Aging in Perspective 🥹

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  • Опубликовано: 17 апр 2024
  • Time never stops moving forward and aging is an absolute, but growing old doesn't mean the person you were when you were young is no longer there 🥹
    🎶 Original score by the oldest McFarland brother, Mitch McFarland 🎶
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Комментарии • 14 тыс.

  • @isaactaher9396
    @isaactaher9396 29 дней назад +94741

    When you expect a dad joke but end up feeling the feels 😭

    • @gabrycast5395
      @gabrycast5395 27 дней назад +224

      that's what makes you more emotional, you don't have the expectation of a skit that's sad or bad

    • @gabrycast5395
      @gabrycast5395 27 дней назад +76

      and that's why i have to clean my eyes too 😢

    • @warweasel2832
      @warweasel2832 27 дней назад +88

      When you beat your dad at a sport/game and he says “Yep, your old man is slowing down.”

    • @husseinsalih6952
      @husseinsalih6952 27 дней назад

      Oh man ​@@warweasel2832

    • @dyjital
      @dyjital 27 дней назад +4

      No shit.

  • @my.names.robb.with.two.bs1
    @my.names.robb.with.two.bs1 29 дней назад +127754

    Dude. That was deep.

    • @therookie5714
      @therookie5714 29 дней назад +601

      @@uncleswellwhere did he say it was uncommon?🤔

    • @thylabyrinth
      @thylabyrinth 29 дней назад +385

      @uncleswell Not even AI sounds this lifeless and robotic.

    • @Owly_Goth
      @Owly_Goth 29 дней назад +65

      @@thylabyrinthnah fr

    • @xraystudios3693
      @xraystudios3693 29 дней назад +47

      That's what she said

    • @A.S.S.M.A.N
      @A.S.S.M.A.N 29 дней назад +79

      Life really does pass you by if you don’t stop to enjoy it. It’s a culture of working yourself to death just to survive now for a lot of people. I’m 41 have had a lot of fun in my life and like Kurt cobain said “now I’m bored and old”.

  • @nancyhyson6809
    @nancyhyson6809 6 дней назад +409

    Im 72. This hit me hard and I burst out into tears. At my age you dont feel any different than when you were 30, but the mirror keeps reminding you.

    • @ALPOLEESHARKAWERDS
      @ALPOLEESHARKAWERDS День назад +35

      Then why's ur picture eome 20 year old girl??

    • @hasratkalay2531
      @hasratkalay2531 День назад +8

      @@ALPOLEESHARKAWERDSlol

    • @ZedaPetri
      @ZedaPetri 21 час назад

      lol you’re not 72, because every 70+ year old I’ve met feels much different than they did at 30. Also your pfp 😑. You just copied someone else’s comment (their comment is above yours). Poser

    • @AceNinja2112
      @AceNinja2112 20 часов назад +5

      ​@@ALPOLEESHARKAWERDSThat's her 52 years ago!

    • @Connoreq
      @Connoreq 18 часов назад

      Nuh uh​@@AceNinja2112

  • @Anarchist_opossum
    @Anarchist_opossum 9 дней назад +347

    Dude this made me cry. I lot my grandpa early this year and I wish I spent more time with him, he also said the same thing on his last birthday. Please remember to spend time with your grandparents because you never know how much time you have left with them

    • @galavizK
      @galavizK 9 дней назад +5

      I feel you bro... 😔

    • @IAmInfinitus208
      @IAmInfinitus208 2 дня назад +4

      Lost my gramps from my ma's side recently, so yeah, this always rings true.

    • @b0zoslayer
      @b0zoslayer День назад +2

      Same

    • @asdddsf2087
      @asdddsf2087 День назад +1

      Top late 4 me 😂

    • @toomuchrgb
      @toomuchrgb 10 часов назад

      too late…

  • @PrestonDavidson
    @PrestonDavidson 13 дней назад +4341

    The detail of having the old man in the reflection is top notch

    • @SanHydronoid
      @SanHydronoid 9 дней назад +52

      Damn thanks for pointing out

    • @girayhankaya
      @girayhankaya 9 дней назад +19

      Didnt figure it out, thx

    • @YRO.
      @YRO. 9 дней назад +35

      Also the hand that picked the coin

    • @rorydakin8048
      @rorydakin8048 9 дней назад +5

      Twice! It's easy to miss but after he picks up the coin his reflection in the glass is of the old man.

    • @eily_b
      @eily_b 8 дней назад +1

      And the old hand picking the coin up

  • @KevinVenturePhilippines
    @KevinVenturePhilippines 17 дней назад +2517

    That's it. I was 18 yesterday. Now I'm 54.

    • @joaocorreiamedia
      @joaocorreiamedia 11 дней назад +65

      I was almost sure I was going to be 18, not 39 this year.

    • @grundlefairy
      @grundlefairy 10 дней назад +17

      I hope life treated you well. Rip

    • @KevinVenturePhilippines
      @KevinVenturePhilippines 10 дней назад +52

      @@grundlefairy My life has been amazing, thank you. Should be a movie. Now it is just starting over again because I am moving to the Philippines, where there are over 7,600 Islands all prettier than those in Hawaii (where I lived a while) and I will soon be SCUBA diving with whale sharks! 🤘😎

    • @abewiggle6049
      @abewiggle6049 10 дней назад

      @@KevinVenturePhilippines glad to hear that man,,, enjoyy your time in philipines . if you free come visit my place, malaysia. you need to try food here !

    • @joaocorreiamedia
      @joaocorreiamedia 10 дней назад +13

      @@KevinVenturePhilippines Mate be literally sleepin with the fishes soon!

  • @shalondafernandez8056
    @shalondafernandez8056 9 дней назад +180

    Gosh. My dad's been gone since 2016. Had just made it to 60. This got me in my feels. 🥹 May you live long and continue to make many memories with your precious family. Thank you for always making us laugh 💐

    • @heatherpony
      @heatherpony 3 дня назад +2

      I lost my dad in 2017. Miss him everyday. I'm sorry for your loss

    • @envyandgreed15
      @envyandgreed15 3 дня назад +3

      I feel that my mil passed away at 50 . Just a couple yrs ago.

    • @justinramalingum
      @justinramalingum 3 дня назад +1

      I lost my dad in 2021. He was 62. I miss him alot

    • @sonjak6693
      @sonjak6693 2 дня назад

      I lost my mom when i was 26, she is gone since 2013 now, short period before her 61st birthday she passed away. My Dad was always alone since then, he followed her almost to the day 10 years later last year. He died April 30th 2023, my Mom May 7th 2013.
      I miss both so badly, but both kept their inner child alive.

  • @CaneToad000
    @CaneToad000 9 дней назад +21

    I am 25 years old, by watching this video I was touched and appreciated my life more because I still have a lot of time to prepare for my old age

  • @Saltyboi_14
    @Saltyboi_14 29 дней назад +28123

    My grandad talks about how it feels like he’s not old and even gets annoyed at other old people for being slow until he sees himself in the mirror. This really put it into a great perspective. Well done.

    • @automagicashie
      @automagicashie 29 дней назад +779

      Noted. Destroy all mirrors after age 55. Key to eternal life

    • @charliechurch5004
      @charliechurch5004 29 дней назад +423

      My granny used to say "I don't feel old" 😞 she would say "I look in the mirror and think who is that old lady?" 😞

    • @Tokyoghoul4life
      @Tokyoghoul4life 29 дней назад +24

      Shit

    • @Tokyoghoul4life
      @Tokyoghoul4life 29 дней назад +6

      ​@au😂😂😂😂😂😂tomagicashie

    • @Caoimhin93
      @Caoimhin93 28 дней назад +6

      ​@@automagicashie nice 😂😂😂

  • @Jiamil
    @Jiamil 26 дней назад +12196

    A 70year old friend of mine said at 30 you kind of stop feeling you are aging and every morning in front of the mirror, you are reminded of how the time has passed.

