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  • @flufffyfox
    @flufffyfox 2 месяца назад +234

    Praying for Princess Kate 💙 Praying for Tiffany to get good results 💙 Praying for all the tiffanythinks family to be healthy and happy 💙

    • @veehope2702
      @veehope2702 2 месяца назад +7

      I'm praying for fluffyfox as well 💙💙💙

    • @mandybradley3079
      @mandybradley3079 2 месяца назад +19

      Devastated about Catherine. And now the horrible people who said bad crap have egg on their faces. I hope. It’s far worse to have small children and want to be there for them growing up. I was there and the fear is higher when you have little ones.

    • @beryl9538
      @beryl9538 2 месяца назад +25

      Praying for all cancer sufferers. Keep on keeping on.❤

    • @marcellarankin6050
      @marcellarankin6050 2 месяца назад +4

      Thank you

    • @SueBirch68
      @SueBirch68 2 месяца назад +16

      Thank you. I have stage 4 metastatic colon cancer. I was diagnosed Dec 3, 2021. Still going through chemo. ❤

  • @christopherblain6156
    @christopherblain6156 2 месяца назад +26

    battling lung cancer for 10 years, scanxiety is the worst

  • @kaireenaraj3010
    @kaireenaraj3010 2 месяца назад +103

    Things can happen to anyone, whether you live in a humble small shed, or if you live in a Palace or a big mansion! All we can do is live our lives in the best way possible, and focus on our blessings without fear! Move on and just be excited for the future without looking back! Positive thinking is so powerful.

    • @pattylyman7907
      @pattylyman7907 2 месяца назад +6

      💖💖💖Yes!

    • @maryvonneboisson9086
      @maryvonneboisson9086 2 месяца назад +6

      Exactement tous humbles avec cette maladie...je sais de quoi je parle nous avons ceci, vivons le moment présent ❤ merci pour vos mots

    • @joannerudolph5028
      @joannerudolph5028 2 месяца назад +4

      Yes great advice 🌸💛
      It was fun to watch you with your friend. Just two young women hanging out. She is as beautiful as you😊

    • @purplephoenixartbymicheled9298
      @purplephoenixartbymicheled9298 2 месяца назад +3

      🌬🌻That's my 95 year old Father's Favorite saying 😊
      It's true. Sending Positive thoughts your way Xo 😊

    • @margaretohara7250
      @margaretohara7250 2 месяца назад +2

      So true. Look at what just happened to the Princess. Illness does not discriminate.
      . When we are well, I suggest we devote a little of our time to causes that help with research for cures, etc. or just be kind to all people as nouobody know what troubles they have. Blessings.

  • @karnaxiom1635
    @karnaxiom1635 2 месяца назад +54

    I’ve been through cancer, surgery, chemo,radiation and now I’m 4 yrs cancer free. It wasn’t until Feb of 2023 that I stopped living in this depression that I was holding deep inside. Cancer changed me. I will never look at life the same. But February of last year I started taking control of my new life. I will never again take for granted one single day of life that god has given to me. Just wake up everyday, meditate,do my exercises, yoga and thank god everyday that I feel so amazing.
    Enjoy your life sweetie. You have a very long healthy life ahead of you….look towards the future , our past is a painful one. You’ve e got this Tiff, you really do🌺

    • @roch145
      @roch145 2 месяца назад +9

      I’m glad to hear you’re doing well. It’s wonderful that you’ve re-taken control of your new life. Four years ago I was wrapping up chemo and radiation. Preparing for the first of two major surgeries. I’m still cancer free. I think I’ve suppressed my cancer anxiety. What challenges me is after having gone through the hell of cancer treatment, my wife divorced me after my first surgery. It was also upsetting to go through my treatments with no emotional support from her. So while I’ve coped fairly well with my cancer story. I’m finding the loss of my spouse harder to deal with. I do try to consciously be grateful every day for being given the gift of another day of life.

    • @naomisgram1
      @naomisgram1 2 месяца назад

      @@roch145😢

    • @vinneywinner6310
      @vinneywinner6310 2 месяца назад +2

      Hi Tiffany,
      I always go to your videos even if it’s late, you are a wonderful human being……I love your sweet personality and you are genuinely concerned about everyone…..you’re funny, beautiful,grateful……I pray for you everyday! God bless you and I hope you feel His presence daily. Please take care of yourself……a lot,a lot a lot(Lol)! Hugs from Trudy in PEI Canada

    • @vinneywinner6310
      @vinneywinner6310 2 месяца назад +2

      P.S. I love Your mother and Matt xoxo from Trudy in PEI IN CANADA

  • @jdavis3129
    @jdavis3129 2 месяца назад +72

    I’m a senior, and I’ve always used this saying while I’m waiting for results: ‘Don’t waste precious time worrying about ‘what if’, because if your results come back fine, you have wasted all that time worrying!’ Works great for me. 💜💜 Sending good news vibes for your results.

