I recently started dating a mainlander Chinese guy, though he's an artist, so he's kinda a good middle group between the two. I found it a little silly at first how he'd jump to pay for everything, or hold my coat for me every time I took it on or off, but now it's enduring.
I'd honestly like a mix of both. The commitment and generosity from the mainlander is nice, but I would like to see someone talk more about what their hobbies are other than making money.
The restaurant thing got me for sure 😂 My Chinese boyfriend orders for me too, and always tries to choose food I don't usually order, that always confused me when we first started dating but now I have a very wide variety of food appreciation
hahaha so true, my mainlander Chinese bf start from bangs til the end of this video omg he’s so like that. And the 1st vacation together he told me “no need to bring money I’m a man I have to pay everything” I said what if we fight then how can I go home if I don’t bring some money, he simply said no need to worry even we fight I will take you home”
As a Canadian-born-Chinese, this is a video I can get behind. It has the right kind of humour, and it doesn't try to do anything unnecessary. Also, I'm *glad* to be seeing more Asian Male White female castings on RUclips media *as oppose to* AFWM. More power to AMWF!!!
mrphangoldwing as a asian woman I find a bit wired that u wanna see more Asian male with white female couple. There are also so many other races don’t know why u prefer Asian male + white female comb.
I find your comment very weird and definitely sexist as it's imposing (and you come off saying we Asian men shouldn't have preferences as it's clear everyone else has "preferences" which are actually racist desires rather than "preferences" people claim to have; so why can everyone else have preferences that are obviously racist whereas we simply are attracted to the women we grew up with, along with the fact that most Americanized Asians lived as the only Asian in their town and feel that dating other Asians is like dating a family member; yeah just because you don't feel that way doesn't mean we all don't feel that way, sounds like the fake PC bullshit a shit talker like yourself spews when you obviously have "preferences" yourself) as he's simply sticking up to the reality that AMWF couples are rare and it's clear we prefer that combination as we obviously grew up in the west, let alone how AWWM couples only talk shit about Asian males and give the AMWF couple dirty looks out of racist jealousy. How about you fucking call out the racist AWWM couples that talk shit about Asian males having "small dicks" and being "social dorks" which is so fucking untrue (I don't need to state what kind of condoms I wear as obviously what I just typed says everything), and really most people cannot have a fucking conversation; how about you as the woman lead and carry on the conversation instead of leaving it all on us, you selfish cunt? IF you actually agree with those stereotypes, chances are you're one of those racist AWWM @@sainasaina2267
Aww I think I would date a mainlander. One thing that sticks out to me is how they seem to show their affections through actions rather than words. Talk is cheap, that's for sure. Im fascinated by Chinese culture. Enjoyed this.
@matsteadyy1053 What is your point ? This is not a language contest😂 But I can do you one better, I live in Canada, I met some Chinese Vietnamese(越南华裔） who used to live in Quebec speak English, Mandarin Chinese, Cantonese, Vietnamese and French. Chinese from Vietnam, especially the ones who immigrated to Quebec, Canada from Vietnam , they all speak 4, 5 languages..
This is a really cool video. I know this is supposed to be generalizations, so I want to add some clarifications: the westernized Chinese guy will vary a lot depending on where in the US (or other western country) they grew up. For example, if they grew up in Los Angeles and were exposed to more of an Asian influence and population, they wouldn’t behave and think the same from someone from rural Kentucky where they had to assimilate to western culture more. Both will be westernized, just in different ways. I have a lot of Chinese American male friends and none of them act like the guy in this video, but I’m sure they exist somewhere. Mainland was very accurate xD good video overall!
Pragy30 I know, but the Chinese person in this video is using an American accent so I was using the US as an example. I edited it to include other western countries but the point remains the same.
I don't know why but french chinese don't act like mainlander chinese at all, sometimes they seem to know the rules so well that for me they're like hundred generations to internalize the french culture but it is so natural for them even if they just arrived 3 years before 😕😂
I would really like to see a similar video of Mexican Americas vs Mexican nationals male or female. I actually identified with this video because my own experiences and having immigrant parents. I feel like you summed it up in this video for me and many others. Great job Marina!
