Aging in Perspective 🥹
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- Опубликовано: 17 апр 2024
- Time never stops moving forward and aging is an absolute, but growing old doesn't mean the person you were when you were young is no longer there 🥹
🎶 Original score by the oldest McFarland brother, Mitch McFarland 🎶
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When you expect a dad joke but end up feeling the feels 😭
that's what makes you more emotional, you don't have the expectation of a skit that's sad or bad
and that's why i have to clean my eyes too 😢
When you beat your dad at a sport/game and he says “Yep, your old man is slowing down.”
Oh man @@warweasel2832
No shit.
The detail of having the old man in the reflection is top notch
Damn thanks for pointing out
Didnt figure it out, thx
Also the hand that picked the coin
Twice! It's easy to miss but after he picks up the coin his reflection in the glass is of the old man.
And the old hand picking the coin up
My dad is pretty old, and im pretty young. I’m scared that he’ll leave me when I’m not ready. I don’t expect anyone to notice this comment, i just felt like i needed to say this. Love you, dad.
I noticed, as I recently lost my father in the time I was supposed to become independent, cherish all the time you got with him, because one swift virus and it can be over.
Man I pray to God everyday just asking him to keep me here till my kids no longer need me. I fully feel for you here, my daughter came crying the other day saying she is scared to grow up because she doesn't want to stop needing me and her mom. Like I told her just cherish the time you got and have faith that God won't take your parents till you're ready.
Don’t tell us tell your dad. You’ll have all the time in the world to comment how much you love them but make sure you comment it to him ❤
Let him know that❤ I lost my dad when he was 55. I always wonder if I showed how much I loved him
I know it doesn’t help, but I don’t think anyone is ever ready. It will hurt just as much if it happened now or in 60 more years. Just make as many memories as you can, while you can
I know this feeling! My "head" says I'm 30, but my body screams - you're 70!
How old are you if I might ask? :)
Amen
My birth certificate does the same to me, it tells me I'm 30 but every so often that sharp pain tells me "this is it".
Let's hope your actually well over the agr of 40.... it's so weird to hear 30somethings talk about there body in hella pain and call themselves old like that's a normal thing...
Much of the time, my head tells me I'm only 5. 30 is pretty good!
Dude. That was deep.
@@uncleswellwhere did he say it was uncommon?🤔
@uncleswell Not even AI sounds this lifeless and robotic.
@@thylabyrinthnah fr
That's what she said
Life really does pass you by if you don’t stop to enjoy it. It’s a culture of working yourself to death just to survive now for a lot of people. I’m 41 have had a lot of fun in my life and like Kurt cobain said “now I’m bored and old”.
That's it. I was 18 yesterday. Now I'm 54.
I was almost sure I was going to be 18, not 39 this year.
I hope life treated you well. Rip
@@grundlefairy My life has been amazing, thank you. Should be a movie. Now it is just starting over again because I am moving to the Philippines, where there are over 7,600 Islands all prettier than those in Hawaii (where I lived a while) and I will soon be SCUBA diving with whale sharks! 🤘😎
@@KevinVenturePhilippines glad to hear that man,,, enjoyy your time in philipines . if you free come visit my place, malaysia. you need to try food here !
@@KevinVenturePhilippines Mate be literally sleepin with the fishes soon!
When he said “this could be my last birthday huh sweet pea” 😢. Broke my heart
This is the only YT short that give me a Emotional break down. This definitely made me rethink my life and how short it is.
A 70year old friend of mine said at 30 you kind of stop feeling you are aging and every morning in front of the mirror, you are reminded of how the time has passed.
I can vouch for that. Mentally I don’t feel old, physically is another matter
@@susan7775 I'm 32 and feel the same as I did at 25.
@@Crazywaffle5150 40's is when you start aging FR tbh. 30's are still young person .. ;) Enjoy.
Even when I was 27 years old people thought I was 21, 22. Once I turned 30 I really started seeing my appearance catching up with my age, but from the inside I haven't aged a day. Sometimes I realize I can recall memories of my younger years better than I can the last week
Fuuuuuuuuuuuuuuh for reals man wtf
Didn't expect this to hit. I'm only 34, not that old, but in my head, it feels like I'm still 17. Life gets ahead of us.