    • @glynisbaglow2169
      @glynisbaglow2169 2 месяца назад +2

      I totally agree. If i worry that won't change the outcome of my result. If stressing worked i'd stress all day, every day. I put all thoughts in a box in my brain + only look at things at appointments.😊❤❤❤

    • @purplephoenixartbymicheled9298
      @purplephoenixartbymicheled9298 2 месяца назад

      🌬🕊I as as well 😊 We are all Human and speaking for myself sometimes I just can't help it.
      That's why I try to Stay buzzy Art for me helps me so much. Sending much love and blessing's of light your way Xo
      We are all stronger together 🦸‍♀️😇🦸‍♂️
      💪💙💖💜🤍🖤💪

    • @linden5576
      @linden5576 2 месяца назад +4

      🙌 is the exact message. I’m trying to teach myself right now!!🤗 you put my thoughts right into words exactly! I’m always telling myself stay calm. Don’t worry just relax.🙌❤️

    • @Toffee146
      @Toffee146 2 месяца назад +2

      Easy to say when it's not you facing Cancer/the aftermath.

    • @shawshank6015
      @shawshank6015 2 месяца назад +1

      ​@@Toffee146No it's not easy to say to be honest, ANY RESULT You waiting for is STRESSFUL you never know the outcome, you could've gone for continuous headaches waiting for results turns out to be Cancer so please respect everyone's situation or journey you just never know. Nobody who care about Tiffany is trying to downplay her situation in the comments if they comment. So please

  • @theresacrockett8559
    @theresacrockett8559 2 месяца назад +15

    Tiffany, I have been going through a health crisis and have been consumed with worry and fear. I asked the Lord why am I going through this. Lord I pray to you, I believe in you, I read your scriptures and yet I do not have victory over these terrible feelings. Then one day while I was crying out to Him...He clearly spoke to my heart and said "LET GO." It truly changed my negative thought patterns and lessened my fears. From then on I did surrender to Him and "Let go." Letting go allows God's Grace and supply to flow into our worried and fearful hearts. I heard said letting go is the most responsible thing we can do. Scripture says the battle is the Lords..victory is ours. "when you worry, fret and work..I rest. When you rest (in me) I work." Scripture Be still and know that I am God." The original Hebrew root of "be still" does not mean "be quiet," It means "let go." Jesus loves you Tiffany. You are in my prayers.

  • @juliep.3660
    @juliep.3660 2 месяца назад +11

    Hi Tiff
    I am a cancer survivor of 2 primary cancers so been through a lot, just like you and all the struggles just seem to make one stronger and more determined and realise to live each day to the fullest and not constantly worry and stress about things beyond our control, or things that may never happen, so not to live in constant fear. You are amazing and keep on being you. 💜💙💜💙

  • @christine42615
    @christine42615 2 месяца назад +63

    Maybe have a thought for anyone who has a face to face appointment coming up and you could be scaring the bejesus out of them by constantly stressing phone appts are good news and all face to face mean bad news. Its different for different hospitals and different areas of the country. Really happy for you things look good though, maybe spare a moment for others going through similar

    • @heathercrocombe2977
      @heathercrocombe2977 2 месяца назад +30

      Agree 100%

    • @lynneosborne5200
      @lynneosborne5200 2 месяца назад +31

      I agree and it had me a bit worried and I always have a face to face and it's always been ok, it's just like you said its how the fit us in and who's available so it's not always bad news and sometimes phone calls can be bad news it's just the way it is x

    • @Mollie66
      @Mollie66 2 месяца назад +31

      Agree I got bad news twice over the phone from the hospital and am based in London

    • @cindywilliams4960
      @cindywilliams4960 2 месяца назад

      Unless you are dealing with CANCER like I am you have no idea what you are talking about. Tests for me are a constant heartache. How easy it is for you to give your idiotic opinions. You must be a very uneducated person. Nothing like hurting other people. You Christine should keep your opinion to yourself.

    • @jennmooney
      @jennmooney 2 месяца назад +5

      So true but not sure if Tiffany remembers that when they found a malignant spot on her lung they actually called her on the phone- remember her mum and Matt were in the car crying and she had to get out and walk and before that she and Matt were meeting up with friends at a restaurant and once again she got a bad news phone call, So for anyone out there having a face-to face appointment try not to feel it’s bad news- because they could just as easily give you the bad news over the phone-

  • @kathyreffner1142
    @kathyreffner1142 2 месяца назад +13

    Prayers for all who are struggling in any way. ❤🙏🏻

  • @deborahbizzell1989
    @deborahbizzell1989 2 месяца назад +12

    I have watched these podcast a few times,yet I still have not heard her get to the point of her diagnosis or her scan results.

    • @veehope2702
      @veehope2702 2 месяца назад +3

      @@mystic-witch-moon-ms2bi Rude

  • @6themegamom
    @6themegamom 2 месяца назад +36

    Hi Tiffany. I was diagnosed with leukemia 12 or so years ago. I love the Lord! If it wasn't for Christ, I wouldn't be here today. He has helped me to rise above my circumstances in so many ways. Too see past my pain unto others. To try and be there for others. I found so many people were so far worse off then I am. My Bible has been a huge comfort as well.❤

    • @japoemka
      @japoemka 2 месяца назад +4

      what about the doctors? sounds like without them, and the treatment you wouldn't be here.

    • @heathercrocombe2977
      @heathercrocombe2977 2 месяца назад +3

      It's more likely that you're still here because of medical skill, knowledge and treatments.

    • @6themegamom
      @6themegamom 2 месяца назад +4

      @@heathercrocombe2977 yes for sure that's part of it. The treatments can make you super sick and depressed. So unless you have Christ in your life youd never understand.

