I don't get how people are saying Aaliyah was the side chick, when really the OTHER GIRL WAS. The other girl KNEW that the boy was with Aaliyah, but she was STILL messing with the boy and WAS OKAY that he was with Aaliyah. That's the definition of being a side chick: A girl who STILL fucks with the boy and is OKAY with it even tho he's in a relationship with another girl.
Latasia Smalls only a person in denial would think she's the side piece. The side piece knows what's up and deals with it just to be with a man. The girlfriend doesn't know about the other relationship going on and he knows that he should keep it this way or she can move on and/or find something better. Only a hoe is happy with her man going around having sex unprotected with multiple people and lying about it. STIs and AIDS/HIV is as real as it gets! Her leaving him alone when confronted says that she wasn't. Meanwhile... Girlfriend #2 is more than happy with the responsibility of letting his give her an infection or disease! Who's to say she isn't the only one?!?! Exactly... Birds of a feather, hoe around together.
+Stephany Lewis whose to say the "ex" knew she was a girlfriend he could've been telling the ex that AJ was an ex just like her there's always 2 sides to a story so in all fairness they both were side chicks they both got played point blank period...and please don't presume you know someone because their opinion doesn't coincide with yours because I'm not not will I ever be content with openly sharing a man.
+Angy Burian Some times it`s best to leave a guy alone , especially if you found him cheating , why can`t us good guys find someone nice ,Sometimes I ask God to plant a beautiful seed for me to nurture love , and pour all my wisdom into loving her,just once I like to hear the good guys win, is that so hard?
No such thing 👀?? So if you were married to guy for like 5 years he and started creeping with a co-worker for like a year. Who would you consider the side chick???
+Keia John (KraveMedia) it doesn't matter how long yall been together..the moment he starts seeing someone else behind your back you both are considered side chicks....to say your the main chick is pointless cause you are still getting cheated on and lied to just like the other woman..the moment he puts you to the side (something as simple as a missed call) to be with her you are a side chick.
+Tiffany Sweeney Know your worth...sweetie. If you and this man are married for YEARS, and he decides to cheat on you with a someone he just met. Your the main chick and she's the side chick. Sorta like main job and a side hustle. YOUR the one he's making sure he comes home to, even if he cheats... he's still doing what he was doing before he was cheating, HER on the other hand doesn't really count...cause whether she wants to stay or not he still has you. The wife, the one he's been down with for years. Tell me this what are side chicks on the side of??? Your saying there's no main chick ok, someone has to be higher or greater than the other... If a guy meets two females in the same day,'starts screwing on them both on the regular, then one begins to spend more time than the other, meet the family/friends, maybe take some trips, while the other is seen randomly or once a month...guess whose the side chick. Ms. Random...
"When someone hurts you, I feel like you gravitate...towards the person more...because you're looking for them to care." GIRL, IF THIS ISNT THE TRUTH OF LIFE!!! This story was trifling and I'm mad I can relate 😂💀 I'm just glad you bossed up on him 😌
blackstersherron bitches don't actually want a "bad boy" they want a boss, you know that Nigga that no one folks wit, that guy who gets noticed in the right way, that guy they can feel proud to call their man. Whilst the "good men" tend to have self esteem issues, ain't really the "man" in their own relationship and tend to be "boring". I mean if a chick is getting ahead of herself and you can't tell her shut up then you might as well wear a G string.
Claudius Allen Yeah the nigga who run over women and fuck their life up and give them a shitload of kids and dont give 2 fucks about them. Yeah that nigga, they be crying and fighting over.
oh man drama ,drama I dealt with a situation like this in my early 20's.....so freaking glad I've moved on in life..now I'm 25, engaged, and pregnant with twins, a RN.and happy.you are so right you have to go through these silly situations to grow stronger..I try to mentor/school any young girls on theses dudes.
hope ur twins are doing good what's it like having kids I'm 9 so I'm not a stalker just Want to know plz and I'm probably a little late but plz answer when u get the chance plz
Aaliyah was the main chick, she however didn't know about his ex. She wasn't the side chick because she didn't know about anything, the other woman. The other woman knew about her and didn't care, therefore making the other woman a side chick.
Some of these comments are crazy . Guys it was a story about her being 17 !! Everyone has played the fool once & who are we to judge her , she's only human we all have to go thru the rain to see the sunshine !!
Right!!!!! Some of these ppl commenting are so self righteous!!! Like they've never been played before or never been hurt. In the end, she's telling her story & what other ppl think or say really doesn't matter
That's the thing about so many men, they could date a beautiful woman like this and cheat on her with dog meat. If you're going to cheat, CHEAT UP, not down
cheating is cheating. I hate it when people say dumb stuff like this. would it make it better if he was cheating on a prettier girl? NO it doesn't matter if she looks like Halle berry or big ang, y'all sound dumb as fuck saying shit like this. so basic
+Sarah Kathleen It hurts either way, that l know. l think everyone who has ever dated has been hurt/ cheated on. When it happens you don't know how you're going to get through it, but time passes you have other experiences and slowly the pain diaapates
You won't really learn until you're at least 25 years old. I thought at 21 I learned everything about men/boyfriends/relationships but I didn't. There's still more life to live.
that's bullshit. There is not a certain age that will magically teach you all you need to know about relationships. Your experiences are not the same as everyone else's.
At the end of the day, the more experiences you have the more you learn. Someone older usually had more time to experience things, if course not always but generally. When you're 27, trust me you're gonna think differently. You might act on it and make a move, but you certainly will reason more
She was 28? Wth!!! I'm 28 and I barely look dudes 4-5 years younger than me, let alone 10. What the fuck did she want with an 18 year old? She sounds desperate and childish as hell. They deserved each other.
+Sava yea she bounced all around that story just to realize she was the one breaking her neck to see some nigga who would only answer her calls at night and see her when it was convenient for him *hence when his ass was locked up* *fresh out the hospital* *needed pussy* etc......