Ahahahah! You old fart ! (I'm 33)
When you're 40 buy yourself a motorcycle. It will kick you like 10 years back at least :-D
I'm 17 and still think I'm 14
Im 30 and feel like 45
Dude same. I'm 34 and I think about time passing faster and faster just about every day.
Yep getting ready to be 68 and dont feel that although im in end stages of illness. Nothing i can do to stop it. Its been a lovely life. I wanna live ot some more with my husband that we been together since 8th grade. He has termina cancer hes been figtng for 14 years. Its back. God give him strength hes a wonderful man. Teaching our daugter and grandson how to take care f the family compound.
He was still capable of getting around like he was 35...I say get it young man...let's go!
My grandad talks about how it feels like he’s not old and even gets annoyed at other old people for being slow until he sees himself in the mirror. This really put it into a great perspective. Well done.
Noted. Destroy all mirrors after age 55. Key to eternal life
My granny used to say "I don't feel old" 😞 she would say "I look in the mirror and think who is that old lady?" 😞
Shit
@au😂😂😂😂😂😂tomagicashie
@@automagicashie nice 😂😂😂
This is so true. 73 and I'm always surprised by the mirror. I'm about 35 in my head. It goes fast enjoy where you are.
We literally should live to at least 120 year, but because of the type of food, water, air and other things I won't mention, if we see 80 we're considered blessed
I wish humans didn't have to go through the cycle of life and just stopped aging at one point. I mean aging is meant to be a deterioration of your bodily features. Maybe there will be a future someday where humans solve that problem? Either way, I wish you long life and prosperity.
Dang, I'll be 35 this yeah... though I feel like I'm probably 50+ after a decade of Military service and being in some motor vehicle accidents. 😅
@@Fahad-21 without death or getting age life would be meaningless
Thank you sir
The body ages, but the voice inside your head, it never changes.
wtf. I'm so used to all of your funny videos. I was not prepared for this video at all. Great work.
This is absolutely true. I’m 46 this year and I have this perception that I’m still 22.
Dude I am 70 and I date 19yo girls, fuck that mentality.
love you man stay like that
I'm almost 40 but I'm definitely always about 26.
I think that's a good thing
I'm 37 and still look for the adults when I walk into a room.
Details.. when he picked up the coin his hand was the old mans.. when walking into the diner, relfection was the old man. This was deep and real. Thank you so much.
Wonderfully spotted.
You can also see the reflection behind him when he goes to grab the coin
On the phone when she takes the picture, too !
When they first cut to the crosswalk, too
Came here to comment about those exact details. And the phone screen when she takes the picture, during the shot over her shoulder.
The videography is amazing. Loved every detail
This kind of videos is heart touching because its true to life😢
That's life no matter how old are you, you always feel 20 years old inside, your body just not catching up... Happy birthday seniors.
eww
@@buuuuuh365wdym ewww?
@@buuuuuh365you just a dirty mind person
3 minutes ago ahh comments
@@Scary3ye Idk, but that kinda stuff is what pedos say: "Oh, we are just kids trapped in an old person's body." Like you are old, be old. How can you feel 20 when you are 70 LMAO.
The constant in between shots where you can just barely spot his "real" age is some stellar foreshadowing.
And the glass. His reflection shows his “real age”
This comment needs to be pinned. I didn’t even notice till you said it!
oh i just noticed, nice details
Seriously tho
Topnotch editing right there!
It's obvious on second watch, but it means it worked subliminally 😮 awesome!
And don't get me started on the feels 😊😢😅 everyone can relate!
My worst fear is waking up one day alone and looking back on life realizing I’ve never accomplished anything or that I’m not satisfied with the life I’ve lived, boy is time flying already
I'm struggling with this one right now. 38 years old, and almost feel like I've regressed instead of progressed
Damn dude. Hit me like a ton of bricks with the reality check at the end
53 and I feel this 100%.
Some days, I feel my age more than others, but in my mind, I'm still in my 20's or 30's.
Oh my gosh you baby. Man up.
That is true, I am 45 I still feel like 25 , I even see myself in mirror as a 25 year old
Never give up sir!!!! I always tell this to my uncle, never think stuff like “maybe in my next life” or stuff like that, you want it!? You get it!!!
💪🏻💪🏻💪🏻💪🏻never give up.
