You forgot to mention the most red flags: They got sticks up their behinds, massive ego, they won't grow up, they act rude when someone is being polite, they don't know what they want, way too shallow, unfaithful. It goes on and on, my friend.
@@xtrm2009 yes. Ive been dating a 25 yo woman im 35. She does look 28 and i look 30 so its not so noticeable. She is actually very Intelligent and getting a masters degree and doing research. But she doesnt know what she wants of shes confused about her life. im sick of her diseappearing. If she wants someone else so be it. But she needs to let me go or i Will hate to be the one doing it
I met the love of my life almost a year ago and she is 14 years older than me. The first time we met in person all we could do was smile and hug each other. We decided to live together, without realizing it, after our first date and we haven't been apart or happier since, although neither of us knew it at the time. Like any relationship, it has it's challenges, but I've stayed true to my feelings and don't regret a thing. We have something very special and I look forward to the many more years of building onto the foundation we've created together. I love you baby!
This show is spot-on. The story is a pleasure to watch again and again. You touch every subject without bias and prejudice; but to call right, right; and wrong, wrong. Your suggestions are practical. I must hail, "God loves Ghana!"
Kindly note that I will never give you a phone number to contact me on. Please beware of fake Jessica OS accounts looking to scam you. The only way to have any direct conversation with me is via my Patreon account. Www.patreon.com/jessicaos . Stay safe guys!
I hear ya - Nicholas! And speaking of Confidence… Confidence is the #1 thing you’ll need before you approach any woman… And have no agenda, just relax, and talk to her like a human being - because women are people, whether you choose to believe that, or not! Lol But seriously, behave around her like you would with your friends, that way - she’ll let her guard down, and perhaps, let you get to know her! Just remember, it’s your job to put her mind at ease, if you can do that - amazing things will start to happen! Anyway, that’s my two cents. -Carlos Verde - Dating Tips
You're right but dating an older woman is different from dating an older and matured woman..a matured woman is smart and wise enough to know that a man is not a computer and can't always deliver great topics,and she's smart enough to carry the conversation most of the time given that the younger man shows a sign of being ready to learn from her
This was a very good topic. I never did have a girlfriend but I will say that since I was a teenager I have always been attracted to older women. I’m 22 years old and I would like to be with someone who’s at least 10 years older than me. I personally can’t see myself being with someone my age because they don’t seem to know how to take care of themselves and also nobody my age seems to want to be in a relationship. And yes, older women are more mature and way more experienced and that’s what I like in a woman. And this was very great advice and I will definitely take this into consideration. And I will definitely be checking out more of your videos.❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
I'm also dating a sweet one that is 9star greater than me and boy oh boy this one is taking it home, of course its not a walk in the park but makes sense to me
I have been dating a younger guy for over 16 years. We have some challenges but we try to overcome. That’s the best relationship I have ever had. Thanks
Lucky guy. There's this older coworker of mine and i don't know if she is into me because whenever she sees me, she always wants to approach me. Whenever she walks up to me, she never wants to shake my hand. She instead wants to throw herself at me for a hug. Then one time, I was minding my own business and trying to ignore her when she kept calling my name. she walked straight to me and ran her hand all over my ab area after she wrapped me in her arms. I was like "whoa lady wtf?" Lol ..And I regret not doing vice versa running my hand "behind" there to see if she liked it, if not then she should keep her hands to herself. Haha
Hi everybody... For my concerne, dating older women is for me the way to level up in any aspect of the relationship. And by the way become a better lover💓💓
When I came to Germany earlier I date old black Ghanaian women but trust me very lovely and respectful with good food that makes me look fresh snd wanted.