False as they’ll do everything to make good impression and act up at first then they’ll be fuck this shit I’ll show her the true me when they think that you tell for them
Yram Enaj This is why I don't leave comments, because of ignorant ass people like you. Don't call people names. Grow the fuck up. I wasn't disrespecting her, but if he sleeps with the other girl, and their kids play together, and they've been together longer, then she was the second one brought into the situation, making her the side-chick. No disrespect meant, but this is the guys fault. He's the dick. And you're just a rude person. Don't be rude.
MsAaliyahJay No disrespect. It's just my opinion from listening to your story. Seemed to me she got there first. But I don't blame you or her, just him. Glad you got out and you learned. Thanks for sharing.
YouHateMe Actually, 17 is correlated with being an idiot. The brain is literally much less in tact than it will be 10 years from the age of 17. The right and left hemispheres of the brain are barely attached, thus prohibiting the pre-frontal cortex to undergo a rational decision-making process. And it's much less easy for women considering we tend to think on a higher emotional level than men.
YouHateMe I didn't realize that you were buying houses and completing business ventures at the age of 17, though. I guess this concept does not apply to everyone.
+Cortney Gibson Oh. i thought that was simply a woman thing lol We get pregnant at a young age wayy less than other races. Some women just need to get it together for themselves lol
Wrong .he is a dog and if so called side chick know about there business. .she good..cause she not gonna b hurt so called side chick is the homey ..so called main chick is being played like a fool ..they talk together about main chick ..that's horrible
You didn't make up the words. I just said that they are made up. Main chick and side chick. They are made up concepts. The dude is really just a cheater and that's it. He's lying to both (if not more) women. If I did use the word side chick it would probably be limited to girls that KNOW he's in a relationship and don't care.
+Ally Rad Yes I have to agree. He didn't call or answer her calls during the day. Most nights if not all he was with the other girl. Him and the other girl are raising their children together. She even said "I thought you wasn't with her anymore". Sad to say but this girl was the chick on the side, not the girl she met.
+Shelia Jones Yeah actually....the other girl was the side chick because she knew about Aaliyah, but Aaliyah didnt know ... so basically that one girl was just looking for a man, and Aaliyah was the main
This video, explains my life. I went through the same thing , I'm currently going through it. How did u get the strength to say fuck it? I'm so miserable right now. I want to be able to leave and not return.
It's not that easy but I had to. My family hated him and I wanted better. But my boyfriend now also helped me get over him. Once I met him, I tottally forgot about the guy like literally it was like I never even knew him
+Sydney Symonee I had a situation where this boyfriend of 4 years just dropped my ass over text. And that hurt I felt like I needed rehab I was in the state of death! Maybe you should get something/someone to distract you. That's the best, and try to make your days eventful. I know there's days where you don't wanna get out of bed and you just don't wanna get in the shower and go out, but do it. And it doesn't even have to be an event. Chill with some friends, persue your hobbies, have fun, change your hair, even if you're forcing yourself even if it takes hours, as long as you do it, that's going to show you how much more to life there is than some boy who doesn't know how amazing you are. It might end up in a situation where he ends up leaving you, and that's even more painful. Rather be the one who's gonna leave him and move forward with life. But distract yourself, I promise it really works!
The comments for this video are sooooo weird. From people angry that she was speaking in a informal manner in a informal setting (while they typed their comments in informal English lmao), to the people angry about whether she was the side or main, to the people angry about her breasts. It's just a story time video for Christ's sake 😩 All of the insults are so unnecessary but just a note: Dialects vary across regions and cultures. Insulting her for how she speaks is unnecessary b/c if you can correct her (aka you know what she meant), then effective communication was established.
+Forever Diamonds people just leave so much hate under her videos because of how she talks and it's just like..is she supposed to be speaking perfect and formal English at all times??? no! and honestly i think some of the ppl are picking on her out of jealousy tbh
Whether you the rebound or she was, you are what you choose to be with, and you chose not to be with him. I'm happy for you because this happened to me October of 2014, i met my now, husband in November, a few days before my ex's birthday. Ever since i left his ass, i couldn't be more blessed, and me and my husband have a baby on the way in a few weeks. So you go girl, continue to stay happy, stay beautiful, mean lol, and blessed.
Yo I was in a situation just like this!!! I was messing with this boy since I was 16 going on 17 & I stopped messing with him a little bit after I turned 18. I had actually gotten pregnant by him. I found out about the "side chick" (really it was his other girlfriend) by her messaging me on Facebook. The message went a little something like "I'm sure you know who I am, you may not know me personally but I'm so & so's girlfriend. I have been his girlfriend for 4 YEARS. The phone you have been texting is mine, not his. He got into his feelings the other night & informed me that you are pregnant. I wanted to let you know that I AM ALSO PREGNANT." Smh so I told her what it was, I told her that he told me he loved ME & I had no clue who the fuck she was. We ended up exchanging screenshots of text messages from him which proved that he basically was playing the both of us for years. She ended up having the baby & they are still together. (Mind you he had another baby with another girl while he was with her). I ended up miscarrying :( but I see it as a blessing in disguise, God knew that this man was not worthy of fathering my child. & I met the man that I am currently with and want to be with 3 months later :) :) :)
good for you, that's alot to handle at that age. sad what men put women through. if you want to have multiple women don't get into a relationship and most definitely don't sleep with several ppl unprotected just disgusting.
Wait, how do you know if you weren't the side chick? How do know if your the main? How can you tell? Are there certain things that they do towards the side and the main?
Because if you are not someone's girlfriend by title, financé or wife you are a side chick! If you do not have a part/role/title to play in a relationship, then you're in the relationship by yourself! Please stoping seeing guys without commitments! If his friends and family are not aware of your title as his gf then baby girl take the hint! Simples.
