Reduction in child support for life changes
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- Опубликовано: 2 окт 2024
- William is seeking a reduction in child support because he makes less money and has another child. Marta is not having it. She does not want his child support to be decreased. Does William get the relief he is seeking?
We need more judges like her. She don’t pick no side. She is straight with everybody.
Lol. She's not a judge.
Tillman Harrison Hater.😜😂
I agree with this 10000% I wish she was able to preside over my upcoming case. I need her advice because I feel like I’m going to be completely railroaded. Very fair she is!!
I like the judge's attitude as well.
@@JudgeVondaB Agreed. She's just straight up hating.
She didn’t want him to get a reduction because she in her feelings.. smh
Yup but in my state having another kid is your problem they will tell you to stop having kids you can’t pay for but she would have never gotten $800 for one kid even on $50k income more like $450. They subtract all the basic debit first then add the child support failure to pay is jail time.
@@Comonique in Denmark you pay or get paid a max of 200$ in child support the kid doesn't need any more than that it's ridiculous to watch this dumb as fuck legal system
@@1888BW depends on location in US, some places require an absurd amount for basic needs. However I think the US system is fucking retarded on how bias it is to women. This woman was using the child to hurt him.
I don't like his personality make him pay more Judge!
@@gamergodofjustice exactly what a fucking clown
"I'll make sure when I drink water from now on to thank Mr. Boyd" 😂😂😂
I read this as he said it
You’re welcome LOLOL
😂😂
Unfortunately, Blue collar workers often do not get such appreciatiation. Great judge.
I think he earned that thanks
I’m weak when the judge looked inside of her cup. 😂😂😂
Thank you Mr. Boyd for keeping our water 💧 clean .
What most women need to realize is, child support isn’t and shouldn’t be used to make the father miserable. They should still be able to live their lives and have fun too. She’s for sure in her feelings about his relationship and other child.
But its ok to make the child do without?
@@mousemeat1352There are laws that determine how much money can be taken from the persons paycheck.
However, in this case the mother receives the money. There are no checks and balances - the mother may not know how to budget and allocate the money. Each case is unique.
@@mousemeat1352 It's an equal responsibility. Most divorces are initiated by the woman, not because of abuse, but because "the man isn't romantic enough anymore" or something else stupid. And yes, if you have kids, any reason other than abuse is stupid. They universally are selfish and exclusively hurt the child.
So yes, it's an equal responsibility. She gets the child and the responsibilities that come with it. Beyond that, it's simply a math calculation. Child expenses added up. Then divided between the two incomes. The better earner has the bigger burden.
I love how this judge takes the attitude of these women into account when deciding how to treat them. She gives them the same energy back.
My mother screwed herself out of more child support strictly because she copped a bad attitude.
It has nothing to do with the child, she mad because of the other woman.
The dad practically said he didn't like his son cause he may be gay simply because a 4 year old didn't football
@@skyesmith5683 no your twisting words. He said “because she wants him in cheerleading or something” meaning he doesn’t know. Cheerleading doesn’t mean the kid is gay. Your looking for clout
@@keishalebray1996 the dad views cheerleader as a feminine and female thing to do and does not want his son being involved in those activities for that reason. That is homophobic. Sit your ass down and shut the hell up
@@keishalebray1996 no, you’re being willfully obtuse. You know why he doesn’t want the kid to be in cheerleading. He’s homophobic and the child may not even be gay and instead of taking an active role in the child’s life he, himself, is choosing to be childish and selfish.
@@skyesmith5683 that is stupid the dad obviously isnt the intelligent type and he clearly said it was a bonding issue that he grew up with, its hard to connect without some sort of common ground his family saw football as this common ground and this kids mother probably is pushing him to have nothing to do with football
I would not mess with him
He’s responsible for the water
Take everybody out lol
Lol…. Rt 🤣🤣🤣
Ha! Good one
@@sexytasha81 thank you
That's very true lol hahaha, it's like saying don't mess with someone that serves you're food ,But in a much much larger scale.