Funny video! I'm an Australian born Chinese and act more Australian / Western socially but I have a mixture of Western and Eastern values - I like to think I have the best of both worlds :)
Does anyone else think that Chinese sounds sexy? I was loving hearing it the times he spoke it. Btw, that statement is coming from a person who used to think Chinese was annoying. Oh Lord, how I have changed!
they do enjoying their life, trust me. They travel a lot, shopping, buy lot of beautiful properties, playing golf, drinking and socializing. It just they only comfortable socializing with the people who speak chinese. Oh yeah some of them really love to gamble
Currently dating a mainlander and I can say that everything shown in this video is 101%. Mainlander are "nice" type Of guy but sometimes they may also be boring cz everything is about money practicality wise they're "Husband/Boyfriend material" but they wont be able to have time to talk to you nor date you coz they work a lot, they spent most of their time working for 12-16hrs a day.
The mainland Chinese guy seemed way more attractive to me. They depicted the Western Chinese guy as kind of lazy and immature, with no goals or ambition.
Spoiler alert: Most women don't want a guy who plays video games and watches Netflix all day. It's a really unattractive trait to women, unless they're gamers themselves. Isn't that common knowledge?
T I have my own career and make a six-figure income. I might not make as much as a Chinese millionaire or billionaire, but I do very well for myself and don’t need a sugar daddy. Hence why the American guy didn’t seem attractive to me; I want somebody that’s on my level as far as drive and determination. Not looking to be a mom to a man. So nice try assuming and gender stereotyping, A-hole.
As a fellow businesswoman, I appreciate a guy's ambition, but if he "makes a lot of money" for fun, it seems like he's married to his job, and I don't want that. A guy needs to be both fun-loving and ambitious in moderation.
Hahahaha it’s so true! I’ve dated mostly the mainlander Chinese guys and so far at the beginning is so weird, one guy asked me about when I want to get married, I ran away at the same instant haha
Because Chinese men find girlfriends on the premise of getting married, not for the sake of having sex. I'm really glad you left those mainland men, and there are fewer men in the world who have been emotionally hurt since then. It's true that people like you are not worth the emotional effort.
woooo!!! finally!!! I had soooo much fun watching the video and YES, it's absolutly like that. My ex chinese boyfriend had a western outside but inside... he was a mainlander. I had exactly the same experiences at the restaurants so many times, and I still remember the night (when were dating for 3 months), that he invited me to dinner out and he told me that he already had organized our wedding. He had the restaurant, the menu and the travel for our honey moon. And he even had planned to change his house because he wanted a garden for our son!!! That was the reason of our breaking off. I felt so so so stressed and i couldnt eat. Congratulations for the video!!! it was very funny.
+Dating Beyond Borders yeah I always felt like a doll. my opinion never was important for him. When I broke up the relationship he made a super big drama saying that I was not a serious girl because I didn't introduce him to my parents
Lera L not all latinos are controlling freaks, lol. My dad would always say that jealousy is half insecurity and half lack of intelligence. My daddy a senior now is 100% Latino man.
+Nipponchuuyou3 if he was a dream guy I already had been married with him... If you have less personality than a shoe then maybe he is perfect for you. Don't forget that people who have money, it's THEIR money, not yours.
Can I get a mainlander, a bf that goes shopping without complaining. I didn't know those existed! This is so funny! Well done! Do Carribean Latinas!!! OR just a Chicago guy, those guys are a special breed.
T lmao hun I'm a CRNA, I can buy my own sh*t. This is an easy going comedy and I made a jokingly comment, don't put to much thought into this. You know what they say about people that assume things about business that does not concern them....... you make an ass out of yourself.
@@user-ow4ij8ix3m it's less about the payment and more about the time spent. Women like when men go shopping, then they can ask what he likes best, style color etc
T No, only some women want equality in all forms. *NOT* all women. Chivalry has died out sadly and so has traditional womanhood. What's fair is not always equal. I'm not a feminist and feminists don't think correctly. There is reason why male and female are different and it needs to be celebrated more often. You assume that just because I would like a mainlander Chinese man, that the reason mist be because he pays for things, YOU have it all wrong!! That is not the reason why I would like a mainlander Chinese man. The question at the end of the video was asked and I answered. I am not obliged to give details why. Communism is supposedly "equal," but it's certainly not fair.
T Correct, but still only some women. The women that want to take on a traditional woman role are criticized and down played by women alike and even sadly, nowadays, men. If a woman wants to stay home and be the housewife and take care of the kids and the home, while the man is at work, she's looked at like a lazy schmuck! Far from truth though. I'm not talking about having the woman barefoot and pregnant in the kitchen and getting beat, that's wrong, but some women still enjoy their job of staying home and raising the kids instead of giving them to society to raise, and then they follow the crowd. I may or may not get my Chinese mainlander man, but there are still a few (and far between) good men out there and I would like one. Most men who actually want the woman to stay home and take care of the kids and the home, don't even have the slightest clue about how to value her and they don't even want to learn. Making money is good, because let's face it-nobody wants to be poor, but just because a man makes a lot of money, *does not* make him Mr. Right.
