Why didn't they talk more about bullying? He is like this because of the intense bullying in their society.... not just in schools but also in work environments. This young man has been let down by so many people. The only person who has given him comfort is his mother hence his obsession. Society needs to change... bullying must be stopped. Bullying ruins lives. What a shame, this poor young man has had his youth taken away from him. I hope he gets the help he needs and understands that not all people are like those bullies.
They probably didn't want to make him uncomfortable with what else they learned. They probably got him help after. I wish this show did follow ups with cases like this so we knew how they were doing
@@Truecrimeresearcher224 I think they could have made a general comment about how we need to stop bullying in schools instead of just ignoring it? I dunno just felt like they diminished his experiences. I wish they did follow ups too!
@@venus7155 They do follow ups on some stories. They did a follow up on a young girl who was talked about because of her eye color and I think a few others.
Seriously, the last case with the guy who was addicted to water plus coffee and this case... Both stemmed for bullying. This is too much. This culture of bullying and treating it as normal is not okay. I'm so frustrated at how nonchalant everyone on the show is about bullying smh
i was at dark place in my 1st year college, i dont have ANY friend and people look at me like a freak some call me name too.. i used to cry everyday, dreading go to college and whenever possible i try to talk to my friend outside college, i also went to psychologist. being lonely at crowd is so scary, research said that bullied people have the same of trauma as soldier in a war. even tho im not bullied but its enough to change my confidence, etc.
I think Hello counselor should have a psychologist as part of their hosts. Most of the time the advice that they give is very biased and some of these people need to hear advice from a professional point of view.
I don't think you understand the point of the show. It's not really about the concerns. It's entertainment. They put comedians and personalities on to entertain the audience and viewers. If the show got too serious, many people wouldn't watch it. In Korea, while it's strict, people love laughter and funny broadcasts. That's what gets the ratings. Also, the people that come with the concerns get a little fame as well. Like the mother that wore a hijab or the little girl with different colored eyes. Korean TV and American TV are completely different.
appletae Green I do understand the concept of the show and that’s why I watch it as well but a lot of people agree with me when I say that some of the concerns that appear on this show need the point of view from a professional. I don’t think adding a psychologist to the show will take away from the humor but that’s just my personal opinion.
@@reiko872 Well, it's the people's decision to send their concerns to the show. I'm pretty sure they know the nature of it and how nothing would ever get too serious. Again, Korean TV is more so about laughter and entertaining the viewers. Psychologists must take everything seriously so they would put a huge damper on the mood of the show. There are times where the show would get serious and people would cry but the comedians must turn it around. If the person wanted to go see a psychologist, then they should go see one in private.
he's not a bad guy its just that he needs to become more independent. I don't understand how South Korea even tolerates bullying, I'm lucky that I live in Australia where if someone gets picked on, others speak up to the bullies action or the teachers punish the bully. Physical bullying which I have never seen in Australia in my own experience.
Harun Daniel TRUE! I migrated to Australia last year and expecting to be picked on because of prejudice but I was wrong. People treated me well and the campaign against bullying in my school (prob in other school as well) is so amazing
From what I have heard when it comes to bullying in South Korea it comes down to the competition of everything like getting into the best school or getting the best job. They want the stongest the best of the best Which only ends up hurting people
I'm glad you've never experienced bullying in Australia, but it is still a prevalent problem in our society too. I read an article a few weeks back which revealed many Australian workers felt they were the victims of workplace bullying and felt powerless to stop it...
@@yardhieu1970 I agree...I had a friend from india migrate to australia and she said the locals would throw rocks at her when she was 7 or 8, this included adults.
omo pls save this kind boy. i dont think its a concern to clingy with his mom. but pls save him from anxiety or depression he faced in school/ uni. i always feel sad whenever found boy like him. TT
Separation anxiety is a real thing. I had separation anxiety too when I was younger. I hated being apart from my mom too. It basically came from something my aunt said to me when I was 5 years old. So I can definitely understand this young man. I think something more must have happened to him other then having no friends to talk to or lean on while in school. People don't realize the effect words and actions can have on a person.
Trauma really could cause long term anxiety and depression.. low self confidence goes deep :l your mind may acknowledge that you're worth it.. but it could take much effort to truly feel it.. Rooting for u, young man! And may we all be more kind to one another :`)
Honestly it's hard to find a guy who still sticks closely to their mothers at the age of 22. However, I hope this guy gains more confidence and not rely on his mom so often! Also, hes a real sweetheart who deserves to be with someone who truly loves him 😭
I think if he becomes more confident in himself he can make friends and have others to talk with besides his mom. I think he is really very lonely and feels like his mom is his only friend.