  • @sandrajintoorkar3181
    @sandrajintoorkar3181 2 месяца назад +16

    Hi Tiffany,
    I understand your mindset. When cancer appears and threatens your life, it leaves you traumatized and cautious. I'm dealing with the same thing. You're so right, in spite of whatever life throws at you, you must keep going. Thank you for that reminder. You are a constant breath of fresh air and I appreciate you. Stay beautiful! ❤

  • @sheribayens4898
    @sheribayens4898 2 месяца назад +8

    Tiffany, I love your refreshing way of looking towards the future! Living in fear is physically and mentally draining. I hope you feel all the prayers and positive thoughts I'm sending to you. God bless you sweet Tiffany. We Got This!💙🙏

  • @beverleycumming1876
    @beverleycumming1876 2 месяца назад +9

    Did you not get bad news last year by phone?

  • @mercyandgrace679
    @mercyandgrace679 2 месяца назад +45

    Tiffany, just plan your life for now and the future. You had a serious health scare, but in reality none of us knows what tomorrow holds. I am 70 years old and I still make plans for now and for the future. In reality, I realize that over half of my life span has passed. I don't think about it often because I am enjoying my life. Remember you are still young. Continue to take good care of yourself and as you so aptly say, "You've got this!"

  • @beryl9538
    @beryl9538 2 месяца назад +15

    Hey Tiffany, when i waited for my 6 weeks results. I had so much anxiety, negative thoughts, etc and the day i went in snd the Dr put a pen through my file and said i am cancer free was the best moment in my life. Yoh will get good results. We love you, you got this.❤

  • @ivanahokesova6701
    @ivanahokesova6701 2 месяца назад +11

    I started like you. Constant worrying is no way to live.

  • @Reacher0613
    @Reacher0613 2 месяца назад +19

    “Never let the future disturb you. You will meet it, if you have to, with the same weapons of reason which today arm you against the present.”
    - Marcus Aurelius -
    You are a warrior, Tiffany. LIVE!
    Amor Fati

    • @mariecleo214
      @mariecleo214 2 месяца назад +4

      So profound 😮👏 thanks

    • @draoi99
      @draoi99 2 месяца назад +1

      Marcus Aurelius was so based. ❤

  • @cindycarr3460
    @cindycarr3460 2 месяца назад +5

    Me too. Praying for Princess Kate and praying for Tiffany❤🙏🏻💙

  • @lizbarry7212
    @lizbarry7212 2 месяца назад +7

    Same❤ praying for my nephew who has cancer and is only 15 years old. His name is Daniel. Please pray for him too 😢

  • @ros9673
    @ros9673 2 месяца назад +11

    I'm going through a tough time the anxiety crippled me but I have to get up and live

  • @garybennett5645
    @garybennett5645 2 месяца назад +27

    Don’t be scared of the future continue on as normal and work towards the goals you and Matt want to achieve. Stay true to your faith pray for your health and be grateful everyday.

    • @JulieR73
      @JulieR73 2 месяца назад +1

      Beautifully said!

  • @samriggleman4665
    @samriggleman4665 2 месяца назад +3

    Praying for you Tiffany. You are an inspiration to many. Stay amazing. Greetings from Texas.

  • @aprilm2664
    @aprilm2664 2 месяца назад +6

    My mom had breast cancer surgery so we know exactly how you feel.shes 94 yrs old so we decided not to get radiation and hormone therapy and just completely changed her diet and takes alot of supplements and take it one day at a time but shes doing great right now and hope it continues but you still do worry

  • @lynneosborne5200
    @lynneosborne5200 2 месяца назад +6

    It is very stressful waiting for results I'm a bit like you and have them about every 4 months, but when it's the time to go for results I feel sick and anxious. It's not always bad news if you have to go in for face to face, it's just how they can fit you in. I panicked a bit this week because they changed mine but the person I was seeing was off for personal reasons so appointments had to be changed round and I go on Tuesday 😐 but hopefully I'm still clear .xx

    • @unomex3x
      @unomex3x 2 месяца назад +2

      🙏💜

  • @Duchessjo44
    @Duchessjo44 2 месяца назад +6

    Thank you so much for suggesting that people reach out to check on people like me. I do have a husband , but our kids and grandkids live in Florida and California. We live in Western New York, 8 hours West of New York city. I've been battling a terminal cancer for 5 and a half years, and I spend 90% of my time in complete isolation.(in the middle of nowhere) 6:28 Everybody seems to have forgotten me, including my old coworkers that I mistook for friends! I'm so glad you have family and friends. I'm so happy you are able to get out and go to work, and that you really do treasure all of it. My cancer is a blood/bone marrow cancer called Myelodysplastic Syndrome, or MDS for short. I'm not a candidate for a stem cell transplant, so all we can do is keep treating it until nothing works anymore. Unfortunately, I'm too weak and tired to do much of anything. I'm still able to travel with my wonderful husband. We just make sure we can cancel flights and/or hotels if something happens (like a plummet in my hemaglobin). But for now, we still go and do about 3 or 4 times a year. I'm so sorry for prattling.....I guess I AM lonesome. 😊