Take care of yourself and life will reward. My dad is in his 60s and still works his excavating job shoveling with my brother and I, hammering cement, and picking up logs and brick. Usually he’s in the excavator but when he hops down to help with the hand work you’d think him more fit than most 20-30 yr olds. It’s a shame people think after 30 or so they just become unable to do physical activity and can’t stay fit for much longer. Truth is, human bodies are very adaptable even in older age.
As a 26 year old man, I’ll make sure to be extra thankful for my youth and to do my best not to squander it.
My fucking heart. You did more in 60 seconds than most movies do with 90 minutes.
Jesus saves! Repent and turn away from your sins today.
@@idehenebenezer802 goo goo gah gah RAAAH
what shitty movies do you watch
Right!!??! Like I'm not trying to cry at work guys, come on....
@@idehenebenezer802I think u should be the first one in to do so! Do the exact same words u say!
I’ll be 29 next week, and I have 3 kids of my own. I haven’t been afraid of aging until recently, watching them grow so fast. I’m starting to look unrecognizable in the mirror…
This so beautiful. We never realized that we've aged. We are constantly the age where the most memorable things happened in our lives. 🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰
Must admit that even his hand on the cross walk changer was spot on. Perfect shirt film. 😊😊😊😊
This is not a skit.
It’s deeply philosophical and artistic as it is.
Thank you 🙏
They could have used someone who's closer to 84 though. You're 55? Perfect for the part!
@@nekad2000he's still pretty young honestly...
They do another skit where his daughter is pregnant sitting at a bus stop. He forgets that it’s his daughter and it shows her talking to him like they’ve never met before.
It's a good film but I think you're lowering the bar for what's "deep"
@@UnanimousDelivers I believe using the word “deep” in this context is purely subjective. You could use that word in a different situation and someone else would disagree with your choice of words.
52 and this is 100% legit. I've watched this one over and over.
51
Same. It's depressing to think about.
@@GizmoMalteseDepressing and Blessing at the same time.
Seeing white hairs on your own head is a major sign that your time is running out and that you need to find your creator before the day you can’t return for a second chance
Shit, and here I am feeling ancient at 41...
For those that lost family is really heart breaking. This really shows that taking care of your family is important because we don't get to see them one day. Spend time with your family till you have time.
This literally made tears stream down my face because all I could think about is how my great grandad calls me sweet pea and I know that he doesn’t have much time left😭 I love him so much 😭😭
84 and walking the town with full independence is a major landmark of health.
I work at a retirement facility and some of the things these people do is crazy. There's one resident that I didn't even realize was a resident, I thought he was an employee! He not only was always in the fitness center working out, but he was constantly walking around in the building or outside, I'd see him walking in town, he worked as a dish washer in a nearby restaurant. He looks like he's in his late 50s, MAYBE early 60s. Turns out. He's 80!
Can't be that crazy the president is 81.
@@user-zt7vb9kt8lthere is no such thing as the president. there are lots of presidents, you need to clarify the country
@@ege8240If they say "The president" assume they're from the US, most of us like to think we're the only country on the internet
@@MagickArcher yeah, truly one of those 'muricah moment (im from boston btw, so no hate)
My dad always said "my body is getting old, but in my mind, I'm still 25." He passed January 30, 2020. He developed Lewy Body dementia and it ravaged him quickly. He was very intelligent, so we noticed things quickly were going wrong. He hated what was happening to him. He was the smartest and strongest man I have ever known, and that disease stole who he was from him. When he passed, he had aged 30 years. He deserved to grow to be an old man. He loved life, and his passing left an enormous hole in our family that has still not been filled. I miss him so much.
😢
Dude love and respect for you and your family😢❤
The space for self growth is as big as the horizon...grow into the example he was and surpass it...he sounds like a great man worth remembering.
You have my deepest sympathies for the loss of a precious comrade of yours.
Man, rest in piece.
Im just seeing this today on the 29th. Today is my great grandfathers birthday. He would've turned 84 today. The chance that i see this today is just...
Fly high🕊
My dad is 75 and I am 28, I can see him start to slow down and that was one thing I didn't realize when I was younger, you're parents are also aging and going through life just like me. Just wish he had me a bit younger so I would have just a bit more time with him.
my dad said he knew he was old when he fell while working and people said "are you ok" , " let me help you up". He said that was the first time he fell and people didn't laugh or call him a " dumbass" jokingly.
