MY COMING OUT STORY! | I'm a lesbian! | Allie and Sam

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  • Опубликовано: 2 авг 2024
  • I'm a lesbian! I'm finally sharing my coming out journey. I came out when I was 20 years old as a lesbian, but coming out to myself was the hardest part of my journey.
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    We're Allie and Sam! A married, femme lesbian couple based out of the East Coast of Canada. On this channel, we share our life, LGBTQ+ issues, our travel adventures, and soon, our journey to motherhood. Make sure you're subscribed because we're releasing new videos every Monday, Wednesday, and Friday!
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Комментарии • 58

  • @TheNarcoticMonkey
    @TheNarcoticMonkey 4 года назад +15

    I remember my coming out journey just like it was yesterday. I came out when I was 14 as bisexual/pansexual and everyone in my family accepted me for who I am. My older sister (she's 35) is a lesbian and married her first and last serious girlfriend, the love of her life. I'm in my 30's and I don't have a partner - I'm OK with that. Yes, I agree with you, coming out to myself was the hardest part of my journey.

  • @romilynalisoso3901
    @romilynalisoso3901 4 года назад +18

    thank you for telling us your coming out story, ,so good to hear that Allie is your first girlfriend and now your married.
    i told and romise my self before,the last time I'll have a relationship, u can say that this is it, and it happens we're married .
    just sharing.

  • @linusbayandersen7398
    @linusbayandersen7398 4 года назад +9

    I love this! Thank you so much for sharing. Coming out can be so terrifying, but it wil always be freeing. Love you guys for being brave and sharing. Love from Norway

  • @lassam333
    @lassam333 4 года назад +1

    Thanks for sharing your story. You're absolutely right, everybody is valid and shouldn't be ashamed for who you are and what your dating history was. You also don't have to lable yourself because you are who you are, just yourself.
    Very happy for you that you had such a loving and accepting circle of family and friends. Also very glad you found the love of your life in Allie.

  • @J_Themborn
    @J_Themborn 4 года назад

    I love the message at the end ^_^
    Even if the reactions are a pleasant surprise, it can still be scary coming out which I think parents can be upfront and say it’s okay to love you love in advance so the fear can be avoided with kids questioning themselves.

  • @katiehansen9204
    @katiehansen9204 4 года назад +4

    Thank you for sharing! I am still hoping to find that true connection with someone. I think it’s so sweet that Ali was your first serious gf and now you’re married! You are actually the third couple on insta/RUclips I follow who married their first gf so now I’m hoping that happens for me too, ha ha! 😊❤️🌈

  • @alexiscalain1569
    @alexiscalain1569 4 года назад

    Woo! I love watching coming out stories!

  • @InjectMorphineIntoMe
    @InjectMorphineIntoMe 2 года назад +2

    The cutest opening ever “I’m a lesbian” lol

  • @jaredrichardson4284
    @jaredrichardson4284 6 месяцев назад

    Thank you for sharing Sam you are so lucky to have Allie as your soulmate. My sister just got her first girlfriend a month ago and I couldn't be more happy for her

  • @Salmox-
    @Salmox- 4 года назад

    Omggg! I'm 21 years old, but 2:26 same girl those were the first lesbians couples I saw and how I really realized I was gay! What a wonderful story & video thanks for sharing!

  • @geraldineroman1307
    @geraldineroman1307 4 года назад

    Hi Sam Thank you for your story It's not easy telling your family and friends but you do know who you are Even today is not easy Thank you for sharing See you the next video Love and peace and God-bless🐈🐈🐕❤❤❤❤❤🌈

  • @Sunflowers9191
    @Sunflowers9191 4 года назад +4

    Haha yes I do remember A shot at love with Tila Tequila. That was such a trashy show but really fun to watch 😆 And I definitely remember spending all my time on YT and the internet as well trying to find some femme representation.. And I am one of the lucky ones as well, when I said I am gay nobody cared. I made it such a big thing in my head but none of it came through!

  • @mariatrinidad1370
    @mariatrinidad1370 4 года назад +2

    I loved this! 🏳️‍🌈

  • @dimitrialykaios3457
    @dimitrialykaios3457 3 года назад +7

    My “boyfriend “ happen to be gay we covered for each other.

  • @IDOUAA666
    @IDOUAA666 4 года назад +5

    First!!!! i love you so much girls keep It up🌈🌈🌈

  • @alancarrick1541
    @alancarrick1541 4 года назад +1

    Your life is going to be like you, beautiful!

  • @dimitrialykaios3457
    @dimitrialykaios3457 3 года назад

    Thank You for sharing I came out on Saturday.

