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  • Опубликовано: 5 сен 2024
  • On this episode of Dear Black Love, we sit down with Kiesh and Crystal to learn more about their love story. These women discuss the privilege of loving a black woman as well as their hopes for the future. Press play to witness this adorable couple's love!
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Комментарии • 145

  • @refinery29
    @refinery29  5 лет назад +30

    Is there someone in your life that you feel this way about? Share your love stories with us below!

    • @Manon12092000
      @Manon12092000 5 лет назад +2

      My current relationship is the best thing that has happened to both of us. I waited 9 month to truly heal from my past relationship. My ex really broke me inside out and played with me for years. He was mentally and sexually abusive. My current boyfriend is my best friend, we get along like we know each other for 20 years, I have somes things that need to be worked out for my mental health but I'm confident. Love isn't just pure exploding passion, it's the feeling of true peace, the feeling of being not only a lover but a best friend and a shoulder to lay on.

    • @refinery29
      @refinery29  5 лет назад +1

      @@Manon12092000 Thank you so much for sharing your story with us! It is so brave of you to be so vulnerable.

    • @oy3ah2025
      @oy3ah2025 5 лет назад

      Crystal Anderson
      Is the shit, love h.e.r -OY3AH! Love y'all

    • @angelaw6940
      @angelaw6940 5 лет назад +1

      My boyfriend and I have been together for a year and seven months. We've had some serious ups and downs, we've cried in each other's arms, and even called it off for a day, but everything is so amazing now. He makes me happy and I make him happy. Long story short, when there's true love, things will work out. This actually made me tear up a little while I typed it lol💕

    • @chiomagathoga-ogbuike3034
      @chiomagathoga-ogbuike3034 Год назад

      i am so blessed to be so properly loved on by the most beautiful woman in the world. #BlackLove 🤎

  • @yasminismail5762
    @yasminismail5762 3 года назад +97

    'Loving a black woman feels like a privilege '
    Best quote ever!

  • @hannahbingham2197
    @hannahbingham2197 5 лет назад +272

    “Winning is us ending up on the same side” ❤️

  • @libertytaking5279
    @libertytaking5279 7 месяцев назад +10

    i return to this video every now and again and the fact that they just had their first baby four years later fills me with so much joy 😭

  • @francescap2340
    @francescap2340 5 лет назад +146

    I see this kind of video as a reminder not to settle for half-loves. This is my favorite video this week.

    • @drrd4127
      @drrd4127 4 года назад +3

      Better single than stressing

    • @harrisbrownnurses
      @harrisbrownnurses 2 месяца назад +1

      No need to SETTLE sweetheart there's great HUMANS on this planet...

    • @thobekasilwane9880
      @thobekasilwane9880 Месяц назад

      Sooo true and not forcing it

  • @blackdaria9075
    @blackdaria9075 5 лет назад +135

    This is beautiful! I love they way she looks deep into her soul and be honest. I love good eye contact. Go ‘head black love!!!!! I cried as if I was feeling this love. Go ‘head!😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭

  • @madalamachini
    @madalamachini 8 месяцев назад +4

    I saw this when it first came out, and they popped into my head so I decided to watch it again. I went to see if they were still together, and I cried when I saw that they just had their first baby! I'm so happy for them! Their love is so inspiring

  • @sheryl080
    @sheryl080 5 лет назад +149

    This just reminded me about how single I am 😂😅
    They are super cute though 😍

    • @Denise1224
      @Denise1224 5 лет назад +1

      Same😂😂🤣😂

    • @FAAFO_TrIbE
      @FAAFO_TrIbE 4 года назад +1

      Lol....same here.

    • @harrisbrownnurses
      @harrisbrownnurses Месяц назад

      Why are you single? Is that Your choice OR you are looking?