Damn
😢
So touching
The more active one is and the harder it is to believe one is going to age. My dad thought he could just go hunting, climbing, spear fish, look for mushrooms and go camping forever. That was until he started getting tired with just 5 hours into the water and started missing his shots.
Guau... Es duro ése momento, las mujeres nos damos cuenta cuando nos llaman señoras personas de nuestra edad o mayores... Es feo envejecer por fuera, cuando uno por dentro se siente ágil, vigoroso... Qué triste es el ciclo de la vida 😢😢
Something about that song is just so calming
“This could be my last birthday” hit me real hard. I just lost my 90 year old grandfather two months ago. I wasn’t expecting him to go so soon. The thing is he never let anyone help him. He felt 40 even though we all knew he was in his 80s. I felt this video and watching this reminds me of my own grandfather 😢 Well done. Well done.
I'm 67 and in my head I'm the same as I was thirty years ago although my back hurts more. The other day for the first time ever a guy offered me his seat on the tram. I was both delighted and devastated in equal measure.
This is exactly how I felt the first time someone called me sir
Did you accept the seat on the tram? Or graciously declined like the video guy?😢
Take this slow Gramps, Don't let it ruin your day!
I know your ass is not 67
My back already hurts, not looking forward to that future!
Having the old man in the reflection is peak cinematography for a RUclips short
Didnt notice that, thats smart
Hands too. And some cut away shots.
i didn't notice. amazing catch!
This is comment, this is what I came here for
He’s actually sprinkled all throughout the video.
This got me all teary eyes and choked up, I just lost my Mom and now I'm sick from my liver, I 4 beautiful children who are the world to me, I don't know how much time I have left in this world, to everyone I've ever met, so glad to have met you wether it was a good experience or a bad one, I'm scared to die, but [thank you everyone who ever loaned their time to stop, and talked to me, I've helped so many people, not financially, I was only great at one thing, and that was fighting, knowing the fact that that bully wasn't going to mess with them ever again always did for me, I have always been a brawler, but I never took advantage off anyone more than the next, I'm 49,now and I can honestly say that it was always something about the fact that I knew no one would take advantage of them again, was my greatest reward ever.
Almost cried watching this
That’s the thing about getting old. People start to see you in a way you don’t see yourself. It’s extremely alienating. No one thinks it’ll happen to them, but it always does.
If everything goes well it does...
Hey!! Let me live in my own youthful fantasy. Take your filet knifed tongue onwards to the next clip.
Jesus that was deep bro. You definitely right man... I remember when I was 20 feels like couple weeks ago.. now next month I'm turning 32 I'm like wtf happened.... Jesus.... Life is wild
Not me! I’ll never get old! Because healthcare is too expensive ill prolly die in my 30s lol
My mom's been talking about it happening to her at work. I had to do a double take, but she's a few years from retirement. I have to look at old photos of her when I was a kid to see how she's aged.
Wow, I didn't even notice all the little glimpses until my second watch. This is honestly so well made.
The reflection in the window was a good one.
The aged knuckles picking up the coin was my first clue.
when she took the picture on her phone - that was brilliant
....
This actually made me ahead a tear 😢
I... I wasn't prepared for this. I sewar i had my earphones and ready for an ultimate dad joke. 🥺
This made me burst into tears. I know this well. I’m turning seventy in August and this is exactly my life now. In my mind I’m the same as I ever was.
It had me in tears too. My mom just turned 75 and says she still thinks the same way she did 40yrs ago. Our minds will always be young i guess
The „I“ never ages.
I'm "only" 45, and I'm crying bc it's very real at any age.
😢😢I'm turning fifty next month and people looks at me as an old woman...but I'm feeling like in my 30's...
@@edithsegura9696 I turn 42 this year and my sis turns 52. We have the minds of 29 year olds😅. I get sad sometimes cause it feels like just yesterday I was in my early 20s. Where did the time go? I’m just trying my best to embrace my 40s.
It is a privilege to grow old.
My grandfather died before I was born at 47 years of age.
I also worked in aged care. Many say in their mind they are young, its just their body has aged.
Its sad but everyone time comes to an end.
I think he’s 𝕘𝕠𝕥 dementia
Ik this is serious but it really got me with the "before I was born at 47 years of age" 💀
@@Lvr765 ..pardon?