Brilliant content. With no issues, it is always better to be in a relationship with someone who is older and wiser, especially in a family set up. New engines need wise-drivers
I dated a woman 19yrs my senior I was 26 she was 45 and its was great at first convo, common interest and sex but as time progressed for some reason we grew apart. And once social media started to affect how we treated each other I knew this wouldn't last. Still friends but you have to have understanding in order for it to go the distance. We had a 10 month relationship 🤷🏾
There's this older coworker of mine and i don't know if she is into me because whenever she sees me, she always wants to approach me. Whenever she walks up to me, she never wants to shake my hand. She instead wants to throw herself at me for a hug. Then one time, I was minding my own business and trying to ignore her when she kept calling my name. she walked straight to me and ran her hand all over my ab area after she wrapped me in her arms. I was like "whoa lady wtf?" Lol ..And I regret not doing vice versa running my hand "behind" there to see if she liked it, if not then she should keep her hands to herself. Haha
@@xtrm2009 appreciate the admiration stand clear of any boundary crossing behavior. Cause she may have given the signs but the minute you make her feel uncomfortable she could go to HR and it's your word against hers. I have a ton of woman at my job that like me, I don't know to what extent but I just smile, help when I can and keep it moving.
I was married to my late wife and mother of our two children for 16 years before she died. She was five years older than me. In the following relationship, I was with an older woman again... this time, ten years older, and we were together for 12 years. I have learned a lot from these two relationships to know that ultimately our age-related needs diverge at some point and pushes older women with younger men apart. I find it much easier to be with women who are somewhere from one to four years younger when age-related needs are similar.
An immature man cannot date an older woman.. so you must be strong and independent in your thought and will.. You can't go that lane.. that's a very strong point..
The truth is, dating older women brings you lesser drama because they are more experienced when they talk to you, when they advice you, they are respectful and straightforward with you in everyhting and they are always clean when you get them laid. I don't date ladies that are younger than me. And I intend to marry a lady who is older than me. Older women are just so sweet to be with.
I agree! My gf is 8 yrs older than me and she's taught me a lot about life and I am able to help her view life differently in as well. People will judge, but you have to realize it's YOUR relationship NOT theirs. Ppl hate to see others happy. Older women loves men who has control. Not just control of their life, but their emotions most importantly.
I just started date girl since my childhood when I was 12 or 13 to 20 yrs old then I started date female 22 or 23 yrs old rite now i'm 44 yrs old I had experienced thru relationship but rite now i'm going keep 100% real loyalty to my female..
Hi Jessica. I have been having this problem for a long time and if you'd talk about this topic I'd be very delighted. "HOW TO KNOW IF HE/SHE IS THE ONE*. I hope many people would love you to talk about it.
The video is more than helpful, I have been there before and I always want to be there because I think it’s more experience for me especially now that I have watched this, u are awesome, keep it up, gorgeous!💗
Major keys opening gates right there.Now i feel like dating an older woman...hhehehehe..Thanks SunshineGirl. Most of the facts you have outlined actually puts some of us( already married) in better positions to have more meaningful relationships with older women in general. Understanding where they have been, who they are and where they are headed. I also surmise that to just be comfortable around older women, you indeed must be strong minded and independent; recognising that they are ahead in many regards and playing your role respectfully as friend, partner or lover. Great stuff ,SunshineGirl, great stuff.
This is wonderful again to me , I love this episode, I am in love with my older woman and we love ourselves with mature understanding, I never wish to loose her.
I don’t know what it is but I tend to feel more comfortable with older people (especially in platonic situations) so maybe it’s always made me have crushes on older women around me. One girl I’ve kind of been interested in lately is three years older.
Nice one I was told as well that I must be man and know what the man role. I had to retract myself from her coz I had to dig deep into what was said to me.
