North Korean Women Touched by Loving American Dads
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- Опубликовано: 30 мар 2022
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Today Nara and Sanghee, who is from North and South Korea, talked about some cultural differences between dads around the world! How come US dads are more loving and caring? How was your father like?
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My Korean husband was very hands on and affectionate with our twin boys, so much so that they can still remember the fun and loving things he did with them, even though he died before they were in kindergarten.
My condolences.
I’m so sorry for your loss. It’s good that your sons remember him fondly.
💔 Best wishes Melody.
my condolences and best wishes to you and your family
My condolences 🙏
American black woman here. Even though i didn’t grow up with my father, he still managed to keep in contact with me and always let me know i was his child, how special i am and how much he loves me. I’m an adult and he still does all those things. He will randomly call me, visit me while at my job (i live 3hrs from him now), will send a text to me to just say hi and to know how i’m doing, etc. I do the same for him. He does more as well. He does all of this because he knows how important a father is to their children as well a mother is. He’s even help raise children who aren’t his because those children had no father figure to look up to and to go to. I can go on and on about my father, but this comment will be as long as a textbook if i do. All i have to say is that i am very blessed and fortunate that i was born to a father like mine.
Very touching. It's a blessing to have such a strong relationship. I'm happy for you both!
That is awesome!
i'm a native american and my dad was born in 1950. he wasn't great a reading (back then, they would just pass him despite his failing grades) but one of my fondest memories was us reading a bed time story together and playing with my toy cars/trains. we didn't have much but memories like that always stuck with me. i can only hope to make those kinds of memories with my own son, who will be born in a few months
Some of us really lucked out, having awesome dads who would turn the world upside down for us. Mine is 89 now, in poor physical health and in the moderate stages of dementia, but I’m going to be here with him as long as he’s here on this planet! #daddysgirl
@@idxrider I bet you will be a wonderful father! Good luck and wishes to you! 💕
While not all American fathers are like this, I was lucky enough to have an amazing dad. I was adopted from foster care as a baby, and he was one of my favorite people. He died last June at age 91. I’m 48, and it wasn’t enough time with him.
Very sweet, I'm so glad you had a wonderful dad!😃
Glad you had such a wonderful dad 🥰
My condolences, passing at 91 is a great age, he was able to live his life 🙏
Awwww. He sounds like he was a great guy. My dad had a great relationship with his dad and stepmom (whom I always fondly refer to as grandma). For me visiting them, especially when they lived in Philadelphia, was great. I do miss them a lot, especially grandma. Even though she wasn’t my biological grandma she was still my beloved grandma.
I’m sorry for your loss, it great that he took care of you while he did❤️
Not all American fathers are this good with their children but many are , it is sweet to see the ones who really love their children , I pray that north and South Korea someday can be one
Not all American mothers are good
@@richchie71 that’s true
@spill teaz right now no country is looking great and yes the media is a big problem , America media ranked dead last globally because they lie and everyone knows it , and yes there are good and bad in every country all we can do is be good ourselves and try
The younger generations of fathers are more hands-on. I think that started with my generation (baby boomers). My own father was pretty detached from his kids (life was about work!) although he was a good person and did special things with us sometimes.
Just like not all American mothers are good with their children. . .
Nationality and culture aside, it makes me sad to think that there are boys and girls right now that don't have parents that show them love and affection, that don't play with them or get down on their level.
I have two daughters and we make sure we have time to play together every day. To pretend, to laugh, to tickle and wrestle, to sing songs, to draw pictures, to read and make up stories.
Oh wow, this made me raise my eyebrows in slight shock lol ☹️ I grew up without a dad, and only my mum thinking I was fine! I didn’t need one! Who does?? But the older I get, the more I realise how far I had suppressed these feelings.
