It’s beauty standards. Koreans often don’t like too big butt or breasts. Kim K is queen model in America. In Korea, she just looks funny. Just like how many americans think female kpop idol bodies look like “child” or “pancakes” 😶
Communication is a big problem even when both of them in a relationship speaks the same language have problems because of miscommunication , the struggle that people with two different languages might be not that good. Still there are couples who have overcome that and are even married, their love for each other must be really great ❤
Me too I am American and grew up speaking a little of a few languages then in my 20s I learned more Spanish and now I am learning Mandarin 🤷♀️ just saying it is possible to learn another language to communicate if that is the biggest barrier, that is a sad limitation to finding their one love
I like when the guys just say like "of course I can! Marriage too" to me it seems like they're just thinking "I'm having a great time with this person, of course I can!"
It's not just communication problems but sometimes you cannot have deep conversations... like i wish to have someone who can relate to my situation rather than understand....if that makes sense
Sometimes I think Korea is developed country but they stick just to a few things like k beauty standards, learning only Korean lang and not even trying other, also their attitude towards foreigners etc. Inspite of being a developed country, majority of them don’t know English which is considered a global language so that ppl can communicate around. They never make efforts first! And I m talking abt common ppl not the idols or celebs. In India, we have 100+ languages but still many ppl knows English cause we know why is it important! I never told to leave ur language but to learn a new for a better communication
Is this comment fr? So entitled, why are Koreans obligated to learn English? The country is homogenous, and no one needs English in their day to day lives. It's different with previously English speaking country colonized countries like India obviously. That doesn't mean they're inherently close-minded? What if they don't have the resources, time, and money to learn a new language fluently? What exactly makes Korea so much more 'xenophobic' than other Asian nations? Please, point me to one objective statistic. I'm so tired of you guys automatically calling Koreans racist because of YOUR own ignorant socially palatable standards.
Well it is developed economically but people are not that civilized believe me. Not everyone but still..Some of them still have preistoric mentally. Drinking like it is medieval era does not help either. Everything is about the package but for common people manners are not that extraordinary.
@@rjlee-cc4xyLearning English will only boost their overall development. If they can learn English and learn to earn money abroad,trading,etc they wouldnt have to work all day like they are doing rn. Why do u think Korea is suffering from birth rate loss in the first place?
@@rjlee-cc4xyCompared to the likes of China,Japan,etc Korea is definitely more “xenophobic”. The entire country itself is very competitive and people prefer “light tone” over other skin tones, U can literakky find videos about so many racism incidents in Korea.
i mean the other person can learn your language even if you don’t learn theirs. then that’s a big signifier they are serious. communication is already hard enough when speaking the same language so just be open and to the point and you could open a door to a world with your perfect match even if they’re from somewhere else ❤
I like the guy in the end. I think he has of husband material. Just his gestures. 😊 The rest are boys. Just boys I want to hang out with. Not f, just friends.
I'm actually super cool with this cause I don't date that much not even in my own country. One of the advantages of being a demisexual (in my case) is that I just don't seek the dating experience as much as other people may do when I travel. I had a couple of friends who were dating while traveling and they, unfortunately, linked up with some toxic people who almost ruined their trips. I go very slow and that gives me the chance to realize when someone is toxic. You just get to notice when you are focused on the quality of your interactions outside of the physical intimicy. I'm going to Thailand in 2025, hoping to just make cool friends and have an awesome experience meeting a new culture. Next year I'm going to Brasil, it will be my first time in a country with a languaje that I don't know. Pd: Just wanted to share, you can exchange your thoughts with me too :)
Exactly. It's worse to answer that than saying they won't date and won't marry foreigners. Like why would you date someone if you think you can't marry them? As if foreigners are some kind of play thing for them.