It would sound like she was but the girl knew who she was but Aaliyah didn't know that girl so clearly that girl was the side chick... If I was that girl with the baby knowing that he's talking to another girl sleeping with me I would be mad but it seems like she didn't care as long as she was still sleeping with him
+CyerraShaDai The main chick is the one he goes home to, the one he loves, etc. Plus he'd been with her all that time before they even met, he probably never brokeup with her like he told her. Now he sees her shining doing her thing and wants her back but he's probably STILL involved with the older lady, smh.
Taina Powell Noooope, not all side chicks are trying to be home-wreckers. Not sure where you got that definition from but a side chick is literally a chick on the side. You don't get the most attention, you are only called upon when the dude needs you for something wether its to bail him or our just for a little puss. Some women become side chicks without realizing it because they don't pick up on red flags, just as she pointed out she did.
***** I think the point just did a triple flip over your head. I said there are some whom are not aware of being a side chick because they aren't the ones doing the sneaking, the guy could be doing all the sneaking himself.
+MeeshaMillz TV she was never able to get ahold of him at night or in the mornings... She was the side chick. Sometimes a wife knows about the other chick she is still the main. The wife can never be the side chick. Just an example. They can both not know about each other. There is still a main chick and a side chick. Knowing doesn't matter. She was the side chick.
+mspinkytee girl calm down she just wants to hear a fucking story and your attacking her. She's disgusting? you're disgusting for attacking a innocent person for asking for something. rude, disgusting, vile, nasty, just honestly the worst type of person.
She's the one that said she loved story times and she wanted to do more of them on snapchat, she said she might tell the storie of when she got into a fight i don't see a problem with that, soo you chill !
Why are you all criticizing her look? Just like you claim that her breasts shouldn't be showing, your jealousy and bitterness shouldn't be showing. She's beautiful. Beautiful people exist. Get over it.
Lol when I was going thru that experience the ex was calling me so I changed his ringtone to "deserve " by Tierra Marie (from love n hip hop) so I can remember that HE AINT 💩💩 & I deserve better 😂😂✊at least your out of this relationship you could possibly be helping other females in this situation 🙏
+Kayla's Brittany Nice!!! I have a "Beat It" List; for every person that I told to kick rocks for whatever reason and truly didn't want to talk to them any more I use the late great MJ's "Beat It" song. As soon as I hear "Just Beat It, Beat It......" I know it's someone that I told to BEAT IT!!! LOL I don't even bother looking to see who it is LOL!
Lol I’m dead y’all this was the first video I ever watched of hers and I been subscribed since and that was 5 years ago.& I’m bout to watch this again!!!
i get where yall comin from and how that sounds gay but i dont see how complimenting a girl has anything to do with being gay ur just making another girl confident in her body its a good thing lets all as women stand up and say fuck what people say if they think im gay cause i compliment and appreciate a pretty then so be it those aint the type of people i need in my life and im not trynna go against anybody and start a fight i just wanted to share how i feel
+Latrese LuvsEarl she needs to accept the fact lol. Your 21 and was 18 your not really that old for it to be your younger days js. No shade but glad your happy now
Technically no, because the girl knew about her n she didn't know about the girl ... The girl knew they was messing around n Aaliyah didn't know about it n he told her they wasn't fucking around lol I think ..
+Tierra Greer yes she was, they both were he lied to the them both, the fact that Aaliyah saw the girl wearing her boyfriend clothes AND leaving comnents under his pictures Aaliyah guy feeling was he was talking to her and all if the signs were there BUT she didn't want to believe it, Aaliyah was the side chick the dude wasn't even answering her calls because he was sleeping in bed with the other girl EVERY NIGHT, now u put 2 and 2 together
"she wasnt ugly but she wasnt me"👏🏽
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When did she say that
Darilyn Armstead when did she say that
I love it!! Shit keep it 100 she's a tough act to follow!! Keep your confidence Boo!!!
roses are red
some things aren't meant to be
she wasn't ugly
but she wasn't me.
I think that was the point lol.
jared back
breegotthejuice goddamnn😂😂
Thank you for doing this😂
jared back it actually does
I don't get how people are saying Aaliyah was the side chick, when really the OTHER GIRL WAS. The other girl KNEW that the boy was with Aaliyah, but she was STILL messing with the boy and WAS OKAY that he was with Aaliyah. That's the definition of being a side chick: A girl who STILL fucks with the boy and is OKAY with it even tho he's in a relationship with another girl.
She was the side chick the other girl was never an ex they spend the night together every night they kids have play dates
+Stephany Lewis how because I said she was the side chick??? I don't under stand your logic.
+Stephany Lewis and ftr I'm nobody side chick I'm a WIFE
Latasia Smalls only a person in denial would think she's the side piece. The side piece knows what's up and deals with it just to be with a man. The girlfriend doesn't know about the other relationship going on and he knows that he should keep it this way or she can move on and/or find something better. Only a hoe is happy with her man going around having sex unprotected with multiple people and lying about it. STIs and AIDS/HIV is as real as it gets! Her leaving him alone when confronted says that she wasn't. Meanwhile... Girlfriend #2 is more than happy with the responsibility of letting his give her an infection or disease! Who's to say she isn't the only one?!?! Exactly... Birds of a feather, hoe around together.
+Stephany Lewis whose to say the "ex" knew she was a girlfriend he could've been telling the ex that AJ was an ex just like her there's always 2 sides to a story so in all fairness they both were side chicks they both got played point blank period...and please don't presume you know someone because their opinion doesn't coincide with yours because I'm not not will I ever be content with openly sharing a man.
*THE FAMOUS SHE"S NOT UGLY BUT SHE AIN"T ME*
+WarNesha Crawford 8.16-8.18
Nicole lmao yes that's why I'm here💀😭😭😭
Beautybytanya Sameee
Nicole it’s she wasn’t me
Nicole *WASN’T* Not *AIN’T*
MORAL OF THE STORY IS: Once a dude that treated you wrong sees you moved on, he wants you back.. Especially if you were loyal to him.