This is the current goal of people in power. Separate everyone into groups then get them fighting and break up the nuclear family. Then everyone will have to relay on an ever expanding, ever wasteful and purposefully incompetent government
They show their affection in different ways, but yes, it would be nice if they played too.
being an absent or negligent parent is better for a child than a present "loving" parent who rips apart their childs self esteem 😵
It would be a kick to see them react to my dad. Doing everything for me by himself from the time I was a baby. Being my 24 hour cook, driver, caregiver, and playmate. He never let me near the stove even as a teenager. Wouldn't let me near the washing machine so he always did my laundry. Tried to teach me how to shave my legs and how to use "sanitary napkins" when I got older. He was strict! But only to a point. He was like a grandfatherly pet dog who follows the baby of the family around everywhere to watch over her. Patient, quiet, gentle, and nurturing. But playful and silly! He fought for me and never gave me a chance to feel unloved in this world.
💗💗💗Sounds wonderful!
My husband is a very loving and involved father. Our daughter is an adult now and lives 200 miles away. She came to visit for a couple of days and just went back home today. As soon as she left, my husband hugged me and started crying saying, "I miss our baby so much!"
That sounds exactly like what my mom said my dad did on two separate occasions: when they came home from moving me off to college he walked in my empty bedroom and started crying.
He did the same thing when he got home after the reception, when I got married- only difference this time is he poured himself a bourbon and Coke, sat down in his recliner, and cried.
Didn’t surprise me at all, tbh. I’m still a 47-year-old daddy’s girl-even though he’s 89 now with physical issues as well as dementia, and I’m the one looking after him.
I’m kinda jealous of these kids for having such loving dads, and parents in general. Wasn’t really shown any affection or even attention, growing up, aside from my grandpa and my cat. My parents and sisters didn’t really want to waste any effort or time emotionally connecting with someone who wasn’t likely to survive past the age of 15, due to me being really sickly, which from a logical perspective I can kinda understand. Doesn’t make it suck any less, but like I said, at least I had my grandpa and my cat. I miss them both. My grandpa wasn’t related to me by blood, but we were still best friends. We used to get into trouble when he’d sneak me out of my room to go fishing and stuff, lol. He also served in Vietnam in the army, and basically ruined regular coffee for me. I was always his favorite, and despite not being blood related, I inherited his dog tags. I have them hanging by my front door so I can always feel like he’s there to see me off.
I'm so sorry you didn't get the parents and siblings you deserved. If I had a child who had serious health issues, I'd make sure to love them more while I could, instead of distancing myself. That really sucks. I'm happy your grandpa loved you! Take care!
@@mayhemacres725 thanks, man. I appreciate that, and hopefully you take care, too.
Sounds like g'pa was your dad. I'm glad you had him. Blood relatives aren't always the best family we have.
That's awesome that you have his dog tags. Sounds like you had a great relationship.
@@michaelm.1947 yeah, we did. Unfortunately he died when I was 14, due to a combination heart attack and car accident. I miss him to this very day.
Thank you for your comment :) I too was jealous of the love and affection and attentiveness in the video.
When I was a toddler my father saved me from drowning…twice… within an hour. I can still remember it and I’m 57. We were pool side. I was in my bathing suit and I told him I could swim. He was from Cuba and could swim very well. I dove into the water and he pulled me out because at 3 I really had no idea how to swim. He laughed it off then told my to change to some regular clothes. Came back and ended up in the pool again. So he fished me out a second time. I miss him very much.
I’m from america and can’t imagine having such a loving dad growing up. Mine gave me and my mom and brothers PTSD from abuse
This beings back memories. I lives in Illinois and my dad was very hands on, his idea was, she might do it when I'm not watching, so I better teach her to do it right. He caught me climbing the ladder on the new swing set when I was 10 months, but instead of yanking me off, he just held my bottom while I slowly made my way up. He also taught me to climb the slide by taking my shoes and socks off so I could get a better grip.
That is SO true. These ladies know their stuff. Being close with dad often means the difference between success in life and struggle in life.
My father was an example of how not to be a dad. So when I had my own son, who's going to be 5 this year, he's been my whole world since I saw the first sonogram. I really don't understand how anyone could have a kid and willingly ignore them or leave them or anything like that. I'm actually retired so I have way more time than most people to spend raising my kid and spending time with him, but it's not like it's ever boring or I could ever even get tired of him. He's my top priority and I really don't understand how all kids aren't always their parents highest priority. Taking care of, teaching, etc your kid is basically you're entire function on this planet...so how could anyone not do that?