I was 22 yrs old dating a 38 yr old woman for about 2 yrs. But im 32 and been talking to a 62 yr old 🥶 she looks like shes in her 40s... I be so goo goo eyed when I see her and its likewise lol
I mostly found myself attracted to older or my age and if younger it would be a year or two,however I was born in a family who believes a man should date or marry a younger women. I personally don’t like younger women mainly because I feel way too mature for most of them
This is exact same with me. Older, same age, or a little younger (like 1 or 2 yrs). I'm not comfortable with those much younger ones, they are full of drama. 🤦🏿♂️🤦🏿♂️🤦🏿♂️
Dearest Jessica, I loved your messages and I like them all ages 30 up! To me all women are different and I love them all you included of course! You are all sweethearts with different characteristics! But you are all pretty regardless of your age! Love and kisses to all of you women! You included! Cosmic Blessings and lots of Love and Light to you always! 🙏🙏🙏🙏🍀🍀🍀🍀🌹🌹🌹🌹❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
Nice one, but u didn't talk about d insecurities amongst Dem.. Am dating a woman 9 years older than me n we both love each other very much, she is just scared I might leave her soon for someone of my age group
I love older women because they appear to be more mature. Most of the time I'm interest in them sexually, I don't know if is lust or love but I find them appealing 😹😹😂
1. she'd want things faster than you can keep up , like marriage and kids. 2. her libido might be low 3. she's very independent and that's a problem for a lot of men 😂😂😂. if you can't get it for her , she'd get it herself.
Younger women don’t know how to hold conversations. All they care about are food dates, social media, and trips.
You forgot to mention the most red flags: They got sticks up their behinds, massive ego, they won't grow up, they act rude when someone is being polite, they don't know what they want, way too shallow, unfaithful. It goes on and on, my friend.
@@xtrm2009 yes. Ive been dating a 25 yo woman im 35. She does look 28 and i look 30 so its not so noticeable. She is actually very Intelligent and getting a masters degree and doing research. But she doesnt know what she wants of shes confused about her life. im sick of her diseappearing. If she wants someone else so be it. But she needs to let me go or i Will hate to be the one doing it
@@etcwhatever congratulations for being her pushover
I was dating a woman 15 years older than me for 1 year and a half. Best time of my life
What happened?
@@mr.warrio2324 when the relation went public, her family was against it. They thought that she lost her mind
@@dudu2891 i’m close to being in a relationship with a woman 9 years older than me but kinda worried about the family ordeal
@@Sage-vl3so dont loose her
It must have been amazing...how old was she when you met ?
I met the love of my life almost a year ago and she is 14 years older than me. The first time we met in person all we could do was smile and hug each other. We decided to live together, without realizing it, after our first date and we haven't been apart or happier since, although neither of us knew it at the time. Like any relationship, it has it's challenges, but I've stayed true to my feelings and don't regret a thing. We have something very special and I look forward to the many more years of building onto the foundation we've created together. I love you baby!
Mum thank u because I am in a relationship with an older lady and I love her soo much 🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏
This show is spot-on. The story is a pleasure to watch again and again. You touch every subject without bias and prejudice; but to call right, right; and wrong, wrong. Your suggestions are practical. I must hail, "God loves Ghana!"
Kindly note that I will never give you a phone number to contact me on. Please beware of fake Jessica OS accounts looking to scam you. The only way to have any direct conversation with me is via my Patreon account. Www.patreon.com/jessicaos . Stay safe guys!
Wow, this’s for me, I’ve been wanting this for quite a long time.. i can now approach my old woman with confidence.
Good luck 🤞🏿
I hear ya - Nicholas! And speaking of Confidence…
Confidence is the #1 thing you’ll need before you approach any woman…
And have no agenda, just relax, and talk to her like a human being - because women are people, whether you choose to believe that, or not! Lol
But seriously, behave around her like you would with your friends, that way - she’ll let her guard down, and perhaps, let you get to know her!
Just remember, it’s your job to put her mind at ease, if you can do that - amazing things will start to happen!
Anyway, that’s my two cents.
-Carlos Verde - Dating Tips
I like the way you discuss the subject about older women who like younger men. It is delightful to hear it from a mature woman's point of view.
Dating older women is not for everyone it goes with maturity in all aspects,great topic and beautiful delivered as always Jesi👌🏽👏🏽😊❤️
I agree with you dear @Bertha
Hello Bertha.. Bukola is my name. Can I get to know you please
👍👍
Hey Bertha can I get to know you?
