Before Christ, i was always desperate to be loved, but also, i was so insecure, and i never dated. I hated myself hated and the way i looked. Then 2021 i started pursuing a relationship with God i was 20 at that time and that is when things started to change i began to love who i used to hate and talked down to when i looked at the mirrow started experiencing the love of Christ than i stopped craving and being desperate to be loved or to be in a relationship. I'm 23 years old and have never been in a relationship, and I'm happy because the Lord is in my life, and i know that when it comes to the right person He will give me wisdom and discernment. Right now, in my singleness, I'm vessel. He can use me as much as He wants while He is preparing me for a relationship and not just any relationship with a godly centered relationship.
@@velemseninyathi6467 Hi Vivi wow what a cool story actually because you have made the best decision to follow Jesus and put Him first before entering into a relationship. May the Lord bless you with the right guy in His mighty name. Amen. Thanks for sharing your story. God bless.
Me too! I’m glad to hear someone who relates to my situation, as I am currently insecure and never had a relationship and wondering if the right man ever will come along. This makes me realize it is normal because we are all have a different plan God has for us!!, and I know he has a wonderful plan for you as well!! ❤
I'm a woman and I absolutely love this message. Men of ALL ages need to hear this. All women too. We all have got to PUT CHRIST FIRST. I love life when I pursue the lord and try my best to put him first.
I’ve taken celibacy for about 3 years now. I’ll be 31 next year and I have zero regrets that finding and serving Jesus Christ was more fulfilling than finding a woman could have ever been. I thank Jesus for sorrow, loneliness, and suffering that he trusted me with this walk to do his will and build me up as a son of his own. I’ve been freed from the chains or worry and stress about “finding someone” and have accepted being content even if I NEVER find one. As long as I can be with and serve the LORD I care not anymore! ❤
@@DevotionalDoodlesI've been wordly as well. Even though we can be a brother and sister in Christ a lot of people won't take us seriously and that's ok.
Same . Men are just concerned with money and how to exploit women to get validation from other men. God commands them to be providers but they want equality like the devil. They make their wife work to pay their bills 50/50 so they can benefit financially. Not to talk about stringing women along for 10 years + without proposing marriage. Sodom and Gomorrah
I've prayed not to make finding a relationship an idol over the past year. I know i need to seek God first always. He's been helping so much even though my flesh still wants it. Thanks for the message brother, God bless!
@@Bareno91 Glory to God! I'm glad you are choosing to put God first. May the Lord give you a blessed marriage with the right person that He has prepared for you! God bless you too!
I'm 30, have hobbies and love what I do. However I'm on a good path but I've been single four years basically. I prayed a long while so I'm gonna let go and let God put me where he needs. But my person cannot come before my obligations and mental health activities. They need to support what I enjoy as well vise versa
@@ThunderousNinja Praying for you and may God bless your future ahead with your spouse, finances, family and most importantly your relationship with Jesus and your calling. Jesus loves you. Thanks for your comment. God bless you!
Id just recently gotten out of a toxic relationship, it had felt like it was going to be bad from the beginning but I ignored it and later in the relationship it just got worse and worse, I just recently got out of high-school and she was 2 yrs younger then me, it's sad to me because it was my 1st relationship and it ended pretty badly and I made many mistakes but in the relationship I found her often times doing things that were hurtful towards me and she genuinely didn't even notice, it just sucked and I prayed for it to happen as well but I guess it was from the enemy is the only thing I could think. I also feel like God turned it into a lesson in many ways though because i feel like in a way i ignored Gods warnings and i did learn a lot regardless of rhe pain it was and still brings me to think abt.
@Landon-h6r It's better to break up from a toxic relationship rather then sticking it out because God has much better for you. I'm praying for you for the right one in the right time. Thanks for sharing your comment. Keep your eyes on Christ! God bless!
I just wanna ask how come I don't feel complete even after finding Christ and I feel a voids and I pray and believe in Jesus and do my best to live upto his standards so I don't understand where I'm missing it and I still crave being loved for me and finding love.
@@lolipop1234- Our journey with Jesus can always get better so putting Him as number 1 is always the best way and over and above that through faith and patience we inherit the promises of God. I also am in somewhat of a similar situation as you with craving a relationship but Jesus will always be better and you will see God will provide an when He does you'll realize that He never left your side and that He is a proud Father of His faithful children. May the Lord bless you with an amazing marriage. Keep your eyes on Christ. God bless you and your family!