    • @susan7775
      @susan7775 26 дней назад +279

      I can vouch for that. Mentally I don’t feel old, physically is another matter

    • @Crazywaffle5150
      @Crazywaffle5150 26 дней назад +166

      @@susan7775 I'm 32 and feel the same as I did at 25.

    • @ComplexConfiguration
      @ComplexConfiguration 26 дней назад +139

      @@Crazywaffle5150 40's is when you start aging FR tbh. 30's are still young person .. ;) Enjoy.

    • @NOSTahlgia
      @NOSTahlgia 26 дней назад +100

      Even when I was 27 years old people thought I was 21, 22. Once I turned 30 I really started seeing my appearance catching up with my age, but from the inside I haven't aged a day. Sometimes I realize I can recall memories of my younger years better than I can the last week

    • @squishy_Rio
      @squishy_Rio 26 дней назад +8

      Fuuuuuuuuuuuuuuh for reals man wtf

  • @anthonylandingham7163
    @anthonylandingham7163 9 дней назад +23

    This is by far the best, most emotional touching piece you have created.

  • @TheMidlerBet
    @TheMidlerBet 9 дней назад +15

    Having the Dad in the window reflection was a subtle Hollywood move

  • @GamingintheAM0801
    @GamingintheAM0801 23 дня назад +5971

    Didn't expect this to hit. I'm only 34, not that old, but in my head, it feels like I'm still 17. Life gets ahead of us.

    • @Izanagioomikami
      @Izanagioomikami 23 дня назад

      Ahahahah! You old fart ! (I'm 33)

    • @CHEWYUMFAT
      @CHEWYUMFAT 23 дня назад +118

      When you're 40 buy yourself a motorcycle. It will kick you like 10 years back at least :-D

    • @yobimobi2736
      @yobimobi2736 23 дня назад +64

      I'm 17 and still think I'm 14

    • @user-sy2mt3fr7j
      @user-sy2mt3fr7j 23 дня назад +62

      Im 30 and feel like 45

    • @davidt0504
      @davidt0504 23 дня назад +50

      Dude same. I'm 34 and I think about time passing faster and faster just about every day.

  • @susanjohnson9795
    @susanjohnson9795 10 дней назад +2091

    This is so true. 73 and I'm always surprised by the mirror. I'm about 35 in my head. It goes fast enjoy where you are.

    • @lyricjohnson7638
      @lyricjohnson7638 6 дней назад +41

      We literally should live to at least 120 year, but because of the type of food, water, air and other things I won't mention, if we see 80 we're considered blessed

    • @Fahad-21
      @Fahad-21 6 дней назад +20

      I wish humans didn't have to go through the cycle of life and just stopped aging at one point. I mean aging is meant to be a deterioration of your bodily features. Maybe there will be a future someday where humans solve that problem? Either way, I wish you long life and prosperity.

    • @RenegadeRukus
      @RenegadeRukus 5 дней назад +5

      Dang, I'll be 35 this yeah... though I feel like I'm probably 50+ after a decade of Military service and being in some motor vehicle accidents. 😅

    • @eangapala
      @eangapala 5 дней назад +4

      ​@@Fahad-21 without death or getting age life would be meaningless

    • @OsvaldoBayerista
      @OsvaldoBayerista 5 дней назад

      Thank you sir

  • @nordicfalcon
    @nordicfalcon 9 дней назад +8

    The reflections, the older man hand picking up the quarter, the open sign hiding his face and hinting at a white beard, and then the camera before she takes the photo. Holy crap this was well done.

  • @ladybug461961
    @ladybug461961 9 дней назад +8

    So true! Im 59 soon to be 60 but often i feel like im still in 30's... until someone younger is so sweet showing respect because im "old". Lol

  • @mikebennis77
    @mikebennis77 28 дней назад +12660

    This is absolutely true. I’m 46 this year and I have this perception that I’m still 22.

    • @bennoreuter4393
      @bennoreuter4393 27 дней назад

      Dude I am 70 and I date 19yo girls, fuck that mentality.

    • @shizuxo
      @shizuxo 27 дней назад +224

      love you man stay like that

    • @tilda3316
      @tilda3316 27 дней назад +240

      I'm almost 40 but I'm definitely always about 26.

    • @jamesv4463
      @jamesv4463 27 дней назад +41

      I think that's a good thing

    • @brandongaysr.4922
      @brandongaysr.4922 27 дней назад +291

      I'm 37 and still look for the adults when I walk into a room.

  • @Nighturz
    @Nighturz 19 дней назад +5554

    Details.. when he picked up the coin his hand was the old mans.. when walking into the diner, relfection was the old man. This was deep and real. Thank you so much.

    • @richbeach9664
      @richbeach9664 18 дней назад +25

      Wonderfully spotted.

    • @yuemcoy835
      @yuemcoy835 18 дней назад +41

      You can also see the reflection behind him when he goes to grab the coin

    • @moiouimoi3858
      @moiouimoi3858 18 дней назад +16

      On the phone when she takes the picture, too !

    • @Fobia17
      @Fobia17 18 дней назад +10

      When they first cut to the crosswalk, too

    • @djkiltech
      @djkiltech 17 дней назад +3

      Came here to comment about those exact details. And the phone screen when she takes the picture, during the shot over her shoulder.

  • @dcf476
    @dcf476 7 дней назад +3

    This was my nan, never wanted to be a bother to anyone, very self managed in every way. Lived in her own home that granddad and her bought till she was 101, lived with my dad till she was 103, never asked for help, went to a nursing home, even on her 106th birthday she laughed and joked that she's 21 again. She made it to 106 and 3 months, an absolute trooper of a woman. Miss you nan❤

  • @emilyjoeblow9755
    @emilyjoeblow9755 6 дней назад +1

    That’s how it goes, man. My Son is turning 18 this year. Which is crazy because it still feels like I just had him yesterday! 🥺

  • @ekowcrent1246
    @ekowcrent1246 24 дня назад +3031

    This is not a skit.
    It’s deeply philosophical and artistic as it is.
    Thank you 🙏

    • @nekad2000
      @nekad2000 24 дня назад +5

      They could have used someone who's closer to 84 though. You're 55? Perfect for the part!

    • @DavidMark-jk5yk
      @DavidMark-jk5yk 24 дня назад +2

      ​@@nekad2000he's still pretty young honestly...

    • @MissKitten-gt4zb
      @MissKitten-gt4zb 24 дня назад +4

      They do another skit where his daughter is pregnant sitting at a bus stop. He forgets that it’s his daughter and it shows her talking to him like they’ve never met before.

    • @UnanimousDelivers
      @UnanimousDelivers 23 дня назад +1

      It's a good film but I think you're lowering the bar for what's "deep"

    • @ekowcrent1246
      @ekowcrent1246 17 дней назад +2

      @@UnanimousDelivers I believe using the word “deep” in this context is purely subjective. You could use that word in a different situation and someone else would disagree with your choice of words.

  • @MM2009
    @MM2009 25 дней назад +4659

    That's life no matter how old are you, you always feel 20 years old inside, your body just not catching up... Happy birthday seniors.