More people like that man need to be celebrated. I used to drive by our city’s water sanitation plant going to and from my father’s house. When my brother and I could drive ourselves over together, we started talking about how horrible it would be if the plant shut down. We spoke to my mom about it, and that’s when we found out many people don’t see these fine workers as actual human beings.😢
Yeaaaah real stand up guy, doesn't like his kid because his kid isn't into sports and doesn't see him often because of it, great guy 🙄🙄🙄
As an over-the-road driver I found people look down on us yet we're the ones who bring your daily needs and supplies. The majority of them can't even tell you where their food comes from or how it got to the store. They're teaching their kids food comes from the grocery store.🤦🏽♂️
For real, where are all the feminists here? Clean our sewage system and dig for oil, then you'll get the equality you deserve.
Really, celebrate a man who clearly hates his child simply for not liking football, and is clearly trying to abandon his other child? This pathetic excuse for a man is someone we should look up to, really?
These judges in Houston are biased against fathers. My current wife and I of 15yrs have 2 children together and I had a work injury that took over 1yr 8mo to recover & rehabilitate. Never wanted to reduce my CP payment this whole time, but it needed to be done temporarily at least. I'm alienated and ostracized from my daughter by a manipulative narcissistic control freak with a bigger bank account than mine. Bottom line I was told to kick rocks and they squeezed what little MORE they could out of me. Put my family in some hard times and current pay still isn't what it used to be. AG suspended my work license and couldn't renew vehicles registrations for getting behind over 6mo worth of payments. They didn't take in account I was paying what I could every month, but it just wasn't enough. Had to take out a loan just to get back on track.. Guess this guy won't be catching a break any time soon. We need more unbiased judges like this that can see reality and rule in fairness.
I like this Judge. You can tell that she is low-key fed up of women who abuse the system and unleash terror on innocent hardworking men. The defendant looks so innocent and peaceful, yet so wicked. Besides racism, America also needs to sort out the child support system.
I heard a story once, where a man earned himself 30 days in jail for telling the judge "this is why young black men are selling crack" when she told him the amount of child support he owed each month.
I agree. She is the example to be followed.
Had an employee who made $1400 a month gross. After taxes and child support he went home with $400 a month. He was also involved in the child's life and had 50% custody. How on earth is he supposed to live and support the child on $400? He told me his GF had to basically pay all the bills.
Not even a real judge
@@TommyTombstone good hope he got more
“Well get over it, that’s the first thing” 😂😂😂
Hahahha
Yoo I like this judge a lot!! Appears to be very fair in all her cases.. She's also a beautiful & educated sister.. Little black girls, take look at this representation
I really wish she was a judge, but it’s acting, she’s still cool thou. Proof at 8:03
@@certifiedpumps232 you can look her up. She has her law degree and is Indeed a judge.
@@thoushallnotpass22 8:03 my guy, will tell u everything
@@certifiedpumps232 😭😭😭 this is why I should watch til the end 😂😂
You are right about that brother
Love how she doesn’t just side with mom she sides with who is right
"I dont like my 4 year old because he doesn't love football"
WOW! Child support aside, I'm puzzled by the number of comments that lack even mentioning a father disliking his child because the child doesn't like football. It was despicable for the judge to make light of it.
I agree. I was appalled by her attitude. A child should have the freedom to choose their hobbies and interests!
Totally agree. Trying to encourage the kid to like football because that’s what is “appropriate” will not foster a good relationship with him in the long run but just make the child feel bad about himself for the things he does like. Or resent the father. But it kinda sounds like the dad doesn’t like his son already anyway and doesn’t want to build a relationship with him if he doesn’t like football. 🤦♀️
Poor kid
We need more judges like her
8:03
She isn’t a judge. It’s a tv show. She is an attorney.
"All episodes include actors. Vonda Bailey is not a real Judge"
@@mabrokenleg2388 no it’s considered the people in the back. They are reall people but they aren’t apart for the show Google it my boy 😂😂
Not only more judges you need more laws like this that are fair and equitable most of them aren't the father is always made out to be the bad guy the mother is some shining angel with a vagina that dispenses money and kids.
So the payment was cut in half because she opened her mouth and said he had the other child. Ok then 😟😂😂😂
The judge stated that there was documents stating he had another child.