Erica McNary ALWAYS. it NEVER fails
Truth
Its SOOOO funny that it happened to me every time
'' She wasn't ugly.... But she wasn't me'' haha!! Get it girl! 😜😙
Yass 😂😂🙌🏼🙌🏼
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"She wasn't ugly but she wasn't me . "I need this on a shirt or a sticker 😝😝😝
We have the same first name!!!!
Cyan Glass not anymore lmao. (Not trying to be an ass)
Transfer it on a plain tshirt with transfer paper on a printer
Funny how the shirts have been created in 2019
8:12 when she said she wasn't ugly but she wasn't me😊
mara __ ty queen
mara __ THANK YOU
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Tamara youre the king
when u said "she's not ugly, but she ain't me" someone screenshoted it and put the words on it and its blowin up
+Paige Marshall I'm borrowing it.
That quote.
+Paige Marshall and its all over tumblr too :)
+Angy Burian Some times it`s best to leave a guy alone , especially if you found him cheating , why can`t us good guys find someone nice ,Sometimes I ask God to plant a beautiful seed for me to nurture love , and pour all my wisdom into loving her,just once I like to hear the good guys win, is that so hard?
What minute does she say it😂?
You both were side chicks, there is no such thing as a main chick.. if he is not with you he's with her..
True
+Selena Gembeh No boo 😂 if you are not his only you are a side chick.
No such thing 👀?? So if you were married to guy for like 5 years he and started creeping with a co-worker for like a year. Who would you consider the side chick???
+Keia John (KraveMedia) it doesn't matter how long yall been together..the moment he starts seeing someone else behind your back you both are considered side chicks....to say your the main chick is pointless cause you are still getting cheated on and lied to just like the other woman..the moment he puts you to the side (something as simple as a missed call) to be with her you are a side chick.
+Tiffany Sweeney Know your worth...sweetie. If you and this man are married for YEARS, and he decides to cheat on you with a someone he just met. Your the main chick and she's the side chick. Sorta like main job and a side hustle. YOUR the one he's making sure he comes home to, even if he cheats... he's still doing what he was doing before he was cheating, HER on the other hand doesn't really count...cause whether she wants to stay or not he still has you. The wife, the one he's been down with for years. Tell me this what are side chicks on the side of??? Your saying there's no main chick ok, someone has to be higher or greater than the other... If a guy meets two females in the same day,'starts screwing on them both on the regular, then one begins to spend more time than the other, meet the family/friends, maybe take some trips, while the other is seen randomly or once a month...guess whose the side chick. Ms. Random...
"She wasn't ugly but she's not me" said every girl ever! haha
Right!! Lol
Lmao fr
+Shanii J lmaooooo right!
"When someone hurts you, I feel like you gravitate...towards the person more...because you're looking for them to care." GIRL, IF THIS ISNT THE TRUTH OF LIFE!!! This story was trifling and I'm mad I can relate 😂💀 I'm just glad you bossed up on him 😌
All women are like that because they want attention, thats why most women date bad boys and not good men.
Pink Haired Chick yessssssss
Pink Haired Chick I can change that. Show you how your man is meant to make you feel. Have you giving me chances repeatedly
blackstersherron bitches don't actually want a "bad boy" they want a boss, you know that Nigga that no one folks wit, that guy who gets noticed in the right way, that guy they can feel proud to call their man. Whilst the "good men" tend to have self esteem issues, ain't really the "man" in their own relationship and tend to be "boring". I mean if a chick is getting ahead of herself and you can't tell her shut up then you might as well wear a G string.
Claudius Allen Yeah the nigga who run over women and fuck their life up and give them a shitload of kids and dont give 2 fucks about them. Yeah that nigga, they be crying and fighting over.
oh man drama ,drama I dealt with a situation like this in my early 20's.....so freaking glad I've moved on in life..now I'm 25, engaged, and pregnant with twins, a RN.and happy.you are so right you have to go through these silly situations to grow stronger..I try to mentor/school any young girls on theses dudes.
You go girl!!!!!!!!!!!!! That is awesome
+MzVan21 This is exactly how i picture my self in 5 more years im 18 and going to school for RN -Nursing . you go girl
+Renee Moon That is awesome. You hang in there hun!!!!! Go girl
+Renee Moon go for it!.you will hit a few bumps in the road as far as school and guys but it's life.im sure u will do great!
hope ur twins are doing good what's it like having kids I'm 9 so I'm not a stalker just Want to know plz and I'm probably a little late but plz answer when u get the chance plz
"She wasn't ugly, but she wasn't me"
The moment I liked and subscribed. lol
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Love the story time videos ❤️📓
Aaliyah was the main chick, she however didn't know about his ex. She wasn't the side chick because she didn't know about anything, the other woman. The other woman knew about her and didn't care, therefore making the other woman a side chick.
Autumn Phillips thank you
Lmao the side chick narrative is all backwards if you are without kbowledge my dear your dummy sssiiiiide point blank.
Some of these comments are crazy . Guys it was a story about her being 17 !! Everyone has played the fool once & who are we to judge her , she's only human we all have to go thru the rain to see the sunshine !!
Right!!!!! Some of these ppl commenting are so self righteous!!! Like they've never been played before or never been hurt. In the end, she's telling her story & what other ppl think or say really doesn't matter
That's the thing about so many men, they could date a beautiful woman like this and cheat on her with dog meat. If you're going to cheat, CHEAT UP, not down
cheating is cheating. I hate it when people say dumb stuff like this. would it make it better if he was cheating on a prettier girl? NO it doesn't matter if she looks like Halle berry or big ang, y'all sound dumb as fuck saying shit like this. so basic
+Sarah Kathleen It hurts either way, that l know. l think everyone who has ever dated has been hurt/ cheated on. When it happens you don't know how you're going to get through it, but time passes you have other experiences and slowly the pain diaapates
+Jessica Ray lol who is big ang?