My dad used to roll with me down big hills and wrestle in the living room. Good times.
Same. It was great until the abuse. Hopefully you don't have to deal with such jarring dissonance of a man who loved you then stole everything from you.
@@Undomaranel I'm sorry to hear that. My mom was the one who abused me in my case. My dad loved me.
Just for the records, it's a universal MYTH that Mothers take better care of their children than Fathers do. I raised my kids by myself, even before my divorce. I was the one who came home from work, coached their youth sports (football, wrestling for the boys and cheerleading and basketball for my daughters). I fed them, bathed them, helped them with their homework and sang them to sleep. I eventually ran out of patience for my wife to get into the whole family thing.. and won custody of all four of my kids...and they actually told the judge they preferred me over their Mom. So...not MYTHS are true.
Thank you for being there for your kids. And also for showing the world that deadbeat mothers are a thing and it's not just the stereotypical "deadbeat dads". I've got personal experience with it, so am glad to see people like you proving the world wrong. I'm sure your kids love and appreciate you for everything you do.
@@michaelm.1947 Thank you
Same for me as well. My Dad is the only person in my immediate family who's consistently trustworthy. My "mother" has done jack-shit at best for twenty years and counting
Finally someone mentioned it. Being a woman doesn’t make you a better parent.
My dad had a temper and could blow up at any moment. However, having said that, he could also be a big goof, especially when we were really young. One of my favorite memories was what we called "park in the dark". Dad would come home from work during the summer, and after dinner, he'd take us to the park and play tag and capture the flag with us until after dark.
I'm always grateful for my daddy. I'm in my 30s now, but I was their first child and growing up, every day he got off work, picked me up, and we went off to just spend the afternoon together. He was the one who wanted kids (my mom was 'if it happens it happens' about kids) and when my mother was pregnant with me he would tell everybody he could that he was going to have a baby soon, and when I came, he took me EVERYWHERE with him. When I was 10, my mom had twins and he quit work to be a stay-at-home father to look after us all. And when I was 13 they had their last baby and he looked after 4 kids alone for a few years before they swapped places and he started working again and my mom stayed home with the kids. Not many people get as lucky with their father the way we did with Daddy, so I'm always grateful. My mom's father died when she was 18 years old. I'm grateful I'm in my 30s and my daddy is still around.
My parents equally shared the parenting and housework. They both worked full time, but since my dad had the car he had a shorter commute, and usually walked me to the bus stop and picked me up from afterschool. My mom would take me to things on the weekend. He taught me how to ride a bike, and we'd go on bike rides together often. He also taught me how to cook, and we would cook together almost all the time until I moved out. Now I visit once a week, and we always show each other the funny things we have seen since we have the same sense of humor. He is a lovely, gentle man.
A story my parents told me, that When I was I think just barely one year old, my grandfather (may he rest in peace) was holding me and he apparently tripped and fell, he fell on his side and managed to hold me up simultaneously but unfortunately broke his hip. Goes to show how much dads and even dads of dads will go to protect family in the best of cases.
The thing about dads playing rough with their children is so true. I dont remember playing with my mom, but my dad would sack me in a blanket and carry me around the house. I would sit on his back and he would "buck" around like a "bull". He would even lift me up so i could cling to the top of his punching bag and swing/sway when he worked out. Some core memories i just remembered.
Yup, that is definitely the norm. I think it's called rough and tumble? The psychologist viewpoint on child rearing is fascinating for sure.
Loved the two young ladies commentary. Very cute, sweet, and sincere.
please have these two awesome ladies on more! they are excellent and a joy to watch how they react.
That title should probably be renamed to heart warmed instead of "touched" 😂😂😭
One memory of my dad--when I was around 4 or 5 he let me draw on his feet with a felt-tipped pen. I'd draw little faces on his toes.
I really appreciate the fact that my dad tried his hardest to always support me and my siblings, I'm a grown man now and i'm really happy that my father is still a big part pf my life.
Watching this makes me happy knowing that there are caring fathers out there in this world. Sadly, I didn't get to experience that as a young child. Knowing that there are good people makes me cry.
Thanks for the video. I enjoyed it.
