Cheers To... Ending Fatphobia (Phaith Montoya) | Bottoms Up With Fannita Ep. 13

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  • Опубликовано: 10 ноя 2024
  • This week on Bottoms Up, Fannita welcomes one of her besties, Phaith Montoya (‪@phaith‬) , to the show to discuss her impeccable fashion sense, how the media shaped their standards of beauty, and how they think about their bodies today. Plus, they take some wild fan questions and play a classic game of “are you the menace?”
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Комментарии • 87

  • @pyb
    @pyb  Год назад +70

    What did you think of the episode?

    • @Raddiebaddie
      @Raddiebaddie Год назад +1

      V relatable

    • @rinaj1604
      @rinaj1604 Год назад +5

      I can relate and it needed to be said

    • @dmvlia
      @dmvlia Год назад +7

      loved it !! honestly I need more podcasts of y’all together.
      this was also very comforting to me as a plus sized black woman :,) ..

    • @thasjustmelanin
      @thasjustmelanin Год назад +1

      I love this sooooo much ❤

    • @zahra-us2lw
      @zahra-us2lw Год назад

      LOVED IT

  • @mckennasmith457
    @mckennasmith457 Год назад +157

    Can we also talk about how back in the 2000s if a character was “fat” in a movie or tv show they would make it their whole personality trait like ?????

    • @moreilly9836
      @moreilly9836 Год назад +8

      yep that and allllllllll the plastic surgery makeover shows jeez it was so toxic growing up in the 2000s

    • @katrinas05
      @katrinas05 9 месяцев назад +1

      lol. even nowadays. in euphoria, the actress who played Kat quit because she said she knows the writers won't ever take her story any farther than just being the fat funny friend. fat people are never just normal characters in a show

  • @dominiquejones2629
    @dominiquejones2629 Год назад +153

    This is such a safe space !!! People don’t talk about these topics enough.. especially “ if you’re fat you can’t be a picky eater” …

  • @brat
    @brat Год назад +147

    being kind to yourself is so important

  • @oliviaelizabeth6995
    @oliviaelizabeth6995 Год назад +152

    I laughed so harrrrrd this episode. I love them two together. Fannita got me obsessed with her podcast

  • @yannidavis7188
    @yannidavis7188 Год назад +84

    I was SOOO excited to see Phaith on this episode 😆 I hope to see more of y’all together

  • @es0516
    @es0516 Год назад +16

    Great episode, I love the way yall covered everything. The extreme fatphobia of the 2000s and the damage it caused to so many girls/women's self image, the fake health concern, the weird obsession with commenting on other people's weight. All of it was extremely valid and accurate.

  • @lyna7038
    @lyna7038 Год назад +35

    Phaith is so charismatic

  • @hbassey
    @hbassey Год назад +6

    Also yes to people being Triggered by plus size women who are happy and thriving. You are spot on with why it makes people so upset.

  • @ilianaperez4970
    @ilianaperez4970 Год назад +19

    Y’all need more podcasts together I’m dying of laughter 🤣 I love you guys 💗

  • @ashleym6010
    @ashleym6010 Год назад +56

    Fannita is literally the only reason I watch past your bedtime I love herrr

  • @Imperialscorpio
    @Imperialscorpio Год назад +23

    I love their friendship🥹

  • @BrittEsco
    @BrittEsco Год назад +40

    This was a good watch! I can relate to the fatphobia issues. We are beautiful ladies!