+Sarah Kathleen l understand how you feel, l've been there.
+Sara Bower the woman from mob wives who had all the surgery mess up her face. you should google her she looks horrendous
You won't really learn until you're at least 25 years old. I thought at 21 I learned everything about men/boyfriends/relationships but I didn't. There's still more life to live.
you know whats crazy your brain doesnt finish develop growing until 26-30. the last part of your brain to grow is guess what, reasoning!
that's bullshit. There is not a certain age that will magically teach you all you need to know about relationships. Your experiences are not the same as everyone else's.
At the end of the day, the more experiences you have the more you learn. Someone older usually had more time to experience things, if course not always but generally. When you're 27, trust me you're gonna think differently. You might act on it and make a move, but you certainly will reason more
Trust me I'm 35 and you will always learn something new in relationships, my advice, never ignore that intuition!
+nadifa hudson BOOM, YASSSSSSSS! Even 55 yrs nights, just no good! White men to me respect us more than our own race girl!
i want your level of self love and confidence
Samantha Kelley girl yes this girl so oblivious to reailty and still got it up self confidence has too much sauce but helps so many others
Don't ever feel bad for telling your story, we've all either ran game or had game ran on us
Soooooo true!!!!!!!!
right, we all need to slap ourselves for sum shit bck in the day, me twice bc I knew better even bck then
She was 28? Wth!!! I'm 28 and I barely look dudes 4-5 years younger than me, let alone 10. What the fuck did she want with an 18 year old? She sounds desperate and childish as hell. They deserved each other.
Right. That's what I was thinking.
+RR R huh?? She's only 21 so that makes no sense
you sound dumb af.
She clearly said she was 17/18 at the time
The other chick was 28, people .
"I'm in jail."
Me as a 17 Year Old - "I ain't ya ride or die chick"
"At seventeen you're still a teenager, you're not grown,"
SOOOOO MANY PEOPLE NEED TO HEAR THIS.
That awkward moment when you make a video about meeting the side chick but you actually are the side chick...
Nadia A Damn, too real Nadia, too real!!! bwahaha
+Nadia lol too funny but sadly is very true in most cases
+Sava Lol....okay I'm glad I'm not the person that felt that way....
+Sava yea she bounced all around that story just to realize she was the one breaking her neck to see some nigga who would only answer her calls at night and see her when it was convenient for him *hence when his ass was locked up* *fresh out the hospital* *needed pussy* etc......
Janie Chambers LMAO!!! Y'all got no chill!!!! I can't!!!
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"She wasn't ugly I'm not a hater she wasn't ugly but she wasn't me" yes queen 😂❤️
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False as they’ll do everything to make good impression and act up at first then they’ll be fuck this shit I’ll show her the true me when they think that you tell for them
So you didn't meet the side-chick, you were the side-chick in this situation. That's what it sounds like to me. This whole thing sounds nasty.
+King Kay Okay...
+King Kay at least she didn't have a baby by hime that would have been a sticky mess
The side chick usually knows the situation. She is a willing participant. The other woman was the side piece. That guy was really creepy. Ewwww...
Yram Enaj This is why I don't leave comments, because of ignorant ass people like you. Don't call people names. Grow the fuck up. I wasn't disrespecting her, but if he sleeps with the other girl, and their kids play together, and they've been together longer, then she was the second one brought into the situation, making her the side-chick. No disrespect meant, but this is the guys fault. He's the dick. And you're just a rude person. Don't be rude.
MsAaliyahJay No disrespect. It's just my opinion from listening to your story. Seemed to me she got there first. But I don't blame you or her, just him. Glad you got out and you learned. Thanks for sharing.
Wow, you all are reeeeally taking this to heart. She was 17 lol
+Local Host What does 17 have to do with her being an idiot?
YouHateMe Actually, 17 is correlated with being an idiot. The brain is literally much less in tact than it will be 10 years from the age of 17. The right and left hemispheres of the brain are barely attached, thus prohibiting the pre-frontal cortex to undergo a rational decision-making process.
And it's much less easy for women considering we tend to think on a higher emotional level than men.
YouHateMe I didn't realize that you were buying houses and completing business ventures at the age of 17, though. I guess this concept does not apply to everyone.
Cortney Gibson Stop what
+Cortney Gibson Oh. i thought that was simply a woman thing lol We get pregnant at a young age wayy less than other races. Some women just need to get it together for themselves lol
So basically you were the side chick........and you're too beautiful to be just that.
she was 17
+Maya Sarita and? she wasn't the main course girl....she was the potatoes and green beans on the side.
Obviously being 17 she didn't know what she knows now like she said
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If the other girl knew about her and Aaliyah didn't know about her then the others the side chick. However you wanna put it...
Rewatching this 8 years later & I am in tears lmaoooo. Thank God for growth 😂 We all have these embarrassing stories.
"She wasn't ugly....but she wasn't me" quote of my life
Like " come iiiiiinnnnnn!" I was dying laughin!
+Sweetsongbird82 yesssssss!!! lmfao i should never be this weak..."you're welcome, come iiiinnnnnnn"
+Sweetsongbird82 LOOOOOOOOOOOLL
"She wasn't ugly...but she wasn't me" 😭😭😭
Yaasssss girl! She knows she's bad!
right lol 😂
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+MsAaliyahJay Love youuuu❤
"I want you to feel welcome, come INNNNNNN!" 😭😂😭😂😭😂
She actually was not the side chick. Side chicks know about the "main chick" so to speak. The dumb ex girlfriend was the new side chick not Aaliyah
Exactly! She wasn't the side chick. She didn't know.