  • @isabellapetajan2557
    @isabellapetajan2557 5 лет назад +57

    “even when im asleep i try to make you proud” 🤧🤧🤧

    • @angelaw6940
      @angelaw6940 5 лет назад +2

      Ik, that was so sweet💕

  • @someone6411
    @someone6411 5 лет назад +66

    I remember seeing this when it was first posted to Twitter. Me and my bf watched it and I just sobbed. It perfectly describes true love and how we felt for each other. So thankful you shared their story with us

    • @refinery29
      @refinery29  5 лет назад +1

      +dalmydalux Thanks for being here!

  • @bscott1112
    @bscott1112 5 лет назад +29

    So hard not to cry! Feeling their love through my screen 😭😭. When I first started dating my husband I knew I was going to fall deeply in love with him like these two. And 7 years later he's amazing. Best of luck to them! #blacklove

  • @theemyriamichelle
    @theemyriamichelle 4 года назад +28

    it’s so heart warming to know they’re engaged now

  • @ciarraross5288
    @ciarraross5288 2 года назад +5

    “i just want all the special things with you” gets me every time 😭🥹 my heart

  • @jessicachestnut9208
    @jessicachestnut9208 5 лет назад +36

    Such a gorgeous couple, you can see and feel the love they have for each other that's what it's all about. I hope they have a beautiful future together 💕

    • @refinery29
      @refinery29  5 лет назад +1

      +jessicachestnut Agreed! We do, too!

  • @isabellapetajan2557
    @isabellapetajan2557 5 лет назад +87

    we neeeed a 6 month update on these two

  • @TheXperience_ZA
    @TheXperience_ZA 5 лет назад +9

    "You never miss an opportunity to let me know that I'm loved" 😭❤️😍

  • @kiingkay
    @kiingkay 4 года назад +30

    “ It just felt right. I wasn’t gonna allow myself to be caught up in this cage of what I should be doing cause of what had happened”
    Damn, I felt that 🥺💞

  • @stephanyoneill5479
    @stephanyoneill5479 5 лет назад +71

    Damn I wish I had this type of relationship 😭

  • @MrGina-tt9cn
    @MrGina-tt9cn 5 лет назад +43

    I WANNA GO TO THE WEDDING

  • @heatheredwards2982
    @heatheredwards2982 5 лет назад +7

    You two are so loving and kind to each other that I totally want to be your friend!!!! All relationships are about love growth and learning about yourself and each other.

  • @elisamondragon2849
    @elisamondragon2849 5 лет назад +10

    I cried hearing their love words!

  • @sophiekreytak3543
    @sophiekreytak3543 5 лет назад +11

    brought me so much joy, thank you R29, for showing the beauty of love in everything

    • @refinery29
      @refinery29  5 лет назад +1

      +sophiekreytak Thank you for watching!

  • @bronzecigar
    @bronzecigar 9 месяцев назад +3

    This aged VERYYYYY well wow ❤

  • @MICH3LL3MLIV3
    @MICH3LL3MLIV3 5 лет назад +6

    Their relationship is golden.✨

  • @GielaubringtheJuice
    @GielaubringtheJuice Год назад +6

    The fact that they are married and having a baby 😢

  • @caburnha61
    @caburnha61 5 лет назад +25

    This warms my cold heart 😍🤗

  • @lovesbeauty9564
    @lovesbeauty9564 5 лет назад +34

    If you are not happy for them go hug a naked wire
    This what I call love nobody is perfect, am happy for you guys ❤️

  • @rhondaclaiborne7283
    @rhondaclaiborne7283 3 года назад +1

    I can definitely relate to this lovely, vulnerable couple. When I met this beautiful woman online, she wouldn’t talk to me. I texted her daily at the same time until she opened up to me. Long story short, she made me feel “different,” and I knew she was the one. All my friends knew I was going to marry her, she didn’t know. I wasn’t letting her go. We celebrated our one year wedding anniversary this June. We had a similar conversation such as yours. Yes, I would like to see more videos. Thank you for sharing, others want to see mature couples such as yourself.