I think it is a bit of economic situation as well - the first gen. immigration usually had to work hard to stay, where as the 2nd gen. has the luxury to enjoy life a bit more.
It was subtle about several differences, which is better than other ones that go to extremes from the start. Hopefully both sides can view this and give their opinions of this, but I think people could do well to have aspects of both groups
Hahahahahaha!!! That was great! I think I prefer the mainlander Chinese gentleman, since I am a conservative, Hispanic woman. That's the perfect man for me.
Great video. Please do American woman. Your video on the Irish Man was spot on lol my bf is from and lives in Ireland 😍 the Canada Woman is very similar. Love your channel! Here's to breaking boundaries!
My boyfriend is a Mainlander who moved here to the U.S. and is very similar to the Mainlander in this video. Even his family is very similar. I love it. XD
I like both! I’m watching videos of how to date Chinese men and this helped a little. Do the women have to make a lot of money to impress the guys parents or even the guy?
Loving this one !! And you guys remembered the disclaimer too!! 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 Waiting for someone that knows me to say; 'He looks a bit like you!!" 😒😒😒😒😒 Poor mainlander is a shopping trolley for both Chinese and western gals 🤣🤣🤣🤣
I guess neither one. Traditional I like a little better because he is family oriented but it seems as he give zero warmness to his girlfriend and he thinks he compensate it by paying bills-which is should not be like this. If a man taking care of a woman financially that doesn’t mean that it compensates all other aspects as giving love, attention, affection, warmness to his woman. And the western seems more fun from the beginning but he still have Tinder after 6 month-which not appropriate too. So neither one :-)
Somak Chatterjee yes, don’t date western girls and Russian girls too because I am Russian and we want our man to be gentlemen, and to care about us not just financially but also emotionally. I really don’t understand where in my message you got the idea that I want him as a slave? I want polite gentleman who would care and show his love and be ready to have family and kids
Somak Chatterjee please see a good therapist, you are clearly need help. To give love and attention to the woman you love is slavery for you? If So, then yes it’s better for you not to date women. May be you like better to date men? then you are two equal partners
Somak Chatterjee I really don’t understand what in treating his woman with Love and Attention what in it can possible make a man feel as slave? If you give attention to the girl you love, if you spend time with her then it makes you feel as slave?
my current relationship is with a mainland chinese and holy shit this video is so on point hahahaha like i have to ask him to please let me pay for stuff too because he likes to pay for e v e r y t h i n g and sometimes i wanna pay too :( plus shopping with him is weird bc when he needs something he asks me to go shopping, but instead of getting what he needs, he'll want to buy me all kinds of stuff i don't need. i sometimes accept small stuff, but idk, it's something i really have to get used to.
Lol the dating app part is so painfully accurate, Asian guys do not bother to date you seriously if u are not lookin like Porcelain Doll, light skin, skinny and no pimples, but if u do, they will treat u like Queen, buy u things, take u out with a car and give money,
It was driving me crazy that he let her carry that huge bag while she was shopping! I ‘m so glad he took it at the end. I lived in Taiwan for years-never carried a bag or paid for anything. I loved how taken care of I was there!
While I enjoy video games and Netflix too, the westernized one seemed a bit aimless, lacking in ambition, and disinterested in commitment. While the mainlander seemed a bit boring, I’d prefer him over someone who wasn’t that interested in committing for the long-haul. At least he seems more dependable, which is a must for a life partner. Though I do like the westerner’s thriftiness.
This was very interesting to watch. In our culture, Indian men (and Middle Eastern men, as well) try to be a combination of both archetypes as portrayed in this video, here. Whether we do it through legal means, or otherwise. #sociology
I'm an older Canadian Chinese man that mostly grew up in Canada. I know a lot of wmaf couples and they are happiest couples in the world. yes, they may argue from time to time but they resolve them very quickly. I see a lot of single Chinese men who grew up in Canada and still single later part of life. Sad..
Fun video. I must say, I simply cannot stand the way Chinese people tend to make the waitress just wait around while they casually flip through the menu...no consideration.