I don't that that him being obsessed with his mom is the real concern here. The people around him made him feel this way and have his mom to comfort him. It is cute that he loves his mom. He seems kind and sweet.
What... he is more like a mum then his own mum. Outside there r many parents who wish to have such a sweet child. Poor Boy, now people make fun of him, just because he is to nice.
>..> I want my son to be a mamas boy. Love me always Think of mom first. Sorry future girlfriend but momma is always number one. Go on dates. Tell me daily events even insignificant things. If my son needs support I'm his number one fan.
If he was my mom's son she would be happy.. I dont think I would be bothered about it if I had a loving son but I will support him to find his own girlfriend so he can enjoy his life.
I can totally relate to this concern. I am obsessed with my elder sister. But its due to the reason that i lost my mum and my sister took as a role of a mother so i got soooo attached to her that i also go with her whenever we go out. I am just like the boy. I am scared to lose someone again who is sooo dear to me.
All the comments are talking about bullying. He obviously has no backbone and wasn't taught to stand up for himself. If someone bullies him or hits him, he needs to be tougher. Also, he's 22. That's a grown man. He needs to toughen up.
about half way through, its apparent he's not exactly /obsessed/. he's just worried and wants to protect her, but the depths he has gone.... oh my GOD son if u dont sit yo ass down
I don’t understand they complain if their child don’t talks to them or call them or not come home but then if the child is loving to his mother they still complain?
I can see that the son loves his mother profoundly. This is totally a bit strange and weird because of his age 22 and still reply on his mother. The son need to work on how to be independent from the rest of his life because I’m telling the truth that when he’s getting older and older, his mother won’t be always on his side. Also, my mom teaches me how to be independent when I was in senior high school and now, I’m third years in college. She always want to make sure if I want her to go with me. I always tell her it’s not necessary because I’ve already know what to do unless in need of help or support from my mom. You know that you still have time to learn how to independent and need to break that bad habit.
Joeline Alacon For him it probably isn’t that simple as just ‘Get over it and be independent’. He most likely has an anxiety disorder that inhibits him from acting independently. I can honestly say that I’m very similar to him, and I’ve been in therapy for years now. It’s an incredibly difficult thing to deal with, and it isn’t strange. It’s incredibly common for people in Korea to experience severe depression and anxiety because of the stigma around mental health and therapy. It isn’t ‘believed in’ for the most part, so his mom is all he’s had to reassure him, and that’s why he has such an attachment; She makes him feel safe. It’s incredibly more complex than what you would suggest.
he needs someone expert in this case, the hell why this program dont have any? huft kbs do you read any comments down below? please...at least give 'em phsycologist on backstage. After all it was entertaining.
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Why didn't they talk more about bullying? He is like this because of the intense bullying in their society.... not just in schools but also in work environments. This young man has been let down by so many people. The only person who has given him comfort is his mother hence his obsession. Society needs to change... bullying must be stopped. Bullying ruins lives. What a shame, this poor young man has had his youth taken away from him. I hope he gets the help he needs and understands that not all people are like those bullies.
They probably didn't want to make him uncomfortable with what else they learned. They probably got him help after. I wish this show did follow ups with cases like this so we knew how they were doing
@@Truecrimeresearcher224 I think they could have made a general comment about how we need to stop bullying in schools instead of just ignoring it? I dunno just felt like they diminished his experiences. I wish they did follow ups too!
@@venus7155 They do follow ups on some stories. They did a follow up on a young girl who was talked about because of her eye color and I think a few others.
@@1D4Ever934 Yep but not very often! Actually it's very rarely that they do it now.
i personally know jonghwan and he doesnt feel comfortable talking abut such, and he doesnt deserve what he went through.
Seriously, the last case with the guy who was addicted to water plus coffee and this case... Both stemmed for bullying. This is too much. This culture of bullying and treating it as normal is not okay. I'm so frustrated at how nonchalant everyone on the show is about bullying smh
That's what.
I don't get it. I am so frustrated at "the mother" she have a nice kid.
What's more good that your child loving you and following you?
@@hyungnim6488 Would you like someone checking in on you 24/7 unable to live a private life.
@@michellekercy4430 tbh if it was someone who isn't close, I won't like it but they're families and plus her own son.
i was at dark place in my 1st year college, i dont have ANY friend and people look at me like a freak some call me name too.. i used to cry everyday, dreading go to college and whenever possible i try to talk to my friend outside college, i also went to psychologist. being lonely at crowd is so scary, research said that bullied people have the same of trauma as soldier in a war. even tho im not bullied but its enough to change my confidence, etc.
I think Hello counselor should have a psychologist as part of their hosts. Most of the time the advice that they give is very biased and some of these people need to hear advice from a professional point of view.