Watching this made me felt in tears🥲 where I really missed adventuring with my dad. Now I'm 19 and I really miss those days.
The dad wearing the shirt and tie and lying on the couch still impresses me. He is not even looking towards the kid about to fall head first off the couch. He still instantly catches her. At an awkward angle with another kid sitting on him, too. Yet the mother is sitting up, looking right towards the kid and still fails to react before he does.
thats the thing, once u becomes a dad, thats some reflex that u got and develop unconsciously
Dad reflexes
Enjoyed. Thanks.😍
Did not expect wholesome content with a title like that
Love the video
lovely human beings. no reason why we can't just all get along.
um these girls are GORGEOUSSSSS
bless these dads (and of course moms)! I am the luckiest girl in the world to have AMAZING parents.
That second head shaving clip, the one from the thumbnail, is Zach and Malia Hayes. Some of my most favorite people in the world. Love them forever.
Nara and Sanghie, lovely and honest, intelligent reactions.
lovely ladies.. best wishes. Thanks for the video
These two are stunning!
All good dads should love and care for their children no matter where they are.
I remember my dad, he tried to act gruff (he was a softie), he'd take me out to tea and coffee shops, pick up a book or newspaper for himself, and he and I would quietly read for hours together. Then when he'd finish he'd quirk a smile at me, tease me and jokingly try to steal my hot-chocolate or tea, then laugh before taking me home to watch movies.
He was always there despite having not gotten custody of me in the divorce, always made himself available no matter what.
I also remember him reading old French tales like those of Roland (a popular French tale) though he wasn't fond of Greek mythology he nurtured my interest in it, encouraged me to get into Norse mythology, fantasy fiction and history, especially where it was related to French history (we're French). He was never comfortable with physical affection (he had his reasons) but he never shied from hugs, from a hand on the shoulder and from letting me know he adored me. I still remember him always telling me, I'd be his son and that we may be father and son, but we were also best friends.
Heck I remember stuff going back to being 3 years old, him taking me to the movies, and reading stories. Sorry rambled, though it has been 14 years since he passed, still remember everything he did. Love him to this day, so that in a lot of ways my 'fantasy/mythology yt channel' is as much a love letter to that genre of fiction as it is to him. So glad to see so many other dads in this comment section were wondrous, dunno how my French-Canuck dad measures up in some peoples' opinion but in my view he was the greatest man who ever lived.
my Dad had to raise me, his only daughter, by himself. his mom raised him by herself, too, but died young, so I think he figured out how to be a good Dad pretty fast. when I was a toddler he had this black and white screenprinted t-shirt of my face on it that he'd gotten at the County Fair that also had his nickname for me, "Manda-bear". he wore that shirt EVERYWHERE, he was so proud of me. when I was a kid he always talked to me like a person, not an adult, but someone who deserved to be listened to. he taught me to respect myself by respecting me, always had a dry Dad joke ready, and we could bond talking about horror movies for hours. a year ago today he lost his battle with cancer and I miss him every single moment, but I know now it's because I had such a great love that I now have such a great pain. ♥ hug your Dad if you can, and if not, hug the closest person to a Dad you have. -Lulu from Texas
Children should be cherished and given guidance but never broken!
My dad was always at work, which I understand, and as a kid I don’t think I minded much since my mom, cousin, grandparents and uncles would always drop by to play or hang out in the mornings and my dad would be home by dinner. My mom had a health issue and a language barrier so she couldn’t work like how she used to (waiter at a chinese place). Both my parents are also not big on affection in any way so thats… a thing.
Seeing these videos I’m just glad these guys have a dad who’s affectionate and seem like they’d listen to their kids bo matter what
They look amazing.
I remember The Hayes Family! I hope they are all doing well...
They just posted a birthday celebration for Malia on their channel! Here’s hoping they’ll be back!