You're right but dating an older woman is different from dating an older and matured woman..a matured woman is smart and wise enough to know that a man is not a computer and can't always deliver great topics,and she's smart enough to carry the conversation most of the time given that the younger man shows a sign of being ready to learn from her
Jessica, this is exactly what I needed at this moment.
Am dating with her n our difference is only 4 n she loves me more n more
Older ladies are so loving than these young ladies who are tooooo childish
This was a very good topic. I never did have a girlfriend but I will say that since I was a teenager I have always been attracted to older women. I’m 22 years old and I would like to be with someone who’s at least 10 years older than me. I personally can’t see myself being with someone my age because they don’t seem to know how to take care of themselves and also nobody my age seems to want to be in a relationship. And yes, older women are more mature and way more experienced and that’s what I like in a woman. And this was very great advice and I will definitely take this into consideration. And I will definitely be checking out more of your videos.❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
We have been dating for about four months now.. She is about 9 years older than I am.. She really is the true definition of humility.
Congratulations and Best Wishes to you, buddy! Someone is better than no one.
This is what I need right now...honestly.
👏🏽 yea
I'm also dating a sweet one that is 9star greater than me and boy oh boy this one is taking it home, of course its not a walk in the park but makes sense to me
I have been dating a younger guy for over 16 years. We have some challenges but we try to overcome. That’s the best relationship I have ever had. Thanks
Lucky guy. There's this older coworker of mine and i don't know if she is into me because whenever she sees me, she always wants to approach me. Whenever she walks up to me, she never wants to shake my hand. She instead wants to throw herself at me for a hug. Then one time, I was minding my own business and trying to ignore her when she kept calling my name. she walked straight to me and ran her hand all over my ab area after she wrapped me in her arms. I was like "whoa lady wtf?" Lol ..And I regret not doing vice versa running my hand "behind" there to see if she liked it, if not then she should keep her hands to herself. Haha
I love her,me 50 she 71 and has a body out of this world and a heart bigger than life
Hi everybody...
For my concerne, dating older women is for me the way to level up in any aspect
of the relationship. And by the way become a better lover💓💓
When I came to Germany earlier I date old black Ghanaian women but trust me very lovely and respectful with good food that makes me look fresh snd wanted.
Brilliant content.
With no issues, it is always better to be in a relationship with someone who is older and wiser, especially in a family set up.
New engines need wise-drivers
🤗
So proud of you Jess,way to go sister. I'm going out with a woman 2years older than me and I have been so happy and relaxed in a long time. Thanks.
I dated a woman 19yrs my senior I was 26 she was 45 and its was great at first convo, common interest and sex but as time progressed for some reason we grew apart. And once social media started to affect how we treated each other I knew this wouldn't last. Still friends but you have to have understanding in order for it to go the distance. We had a 10 month relationship 🤷🏾
You should go back to her again lol
There's this older coworker of mine and i don't know if she is into me because whenever she sees me, she always wants to approach me. Whenever she walks up to me, she never wants to shake my hand. She instead wants to throw herself at me for a hug. Then one time, I was minding my own business and trying to ignore her when she kept calling my name. she walked straight to me and ran her hand all over my ab area after she wrapped me in her arms. I was like "whoa lady wtf?" Lol ..And I regret not doing vice versa running my hand "behind" there to see if she liked it, if not then she should keep her hands to herself. Haha
@@xtrm2009 appreciate the admiration stand clear of any boundary crossing behavior. Cause she may have given the signs but the minute you make her feel uncomfortable she could go to HR and it's your word against hers. I have a ton of woman at my job that like me, I don't know to what extent but I just smile, help when I can and keep it moving.