People with dementia go back through the years. One minute they think they are a mother then the next a school girl.
They've still lived long lives mostly. One woman was in a constant state of happiness. She was just always happy.
Dementia is sad but it doesn't need to be scary.
@@shelbyb425 😅 yeah should have put a comma or new sentence. But currently I have the flu so it'll do.
@@LeeroyFan101 so sorry for your friend, you and her loved ones. Yes, life can be cruelly cut short. Again my condolences.
"This could be my last birthday" got me in tears😢 my grandfather asked me, earlier this year, when I will come home to visit him, he told me that who knows how long he's going to be... he was almost 88 yo and I haven't seen him in the last 3 years and now I won't have the chance to see him anymore... 😢
Damn this hit hard 😢
This hits deep. You blink and 20 years have gone by!. A very beautifully crafted film. Xxxx
Life flies by slow for me do something new everyday and then it'll take longer because you're making new memories
Lindo!
Nah fuck it never blinking again
Or you think about when the 12 hours Shift ends, it will take ages lol
Yup! That is how I feel like, it feels like I was 7 yesterday.. But the next I am already 27 years old. And the world has changed, how did it change so quickly?
One of the best things I ever watched. Very well done. I am 67 this year and I see myself as a 25 or 30 years old at most, but the freaken body and face belong to a stranger. Life is really short. When we are young we're so happy and think that everything is still ahead, and at some point in life we realize that everything is already behind. Thank you for your vid
Jesus saves! Repent and turn away from your sins today.
Fuck me this is sad. I have to get the most out of my 20's while I still can.
@@idehenebenezer802 cringe
@@idehenebenezer802jesus is not god, he’s just a messenger of god, Allah is god. Turn to allah before you return to Allah… christianity id so messed up so many versions of bible, understand this, learn about islam and accept it.
@@travelstories2529 Islam is demonic, dead and false. Research more about your own religion, once you learn enough of its lies you will want to leave yourself.
This is the only video that brought tears to my eyes. I feel 35. We see ourselves as still young but Everyone sees us at our true age. I am 64. When we feel great we forget how old we really are. What a superb deep video.
This truly how Seniors see themselves. I’m not a senior but I don’t feel like I’m 50 at all..I’d jump on a skateboard in a heartbeat.
My dad passed away last year at 70. He always said he felt like he was still in his 20s-30s in his mind and would be shocked he wasnt young anymore when something held him back. I miss him every single day. Im so lucky to have had such and amazing father.
I’m sorry for your loss your father sounds like a great man ❤️
❤
I'm sorry for your loss... ❤
My dad died a year ago at age 92. He said he still felt like 18. He never looked old, he was very fit and could still run and do chin-ups in his 80s. I can't say he was a great dad, he was mean and cruel, even so, I still miss him.
@crustydownunder I understand that. My mom was a terror. She died when I was 21 and I still grieved her terribly.
My dad was by no means fit towards the end of his life, his health failed over his last decade of life. It frustrated him greatly especially as it became harder for him to walk without pain. He passed so peacefully in his sleep. Just went to take a nap one day and didn't wake up. May we all be so blessed to go that way. 🙏
THE REFLECTIONS IN THE WINDOW SHOWING THE ELDER IS PERFECTION. This made me start crying.
Fr this short is so well made
I had to go back this is some insane detail
Fr real details
the hand picking up the coin is also old
I didn't even notice that oh my god😢
I cant leave without loving this short...
I actually cried this is so sad😢
"This Could Be My Last Birthday" broke me 💔 into pieces
😢😢😢
yea i almost cried on this one
Enjoy every birthday like it's your last.
My grandfather passed a month ago. He would have been 84 in August.
Just buried my Dad, he was 63. Appreciate what you have, love hard and deep, don’t hold grudges and don’t waste time.
I am so sorry for your loss❤. I lost mine 5 years ago, even though he was 92, I miss him🙏❤
Same . My dad passed away at 63, 14 months ago, way to early. Brain cancer is aggressive and fast. I agree with all you said. Best wishes for you and your family! Cheers!
My dad passed away almost a month ago. He was also 63. It doesn't matter how long someone has been in your life, it will never feel like enough time.