I think it’s good to know this because most of the men who said no about foreigners are men that I think most foreigners weren’t looking to date or marry either 😂
@@so_daldal4318 nah ur just one of those girls who like to bash asian guys. if they want to date someone of their own kind, there’s absolutely nothing wrong with that. just like how i see so many of u mexicans in california only sticking to ur own kind
It's never easy to go out with a foreigner. You have to overcome different environments, different cultures, different languages, and protect this relationship with love. It is not that Korean men do not prefer foreign women, but that Korean men seriously consider whether they can keep their love with foreign women for a long time and judge that it is not easy. It's the same for all men, but they date considering marriage in the future. So, It's not your problem seeing this and it's not the problem of a Korean man. Judge based on the person's integrity and words and actions rather than racial or national prejudice. Love, relationship, marriage is not about the race and the nationality. It's with him, with him. Look at the person's inner self rather than prejudice
It seems that most English speakers are the ones that would be more willing to date foreigners and also learn their languages. Japanese and Koreans can be Abit lazy with other languages, my grandmother is Japanese and she would never try to learn English, maybe she was just old and hated everything 😂
Why does there have to be an ethnic type we are all human at the end of the day but that never seems to be enough and it keeps the human race divided. So sad that humans would rather die alone than find their soulmate in someone of a different ethnic group!
As a man I can sometimes read the non-verbal language of other men, I see them as arrogant as if no one except Korean women deserves them, they are conceited and just want to show off, I don't believe that human beings are designed to only have preferences for their own race or nationality.
Starts signing "They like big butts and they can not lie You other brothers can't deny That when a girl walks in with an itty, bitty waist And a round thing...."ok I'll stop singing now 😂 sorry Hochun!
Many saying that they like korean as a reason.. Like if u date or marry from other culture they won't ask u not to speak korean or hate it.. U both will learn each others language.. Its helpful as well
Hilarious! Korean men seem intimidated by different types of women. We're not very different then korean woman. Its just that we may have a little more curves then them😂
So if a foreigner happens to speak Korean they still couldn’t get married?? Also why is it ok to date but not marry? If they can’t marry a foreigner they shouldn’t be ok to date one. That’s so confusing 😵💫😵💫😵💫😵💫
@@Harry_2003 oh ! Thank you for reply but the reality most of the Indian girls waiting for Korean boy's 😂😂😂and all of the Indian boys hate the korean boys because of this reason 🤣🤣🤣🤣
Look guys! We will LEARN KOREAN FOR YOU!!! ahahahahhaha 😂 💀 communication is NOT a problem! P.S I’m messing, but I don’t think communication is a problem! If you both know english 🤷🏻♀️
@@이효민-w8hin a French/English couple who live in one or the other's country, often both make the effort to learn the other's language. It’s not one-sided. With Koreans it's often the other person who has to make the effort.
@@mathildeleonora9051 I was in a relationship with some foreign girls before and I tried my best to narrow the gap between she and me in terms of language barrier. One thing I had realized is there is a clear limitation even though I try my best since I'm not a native speaker. You might not have no problem at all when it comes to daily life conversation but there will be a moment that you want to talk it out something really serious stuff like your value, outlook and whatnot. Also you might want to talk about something like war between Ukraine and Russia, discharging of radioactive waste material of Japan government but you can't. Now I'm way better English speaker compare to the past however I would have said like them definitely. I feel their afraid of being in realtionship with foreginer because of language barrier. Not everyone is gifted on language skills. Cool it and cut them some slacks. And the stereotype and prejudice that they don't even try to learn other language applys generally to western and american people, not asian 😂 It's just fact and the reason why they remarked about language barrier is just because they are not confident of foreign langauge since they don't have any successful experience about learning langauge before. It's not like they are arrogant or something like, oh you should learn my langauge! We all know Korean invest tones amount of resource including money and time on English education and everybody knows Korean is way far from global language.
@user Bro it's just you not being able to learn a language well enough, it's perfectly doable to learn a foreign language to a degree you can have very technical conversations etc, it's not that hard. Stop comparing everyone to your little brain standards.