  • @iggygirlsballersclub7819
    @iggygirlsballersclub7819 2 года назад +2

    First of all y'all both fine!!!! This is so beautiful, I feel the love between y'all. Love the vulnerability that's displayed here is lovely. Black women are often viewed as strong and almost heartless. Here is a wonderful expression of how we can be soft, warm and open, especially when the one we love is. Thank you ladies for sharing your love with us. I'm a officiant, would love to marry y'all.

  • @michtsiify
    @michtsiify 5 лет назад +6

    ❤️ okay crying, their love is beautiful

  • @samiNboiz
    @samiNboiz 3 года назад +1

    This is honestly one of my favorite interviews! I need a one-year update

  • @Faaade_
    @Faaade_ 5 лет назад +13

    This made me feel hopeful.

  • @Joesy015
    @Joesy015 5 лет назад +2

    *I love them thank you for featuring them how adorable can they be in their spirits and ways of being !!!*

  • @FAAFO_TrIbE
    @FAAFO_TrIbE 4 года назад +2

    A power couple. You two appear to be in perfect sync. I couldn't help myself for feeling tingly and kept saying, "Awwwww...". I enjoyed this, totally. ❣

  • @napoleonprince
    @napoleonprince 5 лет назад +14

    So beautiful! I love their love.

  • @Aragedie
    @Aragedie 5 лет назад +8

    Such a beautiful love story ❤

    • @refinery29
      @refinery29  5 лет назад +1

      +ambergarnett We think so, too!

  • @yndzzz
    @yndzzz 3 года назад +1

    I always come back to this interview. So sweet so pure so full of love 💖

  • @ilyssag2812
    @ilyssag2812 5 лет назад +12

    "fuck that twine" LMAOO. They are beautiful

  • @LonerBecause
    @LonerBecause 4 года назад +3

    The winning is with us ending up on the same side 💯
    Love that quote, I can't wait until I meet the love of my life. I feels like never 😪

  • @itsmakedasdomain
    @itsmakedasdomain 2 года назад +1

    I’m crying 🥺 so beautiful

  • @behoney00
    @behoney00 5 лет назад +3

    Crystal's style is IT!

  • @mikasjewels5772
    @mikasjewels5772 5 лет назад +7

    Saw Crystal on the thumbnail and clicked so fast! #fangirl ❤

    • @puresunshine79
      @puresunshine79 5 лет назад

      Hey I'm new to Crystal does she have a podcast or write? I would love to fangirl too 😍

    • @mikasjewels5772
      @mikasjewels5772 5 лет назад

      @@puresunshine79 instagram.com/beerbottles_chainsaws/?hl=en

  • @kg-nc8ig
    @kg-nc8ig 5 лет назад +10

    I watched this video when it came out months ago and I swear I’ll never get OVER ITTTTTT OMFGGGG

  • @crichy
    @crichy 5 лет назад +8

    This video gives me ALL the feels 😭😭😭 they’re so perfect

  • @signatureblaque5360
    @signatureblaque5360 5 лет назад +6

    LOVING THIS!!!!!!

  • @JuaniqueVerde
    @JuaniqueVerde 3 года назад

    Oh. My. God!!! They are the cutest!!! I was smiling the whole time!! Their relationship def reminds me of my relationship with my Black woman. 😊😊😊 so pure. So true. Real love! I wish them ALL the love, and peace, and happiness!! Y’all deserve it!

  • @irieally
    @irieally 2 года назад +2

    They’re so cute ❤

  • @TiaraWordsfromGod
    @TiaraWordsfromGod 5 лет назад

    The love they gave for each other shines like the sun. Beautiful. God bless. ♡

  • @tru1072
    @tru1072 5 лет назад +7

    This love is so outward it's almost threatening. To be known so deeply, to be vulnerable... Shoot I don't think I want to find out if I can do it.