    • @tracymuller1559
      @tracymuller1559 2 месяца назад +1

      I'm so sorry ...you are going through so much and it's awful feel alone, especially when you are not well....I wish you all the best ❤

    • @Duchessjo44
      @Duchessjo44 2 месяца назад

      Thank you! That means so much.❤

  • @paulataylor2734
    @paulataylor2734 2 месяца назад +2

    hi tiffany ,my husband has just got to 4 years remission with non hodgekins t cell lymphona you are right you dont get bad news by telephone so my advice is live your life and make your plans x i am not religious in any way but i do believe in good vibes i wish you and your lovely family all the best xx

  • @veehope2702
    @veehope2702 2 месяца назад +4

    Tiffany I just wanted to say be careful when eating out as well. A lot of restaurants do not always have the best hygiene standards. I've known people who work in that trade and I've heard a lot of horror stories. If you can - ask to have a tour of the kitchen. They should have no problem showing you round before you place an order.

  • @clareralston8384
    @clareralston8384 2 месяца назад +8

    Nobody knows when their last day is, so live every day as if it is your last one ❤!

  • @lanascott5627
    @lanascott5627 2 месяца назад +2

    Glad you guys had a lovely day! My dad used to always say stop and smell the the roses! Cute saying and you did that today! Matt is so perfect for you Tiffany love you both! ♥️🐶

  • @lissettebou9626
    @lissettebou9626 2 месяца назад

    It’s normal to think like that it’s like it’s just in the back of your mind!!
    We just keep going!!
    Many blessings 💙💙💙💙💙💙

  • @juliefeatch4820
    @juliefeatch4820 2 месяца назад +3

    PS. I am praying for your results Tiffany. I am waiting in anticipation for my next operation. I'm going to Stanmore for a pre-assessment in April. They think my operation could be in May. It's been changed so many times. It was going to happen even before COVID. So I don't like to complain. I feel like I don't want or can't actually plan, to go anywhere
    on holiday. Really worried about the operation. Having my elbow and shoulder replaced at the same time..Well it's being done in one operation. Two consultants and approx twelve hours apparently. The last time wasn't good. I know you have been through so much Tiffany. I don't know how you remained so utterly brave. I know God is on my side. God bless you and your family. 🙏🥰🥰

  • @user-tx2zy4em3p
    @user-tx2zy4em3p 2 месяца назад +4

    Hi Tiffany love watching your videos, especially on my birthday 🎉, love seeing you and Matt enjoying yourselves. You a got this. 💙💙💙🦋🦋🦋

  • @pippadot679
    @pippadot679 2 месяца назад +2

    Tiffany, I am going through almost exactly the same issues you are. Very similar health story as you only have additional gastrointestinal issues that are not allowing me to eat/drink. It's just ruined my body with the weight loss as well. The added pressure all started July 2022. My poor husband who has diabetes has starting then until now so it's not stopped yet but he's had the MRSA which has led to both feet amputated. And yes just like you I constantly wonder okay when will the healing process be done? So we can start planning the new chapter in our lives as things have really changed. Best advice ever like you say and my husband says one day at a time is all we can manage. And yes it's absolutely okay to make those special plans. It really is. Things will be done differently for sure but that is all okay. I love your channel and content. You are so inspiring to watch along with. I like you am constantly waiting for answers from different doctors. Yes very frustrating. Trying to be patient it's wearing thin. The appointments here take way too long. You take care have a blessed day. Sending prayers and good wishes.

  • @joybrooks564
    @joybrooks564 2 месяца назад +4

    Your absolutely right Tiffany, you can't live your life with " what ifs". No one is promised tomorrow. You have to live your life, its a precious gift🔹️I had a DVT the length of my leg when it was detected. I was scared for months that a piece would break off and give me a stroke or heart attack. Now Im thankful to God for being alive.

  • @unomex3x
    @unomex3x 2 месяца назад +13

    Tiffany I'm not a Dr but I am speaking from personal experience as someone who has experienced and is living with medical trauma...I think its possible you could be dealing with PTSD. BC it is undeniable that what you have gone through is traumatic and the fact that you will continue to have to go through all these tests and results makes a person feel "stuck" so to speak and unable to move forward. And its good to talk about it here and with family and with friends but at some point (just something to think about) you may want to speak with a professional...and that doesnt mean anything is wrong with you or you're handling it wrong or anything like that...its just that a professional is neutral and their feelings don't get in the way and they can teach you tools for how to deal with certain situations and its a safe place to say anything you want without judgement or worrying how its going to affect them you can tell them your deepest and darkest feelings and they can give you suggestions and a plan for coping and moving forward...you can get angry there cry there scream there anything you want and leave it there and walk away feeling lighter like you've given your worries away for a while and you don't have to carry the burden of them every single second...you can say I'll deal with that at my next therapy appt and have that safe place to go to to let it all out and over time let it go somewhat a little at a time....ppl say "time heals all wounds" but no it doesn't time just brings more things even if they're different things so we have to learn how to cope how to deal and on some level how to accept so that we can see a path forward.....I wouldn't have said anything at all probably but you did ask in the video for suggestions from people who have gone through and/or are going through really hard things...so I'm just offering what I've had to do...not giving advice..but just wanting to help BC I feel your pain💜🙏 love and prayers to you matt and amma💜🙏