Wrong .he is a dog and if so called side chick know about there business. .she good..cause she not gonna b hurt so called side chick is the homey ..so called main chick is being played like a fool ..they talk together about main chick ..that's horrible
+lkooe nobody said he's not a dog but "main chicks" always get hurt like I said Aaliyah wasn't the side chick
whos making up words exactly. its not made up when we're speaking to others that seem to understand
You didn't make up the words. I just said that they are made up. Main chick and side chick. They are made up concepts. The dude is really just a cheater and that's it. He's lying to both (if not more) women. If I did use the word side chick it would probably be limited to girls that KNOW he's in a relationship and don't care.
Girl you need to make some merchandise with 'she wasn't ugly, but she wasn't me'!! I would so buy it
literally this is the video that made me subscribe today. lol I'm diggin this girl already
yess. me tooo. it was so interesting
Me too!
Yes 💁
+Kenya Milann Same lol, first video I've seen of her ever
same here lol :)
If he got locked up and she's the first person he called she's not the side chick...I don't understand the comments. A is the main.
So it's not possible to be side chick and get called first lol
+Tykeria Rattler she's not that important if she is called first.
+Crystal Downer lol you get one call when you're in jail , & he chose to call her how is she the side chick?
+BriannaSour oh my goodness... Typo! Meant to say you are important if you are the first person called from jail. You're reliable obviously.
No he called her because he knew her personality. Some people are master manipulators miss
I don't believe in "Side Chick", It's just two females getting played by the same man.
Tysheen Orane not if one knows
it sounds more like you were the side chick if he went home to her?
True asf 😂🤔
+Ally Rad Yes I have to agree. He didn't call or answer her calls during the day. Most nights if not all he was with the other girl. Him and the other girl are raising their children together. She even said "I thought you wasn't with her anymore". Sad to say but this girl was the chick on the side, not the girl she met.
No, she was the main chick cuz she didn't know about the 28 year old. but the 28 year old knew about her.
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+Shelia Jones Yeah actually....the other girl was the side chick because she knew about Aaliyah, but Aaliyah didnt know ... so basically that one girl was just looking for a man, and Aaliyah was the main
This video, explains my life. I went through the same thing , I'm currently going through it. How did u get the strength to say fuck it? I'm so miserable right now. I want to be able to leave and not return.
Its simple as fuck to leave when you know you're worth.
+Sydney Symonee IF you are miserable, find your happiness elsewhere. Life is wayyyy too short for nonsense.
It's not that easy but I had to. My family hated him and I wanted better. But my boyfriend now also helped me get over him. Once I met him, I tottally forgot about the guy like literally it was like I never even knew him
+Sydney Symonee I had a situation where this boyfriend of 4 years just dropped my ass over text. And that hurt I felt like I needed rehab I was in the state of death! Maybe you should get something/someone to distract you. That's the best, and try to make your days eventful. I know there's days where you don't wanna get out of bed and you just don't wanna get in the shower and go out, but do it. And it doesn't even have to be an event. Chill with some friends, persue your hobbies, have fun, change your hair, even if you're forcing yourself even if it takes hours, as long as you do it, that's going to show you how much more to life there is than some boy who doesn't know how amazing you are. It might end up in a situation where he ends up leaving you, and that's even more painful. Rather be the one who's gonna leave him and move forward with life. But distract yourself, I promise it really works!
+Ms. Ariell You're right about that... life is too short.
"She wasn't ugly but she wasn't me " YASSS BOO I watched this so many times just for that got it on a shirt and everything ❤️💯😍😛
Why do some people say "we was" instead of "we were". The word was is singular and the word were is plural. It just sounds so weird to me.
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+maddiedris26 I know right! It irritates me so much, but a lot of people usws it ._.
AAVE
Same here and im not even english/american :p
Why does it matter this isn't grammar school, this is her video.
FINALLY A NEW VIDEO ! Xx
U need to post a new video too THO ❤️
Emani!!! Omg I love your channel :)
You gays act the same way yall remind me of each other lol I love yall 😍😍
Um emani been uploading videos frequently so correct yourself😊😊
It was clearly just to show how much I appreciate her videos. & I am aware she's been posting a lot. So youcorrect urself 😏😘
"He finally walks his crippled ass up and walks to the door" I'M DYINGGGGGGGGG.
"I'm not getting my hair pulled over this guy "😂😂😂
The comments for this video are sooooo weird. From people angry that she was speaking in a informal manner in a informal setting (while they typed their comments in informal English lmao), to the people angry about whether she was the side or main, to the people angry about her breasts. It's just a story time video for Christ's sake 😩 All of the insults are so unnecessary but just a note: Dialects vary across regions and cultures. Insulting her for how she speaks is unnecessary b/c if you can correct her (aka you know what she meant), then effective communication was established.
Thank you! I agree %100
+Forever Diamonds people just leave so much hate under her videos because of how she talks and it's just like..is she supposed to be speaking perfect and formal English at all times??? no! and honestly i think some of the ppl are picking on her out of jealousy tbh
Well said sis! You put everything in clear perspective.
+thisangryblackfemale thank you sis 😊
Bravo!!! 👏👏
"She wasn't ugly.....but she wasn't me!" BEST QUOTE EVER
Whether you the rebound or she was, you are what you choose to be with, and you chose not to be with him. I'm happy for you because this happened to me October of 2014, i met my now, husband in November, a few days before my ex's birthday. Ever since i left his ass, i couldn't be more blessed, and me and my husband have a baby on the way in a few weeks. So you go girl, continue to stay happy, stay beautiful, mean lol, and blessed.
Thanks for sharing. My story is similar to yours. I left my ex and chose my happiness and never looked back
+Ebony Williams Ohhhh yes I love a good success story! I'm glad you found your King!