This looks like a loaded title you'd find on....another site but actually wholesome as hell lol
As a single father raising my twin daughters (11 years old) It can be a handful sometimes and I have to remind them that I am their father and not their best friend. So I expect them to listen to me when I tell them something or ask them to do something. The last thing I want is for my children to grow up to be these entitled whinny kids of today... I want them to grow up to be self sufficient but not one of these Amazonian types that don't need no man... They have their mother for the girly stuff and they have me for all the hard to deal with situations... Always trying to teach them to stay calm and think critically about problems that they might face. Life is hard but what is harder is growing up with only 1 parent... Luckily for them they have both of their parents so I do my best to get along with the ex wife at least, as it is better for the girls.
Nara is a beautiful girl with a big heart, she deserved better.
The American dads we have that are good. Those men are spectacular ✨️
My father was my best friend until he passed a few years ago. I miss him every day as both.
I searched for this video title on the wrong website apparently.
As someone who died have a father growing up I'm gonna do my best as a father and be there for my kids
My Dad really is one of those hero dads & not because he was in the military so much as he managed to protect me from myself since I was one of those accident prone kids
That was my dad in a lot of ways. He was the one who roughhoused and did the more physical nurturing whereas mom was more of the emotional caregiving though they did both in their own ways as well. To this day I always say I am my dad's son but my momma's boy.
It would be very funny to see dads with their older daughters like teens or in their twenties or even older
omg the girl on the right her skin is AMAZING
Best hero dad moment from me was tripping down the stairs with my 3 month old nephew and catching him with my legs in an acrobatic move that resulted in his safety and a back injury for me.
My son in law dressed up as Blippi for my grandson',s 2nd birthday. It was amazing. American dads play with their kids all the time.
My two little ones (3 and 4) love rough housing with me. I think it's good for them to learn the limits of what they can do physically without hurting someone else with me, rather than figure it out playing with another child when it comes to acceptable play. I won't really get hurt or offended by bad behavior and can correct it before they do hurt someone else by mistake. But playtime is like any other activity, and sometime story time is the preference, tea time or truck's and dinosaurs are what they like to do with me.
My Puerto Rican dad was and still is my number 1 hero. I pray for the day that every person in the world can say that.
Loved seeing Hayes Family
My god, you're both gorgeous 😍
I am touched by these Korean ladies putting interest in the American people. What a sight to see after so many years, special times my friends 👋❤🙏🏻
I love these videos. We are all the same
American woman here, my father was nothing like these amazing dads. I always wished to have a dad like this, one that was constantly present instead of going in and out of prison for drugs and alcohol, though I did lose him young,
I’m American. My dad is very A type. Business man. But I remember being little and always pretending to be “asleep” on the couch so he would carry me up to bed and tuck me in. I don’t have many memories of being super little but I do remember that.
The US is huge and super-diverse, so it is very hard to make generalizations about the society as a whole. That said if you look at news papers and magazines that have been published for 100+ years, you can compare how the content of the articles change over time.
In the late 1940s early 1950s American men who pushed a baby carriage, carried their baby on walks, cooked food or showed too much affection in public towards their kids(even tears of joy) were seen as "weird" or "not masculine" in various magazines/news papers. With-in 10-20 years those same articles changed, now saying fathers who did those actions were "masculine" and good men.
At this time Second-wave Feminism was questioning women's role in society compared to men. If women can work outside the home, why can't men do some of the family work at home, such as looking after the kids, preparing meals etc... Fathers being able to show emotions towards their kids is one of best things to happen for men that came out of the women's rights movement.
I grew up without a real dad for my whole but got a step dad but our father-son relationship is balanced well. Sometimes he can be an asshole but also a loving and caring dad. I will do the same with my kids near the future just like my step dad did with me and my two brothers( they have different dads also)
Great video 👍 👍
The dads catching the children is dad instinct. Idk how else to explain it but I've seen many vids like that lol. But I would say in the USA that dads are very loving compared to South Korean or even Japan standards, even when the child isn't their own. I'm not a step father and didn't grow up with one, but there are some amazing fathers out there in the states (and obviously elsewhere) who step up and become a great father to children that aren't their own.
The income has nothing to do with it. Men are just as important to raising a child.
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not what I expected, but still good
The title of this video made me laugh 😂 sounds kinda wrong. But good video
3:38 that’s the Hayes Family Vlog!
for my daughter ill give her the world.