    • @buuuuuh365
      @buuuuuh365 25 дней назад +2

      eww

    • @Text-SpeechStories
      @Text-SpeechStories 25 дней назад +39

      ​@@buuuuuh365wdym ewww?

    • @Text-SpeechStories
      @Text-SpeechStories 25 дней назад

      ​@@buuuuuh365you just a dirty mind person

    • @manfredmichael_3ia097
      @manfredmichael_3ia097 25 дней назад +3

      3 minutes ago ahh comments

    • @buuuuuh365
      @buuuuuh365 25 дней назад

      @@Text-SpeechStories Idk, but that kinda stuff is what pedos say: "Oh, we are just kids trapped in an old person's body." Like you are old, be old. How can you feel 20 when you are 70 LMAO.

  • @DXnationmember
    @DXnationmember 4 дня назад +2

    So beautiful! You just proved that you can make us cry two different ways. I can from laughing and now I cried because of how beautiful and true this is!

  • @LuchaMenos
    @LuchaMenos 9 дней назад +7

    This truly got me, aging like this...I´m 12 and still feel like I was 5. I can still remember those toddler friends I hung out with. Time does fly by real quick. Thank you for this.

    • @Fahad-21
      @Fahad-21 6 дней назад

      Yeah even now I'm in my early 20s and I wish I could play with high schoolers and have fun again, but when I look in the mirror I'm an adult who has lived experience that changes how I am allowed to think, nothing is simple anymore. Thank you for sharing your story, little one.

    • @Matchoochannel
      @Matchoochannel 5 дней назад

      @@Fahad-21 Yeah 26 here it doesnt get any better you realize that even hanging out with younger adults 18,19,20. I'd rather be hanging out with older folks 30, 40 plus folks, actually relate more to be honest. and even more relatable if you have kids.

  • @realNoMee
    @realNoMee 27 дней назад +4171

    The constant in between shots where you can just barely spot his "real" age is some stellar foreshadowing.

    • @lockl00p27
      @lockl00p27 26 дней назад +142

      And the glass. His reflection shows his “real age”

    • @sajidismail755
      @sajidismail755 26 дней назад +42

      This comment needs to be pinned. I didn’t even notice till you said it!

    • @swtvic
      @swtvic 26 дней назад +12

      oh i just noticed, nice details

    • @orilio3311
      @orilio3311 26 дней назад +6

      Seriously tho

    • @xaurelienhancoux
      @xaurelienhancoux 26 дней назад +15

      Topnotch editing right there!
      It's obvious on second watch, but it means it worked subliminally 😮 awesome!
      And don't get me started on the feels 😊😢😅 everyone can relate!

  • @TimeWarpKing
    @TimeWarpKing 25 дней назад +1773

    My fucking heart. You did more in 60 seconds than most movies do with 90 minutes.

    • @idehenebenezer802
      @idehenebenezer802 25 дней назад +16

      Jesus saves! Repent and turn away from your sins today.

    • @krepsak3399
      @krepsak3399 25 дней назад +31

      @@idehenebenezer802 goo goo gah gah RAAAH

    • @r3d0c
      @r3d0c 25 дней назад

      what shitty movies do you watch

    • @abizzle7504
      @abizzle7504 25 дней назад +6

      Right!!??! Like I'm not trying to cry at work guys, come on....

    • @GoldenDragonGod
      @GoldenDragonGod 25 дней назад +3

      @@idehenebenezer802I think u should be the first one in to do so! Do the exact same words u say!

  • @anthonyjohnston3851
    @anthonyjohnston3851 4 дня назад +4

    my dad said he knew he was old when he fell while working and people said "are you ok" , " let me help you up". He said that was the first time he fell and people didn't laugh or call him a " dumbass" jokingly.

  • @jcchandley
    @jcchandley 3 дня назад +1

    This made me burst into tears. I know this well. I’m turning seventy in August and this is exactly my life now. In my mind I’m the same as I ever was.

  • @Swoleminer71
    @Swoleminer71 25 дней назад +2834

    52 and this is 100% legit. I've watched this one over and over.

    • @DaveRusso
      @DaveRusso 25 дней назад +7

      51

    • @GizmoMaltese
      @GizmoMaltese 25 дней назад +12

      Same. It's depressing to think about.

    • @danif620
      @danif620 24 дня назад +7

      ​@@GizmoMalteseDepressing and Blessing at the same time.

    • @starkidforlife136
      @starkidforlife136 24 дня назад +9

      Seeing white hairs on your own head is a major sign that your time is running out and that you need to find your creator before the day you can’t return for a second chance

    • @huntercoleherr
      @huntercoleherr 24 дня назад +1

      Shit, and here I am feeling ancient at 41...

  • @NotoriousWhistler
    @NotoriousWhistler 22 дня назад +1500

    Wow, I didn't even notice all the little glimpses until my second watch. This is honestly so well made.

    • @criticaldatabeats
      @criticaldatabeats 21 день назад +36

      The reflection in the window was a good one.

    • @deltavega9203
      @deltavega9203 21 день назад +37

      The aged knuckles picking up the coin was my first clue.

    • @nveptunes
      @nveptunes 21 день назад +9

      when she took the picture on her phone - that was brilliant

    • @___idk
      @___idk 20 дней назад

      ....

  • @blitzblast8554
    @blitzblast8554 День назад +1

    bro, It just hit me in the feels...
    I lost my grandmother 1 month and 12 days ago.
    Everyone in the neighborhood loved her, she was the "friendly" neighbor for everyone.
    This video just brought back so many memories with her. Thank you.

  • @Hello_noobs120
    @Hello_noobs120 День назад +1

    omg the foreshadowing on the mirror when entering the store is amazing

  • @troy.s
    @troy.s 25 дней назад +2333

    53 and I feel this 100%.
    Some days, I feel my age more than others, but in my mind, I'm still in my 20's or 30's.

    • @triskits_mmm
      @triskits_mmm 25 дней назад

      Oh my gosh you baby. Man up.

    • @gyaniadmi2347
      @gyaniadmi2347 25 дней назад +47

      That is true, I am 45 I still feel like 25 , I even see myself in mirror as a 25 year old

    • @italianduded1161
      @italianduded1161 25 дней назад +10

      Never give up sir!!!! I always tell this to my uncle, never think stuff like “maybe in my next life” or stuff like that, you want it!? You get it!!!
      💪🏻💪🏻💪🏻💪🏻never give up.

    • @tsavage4337
      @tsavage4337 25 дней назад +12

      Take care of yourself and life will reward. My dad is in his 60s and still works his excavating job shoveling with my brother and I, hammering cement, and picking up logs and brick. Usually he’s in the excavator but when he hops down to help with the hand work you’d think him more fit than most 20-30 yr olds. It’s a shame people think after 30 or so they just become unable to do physical activity and can’t stay fit for much longer. Truth is, human bodies are very adaptable even in older age.

    • @MrBigMoneyMan909
      @MrBigMoneyMan909 25 дней назад +15

      As a 26 year old man, I’ll make sure to be extra thankful for my youth and to do my best not to squander it.

  • @brandyb2931
    @brandyb2931 25 дней назад +2556

    My dad always said "my body is getting old, but in my mind, I'm still 25." He passed January 30, 2020. He developed Lewy Body dementia and it ravaged him quickly. He was very intelligent, so we noticed things quickly were going wrong. He hated what was happening to him. He was the smartest and strongest man I have ever known, and that disease stole who he was from him. When he passed, he had aged 30 years. He deserved to grow to be an old man. He loved life, and his passing left an enormous hole in our family that has still not been filled. I miss him so much.

