bang yordles
I've been following both Dr.K's and Dantes' content for so long so this video was such a blessing! I really resonate with Dantes and it makes me so happy that it's him sitting there and talking with Dr.K, I don't think there's many other streamer who would've had such interesting thoughts and insight