@@치코리타-q4yOk, YOU try. It is really cool! But it's far from the majority and maybe Asians think Westerns don't want to learn but it's also clear that many countries think that Asians are ultra-community people who have difficulty breaking out of their standard because of their peers' gaze. Regarding language learning I agree with you that Americans are considered quite selfish. Since English has become the universal language, this is unfortunately not going to change any time soon. As far as I'm concerned, I've already considered learning Korean, but in addition to being a very difficult language, it's not very engaging to think that once I will be in the country, in one hand, I will be frowned upon because I am mixed race, which means that I already do not fit into Korean standards from a physical point of view and in the other hand, because I am a foreigner, I will be prohibited from certain professional positions and certain public places from the country. And this foreign/native divide, I promise you that it does not exist in all countries! Anyway, I'm glad you gave your point of view, whether we agree or not. it's always interesting
Between the guy afrais of big butts and the one who said KimK is his crush, you can see that there's gonna be someone who finds you attractive no matter your looks 😂
The "Kim Kardashian" one caught me off guard 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
😂😂 right!
Me too....and I wanted to see what he looks like....😂😂😂😂
😂😂😂 not him complaining about big butts😂
It’s beauty standards. Koreans often don’t like too big butt or breasts. Kim K is queen model in America. In Korea, she just looks funny. Just like how many americans think female kpop idol bodies look like “child” or “pancakes” 😶
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
The whole-hearted “하하!” laugh in response to the comment was priceless. 🤣ㅋㅋㅋ
@@noahn4564Yeah dude but most women that are curvy don't have Kim K body. They don't have over exaggerated hips.
If his dxck is small, it'll be harder I think
Communication is a big problem even when both of them in a relationship speaks the same language have problems because of miscommunication , the struggle that people with two different languages might be not that good. Still there are couples who have overcome that and are even married, their love for each other must be really great ❤
Big butts killed me 😅😂
Most of their crush is Ariana Grande 😅
I'm so surprised. Why?!
@DK.Nanayakkara yeah
@DK.Nanayakkaramakes sense😂
but more importantly their crush is someone asian and Ariana Grande💀
i thought that was interesting too. he said only asians and then said ariana grande hahahah @@confidentintrovert7202
i understand the communication part BUT there is a lot of miscommunication even if you both speak the same language
Exactly!
It’s more if you don’t speak the same language.
then that means either you or your partner need to learn how to communicate like grown adults
Everything is big. LOL.
😂😂😂😂
Kim k is big 😂
They mean fat but saying kindly 😂😂
I wonder if they don't realise some westerners learn Korean (other asian languages too, I'm learning Japanese and cantonese)
Me too I am American and grew up speaking a little of a few languages then in my 20s I learned more Spanish and now I am learning Mandarin 🤷♀️ just saying it is possible to learn another language to communicate if that is the biggest barrier, that is a sad limitation to finding their one love
I’m agree with them. So much cultural differences and communication and different types also.
I like when the guys just say like "of course I can! Marriage too" to me it seems like they're just thinking "I'm having a great time with this person, of course I can!"
It's not just communication problems but sometimes you cannot have deep conversations... like i wish to have someone who can relate to my situation rather than understand....if that makes sense
At least they are being honest. 👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻
Second last guy is cute 😅 He said it confidently
Yeah but the thing is that some foreigners can speak Korean and other languages
great honesty
Sometimes I think Korea is developed country but they stick just to a few things like k beauty standards, learning only Korean lang and not even trying other, also their attitude towards foreigners etc. Inspite of being a developed country, majority of them don’t know English which is considered a global language so that ppl can communicate around. They never make efforts first! And I m talking abt common ppl not the idols or celebs. In India, we have 100+ languages but still many ppl knows English cause we know why is it important! I never told to leave ur language but to learn a new for a better communication
Is this comment fr? So entitled, why are Koreans obligated to learn English? The country is homogenous, and no one needs English in their day to day lives. It's different with previously English speaking country colonized countries like India obviously. That doesn't mean they're inherently close-minded? What if they don't have the resources, time, and money to learn a new language fluently? What exactly makes Korea so much more 'xenophobic' than other Asian nations? Please, point me to one objective statistic. I'm so tired of you guys automatically calling Koreans racist because of YOUR own ignorant socially palatable standards.
Koreans are not obligated to want to date or marry foreigners, calm down.
