On Rejection & How I got to doubt my worth in relationships | confront my brokenness with me

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  • Опубликовано: 16 янв 2025

Комментарии • 18

  • @sbahlepops5619
    @sbahlepops5619 4 месяца назад +5

    This is so me. I felt I had to prove why he was choosing me. Then I started acting out of character. My mantra right now is, I do not have to peform. I do not have to peform to be accepted.

    • @Tiisetso_Kgomo
      @Tiisetso_Kgomo  4 месяца назад +1

      I think we need to keep reminding ourselves that we don’t have to perform at all

  • @leratomabulana3649
    @leratomabulana3649 4 месяца назад +3

    I totally get you,and this season of my life is literally exposing the level of my insecurities and I just find myself acting out of character and self-sabotaging..God help us to really grasp how worthy and valuable we are and that we don't have to perform in order to be accepted and loved,we are enough!!!

  • @victoriasomtyato4400
    @victoriasomtyato4400 4 месяца назад

    We see so much of ourselves in you sis. Allowing us to also pay attention to our emotions, traumas, fears and and. Thank you for your vulnerability. We are healing together ❤️

  • @Bazzooooka
    @Bazzooooka 4 месяца назад

    This is the content I yearn for. Deep conversation about real life issues. I know in real life we would get on like a house on fire, and we would help each other in our healing journey. But In the meantime I will take these videos. Keep ‘em coming 😊

  • @sbahlepops5619
    @sbahlepops5619 4 месяца назад

    Your videos are helping so much with my healing. There's one where you mentioned how finding the correct psychological language to what you've been through helped you navigate your healing. I've experienced the same with listening to survivors of narcissistic abuse, it's provided me with so much validation & healing to the confusion and pain.

    • @Tiisetso_Kgomo
      @Tiisetso_Kgomo  4 месяца назад

      It really does give language and key prayer points

  • @theotherside602
    @theotherside602 4 месяца назад

    That part where you said "no I need to show them why they chose me"😢
    Yho. It's so crazy that they already chose you, buy you're still want to prove yourself!

    • @Tiisetso_Kgomo
      @Tiisetso_Kgomo  4 месяца назад

      Unhealed Trauma has a way of distorting what is

  • @nompumelelomaseko9719
    @nompumelelomaseko9719 4 месяца назад

    Wuuu yazin we thank God we are following indoda enamanxeba cause wow we are dealing with so many wounds as believers. Thank you for being vulnerable with us and taking us with in your healing journey. Confession:Most times when you share stuff that ex husband is or was doing, I feel like gathering a few sisters then re mo late because what? 😂 I recommend the Purpose in pain Journal guide bakithi, I've been camping by week 6 cause yeyi my story is hard to construct so I'll move as I let it unfold to me the owner of this 29 year old story. I also recommend knowing and understanding attachment styles and love languages and therapy makholwa.

  • @Fancyface...
    @Fancyface... 4 месяца назад +1

    The subconscious expectations are real hey, and if we are not careful and aware we self sabotage even the right pure relations.
    "What if they don't" ma'am 😭 😭 😭
    Self-awareness is key with the help of the Holy Spirit.

  • @Fancyface...
    @Fancyface... 4 месяца назад

    Coke?