Sorry for your loss I don't know my dad because of grandfather but my real mum died when I was 5 in 77 & my step mum died on my birthday in 99 spend all the time you can with your parents as 1 day they may not be there RIP Mum love & miss you more every day xxxxx.
Sorry for your loss! 🍀 I hope y'all find the strength for these hard times.
It's also the same for me.
Mine passed away at age 63 unexpectedly due to cardiac arrest after a successful brain tumor surgery.
It happened 15 years ago but he's still sorely missed to this day.
Time running so fast,
Left we all behind😭
This made me cry. My grandpa just turned 81 and the strongest, most able bodied man I know is starting to get tired and hurt in ways he never has
Im 72. This hit me hard and I burst out into tears. At my age you dont feel any different than when you were 30, but the mirror keeps reminding you.
Then why's ur picture eome 20 year old girl??
@@ALPOLEESHARKAWERDSlol
lol you’re not 72, because every 70+ year old I’ve met feels much different than they did at 30. Also your pfp 😑. You just copied someone else’s comment (their comment is above yours). Poser
@@ALPOLEESHARKAWERDSThat's her 52 years ago!
Nuh uh@@AceNinja2112
When my mom turned 82, I asked her if she felt 82. She said that if she wasn't in so much pain, she'd feel young again. She died a year later. This video is amazing. Well done, my friend.
Sorry for ur loss bro
The way he looked out of his eyes remained the same. But the way others saw him from the outside was different.
You didn’t have to make us cry like that 😭
This is so true. How we see ourselves when we get old is entirely different to how we actually are.
Very true, but physical pain is the way nature tells you are not more that young.
Ya, but the mirror and the pain keep reminding us.
How others see us is entirely different to how we actually are.
I find this only to be true for people with poor self-awareness.
Jesus saves! Repent and turn away from your sins today.
This made me cry because I understand it so clearly . I'm 62, and time goes so quickly
Jesus saves! Repent and turn away from your sins today.
@@idehenebenezer802no
Why does this sounds like you trying sell him Christianity @@idehenebenezer802
@idehenebenezer802
No u
@idehenebenezer802
Christ > Jesus 💯
This broke me down in tears because yesterday my grandpa passed away😢
That was so goood!!!! The older man in reflections and for brief snapshots really gets me right in the heart
The camera work switching to glimpses of the dad's hands, shoulder, reflection 😘 perfect
It's actually really good for a RUclips short
I didn't see the reflection at the restaurant the first time.
Both windows too.
Excellent
Bro. I was trying to get out of the deep, and you come along and sink my battleship
It's crazy how people can mention things about a video that aren't even in the video 🤡
One quote always stuck with me for most of my life.
“Life moves pretty fast. If you don’t stop and look around once in a while, you could miss it.”
Thank you Ferris 😊
464 Likes and no reply lemme fix that (:
See a lot of this where I work gets me to tears every time I have to remind them that their families will be there to see them the next day even though some don’t have living or caring relatives
If you're an elderly person and you have the spirit of a young adult, and you can maintain yourself without assistance, all the power to you. I hope I am that young in spirit when I reach that age.
THE MIRROR REFLECTIONS WERE SUCH A GREAT TOUCH 😭😭
Edit: Also if you look closely, in every shot which isn't showing his face, is him shown as in his older self. Such as hands, body, shadow, picture.
Fr
i didnt even notice
Holy shit youre right thats quite awesome ngl
Those are windows, but yea it’s a great touch
Same thing while she is taking the photo, they put a lot of detail into this
Yep! This is exactly how it feels! I'm 70 and disabled now but I'm still that optimistic 17 year old in my soul! Thank you for making this 👍🫶✌️
May God bless you and grant you a lot of good, happiness and a long fulfilling life!!! 😊🤗🤗🤗
Oh dear and I thought it gets easier to let go, I’m only 30
This man has the vibes of that one cool grandpa that follows latest trends💀😭
god bless you Mrs
@@Gorebox_kenzie_wuz_here ummm, ima gramma!🤣🤣🤣
I don't appreciate how emotional this made me.
Those angle shots were incredibly well done. The hints of the true age compared to the way he sees himself. Top notch
This is so true. Time goes fast and you don't perceive that you are really older.
i think he has dementia
@@alonelymouse5293nah this is something we think about all the time as we get older and then one day it just hits you like a cannon ball. Especially if you haven't done much with your life or have worked your ass off most of it without stopping to spend enough time with your loved ones ...