I don't think you understand the point of the show. It's not really about the concerns. It's entertainment. They put comedians and personalities on to entertain the audience and viewers. If the show got too serious, many people wouldn't watch it. In Korea, while it's strict, people love laughter and funny broadcasts. That's what gets the ratings. Also, the people that come with the concerns get a little fame as well. Like the mother that wore a hijab or the little girl with different colored eyes. Korean TV and American TV are completely different.
appletae Green I do understand the concept of the show and that’s why I watch it as well but a lot of people agree with me when I say that some of the concerns that appear on this show need the point of view from a professional. I don’t think adding a psychologist to the show will take away from the humor but that’s just my personal opinion.
@@reiko872 Well, it's the people's decision to send their concerns to the show. I'm pretty sure they know the nature of it and how nothing would ever get too serious. Again, Korean TV is more so about laughter and entertaining the viewers. Psychologists must take everything seriously so they would put a huge damper on the mood of the show. There are times where the show would get serious and people would cry but the comedians must turn it around. If the person wanted to go see a psychologist, then they should go see one in private.
appletae Green we have different thoughts towards this subject but I understand where you’re coming from and I respect your opinion.
when the case become too serious, they have professionals that they can ask on what action to do
he's not a bad guy its just that he needs to become more independent. I don't understand how South Korea even tolerates bullying, I'm lucky that I live in Australia where if someone gets picked on, others speak up to the bullies action or the teachers punish the bully. Physical bullying which I have never seen in Australia in my own experience.
Harun Daniel TRUE! I migrated to Australia last year and expecting to be picked on because of prejudice but I was wrong. People treated me well and the campaign against bullying in my school (prob in other school as well) is so amazing
From what I have heard when it comes to bullying in South Korea it comes down to the competition of everything like getting into the best school or getting the best job. They want the stongest the best of the best
Which only ends up hurting people
I'm glad you've never experienced bullying in Australia, but it is still a prevalent problem in our society too. I read an article a few weeks back which revealed many Australian workers felt they were the victims of workplace bullying and felt powerless to stop it...
@@yardhieu1970 I agree...I had a friend from india migrate to australia and she said the locals would throw rocks at her when she was 7 or 8, this included adults.
이 나라도 만족스럽지 않아 가끔은 그냥 남한에서 도망쳐 락이 되고 싶어 ㅠㅠ
there is a reason why the military exempted him, poor kid got tormented in school and the only one to save him was his overprotective mother
Sounds like he is suffering from anxiety in a major way:(
I'm so glad his mom was with him during his difficult times
omo pls save this kind boy. i dont think its a concern to clingy with his mom. but pls save him from anxiety or depression he faced in school/ uni. i always feel sad whenever found boy like him. TT
I just want to say that his french is really good and I hope he gets his license ^^ (I'm french btw)
When did he speak french??
@@mimieyaka5106 at around 13:20
@@mewlp4581 thank uu
Ouais. Je suis d’accord avec toi!
@@mimieyaka5106 In Egypt, the French language is considered a subject that is taught and a test is taken for it👁️👄👁️
“If you keep calling your mom, you could look like a mama’s boy”
Well he IS a mama’s boy 😆 100%! Literally the definition of the phrase
He is so good in French, i admire him !
tbh he's precious and it's rare for a kid like him who is openly caring towards their mom, the main issue is his anxiety
Separation anxiety is a real thing. I had separation anxiety too when I was younger. I hated being apart from my mom too. It basically came from something my aunt said to me when I was 5 years old. So I can definitely understand this young man. I think something more must have happened to him other then having no friends to talk to or lean on while in school. People don't realize the effect words and actions can have on a person.
Trauma really could cause long term anxiety and depression.. low self confidence goes deep :l your mind may acknowledge that you're worth it.. but it could take much effort to truly feel it..
Rooting for u, young man! And may we all be more kind to one another :`)
He’s French is really good, he should pursue his dream!
They don't even suprise or concern when he said he was bullied by his friend. Like bullying is not a big deal. What's wrong with these people..
This concern should seek professional help.
Honestly it's hard to find a guy who still sticks closely to their mothers at the age of 22. However, I hope this guy gains more confidence and not rely on his mom so often! Also, hes a real sweetheart who deserves to be with someone who truly loves him 😭
Damn, i didn’t realise how bullying is common in Korea((( they need to do smth, children are suffering😢
I think if he becomes more confident in himself he can make friends and have others to talk with besides his mom. I think he is really very lonely and feels like his mom is his only friend.
On this episode of "People who need counselling but instead we brought celebrities"
School bullying is a very big thing...
Others:I want to be with my child
This:My child is obsessed...
I don't that that him being obsessed with his mom is the real concern here. The people around him made him feel this way and have his mom to comfort him. It is cute that he loves his mom. He seems kind and sweet.