  • @lynnelittlejohn7922
    @lynnelittlejohn7922 2 месяца назад +3

    My beautiful brave Tiffany you are looking so healthy, relaxed and happy
    It blows me away. Plan things for the future enjoy life, the worst thing
    that can happen is you have to cancel. Live your life to the fullest
    It's so worth it, and everyone around will feed off you. Take the leap
    if faith sweet girl.
    Sending love, hugs and prayers as always.
    💙💙🤗🤗🙏🙏
    Lynne
    Xx

  • @maryannvillagomez2523
    @maryannvillagomez2523 2 месяца назад +3

    My beloved father’s stoma situation was irreversible and lived his life for 13 blessed years❤️ I thank God that my father was present to enjoy & spoil my first born - his first grandson☺️ And be present to enjoy & spoil my second child☺️ I miss my father to this very day🙏🏽. Precious memories are etched in my heart FOREVERMORE. Live your life to the fullest! Take into mind other people’s feelings into consideration; As they try to “accommodate” your needs & feelings. Pray unceasingly. GOD IS IN CONTROL. AMEN.

  • @maureenpereira1948
    @maureenpereira1948 2 месяца назад +3

    Praying for the Princess of Wales, King Charles, our beautiful sweet Tiffany and the many more people undergoing treatment for cancer, May God take care of them all.🙏🙏❤️

  • @Radiatingbeauty
    @Radiatingbeauty 2 месяца назад +4

    Do not beat yourself up! You have been through the ringer and when you have cancer it is like slamming on the brakes suddenly! You have a positive attitude and a wonderful partner and family and support system which wants only the best for you!. Sometimes you cannot help from having. your mind go to those nervous thoughts but that is normal. Give yourself a break and you will invite hope into your heart. When we all realize that tomorrow is never promised for us all that is why today is called the present! Today is our present. Let us all allow ourselves to dream of our promise of tomorrow and we will all have great lives! So great to see you as I never miss a video! Sending lots and lots of luv your way! 💙💙💙

  • @ImaQuilter
    @ImaQuilter 2 месяца назад +3

    Tiffany, I've watched you for some time now, and am always enlightened by your positivity. You, Matt and your Amma are always so sweet and so kind. I pray for your phone appointment to go well. Be well, be happy, and be blessed. ❤~Tena from Tennessee USA

  • @Taz185
    @Taz185 2 месяца назад +3

    Ah you were right near where I live, in London…wish I bumped into you and Matt!
    Stay positive Tiff, you got this! 💙

  • @izzycase7581
    @izzycase7581 2 месяца назад +9

    Love you so much Tiffany. We got this xx 💙💙💙

    • @tiffanythinks
      @tiffanythinks  2 месяца назад +4

      Love you lots💙we got this💙

  • @shonameechan
    @shonameechan 2 месяца назад +3

    Sweet heart live ur life...... Cancer sucks my brother went though cancer during lock down and they got it all but now we are losing him cos it bac and terminal 😢😢😢😢

  • @carriemarcott6302
    @carriemarcott6302 2 месяца назад +7

    I had my CT scan, there are definitely lesions on my kidney, so now I have to have more scans and more appts to find out if it is cancer. Kidney doctor appt tomorrow. Been a nerve wracking couple of weeks. 😢

    • @pM-sh4ep
      @pM-sh4ep 2 месяца назад +1

      Sending good thoughts hoping it’s not cancer. Hang in there !

    • @carriemarcott6302
      @carriemarcott6302 2 месяца назад

      @@pM-sh4ep another scan tomorrow with contrast, will be finding out soon. Ty!

  • @TanyaRando
    @TanyaRando 2 месяца назад +1

    I think you have a really good attitude to life Tiffany. I need to take a leaf out of your book, I’m terrible for “what if”, and not planning, for lots of reasons. I’m trying to force myself out of my hibernation. I’m glad you have such good support, with your family and friends.
    If going to a particular restaurant or eating a particular meal, makes you happy and doesn’t upset your stomach, then go for it. I’m praying for good results for you, and hope your appointment goes well ❤❤🙏

  • @maudewinkler-reid1969
    @maudewinkler-reid1969 2 месяца назад +1

    I love watching your videos Tiffany you seem like such a kind lady you are amazing and very brave you have been through so much you are an inspiration to me

  • @karinasanchez3285
    @karinasanchez3285 2 месяца назад +13

    Sun🌞day with our little miss sunshine…. What a treat! I hope all is well in your world today. Lots of 💛 to you, Matt & darling Amma xxx

  • @Jud.912
    @Jud.912 2 месяца назад +9

    Tiffany, it is totally normal after all you have been through, to be hesitant about planning for your future. But remember, none of us have any assurances of what tomorrow holds. If we know Jesus as our Savior, then we know our heavenly future is assured. But for this life, thank the Lord that he brought you through this horrible time in your life. Then, move on and plan your future. You don’t want to waste 10, 20, 30 or more years of life because of something that might never happen. You and your loved ones deserve to live the life that God has given you with all the joy that he wants for you. Face each day as it comes with thankfulness. We all have an uncertain future but don’t waste time thinking about it. Your loved ones will face your future with you just as you will help them face their future. Love you and keep you in my prayers always. 💕

  • @CoolInOlympia
    @CoolInOlympia 2 месяца назад +1

    It's ok to only eat what you are comfortable with and what works for you! Don't worry abougt that! I do that all of the time! It takes time to feel ok about it, but it is really fine!