  • @BlackBerryTrees
    @BlackBerryTrees 5 лет назад +1

    seeing love is such a beautiful feeling

    • @refinery29
      @refinery29  5 лет назад

      +blackberrytrees We agree!

  • @cerinashippey
    @cerinashippey 2 года назад +1

    I stay rewatching this lmao

  • @vinney27
    @vinney27 2 года назад +2

    I hope they’re still together💕

  • @adrianapaulino7908
    @adrianapaulino7908 3 года назад +1

    OMG so adorable!! I love their energy!!🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥

  • @nicolemccray8095
    @nicolemccray8095 4 года назад +1

    I need more of this!

  • @Faaade_
    @Faaade_ 5 лет назад +6

    The way they look at each other....whew! beautiful

  • @junar2014
    @junar2014 5 лет назад +15

    Fun Fact about teeth grinding in the Philippines: Older people in the provinces says that if you catch a person teeth grinding at night, you are supposed to slap that person with a flip-flop or slippers and then throw it away because it is a bad omen.

    • @refinery29
      @refinery29  5 лет назад +2

      +junar Interesting! Thanks for sharing!

    • @SuperHellokitty1973
      @SuperHellokitty1973 5 лет назад +2

      🤣🤣🤣🤣

    • @mrswhite645
      @mrswhite645 5 лет назад +2

      Ouch! Now, that's motivation to keep consistently wearing my night guard.

  • @heyuju6810
    @heyuju6810 5 лет назад +6

    Super cute!!

  • @OneWhoKnowz
    @OneWhoKnowz 2 года назад

    2021 I come back here often! So beautiful 😻

  • @thobekasilwane9880
    @thobekasilwane9880 Месяц назад

    😢😢 i know i am single but you guys just making me feel it. You are soo cute

  • @alexandrastimens1828
    @alexandrastimens1828 2 года назад

    Their love is so beautiful 😭😭 im crying

  • @bubsilluminated5828
    @bubsilluminated5828 4 года назад +2

    I need this type of love in my life.

  • @adrianapaulino7908
    @adrianapaulino7908 3 года назад +1

    Wow this is so deep!!!

  • @KickinIt4eva_Sterolineelove
    @KickinIt4eva_Sterolineelove 2 года назад

    This is such a beautiful video and such a beautiful couple! What love should be 💕💕

  • @plovie9376
    @plovie9376 Год назад +1

    "Black Woman are Everything"

  • @Love_To_Be_Love
    @Love_To_Be_Love 5 лет назад +5

    Sooo cute 😭🤗

  • @harrisbrownnurses
    @harrisbrownnurses Месяц назад +1

    ABSOLUTELY...Love Love Love This For Me...Looking For my Forever Partner... To Give All The Love Inside of Me...Been Waiting.

  • @True2OnlyMyself.
    @True2OnlyMyself. 4 года назад +2

    where are they now?

  • @maureenw.m2677
    @maureenw.m2677 5 лет назад +1

    Kiesh is super cute...just beautiful

  • @justshayla87
    @justshayla87 5 лет назад

    This is AMAZING!!!! this is REAL LOVE! This is what I want to feel with someone

  • @auraoptics
    @auraoptics 10 месяцев назад

    Beautiful 🥹. Goals ❤️

  • @jameelahjones9117
    @jameelahjones9117 5 лет назад +3

    FINALLY! YES

  • @eec7122
    @eec7122 5 лет назад +1

    They are so cute together!

  • @amandajones4681
    @amandajones4681 5 лет назад +2

    Melt your heart 😍!!! I want that kind of love!

  • @shyeahright
    @shyeahright 5 лет назад +4

    Omg I love this so much 😭😭😭💕💕💕🌈🌈🌈

  • @sandi2686
    @sandi2686 4 года назад +2

    They are engaged 🥺🥺🥺

  • @literarylady1125
    @literarylady1125 11 месяцев назад

    The one in the hat sounds like Cree Summer

  • @babyseewho
    @babyseewho 2 года назад

    A year later watching this still cuts.