@@Ogfisher1 Well that's why i said she should keep her hands to her damn self . I don't like them d'teasing games
@@xtrm2009be transparent and ask brodie
I was married to my late wife and mother of our two children for 16 years before she died. She was five years older than me. In the following relationship, I was with an older woman again... this time, ten years older, and we were together for 12 years. I have learned a lot from these two relationships to know that ultimately our age-related needs diverge at some point and pushes older women with younger men apart. I find it much easier to be with women who are somewhere from one to four years younger when age-related needs are similar.
An immature man cannot date an older woman.. so you must be strong and independent in your thought and will.. You can't go that lane.. that's a very strong point..
So what makes a man mature ?
Younger girls are immature too. Even the ones in their 30's.
Damn..Her Eloquence💯
Older women gives the relationship a smoother process🫶🏾
I'm yet to date an older lady, and am hopeful getting one.... Above all good topic Jesca
Representing +254 🇰🇪🇰🇪 keep winning jesy
The truth is, dating older women brings you lesser drama because they are more experienced when they talk to you, when they advice you, they are respectful and straightforward with you in everyhting and they are always clean when you get them laid. I don't date ladies that are younger than me. And I intend to marry a lady who is older than me. Older women are just so sweet to be with.
Just really....?? Like I need to learn from you man🖐
Agreed
I agree! My gf is 8 yrs older than me and she's taught me a lot about life and I am able to help her view life differently in as well. People will judge, but you have to realize it's YOUR relationship NOT theirs. Ppl hate to see others happy. Older women loves men who has control. Not just control of their life, but their emotions most importantly.
I need to stop being interested in the ones my age (36) or younger. They can't grow up.
1st viewer first time thank you very much Jessica for these advices....
hmm..This is Sensitive topic.. Am Glad jess is cashing out on all this adverts & sponsorships ...
I just started date girl since my childhood when I was 12 or 13 to 20 yrs old then I started date female 22 or 23 yrs old rite now i'm 44 yrs old I had experienced thru relationship but rite now i'm going keep 100% real loyalty to my female..
Hi Jessica. I have been having this problem for a long time and if you'd talk about this topic I'd be very delighted. "HOW TO KNOW IF HE/SHE IS THE ONE*. I hope many people would love you to talk about it.
check through her older posts, it is there
Thank you very much
The video is more than helpful, I have been there before and I always want to be there because I think it’s more experience for me especially now that I have watched this, u are awesome, keep it up, gorgeous!💗
I've been waiting for this video for a very long time 😊
Major keys opening gates right there.Now i feel like dating an older woman...hhehehehe..Thanks SunshineGirl.
Most of the facts you have outlined actually puts some of us( already married) in better positions to have more meaningful relationships with older women in general.
Understanding where they have been, who they are and where they are headed.
I also surmise that to just be comfortable around older women, you indeed must be strong minded and independent; recognising that they are ahead in many regards and playing your role respectfully as friend, partner or lover. Great stuff ,SunshineGirl, great stuff.
YOU ARE DEFINITELY RIGHT JESSICA ❤
I LOVE YOUR INTELLECT
There are things that don't work out as easy as your explaining, good though.
Jessica am speechless ur a genius this as help me
Am just so addicted to your videos… you are so intelligent
Thumbs up👍🏾 I'm into older women and your thoughts are good insights
😂😂😂older women are for me.. its more fun to date older in evry way possible
This is wonderful again to me , I love this episode, I am in love with my older woman and we love ourselves with mature understanding, I never wish to loose her.
I don’t know what it is but I tend to feel more comfortable with older people (especially in platonic situations) so maybe it’s always made me have crushes on older women around me. One girl I’ve kind of been interested in lately is three years older.
Jessica 👏❤️.... you are inspiration 🔥✌️
We love you 😍
You're here too eiii
Nice one I was told as well that I must be man and know what the man role. I had to retract myself from her coz I had to dig deep into what was said to me.
I love this topic personally 🤩, keep on the good work ma'am Jessica
I just found your channel recently, and I love how you just tell things like they are and I actually get what you're saying. Thank you. You rock
Number four sounds great to me.