This shit don’t happen
no, it would have happened anyways - that's the entire reason he was trying to get a reduction. The judge just twisted it against what she said because she was talking a fool.
@@krisangel7080 States like Arkansas it sure the hell don't. . . Women ask, and they get what they ask for no matter the law.
Always the case. Judges are only to rule on the arguments brought forth (and yes, that includes documentation)
As a civil engineer for water treatment, his description of how water is cleaned is absolutely astonishing.
how so?
@@TheWizardGamez its so rudimentary and ancient
@@henrybisschoff8629 would you go into the technical aspects of your job with your child support judge or just tell them you work at a water treatment plant?
@@SavageKirin id go straight to the point ,
I have certs for mold bacteria and biohazard. I laughed so hard when he said he had to shift it with his hands. Haha like no way bro.
This judge is AWESOME!!!! Every judge in family court should follow suit. The first time I've seen men treated fairly. Bravo!!!!
This literally happens frequently across the country to men that pay attention and have a lawyer.
Thank you Mr Boyd 🙏
"and you're mad about that?"
"yeah"
"well, get over it"
OMG I LOVE THIS LADY
I found myself loving this lady as well.
Yet he doesn’t have to get over the fact his kid doesn’t like football ?🙄
@@jazzybear6175 why do the kid doesnt like football? yes, the mother, thats where you have to put in mind
I just about died.
@@jazzybear6175 The father isn't seeking a reduction in child support because the kid don't like football. It's just one of the reasons he's disengaged with his son.
The mum, on the other hand, don't want the child support to go down because she's pissed he has a new woman. The fact he has a child with that woman isn't helping her mood.
Can't you see these are two completely different things?
I love the judge Vonda’s fairness!!!
I wish she was here in Florida because these women are out of hand.
Kofi Abu yess they are say it louder
8:03
Wow.. as a Florida woman, whose ex lies and never pays ANYTHING, and a second father to a son who does whatever he can... the attitude of the men can change too. I never ask for anything from either, the 2nd is just a stand up guy 🤷🏼♀️
I'm still trying to figure out the "fairness" of forcing a man to pay child support for a child that's not his?
@@aquacandela3705 did you watch the clip??? Pay attention…she did not allow the man to get railroaded…simple! It’s so many women that punish the man for moving on…
This judge needs to be president. I would vote for her lol. Her attitude and intelligence is what all judges/political servants should aspire to be!!!
You are absolutely out of your mind if you believe that
8:02 Did you read the disclaimer: She is not a judge and this is a courtroom based drama .....drama. These scenarios in this show are fictitious.
Judy use to my favorite judge but this lady is just so amazing I absolutely love the fairness and realness she shows to both sides
One thing i take from this is when they privatise our health
Service, we are all in a mess. And what a scam it is.
I love it when a judge treats everyone fair regardless of their gender. With every single case you restore faith in justice. May God bless your strength of character!
fact, I like that too.
Bruh her attitude is nasty asf...bih take tht reduction nd leave this man alone...at least he paying you nd takin care of his child...move tf on..somebody’s still in love wit the baby daddy😭😭😭😭
Even though it's an educational skit. I think this is a comedic yet informative way to teach people about the court system.
What?!? These are skits? I thought these were real cases
@@jumpingjake123bro I'm fuckin shocked
No these are not skits. There is a law regarding these shows
They act as an arbitrator. Their dicisions are binding,and can be challenged in the court. And also no show can find these number of actors and make them act so genuine.
@@Aditya-xd7zt they're actually skits. If you go to the channel's "About" page, it's says clearly that they are all actors and these are all skits based on real cases.
@@jumpingjake123 wow! You are right. Just saw it. Its so cool in a way. Got fooled
Shame on the judge for the football remake. For a father to say he does not LIKE his kid because he does not like foot ball is disgusting.
as long as women can use children as income sources, this will never stop.
maaaaan I LOVE THIS JUDGE ! cuts right through all the BS and tantrums thrown by women ! we need more like you Judge Vonda
"How much are you using on yourself?" This judge knows what's up. Lucky the lady wasn't asked for receipts 🤣
The white girl in the back is having an anxiety attack almost.... She had me weak.