The thing is, in my opinion, many Christians push the idea that marriage is a duty, when it’s literally an Adamic covenant tradition, while at the same time preaching we are under Jesus covenant and rejecting Mosaic covenant, they push Adamic covenant … don’t know if it’s lack of knowledge or what… we married to Christ and that’s our real purpose as Christians. Represent his name.
I'll admit, I recently fell to lust. I got back up, though, and I'm feeling great knowing I have a Lord and Savior who understands because He too went through the same temptation and worse than me because the devil tempted Him in person. I'm hopeful.
@@JoseRivera-be3bo I'm glad you chose to get back up bro. Keep going with your eyes on Christ, He loves you so much and has a lot for you. Keep trusting and hoping, God will make a way! Fight the good fight of faith!
@@DowntimeArts The end is not yet friend. Always be ready yes but have faith and believe that God will bless you with the right person and a blessed marriage in the right time. Ask and wait on the Lord. God bless you and your future!
36 and always flaingoe. Been praying for a gosly husband (the right fit) for over twenty years now. Still waiting! (Side note: you have such an interesting accent! Where are you from?? I love languages and culture.)
@@rebeccacirillo2494 May the Lord bless you with the right husband for you I pray in Jesus name amen! Do not be afraid Jesus is with you! I'm from South Africa. God bless you!
My husband who marry me and failed to carry his promise to God for me, I forget him because he is a weak man cant able to protect his wife in time of decieption. All this abusive men I meet are poor no job, no money and bad character , evil no heart to be resided by the holy spirit , both are zombie. Hope they are happy in their hause and have appetite the food they eat.
@@kristinesugala4492 Hi Kristine I'm sorry to hear about how past relationships and marriage didn't work out for you, the best thing is to just forgive them all and give everything to God, start fresh with the guidance that the Lord will give you to get through this. God bless 🙏🏻
Is there really a person for every person? I really want understanding, I know the ultimate comes from God, but I´ve heard before that there´s no such thing as ¨couples¨ on heaven, because you are going to be so happy and fulfilled that you don´t need that kind of love, so ¨It´s just a thing on earth¨ But God created Eve for Adam because he saw that Adam was alone and that wasn´t good. So what´s up with that? Listen, my personal story is long but short (that does make sense lol) But I grew up thinking (and still do) for certain heavy-weight reasons that I can´t be loved, and that it´s just not gonna happen, and I know that I´m not ready for it since I don´t love myself yet (I´m working on it). But this ¨there´s someone for everybody¨ it´s hard to believe for me. So, yeah, I wanna understand how the deal.
@@WhiteSwan1997 Hi friend thanks for your comment I appreciate you sharing your thoughts. Yeah in Heaven there will be no marriages between a man and a woman but it will be the church of Christ (God's children, Christians) who will be the bride of Jesus, who is the bridegroom. So when it comes to "the right person" yes I believe absolutely that there is a person for everyone but it has to be in the right time and in the right way. Many times we may doubt actually finding our person to be married to but it is certainly God's will that a man leave his parents and be joined to his wife and the two will become one flesh. I'm praying for you that God will heal you and prepare you for your future marriage that He has for you and I pray that it will be a blessed one in Jesus name. Amen. God bless you!
@@jordanwilsenach Omg, thank you for replying and for your blessing!! I became a Christian recently so there´s a lot for me to learn yet. God bless you too and your mission to share his wisdom!!!
Find a women of God who wants to grow closer in Christ with you, if you have the desire to get married there is no problem with using the little time we have to find a wife. a man who finds a wife finds a good thing💗
@Meerah_06 yes but that was said 2k years ago, women have had 2k years to get more colder, darker, more materialistic, more vain, more sleek, and exspect more of men then they ever have... women in the church are no different then carnal women. Carnal women want sex and money. Church women want material and the guy who makes her look good. Church women seek after a man in the church that looks most like the world rather then how close they are with God. Usually there drawn to the families with little bit of money over the single guys in there who had to leave there family for the sake of christ.
@ there are girls out there who wanna be wives cooking,cleaning and etc but they are js hard to find you gotta put your trust in God if you want a wife pray for her to God how you want her to be and all that and if it’s in Gods plan for your life you will meet her.
@Meerah_06 I'm okay with being single after a long painful time of desiring one I learned there not worth it jesus and paul emphasized the depravity of women in the gospels. Basically saying you cannot trust them
@@jordanwilsenach pray for the understanding and wisdom of the Holyspirit to read the KJV. There are great reasons for this but most importantly it keeps key phrases that apply to the messages of Jesus and GOD. A lot of multi language experts and scholars can verify this by looking at the original texts. Obviously pray for the guidance that what I say is true and GOD bless.