I think westernized Chinese is way different style wise different from this, and mainland chinese style is probably even more fashion forward. This guy gave it a good shot but its not accurate as of 2020
International rules of peacocking: if you're from a country with no (or developing) money, you brag about money. If you're from a country with money, you brag about leisure. XD
I’m scared I’m friends with a Chinese man and he’s attending Harvard and is absolutely beautiful inside and out but I’m so scared because I have tons of tattooes and I’m worried he won’t date me for what I look like even though he’s told me I’m beautiful. I’m sure his parents would hate me. I’m a lower class white American and he’s a international Chinese student in a home stay living with old people🤣😬 and attending Harvard. I want him to date me so bad but I have way too many flaws. I’m overweight, I’m tattooed, I am WAY too independent. I work A TON of hours as a security guard for the subway, I didn’t finish college, used to be homeless, etc. i fear he’ll never give me a chance because he deserves so much better :(
This is so true. First week dating already talk about when we get married we should venture business together then just volunteer to pay for my derm clinic 😂
"What do you do for fun?"
"I... make a lot of money."
#YESPLEASE
Right? But is he generous… that’s the big question.
Hahaha some of these are so true. I love that Mainland Chinese guys are always willing to hold your bag for you :)))
Ariëlle Dawn so does a Chinese girl expect from her man
My husband has never offered to hold my bag. He is Chinese, born and raised in central Beijing
How you know that? Have you dated one before? I'll hold your bag for you ;)
Ariëlle Dawn im chinese from the mainland. Im single. May i have a chance
Really? I feel is not a crime to hold a ladies bag
I recently started dating a mainlander Chinese guy, though he's an artist, so he's kinda a good middle group between the two.
I found it a little silly at first how he'd jump to pay for everything, or hold my coat for me every time I took it on or off, but now it's enduring.
I'd honestly like a mix of both. The commitment and generosity from the mainlander is nice, but I would like to see someone talk more about what their hobbies are other than making money.
The restaurant thing got me for sure 😂
My Chinese boyfriend orders for me too, and always tries to choose food I don't usually order, that always confused me when we first started dating but now I have a very wide variety of food appreciation
hahaha so true, my mainlander Chinese bf start from bangs til the end of this video omg he’s so like that. And the 1st vacation together he told me “no need to bring money I’m a man I have to pay everything” I said what if we fight then how can I go home if I don’t bring some money, he simply said no need to worry even we fight I will take you home”
That’s so sweet!
Lucky 😀
my boyfriend is mainlander Chinese. And everything is same. His hobby working and make a lot of money haha I love him so much ❤️
Jacob why
@Jacob u thought im like ur mom 😏😏😏
@@yansou7020 Dig the gold 😂
@@Yokowitharts good i wish u all the best both
Why does saying he makes money make u a gold digger lol u could be earning more or the same
French girl here, dated mainlanders and they are the best boyfriends ever !!
Très bien. Chérie je suis content pour toi! Le chinois on est toujours le best
As a Canadian-born-Chinese, this is a video I can get behind. It has the right kind of humour, and it doesn't try to do anything unnecessary. Also, I'm *glad* to be seeing more Asian Male White female castings on RUclips media *as oppose to* AFWM. More power to AMWF!!!
Happy to hear! :)
Dating Beyond Borders Do Dating a Iraqi Woman
mrphangoldwing as a asian woman I find a bit wired that u wanna see more Asian male with white female couple. There are also so many other races don’t know why u prefer Asian male + white female comb.
I find your comment very weird and definitely sexist as it's imposing (and you come off saying we Asian men shouldn't have preferences as it's clear everyone else has "preferences" which are actually racist desires rather than "preferences" people claim to have; so why can everyone else have preferences that are obviously racist whereas we simply are attracted to the women we grew up with, along with the fact that most Americanized Asians lived as the only Asian in their town and feel that dating other Asians is like dating a family member; yeah just because you don't feel that way doesn't mean we all don't feel that way, sounds like the fake PC bullshit a shit talker like yourself spews when you obviously have "preferences" yourself) as he's simply sticking up to the reality that AMWF couples are rare and it's clear we prefer that combination as we obviously grew up in the west, let alone how AWWM couples only talk shit about Asian males and give the AMWF couple dirty looks out of racist jealousy. How about you fucking call out the racist AWWM couples that talk shit about Asian males having "small dicks" and being "social dorks" which is so fucking untrue (I don't need to state what kind of condoms I wear as obviously what I just typed says everything), and really most people cannot have a fucking conversation; how about you as the woman lead and carry on the conversation instead of leaving it all on us, you selfish cunt? IF you actually agree with those stereotypes, chances are you're one of those racist AWWM @@sainasaina2267
@@Traumatix685 I'm not Asian but that really triggered you lol 😁😁
Aww I think I would date a mainlander. One thing that sticks out to me is how they seem to show their affections through actions rather than words. Talk is cheap, that's for sure.