  • @purplephoenixartbymicheled9298
    @purplephoenixartbymicheled9298 2 месяца назад

    🌬🕊I know it's hard
    It's hard for me as well. You been through so much our Beautiful/ Sweet Tiffany ❤ Sending much love and blessing's of light your way Xo Matt & Omnia ❤

  • @noraday4224
    @noraday4224 2 месяца назад +2

    If we look at the future, we will miss the present...

  • @marciajones2993
    @marciajones2993 2 месяца назад +1

    sweetheart non of us are guaranteed Tomorrow. Get on with life now it goes so fast. Sending you all lots of love and light. 💙🌸🌸

  • @raneewike506
    @raneewike506 2 месяца назад

    I just love you two! 💙💙

  • @LeasoUlia-xn4tc
    @LeasoUlia-xn4tc 2 месяца назад +1

    So good to see you guys again
    Spending time with loved ones is so so beneficial for all
    Yummy food live life while we have the chance
    Love you guys a lot
    ❤❤

  • @amyhill3100
    @amyhill3100 2 месяца назад +15

    But you got your lung/ liver nodule results over the phone? In the cafe, and you had to walk away and leave Matt and Amma in the car to talk to camera as they were crying so much?

    • @tiffanythinks
      @tiffanythinks  2 месяца назад +4

      Yeahh they won’t do that again, I’ll only get good news over the phone💙💙💙

    • @emmahardy7611
      @emmahardy7611 2 месяца назад

      If Tiffany thinks that she won't get bad news over the phone (perhaps for reasons you don't know about) who are you or anyone else to second guess her? Why on earth would you feel need to tear down a thought that is giving her comfort? What does that do for you or anyone else?

    • @amyhill3100
      @amyhill3100 2 месяца назад +5

      How did I tear it down? I merely queried an obvious inconsistency. It’s not right that Tiffany should repeatedly say that she will never get bad news over the phone as if this is the general rule when it comes to results because lots of other cancer sufferers watch this channel and that is misleading. Tiffany has now clarified that she has a special arrangement with the doctors.
      If Tiffany is stating that she would never get bad results over the phone, then me querying why that is won’t upset her or take away comfort because she knows the reasons behind that statement, which she has now explained.

  • @juliajones2283
    @juliajones2283 2 месяца назад +2

    I think it’s very normal to worry Tiffany , I know I do about lots of things but it’s trying to not let it rule your thoughts I find.
    I do need to sort my make up and brushes out but I was cooking our evening meal while I was listening to this so will make a mental note to do it soon!
    I remember when you used to buy alot of make up , I’m a viewer for a few years and have watched some of your much older vlogs to!
    I love how close your family are and the lovely relationship you have with Matt . We got this. Xxxx💙💙

  • @DallasNatureLover
    @DallasNatureLover 2 месяца назад +9

    Does Royal Marsden make your scan results available online so you can read the radiologist’s report before talking to your doctor so you can prepare questions?

  • @claireoconor7986
    @claireoconor7986 2 месяца назад +19

    TIFFANY YOU ARE SO GORGEOUS, BUT YET SO HUMBLE!!! YOU COULD DEFINITELY BE A MODEL!!!❤️💚❤️

  • @71josunflower
    @71josunflower 2 месяца назад +2

    I seem to always be waiting for results from scans and stuff. I have my husband who is does look after me, sometimes i wonder if its done begrudgingly. Im mostly in bed these day. Became paralysed11 yrs ago, so had to give up my job as a nurse, which i loved. Now im just a cripple in bed! Hey ho!
    I love your videos and the amazing relationships you have with Matt, Unma and your sisters family. I love seeing the kids! Good luck for the scan results xx

  • @veehope2702
    @veehope2702 2 месяца назад +9

    Live your life Tiff but be realistic as well otherwise you might be making it harder for yourself more than necessary. Love you lots 💙💙💙

  • @kennaellis7868
    @kennaellis7868 2 месяца назад +2

    I love how you are so kind and always so positive!

  • @barbarahunkeler6396
    @barbarahunkeler6396 2 месяца назад

    Wonderful video of you and Matt enjoying life! Keep doing that! Still praying for you and now for Princess Catherine too! Hugs and love to you!💙💙

  • @avahaggerton5342
    @avahaggerton5342 2 месяца назад

    Lovely video! Love hearing the two of you laughing together!

