I heard this song, last night, for the first time, while driving home from work....wow! It really hit home!! This is exactly how i feel. I've always been the shoulder to cry on, and never have one there for me when I need one. It's time to shut this bar down!! Thank you Old Dominion
Ya'll don't even know how much I needed this fucking song right now. I've literally been looking for a song for weeks to describe how I've been feeling and you hit the nail right on the head
My heart is a bar! That is how I have felt ever since my husband passed away. All I want is peace and grieve as I choose to do. Why can't my family see this. My shoulder and my bar is closing down. Great song!
I am sorry for your loss. I too, am a widow of 7 years. We were hs sweethearts and he died and left me devastated. This song( and all of OD’s music paint a picture. I hope you can find consolation. It never gets better, it just gets different. No one will replace my first love, but I finally found someone totally different but it is a new chapter, and so wonderful. ❤
Thanks for making Wisconsin and our state fair a part of this video. 🧀🍻 Your heart may be a bar that you are closing down but our door is always open! 😀
I know that I will never open up my hreat. Or listen to someone else. When there's nobody for me. There's no point. But I do love old diomion. God bless you guys for a well deserved song. Keep going Don't ever stop. I'm listening until death. Right now I'm just trying to get my self together. It's not easy.
greatest concert I have ever seen in my 48 years....these guys are insanely underrated and unbelievably talented....thank you for coming to Ironstone in Murphy's, California!!!!!!
I definitely feel this I am always giving and doing for everyone else but when I need someone there is nobody! I really feel I'm better off all alone so I do t try to depend on anyone else and I donr hurt or get hurt anyone! This world is so hard!
I LOVE LOVE LOVE THIS ONE. I START SWAYING AND BEFORE I KNEW IT I WAS DANCING ALL AROUND MY KITCHEN. THANKS FOR THE SMILE YOU GAVE ME WITH THIS TUNE DURING THIS STRESSFUL TIME😎😎😎💖
This song, really strikes me and I didn't realize why until listening to it many times. Soothing, in a way very few songs are. It has an air of acceptance and moving forward, in my humble opinion. I've always functioned as a therapist for all my friends and I've always had an open door/fridge policy, for any friend. Every friend I've ever had, I've told "if I've got a home you've got a home, if I've got food you've got food." If you need a place to crash, an ear, a meal, whatever you need; if you're someone I consider a friend I will be there if at all possible. This is a rule I've lived by for my entire adult life. I'd like to think I've helped a lot of people, they certainly say so and most of them eventually put their lives back together. But there's a select couple people, who have chosen to take this open door policy as a free meal/hotel ticket and I've recently had to put a stop to it. Its It's 1 way street with these 2, there's no reciprocation and worse than that, It has gotten to a point I feel used. They've shown themselves to be nothing but users, but I still feel conflicted about shunning them. They are both friends since childhood and cutting them off isn't something I want to do, but I'm being taken advantage of. So, at long last, the bar's closing down.
Sadly some people are really self-centered and don't realize the things other people do for them. For what it's worth you sound like a great friend to have.
This song interprets exactly the words i use " am too good for a relationship in these times we live in " maybe in another life... love your song love from Uganda
This.....word for word what I’ve gone through the past 3 years. Taking the healer and giver in me on vacation indefinitely ❤️❤️❤️ Thank you for this song. My new Anthem ☀️💫🌟
Lol its 11:30 PM and I'm listening to this amazing song again and I noticed that someone dislike the song and I'm like what!!!who would not like this song, its wonderful. ❤💕
Word. For. Word. I won't say something sappy or vapid like "omg, I LITERALLY lived this", but thank you for showing me the way forward. Consider this bar closed.
I can't believe this song doesn't have more views? Lol Disgusting There is so much terrible music out there in any type of music, and these guys are definitely underrated!!@
When he said " I'm tired of being a shoulder and never having one around " I felt that.
"They figure out where they're going, then they go"
Same here
me too sister.
I feel your pain.
Same
I heard this song, last night, for the first time, while driving home from work....wow! It really hit home!! This is exactly how i feel. I've always been the shoulder to cry on, and never have one there for me when I need one. It's time to shut this bar down!! Thank you Old Dominion
I left my job of 17 yrs. When appreciation becomes expectation, it's time to close the door.
Same here … I’m closing down 😓
🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗
F - anyway people the F is for Hurt. I just want to give you all a hug strength courage comfort shelter.
Please don’t stop being a great person. Don’t shut yourself out. But self protection is also key
I’ve come to the conclusion that true love is an illusion.
Great line
It's a choice ❤
I don’t think you guys can make a bad song. I’ve loved every song that’s been released.
Another one of those songs you like when you first hear it. Then gets better and better every time you listen! Man, what an album so far!