@@jordanwilsenachmy reading is like 3rd grade level, never liked it read 2 chapter books in my life.. i read KJV dont understand it but it gets easier The lord gave me the gift to enjoy reading and im improving my skills❤🙏
Easy to hear , harder to live by. But guess we dont have a choice . Been waiting on God for quite a few things, this fabour included but nothing. Hopefully something happens this time. Loosing faith..
@@Username_anon763 Well you have to see the heart of God, He loves you and wants the best for you, trust Him with your future. Give your life to Jesus Christ and let Him make you a new person so that you will not be tied up in your own disappointments but you will have His peace.
Amen!!! God bless you 🙏🥹🫶
Before Christ, i was always desperate to be loved, but also, i was so insecure, and i never dated. I hated myself hated and the way i looked. Then 2021 i started pursuing a relationship with God i was 20 at that time and that is when things started to change i began to love who i used to hate and talked down to when i looked at the mirrow started experiencing the love of Christ than i stopped craving and being desperate to be loved or to be in a relationship. I'm 23 years old and have never been in a relationship, and I'm happy because the Lord is in my life, and i know that when it comes to the right person He will give me wisdom and discernment. Right now, in my singleness, I'm vessel. He can use me as much as He wants while He is preparing me for a relationship and not just any relationship with a godly centered relationship.
@@velemseninyathi6467 Hi Vivi wow what a cool story actually because you have made the best decision to follow Jesus and put Him first before entering into a relationship. May the Lord bless you with the right guy in His mighty name. Amen. Thanks for sharing your story. God bless.
Me too! I’m glad to hear someone who relates to my situation, as I am currently insecure and never had a relationship and wondering if the right man ever will come along. This makes me realize it is normal because we are all have a different plan God has for us!!, and I know he has a wonderful plan for you as well!! ❤
@@velemseninyathi6467 amen brother❤️
I'm a woman and I absolutely love this message. Men of ALL ages need to hear this. All women too. We all have got to PUT CHRIST FIRST. I love life when I pursue the lord and try my best to put him first.
I’ve taken celibacy for about 3 years now. I’ll be 31 next year and I have zero regrets that finding and serving Jesus Christ was more fulfilling than finding a woman could have ever been. I thank Jesus for sorrow, loneliness, and suffering that he trusted me with this walk to do his will and build me up as a son of his own. I’ve been freed from the chains or worry and stress about “finding someone” and have accepted being content even if I NEVER find one. As long as I can be with and serve the LORD I care not anymore! ❤
Amen
Single for a year 20 years of age no intimacy did fell here and there but still on Jesus side by the Grace of God 🤍🔥
@@YongamaBazi I'm glad that you are sticking with Jesus and He has the right one for you just believe! God bless!
Jesus is the fulfillment . He will overflow our cup as we continue to come into his presence! #3yearscelibate
I am waiting for a godly woman cause these days the modern woman loves the world more then Jesus 🙏🏽 focus on god and stay safe 😊
Please pray for me. 😢 I been worldly, but returning to God with weeping and fasting.
@@DevotionalDoodlesI've been wordly as well. Even though we can be a brother and sister in Christ a lot of people won't take us seriously and that's ok.
Amen
Wanna be friends?
Same . Men are just concerned with money and how to exploit women to get validation from other men. God commands them to be providers but they want equality like the devil. They make their wife work to pay their bills 50/50 so they can benefit financially. Not to talk about stringing women along for 10 years + without proposing marriage. Sodom and Gomorrah
I've prayed not to make finding a relationship an idol over the past year. I know i need to seek God first always. He's been helping so much even though my flesh still wants it. Thanks for the message brother, God bless!
@@Bareno91 Glory to God! I'm glad you are choosing to put God first. May the Lord give you a blessed marriage with the right person that He has prepared for you! God bless you too!
Amen thankyou ❤🙏
Truth! Amen!
God bless you my brother
Am single and in the waiting season.His promises are yes and amen
I’m single but GOD IS GOOD AND GOOD every day hopefully I find a loved one a special someone maybe ❤😊
Amen in Jesus name ❤❤❤🫡🫡🫡
I'm 30, have hobbies and love what I do. However I'm on a good path but I've been single four years basically. I prayed a long while so I'm gonna let go and let God put me where he needs. But my person cannot come before my obligations and mental health activities. They need to support what I enjoy as well vise versa
@@ThunderousNinja Praying for you and may God bless your future ahead with your spouse, finances, family and most importantly your relationship with Jesus and your calling. Jesus loves you. Thanks for your comment. God bless you!