  • @californiatolove
    @californiatolove Год назад +22

    i love this guest!! your relationship is soooo cute to see 🥰

  • @princessroxy
    @princessroxy Год назад +8

    I love Fannita & Phaith 💕🥰💕

  • @trentonheath4192
    @trentonheath4192 Год назад +9

    Every week I look forward for your podcast girl🩵🫶🏾

  • @rachellsanchez7066
    @rachellsanchez7066 Год назад +15

    Love the content guys , you ladies are beautiful keep it up you’re a great role model for these young girls ❤️

  • @Hairstyles10
    @Hairstyles10 Год назад +13

    I love you two together 🫶🏾❤

  • @malaysiawilson2635
    @malaysiawilson2635 Год назад +8

    Heyyyy yalllll in the commentssss ❤️

  • @cynthebarb2147
    @cynthebarb2147 Год назад +3

    5:30 lmaoo the clovers one was with gabrielle union not solange😭

  • @megansnapper5615
    @megansnapper5615 Год назад +9

    Phaith I’m obsessed with your laugh! Loved this episode 🫶🏽

  • @moniquecerda551
    @moniquecerda551 Год назад +4

    I love this episode so much because my favorite 2 people made a video together just the positive vibes and just a safe space 💗 so much love and big fan

  • @xadrianao
    @xadrianao Год назад +2

    I love these two so much.

  • @zaidamontoya198
    @zaidamontoya198 Год назад +8

    Best episode ever!!! My girls 💞💞 love y’all, but not me catching strays 😅

  • @Angel-pi4sj
    @Angel-pi4sj Год назад +17

    Yall such cute and amazing combo. 1000/10 episode

  • @bunny0booooo111
    @bunny0booooo111 Год назад +1

    I keep forgetting this channel isnt just a fannita podcast

  • @itsnyacuhh
    @itsnyacuhh Год назад +4

    Her bf was on her damn fridge?!!!?! my head is exploding

  • @ciarasperspective5552
    @ciarasperspective5552 Год назад +7

    first time watching the podcast and i loved itttt❤

    • @pyb
      @pyb  Год назад +1

      Yesss, new episodes every Monday

  • @itsphilly5424
    @itsphilly5424 Год назад +16

    Fannita! I love you girl but you HAVE to start letting your guests finish their sentences, babe!

  • @QueenTarra99
    @QueenTarra99 Год назад +12

    I relate to this episode so much. Thank y’all for being real 💙

  • @yesimmelody4321
    @yesimmelody4321 9 месяцев назад

    I love them together!!!

  • @Chelsea-lg9xg
    @Chelsea-lg9xg Год назад +3

    Loved this episode!!!

  • @Eleven7x3
    @Eleven7x3 Год назад +4

    Yooo, Im screaming the whole podcast 😂😂😂😂

  • @atashaterrelonge451
    @atashaterrelonge451 Год назад +3

    I loved this episode💕 y’all are so sweet and funny

  • @ryanthomas5879
    @ryanthomas5879 Год назад +6

    Fannita I love you so much

  • @brittneyriley2648
    @brittneyriley2648 Год назад +2

    addicted to fannita

  • @JasmineFerdinand-d1d
    @JasmineFerdinand-d1d Год назад +1

    I love listening to this show!!

  • @justicemalone
    @justicemalone Год назад +1

    The best duo 🩷

  • @zulikashanaz
    @zulikashanaz 9 месяцев назад

    This convo was 👩🏽‍🍳 💋

  • @Ohsnapitzann
    @Ohsnapitzann 9 месяцев назад +1

    People treat me differently after I lost weight people are nice and more helpful towards me.

  • @AMB1035
    @AMB1035 Год назад

    This was so cute the coyness of the wee wee segment omg

  • @Victor-xt2kd
    @Victor-xt2kd 5 месяцев назад

    im crying this video funny af😂😂

  • @kelseyphillips9889
    @kelseyphillips9889 Год назад +4

    I swear this sounds so made up, but I just ordered the "giddy up melt" from doordash literally 2 minutes before I watched the part about it being Dennys!! That was such a weird coincidence, and it legit scared me. If the universe was giving me a sign, why could I not hear that BEFORE I got scammed by Dennys 😭😭😭 was it a sign? What does it mean???