I'm glad we still have some bands making some good country music
Learned this one the hard way a long time ago - great song.
Never make anyone a priority who makes you a convenience.
These dudes just can't be stopped right now it's every damn song there just on a diff level
Ya'll don't even know how much I needed this fucking song right now. I've literally been looking for a song for weeks to describe how I've been feeling and you hit the nail right on the head
❤
A True American Band! What a Joy!
These band are the future of the world ...
Yes! People always coming to me for comfort and advice when I'm the one who needs it the most! Great song!
My heart is a bar! That is how I have felt ever since my husband passed away. All I want is peace and grieve as I choose to do. Why can't my family see this. My shoulder and my bar is closing down. Great song!
I am sorry for your loss. I too, am a widow of 7 years. We were hs sweethearts and he died and left me devastated. This song( and all of OD’s music paint a picture. I hope you can find consolation. It never gets better, it just gets different. No one will replace my first love, but I finally found someone totally different but it is a new chapter, and so wonderful. ❤
Can they get any better?! Never let you down with new any of their tunes ...... what a fantastic song
This is the best song I've heard lately with today's new country. Awesome.
Just heard this song now. An man, it couldn't describe my life more perfectly.
My heart is literally a bar ....this song....💚💯🙌🙏
"I'm tired of being a shoulder, and never having one around..." I know that feeling, all too well. Love it!
Wow the song is 3 years old and this is the first time I'm hearing it. And it's exactly how I feel right now
hello, how are you doing?? it is nice meeting you here.
My list of favorite songs just keeps getting longer and longer.
How did I miss this gem?
We need an Old Dominion and Darius Rucker collaboration.
No, we don't
HAHA
yeah i guess
OD and Darius are in concert in London in March. I wonder...
That would be nice
One of the best concerts I've ever seen
Perfect description to describe how my entire love life has been. I’m closing it down! ❤️💔
You're preaching to the choir!. I'm tired of being that shoulder till the next thing comes along.
I think it's impossible for these guys to make anything less than perfection.
Yes on the piano in this song! Love OD!
That piano intro is beautiful!
My favorite “relate to it”song.
hello, how are you doing ??it is nice meeting you here.
I'm tired of being a shoulder and never having one around.
Saw them live for the 4th time last night in Syracuse, NY. Epic show. So good, truly enjoyed every moment.
Funny I heard it driving into work. Awesome.
I can’t think of words strong enough to declare how good these guys are! They could sing a shopping list and it would be fabulous!!!!!
Thanks Old Dominion for making us music. 🤘🏼♥️
How true been a long time but listening to this has hit cords with me big time. Time to shut down been 15 years trying
Such a well written song! My wife loves these guys, hope to take her to see them in concert some day soon.
63 and living for me now and no one else
My partner passed away and I blamed him for the choices he made. But there's no hard feelings any more. Thank you.
These fellows keep the songs coming left and right - blessed many times
Amen brother!
I love it when they're all eating together.
Thanks for making Wisconsin and our state fair a part of this video. 🧀🍻
Your heart may be a bar that you are closing down but our door is always open! 😀
I know that I will never open up my hreat. Or listen to someone else. When there's nobody for me. There's no point. But I do love old diomion. God bless you guys for a well deserved song. Keep going Don't ever stop. I'm listening until death. Right now I'm just trying to get my self together. It's not easy.
OD for life baby !
this song is soooooo relatable❤️❤️❤️please never stop making music❤️❤️❤️❤️
First time hearing it and as expected another great song by the great group
greatest concert I have ever seen in my 48 years....these guys are insanely underrated and unbelievably talented....thank you for coming to Ironstone in Murphy's, California!!!!!!
They may already be the greatest country band of all time ..... these dudes talents are just mind blowing
Joyce Blake Now that’s just silly.
Alabama, Oak Ridge Boys, Marshall Tucker Band!!!!! Come on
You guys have lived a life.
What a great song
Love this, don't usually listen to country music in England, but this is such a great song!
I definitely feel this I am always giving and doing for everyone else but when I need someone there is nobody! I really feel I'm better off all alone so I do t try to depend on anyone else and I donr hurt or get hurt anyone! This world is so hard!
I LOVE LOVE LOVE THIS ONE. I START SWAYING AND BEFORE I KNEW IT I WAS DANCING ALL AROUND MY KITCHEN. THANKS FOR THE SMILE YOU GAVE ME WITH THIS TUNE DURING THIS STRESSFUL TIME😎😎😎💖
This song, really strikes me and I didn't realize why until listening to it many times. Soothing, in a way very few songs are. It has an air of acceptance and moving forward, in my humble opinion.