    • @gassyalways
      @gassyalways 25 дней назад +15

      😢

    • @dots-gastly3369
      @dots-gastly3369 25 дней назад +27

      Dude love and respect for you and your family😢❤

    • @AmitRozee
      @AmitRozee 25 дней назад +20

      The space for self growth is as big as the horizon...grow into the example he was and surpass it...he sounds like a great man worth remembering.

    • @techlonizer
      @techlonizer 25 дней назад +10

      You have my deepest sympathies for the loss of a precious comrade of yours.

    • @Acidburn1155
      @Acidburn1155 25 дней назад +6

      Man, rest in piece.

  • @annarodriguez9868
    @annarodriguez9868 4 дня назад +1

    I'm almost 77 and don't feel old, but my mirror has a problem! 😂
    I'm blessed with good health and still have a spring in my step and don't were make-up, only a smile on my face. 😉
    Peace and blessings to all ❤

  • @TheLostScout
    @TheLostScout 7 дней назад +1

    “This could be my last birthday huh?” Hits deep

  • @bobbomcgee9958
    @bobbomcgee9958 24 дня назад +1124

    Having the old man in the reflection is peak cinematography for a RUclips short

    • @thatminer7174
      @thatminer7174 24 дня назад +17

      Didnt notice that, thats smart

    • @izzyviridian1485
      @izzyviridian1485 24 дня назад +24

      Hands too. And some cut away shots.

    • @xavxavxavxav
      @xavxavxavxav 24 дня назад +4

      i didn't notice. amazing catch!

    • @dukitcher
      @dukitcher 24 дня назад +2

      This is comment, this is what I came here for

    • @maw5646
      @maw5646 24 дня назад +3

      He’s actually sprinkled all throughout the video.

  • @LilyNaahma
    @LilyNaahma 23 дня назад +2299

    THE REFLECTIONS IN THE WINDOW SHOWING THE ELDER IS PERFECTION. This made me start crying.

    • @sethf2258
      @sethf2258 23 дня назад +18

      Fr this short is so well made

    • @Kaleb-fi8vz
      @Kaleb-fi8vz 23 дня назад +15

      I had to go back this is some insane detail

    • @jehrieltv8066
      @jehrieltv8066 23 дня назад +2

      Fr real details

    • @ChefChiron
      @ChefChiron 23 дня назад +13

      the hand picking up the coin is also old

    • @shepardog8180
      @shepardog8180 22 дня назад +1

      I didn't even notice that oh my god😢

  • @Sewak_Singh.
    @Sewak_Singh. 4 дня назад +1

    This hit me right in the feels 😊

  • @mrseenyousomewhere888
    @mrseenyousomewhere888 6 дней назад +1

    I’m not a sensitive person but this legit made me tear up

  • @Sentientpotatoh
    @Sentientpotatoh 24 дня назад +1552

    My dad passed away last year at 70. He always said he felt like he was still in his 20s-30s in his mind and would be shocked he wasnt young anymore when something held him back. I miss him every single day. Im so lucky to have had such and amazing father.

    • @littleharry7977
      @littleharry7977 23 дня назад +15

      I’m sorry for your loss your father sounds like a great man ❤️

    • @vigi86
      @vigi86 23 дня назад +4

    • @camman18fanformission
      @camman18fanformission 23 дня назад +4

      I'm sorry for your loss... ❤

    • @crustydownunder
      @crustydownunder 23 дня назад +6

      My dad died a year ago at age 92. He said he still felt like 18. He never looked old, he was very fit and could still run and do chin-ups in his 80s. I can't say he was a great dad, he was mean and cruel, even so, I still miss him.

    • @Sentientpotatoh
      @Sentientpotatoh 23 дня назад +5

      @crustydownunder I understand that. My mom was a terror. She died when I was 21 and I still grieved her terribly.
      My dad was by no means fit towards the end of his life, his health failed over his last decade of life. It frustrated him greatly especially as it became harder for him to walk without pain. He passed so peacefully in his sleep. Just went to take a nap one day and didn't wake up. May we all be so blessed to go that way. 🙏

  • @zacharyrollick6169
    @zacharyrollick6169 19 дней назад +2342

    84 and walking the town with full independence is a major landmark of health.

    • @deathbloom27
      @deathbloom27 16 дней назад +63

      I work at a retirement facility and some of the things these people do is crazy. There's one resident that I didn't even realize was a resident, I thought he was an employee! He not only was always in the fitness center working out, but he was constantly walking around in the building or outside, I'd see him walking in town, he worked as a dish washer in a nearby restaurant. He looks like he's in his late 50s, MAYBE early 60s. Turns out. He's 80!

    • @user-zt7vb9kt8l
      @user-zt7vb9kt8l 16 дней назад +4

      Can't be that crazy the president is 81.

    • @ege8240
      @ege8240 16 дней назад +9

      ​@@user-zt7vb9kt8lthere is no such thing as the president. there are lots of presidents, you need to clarify the country

    • @MagickArcher
      @MagickArcher 15 дней назад +18

      ​@@ege8240If they say "The president" assume they're from the US, most of us like to think we're the only country on the internet

    • @Ren_load
      @Ren_load 15 дней назад +4

      ​@@MagickArcher yeah, truly one of those 'muricah moment (im from boston btw, so no hate)

  • @maryb.8432
    @maryb.8432 22 часа назад

    Oh this made me tear 😢. I wish him many more healthy and blessed years. We need more people like this wonderful dad.

  • @streetraceralex556
    @streetraceralex556 8 дней назад +1

    This is the true meaning of time going so fast 😭

  • @Barfield-cg7iq
    @Barfield-cg7iq 26 дней назад +2071

    I'm 67 and in my head I'm the same as I was thirty years ago although my back hurts more. The other day for the first time ever a guy offered me his seat on the tram. I was both delighted and devastated in equal measure.

    • @KR0OK
      @KR0OK 26 дней назад +66

      This is exactly how I felt the first time someone called me sir

    • @user-gx5lo6yu2i
      @user-gx5lo6yu2i 26 дней назад +5

      Did you accept the seat on the tram? Or graciously declined like the video guy?😢

    • @jawanation1850
      @jawanation1850 26 дней назад +6

      Take this slow Gramps, Don't let it ruin your day!

    • @rayane2835
      @rayane2835 26 дней назад

      I know your ass is not 67

    • @ABombs1
      @ABombs1 26 дней назад +3

      My back already hurts, not looking forward to that future!

  • @CL-bm7bs
    @CL-bm7bs 25 дней назад +2273

    One of the best things I ever watched. Very well done. I am 67 this year and I see myself as a 25 or 30 years old at most, but the freaken body and face belong to a stranger. Life is really short. When we are young we're so happy and think that everything is still ahead, and at some point in life we realize that everything is already behind. Thank you for your vid

    • @idehenebenezer802
      @idehenebenezer802 25 дней назад +31

      Jesus saves! Repent and turn away from your sins today.

    • @panteleymonschekochikhin-k1978
      @panteleymonschekochikhin-k1978 25 дней назад +57

      Fuck me this is sad. I have to get the most out of my 20's while I still can.

    • @rewindlly
      @rewindlly 25 дней назад +41

      @@idehenebenezer802 cringe

    • @travelstories2529
      @travelstories2529 25 дней назад +17

      @@idehenebenezer802jesus is not god, he’s just a messenger of god, Allah is god. Turn to allah before you return to Allah… christianity id so messed up so many versions of bible, understand this, learn about islam and accept it.