@HeraldoftheMEME so true. And when you have kids and see them grow up you realize the amount of time that goes by 😢
@@johnsennett8557 Tell me about it I'm 30 now and can't believe it. My daughter will be 13 this year smh. I'm feeling old, and the young guys calling me unc when they find out my age doesn't help
Around 2012 or so, my great-grandfather was in the hospital for something that I don't quite remember. I think pneumonia, but not sure, I was like 10 at the time. What I do remember though, is that he was put with the elderly people, and his reaction to that was "look where they put me, between all the old people". He was most likely the oldest in the entire hospital wing lol, at a nice 97 years of age!
He definitely felt younger than he was. Sadly, he didn't live too long after that, he died maybe a year later, max.
Lost my mom last year at 85. Just today I looked in the mirror and was reminded I'm not 20 years old any more. So this just hit pretty damn deep on me. I'm not crying, you're crying.
Damn, you lucky though. You can have mom until she at 85. I was 19 when i lost my mom, she was at 55.
edit: She got cancer at 50 and i was 14. I wish someone told me that someone who got cancer don't live longer than 5 years. I was concern about this while she got only one year left at my 18. I know there's nothing i can do. In her last 3 months, she spend day by day really suffer from bladder cancer. I accompany him in hospital everyday until that day come, when she never reply to my voice again..
@@kingki1953i get you're probably just trying to say look on the happy side or something but it really sounds like you're try to one up someone with what couldn't be less of a competition
i just lost my dad last week at the age of 65.
Жизнь странная штука, я вообще не ощущаю себя взрослым. В детстве казалось быть взрослым это круто, а теперь понимаешь, что это скукота и каждый день - день сурка
@@eksboks148 That was so rude. There's no one-upping here. This isn't a situation where we're discussing who made the most of a summer vacation. The guy is just trying to help OP appreciate the time he spent with his mother. Grief is proportional to the memories you create with that person, not necessarily the time you spent or when they departed. All he did was call him lucky and shared his own experience, and now you're trying to make him feel bad for nothing :(
My grandpa passed away on Sunday... Instant tears. This is a really well made video though. Y'all be sure to cherish the time you have together.
At 71 I look and feel spry, even still working 35 hrs a week. Only clue is when I get up from the dinner table and on Saturdays when I need to recover my energy. Beyond those moments I am happy and grateful for my life and those in my circle!
Are there Emmys for RUclips Shorts? Because this should win.
Absolutely 😭🩷
I would vote for this 😭
Should win an Oscar for best short film. Technically it qualifies as it’s over 1minute.
This is hardly original and it is way too cheese to win.
Jesus saves! Repent and turn away from your sins today.
If only shorts were that deep in meanings, people would be better.
youtube mary and jesus in the quran and mohmmad in the bible and the Torah and the scientific miracles of the quran and mohmmad in hindu scripture
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@@2009samiywhy you copying and pasting that? Weirdo
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The tiny detail of his dad in the window of the restaurant!
I'm only 19 yet this has me crying because it puts into perspective how my grandfather felt and how my father feels as he grows older...
I'm 30 and I'm still 18 in my head. Wild and it'll only get wilder.
I just turned 32 and I still feel like a teenager even though I am not the same age my mother was when she had me (youngest of 5 kids). The new perspective is crazy. The age I am now, is the age my HS teachers were when they taught me, many of my old friends now how children...like how has all of this happened so fast!
We only start getting old at 30, so you're not any older than you were 10 years ago. That can be sooner or later though, based on how healthy you are. If you wanna stay young for longer, be healthy.
I feel ya, I turned 30 last November and honestly I still feel like I left high school a few months ago. I don’t feel like I’ve aged, more important my body doesn’t feel like it’s breaking down either. It actually feels like the opposite. Lately it’s been unreal, like I’ve been able to actually spread my wings and follow the path I’ve always wanted to. I’m just waiting on my background check to go thru and I’ll be doing what I’ve always felt like I should be.
My amazing Mum told me a couple years before she she passed away at the age of 90 , that she still felt the same as she did when she was 16, it was just her body letting her down. I'm 61 and I can relate perfectly. inside. I'm still a teenager, just my body is getting older.