I've always functioned as a therapist for all my friends and I've always had an open door/fridge policy, for any friend. Every friend I've ever had, I've told "if I've got a home you've got a home, if I've got food you've got food." If you need a place to crash, an ear, a meal, whatever you need; if you're someone I consider a friend I will be there if at all possible. This is a rule I've lived by for my entire adult life.
I'd like to think I've helped a lot of people, they certainly say so and most of them eventually put their lives back together. But there's a select couple people, who have chosen to take this open door policy as a free meal/hotel ticket and I've recently had to put a stop to it. Its It's 1 way street with these 2, there's no reciprocation and worse than that, It has gotten to a point I feel used. They've shown themselves to be nothing but users, but I still feel conflicted about shunning them. They are both friends since childhood and cutting them off isn't something I want to do, but I'm being taken advantage of.
So, at long last, the bar's closing down.
Sadly some people are really self-centered and don't realize the things other people do for them.
For what it's worth you sound like a great friend to have.
@@grimmhaven thank you for the kind words.
Love y’all and this song but that’s nothing new cause I love everything you do lol!
This song interprets exactly the words i use " am too good for a relationship in these times we live in " maybe in another life... love your song love from Uganda
This song definitely is ME and how I feel! Love your music from LA(Lower Alabama)
Praise Lord! I am so happy about this song, I happy tears. I love this so much. I love y'all. May Lord shine grace on y'all. 😂😂😂
Heard this for the first time today on SiriusXM Booze Country and thought it was amazing. On my favorite list!
my nephew sent me this song to listen to. wow this is so him...always being leaned on but never having any one to offer a shoulder to him.
hello, how are you doing ??it is nice meeting you here.
I feel this song with every fiber of my being. 2021 this bar is shut down.
Dad: turn this off
me: why
Dad: there’s a bigger speaker downstairs 🐐
This is my life! ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
First time I heard this song...so good ❤️
Buzzing in my head , all day long.
Love from India!
Great tune problem is it fits me well
I feel like this song is a personal attack on my emotions and my love life 😂
This.....word for word what I’ve gone through the past 3 years. Taking the healer and giver in me on vacation indefinitely ❤️❤️❤️ Thank you for this song. My new Anthem ☀️💫🌟
Lol its 11:30 PM and I'm listening to this amazing song again and I noticed that someone dislike the song and I'm like what!!!who would not like this song, its wonderful. ❤💕
It really is. Each time I listen, I like it more. The new album is gonna be great.
I love these guys they are so energetic and always seem to be having fun stay safe guys and always keep the smiles keep o doing what you do🎵🎶🎵🎵🎶💜💜💜
Wow...awesome song 🇨🇦🇨🇦🎸🎸🇨🇦🇨🇦
What a catchy melancholic country song ❤️
& Love the guy's husky voice - perfectly suited to country!
Real country music is coming back
Want to see them in concert so bad!
WOW this song is my life..... Ayala you. Got me once again
This song is real talk
This song says it all!
Wow 1st time ive heard this song and it hits the spot
love this song so much. so much meaning to it, and the beat is amazing!!!
Word. For. Word. I won't say something sappy or vapid like "omg, I LITERALLY lived this", but thank you for showing me the way forward. Consider this bar closed.
I can't believe this song doesn't have more views? Lol Disgusting
There is so much terrible music out there in any type of music, and these guys are definitely underrated!!@
This is one of my favorites
Never heard a more relatable song
Thank you
I love the song
So smooth
I 🥰your music 🎶 🎵
Damn I tell you there’s a song out there for every feeling.....Awesome Song
Love This Song
Song so related to me...thank you very much....🙂🙂🙂🙂
Good morning, this song is playing some real 🤙!
hello, how are you doing?? it is nice meeting you here.
I love them!!!! Glad to see my hubby in the video #1:54
Alice Carter
Gotta love big dex!!
almost y’all best one yet but for sure one man band is definitely still in first place😍😍😍
True
But still a good song
I SWEAR EVERY SONG Y'ALL BOYS MAKE IS A SMASH!!!!! Y'all are on the concert bucket list! Hopefully next year!
Yess I agree!!
Don't miss them, they're great live!
Oregon Jamboree next year. Can't wait!
Exactly how I've been feeling!! I believe in love but.. not a fairytale kind of love!! Love this song..MY heart definitely closed down.. last call
Never has my life been summed up so well...
I first heard this in Milwaukee just a few weeks ago and I feel in love with it. I love you guys and your music so much.
The bushwacker I made to drink with this song was awesome😄😉
This song screams to me. I've been saying love is an illusion for yrs
You guys make awesome music! I feel this!
I'm a relatively new fan. Love all these things 💕
This is so relatable. “My heart is a bar and I’m closing it down.” Such a strong message!!