  • @bernadettezito8106
    @bernadettezito8106 4 года назад

    I think everyone should be who they want to be and people be accepting, but that's not always the case and that's just sad. I'm glad your family and friends were excepting, if everyone was like that this world would be a much better place.😀

  • @xixigi8003
    @xixigi8003 4 года назад

    Thank you for sharing.

  • @alissaklobe2600
    @alissaklobe2600 4 года назад +2

    Oh gosh, I would secretly watch A Shot at Love with Tila Tequila in my room in high school. I knew my mom would hate it but I did it anyways 😂 such a sexy show haha

    • @AllieandSam
      @AllieandSam  4 года назад

      I was obsessed with it hahah

  • @christinedisneyqueen5746
    @christinedisneyqueen5746 2 года назад

    I love your story. 💗 I cracked up about the flag being upside down…or was it? IDK 😂

  • @jennabates3056
    @jennabates3056 2 года назад +1

    you need to be a model your beautiful inside and out

  • @jobrodie7514
    @jobrodie7514 Месяц назад

    Coming out to yourself often is the hardest bit.

  • @andria8131
    @andria8131 4 года назад

    our stories are incredibly similar (including the couples on youtube) except I'm 20 right now and in the process of coming out to everyone :)

  • @kevincalvert8439
    @kevincalvert8439 2 года назад

    So happy you found your soul mate. There is many unhappy marriages so y should any one judge I am so Happy for you God bless

  • @brittanytayler9286
    @brittanytayler9286 4 года назад

    Yooooo. A shot at love with Tila Tequila is how I realized I was a lesbian. I fell in love with Dani!

    • @AllieandSam
      @AllieandSam  4 года назад

      It was such a good show (I thought ahaha I might not want to watch it back now)

  • @heatherwotherspoon7313
    @heatherwotherspoon7313 4 года назад +1

    that shirt is so freaking cute ahhh! where did you get it?

  • @leahstumm9662
    @leahstumm9662 Год назад

    💜💜

  • @roberthurt2199
    @roberthurt2199 3 года назад

    U and Sam are so cute together

  • @ladyheartattack7153
    @ladyheartattack7153 4 года назад

    I loved watching Tila Tequila!

  • @sexydangler
    @sexydangler 4 года назад +2

    when I came out as bi to my dad his first reaction was " oh so you're like Tila Tequila".. which doesn't sound comforting but it was at the time because it broke the ice. I believe I was only 17 at the time.. so the show was still relevant. haha

    • @AllieandSam
      @AllieandSam  4 года назад

      Awh! Hahah I loved that show - also, that is a cute reaction haha

  • @farzenlran6409
    @farzenlran6409 4 года назад +2

    I pray for you always happy happy good health 👭😘💝🌷🇮🇷

  • @kelly4836
    @kelly4836 4 года назад +7

    #TilaTequilaMadeMeGay

  • @deoranjed8118
    @deoranjed8118 4 года назад +10

    I think the pride flag can go anyway, I think that's the whole point!?😝

  • @sallychugg7887
    @sallychugg7887 4 года назад +3

    I say thank God for the internet to and I hate labels now true you have to own the past after been married for many years 3 kids latter all grown up now final6free and out and loving life

  • @farzenlran6409
    @farzenlran6409 4 года назад

    We are a fan of you ⚘💖⚘💖⚘💖⚘💖⚘😊😊💕💕😘😘😘😘😘

  • @dwightcohoon1885
    @dwightcohoon1885 2 года назад

    My school colonel gray was awful to different people .. did you go there I graduated in 03/04

  • @celestinogarsia3490
    @celestinogarsia3490 4 года назад

    😎👍🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻🙏🏻❤️

  • @short.animatedfilm7053
    @short.animatedfilm7053 3 года назад

    we’re is the baby

  • @lost_girl80
    @lost_girl80 4 года назад

    🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍🌈 ❤️❤️

  • @mariannejohannessen9751
    @mariannejohannessen9751 5 месяцев назад

    PRAY TO GOD AND ASK HIM TO LEAD YOU 🙏

  • @mercifulzeus01
    @mercifulzeus01 4 года назад +1

    0:28 Don't know about that flag but the bisexual pride flag definitely goes both ways...

  • @giuseppinariva9294
    @giuseppinariva9294 Год назад

    Stupenda creatura non c'è bisogno della bandiera acobaleno per amare ci vuole il sentimento la pasione amore e nel tuo cuore e viene messo alla tua nascita e va donato alla tua donna amala con l'anima perché li cuore u giorno si fermerà ma l'anima vivrà in eterno ciao non fare la birichina

  • @zachfratric3005
    @zachfratric3005 3 года назад

    when i see a video with that coming out on it i am like...wait...WHO ARE YOU?

  • @Pedo_phile_Muhammad
    @Pedo_phile_Muhammad 4 года назад

    PEI = potato province