🤗🤗 my dad is the best 🇺🇸
"North Korean Women Touched by Loving American Dads" ( ͡~ ͜ʖ ͡°)
Sanghee is very pretty. I don't know the official name, but I call them half moon eyes... very attractive.
My son had tea parties with his little girls. He let them put play make up on his face, he holds them in the pool and plays with them when he gets home. He give them bubble baths and plays with the bubble with them. He taught both of them how to fish in my pond. He baits the hooks, too. My dad didn't put my hook on for me. We had to figure it out. And he had 6 girls!!!! I guess he had to because that's all he would get to do. LOL! My Dad also taught me real men's baseball. No sissy soft balls for us. I played as good as some of the high school boys on our baseball team. I hated "NO GIRLS ALLOWED." He bought a boat and taught us how to ski. I loved that.
Sanghee is too cute
All North Korean fathers should see this video.
They need to know that caring for their children like mothers do, doesn't make them less of a man, it makes them more of a father.
Zero chance anything positive about Americans will be shown in North Korea. You could literally get killed for even having a video like this in your possession.
They can’t tf
Fam, this is the wake up call to open yourself up to what’s going on in the world.
The North Korean girl in this video ESCAPED from NK. There’s no open internet there. Its doubtful that the general population even knows what a vpn is- if anyone got caught using one, that’s a death sentence. And punishment for your entire family for like the next 3 generations.
So in conclusion, no North Korean (who is still in NK) is gonna see this-even if they wanted to.
My dads pretty dope, he rides a motorcycle and works for the department of transportation, he's also really silly and sweet sometimes
Soft and hard. The true test of life. All is necessary
it breaks my heart knowing that so many girls grew up with a dad that wasn't their best friend until the trivial age of 12
That title kinda had me concerned 🤣
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I'm a dad, and I only wish I could play more with my kids
it's funny that they thought in little man that Marlon was a kid 🤣
Un abrazo gigante para Ustedes Amigas De Corea del Norte De Chile Con Amores fraternales para Ustedes Amigas
One of the closest to death moments in my life was when we were eating at a restaurant and I choked on some roast beef as a little kid. First time it ever happened. I remember getting up and just gasping/gagging looking around for someone to help me but nothing. My 2 brothers just pointed at me yelling "Hes chocking! Hes chocking!". I grabbed some water and tried to drink it and that just made it worse as water just overflew my mouth making the gagging worse. I really thought I was going to die as I looked around the restaurant just wanting anyone to come help - by this time every person in the restaurant is looking at me but doing nothing. I remember looking at all these different well to do sunday dressed families hoping one adult would come by to do something, but only stares. At the time my dad was in the restroom (no mom), and suddenly I felt someone lift me up giving me the heimlich and after a few tries the meat somehow went down. Dad saved me that day and no lie every time I eat any steak I remember chocking and really eat carefully haha. Now one of my greatest fear is being somewhere alone and chocking on something lol.
Another time after this I did end up chocking again on yet again this time a steak while eating dinner at home. Once dad noticed he slapped me on the back a few times real good and it went down. He scolded me a lot for eating to fast and said to be careful for a good decade. :/ chocking really sucks, but I'm glad it happened when my dad was around.
I really would like to meet both of these beautiful young women. I don't care that one of them is from north korea. I'm from south Korea and I would still love to meet both of these beautiful young women.
I think the most difficult part for most parents, is that someone also has to instill discipline. If the kids see you as too soft, they likely won't respect your authority. Too cold, and you get the same thing.
I say authority as the person with experience and knowledge over theirs, not a tyrant.
This is why people used to idealize the disciplinary farther, and nurturing mother.
Now, many families tend to have both parents being too nurturing or too disciplinary.
My father wasnt very nice but my Mom was everything
There are many childrens are beeing beaten and live on the street. You are seeing the best.
my dad has such a sweet spot for me its insane, he loves my hobbies and I do cosplay, he loves video games so he bought me a residence evil cosplay😭😻
I believe it is up to a father to show boys how to be a good man and daughters what a good man looks and act a like so ahe can look for those signs in a husband.
ahh women from not around here. bless them
We dads have a saying:
My son is my son till he takes a wife.
But my daughter is my daughter all her life.