@jordanwilsenach 🫂 thanks friend. I pray blessings to you from Jesus. Amen 🙏
Bro, authentic and spot on
Amen 🙏🙏🙏 all glory be to our lord Jesus Christ
Thank you, much love❤
Let's keep seeking god
Id just recently gotten out of a toxic relationship, it had felt like it was going to be bad from the beginning but I ignored it and later in the relationship it just got worse and worse, I just recently got out of high-school and she was 2 yrs younger then me, it's sad to me because it was my 1st relationship and it ended pretty badly and I made many mistakes but in the relationship I found her often times doing things that were hurtful towards me and she genuinely didn't even notice, it just sucked and I prayed for it to happen as well but I guess it was from the enemy is the only thing I could think. I also feel like God turned it into a lesson in many ways though because i feel like in a way i ignored Gods warnings and i did learn a lot regardless of rhe pain it was and still brings me to think abt.
@Landon-h6r It's better to break up from a toxic relationship rather then sticking it out because God has much better for you. I'm praying for you for the right one in the right time. Thanks for sharing your comment. Keep your eyes on Christ! God bless!
@@jordanwilsenach Thank you!
Spot On Brother Jordan!Blessings To You My Friend!!
Thank brother, a brother from Macao!
@@cheongmeng7653 Glory to God. God bless you brother. Nice to hear where you are from.
Thank you very much.
Well said brother , amen
Thanks for this Video, God bless🙏
Glory to God! The Lord bless you 🙏🏻
Wonderful video, Thank you for the Word and the prayer. God bless you always.
@@loveisallpolelo8261 All glory to God. God bless you and your future ahead!
Amen!
73 is for me and all of you
I just wanna ask how come I don't feel complete even after finding Christ and I feel a voids and I pray and believe in Jesus and do my best to live upto his standards so I don't understand where I'm missing it and I still crave being loved for me and finding love.
@@lolipop1234- Our journey with Jesus can always get better so putting Him as number 1 is always the best way and over and above that through faith and patience we inherit the promises of God. I also am in somewhat of a similar situation as you with craving a relationship but Jesus will always be better and you will see God will provide an when He does you'll realize that He never left your side and that He is a proud Father of His faithful children. May the Lord bless you with an amazing marriage. Keep your eyes on Christ. God bless you and your family!
The thing is, in my opinion, many Christians push the idea that marriage is a duty, when it’s literally an Adamic covenant tradition, while at the same time preaching we are under Jesus covenant and rejecting Mosaic covenant, they push Adamic covenant … don’t know if it’s lack of knowledge or what… we married to Christ and that’s our real purpose as Christians. Represent his name.
❤❤❤
I'll admit, I recently fell to lust. I got back up, though, and I'm feeling great knowing I have a Lord and Savior who understands because He too went through the same temptation and worse than me because the devil tempted Him in person. I'm hopeful.
@@JoseRivera-be3bo I'm glad you chose to get back up bro. Keep going with your eyes on Christ, He loves you so much and has a lot for you. Keep trusting and hoping, God will make a way! Fight the good fight of faith!
How much of a future do we really have? tribulations is here! The kingdom is nigh 😪 will I go unmarried?
@@DowntimeArts The end is not yet friend. Always be ready yes but have faith and believe that God will bless you with the right person and a blessed marriage in the right time. Ask and wait on the Lord. God bless you and your future!
36 and always flaingoe. Been praying for a gosly husband (the right fit) for over twenty years now. Still waiting! (Side note: you have such an interesting accent! Where are you from?? I love languages and culture.)
@@rebeccacirillo2494 May the Lord bless you with the right husband for you I pray in Jesus name amen! Do not be afraid Jesus is with you! I'm from South Africa. God bless you!
My husband who marry me and failed to carry his promise to God for me, I forget him because he is a weak man cant able to protect his wife in time of decieption. All this abusive men I meet are poor no job, no money and bad character , evil no heart to be resided by the holy spirit , both are zombie. Hope they are happy in their hause and have appetite the food they eat.