I’m looking at her too 😂
😂😂😂
Man now I gotta watch it again...lol
That's her new wife
The only problem here is that he does not approve of his kid not liking football! Awful father there!
Agreed
Don't hate the father, his child doesn't want to participate in football, probably the child wants another sport and the father will support the child in that
I love judge Vonda. She is fair and her hair styles are life.
This is what happens when you’re greedy. My ex sister in law took my brother to court for an increase in child support and the judge ended up ordering a reduction.
😂😂😂
My mother demanded that the court require my father pay for a really expensive summer camp every year because it was “part of [my brother’s name]’s autism therapy.” My twin brother hated being outside and hated the camp, but I loved it and ended up working there in leadership working in animal husbandry. What my mother didn’t know was that the judge that day had a background in early childhood education and teaching children with developmental delays.
The judge asked “I beg your pardon?” To which my mother had the gumshoe to make her demand again. And that’s when she realized her mistake.
My mom got screwed that day. My dad paid for my portion of the camp on his own accord because I loved it so much, and he saw it made me happy. My mom paid for my brother to attend so he wouldn’t be at home by himself.
I only learned about the crapshoot of my parents’ divorce litigations after I turned 18, and I was dying of laughter.
I love how she, just single handed, showed every frigging judge in American how to distinguish and conduct a legit family court case with logic and not play into the scorned ex. Bravo judge!!!
The mother needs to have her attitude adjusted.
She did when he left.
Protect this judge please 💯💯
This is the best Court TV I've ever seen. This judge is on fire 💪🏿
I freaking love this woman just asking what do you do with the $ is priceless to hear.
Thank God I did my 21 years completed case in NYC a judge would never ask the woman what are you doing with the $.
If you ask where's the $ going they'll say it's none of your concern just make sure you meet your monthly obligation.
God Bless her just being fair is all men ask 👍😎.
Eh? Vonda B is not a judge.
She immediately knew this was a jealousy type of reaction, not because of the bs she spat out. Legendary when she said, "get over it" lmfao
That killed me…
This is the most Brooklyn Italian accent I have ever heard. Almost comical. “Dat wahda yous drinkin, it’s good yah ahnar”
476 bucks for one kid? That's ridiculously low.
This helps so much on not judging people by how they look. Facts don’t lie , thanks justice system !
If there were even a small percentage of judges more like her, the country would be such a better place. I low key love her
except she is not a judge, everyone is acting and the cases are all 100% made up
@@polishjinxyour fun at parties
@@Sdorman2285 🤣🤣
@polishjinx She's a newly elected judge and lawyer in Texas. She has her info in her Bio you should read before you put out incorrect information. The cases are based on real people, just reenactments.
I love this judge!!!
She just tells it like it is, no if's and's about it. She backs up her truth with the law so the people know and don't have to 2nd guess. After all, she didn't get where she is if she wasn't brilliant.
Thanks.
What's the legal precedent in forcing a man to pay support for a child who isn't his?
I love her she actually looks at both sides women an men an women don't always have reason 🤦🏽♂️
Bravo for Dad. I'm glad she saw through her bulls__t.
How does she not understand if he makes less money then he can't pay the same amount?
So we’re going to ignore the fact that the father said he doesn’t like his kid because he doesn’t like football and the judge basically said ‘yep, valid reason for not liking or spending time with a kid you created’???? Like wtf???
Thank you!! She dropped the ball on that one.
Actually she really didnt say that. You completely misquoted her and missed that she was being a bit sarcastic with him.
@@shaesdivinetarot clearly you don’t understand exaggeration and her tone was not sarcastic nor is there really room for sarcasm in this situation.
None of u clearly go to the end of the show where it says these people are all actors and its purely for informational purposes she's not even a judge just an attorney
The judge was a total butt for making that comment.
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Omg I think I'm in love with this judge!!! She's 100% fair! we need more judges like here asap!!!
8:03
i use to think that there was nothing more beautiful then a Texas woman , but now a beautiful Texas judge with a lot of passion WOW!