What... he is more like a mum then his own mum. Outside there r many parents who wish to have such a sweet child. Poor Boy, now people make fun of him, just because he is to nice.
That's some signs of adult separation anxiety disorder.
I understand him when he say that he keeps imagining that his boss was so mean because I'm like that too
It is disappointing no one on show addressed the bullying.
Kenta's outfit is kinda cute
Aigoo cute son 💗
I would become his best friend I feel bad
the weirdest person ever hey it’s u again u r so nice 😃 I commented to u on that kdrama video.
>..> I want my son to be a mamas boy.
Love me always
Think of mom first. Sorry future girlfriend but momma is always number one.
Go on dates.
Tell me daily events even insignificant things.
If my son needs support I'm his number one fan.
U know one day when you die he will have a hard time
Say no to bullying!!!
I'm 100% sure he have this Dependent Personality Disorder (DPD)
For anyone wondering his French is pretty good ! Any Francophones would understand him easily.
If he was my mom's son she would be happy.. I dont think I would be bothered about it if I had a loving son but I will support him to find his own girlfriend so he can enjoy his life.
I can totally relate to this concern. I am obsessed with my elder sister. But its due to the reason that i lost my mum and my sister took as a role of a mother so i got soooo attached to her that i also go with her whenever we go out. I am just like the boy. I am scared to lose someone again who is sooo dear to me.
All the comments are talking about bullying. He obviously has no backbone and wasn't taught to stand up for himself. If someone bullies him or hits him, he needs to be tougher. Also, he's 22. That's a grown man. He needs to toughen up.
Not everyone has your level of confidence. Give the kid a break. Also, everyone matures at their own pace.
about half way through, its apparent he's not exactly /obsessed/. he's just worried and wants to protect her, but the depths he has gone.... oh my GOD son if u dont sit yo ass down
That ring ring ring part has me dead.😂😂😂😂😂
I don’t understand they complain if their child don’t talks to them or call them or not come home but then if the child is loving to his mother they still complain?
Mom need to set some rules 😂
@Kill me please I beg yea maybe. Its a joke from previous concern
Seriously the bullying thing in korea is so severe 😣 why they didnt try to do sth
I can see that the son loves his mother profoundly. This is totally a bit strange and weird because of his age 22 and still reply on his mother. The son need to work on how to be independent from the rest of his life because I’m telling the truth that when he’s getting older and older, his mother won’t be always on his side.
Also, my mom teaches me how to be independent when I was in senior high school and now, I’m third years in college. She always want to make sure if I want her to go with me. I always tell her it’s not necessary because I’ve already know what to do unless in need of help or support from my mom.
You know that you still have time to learn how to independent and need to break that bad habit.
Joeline Alacon For him it probably isn’t that simple as just ‘Get over it and be independent’. He most likely has an anxiety disorder that inhibits him from acting independently. I can honestly say that I’m very similar to him, and I’ve been in therapy for years now. It’s an incredibly difficult thing to deal with, and it isn’t strange. It’s incredibly common for people in Korea to experience severe depression and anxiety because of the stigma around mental health and therapy. It isn’t ‘believed in’ for the most part, so his mom is all he’s had to reassure him, and that’s why he has such an attachment; She makes him feel safe. It’s incredibly more complex than what you would suggest.
Are those his real eyes or are they just from the glasses
probably his glasses, my friends glasses are really similar to his and make your eyes microscopic lol probably just his prescription tbh
@@bochii that's what I was thinking
@@bochii that's what I thought
they don't look real tbh. the color looks unnatural
It’s like my aunt with my grandma, I stayed over for a week on my birthday and every time my grandma’s phone rang it was my auntie lol
he needs someone expert in this case, the hell why this program dont have any? huft kbs do you read any comments down below? please...at least give 'em phsycologist on backstage. After all it was entertaining.
I'm 22 , and I do the same thing .. I don't think it's a concern
What this show needs is Dr. Phil, how lit would that be
I know it's irrelevant, but he's sort of adorable lol
Wow it's almost like i'm looking into a mirror
This show seriously need professional to help them
Hello.. i am first here
takadaa kenta
Even i know how to Cook eggs and im Just 10 yr
Am i the one who think actually it doesnt seem as a problem except he didnt do the chores and workin in 3 weeks and being fired?
Separation anxiety???
Electra complex 101
Wow, it is obsession? Because I'm exactly the same with my mother... O-O
14:27
He need some serious help. It is a serious sickness
충격과 공포까지는아니다 애먹이고골통지기는거보단낫지싶은데약간만조절됀다면
Oedipus complex
3:36 Kyungsoo yah, is that you?
Exo??
... ... ...
저 게이 백내장 아니노
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