Neither of you guys were SIDE CHICKS!!!!. You were both females that gave into products of his own insecurities
Yo I was in a situation just like this!!! I was messing with this boy since I was 16 going on 17 & I stopped messing with him a little bit after I turned 18. I had actually gotten pregnant by him. I found out about the "side chick" (really it was his other girlfriend) by her messaging me on Facebook. The message went a little something like "I'm sure you know who I am, you may not know me personally but I'm so & so's girlfriend. I have been his girlfriend for 4 YEARS. The phone you have been texting is mine, not his. He got into his feelings the other night & informed me that you are pregnant. I wanted to let you know that I AM ALSO PREGNANT." Smh so I told her what it was, I told her that he told me he loved ME & I had no clue who the fuck she was. We ended up exchanging screenshots of text messages from him which proved that he basically was playing the both of us for years. She ended up having the baby & they are still together. (Mind you he had another baby with another girl while he was with her). I ended up miscarrying :( but I see it as a blessing in disguise, God knew that this man was not worthy of fathering my child. & I met the man that I am currently with and want to be with 3 months later :) :) :)
good for you, that's alot to handle at that age. sad what men put women through. if you want to have multiple women don't get into a relationship and most definitely don't sleep with several ppl unprotected just disgusting.
"She wasn't ugly , I'm not a hater, but she wasn't me" 😂😍
I came to hear 8:12😅😭 6 years & I still be thinking of this iconic line
16:13 "he ate her out on her period" im cryingggggg lmfaoo thats nasty
Same😞😞😞
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Eww
Not if you got a tampon on lmaooo
Dymond B. ew nooo, still, like you push to hard and blood will probably dribble out from the tampon like nahhh
"She wasnt ugly but she wasnt me" 😂😂👌🏼👌🏼👌🏼
Wait, how do you know if you weren't the side chick? How do know if your the main? How can you tell? Are there certain things that they do towards the side and the main?
I agree!!! from the long ass story ..... she was the side chick and didn't know it 😂😂😂😂😱
Because 9/10 the main chick finds out about the side chick, not the other way around
+YamaNade she was the side chick Because he spent all his time with that other girl right? day and night so its clear she was.
Because if you are not someone's girlfriend by title, financé or wife you are a side chick! If you do not have a part/role/title to play in a relationship, then you're in the relationship by yourself! Please stoping seeing guys without commitments! If his friends and family are not aware of your title as his gf then baby girl take the hint! Simples.
+mimi love very informational thank you
aaliyah... not tryna b rude, but it sounds like youre the side chick im just keeping it real
Right!
wtf no
A side chick is a girl that sleeps with a man even though they know they are taken. So no she isn't
she was especially when he went to go and defend the other woman.
+Zaria Ward a side chick is a bitch that is aware a nigga is in a relationship
remember that
"she wasn't ugly...but she wasn't me" Mann her video is everywhere😂😂😂
Damnnnnn, sounds like you were the side chick. He's a ****boy, your story had me livid!
It would sound like she was but the girl knew who she was but Aaliyah didn't know that girl so clearly that girl was the side chick... If I was that girl with the baby knowing that he's talking to another girl sleeping with me I would be mad but it seems like she didn't care as long as she was still sleeping with him
+CyerraShaDai The main chick is the one he goes home to, the one he loves, etc. Plus he'd been with her all that time before they even met, he probably never brokeup with her like he told her. Now he sees her shining doing her thing and wants her back but he's probably STILL involved with the older lady, smh.
+Keisha Charmaine I definitely agree with you....
+Keisha Charmaine lol girl cause that older lady was financially taking care of his dumb butt
+tyselang Yesss, so sad. I'm happy Aaliyah didn't try to fight for him!
I can't wait to see you this weekend :p :)
Love you Latoya
omg Latoya I love samia
go huntyyyyy u watch this yasss
LaToya tell Sammy that she is the star yaaass
+LaToya's Life latoya i love you!!!
"She was not ugly... but she wasn't me." YAAS GURL
"she wasn't ugly, but she wasn't me so.... " omg im dying
Sorry boo but you were the sidechick >_
Side chick: a girl who sleeps with a man knowing that he is taken. Inform yourself before you make accusations.
Taina Powell Noooope, not all side chicks are trying to be home-wreckers. Not sure where you got that definition from but a side chick is literally a chick on the side. You don't get the most attention, you are only called upon when the dude needs you for something wether its to bail him or our just for a little puss.
Some women become side chicks without realizing it because they don't pick up on red flags, just as she pointed out she did.
***** I think the point just did a triple flip over your head. I said there are some whom are not aware of being a side chick because they aren't the ones doing the sneaking, the guy could be doing all the sneaking himself.
***** Lol ok well your comment just seems out of place since I was never defending home-wreckers at all.
+Taina Powell Side Chick: he won't introduce you to his mother (even if she's around). Re-watch the video, she had to introduce herself.
I thought the video was gonna be about a side chick from her recent relationship , I was about to be like noooooo!
Lmaooooo everybody thought that!!!!! Heck no!
"She wasn't ugly but she wasn't ME" 😂😂😂
these guys always wanna crawl back when it's too late & you found someone way better... like boy byeeee *middle fingers up*
🎶🎵 middle fingas up tell em boy bye. -sorry beyonce
Dang. Sounds like you were the side chick and didn't know it! Things happen for a reason. At least you are happy with who you are with now.
You can't be a side chick and not know 😒. Side chicks know the guy they're messing with is in a relationship. That's what makes you a side chick
+HonestlyChyyTea no a side chick is the one he spends the less time with!
+MeeshaMillz TV she was never able to get ahold of him at night or in the mornings... She was the side chick. Sometimes a wife knows about the other chick she is still the main. The wife can never be the side chick. Just an example. They can both not know about each other. There is still a main chick and a side chick. Knowing doesn't matter. She was the side chick.
you are right. you're a side chick whether you know it or not. if he has a girlfriend/wife and messing w/ another person
''She wasn't ugly but she wasn't me'' GURLLLL 😭😭😭
She didn't tell the guy happy birthday? Savage.