  • @annkarpinskireddog
    @annkarpinskireddog 2 месяца назад +1

    You've been through so many emotions these are the best videos now❤

  • @melindakhan6768
    @melindakhan6768 2 месяца назад

    So lovely seeing you look so happy ❤

  • @user-wr2rd1oy4t
    @user-wr2rd1oy4t 2 месяца назад +4

    Tiff i always get excited when you post and i dont know why but i love eating and watching your videos at the same time... Love yah ❤❤❤❤

  • @ushanardeosingh9598
    @ushanardeosingh9598 2 месяца назад +10

    Hi Tiffany
    Been waiting for your video.stay blessed ❤

    • @tiffanythinks
      @tiffanythinks  2 месяца назад +1

      Hey my darling💙 aww thank you, you too🙏💙

  • @WVislandia
    @WVislandia 2 месяца назад +2

    I don't know if this helps but I also had a medical shock recently. Last year I had three operations because I had some bleeding but they only found pre-cancer at a moderate level which needed no further treatment. But this year in the one-year followup after those operations, they found a lump during the routine mammiogram. They said it was small, about the size of a pea, and they couldn't say that it wasn't there the year before. It was removed and no spread was found so I had five radiation treatments and am now on Tamoxifen to control hormones. My view is that I learned some further factors for my own risk of breast cancer and have now stopped those completely. I tend to see life as a series of potential lessons, so this was a chance to learn better how to take care of myself. You've shown similar when you realised that walking was important for your lungs. We cannot know everything, but we do learn, I am sure of that. 💙

  • @Emilyk1317
    @Emilyk1317 2 месяца назад

    I find focusing on the present while hard can help, appreciating things in the moment. Irregardless of our circumstances no one knows how long any of us will be here :) fill your days with things you enjoy and live for the moment. Maybe speaking to a counsellor or therapist would be beneficial for you Tiffany if you have not already tried this :)

  • @alisonpoiner630
    @alisonpoiner630 2 месяца назад

    So nice to see you both having a lovely day out. 😊 x

  • @pjk1714
    @pjk1714 2 месяца назад +5

    When in London, visit Whittards for coffee, coco or tea. Yum
    Tiffany I don't believe you just had an epiphany to live your life. The waiting part is natural leading to the second three month scan.
    You need to make plans, you need to live the life that was returned to you.
    So many can't and were not graced that chance.
    You should consider making plans after your first six months scan results.
    Create a tradition to get through the anxiety despite the results. Yes, despite..
    Once we have cancer, it's up to us how we embrace the life left to us.
    It's time you embrace..💙

  • @karengrice2303
    @karengrice2303 2 месяца назад

    Jutst keep thinking positive thoughts and we will too! Just keep living your best life and enjoy every moment with your family.❤

  • @sandrap6308
    @sandrap6308 2 месяца назад +1

    I love how you are considerate to people who doesn't have the same support you have. That is a quality I admire about you. You don't take your blessings for granted. 💙

  • @suesmith4289
    @suesmith4289 2 месяца назад +1

    Tiffany, your doing well, your so sweet, you deserve your lovely Matt, and family, dont worry things will work out well, tik, tik, tik.😊

  • @minapatel4186
    @minapatel4186 2 месяца назад

    Tiffany live your life to the full. No one know the outcome for tomorrow. Out of nowhere I had a brain aneurysm I survived only to find I now have tumour, your positivity inspire me to live my life to the max. Thank you for your vlogs 💙✅💕

  • @shoshanabloom8669
    @shoshanabloom8669 2 месяца назад

    Please ask the doctors about your flushes. You can take stuff to not have them. I had a hysterectomy at 36 and went immediately into menopause and it was awful. The doc helped me and they went away.

  • @carolebuckle7977
    @carolebuckle7977 2 месяца назад

    You’re a good person little Rabbit 🐇 to mention what other people might need in a time of possible crisis. 🙏🏻, keep living your best life , your friend is very pretty as well 🥰🇬🇧xxx

  • @lorraineearle5967
    @lorraineearle5967 2 месяца назад +3

    Tiffany, isn't it sad news for Princess Kate? I thought you might mention her. Praying for good results again for you. 💙🙏🇨🇦

    • @DallasNatureLover
      @DallasNatureLover 2 месяца назад +3

      Tiffany records videos several days in advance. Not mentioning Princess Catherine means this was recorded before the Princess’ video about having cancer was released.

    • @mariecleo214
      @mariecleo214 2 месяца назад

      Thus video was recorder several days before the anouncement about Kate was released. No doubt she is concerned too.

  • @willimina362
    @willimina362 2 месяца назад +2

    I can’t remember if you’re talking with a therapist but I was just going to recommend that you get a perspective from one. It may help with your anxiety. Lots of love!! 💙 💙💙

  • @christink4685
    @christink4685 2 месяца назад +1

    Live and experience as much as you can, Collect experiences and love your life

  • @user-tb2tl9ly3w
    @user-tb2tl9ly3w 2 месяца назад +2

    Love your makeup Tiffany 💄❤. Always lean on God for reassurance and guidance,put your trust in him and everything else Will fall into place. I believe things happen for a reason,good or bad. Just know that God has your life all planned out for you (such a loving God)!!!❤❤

  • @clairebeever3038
    @clairebeever3038 2 месяца назад

    I’m really ❤glad it’s going well and it’s a telephone call which is definitely positive…. Your doing so well ❤

  • @annedm684
    @annedm684 2 месяца назад +1

    You look soooooo well and you have such beautiful hair x

  • @ros9673
    @ros9673 2 месяца назад

    You need life on your life Tiffany bless you❤

  • @Cruella-Deville
    @Cruella-Deville 2 месяца назад

    throughout my life i have had times when i was ill. Then more bad news but each time i put it away in my mind then,got on with my life. Even now i have a condition that wont go away. I use a wheelchair! But i still look forwards to waking up in the morning. I am currently in Spain, live in the UK (Wales i am Welsh)

  • @hoibsh21
    @hoibsh21 2 месяца назад +1

    Bips n bops yr so cuuute !