Im fascinated by Chinese culture.
Enjoyed this.
@matsteadyy1053 What is your point ? This is not a language contest😂
But I can do you one better, I live in Canada, I met some Chinese Vietnamese(越南华裔） who used to live in Quebec speak English, Mandarin Chinese, Cantonese, Vietnamese and French. Chinese from Vietnam, especially the ones who immigrated to Quebec, Canada from Vietnam , they all speak 4, 5 languages..
This is a really cool video. I know this is supposed to be generalizations, so I want to add some clarifications: the westernized Chinese guy will vary a lot depending on where in the US (or other western country) they grew up. For example, if they grew up in Los Angeles and were exposed to more of an Asian influence and population, they wouldn’t behave and think the same from someone from rural Kentucky where they had to assimilate to western culture more. Both will be westernized, just in different ways. I have a lot of Chinese American male friends and none of them act like the guy in this video, but I’m sure they exist somewhere. Mainland was very accurate xD good video overall!
L Z US is not the only country in the west you know
Pragy30 I know, but the Chinese person in this video is using an American accent so I was using the US as an example. I edited it to include other western countries but the point remains the same.
I don't know why but french chinese don't act like mainlander chinese at all, sometimes they seem to know the rules so well that for me they're like hundred generations to internalize the french culture but it is so natural for them even if they just arrived 3 years before 😕😂
L Z He has a Canadian accent. We can see the CN tower (in Toronto) in the video.
Yep - this is filmed in Toronto. You're right. We kept it pretty neutral so he could be either American or Canadian
I would really like to see a similar video of Mexican Americas vs Mexican nationals male or female. I actually identified with this video because my own experiences and having immigrant parents. I feel like you summed it up in this video for me and many others. Great job Marina!
Funny video! I'm an Australian born Chinese and act more Australian / Western socially but I have a mixture of Western and Eastern values - I like to think I have the best of both worlds :)
I love these videos because hey show the positives of both sides rather than just negatives (even though it's of course a large generalisation)
Dating a mainlander and boy this was absolutely hilarious! Kept wiping my face from the tears of laughter 😂
Oooh I love this concept!! 😮
Will you do others like this with other cultures?
Yep! That's the plan!
Does anyone else think that Chinese sounds sexy? I was loving hearing it the times he spoke it. Btw, that statement is coming from a person who used to think Chinese was annoying. Oh Lord, how I have changed!
Tatenda Dune well im chinese. Wanna go out lol
Vicmund Lim dont push it lol
I’m a mainland Chinese guy who is dating a Puerto Rican guy😍😍😍thank you for making this series of videos!!
Guobing Chen introduce me to some chinese girls pls
Guobing Chen you mean girl*
THProton they could be gay..
@@taethetical lol
@@taethetical lmao
Chandler did a great job! Mainlander chinese guy doesn't seem to enjoy life the way we do... Chandler is totally westernized!
I would agree! This is why it was much more funny seeing him play the Mainlander. I've never seen that side of him.
they do enjoying their life, trust me. They travel a lot, shopping, buy lot of beautiful properties, playing golf, drinking and socializing. It just they only comfortable socializing with the people who speak chinese. Oh yeah some of them really love to gamble
Omg this is spot on! I am so happy that you did a video about Chinese haha, and hello from China!
Currently dating a mainlander and I can say that everything shown in this video is 101%. Mainlander are "nice" type Of guy but sometimes they may also be boring cz everything is about money practicality wise they're "Husband/Boyfriend material" but they wont be able to have time to talk to you nor date you coz they work a lot, they spent most of their time working for 12-16hrs a day.
That's not true
The mainland Chinese guy seemed way more attractive to me. They depicted the Western Chinese guy as kind of lazy and immature, with no goals or ambition.
It's a date, not a job interview.
Spoiler alert: Most women don't want a guy who plays video games and watches Netflix all day. It's a really unattractive trait to women, unless they're gamers themselves. Isn't that common knowledge?
Mainlanders are attractive to you because you can spend all the money that he made, how convenient for you.
T I have my own career and make a six-figure income. I might not make as much as a Chinese millionaire or billionaire, but I do very well for myself and don’t need a sugar daddy. Hence why the American guy didn’t seem attractive to me; I want somebody that’s on my level as far as drive and determination. Not looking to be a mom to a man. So nice try assuming and gender stereotyping, A-hole.
As a fellow businesswoman, I appreciate a guy's ambition, but if he "makes a lot of money" for fun, it seems like he's married to his job, and I don't want that. A guy needs to be both fun-loving and ambitious in moderation.