You all are still so young, enjoy it while it lasts. Wait till you hit 40 then you'll really start to feel like an old person.
I am working at a retirementhome as a nurse on a station with people who all have dementia and it seems like this is what they go through all the time... some of them being in their 90's saying "tomorrow i will visit my parents" and everytime i hear that i can't let them face reality and lie because it would be horrible to say "they are dead and you are 94 years old" or even ask them how old they think they are... sometimes one of them who can not stand up anymore says they want to go home just for me to reply with something like "i am sorry you are at the hospital and you can not stand up at the moment. We need to take care of you the next days" or something like that. Sometimes a nurse has to be very very creative the way they talk with elderly people and even more with from dementia suffering people. It can be hard to keep an illusion alive just so people do not have a worse time.
You’re an angel to all these people, bless you ❤
I would never thought a 1 minute video would touch my heart this much, i am literally crying for real😭😭😭
Time passes so fast that we don't even realize we are getting old.
I just lost my grandma a couple of weeks ago to dementia. She always got confused and talked about how she was a teenager and needed to get across the river so she could go into town and have some fun. She wasn’t really all there anymore but it was still a shock to lose someone so close and important to me. This video is beautiful and really touched me. Thank you, have a blessed day.
Rip grandma, may she rest in peace 🙏🏽
I just lost mine a couple days ago to the same thing. This hits pretty hard. I feel your pain.
Prayers with you guys 🙏🏼
She was thinking about her past and probably wanted to go back too. Insit with someone who has dementia and had a aunt who had it when inwas a kid. Neither one of them does that. It just makes me thinknshebwas closer to death than you realize when shebwas doing that. Old people tends to do that around that time. Or at least that is my experience. We had to take care of several older people in the family and that part seems to be very common.
May she rest in peace 🙏
My dad passed away at 84 years old. It's been 3 years now and I still miss him everyday. ❤
RIP Dad. My best friend and confidant. Oh how you are missed and loved. If only I could have you back even for just a short time. I would love to show you smart phones and self driving cars. I remember rolling my eyes when you told me these things should be invented. Thank you to the producer of this video. We Americans should be ashamed at how horribly we treat our grandparents/elders. 😢❤
84 years, he did very good
My dad died at 84 years only a few months ago. It's hard.
@Skyesoceaneyes May he rest in peace
Mine passed at 47, me being 13 at the time, now 14. That was september 7th 2023. Actually i dont know the full date. Or why, or how... i'm underinformed.. (if thats even a word)
Wow.. that's beautiful.. This is one of the most qualitative short i've seen on RUclips.. I'm litteraly crying
That was both existentially terrifying and beautiful, thank you 😂😭
Time goes by a lot faster than we think. I lost 3 grandparents in a year, and each funeral was the last time I saw the next one. Time is precious, enjoy every moment you can get
That's heartbreaking ....hope you are doing well❤..RIP your grandparents 😢
Wait... 3?
@@nowonmetube 2 maternal grandparents and 1 paternal
This comment hurts somewhere deep😢
@nowonmetube Well, you have your mother's parents and your father's parents, then if they every had to remarry, you have step grandparents.
You can see his old aged reflection in the shop mirror...
The detailing! You really touched our hearts❤❤❤
Yeah and the hand when he picks up the coin.
@@pattiepepper6217oh yea! Didn't notice that
you don't say
And the shadow on the sidewalk
Great eye for the details!
One of the best put together stories ever. Thank you for making this.
My dad told me today, hes had a good life, he's 73. Hes not terminal, hes just realzing mortality and i thought about him being young, and how im a refection of him and my mother as well. I love them both so much.
That hit the feels..... Thanks for helping me understand what seniors experience
Live your life backwards, and there will be no surprises.
Truly, plan backwards from your own passing.
It's powerful :)
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@@brauljo I like the phonetic and IPA foreign language trick. Nice.
To answer though - it means to contemplate your future, by considering heavy questions like where you will most likely die, at what age, and what things will be like then.
Perhaps one makes it to 90. what is like life or you then, how many of your friends are also still alive. Are you lonely?
Work backwards, 80, 70, 60, etc. It is a thought experiment, and by modelling this, what changes would one make in their life given the odds of it happening?
Jesus saves! Repent and turn away from your sins today.
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