  • @florences3963
    @florences3963 2 месяца назад

    Tiffany I know what you mean I have been the same and not booking any holidays or anything and I regret every single year I've just stayed at home just in case I feel my life is wasting away thinking what if. Please don't waste your yrs like me . I am in remission like yourself go and live your life to the full. Carpe Diem Tiffany!

  • @flufffyfox
    @flufffyfox 2 месяца назад +8

    Is it true that hospitals phone if it is good news and give you a face to face appointment if it is bad news? I never knew they did things that way. Hopefully the face to face appointment get prioritised as I bet those poor people get so worried 😧 not sure if this system is a good idea really

    • @weegie8895
      @weegie8895 2 месяца назад +4

      I don't think there's actually any rhyme or reason as to whether you get a phone appointment or a face-to-face. Probably depends on resources and each services way to do things. I don't think she, or anybody, should read anything in to how you're contacted.

    • @heathercrocombe2977
      @heathercrocombe2977 2 месяца назад +1

      ​@@weegie8895100% agree. I don't think it's helpful Tiffany repeatedly stressing that phone calls always mean good news and face to face appointments bad. It's not the case at all and it is just going to make people more anxious.

    • @DallasNatureLover
      @DallasNatureLover 2 месяца назад

      There is no “rule” on this. If you are getting chemotherapy or are immune compromised for another eason it is better to schedule a phone call - you can put your phone on speaker so your loved ones can hear with you. Immune compromised people should not be going to doctors offices and hospitals where they are at higher risk of getting an infectious disease unless they need treatment.
      And when immune compromised people do go to doctors’ offices they should wear N95 masks to reduce the risk of getting a respiratory virus like influenza, RSV, COVID, etc.

    • @lindc1070
      @lindc1070 2 месяца назад

      ​​@@weegie8895usually but not always. At times if the Dr cant fit you in they call then tell you to schedule further tests if needed, see you after the tests. But she has had the full range of tests. I do know someone who had the full range but then they called and said come in for biopsy

  • @annkarpinskireddog
    @annkarpinskireddog 2 месяца назад

    Good to see you both bappy❤

  • @anniebalsbaugh2093
    @anniebalsbaugh2093 2 месяца назад +4

    I thought I was the only one to use "floofie", haha, cheers from Ohio

  • @BellabooItaly22
    @BellabooItaly22 2 месяца назад +15

    Lean on God....
    We are praying... Also for Princess Catherine her cancer was not found on scans!!!! It was after the surgery the cancer was found!! Cancer is very sneaky!

    • @Claire-sj9mp
      @Claire-sj9mp 2 месяца назад +6

      Too many people with cancer and other health issues after getting the potion.

    • @annjames1837
      @annjames1837 2 месяца назад +5

      ​@@Claire-sj9mpturbo cancer

    • @girsharma2076
      @girsharma2076 2 месяца назад +3

      Really scary and sad. Regarding the scan and surgery-Something would have been seen on the scan and therefore the surgery-sadly scans sometimes cannot determine if it is benign or cancerous-only a biopsy can tell.

  • @annkarpinskireddog
    @annkarpinskireddog 2 месяца назад +1

    Don't forget rest as well

  • @annag201
    @annag201 2 месяца назад

    Thinking of you tiffany am scared of the future to prays to you and your family we got this our journey n life 💙☺

  • @joanbeach644
    @joanbeach644 2 месяца назад +1

    Enjoy Tiffany and Matt ❤️🙏🏻🙏🏻💙

  • @debrap9448
    @debrap9448 2 месяца назад

    I know it’s not easy not to be scared, but nothing will change our future, whatever will be will be.

  • @michellecleverley6293
    @michellecleverley6293 2 месяца назад

    So lovely to watch your video. You and Matt are such a lovely couple. Good luck with your results

  • @JulieR73
    @JulieR73 2 месяца назад +1

    My Oncologist only does face to face appointments whether it’s good news or bad. I got my results last Thursday (Breast Cancer) and all of my scans came back good. I am praying so hard for you, sweet Tiffany! You’re such an inspiration to me!

  • @jacquelinekalcic7939
    @jacquelinekalcic7939 2 месяца назад

    Love following you..prayers your way 💙💪🙏

  • @johannaostlund3995
    @johannaostlund3995 2 месяца назад +32

    Hm… Didnt Tiffany sit at a café once when they called and told her the nodules in her lung are cancerous?

    • @tiffanythinks
      @tiffanythinks  2 месяца назад +12

      They wouldn’t do bad new over the phone again💙 I told my doctors if it’s bad news, I’d want to see them face to face💙💙

    • @veehope2702
      @veehope2702 2 месяца назад +9

      @@tiffanythinks They might be making decisions based on limited resources as well. I mean if it was just good news couldn't they just text you?

    • @DallasNatureLover
      @DallasNatureLover 2 месяца назад +9

      @@tiffanythinksHave you gone online and read the radiologist’s report?

    • @johannaostlund3995
      @johannaostlund3995 2 месяца назад +1

      @@tiffanythinksoh that sounds great! Then you know for sure! 💙

    • @lynneosborne5200
      @lynneosborne5200 2 месяца назад

      ​@@veehope2702this is what they do, it depends who can fit you in x