    • @houstonbred
      @houstonbred 2 года назад

      this conversation is absolutely beautiful

  • @issa.akwardblackgirl9203
    @issa.akwardblackgirl9203 2 месяца назад

    i wonder if they know they this video has single-handedly raise/protected/inspire a whole generation of black queer girls

  • @briannaday413
    @briannaday413 2 года назад +1

    Does anyone know their social media?😍😍

  • @jupitired777
    @jupitired777 5 лет назад +1

    omg they're adorable

  • @boogie7240
    @boogie7240 Год назад +1

    Where are they today?

    • @LynnC000
      @LynnC000 Год назад

      You’re like me fr lol but their IG is linked in the description box. Beautiful updates!!

  • @jessicacooper3236
    @jessicacooper3236 2 года назад

    Awww they're so cute!!! 🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰

  • @aria2357
    @aria2357 5 лет назад +2

    they are soooooo cute i just

  • @afroauteur
    @afroauteur 4 месяца назад +2

    whoever's here in 2024 just wanted to let y'all know they just welcomed a baby boy 👶🏽

  • @sueriansean
    @sueriansean 5 лет назад +2

    Okay is it just me or does she (sister in the hat) look like the black female version of Brad Pitt.:)) Damn...she looks good:) Beautiful couple.

  • @December_baby04
    @December_baby04 5 лет назад

    Y’all uploaded this already

  • @yungshaaaa777
    @yungshaaaa777 2 года назад

    Just here for some hope 😂😭🙏🏿💙💛 pray for me yall 😂😂😂😂

  • @crttsome7504
    @crttsome7504 2 года назад

    Yes, yes, yeaas!

  • @marquitajackson2241
    @marquitajackson2241 3 года назад +1

    Am i the only one crying 😭😭gotta make my girlfriend watch this

  • @brandyrobinson9014
    @brandyrobinson9014 5 лет назад +3

    💕💕

  • @catchmeifyoucan1095
    @catchmeifyoucan1095 5 лет назад +4

    Bruh where the damn tissues at

  • @GielaubringtheJuice
    @GielaubringtheJuice Год назад

    Kiesh reminds me of kehlani

  • @mfurayacu7868
    @mfurayacu7868 9 месяцев назад +3

    they just had a baby

  • @lauriealengelenge2058
    @lauriealengelenge2058 2 года назад

    JESUS! I see what you have done for others...... a love life this

  • @mamakisan
    @mamakisan 2 года назад

    I wish I had what they have.

  • @paulineward8590
    @paulineward8590 4 года назад

    🥺😭❤️

  • @AmericanAmy
    @AmericanAmy 5 лет назад +4

    I used to grind my teeth she needs to get those things that you wear at night or she may get TMJ.

  • @marieefrance2020
    @marieefrance2020 4 года назад

    What their ig please someone tell me

  • @goldenlabelstudio
    @goldenlabelstudio 10 дней назад

    🥹🥹🥹🥹🥹🥹🥹🥹🥹🥹❤

  • @username-zl3pl
    @username-zl3pl 5 лет назад +1

    she look like female bruno mars

    • @sueriansean
      @sueriansean 5 лет назад

      user name She looks like the female version of Brad Pitt. Beautiful!!

    • @username-zl3pl
      @username-zl3pl 5 лет назад

      susan anderson i was talking about the girl in glasses& bruno mars is attractive asf that was a compliment

    • @sueriansean
      @sueriansean 5 лет назад

      user name lol...she does look similar to Bruno. I was speaking on the young lady in the hat:))

    • @username-zl3pl
      @username-zl3pl 5 лет назад

      susan anderson yess the girl in the hat is super attractive i can somewhat see the resemblance to a young brad pitt. they're a really beautiful couple