Well it is developed economically but people are not that civilized believe me. Not everyone but still..Some of them still have preistoric mentally. Drinking like it is medieval era does not help either. Everything is about the package but for common people manners are not that extraordinary.
@@rjlee-cc4xyLearning English will only boost their overall development. If they can learn English and learn to earn money abroad,trading,etc they wouldnt have to work all day like they are doing rn. Why do u think Korea is suffering from birth rate loss in the first place?
@@rjlee-cc4xyCompared to the likes of China,Japan,etc Korea is definitely more “xenophobic”. The entire country itself is very competitive and people prefer “light tone” over other skin tones, U can literakky find videos about so many racism incidents in Korea.
Why not to learn a new culture or language to understand the partner….
i mean the other person can learn your language even if you don’t learn theirs. then that’s a big signifier they are serious. communication is already hard enough when speaking the same language so just be open and to the point and you could open a door to a world with your perfect match even if they’re from somewhere else ❤
Second guy was🔥❤️
Thankyou for sharing Po🤗
I like the guy in the end. I think he has of husband material. Just his gestures. 😊 The rest are boys. Just boys I want to hang out with. Not f, just friends.
Ya the blonde was a cutie
I'm actually super cool with this cause I don't date that much not even in my own country. One of the advantages of being a demisexual (in my case) is that I just don't seek the dating experience as much as other people may do when I travel. I had a couple of friends who were dating while traveling and they, unfortunately, linked up with some toxic people who almost ruined their trips. I go very slow and that gives me the chance to realize when someone is toxic. You just get to notice when you are focused on the quality of your interactions outside of the physical intimicy. I'm going to Thailand in 2025, hoping to just make cool friends and have an awesome experience meeting a new culture. Next year I'm going to Brasil, it will be my first time in a country with a languaje that I don't know.
Pd: Just wanted to share, you can exchange your thoughts with me too :)
Dating but not married them that we're thinking about us 🤔🤔🤔🥺🥺
Exactly. It's worse to answer that than saying they won't date and won't marry foreigners. Like why would you date someone if you think you can't marry them? As if foreigners are some kind of play thing for them.
True... Don't think about dating a foreigner if you have no interest about marriage in future. Foreigners are not for enjoyment 😢
Date -fun an games. Marriage -not necessary
To each his own man, do what keeps your boat afloat🥰🤗✌️🙏💜💜💜
The one that said Asians are okay definitely meant East Asians only.
i like that they like their own poeple so much.
It's like i love playing with them without getting serious...
I love koreans I would learn there language and if they could learn English I would date one
I think it’s good to know this because most of the men who said no about foreigners are men that I think most foreigners weren’t looking to date or marry either 😂
ur mad 😂
lmaooooo this is what i was thinking
@@stompstompstomp9394 I don’t think I have reason to be mad I have a healthy relationship I’m just typing what I thought
@@so_daldal4318 nah ur just one of those girls who like to bash asian guys. if they want to date someone of their own kind, there’s absolutely nothing wrong with that. just like how i see so many of u mexicans in california only sticking to ur own kind
They can have preferences and that’s okay why are you mad about it
Listen, what if its a foreigner who can speak Korean like me? then communication isn’t really an issue. Would there still be issues then?
It's never easy to go out with a foreigner. You have to overcome different environments, different cultures, different languages, and protect this relationship with love. It is not that Korean men do not prefer foreign women, but that Korean men seriously consider whether they can keep their love with foreign women for a long time and judge that it is not easy. It's the same for all men, but they date considering marriage in the future.
So, It's not your problem seeing this and it's not the problem of a Korean man. Judge based on the person's integrity and words and actions rather than racial or national prejudice. Love, relationship, marriage is not about the race and the nationality. It's with him, with him. Look at the person's inner self rather than prejudice
It seems that most English speakers are the ones that would be more willing to date foreigners and also learn their languages. Japanese and Koreans can be Abit lazy with other languages, my grandmother is Japanese and she would never try to learn English, maybe she was just old and hated everything 😂
Would foreigners date/marry korean 🤔 Not
Why does there have to be an ethnic type we are all human at the end of the day but that never seems to be enough and it keeps the human race divided. So sad that humans would rather die alone than find their soulmate in someone of a different ethnic group!