Hahahaha it’s so true! I’ve dated mostly the mainlander Chinese guys and so far at the beginning is so weird, one guy asked me about when I want to get married, I ran away at the same instant haha
Because Chinese men find girlfriends on the premise of getting married, not for the sake of having sex. I'm really glad you left those mainland men, and there are fewer men in the world who have been emotionally hurt since then. It's true that people like you are not worth the emotional effort.
I don't know but I like the mainland guy more. He's more down to earth and commitment-oriented.
I guess, Chinese will hardly watch this because RUclips is restricted in China
Avinash MN Nowadays Chinese people can use VPN to bypass the firewall and watch RUclips.
L Z true, I got a friend from China in fb
Some live around the world and are still not westernized
we are here
yo Chinese mainlander here. we have VPNs for going through the firewall :)
woooo!!! finally!!! I had soooo much fun watching the video and YES, it's absolutly like that. My ex chinese boyfriend had a western outside but inside... he was a mainlander. I had exactly the same experiences at the restaurants so many times, and I still remember the night (when were dating for 3 months), that he invited me to dinner out and he told me that he already had organized our wedding. He had the restaurant, the menu and the travel for our honey moon. And he even had planned to change his house because he wanted a garden for our son!!!
That was the reason of our breaking off. I felt so so so stressed and i couldnt eat.
Congratulations for the video!!! it was very funny.
haha great story! Is that why you broke up?
+Dating Beyond Borders yeah I always felt like a doll. my opinion never was important for him.
When I broke up the relationship he made a super big drama saying that I was not a serious girl because I didn't introduce him to my parents
Lera L not all latinos are controlling freaks, lol. My dad would always say that jealousy is half insecurity and half lack of intelligence. My daddy a senior now is 100% Latino man.
Give his contact information for ladies interested in marrying him. Sounds like a dream guy. Don't have to worry about anything.. all taken care of
+Nipponchuuyou3 if he was a dream guy I already had been married with him...
If you have less personality than a shoe then maybe he is perfect for you. Don't forget that people who have money, it's THEIR money, not yours.
I married a mainland Chinese man 16 years ago. Realistic video in many ways (maybe not all) . We are very happy
Can I get a mainlander, a bf that goes shopping without complaining. I didn't know those existed! This is so funny! Well done! Do Carribean Latinas!!! OR just a Chicago guy, those guys are a special breed.
Thanks, Christina! :)
Also they pay for you, which is the only reason they are attractive to you!
T lmao hun I'm a CRNA, I can buy my own sh*t. This is an easy going comedy and I made a jokingly comment, don't put to much thought into this. You know what they say about people that assume things about business that does not concern them....... you make an ass out of yourself.
@@user-ow4ij8ix3m it's less about the payment and more about the time spent. Women like when men go shopping, then they can ask what he likes best, style color etc
Brutally cliché but probably true lol...
the accent tho, it’s really impressive !
When she asked him what he does for fun. OMG that was so accurate
The parents nagging about the marriage was honestly the funniest and most accurate of them all.
Ha, didn't even notice it was the same guy at first. Good acting.
Great video!
I would like a mainlander!
4:51
Women want equality, but when it comes to paying for shopping, they want the guys to pay.
T
No, only some women want equality in all forms.
*NOT* all women.
Chivalry has died out sadly and so has traditional womanhood.
What's fair is not always equal.
I'm not a feminist and feminists don't think correctly.
There is reason why male and female are different and it needs to be celebrated more often.
You assume that just because I would like a mainlander Chinese man, that the reason mist be because he pays for things, YOU have it all wrong!!
That is not the reason why I would like a mainlander Chinese man.
The question at the end of the video was asked and I answered. I am not obliged to give details why.
Communism is supposedly "equal," but it's certainly not fair.
T
Correct, but still only some women.
The women that want to take on a traditional woman role are criticized and down played by women alike and even sadly, nowadays, men.
If a woman wants to stay home and be the housewife and take care of the kids and the home, while the man is at work, she's looked at like a lazy schmuck! Far from truth though.
I'm not talking about having the woman barefoot and pregnant in the kitchen and getting beat, that's wrong, but some women still enjoy their job of staying home and raising the kids instead of giving them to society to raise, and then they follow the crowd.
I may or may not get my Chinese mainlander man, but there are still a few (and far between) good men out there and I would like one.
Most men who actually want the woman to stay home and take care of the kids and the home, don't even have the slightest clue about how to value her and they don't even want to learn.
Making money is good, because let's face it-nobody wants to be poor, but just because a man makes a lot of money, *does not* make him Mr. Right.