@@kristinesugala4492 Hi Kristine I'm sorry to hear about how past relationships and marriage didn't work out for you, the best thing is to just forgive them all and give everything to God, start fresh with the guidance that the Lord will give you to get through this. God bless 🙏🏻
Is there really a person for every person? I really want understanding, I know the ultimate comes from God, but I´ve heard before that there´s no such thing as ¨couples¨ on heaven, because you are going to be so happy and fulfilled that you don´t need that kind of love, so ¨It´s just a thing on earth¨ But God created Eve for Adam because he saw that Adam was alone and that wasn´t good. So what´s up with that?
Listen, my personal story is long but short (that does make sense lol) But I grew up thinking (and still do) for certain heavy-weight reasons that I can´t be loved, and that it´s just not gonna happen, and I know that I´m not ready for it since I don´t love myself yet (I´m working on it). But this ¨there´s someone for everybody¨ it´s hard to believe for me. So, yeah, I wanna understand how the deal.
@@WhiteSwan1997 Hi friend thanks for your comment I appreciate you sharing your thoughts. Yeah in Heaven there will be no marriages between a man and a woman but it will be the church of Christ (God's children, Christians) who will be the bride of Jesus, who is the bridegroom. So when it comes to "the right person" yes I believe absolutely that there is a person for everyone but it has to be in the right time and in the right way. Many times we may doubt actually finding our person to be married to but it is certainly God's will that a man leave his parents and be joined to his wife and the two will become one flesh. I'm praying for you that God will heal you and prepare you for your future marriage that He has for you and I pray that it will be a blessed one in Jesus name. Amen. God bless you!
@@jordanwilsenach Omg, thank you for replying and for your blessing!! I became a Christian recently so there´s a lot for me to learn yet. God bless you too and your mission to share his wisdom!!!
It's best not to marry these days men we don't have much time left and these women will lead you astray
Find a women of God who wants to grow closer in Christ with you, if you have the desire to get married there is no problem with using the little time we have to find a wife. a man who finds a wife finds a good thing💗
@Meerah_06 yes but that was said 2k years ago, women have had 2k years to get more colder, darker, more materialistic, more vain, more sleek, and exspect more of men then they ever have... women in the church are no different then carnal women. Carnal women want sex and money. Church women want material and the guy who makes her look good. Church women seek after a man in the church that looks most like the world rather then how close they are with God. Usually there drawn to the families with little bit of money over the single guys in there who had to leave there family for the sake of christ.
@Meerah_06 you know it ain't about that, it's about material
@ there are girls out there who wanna be wives cooking,cleaning and etc but they are js hard to find you gotta put your trust in God if you want a wife pray for her to God how you want her to be and all that and if it’s in Gods plan for your life you will meet her.
@Meerah_06 I'm okay with being single after a long painful time of desiring one I learned there not worth it jesus and paul emphasized the depravity of women in the gospels. Basically saying you cannot trust them
Brother, what denomination do you belong in?
@@2users828 Non-denominational
Why do you choose NKJV over KKV?
@@thejjjwils The KJV is just a little too challenging for me personally to read. God bless.
@@jordanwilsenach God bless brother, youre only one step away at least, Im English native and have gotted used to KJV!
@@jordanwilsenach pray for the understanding and wisdom of the Holyspirit to read the KJV. There are great reasons for this but most importantly it keeps key phrases that apply to the messages of Jesus and GOD. A lot of multi language experts and scholars can verify this by looking at the original texts. Obviously pray for the guidance that what I say is true and GOD bless.
@@Hegotsomesauce Thanks for that I will pray about it.
@@jordanwilsenachmy reading is like 3rd grade level, never liked it read 2 chapter books in my life.. i read KJV dont understand it but it gets easier The lord gave me the gift to enjoy reading and im improving my skills❤🙏
Easy to hear , harder to live by. But guess we dont have a choice . Been waiting on God for quite a few things, this fabour included but nothing.
Hopefully something happens this time. Loosing faith..
Faith without Works is dead, pray and believe you received it❤🙏
I'm so tired of coming across Christian videos like this. Instructions after instructions but the same result Single single single.
Singleness can be difficult sometimes. Pour out your frustration to Jesus. I pray that God speaks and comforts you through this.
@@Username_anon763 Well you have to see the heart of God, He loves you and wants the best for you, trust Him with your future. Give your life to Jesus Christ and let Him make you a new person so that you will not be tied up in your own disappointments but you will have His peace.
Single for 27 years and counting
@@squinteastwood7057 two years ahead of ya 😂
we have to rely on God’s love first before he can send us someone to love