    • @roo9642
      @roo9642 25 дней назад +1

      ​@@travelstories2529 Islam is demonic, dead and false. Research more about your own religion, once you learn enough of its lies you will want to leave yourself.

  • @northeasttakos
    @northeasttakos 8 дней назад +1

    I was 17 last day and now I am two five ..make your heart young that I learned by this video...years is nothing

  • @alexthecat136
    @alexthecat136 3 дня назад +1

    Yo this song and the lesson made me cry

  • @DancingArmadillo
    @DancingArmadillo 10 дней назад +173

    When my mom turned 82, I asked her if she felt 82. She said that if she wasn't in so much pain, she'd feel young again. She died a year later. This video is amazing. Well done, my friend.

  • @__seeker__
    @__seeker__ 29 дней назад +3150

    That’s the thing about getting old. People start to see you in a way you don’t see yourself. It’s extremely alienating. No one thinks it’ll happen to them, but it always does.

    • @ytj22
      @ytj22 29 дней назад +34

      If everything goes well it does...

    • @kruz2727ify
      @kruz2727ify 28 дней назад

      Hey!! Let me live in my own youthful fantasy. Take your filet knifed tongue onwards to the next clip.

    • @RedragonReviews
      @RedragonReviews 28 дней назад +41

      Jesus that was deep bro. You definitely right man... I remember when I was 20 feels like couple weeks ago.. now next month I'm turning 32 I'm like wtf happened.... Jesus.... Life is wild

    • @Skiesoutthightsout89
      @Skiesoutthightsout89 28 дней назад +20

      Not me! I’ll never get old! Because healthcare is too expensive ill prolly die in my 30s lol

    • @vivianloney
      @vivianloney 28 дней назад +12

      My mom's been talking about it happening to her at work. I had to do a double take, but she's a few years from retirement. I have to look at old photos of her when I was a kid to see how she's aged.

  • @samiux4
    @samiux4 23 часа назад

    I love that you and your father make content together its very heartwarming

  • @marcodeluca8207
    @marcodeluca8207 3 дня назад

    A tiny piece of art, it's magic and heartwarming. Thank you, guys. Beautiful....

  • @holliemichailidis2951
    @holliemichailidis2951 22 дня назад +1685

    It is a privilege to grow old.
    My grandfather died before I was born at 47 years of age.
    I also worked in aged care. Many say in their mind they are young, its just their body has aged.
    Its sad but everyone time comes to an end.

    • @Brodison5684
      @Brodison5684 21 день назад +3

      I think he’s 𝕘𝕠𝕥 dementia

    • @shelbyb425
      @shelbyb425 21 день назад +8

      Ik this is serious but it really got me with the "before I was born at 47 years of age" 💀

    • @holliemichailidis2951
      @holliemichailidis2951 21 день назад

      @@Brodison5684 ..pardon?
      People with dementia go back through the years. One minute they think they are a mother then the next a school girl.
      They've still lived long lives mostly. One woman was in a constant state of happiness. She was just always happy.
      Dementia is sad but it doesn't need to be scary.

    • @holliemichailidis2951
      @holliemichailidis2951 21 день назад +1

      @@shelbyb425 😅 yeah should have put a comma or new sentence. But currently I have the flu so it'll do.

    • @holliemichailidis2951
      @holliemichailidis2951 21 день назад

      @@LeeroyFan101 so sorry for your friend, you and her loved ones. Yes, life can be cruelly cut short. Again my condolences.

  • @julieleech8214
    @julieleech8214 25 дней назад +800

    This made me cry because I understand it so clearly . I'm 62, and time goes so quickly

    • @idehenebenezer802
      @idehenebenezer802 25 дней назад +9

      Jesus saves! Repent and turn away from your sins today.

    • @stevonico
      @stevonico 25 дней назад

      @@idehenebenezer802no

    • @Dev_095
      @Dev_095 25 дней назад

      Why does this sounds like you trying sell him Christianity ​@@idehenebenezer802

    • @MrFuzziiWuzzii
      @MrFuzziiWuzzii 25 дней назад +1

      @idehenebenezer802
      No u

    • @MrFuzziiWuzzii
      @MrFuzziiWuzzii 25 дней назад +4

      @idehenebenezer802
      Christ > Jesus 💯

  • @stevenashworth9582
    @stevenashworth9582 День назад

    100% correct. I’m only 53 but I feel and act like I’m in thirty. God bless

  • @malbisitradingcompany1868
    @malbisitradingcompany1868 3 часа назад

    I'm 27. I took a deep breath after watching this. That feeling 😢

  • @azbeaux
    @azbeaux 27 дней назад +1497

    This is so true. How we see ourselves when we get old is entirely different to how we actually are.

    • @pbonfanti
      @pbonfanti 26 дней назад +13

      Very true, but physical pain is the way nature tells you are not more that young.

    • @Starteller
      @Starteller 26 дней назад +5

      Ya, but the mirror and the pain keep reminding us.

    • @JohnH108
      @JohnH108 26 дней назад +2

      How others see us is entirely different to how we actually are.

    • @blurgle9185
      @blurgle9185 25 дней назад

      I find this only to be true for people with poor self-awareness.

    • @idehenebenezer802
      @idehenebenezer802 25 дней назад

      Jesus saves! Repent and turn away from your sins today.

  • @pamelawalls1897
    @pamelawalls1897 3 дня назад

    I started crying at this. I'm only 56 but I do feel like this everytime I look in the mirror and everytime I go out for anything. People are so polite to you but they have no idea how that makes a person feel!!!

  • @scarygamer1778
    @scarygamer1778 4 дня назад

    I watched this like a week ago, came back to send it to a friend and STILL ENDED UP IN TEARS AGAIN. i knew what was coming and it still got me. This is wonderfully made.

  • @sweetpealee056
    @sweetpealee056 18 дней назад +485

    Yep! This is exactly how it feels! I'm 70 and disabled now but I'm still that optimistic 17 year old in my soul! Thank you for making this 👍🫶✌️

    • @alegoncalves472
      @alegoncalves472 14 дней назад +13

      May God bless you and grant you a lot of good, happiness and a long fulfilling life!!! 😊🤗🤗🤗

    • @LYJManchesterUnited
      @LYJManchesterUnited 13 дней назад +4

      Oh dear and I thought it gets easier to let go, I’m only 30

    • @Guzmananinmates7077
      @Guzmananinmates7077 12 дней назад +6

      This man has the vibes of that one cool grandpa that follows latest trends💀😭

    • @Gorebox_kenzie_wuz_here
      @Gorebox_kenzie_wuz_here 10 дней назад +1

      god bless you Mrs

    • @sweetpealee056
      @sweetpealee056 10 дней назад +2

      @@Gorebox_kenzie_wuz_here ummm, ima gramma!🤣🤣🤣

  • @Iamskibidiman
    @Iamskibidiman 24 дня назад +1154

    THE MIRROR REFLECTIONS WERE SUCH A GREAT TOUCH 😭😭
    Edit: Also if you look closely, in every shot which isn't showing his face, is him shown as in his older self. Such as hands, body, shadow, picture.

    • @Laffytaffy0719
      @Laffytaffy0719 24 дня назад +2

      Fr

    • @Rosie_macaroni
      @Rosie_macaroni 24 дня назад +7

      i didnt even notice

    • @wifsk484
      @wifsk484 24 дня назад +1

      Holy shit youre right thats quite awesome ngl

    • @Rivalunknown
      @Rivalunknown 24 дня назад +1

      Those are windows, but yea it’s a great touch

    • @mollymauk4313
      @mollymauk4313 24 дня назад +1

      Same thing while she is taking the photo, they put a lot of detail into this

  • @rhiilo
    @rhiilo 2 дня назад

    The hand, the reflection, the hidden face. Wow. Beautiful video.