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" she wasn't ugly but she wasn't me " 😂😂😂🤣❤😍Aaliyah u are mad beautiful ❤😍
Brandie George what part is that at
"She wasn't ugly, but she wasn't ME" HAHAHA! I ❤YOU
"She wasn't ugly but... She wasn't me" lmao
I'm subscribing
This videos was great can you do the story time when you got into a fight ?
+Mimi Delest YESSSSSSSSSSSSSSSS
+Mimi Delest That is so immature. What do you get out of hearing about people fighting? Something is wrong with that.
+mspinkytee girl calm down she just wants to hear a fucking story and your attacking her. She's disgusting? you're disgusting for attacking a innocent person for asking for something. rude, disgusting, vile, nasty, just honestly the worst type of person.
She's the one that said she loved story times and she wanted to do more of them on snapchat, she said she might tell the storie of when she got into a fight i don't see a problem with that, soo you chill !
+mspinkytee girl chill
THIS IS THE FAMOUS VIDEO!!!!! ("She wasn't ugly, but she wasn't me")
"She wasn't ugly..but she wasn't me" 😂😂 same af!
This was super entertaining. Totally reminded me of my high school relationships 😂
And please more story time videos!
when she said the side chick was 28 I backed up so far I almost fell off my bed
“He Finally Gets His Crippled Ass Up” 😂😂😂
Why are you all criticizing her look? Just like you claim that her breasts shouldn't be showing, your jealousy and bitterness shouldn't be showing. She's beautiful. Beautiful people exist. Get over it.
I see you on a lot of the same videos I watch do you have a Twitter?
"She wasn't ugly, but she wasnt me" Classy way of dissing the other woman. #loveit
Huge red flag: even at seventeen, you went to his hearing, his mom was there, he did not introduce you to his mom, you were not that important.
I came here for "she wasn't ugly but she wasn't me" so it is at 8:16. Thank me later 😘
kalemm kalemm THANKKKK YOUU
bless you
kalemm kalemm THANK YOU SO FUCKING MUCH
kalemm kalemm THANK U
Thxxx😂
you are so perfect!!!
Lol I just watched your video yesterday and you're perfect too !
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What lip color!?!?! I'm dying to know! I would love a tutorial on this look! Love you 💖
what lipstick do you have on
+LaEisha Robinson Isn't it beautiful!? Im thinking ABH Dusty Rose or Coloured Raine Mars....hopefully she answers! xoxoxox
I NEED to know!!
"She wasn't ugly... But she wasn't... Me."
I'm using that line someday when I find a girl who isn't super unattractive.
yasssssss. ..".SHE WASN'T UGLY BUT SHE WASN'T ME".....Lol I love it!
Lol when I was going thru that experience the ex was calling me so I changed his ringtone to "deserve " by Tierra Marie (from love n hip hop) so I can remember that HE AINT 💩💩 & I deserve better 😂😂✊at least your out of this relationship you could possibly be helping other females in this situation 🙏
I died 😂😂😂 that's a good idea
Lmao that's smart tho 😂😂
+Kayla's Brittany Nice!!! I have a "Beat It" List; for every person that I told to kick rocks for whatever reason and truly didn't want to talk to them any more I use the late great MJ's "Beat It" song. As soon as I hear "Just Beat It, Beat It......" I know it's someone that I told to BEAT IT!!! LOL I don't even bother looking to see who it is LOL!
wait isn't that Momma D who sung that song
Lol I didn't have an iphone at that time but now I do and dumber is changed ! 😂
I couldn't do nun but look at her chest
Haha for real
You understand😫 she's a Little Proud probably
+Valisha Wilson same here
+Valisha Wilson I swear couldnt get my eyes off that.....Damn those look fresh as new fruit
+krystal_ icVip yes.she did
Lol I’m dead y’all this was the first video I ever watched of hers and I been subscribed since and that was 5 years ago.& I’m bout to watch this again!!!
When they start accusing you of "talking to other guys" they're usually the ones doing it because they have a guilty conscience basically..
When a person is constantly accusing you of cheating 9 times out of 10 it's them that's going the cheating.
Honestly, a couple months in, this sounded like abuse to me
Right.. Emotional abuse
Too over dramatic. No need to try to be cute you are
+Tracey Greene no need to try to be cute you are??? are you even speaking english lolol
That man was tripping ....I'm not gay but oh my gosh 😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍 why would anybody do you wrong
how does that comment make you gay
+august ware because shes a she
+crazy cad18 that doesn't make sense ..
+Nadeya Chandler yes it does
i get where yall comin from and how that sounds gay but i dont see how complimenting a girl has anything to do with being gay ur just making another girl confident in her body its a good thing lets all as women stand up and say fuck what people say if they think im gay cause i compliment and appreciate a pretty then so be it those aint the type of people i need in my life and im not trynna go against anybody and start a fight i just wanted to share how i feel
Makeup looks flawless as usual 😍
She wasn't ugly , but she wasn't me lol I'm dead 😂😂😂😂 ME ASF
So you was really the side chick?
+Latrese LuvsEarl she needs to accept the fact lol. Your 21 and was 18 your not really that old for it to be your younger days js. No shade but glad your happy now
Technically no, because the girl knew about her n she didn't know about the girl ... The girl knew they was messing around n Aaliyah didn't know about it n he told her they wasn't fucking around lol I think ..
yes she was unfortunately...
No she wasn't. The one that knows about the other girl and still chooses to be with the dude is the side chick
+Tierra Greer yes she was, they both were he lied to the them both, the fact that Aaliyah saw the girl wearing her boyfriend clothes AND leaving comnents under his pictures Aaliyah guy feeling was he was talking to her and all if the signs were there BUT she didn't want to believe it, Aaliyah was the side chick the dude wasn't even answering her calls because he was sleeping in bed with the other girl EVERY NIGHT, now u put 2 and 2 together
Your room looks so organized I love it xD