Thanks Jessica
Guys let us all meet one day with our partners and have fun and encourage each other (ALL LADIES DATING YOUNGER MEN ) She's also older than me
Older women are the coolest if you carry yourself well around them.
VERY SPOT ON JESS' THANKS FOR ALL THE HEADS-UP
I was 22 yrs old dating a 38 yr old woman for about 2 yrs. But im 32 and been talking to a 62 yr old 🥶 she looks like shes in her 40s... I be so goo goo eyed when I see her and its likewise lol
You are sincerely doing a great job,can you date someone you are very older than!
Knowledge well received thanks Jessica you rock. If it's you it's definitely your thing and that's how it goes.
Thanks Jess That was an amazing video. Thanks for the tips! I appreciate you queen.
Madam Boss ...,you do help alot to those ones that are disable to approach women 💯💯
am glad am the third person
I mostly found myself attracted to older or my age and if younger it would be a year or two,however I was born in a family who believes a man should date or marry a younger women. I personally don’t like younger women mainly because I feel way too mature for most of them
This is exact same with me.
Older, same age, or a little younger (like 1 or 2 yrs).
I'm not comfortable with those much younger ones, they are full of drama. 🤦🏿♂️🤦🏿♂️🤦🏿♂️
I'm the 4th viewer oooo
Keep the good work ma'am
I’m second viewer
Nice one Jess. How do one date older women in long distance relationship?
You hit it to the nail...
Older women are the best, they show you how to love and make you a better man. Ps be her man 😌
I always love ur works mum 🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏
Good evening Jessica. I normally prefer older women in a relationship but I don't know what to approach them at the initial stage
But older women looks neat inside out very hygienic .
Great n thanks to You 4 Such Episode 🙏💯💯
I need one older lady I have experienced it and its so comfortable relation
I am going to use these tips to come for you OS ... you are my target hahahaha
Dearest Jessica, I loved your messages and I like them all ages 30 up! To me all women are different and I love them all you included of course!
You are all sweethearts with different characteristics! But you are all pretty regardless of your age!
Love and kisses to all of you women!
You included!
Cosmic Blessings and lots of Love and Light to you always!
🙏🙏🙏🙏🍀🍀🍀🍀🌹🌹🌹🌹❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
I dated a older woman even now we are still dating we have 3 years in relationship
Good one there Jess. I love this
Today you've left me speechless...
Big up to you 😉😉
Please Jessica can you do a video about how single mother’s behave in relationship.
Nice one, but u didn't talk about d insecurities amongst Dem.. Am dating a woman 9 years older than me n we both love each other very much, she is just scared I might leave her soon for someone of my age group
Great video, Jess!
I love this
I can’t wait to get it on podcast.
now i have been waiting for this video,
I believe same applies to woman dating or marrying an older men
No it’s not, that’s societal standard. It’s expected
Good job Jessica I've learned a lot from your video on relationships and yeah they are really true
My target is you,I love your bike passion.
Hello Jessica...Am Mark An Agricultural Engineer am from Nakuru,,kenya.I would like you to prepare a video on Ego in relationship.Thanks in advance🤗
Jessica I would love to ask alot from you thanks you are soh inspiring
This is amazing...
I love this🤗
I love older women because they appear to be more mature. Most of the time I'm interest in them sexually, I don't know if is lust or love but I find them appealing 😹😹😂
Bonjour Everyone
Have a great weekend Jessica
I admire you so much 😍🥰😊
Can we talk via email pls?
I’m second😍🙏🏿
Your T-shirt 👕 looks good on you...
🤣
Amazing 🔥🔥🔥
Older woman are simple,non dramatic, and beutiful
1. she'd want things faster than you can keep up , like marriage and kids.
2. her libido might be low
3. she's very independent and that's a problem for a lot of men 😂😂😂. if you can't get it for her , she'd get it herself.
These are exceptions to the rule and not the Norm though
Love your idea.
JO this so Good thank u
Forget this I want Jessica herself ❤ lol
Great show
Amazing