  • @arup7775
    @arup7775 6 дней назад

    Shorts got the strenght of bringing tears out

  • @suen5006
    @suen5006 26 дней назад +1771

    This is so true. Time goes fast and you don't perceive that you are really older.

    • @alonelymouse5293
      @alonelymouse5293 25 дней назад +2

      i think he has dementia

    • @HeraldoftheMEME
      @HeraldoftheMEME 25 дней назад +19

      ​@@alonelymouse5293nah this is something we think about all the time as we get older and then one day it just hits you like a cannon ball. Especially if you haven't done much with your life or have worked your ass off most of it without stopping to spend enough time with your loved ones ...

    • @johnsennett8557
      @johnsennett8557 25 дней назад +5

      ​@HeraldoftheMEME so true. And when you have kids and see them grow up you realize the amount of time that goes by 😢

    • @TrenchbabyMel203
      @TrenchbabyMel203 25 дней назад +3

      @@johnsennett8557 Tell me about it I'm 30 now and can't believe it. My daughter will be 13 this year smh. I'm feeling old, and the young guys calling me unc when they find out my age doesn't help

    • @nollets
      @nollets 25 дней назад +3

      Around 2012 or so, my great-grandfather was in the hospital for something that I don't quite remember. I think pneumonia, but not sure, I was like 10 at the time. What I do remember though, is that he was put with the elderly people, and his reaction to that was "look where they put me, between all the old people". He was most likely the oldest in the entire hospital wing lol, at a nice 97 years of age!
      He definitely felt younger than he was. Sadly, he didn't live too long after that, he died maybe a year later, max.

  • @nicweiss9564
    @nicweiss9564 22 дня назад +446

    Time goes by a lot faster than we think. I lost 3 grandparents in a year, and each funeral was the last time I saw the next one. Time is precious, enjoy every moment you can get

    • @Heitmotivation
      @Heitmotivation 21 день назад +6

      That's heartbreaking ....hope you are doing well❤..RIP your grandparents 😢

    • @nowonmetube
      @nowonmetube 21 день назад

      Wait... 3?

    • @nicweiss9564
      @nicweiss9564 21 день назад +2

      @@nowonmetube 2 maternal grandparents and 1 paternal

    • @PriyadharshiniIndhira
      @PriyadharshiniIndhira 21 день назад

      This comment hurts somewhere deep😢

    • @jakegenocide
      @jakegenocide 21 день назад

      ​@nowonmetube Well, you have your mother's parents and your father's parents, then if they every had to remarry, you have step grandparents.

  • @Cpez007
    @Cpez007 7 дней назад

    That’s really good!! My dad is nearing 80. He says he might look old, but he still feels like a young man inside.

  • @CharizardChase
    @CharizardChase 6 часов назад

    Im 22, and already feel exhausted. I dont understand how some have made it to 80 physically. Especially working in the trades. Congrats on 84, really a miracle every day any of us are here

  • @JasonKB
    @JasonKB 29 дней назад +671

    Are there Emmys for RUclips Shorts? Because this should win.

    • @IDrawToothpicks
      @IDrawToothpicks 28 дней назад +9

      Absolutely 😭🩷

    • @neilrivera4194
      @neilrivera4194 28 дней назад +5

      I would vote for this 😭

    • @miamitten1123
      @miamitten1123 27 дней назад +10

      Should win an Oscar for best short film. Technically it qualifies as it’s over 1minute.

    • @blurgle9185
      @blurgle9185 25 дней назад +1

      This is hardly original and it is way too cheese to win.

    • @idehenebenezer802
      @idehenebenezer802 25 дней назад +1

      Jesus saves! Repent and turn away from your sins today.

  • @karthik_6938
    @karthik_6938 25 дней назад +630

    You can see his old aged reflection in the shop mirror...
    The detailing! You really touched our hearts❤❤❤

    • @pattiepepper6217
      @pattiepepper6217 25 дней назад +19

      Yeah and the hand when he picks up the coin.

    • @karthik_6938
      @karthik_6938 25 дней назад +1

      ​@@pattiepepper6217oh yea! Didn't notice that

    • @darioidk2508
      @darioidk2508 25 дней назад

      you don't say

    • @KrissySaturday
      @KrissySaturday 25 дней назад +1

      And the shadow on the sidewalk

    • @SgtTom
      @SgtTom 25 дней назад +1

      Great eye for the details!

  • @jahleesaking6101
    @jahleesaking6101 6 дней назад +1

    I look forward to using all my senior discounts aging is a blessing

  • @Toqom
    @Toqom 4 дня назад

    Most wholesome content from these guys, love it.

  • @TheYankee2221
    @TheYankee2221 13 дней назад +880

    I just lost my grandma a couple of weeks ago to dementia. She always got confused and talked about how she was a teenager and needed to get across the river so she could go into town and have some fun. She wasn’t really all there anymore but it was still a shock to lose someone so close and important to me. This video is beautiful and really touched me. Thank you, have a blessed day.

    • @KaydenK-rz9cx
      @KaydenK-rz9cx 8 дней назад +11

      Rip grandma, may she rest in peace 🙏🏽

    • @imranbharadia8806
      @imranbharadia8806 8 дней назад +4

      I just lost mine a couple days ago to the same thing. This hits pretty hard. I feel your pain.

    • @SeanF180
      @SeanF180 8 дней назад +3

      Prayers with you guys 🙏🏼

    • @karentucker2161
      @karentucker2161 7 дней назад +1

      She was thinking about her past and probably wanted to go back too. Insit with someone who has dementia and had a aunt who had it when inwas a kid. Neither one of them does that. It just makes me thinknshebwas closer to death than you realize when shebwas doing that. Old people tends to do that around that time. Or at least that is my experience. We had to take care of several older people in the family and that part seems to be very common.

    • @cassh2220
      @cassh2220 6 дней назад

      May she rest in peace 🙏

  • @ChampionCynthia493
    @ChampionCynthia493 21 день назад +203

    I am working at a retirementhome as a nurse on a station with people who all have dementia and it seems like this is what they go through all the time... some of them being in their 90's saying "tomorrow i will visit my parents" and everytime i hear that i can't let them face reality and lie because it would be horrible to say "they are dead and you are 94 years old" or even ask them how old they think they are... sometimes one of them who can not stand up anymore says they want to go home just for me to reply with something like "i am sorry you are at the hospital and you can not stand up at the moment. We need to take care of you the next days" or something like that. Sometimes a nurse has to be very very creative the way they talk with elderly people and even more with from dementia suffering people. It can be hard to keep an illusion alive just so people do not have a worse time.

    • @tonymagona334
      @tonymagona334 18 дней назад +10

      You’re an angel to all these people, bless you ❤

  • @RealTalk309
    @RealTalk309 3 дня назад

    One of the best shorts I’ve ever watched, thank you Mcfarlands.

  • @jamestaggart2955
    @jamestaggart2955 7 дней назад

    That hit...THAT REALLY REALLY HIT....HOME. I can truly relate to this perspective. If you pay close attention, you will see images of his father in the background of each vignette. This short was masterfully crafted and evoked a lot of reflection. Well done. Well done, indeed.

