30s and the societal pressure to get married and have kids | Men, Explain (Ft. Ze Tong)

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  • Опубликовано: 17 ноя 2024

Комментарии • 34

  • @XxPianoGalxX123
    @XxPianoGalxX123 2 года назад +75

    Ze Tong is so well spoken, really like the depth of his ideas

  • @Travyz
    @Travyz 2 года назад +44

    Ze Tong is such a great guest! Other than just sharing his perspectives, he's also genuinely interested in Sonia's perspectives. Very well spoken and thoughtful.

  • @Whiteroca
    @Whiteroca 2 года назад +29

    11:15 Ze Tong (age near 30) - 2 parts to definition to success - 1) Financially ok, ability to make plans without too much strain on finance 2) Inter-personal relationships with family, loved ones, partner, friends. Success should include a group of people to share your happiness with.

    • @HumdrumSingaporeanREACTS
      @HumdrumSingaporeanREACTS 2 года назад +4

      You do make an important point!
      @BlackrocaYT
      Although the limitation of circumstances and environment can also be a huge burden!
      An obstacle to reach~
      For example, the job may pay well, but short longevity! or vice versa

  • @jovenaloon4035
    @jovenaloon4035 2 года назад +59

    Loved the tempo of this episode, it felt like we have two interviewers 😂 thanks for touching on this very relatable topic, think so many of us reaching / reached 30 went through the same thought process. Whoever's still in the rut, don't worry too much u will be fine ❤️

  • @igenator
    @igenator 2 года назад +13

    Really enjoyed the episode! I stumbled upon this as a skippable 5 second ad, but Im glad I listened on and ended up here. As much as this is an interview, it felt like just two friends trading thoughts and sharing experiences. It is so relatable as a millennial and the challenges/concerns we face. Almost cathartic to hear this issue being addressed and discussed in this platform. Thank you again for the video!

    • @itsclarityco
      @itsclarityco  2 года назад +4

      Thanks for sharing and so glad you've stumbled across the ad! 🥰 More episodes to come!

  • @NathanNoon
    @NathanNoon 2 года назад +20

    Might be better to get the perspective of those already in their 30s or mid 30s than those bordering 30s probably because the pressures are much more real and there is the lived experience too

    • @HumdrumSingaporeanREACTS
      @HumdrumSingaporeanREACTS 2 года назад +4

      To be really truthful and honest with you
      thank you for the comment!
      :D
      You make a good point that
      @Nathan Noon

  • @Yooching
    @Yooching 2 года назад +11

    Ze Tong should have his own podcast or vlog something.

    • @jiayinglean7777
      @jiayinglean7777 2 года назад

      He is doing his own podcast with his friend called The T Podcast

  • @lovetrustandpixiedust
    @lovetrustandpixiedust 2 года назад +1

    Very pertinent topic and good conversational chemistry between Sonia and Ze Tong, who both presented very eloquent insights!

  • @EIJIHS
    @EIJIHS 2 года назад +10

    don't think LKY meant that as a political agenda nor shelf life of women, but rather his personal views that life would probably be more complete with marriage and children as part of it.

  • @dextercjr
    @dextercjr 2 года назад +5

    Thanks for doing this podcast with ze tong

  • @HumdrumSingaporeanREACTS
    @HumdrumSingaporeanREACTS 2 года назад +4

    *To be honest with you... ... Things likes*
    - Income Stability
    - Find a Partner & Start A Family
    - Career Longevity
    etc.

    • @HumdrumSingaporeanREACTS
      @HumdrumSingaporeanREACTS 2 года назад +2

      My deepest apologies but I cannot say much cos... ...
      😖 Not doing that well of a job myself too
      😓 Sorry!
      *Sigh... ...*
      Room For Improvements bah!

  • @heyasoniachew
    @heyasoniachew 2 года назад +6

    Thank you for the love you guys 💖💖

    • @Kirinimusic
      @Kirinimusic 2 года назад

      This was such a meaningful and encouraging conversation! Thank you both

  • @davidvc4560
    @davidvc4560 2 года назад +2

    Nice interview... keep it up

  • @dextercjr
    @dextercjr 2 года назад +3

    Please have him back again!!! Haha

  • @autumnrain2988
    @autumnrain2988 2 года назад

    Love Sonia’s talkshow 👍🏆

  • @Whiteroca
    @Whiteroca 2 года назад +1

    moments: 13:08 30s is just the beginning

  • @HumdrumSingaporeanREACTS
    @HumdrumSingaporeanREACTS 2 года назад +4

    Bro! I feel you man!

    • @HumdrumSingaporeanREACTS
      @HumdrumSingaporeanREACTS 2 года назад +1

      Like for example, for me! this year Valentine's Day
      😣
      *_Super Awkward!_*
      😖
      Please forgive me for not having a partner to celebrate it with!!!

  • @Pandoragmys
    @Pandoragmys 2 года назад +3

    Just wanting to love and to receive love from my family/partner regardless of age, to move into a piano career and not in corporate as my personality cmi, to keep fit emotionally/mentally/physically/spiritually :)

    • @itsclarityco
      @itsclarityco  2 года назад

      Here's wishing that ALL of that will happen for you! Keep going! ✨

  • @15KKCCTT
    @15KKCCTT 2 года назад +5

    great hairstyle, sonia

  • @peisiwong1837
    @peisiwong1837 2 года назад +2

    Handsome Guy Zhang Zetong

  • @thetinkerer5322
    @thetinkerer5322 2 года назад +1

    Who's the girl? She's cute!

    • @damien8398
      @damien8398 2 года назад +2

      Her name is Clarity Co.

  • @ezzatisaid
    @ezzatisaid 2 года назад +2

    "Just brainfarting" 😂

  • @Whiteroca
    @Whiteroca 2 года назад +3

    21:00 where's this Dialouge between LKY and PHD Joan Sim? will be nice to watch 😂
    Update found it: ruclips.net/video/ymoM0HJoHgk/видео.html