She is very beautiful
2:18 “well um…get over it.” When i say I NEVER get tired of hearing Judge Vonda B’s quick lil comebacks! 🤣🤣😭
I love this judge. Shes intelligent and so fair. So many people on child support to be punished by the other clearly greedy parents. I would love to have a judge like that in my area. I have worked in my local jail and so many good men being punished by the system bc of child support. makes no sense to me to take their license and throw them in jail then complain they are an absent father or mother. Child support to me is a tool to destroy ppl
There is something SO incredibly wrong with the fact that it was normalized in this court that this dad doesnt like his son because of football.
Ikr! I don't understand why people are calling the girl greedy , when she was just sad. + she wasn't even asking for a raise in the child support 🤷♂️
@@themayomonster. because she didn’t want him to have a reduction when he’s making less money and has another kid
You are absolutely correct Some Mac n Chee
You do know these are actors right? It says at the end that this is just for educational purposes and they are actors and they are paid. The judge isn't really a judge and she's just a lawyer.
Didnt mean he dosnt love his son he meant it bothered him that there wasnt a thing him and his son can bond with
"Get over it!" Lol
I wish this judge was in California
richard mendez exactly. This reduction would never happen in California.
I wish that the state of Kansas had her as well.
California is fucked now.. Leftist system ...
Read the disclaimer at the end folks, she's not a judge and this show is for educational purposes only. All of the defendents ect are actors.
Thank you to this woman for giving fair rulings in a Rising Bias against men in these cases, Seriously Thinking of switching to law school for this exact reason! Thank you for teaching me information around the law as well!
Uh huh. You know what...go ahead. But I would suggest that you learn about exclaimers. Like this one at 8:02
I need more of this content, she's how we need all judges to be
I loved how when he said “I have to sort it out so it doesn’t get in your water” she looks in her cup 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
Judge Vonda is the epitome of unbiased rulings very professional very well versed in the field of law and very well poised
Need more realistic judges like this.
She's alot nicer then judge judy. More beautiful than judge judy
Vincent Gabrian Why thank you!
My pleasure your the best judge i ever seen. More smarter and nicer
Oh yes, A LOT more prettier than Judge Judy!
Ulgy people are meaner
I wish all family Court judges would break it down like this
That bit about 'football' verses 'cheerleading' at the end shed a little light. Based on what he said, he thinks his son is too feminine or that his ex is raising him not to be manly enough - if he's being mean or cruel to his son because he thinks he's too girly, THAT is a problem, and the mom has every right to be mad about that.
Exactly tf he doesn’t have to like football not all boys are the same and we need to normalize that !!!!!
Maybe he would act more "manly" if the "dad" spent some time with him.
I find it very interesting that you're complaining about gender roles while also assigning football and cheerleading to a certain gender. 😂
@@alicevalentinesteele These are the words I was looking for‼️
@@sydneydowney2868 they took his example he used
This is a judge who is a true strong and lovely woman. She does what's right cause it's right based on the law. To many people think their feelings are above the law and others rights. And she shuts that shit down real fast. Love it.
My husband was in water treatment. Sounds like company politics screwed him. I'm glad he got his reduction.
When Judge Judy Shindig retires, you should take her place.
Jesse Grider That’s not a bad thought!🤗
Blaine Street Hi there! Thank you for your question. I’m torn on that issue. I think where the money goes should be on the children only; however, I’m not sure how I feel about the government “tracking” the parent’s spending. Further, if it’s found that the parent isn’t spending the money on the child, how would the court handle it? Just my thoughts. It just seems a bit intrusive to me.
Blaine Street I definitely see what you mean.
You’re welcome and thank you for your question. Episodes release every Wednesday so keep tuning in!😁
Dear God no.
Tillman Harrison Don’t hate.😎
Vonda B. Is a fine ass judge, and intelligent and I'm digging her personality. Subscribed.
A world of Superficial people. Always looking on the outside.
She still wants him and can't stand the fact that he moved on.
Really you're spending all of it on a private school.....
You better put little Ricky back on the school bus to public.
I love it when she rubs her nose in it 😂
I work in a Sewer Plant also 👍and I’m PROUD OF IT ! And he should be also . We are Men doing our best . And should not be shamed ! Good for him for going to WORK every day ! PRIDE BROTHER 👍 Never Give up !