  • @RRC5074
    @RRC5074 27 дней назад +1465

    That hit the feels..... Thanks for helping me understand what seniors experience

    • @Ki-Lessons
      @Ki-Lessons 26 дней назад +12

      Live your life backwards, and there will be no surprises.
      Truly, plan backwards from your own passing.
      It's powerful :)

    • @Brauljo
      @Brauljo 26 дней назад +5

      ​@@Ki-Lessons¿hwət dəz lɪviŋ bækwərdz ivɪn min? brow θiŋks hi'z benʤəmɪn bəʔɪn ər səmθiŋ

    • @Ki-Lessons
      @Ki-Lessons 26 дней назад +6

      ​@@Brauljo I like the phonetic and IPA foreign language trick. Nice.
      To answer though - it means to contemplate your future, by considering heavy questions like where you will most likely die, at what age, and what things will be like then.
      Perhaps one makes it to 90. what is like life or you then, how many of your friends are also still alive. Are you lonely?
      Work backwards, 80, 70, 60, etc. It is a thought experiment, and by modelling this, what changes would one make in their life given the odds of it happening?

    • @idehenebenezer802
      @idehenebenezer802 25 дней назад +1

      Jesus saves! Repent and turn away from your sins today.

    • @Brauljo
      @Brauljo 25 дней назад

      @@idehenebenezer802 rɪporɾɪd æz spæm

  • @bekkimcgrath
    @bekkimcgrath 28 дней назад +1483

    The camera work switching to glimpses of the dad's hands, shoulder, reflection 😘 perfect

    • @Ovahlls
      @Ovahlls 27 дней назад +11

      It's actually really good for a RUclips short

    • @peaceanquiet4528
      @peaceanquiet4528 27 дней назад +11

      I didn't see the reflection at the restaurant the first time.

    • @theprophet9429
      @theprophet9429 27 дней назад +1

      Both windows too.
      Excellent

    • @MavrikUSMC
      @MavrikUSMC 27 дней назад +2

      Bro. I was trying to get out of the deep, and you come along and sink my battleship

    • @Jay-cq5qr
      @Jay-cq5qr 27 дней назад +1

      It's crazy how people can mention things about a video that aren't even in the video 🤡

  • @knife3757
    @knife3757 7 дней назад

    I actually cried. This video is so sweet

  • @supercecid
    @supercecid 4 дня назад +1

    I'm 62 a 31 year old coworker was surprised. She said I didn't move like an old person😂Then she said I didn't act like an old person either😅

  • @stevene.9858
    @stevene.9858 19 дней назад +532

    My dad passed away at 84 years old. It's been 3 years now and I still miss him everyday. ❤

    • @brucewilkey3535
      @brucewilkey3535 18 дней назад +3

      RIP Dad. My best friend and confidant. Oh how you are missed and loved. If only I could have you back even for just a short time. I would love to show you smart phones and self driving cars. I remember rolling my eyes when you told me these things should be invented. Thank you to the producer of this video. We Americans should be ashamed at how horribly we treat our grandparents/elders. 😢❤

    • @lmaomoofeq2505
      @lmaomoofeq2505 17 дней назад +1

      84 years, he did very good

    • @Skyesoceaneyes
      @Skyesoceaneyes 16 дней назад +3

      My dad died at 84 years only a few months ago. It's hard.

    • @burgersauce8941
      @burgersauce8941 12 дней назад +1

      ​@Skyesoceaneyes May he rest in peace

    • @Rytrx_x
      @Rytrx_x 11 дней назад

      Mine passed at 47, me being 13 at the time, now 14. That was september 7th 2023. Actually i dont know the full date. Or why, or how... i'm underinformed.. (if thats even a word)

  • @Raiderman227
    @Raiderman227 29 дней назад +1888

    His dads reflections in the windows is a amazing touch. What a good job. Love this family!

    • @Biiilllaaal
      @Biiilllaaal 29 дней назад +28

      Wow i didnt catch that until now

    • @Dupont728
      @Dupont728 29 дней назад +10

      And the photo on the phone!

    • @esbastianordonezordonez5313
      @esbastianordonezordonez5313 29 дней назад +12

      Not only that! But when the sign is covering his face in that same scene you can see the white beard.

    • @miacooper2307
      @miacooper2307 29 дней назад +4

      Agreed. You guys are starting to get pretty good at this thing. I don't usually scroll. But when I do. It's mcfarland feed.

    • @austinkoeppen6122
      @austinkoeppen6122 28 дней назад +6

      Also when he picks up the coin, it's his dad's hand.

  • @Scott-hf2qz
    @Scott-hf2qz 4 дня назад

    I miss my parents. I miss being young too. This made me cry. Spend as much time with your family as you can.

  • @lisaendress724
    @lisaendress724 3 дня назад +1

    Thats exactly the way it feels!

  • @anthonyquote1593
    @anthonyquote1593 25 дней назад +832

    If only shorts were that deep in meanings, people would be better.

    • @2009samiy
      @2009samiy 25 дней назад

      youtube mary and jesus in the quran and mohmmad in the bible and the Torah and the scientific miracles of the quran and mohmmad in hindu scripture

    • @AnweshNayak-ln6zf
      @AnweshNayak-ln6zf 25 дней назад +8

      ​@@2009samiywat

    • @-_-_-_-_-ImGigs-_-_-_-_-_-_-_
      @-_-_-_-_-ImGigs-_-_-_-_-_-_-_ 25 дней назад

      ​@@2009samiywhy you copying and pasting that? Weirdo

    • @arthurmorgan2688
      @arthurmorgan2688 25 дней назад

      ❤💯

    • @zeecee5881
      @zeecee5881 25 дней назад +1

      @@2009samiy blah, blah, blah

  • @martinkunst81
    @martinkunst81 24 дня назад +936

    My dad got cancer past year, he recovered and looks so much the same as this man, it really made me tear up he is still with us. Thank you for your video ❤

    • @CoentraDZ
      @CoentraDZ 24 дня назад +8

      Your dad is a hero ❤️ wishing you both a happy long life

    • @LG141602
      @LG141602 24 дня назад

      Act fast. Tell them to stop eating sugar and carbs. They're in drinks and food. Sugar feeds cancer cells. They love it. End cancer naturally by eating healthy.

    • @LavenderCat175
      @LavenderCat175 24 дня назад +3

      All of worlds love goes to you

    • @Behy.j.f
      @Behy.j.f 24 дня назад +1

      Wish both of you the best 🎉

    • @looleekon
      @looleekon 24 дня назад +2

      my dad also got cancer unfortunately he didn't make it he passed away last week I miss him so much 😢

  • @HunterOfTriedSouls
    @HunterOfTriedSouls 3 дня назад

    This one got me tearing up. 🥺 Well done. 🩵

  • @MalayalamMunches
    @MalayalamMunches 24 дня назад +481

    Omg the dedication for the vid! The reflection in every frame showed grandpa!

    • @armanlagi
      @armanlagi 23 дня назад +11

      Didn't even realized it. Thanks

    • @abosabry1622
      @abosabry1622 23 дня назад +4

      The hand picking up the coin is grandpa hand

    • @fortSMGSMG
      @fortSMGSMG 23 дня назад +2

      i saw it and thought to myself "no way this is real"

    • @LaUnicaEsperanza
      @LaUnicaEsperanza 23 дня назад

      I missed the hand, too!

    • @imbasil.x
      @imbasil.x 23 дня назад

      Malayali 🙂

  • @jonathanferrer4108
    @jonathanferrer4108 23 дня назад +1092

    This couldn't be more true, im 72 and i dont even realize how fast time is going. I am glad to be supported and i make sure to not miss a single moment with my grandkids. Always appreciate the time you have no matter what age, every second counts.