Its okay to prefer your own kind
I can speak english, spanish, hindi, and bits and pieces of other. It wouldnt be hard to add Korean.
Every video has at least 2 guys saying Ariana is their celebrity crush lol. I get it though ❤
#52 is so cute❤
I dont know why but a man saying Ariana Grande is his crush is such a big turn off
Btw you need to communicate when you are dating someone too 🙄
same LOL but the kardashian fan is even worse
They choose Ariana cause her super skinny body type is similar to Korean's.
They like the baby doll/ innocence look in East Asia. She pretty much fits their beauty standard if she gets pale.
What’s wrong with Ariana Grande? Every relationship requires communication, but speaking the same language is a big part of it.
@@yetmel5834stop generalising Korean women
It might be the standard but they are not all skinny
Bruv im a foreigner but i can speak korean.not many ppl would expect me to speak it bc im foreign
LOL! He said everything is big!!!
😂😂😂😂😂don’t be afraid 😱
Only issue is communication😂😂
This guy us like see korean men responses and STOP being delulu 😂😂😂
Why nobody saying Kylie Jenner she is beautiful too❤
Pro tip if any say no for reasons other than communicating they’re misogynists!
What if the foreigner learned Korean.
As a man I can sometimes read the non-verbal language of other men, I see them as arrogant as if no one except Korean women deserves them, they are conceited and just want to show off, I don't believe that human beings are designed to only have preferences for their own race or nationality.
Not Ariana Grande again😂😂😂😂
Starts signing "They like big butts and they can not lie
You other brothers can't deny
That when a girl walks in with an itty, bitty waist
And a round thing...."ok I'll stop singing now 😂 sorry Hochun!
I have a feeling foreigner means definitely American. 😂
All Asians are not korean lol 😂 there r japanese, Thai, Indians etc etc
No one said that in this video.
What are you pretending to know lol? They are all Korean
Billie eilishhhh🤭🤭
C est dommage que la langue soit une barrière !les hommes coréens sont trop cute ❤
Many saying that they like korean as a reason.. Like if u date or marry from other culture they won't ask u not to speak korean or hate it.. U both will learn each others language.. Its helpful as well
They mean they like korean women not language you smallbrain.
In this case I believe they meant they like Korean women more than they like foreign women.
They said they like korean as in korean people “korean saram”
Not rhe big butt😅😂 them butts stressing him out
😂😂
The amount of people that say Ariana Grande 😂
He would feel to small im such a big world😂😂
I can speak write read korean... if communication is the issue😂
Is Guy #54 saying he has a different type saying he is not a fan of women?
Nah, he probably likes Korean girls.
Never let them know ur next move….. ur forgein but you can speak korean😮
Foreigner can be from china, Japan, SEA, india, middle east.... Why do they only have european and american in mind?
You guys are like the indians. They say the same thing. They can date non indians but they'll end up marrying indians.
Him: the butts are big
Me: looks at butt in the mirror) he’s outta line, but he’s right. 😂😂
Are these kids not learning any English in school?
Why would they have to?
Pero la única q existe es Arigna Grande, ME CACHIS, VAYA CON ESTOS CHICOS
Kim k 😂😂😂😂😂😂
Hilarious! Korean men seem intimidated by different types of women. We're not very different then korean woman. Its just that we may have a little more curves then them😂
nah many ppl can learn korean the fact he said asian makes it obvious its racism in their society
It seems like everyone you interview wants Ariana Grande. 😂
So if a foreigner happens to speak Korean they still couldn’t get married?? Also why is it ok to date but not marry? If they can’t marry a foreigner they shouldn’t be ok to date one. That’s so confusing 😵💫😵💫😵💫😵💫
Wow so basically they can date and have sex but not get married lol😂
I think
What is up with everyone and Ariana Grandeeee😭😭😭😭😭😭
I want a Korean boyfriend. Hello! 😅
Can't date n marrie ...cause foreign countries everything big...big butt🤣🤣🤣
Why date when you don't even want to marry?