I love my Noodle im from mainland and single. May i get a chance
This was so relatable on so many levels
Absolutely mainlanders!!! Tnxs great video as usual..
LoveofVelvet Sorry I'm not a woman.
@LoveofVelvet is that all you got out of that? What about quality time spent and him wanting to get serious sooner?
I'd go with the mainland, he's got his shit together. He just needs more fun in his life and... that's where I come in
I agree this is true. Approved by my wife. Good job Dating beyond Boarders!
haha. Good she gave us her stamp of approval!
Why is this so true! Looool 😂😂😭
I think it is a bit of economic situation as well - the first gen. immigration usually had to work hard to stay, where as the 2nd gen. has the luxury to enjoy life a bit more.
It was subtle about several differences, which is better than other ones that go to extremes from the start. Hopefully both sides can view this and give their opinions of this, but I think people could do well to have aspects of both groups
I'd prefer the Mainlander. I'm not really high maintenance, but I do prefer someone who's more marriage/family minded.
I doubt a wholesome traditional Chinese man wants to date a cat lady and a furry...
Yes! Was waiting on this video for a while.
Hahahahahaha!!! That was great! I think I prefer the mainlander Chinese gentleman, since I am a conservative, Hispanic woman. That's the perfect man for me.
There are pros and cons. The western Chinese guy is more open-minded but the mainlander is such a gentleman
this actor is soooo good--please make sure he hears this. i'm an actor, and i appreciate good, strong character acting!
Great video. Please do American woman. Your video on the Irish Man was spot on lol my bf is from and lives in Ireland 😍 the Canada Woman is very similar. Love your channel! Here's to breaking boundaries!
Thanks, Amanda! So happy to hear!!
Omg hey! You're so welcome. #fangirl 😂😂😂
"What do you do for fun?"
"...I make a lot of money..."
XD that sounds pretty fun to me
Haters will say Mainlanders lack culture? You cant get any more asian like a Mainlander. Asian Americans are simply Americans with Asian coat
My boyfriend is a Mainlander who moved here to the U.S. and is very similar to the Mainlander in this video. Even his family is very similar. I love it. XD
I like both! I’m watching videos of how to date Chinese men and this helped a little. Do the women have to make a lot of money to impress the guys parents or even the guy?
Sweet video! What’s next in this versus series?
Thanks, Conor! Maybe French vs Quebecois now that I am in Montreal :)
Amazing as always!
YESS very different, been with both. Love the mainlander.
I love how the chinese guy thinks in broken english lol
Loving this one !!
And you guys remembered the disclaimer too!! 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Waiting for someone that knows me to say; 'He looks a bit like you!!" 😒😒😒😒😒
Poor mainlander is a shopping trolley for both Chinese and western gals 🤣🤣🤣🤣
LMAOOOOO “must get a new camera!” yoooo the TRUUUTTTHHHH
My first love was a chinese man he is is adorable and level headed. I love him still.
Two big houses in Shanghai is nuts bro
Wait! It was the same guy all along?
SPOT ON. Actor played mainland Chinese incredibly- gave me flashbacks
reply to "What do you do for fun?" should have been "I go to the casino" XDD
Yep mainlander chinese guys don’t complain about shopping with you at all and actually they just don’t complain in general:)
Great video! :)
Oh my, you're so good! Hilarious 😂
I guess neither one. Traditional I like a little better because he is family oriented but it seems as he give zero warmness to his girlfriend and he thinks he compensate it by paying bills-which is should not be like this. If a man taking care of a woman financially that doesn’t mean that it compensates all other aspects as giving love, attention, affection, warmness to his woman. And the western seems more fun from the beginning but he still have Tinder after 6 month-which not appropriate too. So neither one :-)
Somak Chatterjee yes, don’t date western girls and Russian girls too because I am Russian and we want our man to be gentlemen, and to care about us not just financially but also emotionally.
I really don’t understand where in my message you got the idea that I want him as a slave?
I want polite gentleman who would care and show his love and be ready to have family and kids
Somak Chatterjee please see a good therapist, you are clearly need help. To give love and attention to the woman you love is slavery for you? If So, then yes it’s better for you not to date women. May be you like better to date men? then you are two equal partners
Somak Chatterjee what true? Please google “chivalry”, obviously you are not familiar with the concept.
Somak Chatterjee I really don’t understand what in treating his woman with Love and Attention what in it can possible make a man feel as slave? If you give attention to the girl you love, if you spend time with her then it makes you feel as slave?