  • @jackjack1574
    @jackjack1574 4 дня назад +1

    All I can say is hold on to your younger self and enjoy being young. You're never guaranteed tomorrow.

  • @fujimoto0160
    @fujimoto0160 5 дней назад

    I am actually crying 😭😭😭
    This video touch my heart ❤️❤️❤️

  • @incontinentia3119
    @incontinentia3119 26 дней назад +920

    I'm 30 and I'm still 18 in my head. Wild and it'll only get wilder.

    • @debrawestbrook8960
      @debrawestbrook8960 25 дней назад +32

      I just turned 32 and I still feel like a teenager even though I am not the same age my mother was when she had me (youngest of 5 kids). The new perspective is crazy. The age I am now, is the age my HS teachers were when they taught me, many of my old friends now how children...like how has all of this happened so fast!

    • @SirKolass
      @SirKolass 25 дней назад +5

      We only start getting old at 30, so you're not any older than you were 10 years ago. That can be sooner or later though, based on how healthy you are. If you wanna stay young for longer, be healthy.

    • @metalrain300
      @metalrain300 25 дней назад +4

      I feel ya, I turned 30 last November and honestly I still feel like I left high school a few months ago. I don’t feel like I’ve aged, more important my body doesn’t feel like it’s breaking down either. It actually feels like the opposite. Lately it’s been unreal, like I’ve been able to actually spread my wings and follow the path I’ve always wanted to. I’m just waiting on my background check to go thru and I’ll be doing what I’ve always felt like I should be.

    • @catey62
      @catey62 25 дней назад +6

      My amazing Mum told me a couple years before she she passed away at the age of 90 , that she still felt the same as she did when she was 16, it was just her body letting her down. I'm 61 and I can relate perfectly. inside. I'm still a teenager, just my body is getting older.

    • @mbyrd9223
      @mbyrd9223 25 дней назад +3

      You all are still so young, enjoy it while it lasts. Wait till you hit 40 then you'll really start to feel like an old person.

  • @NM-pl1iv
    @NM-pl1iv 21 день назад +853

    Just buried my Dad, he was 63. Appreciate what you have, love hard and deep, don’t hold grudges and don’t waste time.

    • @sylviekins
      @sylviekins 21 день назад +16

      I am so sorry for your loss❤. I lost mine 5 years ago, even though he was 92, I miss him🙏❤

    • @reynoldscs
      @reynoldscs 21 день назад +5

      Same . My dad passed away at 63, 14 months ago, way to early. Brain cancer is aggressive and fast. I agree with all you said. Best wishes for you and your family! Cheers!

    • @GFGAngel
      @GFGAngel 20 дней назад +5

      My dad passed away almost a month ago. He was also 63. It doesn't matter how long someone has been in your life, it will never feel like enough time.

    • @BrianCunningham-kp1qt
      @BrianCunningham-kp1qt 20 дней назад +6

      Sorry for your loss I don't know my dad because of grandfather but my real mum died when I was 5 in 77 & my step mum died on my birthday in 99 spend all the time you can with your parents as 1 day they may not be there RIP Mum love & miss you more every day xxxxx.

    • @ShawnSandiego
      @ShawnSandiego 20 дней назад +2

      Sorry for your loss! 🍀 I hope y'all find the strength for these hard times.
      It's also the same for me.
      Mine passed away at age 63 unexpectedly due to cardiac arrest after a successful brain tumor surgery.
      It happened 15 years ago but he's still sorely missed to this day.

  • @AngelC4K3
    @AngelC4K3 День назад

    The effects with the reflections and camera is amazing

  • @DrCryogenic
    @DrCryogenic 22 дня назад +219

    I like the attention to detail on this clip. The reflection on the glass shows true image while his image shows a younger version. Truly beautiful!

  • @maikutsukino4743
    @maikutsukino4743 25 дней назад +1500

    Lost my mom last year at 85. Just today I looked in the mirror and was reminded I'm not 20 years old any more. So this just hit pretty damn deep on me. I'm not crying, you're crying.

    • @kingki1953
      @kingki1953 25 дней назад +40

      Damn, you lucky though. You can have mom until she at 85. I was 19 when i lost my mom, she was at 55.
      edit: She got cancer at 50 and i was 14. I wish someone told me that someone who got cancer don't live longer than 5 years. I was concern about this while she got only one year left at my 18. I know there's nothing i can do. In her last 3 months, she spend day by day really suffer from bladder cancer. I accompany him in hospital everyday until that day come, when she never reply to my voice again..

    • @eksboks148
      @eksboks148 25 дней назад +18

      ​​@@kingki1953i get you're probably just trying to say look on the happy side or something but it really sounds like you're try to one up someone with what couldn't be less of a competition

    • @SureshKumar-pv7yj
      @SureshKumar-pv7yj 25 дней назад +5

      i just lost my dad last week at the age of 65.

    • @k1llahh
      @k1llahh 25 дней назад +8

      Жизнь странная штука, я вообще не ощущаю себя взрослым. В детстве казалось быть взрослым это круто, а теперь понимаешь, что это скукота и каждый день - день сурка

    • @hellothereuser1878
      @hellothereuser1878 25 дней назад +13

      @@eksboks148 That was so rude. There's no one-upping here. This isn't a situation where we're discussing who made the most of a summer vacation. The guy is just trying to help OP appreciate the time he spent with his mother. Grief is proportional to the memories you create with that person, not necessarily the time you spent or when they departed. All he did was call him lucky and shared his own experience, and now you're trying to make him feel bad for nothing :(

  • @xSILENTNEMESISx
    @xSILENTNEMESISx 9 дней назад

    Bro....im high as hell in Farland, this really brought me to tears.. very deep.❤

  • @diemarxistischeliga7983
    @diemarxistischeliga7983 День назад

    For being a short this has quite amazing cinematography, seeing his older self in the camera while his younger perception is still there is very cool

  • @farisasmith7109
    @farisasmith7109 21 день назад +329

    My dad is turning 94 years old. He often says in his head he's still a young man. Life goes by so quickly and you want more time. But you do your best with the time you're given. This made me cry.

    • @lancevanceGTA
      @lancevanceGTA 19 дней назад

      You must be in your 70's

    • @ceterisparibus8966
      @ceterisparibus8966 19 дней назад

      ​​@@lancevanceGTAWhether 60s or 70s or whatever... and so what?

    • @lancevanceGTA
      @lancevanceGTA 19 дней назад

      @@ceterisparibus8966 shut up

  • @Hydra_Scale
    @Hydra_Scale 25 дней назад +1253

    This hit me hard. We should nominate it for a short film award

    • @Alexander-xw5eo
      @Alexander-xw5eo 25 дней назад +4

      Nope 😂

    • @GyaraPlatino
      @GyaraPlatino 25 дней назад +11

      yeah, it is actually good, maybe ia not the extremely expensive edition and camera but the originality and the message its good and deep

    • @koala7254
      @koala7254 25 дней назад

      agreed.

    • @samsaminniaaron8329
      @samsaminniaaron8329 25 дней назад

      I strongly agree.❤

    • @idehenebenezer802
      @idehenebenezer802 25 дней назад

      Jesus saves! Repent and turn away from your sins today.

  • @ashahope333
    @ashahope333 7 дней назад

    This made me cry. I am 51 and I still see myself in my own eyes as 22.❤😢 But the world treats me like an old lady already