My husbands x tried to get more money from us and ended up getting half what she did before she was so mad.
This is the kind of judge we need in family court!
It's really refreshing to see a judge not picking sides. We're not quite to the point where stuff is fair, but this is a step in the right direction.
Bruh I thank God for whoever raised her she’s so fair unbiased 💯
Beautiful the judge is great
Wish child support in other states like nj and New York were this fare .i almost pay for one child in New Jersey the same I pay for my 3kids in Pennsylvania.why do some states like New Jersey not care about you having other children?
Nathan Bhengu why you having baby in every state?
I believe it's because those states skim some off the top, Pennsylvania for example skims a few dollars off every child support payment in "fees"; last I heard this amounted to millions of dollars in revenue for the state. I know from personal friends that New Jersey does it even more so. Most people don't know it goes on because the two parties never discuss what they sent vs what was received, otherwise they'd notice the difference.
$850 per month for child support.??! Don’t have children...
Every case is different, it's based off income so maybe mom should make less money.
She talked herself out of the money being petty about his new relationship 😂
The judge has a very lovely personality
What a terrible attitude and she says he needs HIS attitude adjusted. She was just after the money, doesn't care about her child at all. She even admits it's all about herself and her own jealousy.
Wait. I was so happy to see that something like this was happening except this isn't real? My heart sank when I realize she's not a real judge, in this wasn't a real case just based on real cases :(
Ok im glad someone has cleared this up for me cause I was like is this real? Yes real entertaining 😶😶🤣🤣
This judge is sooooo real she doesn’t lean against a certain side or anything.
She not a REAL JUDGE
8:03
I love watching each episode from this wonderful judge. She keeps it real and does not play the fence. I love watching the face of the upset parent when they didn’t get to play the system.
Not a real judge. Not a real court. 8:02
Finally a judge thats fair to men. I wish I got in her courtroom 20 years ago
Need to pull the child out of private school, find a family member who doesn't work/ Retired have them watch the child.
If that dont work lady, find a man with deep pockets
i believe she cannot stand that he moved on. I believe she is a baby mama drama
Daycare counts as 'private school' the kid is 4...isn't only daycare at that point anyway?
Buying him daycare😂😂😂!!!
Now this is a fair judge she needs to be in Georgia
I lost a custody battle in Georgia because the Judge had recently worked on a case where a father's child died while he was playing video games. He heard I was a gamer too and no matter what I brought forward regarding my ex's family's prescription drug abuses, he was biased against me from the very start, even though the GAL saw no reason why I couldn't be primary physical custodian.
@@Mr-Lister Georgia is not fair especially if your black
@@darnellpeek2543 - Is the mother black or a POC, BIPOC, etc.. If so, that has nothing to do with race, it has to do with biases for women, which is sexist, not racist.
Respect to this judge.
Lol 😂 Judge re-evaluates what she’s drinking 😂
I'm sure a child can skip private school. Try out the child in a better type of public school. The dates seem to care for his son. Maybe he worried about his job and his salary being cut
The fact that he straight up said he didn’t like the child was crazy as hell... I can’t believe Judge Vonda didn’t acknowledge that!
Not only did she not acknowledge it, she reinforced that it was okay. First time I've ever disagreed or been disappointed in Judge Vonda. VERY disappointed.
@@ZukiChrome I mean if I had a half Nigga child I wouldn’t like it either.
The judge told him that maybe he could talk to his son about football.
He sucks,but being a crappy father comes with no monetary effect
@@MichaelWilson-di6gbwas that not in the video because I didn’t see that. She told the mom to encourage the son to play football.
“Well, get over it.” SNAP!! 🤣🤣🤣
Judge Vonda, you're the best. Keep on rockin.
I literally scoop the poop out of your water with my bare hands!
Judge: I normally sip my tea while these people talk buuuut...
Didn't they say 4 y.o.....
Are all daycare/pre-schools 'private' at that level?
Gemini Eric No, a lot of public schools offer 4 year old preschool. They do here.
Farrah Lynn Not in Delaware. Public education starts in kindergarten. Public schools have a preschool program but it’s $100/mo.
She spending the money on herself