  • @auroraborealis7415
    @auroraborealis7415 Год назад

    this was one of the BEST ones period, had me laughing the whole timeeeeee

  • @ChefsKissTV
    @ChefsKissTV Год назад

    yesssss olive garden!! 🫒🍅🍝

  • @luccagarcia9726
    @luccagarcia9726 Год назад +1

    10/10 loved this episode ❤❤❤❤❤❤

  • @starrdarrisaw8096
    @starrdarrisaw8096 Год назад

    It’s her calling phatith grandma & mom a freak lmao

  • @ennoovy
    @ennoovy Год назад +5

    fannita baby you are so loved🫶🏾

  • @auty888
    @auty888 Год назад +2

    Fannita is hilarious ily

  • @nellytheesthi3469
    @nellytheesthi3469 Год назад +1

    Fannita is hilarious

  • @vel-m2w
    @vel-m2w Год назад +2

    ill always find the buying larger sizes while thrifting just to cut it up and make it small crazy.. like its not like theres a shortage of skinny girl clothes just buy your size or close to it not a fuckin xL or xxl 💀

  • @Theogmidnite
    @Theogmidnite Год назад +8

    Her step mom should be locked up 😵‍💫😵‍💫

  • @neni1283
    @neni1283 Год назад +5

    The picture thing is weird 😭

  • @g0w1thth3fl0
    @g0w1thth3fl0 Год назад +1

    i jst came from Phaiths live i ran to yt😂😂

  • @TaziahMoody
    @TaziahMoody Год назад

    Love this ep we love the thick girls

  • @iwantpizza476
    @iwantpizza476 Год назад

    the way this is my fourth year and I'm not graduating either bc I don't take enough classes lmfao

  • @jovannamontano-gonzalez1911
    @jovannamontano-gonzalez1911 Год назад

    16:37 😂 mine too girl

  • @ahood320
    @ahood320 Год назад +5

    The food portions was so so real 😢 I eat so slow acting like I’m uninterested

  • @ixoxo144k
    @ixoxo144k 10 месяцев назад

    37:28 😂😂😂

  • @peachyme1401
    @peachyme1401 Год назад +14

    Another way to think about it is people are cheering you on because they know you want to lose weight. I had a friend trying to gain weight and I would tell her “you look like you’ve gained wait, you look so good, you look so healthy!”. Not that people didn’t think you looked good before. Just a thought I wanted to share.

    • @crybaby8565
      @crybaby8565 Год назад +1

      Yea well in this instance, this is not relevant. Most of the comments about their weight are passive aggressive or just plain fatphobic

  • @keanaj9352
    @keanaj9352 Год назад

    1:14 you look good always babe

  • @ayleentorres8458
    @ayleentorres8458 Год назад +9

    Girl let your guest speak

  • @pettikrew3868
    @pettikrew3868 Год назад

    @46:33 use that rose girl

  • @kaylarosekazue1178
    @kaylarosekazue1178 Год назад +1

    ❤❤❤❤

  • @haceluvsu
    @haceluvsu Год назад +3

    Bro the lizzo thing made me me so mad!

  • @belrose7816
    @belrose7816 Год назад +1

    DO A COLLAB W RANDOM ORDER SHOW 😭

  • @leilahabalon2823
    @leilahabalon2823 Год назад

    Third

  • @xcxiii9163
    @xcxiii9163 Год назад +2

    Everyone looks better when they lose weight! It makes you look younger, you can see bone structure better, etc. it’s a compliment. Doesn’t mean you didn’t look good before, just means you look better & happier

    • @charnav4359
      @charnav4359 Год назад +24

      Imagine how it feels to say this to someone who’s been big all their life. You’re essentially saying that before they looked old, had bad bone structure, etc. It’s backhanded even if you don’t think so

    • @hbassey
      @hbassey Год назад +2

      Yikes. This is definitely not true.

  • @Raddiebaddie
    @Raddiebaddie Год назад +2

    ❤❤❤

  • @rebekahdanielle
    @rebekahdanielle Год назад +1

    💜💜