Everything is big 😂😂😂
All indian girls waiting any one tell the married indian girls😂😂😂but no one tell that😢😢😅😅
😂😂 don't be so obsessed... Not everything same why you see on the screen
@@Harry_2003 oh ! Thank you for reply but the reality most of the Indian girls waiting for Korean boy's 😂😂😂and all of the Indian boys hate the korean boys because of this reason 🤣🤣🤣🤣
What is with Ariana Grande in Korea? 🫣🤔
Big eyes
What if they speak Korean though?
One complains about big butts but then the other guy says kim Kardashian 😆
Look guys! We will LEARN KOREAN FOR YOU!!! ahahahahhaha 😂 💀 communication is NOT a problem!
P.S I’m messing, but I don’t think communication is a problem! If you both know english 🤷🏻♀️
Why it's always the foreigner who must learn Korean and not the other way around?
...because they live in Korea...
@@이효민-w8hin a French/English couple who live in one or the other's country, often both make the effort to learn the other's language. It’s not one-sided. With Koreans it's often the other person who has to make the effort.
@@mathildeleonora9051 I was in a relationship with some foreign girls before and I tried my best to narrow the gap between she and me in terms of language barrier. One thing I had realized is there is a clear limitation even though I try my best since I'm not a native speaker. You might not have no problem at all when it comes to daily life conversation but there will be a moment that you want to talk it out something really serious stuff like your value, outlook and whatnot. Also you might want to talk about something like war between Ukraine and Russia, discharging of radioactive waste material of Japan government but you can't. Now I'm way better English speaker compare to the past however I would have said like them definitely. I feel their afraid of being in realtionship with foreginer because of language barrier. Not everyone is gifted on language skills. Cool it and cut them some slacks. And the stereotype and prejudice that they don't even try to learn other language applys generally to western and american people, not asian 😂 It's just fact and the reason why they remarked about language barrier is just because they are not confident of foreign langauge since they don't have any successful experience about learning langauge before. It's not like they are arrogant or something like, oh you should learn my langauge! We all know Korean invest tones amount of resource including money and time on English education and everybody knows Korean is way far from global language.
@user Bro it's just you not being able to learn a language well enough, it's perfectly doable to learn a foreign language to a degree you can have very technical conversations etc, it's not that hard. Stop comparing everyone to your little brain standards.
@@치코리타-q4yOk, YOU try. It is really cool! But it's far from the majority and maybe Asians think Westerns don't want to learn but it's also clear that many countries think that Asians are ultra-community people who have difficulty breaking out of their standard because of their peers' gaze.
Regarding language learning I agree with you that Americans are considered quite selfish. Since English has become the universal language, this is unfortunately not going to change any time soon.
As far as I'm concerned, I've already considered learning Korean, but in addition to being a very difficult language, it's not very engaging to think that once I will be in the country, in one hand, I will be frowned upon because I am mixed race, which means that I already do not fit into Korean standards from a physical point of view and in the other hand, because I am a foreigner, I will be prohibited from certain professional positions and certain public places from the country. And this foreign/native divide, I promise you that it does not exist in all countries!
Anyway, I'm glad you gave your point of view, whether we agree or not. it's always interesting
I can date but not marriage, this sentence disgusts me everytime i hear it
Lmao they all live in a fantasy world
Since when did big bundas become a problem ?😂
It's a true language barrier.
one complaining about big butts and one having kim k as a celebrity crush😭😭😭
Don’t you worry mate, we won’t date you or marry you in a lifetime 😂😂😂
Between the guy afrais of big butts and the one who said KimK is his crush, you can see that there's gonna be someone who finds you attractive no matter your looks 😂
That’s good, cause we don’t wanna date them either.
Omg y yo sin trasero :'(
Now you know how important to learn the international language “ENGLISH “✌️
Lwts get married hahahaa jk eme
They look like elves
The language barriers can be a positive thing in a relationship....less talk, less arguments, 😁
Name of the video -interview with limited men