I think reason he says 2 is because 2 is kind of a lucky number.
my current relationship is with a mainland chinese and holy shit this video is so on point hahahaha
like i have to ask him to please let me pay for stuff too because he likes to pay for e v e r y t h i n g and sometimes i wanna pay too :(
plus shopping with him is weird bc when he needs something he asks me to go shopping, but instead of getting what he needs, he'll want to buy me all kinds of stuff i don't need. i sometimes accept small stuff, but idk, it's something i really have to get used to.
I’m no so into money but the mainland China man had more manners, more mindful and was sweet. He holds bags for you????? Yes on the that.
Awe, I want a mainlander Chinese man. I love this channel btw
AutumnLeighandCrazy im from the mainland. Im single. May i have a chance
Lol the dating app part is so painfully accurate, Asian guys do not bother to date you seriously if u are not lookin like Porcelain Doll, light skin, skinny and no pimples, but if u do, they will treat u like Queen, buy u things, take u out with a car and give money,
This was amazing I loved it! haha
It was driving me crazy that he let her carry that huge bag while she was shopping! I ‘m so glad he took it at the end. I lived in Taiwan for years-never carried a bag or paid for anything. I loved how taken care of I was there!
Plz decrease the music and increase the volume. We can barely hear what they r saying
While I enjoy video games and Netflix too, the westernized one seemed a bit aimless, lacking in ambition, and disinterested in commitment. While the mainlander seemed a bit boring, I’d prefer him over someone who wasn’t that interested in committing for the long-haul. At least he seems more dependable, which is a must for a life partner. Though I do like the westerner’s thriftiness.
Pleeeease do a “You know you’re dating a Peruvian man when” thxxx lotsa love 💕
Great vid
Marina, you must have the most fun job in the world.
Funny enough was just stressed out about organizing a bunch of people for tomorrow so thanks for reminding me! Haha
This was very interesting to watch. In our culture, Indian men (and Middle Eastern men, as well) try to be a combination of both archetypes as portrayed in this video, here. Whether we do it through legal means, or otherwise. #sociology
I'm an older Canadian Chinese man that mostly grew up in Canada. I know a lot of wmaf couples and they are happiest couples in the world. yes, they may argue from time to time but they resolve them very quickly. I see a lot of single Chinese men who grew up in Canada and still single later part of life. Sad..
My husband is exactly like the mainlander Chinese when it comes to dining. He makes the waitress wait forever. Funny thing is he’s from Taiwan.
Taiwanese are quite similar to Chinese
they are the same. Taiwan is nothing but a province of china after all.
Expired Donuts i like you!
1:51 Did he say Nigga?! 🤨🧐🤔
Angel Dark ohhh ok, I see 👍🏽
Fun video. I must say, I simply cannot stand the way Chinese people tend to make the waitress just wait around while they casually flip through the menu...no consideration.
My bf is a mix of the two I would say. He is a mainlander but he lived in Canada for 5 years now
As a mainland Chinese living abroad, LMAO . The host is the hottest.
He satirically dramatized both types so hilarious
Dating a countryman in USA please!
so accurate for the mainland chinese. I am dating one rn ❤
Quality video, very objective
I am dating a mainlander now. He’s amazing
This is so accurate I’m dyingggggg 😂
LOL I love this thanks.
I think westernized Chinese is way different style wise different from this, and mainland chinese style is probably even more fashion forward. This guy gave it a good shot but its not accurate as of 2020
Why the mainlander must order two sets of the same food ?
This video is amazing thank you! I pick the mainlanders!
International rules of peacocking: if you're from a country with no (or developing) money, you brag about money. If you're from a country with money, you brag about leisure. XD
Wow Mainland Chinese sounds like the Best Husband
Wow! I mean the Chinese guy ! I never knew they had so many things close to Mexican culture.
Dated Westernized and Mainlanders. They are bred to be amazing providers.
I’m scared I’m friends with a Chinese man and he’s attending Harvard and is absolutely beautiful inside and out but I’m so scared because I have tons of tattooes and I’m worried he won’t date me for what I look like even though he’s told me I’m beautiful. I’m sure his parents would hate me. I’m a lower class white American and he’s a international Chinese student in a home stay living with old people🤣😬 and attending Harvard. I want him to date me so bad but I have way too many flaws. I’m overweight, I’m tattooed, I am WAY too independent. I work A TON of hours as a security guard for the subway, I didn’t finish college, used to be homeless, etc. i fear he’ll never give me a chance because he deserves so much better :(
This is so true. First week dating already talk about when we get married we should venture business together then just volunteer to pay for my derm clinic 😂